PULLING WOMEN IS EASY, ACTUALLY
Summary
TLDRThe video argues that beauty, especially a woman's physical appearance, has long been a powerful influence over men, often controlling their actions and decisions. However, the speaker emphasizes that true power for men lies in resisting this influence, much like historical figures such as Alexander the Great, who were not swayed by beauty. By not placing beauty on a pedestal, men can retain control and shift the power dynamic in their favor. The speaker encourages men to remain indifferent to beauty, suggesting that this approach not only enhances their attractiveness but also sets them apart from most other men who are easily captivated.
Takeaways
- 💡 Women’s physical beauty has been a powerful influence over men throughout history, even shaping major events like wars and empires.
- 🧲 Men are often captivated by women’s beauty, and this can lead them to lose sight of their goals and values.
- 🎯 Beauty is not just about appearance; it is a form of influence and power when men allow it to be.
- 💪 The script emphasizes that powerful men like Alexander the Great remained unaffected by beauty, allowing them to focus on greater purposes like conquest and legacy.
- 🧠 According to psychologists, placing something on a pedestal, like a woman’s beauty, gives it more power and control over you.
- 🔄 The balance of power between men and women shifts when men become reactive to beauty, making the woman the ‘prize’.
- ⚖️ Women expect men to be influenced by their beauty, as they learn its power over men from a young age.
- 🤯 A man who remains indifferent to beauty disrupts the typical power dynamics, making him more attractive and desirable.
- 📜 Ancient wisdom and Stoic philosophy teach that power lies in controlling one's reactions, especially to a woman’s beauty.
- 🛠️ By not giving undue power to beauty, a man distinguishes himself from most men, becoming more desirable and potentially more powerful in the eyes of women.
Q & A
What is the main argument presented in the video?
-The main argument is that a man should not be swayed by a woman's physical beauty, as it gives her power over him. Instead, men should remain indifferent to beauty to retain control and become more attractive.
Why does the speaker say beauty has been a 'weapon' in the hands of women for centuries?
-The speaker believes beauty has been a 'weapon' because it gives women influence over men, causing men to act against their values and lose focus on their purpose.
What example does the speaker use to illustrate the power of resisting beauty?
-The speaker uses Alexander the Great as an example, stating that despite being surrounded by beautiful women, he was never swayed by their charm and focused solely on his legacy and conquest.
How does the speaker describe the relationship between beauty and power?
-The speaker claims that beauty is power, but it only works when men allow it to. By not being swayed by beauty, men can shift the balance of power in their favor.
What does the speaker say happens when men put a woman's beauty on a pedestal?
-The speaker says that placing a woman's beauty on a pedestal gives her control and power over the man, making him reactive and shifting the dynamic so that she becomes the 'prize.'
How does indifference to beauty affect the dynamic between men and women, according to the speaker?
-Indifference to beauty disrupts the expected dynamic. Women anticipate men being affected by their looks, but when a man remains indifferent, it shifts the balance of power and makes him more desirable.
What ancient wisdom does the speaker reference to support their point?
-The speaker references the Stoics, particularly Epictetus, emphasizing that the only thing a man can truly control is his own mind and reactions, not external circumstances like a woman's beauty.
What does the speaker mean by 'beauty is simply something that happens to us as men'?
-The speaker means that beauty is an external factor beyond men's control, but how they react to it is what defines their strength and power.
How does the speaker claim men can 'retain their power' in the face of beauty?
-Men can retain their power by remaining steady and unmoved by a woman's physical beauty, preventing her from gaining influence over them.
What shift occurs when a man is not controlled by a woman's beauty?
-When a man is not controlled by a woman's beauty, he steps out of the typical dynamic where women have the upper hand, making him more attractive and desirable because he doesn't 'worship' beauty like most men.
Outlines
💡 The Power of Women's Beauty Over Men
The speaker begins by acknowledging that this video might be controversial, especially with women. He reflects on how history has been shaped by the allure of women's beauty, with men even fighting wars over it. The speaker highlights the immense power that beauty holds over men, often influencing their decisions, values, and purpose. He then introduces the concept that this power has been used by women for centuries, not just because of physical appearance but due to beauty’s broader influence and power. However, this influence only holds sway over men when they allow it to.
🏛️ Alexander the Great's Indifference to Beauty
The speaker uses Alexander the Great as an example of a man unaffected by women's beauty. Despite his vast conquests and the allure of many beautiful women, Alexander remained focused on his legacy and ambitions, rather than being distracted by their charms. His ability to see beauty as fleeting and to remain unmoved by it made him one of the greatest conquerors. According to the speaker, this singular focus on conquest rather than physical beauty made him desirable to women, who chased him because of his indifference. The message is that putting beauty on a pedestal gives it undue power, while men who remain indifferent to it can shift the balance of power in their favor.
🧠 The Psychological Shift When Beauty Loses Its Power
The speaker explores the psychological aspect of beauty and power. When a man places a woman’s beauty on a pedestal, he inadvertently gives her control over him. This shifts the power dynamic in the woman's favor, making her the prize. However, when a man is indifferent to a woman's beauty, the power balance shifts back to him. Women are accustomed to using their beauty to sway men, so when they encounter a man who is not affected by their appearance, they are taken aback. This disruption creates a positive shift in the dynamic between men and women.
🗝️ Control Over One's Reactions Is True Strength
Drawing from ancient wisdom and Stoic philosophy, the speaker emphasizes that power lies in control, not submission. He quotes Epictetus, who argued that it is not the events that happen to us, but how we react to them that defines us. A man’s reaction to a woman’s beauty is a reflection of his inner strength. If a man remains steady and unfazed by physical beauty, he retains his power. Most men, however, are easily swayed, and when a woman recognizes that her beauty can control a man, he loses his power in the dynamic. The truly powerful men are those who are not affected by beauty.
🔍 The Common Trap of Beauty and Its Influence on Men
In this section, the speaker elaborates on how the majority of men are easily influenced by a woman's physical beauty, which is often their ‘trump card.’ Women expect men to be captivated by their looks, and 99% of the time, this is the case. When men show that they are controlled by beauty, they lose the game, and the power dynamic shifts. The speaker stresses that the most powerful and successful men are those who remain indifferent to beauty, which sets them apart from the rest. Being unaffected by beauty makes a man more attractive because he steps out of the usual dynamic that governs relationships between men and women.
🚀 Unfazed by Beauty: A Path to Power
The speaker drives home the idea that when a man learns to treat beauty as just another trait, rather than something to worship, he becomes dangerous. By not giving beauty power over him, he rises above the majority of men who are controlled by it. Historically, beauty has been idolized by weaker men, and those who can resist its influence create a new dynamic in how women see them. This shift in power makes these men far more desirable. Once a man can no longer be captivated by beauty, women see him in a new light, and magical changes occur in his life.
🛡️ Indifference to Beauty as a Key to Desirability
In the concluding section, the speaker reiterates that indifference to a woman's beauty is what sets desirable men apart. Women, he says, might dislike this truth, but physical beauty has been their greatest power over men. However, once a man is no longer swayed by looks, he becomes much more attractive and desirable. The speaker closes by encouraging men to let go of being phased by beauty to unlock their full potential as confident and powerful individuals.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Beauty
💡Power
💡Control
💡Alexander the Great
💡Legacy
💡Indifference
💡Stoicism
💡Psychologists
💡Trump card
💡Conquest
Highlights
The world has always been captivated by beauty, especially women's beauty, which has influenced historical events like wars and the rise and fall of empires.
Men are often hypnotized by a woman's physical beauty, which can make them question their values and purpose in life.
Beauty is not just about looks; it is a form of power and influence that works when men allow it.
Alexander the Great serves as an example of a man who remained focused on his purpose and was never swayed by women's beauty.
Alexander's strength came from never chasing physical beauty and always focusing on his legacy and conquest.
Psychologists suggest that placing something, such as a woman's beauty, on a pedestal gives it more power over a person.
When a man remains indifferent to beauty, it disrupts the power dynamic and shifts the balance of power in his favor.
Women expect men to be moved by their beauty, as they understand the power their physical appearance holds from an early age.
When a man is unaffected by a woman's beauty, something incredible happens: he retains his power and stands out from other men.
Ancient wisdom, including the teachings of the Stoics, suggests that true power lies in control over one's mind and reactions.
A man's reaction to a woman's beauty defines his strength, and remaining unmoved by it allows him to keep his power.
Most men are swayed by beauty, but the ability to remain unaffected by it makes a man more powerful and attractive.
Beautiful women, especially, know that their looks can control men, but when they meet a man who is not affected by beauty, they perceive him differently.
The ability to disarm beauty and treat it like any other quality in a woman makes a man stand apart from 99% of other men.
By not being captivated by beauty, a man becomes more desirable and attractive to women, as he is no longer controlled by what most men worship.
Transcripts
women are absolutely going to hate me
for this video and you're going to
understand why by the time you get to
the end of it now the world has always
been captivated by Beauty it's always
been captivated by the beauty of women
and men have fought great Wars over
Beauty empires have risen and Fallen
because of the beauty of in some cases a
single woman now every man at some point
including all of you watching this has
been absolutely hypnotized by a woman's
beauty by her physical Beauty now this
beauty is a force that can make a man
Bend his will it can make us question
our values and it can make us lose sight
of our purpose in life and this power
this sway that physical Beauty holds
over us as men has been a weapon in the
hands of women for centuries now it
isn't just about looks though beauty is
influence okay beauty is power now
here's the secret influence the type of
influence that women have with the help
of their beauty only works when we as
men allow it to okay imagine Alexander
the Great one of the greatest conquerors
of the Known World this was a man who
faced down his enemies and faced down
entire armies he commanded loyalty and
he achieved what seemed impossible to
many at the time now if you look at look
at Alexander Alexander was known for his
sharp mind he was known for his
indomitable spirit and his strategic
Brilliance on the battlefield and while
pretty much the entire world bowed to
him women of immense Beauty tried to use
their charm over and over and over again
on him trying to sway him hoping to get
him this ruler of vast lands to bow to
them but Alexander was never ever faced
this is what made him one of the
greatest conquerors pretty much of all
time see Alexander was so powerful he
was so great because his Focus was never
on beauty it was never swayed by a
woman's Beauty it was instead on
Conquest it was focused on Legacy
Alexander the Great saw Beauty for what
it truly was which was momentary a
fleeting feeling a tool in the hands of
women and his eyes were always fixed on
something far greater that is what made
him so great he never ever chased
physical Beauty he never ever chased the
beauty of a woman and he was never
phased by the physical beauty of a woman
he never ever begged for anything from
any woman and because of that that
singular reason right there is why women
always chased after him that's why women
always wanted him okay if we look at
psychologists psychologists say that
what you place on a pedestal becomes
more powerful anything that we put on a
pedestal becomes more powerful and so
when a man sees a woman's Beauty as
something that is divine what he's
actually doing is putting her in a
position of control or in a position of
power over him and what ends up
happening if you do this is you become
reactive and then she becomes the prize
the woman becomes the prize and just
like that the balance of power between
the two of you shifts okay but when a
man is able to remain indifferent in the
face of great Beauty when he does not
Place undue value on a woman's looks the
dynamic between him and women is
disrupted in a good way it is shifted
the balance of power is moved into his
favor okay the thing you have to
understand about women is that women
expect men to be moved by their beauty
they expect this okay women find out
from a very early age the power that
their physical Beauty has over us as men
and so women expect us to be moved and
even shook by their beauty okay so when
women meet a man who is not shook by
Beauty when he's not swayed by her
physical looks something changes
something incredible happens okay if we
look at ancient wisdom ancient wisdom
teaches us that power has and always
will lie in control not in submission if
we look at the stoics the ancient stoics
believed that the only thing that a man
can truly control in this world that we
all live in is his mind in other words
all that we really have control over as
men at the end of the day are our own
thoughts and our reactions how we react
to things okay it was epic tetus who
once said that it is not what happens to
you but how you react to that thing that
matters
so if we look at women okay women's
Beauty like so many other things in this
world is simply something that happens
to us as men but a man's reaction is
what defines his strength in other words
how you react to a woman's beauty is
what defines you as a man it's what
defines your strength okay if you can
remain steady if you can remain unmoved
if you can remain completely and utterly
unfaced by a woman's Beauty then guess
what happens something incredible
happens and what happens is you're able
to retain your power as a man if you
look at 99% of men in this world almost
every single one of them is easily
swayed by a woman's Beauty okay women
know what they have they know that
physical beauty is essentially their
trump card okay beautiful women
especially know this and they expect men
to be utterly shook St by their beauty
and 99% of the time this is exactly what
happens most men out there are
completely and utterly shook by physical
Beauty and when this happens the moment
that a woman spots that her physical
beauty is able to sway you that it's
able to control you that it's able to
cause you to react in a way that shows
that she has power of you that is the
moment that you lose the game okay all
the most powerful all the most success
that's all the most desirable men in the
world the thing that they all have in
common at the end of the day is the
ability to not be unfaced the ability to
be unfaced by a woman's Beauty okay it's
really that simple when a man learns to
disarm Beauty by treating it like any
other quality that a woman would have he
becomes absolutely dangerous because he
no longer gives power to what 99% of men
in this world worship okay Beauty has
been worshiped for thousands of years by
primarily the weakest of men by men who
never have got enough attention from
women okay and so when you able to be
unfaced by a woman's physical Beauty
what you're actually doing is you're
stepping out of the typical Dynamic that
occurs between a man and a woman and
you're creating a shift in a way that
women see you because when you are no
longer controlled by a woman's Beauty
then you're setting yourself apart you
are standing apart from 90% of men out
there from every other guy out there who
is absolutely and utterly shook by a
woman's physical Beauty and what this
does at the end of the day is it makes
you so much more attractive than every
other man out there who simply bows to a
woman's Beauty who is completely and
utterly controlled by a woman's physical
Beauty and so the moment that you cannot
be phased by this beauty the moment you
cannot be captivated by it magical
things will happen in your life and
women will see you in a completely and
utterly different way okay women are
absolutely going to hate me for telling
you this but this is the truth this is
their trump card and the sooner that you
cannot be phased by physical Beauty the
sooner that you will be a significantly
more desirable more attractive man and
with that said until next time thanks
for watching
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