VIVIR SIENDO SOCIOPATA (Entrevista a Kanika Batra)
Summary
TLDREn esta entrevista, Kanika aborda su diagnóstico de trastorno de la personalidad antisocial, también conocido como sociopatía. Explica que se caracteriza por la falta de empatía y remordimiento, y desmiente la idea de que los sociopata son inherentemente malvados. Kanika es consciente de sus capacidades manipuladoras y busca cambiar su enfoque hacia la compasión y el amor, a pesar de su naturaleza. Ella también discute su relación con el amor y la felicidad, y cómo su diagnóstico le ha proporcionado un sentido de cierre y entendimiento de sí misma.
Takeaways
- 😔 La trastorno de personalidad antisocial (ASPD) se caracteriza por la falta de empatía, culpa y remordimiento.
- 🗣️ No se considera un término médico formal, pero a menudo se asocia con comportamientos manipuladores y carismáticos.
- 🌟 La entrevistada describe su personalidad como animada y amigable, a pesar de su diagnóstico de ASPD.
- 🤔 Ella siente que la percepción pública de las personas con ASPD está distorsionada y que suelen ser malinterpretadas.
- 🚫 Existe una preocupación personal por no querer ser abusiva, ya que reconoce la capacidad de manipulación inherente al trastorno.
- 🔄 Ha trabajado en cambiar su forma de ver las situaciones y a las personas, luchando contra sus instintos naturales.
- 💔 Aunque no siente remordimiento por acciones pasadas, reconoce que fueron incorrectas y crueles.
- ❤️ A pesar de su falta de empatía, es capaz de amar y mantener relaciones significativas.
- 🤝 Ha cambiado su enfoque hacia ser más atento a las necesidades y deseos de los demás, involucrándose en movimientos de justicia social.
- 🕒 La revelación de su diagnóstico a los 13 o 14 años le brindó una perspectiva sobre su diferencia con los demás.
Q & A
¿Qué es el trastorno de la personalidad antisocial según Kanika?
-El trastorno de la personalidad antisocial es caracterizado por una falta de empatía, culpa y remordimiento. Las personas con este trastorno no se conectan socialmente con otros de manera apropiada según las normas de la sociedad y tienden a ser manipulativas.
¿Cómo describe Kanika su propia personalidad a pesar de su diagnóstico de ASPD?
-Kanika se describe a sí misma como muy alegre y amigable. A pesar de no sentir culpa o remordimiento y tener una empatía mínima, cree que es una persona compasiva y leal a sus amigos.
¿Por qué Kanika cree que los individuos con ASPD suelen tener un mal nombre en los medios?
-Kanika cree que los individuos con ASPD tienen un mal nombre en los medios porque algunos individuos con este trastorno que cometen actos horribles son los que reciben la atención, lo que genera una mala percepción general sobre todos los individuos con ASPD.
¿Cómo es el miedo de Kanika a convertirse en un abusador dado su diagnóstico de ASPD?
-Kanika tiene el miedo de convertirse en un abusador debido a su capacidad para manipular a otros, ya que es fácil abusar de alguien cuando no tienes empatía, remordimiento o culpa. Por eso, se esfuerza por cambiar la forma en que ve las situaciones y a las personas.
¿Qué significa para Kanika el amor y cómo se relaciona con su capacidad de empatía y remordimiento?
-Para Kanika, el amor no está directamente relacionado con la empatía o el remordimiento. Aunque ve las relaciones como más transaccionales que otros, cree que puede amar profundamente a pesar de su diagnóstico de ASPD.
¿Cómo describe Kanika su felicidad y de dónde obtiene su alegría?
-Kanika menciona que su felicidad es rara y de corta duración. Alega que obtiene alegría de su pareja, programas de televisión, salir y socializar, y su amor por sus gatos.
¿Qué consejo le da Kanika a alguien que se identifica con su descripción de ASPD?
-Kanika aconseja que cualquier persona que se identifique con sus descripciones debería ser evaluada por un psiquiatra para obtener un diagnóstico adecuado y no confiar en el autodiagnóstico.
¿Cuál fue el impacto del diagnóstico de ASPD en la vida de Kanika?
-El diagnóstico le proporcionó un sentido de cierre y entendimiento sobre su situación. Aunque temía el estigma y la reacción en los medios, cree que es importante abrazar su diagnóstico para ayudar a otros y para su propio bienestar.
¿Cuál fue la edad en la que Kanika se dio cuenta de que era diferente a los demás?
-Kanika se dio cuenta de que era diferente a los demás alrededor de los 13 o 14 años, notando que no experimentaba las mismas reacciones emocionales que los demás ante situaciones comunes.
¿Cómo responde Kanika a la idea de que los individuos con ASPD pueden tener éxito y contribuir positivamente a la sociedad?
-Kanika argumenta que los individuos con ASPD no son inherentemente malas personas y que, en circunstancias adecuadas, pueden lograr mucho y contribuir positivamente a la sociedad, citando ejemplos de ejecutivos, médicos y abogados con éxito.
Outlines
😔 Diagnóstico y Comprensión de la Trastorno Antisocial de Personalidad
Kanika aborda su diagnóstico de trastorno antisocial de personalidad, también conocido como sociopatía. Explica que este trastorno se caracteriza por la falta de empatía, culpa y remordimiento. A pesar de que 'sociopatía' y 'psicopatía' no son términos médicos actuales, describe cómo la persona con este trastorno tiende a ser manipuladora y carismática, lo que puede llevar a una mala percepción en la sociedad. Kanika reflexiona sobre su propia personalidad, destacando que, aunque no siente remordimiento o culpa, se considera compasiva y leal a sus amigos. Afirma que no debería ser definida únicamente por su trastorno y critica la estigmatización que sufren las personas con ASPD.
😥 Reflexiones Personales y Cambios de Comportamiento
Kanika comparte su experiencia personal con el trastorno antisocial de personalidad, incluyendo sus acciones pasadas y cómo ha cambiado su forma de responder a las personas. Reconoce haber participado en peleas físicas y conflictos, pero ahora busca ser más compasivo y amoroso para no repetir esos errores. Describe su enfoque en la autosupervisión y la mejora de su comportamiento, a pesar de la dificultad de ir en contra de sus instintos. Además, menciona su participación en movimientos de justicia social y su éxito en la vida personal, como tener una relación estable y escribir un libro, logros inusuales para alguien con ASPD.
🤔 Identificación Temprana y Perspectiva sobre el Amor y la Felicidad
Kanika reflexiona sobre su identificación temprana de ser diferente a los demás a los 13 o 14 años, notando su falta de reacción emocional frente a situaciones que afectaban a otros. A pesar de su dificultad para experimentar una felicidad profunda y duradera, encuentra alegría en su pareja, programas de televisión y su amor por sus gatos. Respecto al amor, argumenta que, aunque su enfoque en las relaciones puede ser más transaccional, es capaz de amar y sentirse conectada con algunas personas. Finalmente, ofrece consejos a aquellos que se identifican con sus experiencias, recomendando una evaluación profesional y destacando que las personas con ASPD pueden contribuir positivamente a la sociedad.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Antisocial Personality Disorder
💡Empatía
💡Manipulación
💡Remordimiento y culpa
💡Compasión
💡Movimientos de justicia social
💡Narcisismo
💡Relaciones amorosas
💡Felicidad
💡Love bombing
Highlights
Kanika discusses being diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder, explaining its characteristics.
She clarifies the difference between sociopath and psychopath, noting they are not medical terms currently.
Kanika describes her own personality as bubbly and friendly, while acknowledging her lack of guilt or remorse.
She expresses feeling compassionate despite her diagnosis, challenging the media's portrayal of people with ASPD.
Kanika talks about the unfair stigma associated with ASPD, emphasizing that only a small percentage of the population has it.
She admits to having been involved in physical fights and hurtful behavior in the past due to her lack of self-awareness.
Kanika shares her fear of becoming an abuser and her efforts to double-check her behavior for signs of manipulation.
She explains her view on love and relationships, stating that she is capable of love despite her diagnosis.
Kanika discusses her happiness, which she finds in socializing, TV shows, and her cats, but admits it's often shallow and short-lived.
She addresses her ability to socialize with new people and her tendency to 'love bomb' them.
Kanika reflects on her diagnosis as a form of closure and a part of the solution to her struggles.
She talks about the hidden suffering of those with ASPD, including loneliness and isolation, which can lead to violent acts.
Kanika shares her age when she first realized she was different, feeling like she was on the outside looking in.
She advises those who feel they might have ASPD to seek professional help for an accurate assessment.
Kanika concludes by advocating for people with ASPD, stating they are not inherently bad and can contribute positively to society.
Transcripts
kanika how are you i'm very well thanks
how are you
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i'm i'm very well too first of all is
there any question that you don't want
me to ask you
no not so far but if i think of
something i'll let you know okay
i want to start from the beginning um
you were diagnosed with
an antisocial personality disorder also
known as sociopathy
yes what does that mean so anti-social
personality
is essentially it is characterized by a
lack of empathy
guilt and remorse um
sociopath and psychopath aren't medical
terms of the moment
but yeah it's it's basically a disorder
that characterizes
um a personality that is
antisocial in that people with a
disorder do not connect socially with
people
or act in let's say appropriate
sort of behavior um
like according to what society says
so they tend to be a little bit more
manipulative um
you know that they're very very very
charming and
that's kind of what lures people in how
would you describe your own personality
so i i i'm really bubbly friendly
in terms of the aspd i don't personally
feel guilt or remorse
um i have very very minor empathy
but i do think i'm a very compassionate
person i'm
very kind to people i know i'm loyal to
my friends
and it's just i feel like
because of a couple of bad eggs we kind
of
get just destroyed in the media and said
like everybody assumes we're abusers
or that we're evil and you know cunning
constantly um yeah so
it's kind of like a unfair stigma
because and i don't think i should be
defined by it
because when you rule this it's easy to
find articles that say that
people with this disorder can easily
manipulate other people's and have no
uh remorse for wrongdoing and no regrets
for other people's feelings so
yeah that makes you think uh people with
this disorder are like that
yes so the thing is when it comes to
personality disorders especially this
one
there's not much information out there
and basically
anyone who is evil or does horrible
things
is classified as associative rap but in
reality
only one percent of the population has
anti-social personality
so we're kind of getting the bad rap
from everybody based
on the actions of other people so i can
understand people being cautious because
there is a tendency
to be manipulative but i believe
that if you have self-awareness
and you do seek therapy to be kind to
others
and to understand them that antisocial
personality can be very good for you in
terms of
yeah just being able to succeed in life
you've said in one of your videos that
you are
afraid of becoming an abuser since you
have the ability to manipulate other
people
um are you really afraid of that i mean
is that something you cannot control
i tend to double check like all of my
behavior
so if i'm angry at somebody or if i stop
talking to somebody i'm thinking is this
a form of manipulation or abuse
because i know that a lot of people with
this disorder do
tend to become abusers because it's so
easy
to abuse someone when you don't have any
empathy or remorse or guilt
so like i'm trying to change the way i
view situations and people
which you know is really difficult like
i imagine just
you as a neurotypical imagine going
against
every fiber in your body to
you know behave in a way that society
has changed
so it's made me quite
hesitant to seek help so i personally
like
regulate it within myself and you know i
very like with my in terms of my
emotions i i try to keep them in check
and i try to you know not participate in
anything that can be considered abusive
or controlling
in that same video you admit you've done
uh horrible things and
you don't have remotes on them what do
you mean by horrible things
i'm not going to incriminate myself but
um let's just say that
when i was younger i tended to be quite
not pleasant because i had no
self-awareness i wasn't diagnosed and
you know i thought what i was doing was
completely normal
but obviously i i was involved with some
physical fights
i was involved with like you know
attacking others for certain
characteristics
and you know yeah i got into a number of
altercations
i've hurt many people uh i don't
necessarily feel remorse for it but i
know that it was
incorrect and cruel to carry out any
like any behavior of the sort
i didn't want to hurt people anymore
like it goes against my nature but i'm
fighting
every instinct to speak so i try to be
as
compassionate and loving as i can
so that i don't participate in negative
behavior
do you like who you are i do will you
change anything
what i've changed is the way i respond
to people
i try to because i do have narcissistic
personality as well
so usually i'd consider myself the
center of the universe and everyone to
just be orbiting around me
but i have tried to put more like i've
been putting more attention
into noticing other people and their
needs and desires
this is kind of you know i i'm like i
used to not see
other people as being on the same level
as me i didn't
care term like terribly much about that
but like
problems or issues but now i'm really
involved with
like some social justice movements i
am in a successful relationship i have
written a book
which is very unlikely for someone with
aspd because
we lose attention a lot
and um so yeah i'm trying to do all the
positive things
to offset the bad things i've done in
the past
you were saying uh that you are in a
relationship
and um and i don't know how to ask this
but
how do you feel love
you you are saying you don't have
remorse on on the bad things you can do
to other people so is it difficult for
you to love someone
so i feel like um our relationship has
nothing to do with empathy or remorse
which i know
is debatable because a lot of people
have
said that this is incorrect but i
personally don't think they're related
in terms of love i am 100 able to love
although i do view relationships as more
transactional than other people do
i feel like other people purposely
believe that there's nothing wrong with
being trans like that
people are generally not transactional
in their relationships
people think that there's genuine
altruism and
i disagree there i believe that what
goes into our relationship
is effort time and
consideration so it's like understanding
the other person's needs
offering that to them trying to not make
it all about myself
again i don't know how neurotypicals
love
but for me i i feel loved very deeply
i do get attached to some people
it's not often that i do but if i do it
it becomes quite serious
and i do have feelings of happiness
and yeah i think i think
i'm not sure what the difference would
be but i think generally
we do tend to be unlikely to fall in
love
and but yeah it's happened to me so i
believe it can happen fathers
you you were saying you feel happiness
are you a happy person
no not often um i feel happiness
somewhat rarely and for a small amount
of time generally where do you find your
happiness
i'd say my partner tv shows
i like um going out and socializing i
love
socializing um i love my cats very much
and they make me really happy but yeah
it's kind of
very shallow happiness and it does tend
to disappear
after you know a small period of time
is it difficult for you to socialize
with new people
no no i'm great meeting new people um
i do tend to love bomb i'm not sure if
you've heard that
um about what love bombing is
but essentially it is bombarding someone
with attention
so sending them texts and phone calls
and
you know all that sort of stuff trying
to get them more involved in your life
so that like people do tend to be drawn
to me
it like at least at first and um
because i like i tend to mirror people
as well
so often they'll see behavior that they
believe to be genuine
that is similar to their own even though
it's kind of a sign for me
being diagnosed did it change anything
in your life um i feel like having
the diagnosis is very
i guess it's a kind of closure because i
i finally realized that
like this is what's going on with me and
this is
the problem and also part of the
solution
so it's i feel like it hasn't impacted
me too badly
apart from like public knowledge i
that's why i didn't
come out as you know someone with aspd
because
i knew i would get like annihilated in
the media which i did
um but i know that there's a lot of
people suffering out there
who have aspd and mood disorders
and um there's this article it's called
the hidden suffering of a psychopath
so people who are likely to
murder or hurt other people they are
profoundly lonely
and this sort of isolation that they put
into
kind of pushes them towards these
violent acts
so i i want to get rid of that and i
think i can only do that while i embrace
my actual disorder how old were you when
you realized that there was something
about you that was different from
other people 13 14 and what did you
notice
i i felt like i was on the outside like
i felt it was a bubble
and i was just sitting on the outside
and i couldn't really access
those people inside and so
like it just felt like something was
really missing because
people would have these strong emotional
reactions to things
and i would just be standing there i
didn't feel a thing
so i thought there must be something off
this doesn't seem right
like people have these strong bonds and
people
are so emotionally affected by the
struggles of others
whereas i was just kind of there i had a
like flat effect i
don't i never really experienced
any you know emotional distress
so i knew that i was different from
other people
what would you say to someone who is
feeling
identified with what you are describing
right now i think
it's a good idea to be assessed by a
psychiatrist
because obviously self-diagnosis can be
a real problem
if you go to a psychiatrist and let them
evaluate you
over a couple of sessions you can find
out if you do have hpd
which is very very unlikely because of
how
rare the disorder is but i would
recommend if you peel those feelings
definitely go check it out with the
doctor is there anything
else you would like to say i just want
to say that people with acd are not
inherently bad people
that there is a proclivity to violence
and you know antisocial behavior
but put in the right circumstances they
can achieve a lot for humanity
and they have them so there are so many
psycho
psychopathic ceos um doctors
lawyers and they positively contribute
to society they're not just people in
jail for
you know doing a couple of petty crimes
so don't write up someone just because
they have aspd they can bring a lot of
joy to your life as well
thank you very much for doing this
interview thank you for being here i
know um
what time is it that right now it's nine
a.m
okay it's really early in the morning
youtube is
thank you very much for being here thank
you
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