Women Always Check Out Men Sexually Before Anything Else
Summary
TLDRIn this video, the speaker, R, delves into the dynamics of sexual attraction from a woman's perspective, challenging the common belief that women prioritize money over physical attraction. He argues that women often assess men sexually first, even in non-romantic contexts like job interviews. R emphasizes the importance of understanding this 'sexual hierarchy' and suggests that men should focus on their physical presentation and sexual confidence. He also touches on the topic of infidelity, suggesting that women may cheat not for money, but for sexual satisfaction, advising men to accept and adapt to this reality.
Takeaways
- 😀 The speaker suggests that women often evaluate men sexually first, even in non-sexual contexts like job interviews.
- 😅 The speaker humorously points out that women's interest in a man's financial status often comes after initial sexual assessment.
- 🔞 The speaker emphasizes the importance of 'body game' and sexual presentation for men, as women are always subconsciously checking this out.
- 💰 Discusses the 'Mr. Goodbar' type, where a man may have money but still needs to be physically attractive to be considered sexually by women.
- 🚫 The speaker refutes the idea that all women are solely interested in men's money, arguing that sexual attraction plays a significant role.
- 👀 Highlights that women can be sexually selective and may not act on their assessments, maintaining a distinction between thought and action.
- 💬 Touches on the idea that women's sexual desires and needs are often not openly discussed or understood by men.
- 🚶♂️ The speaker mentions 'non-select' men, who may be seen as friends or providers but not as sexual partners by women.
- 👫 Points out that some women seek 'friends with benefits' arrangements, focusing on sexual satisfaction rather than emotional commitment.
- 🛏️ Discusses the importance of sexual compatibility and performance in maintaining relationships, suggesting that women may cheat due to unmet sexual needs.
Q & A
What is the main point the speaker is making about women's initial evaluation of men?
-The speaker suggests that women often first evaluate men sexually, regardless of the context, before considering other factors like financial status or personality.
What does the speaker mean by 'select' and 'non-select' in the context of women's sexual evaluation?
-The speaker uses 'select' to refer to men who are sexually appealing to women, while 'non-select' refers to those who are not considered sexually attractive or desirable.
How does the speaker relate women's sexual evaluation of men to job interviews?
-The speaker implies that even in a professional setting like a job interview, a woman might still evaluate a male candidate sexually, assessing his sexual appeal before considering his professional qualifications.
What does the speaker suggest about women's approach to 'friends with benefits'?
-The speaker suggests that some women might seek 'friends with benefits' for sexual satisfaction without necessarily looking for a committed relationship or financial gain.
What advice does the speaker give to men regarding their sexual appeal?
-The speaker advises men to understand that women are always evaluating them sexually and to improve their 'body game' and presentation to be more sexually appealing.
Why does the speaker mention the importance of 'body game' and presentation for men?
-The speaker emphasizes 'body game' and presentation because he believes these are crucial factors in how women initially evaluate men's sexual appeal.
What does the speaker say about women's infidelity and its relation to sexual satisfaction?
-The speaker suggests that women may cheat due to unfulfilled sexual desires, indicating that sexual satisfaction plays a significant role in women's decisions to be unfaithful.
How does the speaker describe the difference between 'Mr. Goodbar' and 'Mass Man' in terms of women's sexual evaluation?
-The speaker describes 'Mr. Goodbar' as a man who is sexually attractive regardless of his financial status, while 'Mass Man' refers to a man who may not be as sexually appealing but has financial stability.
What is the speaker's view on the importance of sex in women's lives according to the script?
-The speaker views sex as a primary concern in women's lives, suggesting that it is a significant factor in their evaluations and decisions regarding relationships.
What does the speaker suggest about women's ability to have sex with multiple partners in a day?
-The speaker suggests that women are capable of having sex with multiple partners in a day, emphasizing their sexual desires and the ability to satisfy those desires outside of a primary relationship.
Outlines
🚹 Sexual Evaluation by Women
The speaker discusses how women often evaluate men sexually before considering other factors. He explains that even in non-sexual situations, women assess men's sexual appeal. The speaker emphasizes that women's sexual evaluation doesn't necessarily mean they will act on it. He introduces the concept of 'select' and 'non-select' in terms of sexual hierarchy, suggesting that women are always assessing men's sexual attractiveness, regardless of whether they intend to pursue a relationship.
💼 Looks, Money, and Status
This paragraph delves into the different types of men that women find attractive based on the speaker's book 'Nice Guys and Players.' It outlines four types: 'Mr. Goodbar,' the attractive man; 'Mass Man,' who has money but also needs to be good-looking; 'Looks, Money, and Status,' where appearance is crucial even with wealth; and 'Nice Guys,' who are seen as non-sexual and more like a brother. The speaker stresses that looks are important and that women are often looking for sexual chemistry, not just money or status.
🛏️ Sex Outside of Relationships
The speaker addresses the reality of women seeking sex outside of relationships, citing infidelity as a common reason. He mentions that women may cheat for sexual satisfaction and that this behavior is not limited to any particular demographic. The speaker advises men to understand that women's sexual desires are real and that they should not be surprised by this aspect of human nature. He also suggests that men should work on their sexual appeal and not just rely on financial status.
👀 Women's Sexual Needs and Cheating
Here, the speaker discusses women's sexual needs and how they can lead to cheating. He mentions that women may have sex with multiple partners in a day and that they can be discreet about their affairs. The speaker also talks about how some women cheat in a rhythmic pattern, making it difficult for their partners to detect. He advises men to be aware of these patterns and to not be angry but to understand and accept the reality of women's sexual desires.
💬 Communication and Sexual Confidence
In the final paragraph, the speaker encourages men to be comfortable with their sexuality and to understand women's needs. He suggests that men should work on their sexual confidence and body language to attract women. The speaker also discusses the importance of foreplay and finding the G-spot, emphasizing that women appreciate a man who can satisfy them sexually. He concludes by advising men to improve their 'game' in terms of style, conversation, and sexual comfort.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Sexually
💡Non-select
💡Friends with benefits
💡Body game
💡Sexual hierarchy
💡Money
💡Infidelity
💡G-spot
💡Sexual confidence
💡Feminism
Highlights
Women often check out men sexually before considering other factors.
Men often attribute women's interest to money, overlooking sexual attraction.
Women evaluate men sexually even in non-romantic or professional settings.
A woman's initial assessment of a man is primarily sexual, regardless of the context.
Women's sexual hierarchy includes 'select' and 'non-select' based on sexual attraction.
Patreon content delves deeper into women's sexual evaluations of men.
Women's quick assessments of men include sexual, financial, and utilitarian considerations.
The importance of physical appearance and sexual appeal in initial interactions.
Women's sexual needs and desires are often under-discussed in society.
The 'Mr. Goodbar' archetype represents men who are sexually attractive but may lack other qualities.
Men with money but lacking sexual appeal are referred to as 'mass men'.
Non-select men struggle to be chosen by women for sexual relationships.
Women's infidelity is often driven by unmet sexual needs.
The 'maintenance man' role as a friend with benefits, regardless of social status.
Men should understand women's sexual motivations to navigate relationships effectively.
The importance of sexual confidence and body language in attracting women.
Advice for men to improve their sexual appeal and understanding of women's desires.
The 'sets of nine' technique described for sexual intimacy.
The impact of women's sexual liberation on societal views, including feminism.
Transcripts
what's up y'all this is R coming back at
you with yet another car video women
always check out men
sexually before anything
else and this is kind of like uh in
response to my video this morning my
couch video when was talking about
uh you know sometimes many women just
want a friends with benefits with from a
man and you know it's kind of funny
whenever I point that out guys always
say money money money or something right
had a couple people get on there talking
about like women want the money and I'm
like that just told me they were non
select remember I said sex first now if
they if a woman look at a man and they
know he can't get it
then they look at other stuff now here's
the thing they look for a man they look
at a man sexually even when it don't
have [ __ ] to do with sex you know if if
if a woman on the job she she
interviewing a guy she still checking
them out sexually now she might not get
with him she might be happily married
but she's still looking at him can he
get it now here's here's one thing to be
clear about just because a woman will
think a man she might give a man
something don't mean she actually going
to do it but they ain't stopping her
from looking remember once the guy
understands that a woman's always
evaluating a man sexually boom like when
I talk select and non- select that's
strictly a sexual
hierarchy that's strictly a sexual
hierarchy it's whatever turns her on you
know if you look at what I talk about
especially on my patreon especially on
the upper level of my patreon y got to
check it out I'm talking about sex
because that's what women looking at
it's sh cousin Tito now I got to put his
book in the description
box cuz I forgot last time I said I was
but he I cuz I'm always talking about it
he talks about it when a woman checking
out a man she looking at him sexually
first then they look at other
[ __ ] and they can do all that in a few
seconds then they might look okay don't
want to [ __ ] him does he got money can I
use this [ __ ] something like
that they always looking then there's
always some extra [ __ ] there but the
primary thing first is a sex thing now
if it's not that then it's like
something else like when a guy's
approaching a woman don't think she just
sitting there and just going to go for
whatever whatever he spit out his mouth
the first thing is like can he get it
that's why I promote body game that's
why I promote your presentation it's
[ __ ] up but it is what it is like on
those balloon pop shows they ain't going
to just come out and say when those
women popped the balloon dude ain't said
nothing all they saying is they wouldn't
[ __ ] now every now and then he might
say something a man might say something
a woman say give me my balloon back but
that's rare most of the time if they
rejecting a guy and then when they I'm
look let me let me be clear on those
shows any of those balloon pop shows
whichever one you want when a woman say
you handsome but they just being
nice but if they just said they trying
to avoid your straight in the straight
up I wouldn't [ __ ] this [ __ ] in
fact a woman on one of those shows she
was asking two guys that dick LMP yeah
it matters yeah it matters to some women
you know and I know some [ __ ]
understand that [ __ ] but even then
that's some women but they're still sex
however some women just want you to have
a good size joint just to go up in them
that's still sex cuz when women checking
out a man they ain't just looking at him
if if they get to the money part if they
get to the money part they really they
just want to use that man they got their
own money when they look at a friends
with benefits or something they be
looking at a guy be like well you know
she can [ __ ] him on the side he might
not be all that see that's another thing
too she want to know the mother
depending on what her sexual need is
some women that sexual need is all they
need is a friends with a benefit they
ain't always looking for a husband dudes
out here thinking that [ __ ] and then
dude saying no it's money or these women
just uh want me for my money that's
telling you right then you non select
sexual that's telling you right then you
got to have a little bit of sex appeal
for a woman even some men with money you
got to have something you got have
something if she wants you cuz it's not
talked about enough women's sexual
desires out here and what they want it's
not talked about enough and a lot of
guys you try telling them that and they
say no it's money it's non- select n
they don't really want me very non
select shoot cuz it's usually like it's
like it's usually like four right like
when I talk about the four types in my
uh in my book nice guys and players and
also sexual chemistry you know first
it's Mr Goodbar that's the man she sees
so no he can get it and it depends on
whatever she considered sexual like I
need to talk again about that whole body
game thing some guys think you got to
have a small percent of body fat and
[ __ ] yeah you got some [ __ ] who
some big dudes who [ __ ] like crazy
that's cuz that's what turns a woman
on even when you approach a woman
thinking it's your mouthpiece she still
got to look at you and still be good
with [ __ ] you okay ain't no ifss and
butts ain't no ifs and butts but that's
Mr Goodbar the mass man now he got money
but he still he got to look good he got
to look good at least
least he can't be no ugly [ __ ]
with some money or some [ __ ] he got to
look good in fact some some ass men
actually think that they good bars CU
they still getting play you got to have
some that's where that looks money and
Status come in and [ __ ] but you still
got to look like something you can have
looks well n if you could have money and
status but if you don't look like [ __ ]
to them you ain't there remember looks
don't M I've always say looks matter I
just say if you want to beat that has
some SX appear a [ __ ] can be
ugly sexy shoot who you think a woman
going to get with she she wants sex she
either going to get with who you think
she going to get with first that real
handsome man and [ __ ] so she look good
to friends if she just I'm saying if she
just want sex or the average looking
dude who got a good
print and got some big dick energy come
on now
seriously seriously
lot of guys got to understand that part
how much sex means to women and then non
like guys they just don't want to
[ __ ] and this how regardless how they
look they just don't give it like
gamesmen they might give him some they
might give him they might they might
give a gamesman something he gonna have
to be persistent and [ __ ] and basically
she she can't have access to the first
two and then nice
guys that's like a brother he just don't
turn her on
sexually and that's regardless of how he
look a lot of times [ __ ] A lot of times
they be some the woman to say the
[ __ ] handsome but
no but
no for whatever reason he don't get that
impression he going to [ __ ] the [ __ ] out
of yeah it be that rough but see women
know they can't really talk about that
publicly they can't talk about that
publicly because they know some men
going to be judging them on that [ __ ] so
they'll play the game with that [ __ ]
they'll play the game but I'm telling
you the real deal how they going to
really
act and they really checking for the
sex and that's how they can get some
friends with Ben sometimes they just
want that maintenance man that's a
friend with benefit and he can look
however he can he he can look however as
long as he look he can [ __ ] [ __ ]
depending and it's like it [ __ ]
sometimes it don't even matter his
social class the social class is more
for when he outside the bedroom cuz
there's plenty of dudes out there
getting some but they 12 to five man 12
to five man he don't have to have
nothing [ __ ] he don't have to that
[ __ ] at best maybe a car come over a
place sometimes maybe not take the last
bus over her place get there around
midnight then be out the hospital
by I talked before about uh when um he
live over in the
Edgewood po over there
chilling I think I saw him over in the
distance anyway back when I was living
in Edgewood right across the street from
me used to see this big old truck like
you know 1:00 in the morning get up and
pee hey I'm over you know look over
there and see that dude's
truck big old big old truck and [ __ ]
right and I knew it was a woman over
there and she she had that vibe to her
she just want some good deal she had
that vibe to like a little too extra
Smiley uh in my them wife's opinion
but go over there 1: in the morning see
that big old truck and then I had to get
up around five that truck be gone that
[ __ ] was consistent dude just came over
there did his business and
left [ __ ] that happened a
lot now it don't mean sometimes women
even when women hook up with a guy you
know he look good on the surface and
[ __ ] a lot of sexless
marriages a lot of women cheat see I'm
let me hold up let me hold up let me hit
on let me hit on that for a
second why guys be thinking this women
be cheating you don't have to believe me
or all you have to do is put infidelity
or adultery women's infidelity or
adultery in the search engine you don't
have to believe me they are here getting
down why they getting down for
sex
sex and Arc Alan Roger Curry uh rest in
peace somebody said he said that during
the panel that's why they cheating for
sax
[ __ ] that's how bad they
wanted and look if you dealing with a
woman she know married to
her or she got limited she she [ __ ]
you on a limited
basis sh just go ahead and roll out from
her just say look baby we can't really
be
together cuz she don't want you she does
not want you and that's how you got to
look at that [ __ ] that's how you got to
be with that [ __ ] you
know that's how it
is but see a lot of guys don't want to
deal with that part a lot of guys don't
want to deal with they really non select
cuz even when I tell them trust me I
always get some people whenever I talk
about women sexual nature they'll say
that's not it no no it's not it for
you it's not it for you maybe you non
select if a woman ain't trying to [ __ ]
you right cuz trust me if a woman see
you sexually trust me trust me trust me
she going to let it be known but then if
a woman meets you and first thing is she
trying to get an idea how much money you
make or where you could take her or even
if you date her she'd be like well yeah
we we got to go out a bit or if you date
her and nothing happened oh no she don't
see you sexually a woman if she really
wants you to [ __ ] you the first
night if she really if she really wants
you because that's why she chose you
trust me a woman shoot if a woman choose
a man for
sex oh she she going to be aggressive
about that [ __ ] real
aggressive trust me now if a woman ain't
and she just want you in a rotation just
to uh and I do mean rotation just to
take you out just for you to take her
out to dinner or something like that oh
you want to know
that and any guys know they got to come
out they got to come out with some money
[ __ ] nah she you ain't select
to or at least top level select at best
at
best you might be that mass man got some
money or something look good even then
she might hold back some she might I'm
saying like I said some ass men think
they Mr good bar they really
ain't reason why know is like yeah stop
spending some money because you do still
have some as The Honorable pimp guy
would call them acceptable A H out
there you still got got that he you
still you still got that out there and a
man need to know what he dealing
with cuz a basic thing if you if you got
to pay
money if you gotta pay money or
something you ain't Mr good
bar women hand the Poo Mr good bar they
brag about it they they they fight over
Mr good
bar you know to poo up
here those SL
oh man these some bamers for real man
I'm seeing poo all over the place like I
said in this neighborhood I feel safe as
[ __ ] I think I got popo
behind unmarked
car yeah [ __ ]
every now and then popo catch me give me
that license that's a you know T I mean
a tack u a ticket ticket are just like
they like taxes on the road and [ __ ] you
know just got paid every now and
then just got paid every now and then
this is po po don't got that thing I got
feeling about this guy though I might be
wrong I anyway
yeah but yeah women shoot whenever they
they always looking they always looking
now like I say check out this seduction
scriptures cousin tto talk about that in
there got some uh you know they check
out sexually first if you don't pass
that test then they looking at some
other [ __ ] okay that want po po you got
to keep an eye around this mind
yeah instead of saying [ __ ] all
the time I'm be
like oh man yeah but
uh men had to understand that once you
understand that you you you deal with
women differently you understand that
they they be wanting some
shoot that's why you get some mugs out
here they they stay they stay in women
yeah a bunch of kids and everything cuz
they don't have no issues with it you
know they know how to be quiet
too you know and they know about
traveling 12 to
5 oh
man they know about it they don't have
to tell them they know about it Sho I
remember I went over This Woman's house
it was around about
midnight I never forget I pull uh this
car pulled out so I pulled right into
the space and the woman said yeah that
that was my man back in my back in my
shady ass
days that [ __ ] was
funny and like I said early if there's a
lot of talk when women cheating yeah
they might get that guy but y know I
ain't say this in a while double back
home yo joe Ru neck here come yeah
double back home one day he you see a
man pounding the [ __ ] out your woman and
he going to look back and say my bad did
you
me oh man I tell you what let me finish
up then you can get in here I gotta go
anyway oh Lord Lord have
mercy yeah shoot dudes be putting
cameras up and
[ __ ] but hold up think about something
[ __ ] the [ __ ] women be saying oh he
was just emotional they try to put it on
the man they want that
D sometimes you get some men they they
ain't giving the d d she going to get it
from
someplace might not be you if you act
like you can't hit it anymore somebody
and I I'm going to be real it don't
matter what she look like either I know
this one woman she was cheating my man
found out he was uh her man found out
she was cheating on
him she was was cheating on him rather
and I was looked at her I was like her
he was like yeah you know she don't got
to be to work till 8 o00 but she be
leaving the house at
5:00 I knew where she I knew where they
live too I was like no don't take no
damn 3 hours to get up
there take about seven and a half
minutes oh
man that was like shoot leaving early y
watch out for that [ __ ] you fellas your
women be like or well women cheat in
Rhythm though women cheat in
Rhythm most will cheat in such a way you
ain't thinking about it they they'll get
you they'll be like oh they normally
take two hours or they're going to go on
this run something you ain't going to
think about it and some women they'll
still [ __ ] you if you got if they have
to they'll still come home they'll go
out cheat with their young boy the young
muscular boy or whoever they cheating
with and then come home and still like
cook the dinner and still suck a
motherfucker's
dick rest assure women can have sex with
multiple men in a day I know some men
they they going to hear this and get mad
they say don't get mad at me don't hate
the play all the game just accept it and
learn how to turn it to your
advantage say but don't get mad at me
I'm just point [ __ ]
out if you're man you can handle
reality it's just that simple it is what
it
is you know it is what it is and [ __ ]
women want that hot beef injection and
they want the guys who can give it but
they also want some guys who can like be
um discreet about this
[ __ ] yeah because you got some dudes out
here they want everybody tell some [ __ ]
I was like man please
that's why I had a lot of women talk to
me they were like this ain't going to
get out there is it wrong I like damn
n in fact the women I talked about
either they women um lot them say as
long as you don't call my name I had
something reach out to me after years
like yeah bro how you doing I'm doing
fine I said is this some hay big head
something like n but U you know we did
some things I don't want people on out
surface or no or you know whatever you
do don't call my name don't give
identifying details I
bet
[ __ ] that but they be getting down now
man and as a man look all you instead of
getting mad about it just figure out
okay first work on your own attitude
towards sex and get comfortable with
yourself get comfortable with your dick
size a lot of dudes ain't com ain't
comfortable with their dick size all you
need please women's most sensitive areas
are 3 in in now if you want to hit that
a spot yeah you got to hit the back but
really the average the average woman's
vagina is only 4
in so unless you got some micro micro
[ __ ] you shouldn't have to worry about
anything and damn I told y about sets of
nine sets of nine you only going an inch
in and then a long
stroke guys it count that [ __ ] Dam so
it's what nine short Strokes you just
putting the he in and then one one long
stroke then eight shallow
strokes
and eight uh two Longs you just counting
that [ __ ]
Dam [ __ ] I've yet to meet a woman who
didn't love that
[ __ ] I've yet to meet a woman who didn't
love that [ __ ]
cuz that's where they uh they G-spot
everybody be talking about that mythical
G-spot well it's not mythical it's
mythical for some
guys and first of all if you Rowe a
woman enough and turn on one enough
spend enough time in foreplay it'll come
find
you it'll come find
you I know some guys don't want to deal
with that [ __ ] it is what it is y'
but
yeah I know women they want to
De ain't no shame is it's just in fact
that's actually affecting some political
[ __ ]
too because that's a big part of people
be talking about feminism big part of
feminism is women not having to depend
on a man for money or some
[ __ ] cuz I met I've met several women in
they'll be
like you know have been with a man for a
long time and to be clear these are
white women before anybody come on here
thinking I'm just talking about sisters
these are white women and they be the
same [ __ ] they just got they just were
dealing with the man for survival now
they got their kids they got a little
bit of
money they they don't want any more now
no more
[ __ ] but it is what it is is and
it's just a reality and what a man need
to do like part of body game is just
getting your body to the point a woman
who want to want to have sex with you
cuz trust me they checking out your body
and how you carry yourself sexual
confidence all of that now if you don't
have that or you ain't been with enough
women then you need to be listening and
employing you know what I present for
game you know body style conversation
comfortable with sex boom boom boom
literally so anyway yo that's all I got
get on out of here go get some V I'll
talk to y'all peace and blessings
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