How to deal with bullies and haters

Summary

In this empowering video, Liz shares her insights on dealing with haters and bullies, emphasizing the importance of self-worth and not engaging with negativity. She advises to avoid giving power to detractors by not reacting, to show no empathy for bullies, and to mirror their energy without stooping to their level. Liz encourages viewers to focus on self-improvement and healing, asserting that the strongest among us rise above bullying, and that haters can often be the most devoted fans in disguise.

Takeaways

• 🚫 Avoid engaging with haters and bullies by not reading comments or giving them your energy.
• 💪 Recognize that haters and bullies only have power if you give them a reaction; remove this power by not responding.
• 🧐 Understand that successful, confident people do not engage in bullying or spreading negativity.
• 🤔 Reflect on the motivations behind bullying, often rooted in jealousy and envy.
• 😄 Embrace the idea that haters are a form of 'super obsessed fans' who give attention to your work.
• 🔒 Do not share personal information with bullies, as it can be used against you.
• 🤐 Mirror the energy of bullies without escalating the situation; be distant and do not engage.
• 🙅‍♀️ Stop trying to be nice to bullies, as it often backfires and can lead to more aggression.
• 👮‍♂️ Report incidents of bullying to authorities when they become physical or threatening.
• 🏠 Change your environment if it is negative or harmful to your well-being.
• 💆‍♀️ Focus on healing and self-improvement to overcome the effects of bullying and build self-worth.

Q & A

How does Liz handle haters and bullies now?

Liz does not deal with haters anymore. She avoids reading comments and getting involved in what is being said about her, focusing on her own life and the people she loves.

What power do haters and bullies have over individuals according to Liz?

Haters and bullies only have the power that individuals give them through their reactions. If individuals do not give them a reaction, they have no power.

What does Liz suggest about the nature of people who spread negativity about others?

Liz suggests that people who spread negativity, such as creating rumors or writing nasty comments, are often miserable and envious, rather than successful and self-confident individuals.

How does Liz view haters in relation to her success?

Liz considers haters as her 'super obsessed fans' because they pay so much attention to her, even if it's to find something to criticize.

What advice does Liz give about dealing with bullies and haters at school or work?

Liz advises not to have empathy for bullies, to stop trying to be nice to them, and to mirror their behavior without engaging or getting closer to them.

Why does Liz believe that being nice to bullies might not work?

Liz believes that being nice to bullies might not work because they do not understand kindness and may see it as a threat, which could make them more upset.

What should one do if they are being physically bullied, according to Liz?

Liz suggests making a big deal out of it, such as yelling, seeking help, or involving authorities, to ensure the bullying does not continue.

How does Liz feel about sharing personal information with bullies?

Liz advises against sharing personal information with bullies, as they will use it against you. She emphasizes having no fear and not giving them any power through your fear.

What does Liz recommend doing if the bullying becomes unbearable?

Liz recommends changing environments, such as schools or jobs, or even moving to a different city or country, to find peace and healing.

How does Liz view the transformation of haters into fans?

Liz believes that haters can become fans, as she has experienced people who once hated her now becoming fans, showing that emotions can be manipulated.

What is Liz's final advice for dealing with haters and bullies?

Liz's final advice is to focus on oneself, heal from the trauma caused by bullying, and build self-worth and confidence. She emphasizes that the strongest individuals are those who have been bullied and have overcome it.