Narcissism vs. Egocentrism (or Egoism)

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23 Oct 202105:32

Summary

TLDRThe video script delves into the concept of egoism, tracing its origins and impact on society. It highlights the rise of narcissism and the decline in empathy, as evidenced by sociological studies. Drawing from Kabbalah, it explains the nature of human desires and their fleeting fulfillment, suggesting that true satisfaction lies in transcending egoism. The script advocates for a shift in intention, proposing that by perceiving others as extensions of ourselves, we can achieve a higher form of pleasure and fulfillment.

Takeaways

  • 🌱 **Egoism Origin**: The concept of egoism is rooted in the Latin word 'ego', which signifies self-centered behavior prioritizing one's own benefit over others.
  • 📈 **Narcissism Trend**: Research by Jean Twenge indicates a 70% increase in narcissism among students over the past 25 years, reflecting an inflated self-esteem often disconnected from reality.
  • 🔍 **Empathy Decline**: Mark Davis's empathy test results show a 40% decrease in sympathy levels compared to the 1980s and 1990s, suggesting a generational decrease in sensitivity to others' issues.
  • 🌐 **Desire Dynamics**: Kabbalah explains that egoism is based on the desire to fulfill oneself, with fulfillment being temporary and leading to a continuous pursuit of higher quality pleasures.
  • 💔 **Consequences of Fulfillment**: The temporary nature of fulfillment leaves individuals feeling devastated, which paradoxically fuels a greater desire for pleasure, perpetuating dissatisfaction.
  • 🏛️ **Environmental Influence**: Desires are shaped by the environment, with societal values like money, power, and knowledge cultivating specific desires in individuals.
  • 🧘 **Desire Nullification**: Kabbalah suggests that nullifying desires can reduce suffering, though in modern times, this is challenging due to the ever-growing nature of egoism.
  • 🤔 **Entitlement to Pleasure**: Many people feel entitled to pleasure, which can lead to unrealistic expectations and disappointment, as seen in the high divorce rates despite optimistic views at marriage.
  • 🔄 **Desire as Essence**: Desire is an inherent part of human nature, ranging from basic needs to social ambitions, and is not inherently good or bad but rather how it is implemented.
  • 💖 **Intention Inversion**: To rise above egoism, one should change their intention, perceiving others as extensions of oneself, which can lead to actions that genuinely fulfill others' needs.
  • 🌟 **Perfect Pleasure**: The ultimate pleasure, according to Kabbalah, comes from using one's desires to fulfill others, creating a cycle of infinite fulfillment and mutual satisfaction.

Q & A

  • What does the term 'egoism' originate from and what does it signify?

    -The term 'egoism' comes from the Latin word 'ego,' which means 'I,' signifying a person's behavior when they think only of their own benefit without considering others.

  • What is the mythological origin of the term 'narcissism'?

    -The term 'narcissism' originates from the Greek myth of Narcissus, a handsome young man who fell in love with his own reflection and was transformed into a flower named after him.

  • According to Gene Twangy's research, what is the trend in narcissism levels among students over the past 25 years?

    -Gene Twangy's research from the University of San Diego indicates that the level of narcissism among students has increased by 70 percent over the past 25 years.

  • What is the general trend in empathy levels among students, as shown by Mark Davis' empathy test?

    -Mark Davis' empathy test results over 30 years with 13,700 students show that levels of sympathy have decreased by 40 percent compared to the 1980s and 1990s.

  • How does Kabbalah describe the basis of egoism?

    -Kabbalah describes the basis of egoism as the desire to fill oneself in every possible way.

  • What are the characteristics of desire fulfillment according to Kabbalah?

    -According to Kabbalah, desire fulfillment is temporary, higher quality pleasures last longer, the disappearance of fulfillment leads to devastation, and desires are controlled by the environment.

  • How can one reduce suffering according to Kabbalah?

    -Kabbalah suggests that if desires can be nullified, then suffering can be reduced, although it acknowledges that egoism grows and is impossible to extinguish completely.

  • What is the societal role in cultivating desires?

    -Society cultivates social desires in a person, such as the desire for money, power, and knowledge.

  • What is the perspective of Kabbalah on the implementation of desire?

    -Kabbalah suggests that desire by itself is neither good nor bad, but the problem lies in how it is implemented, often at the expense of others, which is termed as 'healthy egoism.'

  • How does the script suggest we should deal with our egoism?

    -The script suggests that instead of eliminating egoism, we should rise above it by changing our intention to love our neighbor as ourselves, feeling them as we feel ourselves.

  • What is the secret to perfect pleasure according to the script?

    -The secret to perfect pleasure is to use the force of our desire to fulfill the other person's needs because we feel them as we feel ourselves, leading to an infinitely fulfilled desire.

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