Do Men Really Prefer Natural Beauty?
Summary
TLDRThe video script features a discussion on the concept of 'natural beauty' and its impact on attraction, particularly among men. The participants, who include social media influencers and adult content creators, share their experiences and insights on how societal perceptions and personal choices regarding cosmetic procedures can influence dating and relationships. They explore the idea that while men may claim to prefer natural beauty, they often fail to recognize what is truly natural and are drawn to the results of cosmetic enhancements. The conversation delves into the complexities of attraction, the role of genetics in mate selection, and the societal pressures that influence decisions about body image and appearance.
Takeaways
- π Men's perception of 'natural beauty' can be vague, and they may not always recognize signs of cosmetic procedures.
- π€ Some men may appreciate a 'natural look' but are not averse to the idea of cosmetic enhancements if the results are subtle.
- π Women in the adult content creation industry often face criticism and trolling for their appearance, regardless of whether they've had work done.
- π€¨ Men may have preconceived notions about what 'natural' means, which can be influenced by social media and celebrities.
- πΆ The idea of genetic inheritance plays a role in men's preferences for natural beauty, as it relates to potential offspring.
- π€ Men might be more attracted to women who have not undergone cosmetic procedures due to concerns about 'false advertising'.
- π There's a societal pressure for women to look a certain way, and men may judge or categorize women based on their appearance, including cosmetic work.
- π Men's attraction to women is complex and can be influenced by both physical appearance and the perception of authenticity.
- π¨βπ©βπ§βπ¦ Men considering long-term relationships or marriage might prefer women who have a natural look to avoid potential family or societal judgments.
- π€·ββοΈ Despite the attraction to certain aesthetic outcomes, men generally do not focus on the specifics of the procedures but rather the final appearance.
Q & A
What is the general perception of natural beauty among men according to the speakers?
-The speakers suggest that while men may claim to appreciate natural beauty, they often don't recognize when women have had cosmetic procedures, and they are attracted to a 'natural result' rather than an overly surgical appearance.
How does the concept of 'false advertising' come up in the discussion?
-The term 'false advertising' is used to describe the situation where men are attracted to women who appear natural but have had significant cosmetic surgery, leading to concerns about the reality of their appearance and potential genetic implications for offspring.
What role does social media play in shaping men's perceptions of beauty?
-Social media is highlighted as a platform where men form opinions about beauty standards, often idealizing certain looks, and where women receive feedback, both positive and negative, about their appearance, including comments on cosmetic procedures.
Why might some men prefer a natural look in a long-term partner?
-Some men might prefer a natural look in a long-term partner due to concerns about genetic inheritance, wanting a partner who has not undergone surgical procedures, and the idea of having children who resemble their parents.
How do the speakers feel about the impact of cosmetic surgery on dating and relationships?
-The speakers express that while cosmetic surgery can enhance physical attractiveness, it can also lead to misconceptions and judgments about a person's character and worth, potentially affecting their dating life and relationships.
What is the implication of the statement 'men think with two heads' in the context of the discussion?
-The phrase 'men think with two heads' is used to illustrate the dual nature of male attraction, where physical attraction ('the other head') might be prioritized over a preference for natural beauty when it comes to sexual relationships.
How do the speakers view the impact of cosmetic procedures on the perception of a woman's value?
-The speakers believe that cosmetic procedures can lead to judgments about a woman's self-worth and the perceived 'ease' of her character, suggesting that some men might see women with such procedures as more attainable or less valuable.
What is the distinction the speakers make between online preferences and real-life choices?
-The speakers note a distinction between what men might view or be attracted to online, such as extreme cosmetic enhancements, and what they might choose in real life, often preferring a more natural appearance for long-term relationships.
How do the speakers address the issue of men making judgments based on cosmetic surgery?
-The speakers acknowledge that some men make judgments about women who have had cosmetic surgery, viewing them as less authentic or more focused on physical appearance, which can influence dating and relationship dynamics.
What advice do the speakers give regarding the impact of cosmetic surgery on personal dating life?
-The speakers suggest being conscious of how cosmetic surgery might be perceived in dating, as it can lead to both positive and negative judgments, and recommend focusing on attracting partners who value character over physical appearance.
Outlines
π€ Men's Perception of Natural Beauty vs. Cosmetic Surgery
The paragraph discusses the complex dynamics of male attraction to natural beauty versus cosmetic surgery. The speaker, who works in social media and adult content creation, feels her look is niche and not universally appealing. Despite facing negative comments, she believes most men appreciate natural beauty, even if they're unaware of surgical enhancements. The conversation highlights that men often can't distinguish between natural and surgically enhanced appearances but tend to prefer a natural look. They discuss how men might be attracted to the end result of cosmetic procedures but may also value the authenticity of unaltered features, especially when considering long-term relationships and potential offspring. The speakers also touch on the idea that men might be drawn to the idea of 'false advertising' where a woman's appearance is significantly altered by surgery, affecting their perception of her true self.
π The Impact of Cosmetic Surgery on Dating and Relationships
This paragraph delves into how cosmetic surgery can influence first impressions and dating experiences. The speakers share personal anecdotes where men have made assumptions or judgments based on their appearance, including comments about the need for or results of plastic surgery. They discuss the stereotype that men might view women with plastic surgery as more 'available' or insecure, leading to negative perceptions. The conversation also addresses the societal and familial implications of dating someone with significant cosmetic work, such as the potential for judgment from family members. The speakers contrast the judgments of some men with the attitudes of 'good men' who may be more discerning and less focused on superficial attributes. They conclude by suggesting that while some men might be attracted to the outcomes of cosmetic procedures, a man of character is more likely to value a woman for who she is beyond her physical appearance.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Natural Beauty
π‘Social Media
π‘Cosmetic Surgery
π‘Plastic Surgery
π‘Attraction
π‘BBL (Brazilian Butt Lift)
π‘Genetics
π‘False Advertising
π‘Insecurity
π‘Dating Standards
π‘Authenticity
Highlights
The speaker discusses the challenges of defining 'natural beauty' in the context of social media and adult content creation.
Despite receiving negative comments, the speaker believes most men appreciate natural beauty, even if they're unaware of cosmetic enhancements.
Men may not be able to distinguish between natural beauty and surgically enhanced appearances.
The speaker shares an anecdote about a well-known individual whose 'natural' appearance was actually the result of extensive surgery.
Men are said to appreciate a natural look but not one that appears overly aged or extreme.
The discussion suggests that men may be more attracted to women who have not had cosmetic procedures for the sake of authenticity.
The speaker hypothesizes that men might prefer a natural look for long-term relationships due to concerns about genetic inheritance.
There's a mention of men's potential confusion between what they claim to find attractive and what they actually pursue.
The conversation touches on the idea that men might choose a naturally beautiful woman over a surgically enhanced one for genetic reasons.
The speaker acknowledges that while men may be attracted to beauty regardless of its origin, they might still prefer a natural appearance.
The impact of cosmetic surgery on dating and relationships is discussed, with the notion that some men may view it as a 'bonus'.
The speaker reflects on the double standards where men might seek out certain body types in pornography but claim to prefer natural looks in real life.
The conversation suggests that men's preferences for natural beauty might be influenced by societal norms and expectations.
The speaker shares personal experiences of being judged based on her appearance, including comments about needing cosmetic procedures.
The discussion highlights the potential for men to make snap judgments about women based on their appearance, including assumptions about personality and values.
The conversation concludes with the idea that while some men may be attracted to the results of cosmetic surgery, they might not be as interested in the procedures themselves.
Transcripts
men are more attracted to Natural
Beauty you can see me in the back
going thinking about this one I
struggled with this prompt quite a bit
and I'll tell you why in a moment it's
hard I do Instagram social media and um
adult content creation and I find that
my look is very Niche I don't appeal to
the masses for sure I get a lot of
comments trolling me disgusting BBL go
get a refund you look like you're
wearing a diaper type stuff so I feel
like there are that still most most of
the men do appreciate natural beauties
even if it's like they don't know that
they got worked on
too that's why I'm here that's same same
thing I'll let you go first so I think
men have no clue what's natural and
what's not I I um was going to do a show
for e um and for a year I operated on
this African-American very well-known
human and on her social media literally
everybody's like that's what a natural
beauty looks like and I cannot there's
one inch on her body that I did not
operate on I think they appreciate a
natural
result but they don't want your again
your skin falling off your skeleton they
don't want your boobs down to here and
sometimes honestly they don't even
notice that they're just happy to be
intimate yeah I was thinking something
very similar to you that a lot of men
will say oh I I love natural look at
Kendall Jenner and then it's just like
okay well wait a second you don't know
exactly what natural is so I wanted to
stay back and say well maybe I disagree
because their perception of natural
beauty isn't exactly in tune but I also
feel like like if you were dating a guy
and had no procedures done he may be
more attracted to that reality than he
is attracted to dating a woman who has
had procedures done so you might look
like Megan Fox and that will get you a
lot of male attention but I think when
you're dating a man as soon as he finds
out oh you've had a rhinoplasty you've
had a boob job you've had this he's
thinking what do you actually look like
what am I getting here you know if we
procreate and have a child am I actually
getting the girl who looks like Megan
Fox or am I going to get a child who
looks totally different and I've heard a
lot of men now complain about false
advertising so they're trending towards
the natural even though aesthetically it
may not be as pleasing to them yeah I
feel like okay let's be real if a guy
sees a pretty woman um a guy se's a
pretty woman if a guy's attracted to a
woman he's attracted to a woman I don't
think most men are thinking like did she
get a rhinoplasty is her forehead moving
does she have botox did she get filler
at any point but I think if you were to
give uh man an option of two women in
similar you know uh Beauty standard a
similar level of beauty and you said one
of these women achieved this beauty
through plastic surgery The Other Woman
achieved this naturally they're going to
go towards the woman who achieved it
naturally for a multitude of reasons one
of which I mentioned which is this idea
of false advertising or wanting to have
a child that actually has the genetics
you know at our base level you know we
are mammals we are existing within you
know the the realm of of natural
selection and that's actively working on
us all the time we're trying to make
these genetic choices as we're picking
mates and picking people to uh create
children with and cosmetic surgery
factors into that I think most men want
somebody who uh if they can achieve it
is beautiful but also you know hasn't
gone under the knife now is that to say
that if you go get cosmetic surgery you
will not get men or men will not be
attracted to you no of course not uh you
know a woman is a woman to a lot of men
especially if you're beautiful
regardless of how you got there you will
get male attention it's just to say if
we did that experiment I feel like men
would pick the woman who has not had um
intervention and you know still they're
making that choice even though a lot of
them have no idea what Botox looks like
what filler looks like what uh a
rhinoplasty looks like what a boob job
looks like you're nodding your head is
this something you like experienced oh
yeah I get comments like that all the
time like your kids aren't going to have
that booty or like your kids aren't
going to look like you I mean I haven't
touched my face yet yeah but um if I do
you know if I have kids they won't look
like
that hi buddy
hello a lot of men like natural bodies
and natural girls who don't get any work
done because there are thinking about um
you know what what what about my kids
can I bring them around my parents you
know how are people going to perceive me
bringing someone who has a freaking 44
in hips and butt you know how has it
impacted your personal dating life it it
affects it because they only see that
right and obviously they can see my
social media and they'll see okay okay
well she's done like Playboy right so
she have some legs all open for that
right other men is going to see that and
then you know judge me or that's not
mine that's not exclusive to me if I go
also whether we like it or not men are
placing women in categories and if
you're getting these very dramatic
cosmetic procedures you know double
debob jobs bbls all these different
things you do present a certain image to
men and while it may be an attractive
image there's also little like micro
judgments that are being made or really
large straightup judgments that are
being made of the value that you present
to them um I think a lot of men
interpret many plastic surgeries as uh
being like Oh you're easier because
you're you're probably so insecure that
if I give you attention you're going to
go for me or whatever and I've actively
heard men say this now these are not
good men by any means not people that
you would want to seek out for a
relationship anyways but this is you
know calculations that are being made
simply based off of the way you look and
she mentions does he want to take you
home to your parents there's a lot of
different things that you know the first
impression can can be altered uh when it
comes to getting these cosmetic
surgeries and all these little judgments
are taking place behind the scenes and
you would just never never fully know
going on a date I know I have to be very
conscious with what I wear because if I
wear something like this his mind is
like how am I going to devour you know
it's not like okay what are what are we
going to do on our second date I've
dated multiple people they're like they
start dating me and then but you'd be so
much better blonde and I know that's not
not a procedure or surgery but the last
person um I dated he would tell me all
the time how I needed a poop dog or I
needed my butt done who are y'all dating
who he said
what the door I'd be like um the door
who like I needed these things it was
like yeah you're just a plain Jane
without it like this is this is gross
and I'm like why are you dating me you
yeah you want to say something I can I
think men think with two heads and the
top of their head this one wants the
natural girl and I think really to touch
on your point like for a guy to make a
girl his wife he has to be sexually
attracted to her and that's where the
other head comes in and they don't
gravitate towards the natural girl I
hate to bring them up but you know the
generous sisters it's like one of them
everybody thinks to have plastic surgery
when the other one is just had just as
much but one just looks a little more
exaggerated than the other I think men
don't know what natural looks like I
think you know if you get filler if you
get BOTOX to a normal degree I don't
think they'll care that much um they say
they do but at the end of the day I feel
like the guys who complain about that
stuff on these podcasts or things like
that they only surround themselves with
girls with bbl's and all this stuff and
they yeah I don't know when I'm thinking
about men I'm thinking about like good
men men of like moral fortitude more of
character I'm not thinking about the men
that they're talking about like the guys
on fresh and fit podcast or like a boy
that you date who tells you to get a
boob job CU that is just not in that is
not somebody that I would ever entertain
period per let alone in a a relationship
so when I'm thinking I'm thinking of
like men with discernment say they and
you know so you have guys commenting on
thing how do they end up with that video
in the first place period you know what
I mean like great point they're more
upset that they know they could never
get with you exactly I feel like it's a
more like anger thing think of the
nicest guy you know who's a generally
good guy who's not judging you based off
your BBL or something like that is it a
bonus to have dated somebody who has had
plastic surgery he may be attracted he
may date he may even marry but I don't
ever think a guy is thinking hell yeah
she got a rhinoplasty or like the job is
really whated I should have said I don't
think a good man is ever thinking those
things there are plenty of men who think
those things I should have clarified
relationship well like makes her hotter
yeah if it makes you more attractive
like I don't think a guy cares about
like literally he wants the surgery he
just wants the outcome of the surgery
you know I I mean I completely agree
with you in terms of the outcome like
I'm thinking of a very specific couple
they were very happy prior to her having
a boob job that's fine but then when she
was like Hey I'm going to do that he was
like perfect can I help pick the size
what is it going to feel like this is so
exciting and like he loved her before
but it definitely was a bonus for him he
was like I love you doing what this like
what you're doing as long as I get to
touch them and that's why I say disagree
too because look at you you can look at
the the statistics and with with with
PornHub and all these things it's it's
usually marry men who are getting caught
you know and those are the ones who are
with the the natural non surged woman
but then they're doing what they're
doing you know to the BBL girl yeah I
think that's true but also with the
world that we're living in now there's a
distinction I think to be drawn between
what people watch as far as pornography
and who they engage with in real life
men will watch some crazy stuff and be
getting off to some crazy stuff on the
internet but would never ever ever ever
engage in that way in in real life so we
have to bear that in mind too um that
but it is an interesting point that you
will seek out BBL women you know in your
on your internet you know search history
but you don't want but you claim to not
want that in real life
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