Video Konseling Pendekatan Analisis Transaksional - Kelompok 5

Summary

This video script showcases a counseling session using transactional analysis. Dea, a 20-year-old university student from a wealthy family, struggles with loneliness and strained friendships due to her immature and commanding behavior. During the session, Dea meets with a counselor who helps her recognize the impact of her behavior on others. Through their interaction, Dea learns the importance of empathy, using polite requests instead of demanding, and understanding the feelings of others. The session concludes with Dea reflecting on her behavior and gaining insights into improving her social relationships.

Takeaways

• 😀 Dea is a 20-year-old student in her 4th semester at university, struggling with relationships due to her authoritative and immature behavior.
• 😀 Despite coming from a wealthy family and being an only child, Dea feels isolated and dislikes how others treat her, believing they are the ones in the wrong.
• 😀 Dea seeks counseling to understand why her peers avoid her and how to improve her interactions with them.
• 😀 The counselor helps Dea realize that her behavior, which includes ordering others around and expecting special treatment, is the root cause of her social difficulties.
• 😀 Dea does not recognize the impact of her actions, which include demanding things without expressing gratitude or using polite language.
• 😀 The counselor encourages Dea to reflect on how she would feel if others treated her the way she treats them, helping her see the need for change.
• 😀 The session emphasizes the importance of mutual respect in relationships, suggesting that Dea should ask for help with kindness and express gratitude.
• 😀 Dea is shown the value of polite requests, such as asking her friends for assistance with the right tone and without expecting rewards in return.
• 😀 Through role-playing, Dea learns that requests made with respect and appreciation can lead to more positive outcomes in her relationships.
• 😀 The session concludes with Dea realizing that her behavior has affected her friendships, and she commits to making changes, including showing more consideration and gratitude.

Q & A

What is the main issue Dea is facing in her life?

Dea is facing social isolation and difficulties in forming friendships due to her childish behavior and tendency to boss others around, which makes people avoid her.

How does Dea perceive her relationship with others?

Dea perceives that the problem lies with others, believing that they are at fault for not wanting to be friends with her. She doesn't realize that her own behavior is causing this issue.

What prompts Dea to seek counseling?

Dea becomes tired of her loneliness and feeling of being excluded, which leads her to seek help from a counselor in an attempt to understand and resolve her problems.

How does the counselor approach the situation with Dea?

The counselor uses a transactional approach, encouraging Dea to reflect on her behavior and the impact it has on her relationships, while also teaching her ways to improve her interactions with others.

What specific behavior does Dea need to change in her interactions with others?

Dea needs to change her habit of demanding things from others and being controlling. She is advised to use more polite and respectful language when asking for help.

What example does the counselor give to help Dea improve her communication?

The counselor gives an example where Dea could ask a friend for help, like saying, 'Vina, could you please copy my assignment?' instead of just making demands without using polite words like 'please'.

What does Dea learn about how others feel when she asks for help?

Dea learns that when she demands help from others without showing appreciation, it makes them feel unappreciated and reluctant to assist her. She is encouraged to express gratitude instead of expecting favors.

What does the counselor suggest Dea do when requesting help from others?

The counselor suggests that Dea should ask for help politely and without expecting anything in return, simply offering thanks as a form of appreciation.

How does Dea feel about her behavior after the counseling session?

Dea realizes that her behavior, especially her tendency to boss others around, has been harmful to her relationships. She begins to understand the need for change and expresses her intention to work on improving her interactions.

What steps does Dea plan to take to improve her behavior moving forward?

Dea plans to be more mindful of how she asks for help, ensuring she uses polite language and expresses gratitude. She also acknowledges the need to be more considerate of how her actions affect others.