My WINNING DATING APP PROFILE across TINDER, BUMBLE, and HINGE to attract WOMEN (FEMALE ATTRACTION)

Summary

In this video, the speaker shares his experience of crafting the perfect dating app profile, emphasizing the importance of building a unique masculine archetype over just physical looks. He explains how his profile's success comes from layering attraction triggers, such as showcasing strength, adventure, and confidence, combined with elements like lifestyle, career, and abundance. By emphasizing physical fitness, masculine traits, and context-driven photos, he demonstrates how understanding primal attraction can lead to unmatched success in online dating.

Takeaways

• 😀 A powerful dating profile is built around a unique masculine archetype, combining physical appearance and personality traits to create an attractive, well-rounded image.
• 😀 Physical appearance, such as a lean physique and strong muscle mass, is important, but crafting an image that communicates strength, capability, and protection is even more vital.
• 😀 The key to a winning dating profile is crafting a persona that signals masculinity and protection, such as using props like a bow and showing rugged features.
• 😀 Photos should reflect your lifestyle and character — they need to feel natural and effortless rather than overly posed or try-hard.
• 😀 Women are drawn to complexity and depth in men, so it’s important to combine multiple attraction triggers (e.g., muscle mass, personality, environment, style) to form a cohesive, layered image.
• 😀 Status plays a major role in online dating. Women often check a man’s social media presence first, so it’s important to appear successful and socially attractive.
• 😀 The power of illusion: Women are attracted to fantasy and imagery, meaning your dating profile should evoke an idea of what you’re like rather than just show physical traits.
• 😀 A strong physique is a major asset. Consistency in the gym and dedication to fitness are necessary to demonstrate physical appeal and commitment to self-improvement.
• 😀 Authenticity is important. Candid photos, such as those taken naturally while engaging in activities, tend to perform better than posed or staged images.
• 😀 Abundance signals success and confidence. Showing that you have plenty (whether it's food, resources, or options) can create an impression of abundance and attract more interest from women.

Q & A

What is the main concept behind the success of the dating app profile?

The key to success lies in crafting a unique masculine archetype that resonates with women. It's not just about looks, physique, or style, but about creating congruence across your profile, which signals masculinity, protection, and capability.

Why is crafting a unique masculine archetype so important in a dating profile?

A unique masculine archetype adds depth and consistency to your profile, making you appear more attractive. It aligns your physical appearance with psychological triggers like strength, protection, and reliability, making you more appealing to potential matches.

How does the archetype of a 'North Dakota cowboy' enhance the profile?

The 'North Dakota cowboy' archetype reflects rugged masculinity, toughness, and a connection to the outdoors. It signals traits like strength, independence, and a sense of adventure, which are highly appealing to many women.

What role does physical appearance play in attracting women on dating apps?

Physical appearance, especially when combined with a lean physique and muscle mass, plays a significant role in attracting attention. Women often evaluate a man’s body as a reflection of his discipline, health, and vitality, which are all attractive traits.

How does the ‘bow photo’ symbolize masculinity and protection?

The 'bow photo' showcases the man holding a bow, which signals strength, focus, and the ability to provide protection. It reflects a masculine image of someone who is skilled and capable of defending and providing for others.

Why is it important to include a variety of photos in your dating app profile?

Having a variety of photos allows you to showcase different aspects of your personality and lifestyle. It creates a more well-rounded and intriguing image that appeals to a broader audience, highlighting traits like fun, adventure, fitness, and career focus.

What is the significance of showing a fun, outdoor activity like boating in the dating profile?

Displaying a fun, adventurous activity like boating adds depth to the profile by showing that the person enjoys life and can engage in diverse experiences. It provides an attractive contrast to the typical gym photos, suggesting balance and a well-rounded lifestyle.

How does the combination of accessories (cowboy hat, aviators, tattoos) contribute to the dating profile’s appeal?

The combination of accessories like a cowboy hat, aviators, and tattoos helps to create a cohesive and distinctive look. These elements contribute to the 'fantasy' aspect of attraction, adding complexity and a unique sense of style that many women find intriguing.

Why does the profile emphasize physicality, such as muscle mass and physique, over other qualities like intellect or career?

The profile emphasizes physicality because, on dating apps, initial attraction is often driven by visual appeal. While traits like intellect and career matter later, physicality is the first thing that catches attention and sparks interest.

How does showing abundance (e.g., multiple food items) signal attraction on a primal level?

Displaying abundance in a photo signals to women that the man has the ability to acquire and provide resources. This taps into primal instincts, where women are subconsciously drawn to men who can offer security and stability, symbolized by an abundance of food or resources.