NukeStream: Be The Man in the Arena
Summary
TLDRThe speaker passionately discusses the 'Man in the Arena' speech by Teddy Roosevelt, relating it to personal growth and dating life. He emphasizes the importance of active participation in life's challenges rather than being a passive critic. Drawing from his own experiences, he encourages embracing reality, learning from failures, and improving oneself. The talk navigates through themes of self-improvement, understanding the opposite sex, and the journey from anger to acceptance in personal development.
Takeaways
- 📚 The importance of Teddy Roosevelt's 'Man in the Arena' speech is emphasized, highlighting the divide between critics and doers in life.
- 🤔 The speaker discusses the difference between those who actively engage in life's challenges versus those who remain as spectators and critics.
- 🔧 The concept of applying a 'technical manual' approach to life's problems, drawing parallels from the speaker's experience as a nuclear operator to everyday issues.
- 💬 Criticism of online pontificating and the feedback loop it creates, where everyone has an opinion but not everyone is actively participating in life.
- 🚀 The encouragement to take action and not just talk about life, urging the audience to be 'doers' rather than 'critics'.
- 💔 Acknowledgment of the emotional pain that comes from being lied to or hurt in relationships, and the necessity to move past that anger and fear.
- 🧘♂️ The speaker's personal journey from 'Red Pill Rage' to acceptance, and the realization that one must find peace within oneself.
- 🤝 The value of genuine human connection and the importance of meeting people who can positively influence your perspective on life and relationships.
- 💪 The emphasis on self-improvement as a key to overcoming challenges in dating and life, rather than seeking external validation or relying on others' approval.
- 🎯 The idea that life is about personal experiences and learning from them, not about achieving perfection or universal approval.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the 'Man in the Arena' speech mentioned in the script?
-The main theme of the 'Man in the Arena' speech is about facing challenges and striving for greatness despite the possibility of failure. It emphasizes the importance of being actively involved in life rather than being a critic or a bystander.
What does the speaker suggest as a way to overcome the 'Red Pill Rage' phase?
-The speaker suggests that self-improvement, meeting genuinely good people, and realizing that not all women are the same can help in overcoming the 'Red Pill Rage' phase. It's about gaining perspective, improving oneself, and opening up to positive experiences.
What does the speaker mean by 'the man in the arena' in the context of dating and life experiences?
-By 'the man in the arena,' the speaker refers to someone who is actively participating in life, facing challenges, and learning from experiences, rather than just observing or criticizing from the sidelines.
How does the speaker describe the importance of personal experience in understanding the reality of dating and relationships?
-The speaker emphasizes that personal experience is invaluable because it provides firsthand knowledge and understanding of the dating market and relationships. It's about learning through one's own actions and the outcomes of those actions.
What role does ego play in the speaker's narrative, and how does he suggest managing it?
-In the speaker's narrative, ego can be a hindrance to personal growth and understanding. He suggests managing it by getting 'checked' in the arena, meaning to experience setbacks and failures that can help in keeping one's ego in check.
What advice does the speaker give for someone who is not a dancer and is worried about embarrassing themselves on a dance date?
-The speaker advises that the person should embrace the situation by asking the girl to teach them how to dance. It's about being open to learning, not taking things personally, and enjoying the experience despite the initial lack of skill.
How does the speaker relate the 'Man in the Arena' speech to personal growth and self-improvement?
-The speaker relates the speech to personal growth by highlighting the importance of actively engaging in life's challenges and using those experiences for self-improvement, rather than remaining a passive observer or critic.
What does the speaker suggest as a better alternative to a dance night for someone who is not confident in their dancing skills?
-The speaker suggests opting for a first date that is less likely to expose one's lack of dancing skills, such as going for drinks or coffee, where the focus can be more on conversation and getting to know each other.
How does the speaker view the process of learning and growing from failures in dating and relationships?
-The speaker views the process of learning from failures as essential for growth. He emphasizes that it's not about avoiding rejection or failure, but about facing it, learning from it, and using those lessons to improve one's approach to dating and relationships.
What is the speaker's perspective on the importance of listening to those who have firsthand experience in any field?
-The speaker believes that those with firsthand experience are the most valuable sources of information because they have 'boots on the ground' knowledge. Their insights are based on real experiences and can provide a clearer understanding of any field.
Outlines
🗣️ Inspirational Intro and Personal Connection
The speaker introduces the video with an inspirational excerpt from Teddy Roosevelt's 'Man in the Arena' speech, emphasizing the importance of striving and facing life's challenges head-on rather than being a critic. The speaker relates the speech to personal growth, particularly in the context of dating and living life without regrets, and mentions the importance of engaging with the audience through social media.
🤔 Reflecting on Teddy Roosevelt's Legacy and Life's Critics
The speaker discusses Teddy Roosevelt's impact as a president and his resilience, exemplified by continuing to give a speech despite being shot. The focus then shifts to the divide between people who take action and those who criticize. The speaker observes the prevalence of online criticism and the importance of distinguishing between genuine action-takers and those who merely comment on the actions of others.
🔧 The Red Pill Philosophy as a Set of Manuals for Life
The speaker delves into the red pill philosophy, comparing it to a set of technical manuals for dealing with life's various situations. He emphasizes the importance of personal experience and learning from one's own actions rather than relying solely on others' advice. The speaker also touches on the idea of mental models and the necessity of adapting to different life scenarios, such as relationships and marriage.
🚀 Moving Beyond the Red Pill Rage Phase
The speaker describes the 'Red Rage' phase as a natural reaction to discovering the red pill philosophy, often triggered by a negative experience with the opposite sex. He advises that the only way to overcome this phase is through personal experience and self-improvement, not just theoretical knowledge. The speaker also shares his own experiences as a firefighter and a nuclear operator to illustrate the importance of practical knowledge and adaptability.
💡 The Importance of Personal Experience and Self-Acceptance
The speaker stresses the importance of personal experience in dating and life, advocating for self-acceptance and the acknowledgment of one's own worth. He discusses the process of moving from anger and confusion to a state of peace and understanding, emphasizing that the journey is unique to each individual and involves a transition from theoretical knowledge to practical application.
🌟 Embracing the Role of the 'Man in the Arena'
The speaker encourages embracing the role of the 'Man in the Arena,' suggesting that personal growth and understanding come from active participation in life rather than from observing or criticizing. He discusses the challenges of dealing with various opinions and expectations from others, such as family and researchers, and the importance of finding one's own path.
🤝 The Value of Genuine Connection and Overcoming Fear
The speaker talks about the journey of personal growth and the importance of making genuine connections. He shares his own experiences with dating and the realization that rejection is not personal, but part of the process. The speaker emphasizes the need to overcome fear and to engage with life actively, using the lessons from the red pill philosophy as a guide.
🛠️ The Red Pill as a Tool for Self-Improvement and Understanding Women
The speaker discusses the red pill philosophy as a tool for self-improvement and understanding women, rather than as an identity or a way to hide from truth. He talks about the importance of using the philosophy to improve one's life and relationships, and the need to move beyond the anger phase to a point of peace and acceptance.
🎯 The Focus on Self-Improvement and the Red Pill's Purpose
The speaker emphasizes the importance of focusing on self-improvement and not seeking external validation or trying to change society. He discusses the red pill's purpose as providing a positive sexual identity for men and empowering them in the sexual marketplace, rather than being a source of conflict or a means to criticize women.
🧐 The Disconnect Between Personal Experience and Scientific Research
The speaker highlights the disconnect between personal experience in dating and scientific research, criticizing the latter for not providing practical solutions for men's struggles. He argues that personal observations and experiences are more valuable than scientific data in understanding and navigating the complexities of dating and relationships.
💃 The Cultural Differences in Dating and the Importance of Authenticity
The speaker reflects on cultural differences in dating, particularly comparing experiences in Latin America with those in the United States. He emphasizes the importance of authenticity and understanding in dating, and how cultural context can greatly influence the dynamics of a relationship.
📈 The Evolution of the Red Pill Philosophy and Personal Growth
The speaker discusses the evolution of the red pill philosophy and how it has helped him navigate personal growth and dating. He talks about the process of trial and error, learning from mistakes, and the importance of self-improvement, as well as the role of the red pill in providing a framework for understanding women and relationships.
🏋️♂️ The Role of Physical Fitness in Self-Improvement
The speaker mentions the importance of physical fitness in the journey of self-improvement, reflecting on his own experiences with weightlifting and how it has contributed to his overall growth and confidence. He sees fitness as a key component in becoming a better version of oneself.
🎉 The Celebration of Personal Growth and the Red Pill Community
The speaker concludes by celebrating personal growth and the support of the red pill community. He acknowledges the challenges and lessons learned, the value of authentic experiences, and the importance of sharing insights to help others navigate their own journeys.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Man in the Arena
💡Red Pill
💡Rage Phase
💡Ego
💡Self-Improvement
💡Spectators
💡Dread
💡Black Pill
💡Incel
💡Mental Models
💡Nuclear Operator
Highlights
The importance of embracing the 'Man in the Arena' mentality, which involves actively participating in life rather than merely criticizing or complaining.
The divide between people who take action and those who only offer criticism, especially in the context of modern online discourse.
The significance of Teddy Roosevelt's 'Man in the Arena' speech as a source of inspiration and its relevance to personal growth and dating life.
The necessity of distinguishing between genuine experience and the pretense of knowledge or expertise, particularly in the realm of dating advice.
The value of personal experience and learning from one's own actions, as opposed to relying solely on the opinions of others.
The critique of online pontificating and the feedback loop it creates, where people may mistake their opinions for meaningful contributions.
The transformative power of taking action and facing challenges, as opposed to remaining a passive observer of one's own life.
The discussion on the impact of social media and online personas on self-perception and the search for identity.
The analogy between military training and the need for precision and preparedness in all aspects of life, including dating.
The concept of 'dread' in relationships and its role in maintaining a balanced and respectful dynamic between partners.
The critique of the red pill community and the importance of not letting it become a crutch or an identity, but a tool for self-improvement.
The importance of self-reflection and understanding one's desires and goals before seeking a partner or entering relationships.
The discussion on the challenges of navigating cultural differences in dating and the importance of understanding and respecting those differences.
The emphasis on the individual journey of self-improvement and the need to find peace and acceptance within oneself.
The encouragement to engage in life's struggles and challenges as a means of personal growth and the development of resilience.
The final thoughts on the importance of being the 'Man in the Arena' and the value of personal experience over hearsay or theoretical knowledge.
Transcripts
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the poorest way to face
life is to face it with a
sneer there are many men who feel a kind
of Twisted pride and
cynicism
there are many who confine themselves to
criticism of the way others do what they
themselves dare not even
attempt there is no more unhealthy
being no man less worthy of respect than
he who either really holds or FS to hold
an attitude of sneering disbelief toward
all that is great and
lofty whether an achievement or in that
Noble effort which even if it fails
comes to Second
achievement it is not the critic who
counts not the man who points out how
the strong man
stumbles or where the doer of Deeds
could have done them
better the credit belongs to the man who
was actually in the
arena whose face is marred by dust and
sweat and
blood who strives
valiantly who HS who comes short again
and
again because there is no effort without
error and
shortcoming but who does actually strive
to do the
Deeds who knows great
enthusiasms the great
devotions who spend himself in a worthy
cause who at the best knows in the end
the Triumph of high
achievement and who at the worst if he
fails at least fails while daring
greatly so that his place shall never be
with those cold and timid
Souls who neither know
Victory nor defeat
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hey guys what's up very inspiring intro
today let me know if you guys can hear
me well I kind of mess with the gain a
little bit on the mic but uh yeah um
that was uh Teddy rell's famous
um uh man in the arena speech right and
it's my favorite speech for a reason and
we're going to talk about it and how it
applies to your dating life and you're
just living life in general as opposed
to um complaining and not actually you
know living the life you want so we'll
get into that so you guys know where to
find me
um uh I'll put my link tree in the chat
follow me on all platforms follow me on
Twitch follow me on Instagram all that
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follow you back I don't check my
Instagram too often so um just uh give
me some time if you guys shoot me
messages and stuff like that so uh all
right let's get right into it first off
um we got uh first Super Chat you get
one of these my
friend where is it where is
it you get one of
these thank you so much
best RP Matthews
2024 says for the 499 Super Chat says
epic opening tax bro
nuke EP epic opening tax bro nuke uh
yeah man um Teddy Rosevelt was a great
president if not the greatest um he did
a lot for this country he's pretty
badass he got shot while having a speech
and just kept talking so he's a pretty
badass Guy and um
honestly his speech really spoke to me
because I someone someone posted it on
Twitter a couple years ago and then it
really spoke to me because I've realized
throughout life there really is kind of
like a divide between the people that
are doing it and the people that are
talking about it and criticizing those
who are especially nowadays when um
we're we're living in a very online
pontificating kind of world where
everyone has a take and everyone has
access to people much more than it did
before so we get this feedback loop
where people think or where people think
they care what we what we have to say
and it it all boils down to like really
are you do are you doing it are you
doing are you taking action are you out
there are you getting beat up are you
getting rejected are you getting hurt
over and over again and you can just see
through people's tweets YouTube videos
um long form content shortterm uh short
form content essays blogs all this stuff
who's actually out there and who's not
like you people that are kind of have
like six sense about this
so um you you'll see it over time uh as
you guys get more experience with women
and just living life in general that
you'll see who's a faker who's just
saying things to say them and who's
following like a a trend or or a formula
and who's like speaking from the heart
right and I'll let you guys decide where
I I come from I always let you guys
decide if you guys think I'm a fraud or
I'm just making stuff up then go ahead
and you know I'm not offended you know
maybe I'm just not convincing enough but
if you guys if I speak to you guys in a
way where you guys understand and you
feel like we're on the same plane of
understanding and I can have something
to offer you then uh I'd be more than
happy to so um so thanks again RP
Matthew for the Super
Chat that all proceed will go to getting
Tadashi a what are we getting Tadashi
now uh a new caller yeah he needs a new
caller his his other one's too small so
um we got
Chad Elin CPA what's up uh Chad how you
doing glad to see you here man um we got
Daniel uh hernandz hat Jam know EO was
great yeah I gotta watch it still it's
one of those animes that queued up but
I'll get to it when I get to it we got
GMO what's up man how you
doing my man godspeed what's
up um and we got this big chat luscious
PA hey hello sorry for billing you I
want to offer promotion oh it's one of
those uh
whatever I guess I forgot to put out to
turn on that that bot on Twitch that'll
block all that stuff but
um yeah yeah he sent this quote quote
it's a whole speech my friend it's more
than just a quote um let me get this
lighting right
yeah excuse me yeah it's a whole speech
and um it's very it's very powerful
because especially nowadays like my
biggest thing when I came when I came
into the space talk about the stuff is
that I noticed over the years while I
was dating that a lot of people weren't
like the things they said about the
opposite sex just it didn't like I'm
like what like that isn't really how it
is or how it isn't or it just very just
very confusing to me like how easy it is
to go online and just kind of like be
someone that you're not or have or fake
experience and all that stuff which
it's I lived in a world where you can't
fake that stuff or else you know people
get hurt you know I was a firefighter
for a little bit um I also was a nuclear
operator um and all that and the way you
get trained is that you you can't you
can't BS it you have to know everything
you know and you have you have to go
through your training pipeline um kind
of being a completely well-trained
person and having the ability to to any
situation thrown at you to handle it
right because it's nuclear power there's
no room for error there's no room for
not knowing stuff now if you don't know
something you're always welcome to open
the book right but sometimes you know
it's War when you're at war or
something's wrong with the reactor you
know you have uh
seconds at best two minutes and at worst
10 seconds right I'll tell you I'll tell
you how much time what the margin of
error is for a nuclear power for the
worst Casualty that you can get in a
nuclear plant in a nuclear plant the
worst casualty you can get is called a
cold water casualty right what happens
is that I'm going to get a little
scientific guys I'll be quick I promise
um the way uh reactors work is
that the uranium starts decaying and
gives off neutrons neutrons hit the
hydrogen molecules the molecules this
this causes the water to heat up we take
that water we heat secondary water
because we don't want the primary radioa
possibly radioactive water to touch
secondary water and we make Steam and
that steam gets pushed through a turbine
and that causes things to spin and that
spinning either generates electricity or
or generates motion through a a ship
turbine right or a main engine right so
if you throw put cold wire into a
reactor
the the hyrogen molecules will there's
less distance between them more neutrons
hitting them you get a spike in power
and that spike in power is so high and
so fast you can't control the reactor
reactor overheats meltdown right you
have 10 seconds to um to flood the
reactor 10 10 second that's it or else
you're done you know so when you live in
a world where you just can't leave
anything up to
chance right um and you have to be able
to have contingencies for everything you
start to think in a different way right
you start you start to think like
everything has a procedure everything
has a route to take and what we call in
the red pill everything has a mental
model right and then here's the
interesting part like every content
creator comes at this stuff different
right A lot of them come come at it from
like an ego like be like me it worked
for me which is wrong because you guys
don't want the same things I want you
know hopefully you guys are your own
person and you've got sat down with
yourselves and are like hey what do I
want and that I can't answer that for
you no one can but yourself right not
your parents not your current girlfriend
not your employer only you can know what
you want so at the end of the day that's
step one but like I was saying every
single issue or problem in the plant
there's a procedure or somewhere where
you can find what to do and there's
different varying levels of severity and
action and that's the same thing with
relationships and women and all this
stuff there's a procedure there's a
mental model there's something you can
do or not do in order to handle a
situation and that's the way I always
saw the red pill because to me um it
wasn't about an identity right I wasn't
red pill nuke right I was nuke Dominican
heritage reactor operator for the United
States Navy um amateur musician um all
those things that that's what who I am
you know um brother son you know um I
own a dog you know those are the things
that kind of like make me who I am red
pill is not an identity right so
whenever you see someone who's made it
their identity
you know that they're not they're they
see it more they don't see it as a way
to fix their life you know they see it
as a way to hide behind the truths and
the difficulty of accepting the truth
so this usually happens when guys are in
the Red Rage phase you know they get
burned by a girl they find the red pill
and they're mad and they're absolutely
entitled to their anger you just got to
move on right you you get a year tops
let it burn inside you the pain and the
anguish of being lied to of of seeing
the world in a in a negative light that
you don't you know you really don't
matter much as a man but then you have
to move on you have to start like okay
this is the truth I was lied to what's
the next step and if you look at the red
pill as more of a set of manuals you
know every industry every uh job
technical job whether it be mechanic or
nuclear operator or all that you know
has has a set of manuals by which they
um they guide themselves in order to do
maintenance start up equipment shut down
equipment all that stuff right for you
guys that are more technical minded so
same thing with the red pill right is it
always correct yeah no as the years go
on the these manuals get more and more
perfected right Ryan Stone talks about
this in his uh in his first book um
so what happens is that if you see it
like that you start being able to take
the lessons and the videos in the books
in a better way right you start to
actually use them you also start to
realize like not everything applies all
the time right there is a form called
married red pill and are if you're
married that probably won't do you much
right so if you're not married then why
you know why are you going there
obviously maybe you want to learn
something or you're just curious but you
know if you're if you're spinning plates
or just single like that's not um that
doesn't apply to you so you don't have
to talk about it you don't have to go
there you don't have to use it you don't
have to watch any content that has to do
with that until one day maybe you get
married you're like how can I use this
to to improve my marriage right same
thing with um you know there are mental
models for for every situation and
that's like I always said people don't
like the red PK because it solves too
many problems and it's too simple right
I'll go I'll do an interview with
someone that's red pillar Jason or hates
the red pillar or hates the manosphere
or whatever and it always starts here's
a first problem guys the first problem
is always language right they don't
understand what it is they're like those
red pill guys and I'm like that's not
it's not an identity we're not the
Legion of Doom under a a swamp somewhere
trying to figure out how to take down
Batman and Superman you know we're just
regular guy do I look special to you
guys like like come on like there's
nothing that special about me but um
that's what they think so I I I start
there like hey it's a prology what's
that means to an end we want to kind of
look take a look at this stuff and how
can we use this knowledge to help
improve our lives and and by improving
your life you improve the lives of
everyone around you right you need to
put on your oxygen mask first before you
help the person next to you so as time
goes on you start going from this rage
phase of being angry and not
understanding what what where you're at
in life and not knowing what you want to
slowly like hey I went on a date with a
girl um and I applied this I applied
assume that she's promiscuous but don't
OB don't obsess meaning understand that
women have a lot of access to sex and
women will have sex um women you know
there's dating apps there's Instagram
can you do anything about it no however
um if you assume every girl is uh
promiscuous right from the get from the
get-go it puts you in a position of to
where you win anyway right either you're
proved right you know through her
behavior subsequent behavior um
or uh as you as time goes on she's
slowly proving it to you that she's not
right because the burden of the burden
of proving that she's not promiscuous or
a [ __ ] or a bad person is on her right
you can't know that like we can have
this bodyc count discussion for years
it's been years since we've been having
years right is a high body count bad
like listen man we figured it out a long
time ago here's the manual here's the
procedure step one assume she's
promiscuous step two don't obsess about
it it's not it's not your problem to
prove that she's not promiscuous that's
her problem if she cares if she doesn't
care and if you don't care then that's
great you know problem solved close the
book on to the next problem that's it
that's all there's nothing else to talk
about for that right you I saved you
guys hours of YouTube content and books
and and debates and all this stuff by
just two phrases I don't know who came
up with that right but no one in the red
pill cares who came up with what right
because at the end of the day the goal
is to provide what guys
a positive sexual identity for men and
more power in the sexual Marketplace for
men that's all rule zero that's all we
care about right now is some of the
language kind of like strong and and and
difficult to to to digest to people who
don't know the red P yes but that's on
purpose like we say dread dread sounds
really scary it sounds like the the the
title of a horror movie right but we say
that because we want eyes to open we
want people to be like what the hell
right um it's basically hey being a
attractive enough to where your girl
your girlfriend your wife kind of
doesn't take you for granted and is is
silently kind of understands that if she
if she doesn't do her job as a good
girlfriend or wife then she could lose
you to another girl you know that's what
dread is but we don't want to say all
that we just say dread she dreads
leaving you or uh she dreads the thought
of you uh being with another girl right
so it really is that simple guys and
um the the the rage phase kind of makes
you feel like you got your back against
the wall and it's all over and
everyone's you know and it's okay to
feel like that like there's nothing
wrong with being angry you know that
that's just a part of life you know you
were lied to your whole life but now you
know the truth and take your time to
accept it and and and and to drink it in
and it's going to hurt it hurts like I
know what you feel you know I met I read
the manipulated man in 20 8 and after I
read that book you know it took me like
month like two months to like kind of
like even look at a girl and be
like you know kind of like able to see
her for a person I just saw her as an
evil person and not evil in the sense
that I wanted to you know was mad at her
I was scared I legitimately was scared
of women not like to talk to them but to
just to see the things they did when I
was in the military you know the the me
too stuff you know the the H how mean
they were you know I had to really like
you know when I was higher ranking I had
to really talk to some girls and really
tell them hey can you stop with this
like bullying stuff you know or I would
just have to like set set them straight
you know um because a lot of
um a lot of the the behavior was
unchecked and no one no one said
anything and I'd be like hey like you
can't if you saw a coworker on tender
don't like don't like make fun of their
profile so the whole department or the
whole division you know cuz I saw your I
saw your Tinder profile too and it's not
that
great right that's that's the kind of
stuff I would have to tell women and
these women they kind of respected me
because I had boundaries right but like
it was tough for me the outside of
dating and relationship to see how like
rude rude and like mean these women were
to other people and I kind of like lost
hope in them um Beyond dating right I
kind of lost hope in women but you know
that's just the phase you go through and
then you realize like hey she was just a
bad person she was right and you have to
move on now um those are things that are
you you're getting with experience right
there's only one way out of the rage
phase guys and that's becoming the man
in the arena that that's it no amount of
reading books no amount of of watching
YouTube or or whatever content you watch
is gonna pull you out you have to go out
there and go experience the world for
yourself right armed with knowledge you
have to go experience it for yourself
you're going to realize like the truth
and the real world is much different
than what you feel right because what
you feel is an emotional response to
being lied to you're you're scared you
know and I I always said the rage phase
a lot of times is rooted in fear you
know fear that you'll never be loved
fear that every woman that you come
across will hurt you whether it be
career in your career whether it be
romantically whether it be financially
you're just it's fear it's fear that now
you you're you've created this
evil being in your head right and I'll
tell
you the a lot of the the black pill
doomers right the let's say the blue
pill guys the black pill tumers incels
whatever faction right um the the they
don't hate red pill guys because of our
success they don't hate red pill guys
because they think we're lying to them
or we're telling them to lighten up or
we have survivorship bias or anything
like that they don't like us because
we're at peace and we've made peace with
everything right when I tell stories on
Twitter about the things that women have
done with me but I'm just like yeah it
happened whatever you know a lot of
people are kind of like why are you so
chill or calm or why does this not
affect you or you know can we hear more
about the story like how are
you you know not and I'm like listen
here's the thing um first off I focused
on myself I got into the arena and I got
beat up and it happens right
and one time there you know I I made I
did the story of how I had a girl who I
was dating and she was very um she's
very into me guys like she would send me
packages when I was deployed in the
Artic
Circle
and yeah it was it was great and never
met her but she she was friends with my
brother and my brother introduced us
online right and eventually you know I
reached out to her on Facebook back you
know when people used to talk on
Facebook and she was like we hit it off
you know we started texting and all that
and then I told her hey I'm going to get
deployed here in a couple days here's my
address to the ship you got you can send
me letters and she ended up sending me
boxes full of candy coffee her
graduation pictures we would email each
other once a week all this stuff so it's
like I got some level of genuine desire
from her and we would date long distance
you know she lived two states away so
you know we saw other when we could
whenever I got back and then one day she
at the airport she says hey I don't want
what what this is I don't want it
because it doesn't seem like you're
stable because I was getting out of the
military I didn't know where I was going
to be in like six months right so it's a
very special time when you're getting
out of the military so she ends up
leaving me at the airport and she six
months later four months later she pops
up with another guy and through the
great manine I heard that this guy's a
virgin he's like 5'4 I'm like
661 um and you know he's not muscular at
all just the opposite of me you know
he's a half white half Persian guy all
that and you know what it didn't make me
that mad you know and I thought I was
going to be mad but I was like no like
it didn't make me that mad right because
when I got out the military I focused on
myself completely I went out there I
leveled up I got a new job I moved to
Texas and you know the pandemic started
but you know I was well on my way to
becoming a better version of myself um
and you know I talk to other women and
she still me she would message me right
um and she's single now after all these
years like it didn't work out with that
guy and that made me sad right and a lot
of guys that are blackpilled or incels
or don't understand that and the thing
is like it's called it's called you you
get an inner peace where you just stop
caring about what other people are doing
outside of your life you know it's me in
the world I don't care about other
people obviously if I saw one of my exes
and you know I'd get a little emotional
I'd be like hey you know like you know
um it happens
but um it's just the only way guys you
can achieve that Zen is by being the man
in the arena and no one understands the
man in the arena better than himself
because everyone is spectating you know
they'll tell you all these things and
I'll tell you different entities we'll
go we'll get into different entities
people thought processes that will be in
the stands telling you hey you should
left hook or or you know you should have
done this or you you know like people
that watch sports and all that stuff and
you'll realize that like no matter how
much they tell you they're not the man
in the arena they're not you right they
can offer Insight I guess but they're
not the man in the arena they're simply
very
um they're very uh opinionated about how
you should live your life um and these
coming shapes and forms like the first
one would be your parents right your
parents they want the best for you right
they they want to see you be happy get
the things you want but a lot of the
times they want it in the way that they
want they're hellbent on them or you
doing the things they did their way
right some parents and that could be
tough for a guy especially a guy that
loves his parents and and all that stuff
so um while you're in the arena let's
say your mom's like hey you need to find
yourself a a good girl right and she
sees you like years that you don't find
a good girl yet and she you know to her
finding a good girl is just a matter of
just going down to the corner store
going to church and within a month or
two months you'll find a good girl get
married and all that stuff that's that's
Mo especially if your mom is uh wasn't
born in the United States like my mom
was
um and you know they don't understand
what it is to to find a good girl these
days you know they don't understand how
many girls you have to go through to
find a girl that's not addicted to
alcohol that's not alcoholic that
doesn't smoke or vape all the time
that's not fat you know that's not a
that is a generally good person you know
that is marriage-minded like they don't
understand how difficult that is if
that's what you want right they think
that it's just a matter of you just
existing like in their times um so it's
it could be difficult it create a big
disconnect in your family because they
they're seeing the way you do things and
it's different from them but they're not
again they're not the man in the arena
like you are they're they are suffering
from this thing that they think the
world is the same and that the rules are
still the same you know they don't
understand so forgive your if you love
your parents forgive them they don't
understand right and you're just going
to accept that like for this part of
your life this whole looking for a
girlfriend looking for a wife looking
for just girls it's something that only
you can understand and the women in
front of you they'll never get it it'll
create a disconnect in your life and
that's okay it's just it is what it is
guys
um you know what's another person um
that
uh you know that constantly criticizing
the man in the arena you have the
scientists the researchers the dating
researchers right so these guys love to
quantify everything you know human
interaction now let let me ask you guys
this is human interaction easy to
quantify right like think like you I've
been on lots of dates right in the last
couple years obviously
I've kind of toned it down I'm not
really dating that much anymore right
I'm kind of like
relaxed but I've been on lots of dates
and I myself kind of notice patterns
just like you know because I'm I'm human
human notice notice patterns right um
and I you know I wrote those patterns
down I wrote a 100 100 point thread on
Twitter and it went viral and you know
it's the reason I'm here in front of you
I got discovered and here I am um
but
uh
what was I saying
so you you go on these dates and you
kind of notice patterns and you're
starting to think hey you know
like
um if I do this girls respond this way
for the most part right and it may work
or may not and then you're just like
okay cool I'm gonna this works for me
this doesn't right and that could be
based on your you know how you look your
VI you know the energy you bring to the
date you know what part of the country
you're in what country you're in in
general
um area environment the you know race
culture of the person you're you're on a
date with all so many factors right um
and you have scientists and dating
researchers that look at the red pill
and they're just like this this stuff's
for losers right this stuffs for people
that hate women or people that uh are
you know in eles and all that stuff
whatever right and I'm just like okay
fair enough you know you don't have to
like everything that you see on the
internet or read or anything right so
you say okay cool
um what is your plan then to help men
because we have we already have essays
books uh courses coaches podcasts um
meetups uh
testimonials but most most importantly
we have the mental models that we came
up with to help guys so you Mr science
man you Mr research man what is your
plan like how do you how do you how are
you going to create a complex of answers
and mental models and and protocols for
so young guys don't end up crazy hurting
themselves or and such and such right
and there's the answer is always nothing
right it's always nothing and the reason
is
that
um the the main focus of science is the
science is the arm of what it's one of
the arms of of current gynocentric
social order right so um science and
data whenever it is
presented that a woman is a bad is bad
they have to spin it in a way where it
makes both of us look bad right um and
that's just the way it is that they
science science stops that g centrism it
cannot be like hey women bad because the
data shows it they have to be like oh
[ __ ] women's bad how about we say both
genders do this and then we'll keep
moving on right I'll give you guys an
example but first let me just say hi to
some people in
here
um red pill rage lasted two years for me
yeah man it lasted a while for me but I
was just I was just very blue pilled and
I've gotten hurt you know the most like
I I remember in college I I uh recorded
10 songs on piano for a girl that I was
head over heels for like and I gave it
to her in a CD because there was you
know it was bar like the iPod the iPod
barely came out um and I gave it to her
in a CD you know saying you know like
hey this is for you I don't know where
that girl is right now
guys and I was I was like that girl had
me in a choke hold right I was in love
with that girl
but yeah after that I started slowly
unplugging I got ruined by a lot a
couple women but I'm glad it happened
right it it's it's better to love women
for what they are not for they what they
could never be right um in the military
do most of the girls sleep around uh
yeah it's
it's I'm just gonna say yes there's no
other way about it yes that a lot of
women do sleep around in the military um
took the RP in 2018 long Jal process of
repeating the same mistakes move cities
which really helped I am the new me yeah
it you got to forgive yourself man like
it's not your fault you know that was
like my first video is like to forgive
yourself you're gonna make mistakes
you're gonna do dumb stuff you're gonna
get to take advantage by women from time
to time it happens like just laugh it
off and do better next time that's all
you can do we got opium in the chat
what's up opium how you doing um we got
the Great and Powerful swerve plays
what's up guys
how you guys doing but anyway
um yeah excuse me uh but yeah
uh that's that's what the data the
researchers now is there a lot of data
and research that is in good faith that
kind of like adds to the to the to the
red pill and to you helping you live a
better life of course you know like
um there's a lot of things that if you
look at the data objectively and you
kind of understand what it means you
could spin it in a positive way you know
they'll say hey onethird of men aren't
having sex or are virgins it sucks right
because you know a lot of you know I
want I want everyone to get laate and be
happy right but [ __ ] like onethird of
men aren't getting laid that's like how
are we you know how are there's not an
uprising right but then I realize wait
my Plumbing's good poers on um every
worksite I go to you know is running
just fine all the infrastructure of
society is running fine right now right
so okay that must mean that the guys
that aren't trying aren't getting
rewarded is that so bad maybe that's up
for you to decide right do you want guys
to do nothing and complain to get women
I don't I want people who work hard and
do things to get rewarded just like
everyone else does right it's only fair
however does that mean I'm not
compassionate for those guys of course I
am you know that's the reason I do what
I do because I I I was in the military
and I had to talk to guys like that who
were who I had to convince them to do
their job and they were
on you know I don't know if I could say
it swword watch you know we have to
follow them around for for for 24 hours
because they threaten to hurt themselves
right and how do you convince someone to
do that like that to do their job how do
you convince someone like that to hey
make your bed take a shower like wake up
you know I don't
know you don't know but it's it's
difficult so I have a a lot of
compassion for this stuff which probably
is not the best but I have a lot of
compassion because I I've seen up face
to face what it's like for a guy to get
to that point and I've had to live with
them with with in bunks below and above
me so it's like I it's very it was very
real to me when a when a young guy is on
his last legs you know when a young guy
turns to alcohol when a young guy his
mind breaks right and he has to go to a
mental h hospital um it it's very real
to me so on one one hand on one hand I'm
glad that like guys that aren't trying
aren't just getting women falling out of
the sky in your lap but at the same time
I'm very compassionate for those guys
that don't have a step one they don't
have like a a step one and maybe if we
gave a lot of those guys a step one of
just like hey step one go take a shower
you know step one go for a walk and keep
doing it get over yourself you're not
that important and that's okay you know
maybe we can take that number from
28% to 22% or something like that which
is better than nothing but that's not
our Pro that's not what the red pill is
about we're not trying to change society
in a whole we can only change ourselves
and
whether a a full grown man wants to do
that or not that's on him you know we
can't force anyone to do something they
don't want um unless it's you know by
force you know violence
so
um all
right but yeah uh going back to the
science thing the research thing they're
what they do is they throw out charts
trying to quantify human behavior trying
to trying to use uh science and data and
research in order to prove to you that
it's not so bad or it's bad or it's too
bad or all these things right well
basically what they're trying to say is
like hey your your personal observations
and experience
don't
matter take it from us take our word for
it right um they'll say like most most
women are marrying one to three years
within their uh range right and you know
it could be true like sure let's say
it's true but like why they and they ask
why well that's because it's the best
age I'm
like why you know like you got to keep
asking why and they don't know why
because two reasons either they don't
care or it it you have to ask the
question like why do women do something
right and that's starting to get into
the criticized women territory and
that's where science stops and that's
where the red pill kind of like kicks in
and it's just like hey the reason women
are marrying one 123 a guys one to three
uh years with within their
range right excuse me um first off it's
all of them have to right because here's
what happens
um young girls are are setting their
their their young girls have a lot of
power over who who they sleep with now
right they're setting their age ranges
and height ranges on dating apps and
I've asked women over the years like hey
what's the biggest problem with guys
your age you know why don't you know why
are you pursuing me I'm like 10 years
older seven years older six years eight
years older and they're
like oh they don't plan dates they don't
take the lead stuff like that and I'm
was like okay so from from a female
perspective it makes sense that it would
date older because
older men have more money to take them
out and they're they're you know they've
grown and matured and they can lead uh
you know they they're they know what
they want and they can lead and also
they're less emot like they don't get
they've been through it all at that
point so when a girl rejects them or
does or plays around or [ __ ] test them
they're just like H whatever you know I
got I got a huge meeting in the morning
and I got a whole bunch of things and I
got other girls or whatever right so
women like that so it makes sense that
women like older men now another reason
women date one to to three years within
their age range is also because they'
tried to lock down the older hotter more
mature richer guys and it didn't work
because those guys are cleaning up right
now right now and I and I say this on
Kyle's show and I'm going to be really
clear with this and I want you guys so
you guys understand why when when and
why women say this when a woman gets
online look at me in the eyes guys when
a woman gets online and she says starts
complaining about there's too many men
that aren't stepping up there's too many
incels um onethird of men aren't having
sex because they suck whatever what
she's saying is guys is I am tired of
sharing Alphas because mathematically
speaking mathematically speaking if
onethird of guys aren't getting laid
right most women are sharing guys right
it isn't one to one because that
wouldn't mathematically make sense right
18 to 30 that was the age R they did
this so who's which so those women that
are supposed to be paired up with those
guys what are they
doing where are they where are they just
not having sex they're having
sex where are
they they're sharing guys right and and
see that's the part where they you know
the researchers are like no it's m
switching hypothesis and I'm like no no
no no they're sharing guys the marriage
rate is six per 1,000 right now so
they're sharing guys so there you go the
science won't tell you that you know um
they'll just they'll they'll constantly
make excuses for women right all data is
like that and they they will never be
able to sit down and say hey women do
this bad thing and just leave it at that
no they say women do this bad thing
because men or women do this bad thing
but men too or women do this bad thing
but it's because they were forced to or
because society and then if it really is
that they did something bad then they'll
bring up but men do this thing that's
even worse and it's just like how does
that help
anyone always ask that you know you as
the man in the arena you as the guy that
is getting beat up rejected ghosted you
know you're having great victories
you're you know you're meeting beautiful
women eight out of 10 women or you're
you're meeting uh you know you're
getting rejected by the chubby four out
of 10 because she doesn't want to dance
with you at Sal or something like that
like you that's in there that's getting
punched and bruised and beat up and then
you get great victories and great losses
you and you're learning and you're
living life you're you're taking life by
the balls you're raw dogging your dating
life right now
right how does that help you always ask
when people have this content how does
this help me how does this get me from
point to point B if it doesn't get you
anywhere then it's not red pill it's
just science or data or whatever it's
not it's not designed to help you and
that's the thing always ask you know
unless you're using it for entertainment
which a lot of manosphere content is
entertainment um ask yourself how does
this help me right is this person in the
in the stand just saying hey if you
punch harder you know or it is this
person in the stand saying you should
have done this or hey you suck because
you know your your boxing sneakers
aren't good or aren't tied tip you know
or are you the the coach or the trainer
that's in the corner saying uh you know
egging them on saying hey um you got
punched in the face because you're too
slow you know like start speeding up you
know focus on your footwork stupid you
know that that's the difference right
understand that the stuff that helps you
is that coach or trainer in your corner
yelling at you and the stuff that
doesn't are the people in the stands
kind of like pontificating you know just
telling you how to live your life right
man in the arena is tough because you
don't know who to trust or who who's
going to help you and there are you know
we can go to other entities like one of
the other entities of people that are
just Spectators trying to criticize you
and how you do things is the the like
female dating coaches that's another one
female dating coaches when they give
advice to men it's always very woo woo
magical thinking and very emotional kind
of words that don't mean much right like
you go to my channel I'm not saying I'm
like the you know the end all be all
dating and there's much better than me
right
but ask a female dating coach or a girl
that tends to that says she knows how to
you know give advice men so they can get
laid right ask them about stuff ask him
what a [ __ ] test is I don't know ask him
what uh here's my favorite ask him um
what uh was
it a neg ask him about what a neg is not
saying I use neg or don't right ask him
what a NE is oh it's an insult no an
insult would be like I go to a pretty
girl and I'd be like hey I don't really
like your dress you should get a better
dress that's an insult that will get you
ignored [ __ ] on kicked out of the club
right whatever a neeg is this is what a
egg is oh I love your dress my mom used
to wear something like that or hey I
love your dress I saw a couple girls
this week have the same dress as you I
love it that's an egg and you guys know
why that's an egg I don't have to
explain unless you want me to explain it
but that's that's the difference right
and a and a female dating coach will
never be able to explain that to you
right hey female dating coach how do I
how do I uh get a girl back to my place
she'll say like oh just use the magical
energy and the vibe and the connection
the electricity between both your
foreheads and just look up and pray to
Shiva and just you know just look her in
the eyes and just say come back to my
place you're like that's that's what
that's what they have to offer you right
and guys pay for that stuff or follow
that stuff right and it's just like wow
you know this person that has 1/8 of
your
testosterone
and has a different set of reality and
laws of reality apply to them including
legally financially and romantically is
trying to tell you how to live your life
and how to go about the most one of the
most important things you'll ever do
which is finding a girl whether to marry
have a girlfriend or just casual right
that's that should be insulting to you
you know their existence is an insult to
your honor like Vegeta says like it's it
should be insulting because that is the
antithesis of the man in the arena it's
someone who's just purely a spectator
can never fight can never do anything
but is in the arena trying to tell you
how to do things and that's why it's so
insulting and that's why I call him out
all the all the time on YouTube or on
Twitter or X because it really is one of
the most insulting things as a man for
you to tell me how I go about getting
you right and I know a lot of women they
a lot of them meet it in good faith um
but you know I feel like the women that
have a science background you know have
stuff to offer I feel like women that
you know kind
of have this thing where they can kind
of sympathize not empathize sympathize
with men which is okay you know um
I'm all for Content that rattles the
cages you know I'm all for Content that
makes people think and all that stuff
right when it comes to you sitting down
in front of a girl and she's beautiful
and she's laughing right and she has
your hand on top of your hand right and
and she's telling you a story and she's
tearing up because she's telling you a
sad story about her life and you're just
smiling right and you're squeezing her
hand and her boob meets out and it's all
veiny and you're just trying to like
Focus you're you're like praying that
you don't just stare stare too long out
or cleavage or whatever you're just like
the only person that could help you in
that situation is you nobody you are
purely the man in the arena in that
situation and you just got to do the
best you can with what you know no
amount of charts no amount of um female
dating coaches telling you to like read
her body language and connect through
electricity and crystals or whatever
none of them can help you only you hell
I can't even help you right and that's
the beauty of it and that's the beauty
of being a man is that you have agency
enough to where you can go out and you
can get punched and bruised and all that
stuff you know what the best part of all
this is you start
realizing I ain't that I ain't that
important and that's okay right and a
lot of guys have trouble because they
they got taught their whole lives they
were like super important you know
Millennials have a Messianic complex
where we think we thought that our
generation was going to be the one to
fix it all right um that we were going
to go down um in history as being the
general that fixed global warming and
fixed all society's problems but in
reality everything before us was already
well o and running things were happening
planes were flying you know buildings
were going up um all these things right
and we thought hey we got to improve
everything and we realized like we we
couldn't improve much right you know
maybe Mark zugerberg made social media
improved a lot of things um and and Elon
Musk those are like seven people that
you know that made that really changed
things in reality we have to integrate
ourselves into what is reality and a lot
of Millennials have trouble with that
you know and and the way we kind of
circumvent that or or or that blow from
realizing that we really aren't that
special or important is through social
media right so people create Brands and
stuff based on feelings emotion and what
should be rather than what is right and
those people aren't in the arena because
they refuse to be in the arena they're
like hey
um I don't want to date I want to become
a black pill black pill Doomer because
women are too too hard right and I'm
just like dude you know you know you
have testosterone right um you know that
until you're like 80 you're going to
look at a nice ass or nice pair of boobs
or a cute smile and it's gonna you're
gonna It's Gonna Make You aroused right
you know that right like it's not going
away unless you chemically alter
yourself would probably destroy your
mind too you're G to be attracted to
women until you die right so you need to
you need to think about that um and
that's reality that's not like me trying
to you know that's reality that's the
real thing number two you giving up you
know like no one cares no one cares that
you gave up and you removed yourself
from the from the market from the arena
no one cares right you can die a virgin
or you can die not having sex for 20
years no one will know and you know what
the beauty beautiful part of this is if
you go out and you get rejected by three
girls today no one knows right I go to
salsa night and I know the DJ I know the
DJ's friends hell I know the DJ's
girlfriend I know all the bartenders
right um hell they gave me free drinks
all the time right
um I know the regulars I know the girls
that come sometimes right um and in that
mess of salson night I asked a chubby
small little girl hey you want to dance
you know I do in my smooth kind of like
Rome Romeo way you know um and they're
like no I'm good right and then they
dance with everyone
else I am the same man the next day I am
not different I am like my salary is the
same the my contributions to society and
my company are the same my brand is the
same Tadashi is the same my piano skills
are the same you my follower count is
the same no one cares guys no one no one
no one at Salsa night cared right um and
this happens to me from time to time you
know
um and when once you realize that it it
just changes the game right because in
reality in real life outside of outside
of social media no one really cares that
you got rejected by a girl don't take it
so personal it's okay there's so many
other women on earth you're not the
entitlement that you get for women it
goes away completely right you start
realizing that it's not personal right
every every guy that whiz and dates
right he's always had has he's had this
experience right he goes
out approaches a five out of 10 six out
of 10 or goes on a date with a girl
that's like not that good-looking and
the girl is just disgusted by him or
just like not feeling it right and then
next week or two weeks later he goes out
with a gorgeous gal the G so into them
and they hit it off right and maybe hook
up at the end of the night or whatever
and the guy like that's a transformative
experience for a guy it's almost like an
inflection point in terms of your
journey with women because you start
realizing like
it's not you I write and I and I I
hammer this a lot because guys I've been
rejected
by ugly women like I went to a club a
couple months ago and they started
playing Bachata right and I was in a
suit I was looking good you know new
haircut in a suit um and I asked this
girl this little girl you know because I
like to dance with everyone I don't care
how they look I just want to dance with
everyone um hey would you like to dance
and she looked at me with disgust like
like she literally almost like that
right literally one of the ugliest woman
I've ever talked to right
um and I was like well that sucks you
know whatever and then you know the
other day I you know I danced with a
moven hairdresser one of the most
beautiful women you know and we we've
gone on a couple dates and all that
stuff and she's great you know
um but that's how it is guys and it's
not personal it's not anything against
you you're not that special right this
narcissism you know it's like you need
to get punched in the face by life a
couple times to have that ego death or
get that narcissism out of your fa you
know because that's what incels black
pel doomers
radfem um all these people they still
have one thing all in common they have
huge egos right they don't understand
that they think that life happened to
them and that they just got a bad deal
and you know it's like dude you're not
that important you're just not that
important no matter how much you think
you are you're not you're going to get
hurt it's just part of life it sucks but
you you eventually the more you run away
from the arena you know the more weird
things you're going to start coming up
with in your head because you need to
get punched from time to time um in life
and dating in order to kind of like
ground you and be like oh this is what
it really is right um you can say a lot
of things and you can take those stats
that the scientists and the researchers
say and you can take the the post from
you know people that having trouble
whether it be male or female um you
could take them to heart right we
realize those people aren't in the arena
they they pretend like they are you know
Insel will say oh I tried and I didn't
get it and the r films will will say you
know I tried to get I tried to date men
but they're just so bad I'm like really
you know because to me there's you know
most women and most men are decent
people if you separate women's mating
choices and the way they treat men with
their regular
personality they're not that bad problem
is that we want to have sex with them
right so we got to be very careful in
the way we go about it because women are
designed to destroy you and if they can
destroy you give you a [ __ ] that's
literally what it is you know um you
have to be careful out there right and
the only way you learn is by you know
getting beat up and and the lessons
become more real right like how many
guys have you gone out with the date
with the girl who made you wait and
you're just like oh she's a good girl CU
she made me wait and then you're just
like wait she's giving it up really fast
for everyone else but me I don't want to
be the last guy to have you know I don't
want to be the safe option or or or the
beta in waiting no guy wants to be that
it's a Horror Story um you know you
don't want to be Forest Gump basically
um so you know we came up with something
like hey one two three date rule right
she she doesn't want to be with you by
the third date you know realize that
she's giving it to guys much faster
that's not that doesn't mean she's a bad
person it just means she's just not
attracted to you and a lot of women will
not cut it off you know when they're not
attracted they'll just keep going and
going and going because the free
attention is just so tantalizing and
it's just biologically they need that
attention because it means they have men
paid attention to them which means a
higher chance for surviv simple as that
um so we come up with these mental and
protocols and reactor plant manual like
kind of like ways of thinking because
we're trying to protect you a little bit
better from the fight you know you're
gonna have to fight anyway you're gonna
get punched right you don't go into a
UFC fight or a boxing match and expect
to get zero hits you're gonna get hit
but how about you know you learn about
footwork how about you learn went to jab
and went to Hay maker you know how about
you learn um when to back off when to
dodge how about you learn when to attack
you know all those things will help you
but you have to be the one to throw the
punch and make that decision right no
one can do it for you again you have to
be the man in the arena um everyone is
going to try to tell you how to go about
this
and if you don't if you're not careful
if you
constantly
um are searching for a guru someone to
tell you how to live your life you know
realize that they're not in the in the
corner with you they're in the stance
right they're in the
stance you know they get a kick off
telling someone to do something and then
they don't get any repercussion because
you did it they actually laugh at you
right and there's guys that are in your
corner simply and you know what I'm not
in your corner guys I am not in your
corner you know who's in your corner
your friends your family the people that
care about you right the people that
said hey you're doing you're doing all
right I I accept what you're doing if
you need anything those are the people
in your quarter right um I simply am
just hey this is what worked for me in
the fight right
um and you could use it or you cannot it
may work for you may not but it's worked
for me and that's what the red pill is
simpl is that it's not save the West
right um and these mental models are
Written in Blood right they're not like
we didn't get together and just like
decide hey women suck let's just let's
just write about it all day no it it it
it's about we want what's best for men
and a lot of times 99% of the time
what's best for men is what's best for
women feminism doesn't see it that way
feminism is like no we want what's best
for us because what's best for men is
going to hurt us and it's actually the
opposite right but they don't see it
that way and they'll never and they
never will feminism is here to stay um
there's no pendulum unless there's a
great War where half of us die and women
are forced to like really share us and
uh and all that but when it comes down
to it
um there's a beauty in you being out
going out there and testing this stuff
in real time you know there's a beauty
in that um you finally get to this phase
in your life where you're not happy when
women Le lead unhappy lives because of
their bad decisions there's a beauty in
that and that's something that no one
can take away from you right um You can
see all the red meat podcast you want
you could see all the kickouts you could
see all the anger that the genders have
right you know the most elite mindset is
looking at the opposite gender and
appreciating them for what they are
right I can tell you right now one of
the reasons besides the hot women that
men like going to like Latin America is
because the women there understand you
right I've always said this when I was
growing up in Puerto Rico um and looking
how my my Dominican mom treated my dad
uh there was always one thing that I saw
that most Latin women from those
countries kind of like understood it's
like how you are as a man right they
understand that we're always horny they
understand that we get jealous they
understand
um what we are and it takes so much
effort and energy out of dating because
you come with more
authenticity right you can be you can be
a man and it's and it feels great
because they understand you don't have
to explain to women and that's the
problem with like guys that come out of
like from other countries here
especially Latin America and they just
feel like women are just out in outer
space in terms of like their like
they're not like do you you understand
what a man is like how we are right like
for example some big thing here we have
in the United States is that um women
get really jealous or really mad when we
like other women's pictures on social
media right now um or follow other women
right
now do I recommend that no it's kind of
corny don't do that you know um that
it's shows it's a demonstration of lower
value as a man
however in Latin
America the fights were never about that
with my friends girlfriends they were
never about oh you followed the girl and
you liked her some model or whatever
what like the guys would
have excuse me the guys would have
calendars of like really hot chicks or
newspaper cutouts of really hot chicks
in their dorm and they would have
girlfriends and the girls didn't care
you're like yeah guys like guys like
pictures of boobs and SS that's just
what they are here it's like there's a
whole movement about a calendar because
the calendar had hot chicks on it I'm
like that's okay if it's against your
religion of course but um how many of
our grandfathers had calendars with like
hot models or hot Playboy models or
something
um
in our in their garages you
know a lot of them did who cares you
know and that's the thing like it's hard
to explain that to women here that's
difficult right I know I'm getting on a
tangent but that was that was the hard
part for me coming from Latin America
how I had this really conventional
masculinity about myself and I had a lot
of expectations but I knew my
expectations and then when I went out to
date I realized that women here are very
there's like an anxiety
you know there's like a everything we do
they have to track and have to be
completely knowledgeable you know they
make up little theories about how we are
and we you know it's like there's this
disconnect they don't they don't want to
put in the effort to understand us right
where as in Latin America it's just like
yeah men like
boobs moving on he's not g to leave me
he loves me I know he just he can have
his calendar I don't
care you know um you know I've seen I've
seen it with old married couples in
Latin America where the dad the mom
found pornography on his
phone and it was like oh yeah cool yeah
sure he likes he likes that stuff
whatever and then they moved on like
nothing
happened why do why do you think those
marriages last so long like it's because
simply things that didn't matter didn't
matter you know like it
it
I have to explain to women I date
sometime let's
say like I'll take a like a girl that I
really like let's say I take her out on
a date and I take her out to dinner or
something and I put in the effort I
dress nice I plan the date I do all
these things we we take a trolley ride
before um the date and all that stuff
when we go around Dallas or something
like I a nice date something fit for a
girl a loyal girlfriend but you know I
decided one day hey I just want to go
out and have a nice time and then week
later they're just like oh I feel like
you don't do this or don't do that I'm
like Hey we're we're not you haven't
asked me to be your boyfriend yet and
number two like you know like I just
took you out on a date you know and all
that like a couple days ago I'm busy you
know I have a job and I have other
responsibilities you know
like it's like they don't understand men
and they don't want to see the big
picture it's always like you know and I
guess that's just like Tik Tok brain or
you know but anyway I digress I
digress U man in the arena back to man
in the arena um essentially where where
were we so the black field doomers the
the data researchers whatever the data
dorks whatever
um the the the ego invested gurus that
are like hey be like me it work for me
all that um they're all not the man in
the arena
they
they're not you they're not feeling the
punches and the kicks there's a beauty
to learning this stuff on your own and
then having the red pill prology confirm
it right and that's what it was for me
like I read the ration M
2014 it's coming up
on in three months it'll be my 10 year
anniversary of being becoming red pilled
right um and I was like wow this stuff's
interesting and then I started dating a
girl that was kind of crazy she might
have been BPD um
man did that help so much I I kned out
of there really fast and you know maybe
that I wouldn't have been here um if it
wasn't
for uh for maybe his books i' probably
be somewhere else you know married to a
crazy chick or doing something crazy
right it really has changed the course
of humanity um but I had to do the work
it was me you know I had to go out there
and date and and do the things that I
need to do and eventually you know it
got to a point where like I really like
to date and I really like women um and I
kind of did it too much right I spent
the last three year 2021 and
2022 and part of 2023 I just pedal to
the metal like I think I got a little
addicted to dating or dating apps um but
I learned a lot and I made a lot of
mistakes and I had a lot of lessons
there's still stuff I struggle with
there's still stuff and there's stuff
that I've really accept that seems like
no one else can accept right um and
there's stuff in the future that I'll
have to accept and it won't be easy
but that's just life you know
um is it fair not always you know
like every generation has their thing
they have to deal
with uh and I think that a lot of people
want time machines and we don't have
that oh if if it was the 80s if it was
the 70s if it was the 90s life would be
so much better would
it I'm living a very comfortable life
you know I'm you know look at my setup
I'm tweeting during work hours so my job
isn't that stressful you know I have the
time to have a little
puppy I have the time to to do this and
stream to you guys and I'm meeting great
people all every almost every day I meet
someone cool new you know um I have the
technology and the knowledge to get fit
and shape um I have the Library of
Alexandria in my
pocket you know so if ever I need to
know anything I just find it right the
only thing now is that hey girls are a
little harder to deal with or to get
and is it their fault it depends how you
look at it you know we got handed
Godlike powers and people don't know
what to do you know that's why there's
so many dating podcasts and red pill
stuff is because people are trying to
figure out what to do with this Godlike
power that we handed you know
um just stop blaming yourself go out
there and fight you
know get hit get punched no one cares
right it's like buying a cheesecake go
to go to your local Kroger Supermarket
go buy a cheesecake everyone's going to
be like oh cool he's buying a cheesecake
he must have like a like a party or or a
get together a work or a work thing you
know in reality you're gonna eat that
cheesecake all by yourself but no one
cares they just all assume that you're
gonna use it for a gathering or
something and you go to the checkout
they're going to be like oh well enjoy
your party sir and you're like yeah you
know and you go home and you eat the
whole cheesecake maybe you get sick
maybe you throw up the next day or you
have the runs or whatever but really no
one found out no one cared right you can
look at that as hey no one cares about
me as a man I'm sad or you can look at
that like well no one really cares [ __ ]
I'm gonna go to Sal tonight [ __ ] I'm
gonna go talk to girls at the coffee
shop [ __ ] I'm gonna go you know unless
what you unless you're you know you're
being absolutely stupid and like waving
a flag like hey look at me look what I'm
doing people don't care that you're
taking lumps and you're fighting and
that's that's the beautiful thing about
being a guy like we don't need that
attention so um you know go to the gym
and you'll see that someone lifts wrong
and hurts themselves or like you have to
spot emergency spot them because they
put too much weight what do you think of
that guy oh as long as he's okay I'm
okay like be careful dude next time and
then you forget he existed that's how
fast people forget so don't worry about
it no one is you're not less of a human
being because you failed with a chick
right you're only less of a human being
if if you're telling other people to be
scared of failure or to do things their
way because your way is somehow the best
you know that's not what we're here for
so yeah you guys got any questions for
me I've been ranting and talking so
long H man I gotta learn how to shut up
sometimes
uh oh yeah Baron it's not the NFL you
can't retire from sex yeah like guys I
tell you like when I was 16 I liked
girls when I was 25 I liked girls and
even today stressed out my just saone
was probably crash today because I'm
stressed and I didn't get good
sleep you
know a a pretty girl was send me a
picture of her playing sports or
something and I'm just like
yep yep I like that you know it doesn't
go away you can't retire from your sex
drive and you have to understand that's
it that's the cross you bear dude as as
a guy that's it you know you can't
ignore it right no you can masturbate
four times a day and you still go
outside and you'll still see a pretty
girl you be like damn I would like to
have sex with her my my dig is probably
not working right now but I would like
to have sex with her and that's just the
way of being a man that's and and being
a man is awesome you know it's it's just
constant W's if if you're smart you
know uh yeah do not hate women because
they're not like us they aren't like us
guys and that's okay would you want
girls to be like you know no you know I
mean it's nice you know playing Mario
Kart with a girl because she likes video
games or having the same humor sometimes
but like for the most part you know I
kind of want my girl to be you know
complimentary to me you
know H let's
see yeah there's no going back you know
it's just the way it is there's no
pendulum we're just things are going to
keep going in the future booty scratch
says no one cares enough about you for
their judgment to be a consequence worth
giving a [ __ ] about you're going to eat
[ __ ] for a while it's just part of the
process of improving yeah you know
you're not that important and that was
my biggest thing when I joined the
military I thought it was smart n not
really there were people that could read
a page and like had photographic memory
and I was like how the hell did they do
that and I struggled all the way through
and then I became a good operator
because I was just like [ __ ] it I'm just
I I stopped caring like I
just I'm just going to do the thing and
shut up you know um with women I thought
I was some super Chad and you
know um and then I got and I got
rejected by ugly women constantly for a
while and I was like oh [ __ ] I'm not you
know I'm kind of a not good with women
as I thought I've always had some kind
of female attention but it's just like I
thought I was good right
um and you know with piano same thing
any skill anything where you get shown
that what your real skill level is
The Only Way Forward is to stop caring
what other people think and get to work
that's it people are going to always
there always going to be people in the
stands like the speech says that will um
criticize you and you just gotta like
kind of deal with it what are you gonna
do
right you're cooking right now yes I
am we yeah one question how did you
reach the stage of acceptance instead of
red pill raging well I did Red I did Red
Pill rage
acceptance
two things helped me I met a really good
girl
um and I got tired of being mad it was
just it was just too much I couldn't
deal it deal with it anymore right it
was just like eating me it was eating me
it was burn like I it was like burning
me alive and I couldn't function anymore
uh without seeing you know because women
are 50% of the population and I also
felt like I was wasting my time you know
so you
know
all this time during my red P rage phase
I was lifting weights I was getting
qualified in the military becoming a
better version I was a qualified reactor
operator you
know making more
money did the things that I
wanted
and it kind of the red foot rage kind of
slowly dissipated and then I met a good
girl and though things didn't work out
it was just like she showed me the good
parts of women again you know like
sending me packages when I was overseas
um sending me
letters you know just kind of like she
wasn't like the reason I but it was just
like oh there are good women and and
women are you
know not that they're good or bad it's
just like she's decided to show me the
best parts of herself right we call that
genuine desire when a woman goes out of
her way to ensure that there's no doubt
in your mind that she wants she wants
you to be the only guy that she's
talking to so
um that those two things really helped
me self-improvement and meeting and
being around people that really were
good that made you feel good you know
when I first met her I remember when I
first met her it was in Puerto Rico I
remember the exact place the exact
Airbnb because we had been texting
emailing and and she was sending me
packages for like three months and then
we finally met I went to Puerto Rico we
met and I was terrified I'm like there
she is she wasn't a catfish thank god um
she was kind of hot um you know and we
talked and all that stuff and I'm like
wow this this is she's hot but like
she's really cool you know like she's a
cool person she gets along with my
friends obviously she met my uh she met
I was the last person of that friend
group right to come into that friend
group and you know it was it just felt
like oh you know she's not trying to
ruin my life she's just a normal person
she likes
me and I kind of like slowly yanked me
out you know and it's it's a gradual
process and I glad I had my reped rage
face I I really did because it was the
only way out you don't just click and be
like oh that's how women are I no idea
all right cool new way of thinking no it
it burned me it burned me but I turned
that energy into something positive
which was the gym work and simply you
know giving women a chance right giving
good women a chance you know because you
know there's a there's a
quote from a song by uh Jula Venegas and
Bad Bunny um and the song is called loo
which transits to I'm sorry baby
basically it's a song about a girl who
you know seeings hey you got burned and
I want to see you this is nothing I just
want you to let you know you have to
open your heart up to the world right
that's what the song is about it um and
I think the
opening um or one of the one of the
lines that she sings is
Noto which translates to Don't Close
Your Heart to this world right and
that's what I was doing throughout my
whole child you know I got I got
emotionally abused as a kid right so I
had a lot of issues with opening up to
people then I joined the military and I
got really beat down and I went through
a lot of stuff you know I had to really
kind of like really dig deep and be like
it's not personal you know people do
hurt people hurt people and all that so
when I finally met she was one of the
first people in my life that I met that
like was a good was in good faith um
that I trusted and it wasn't that she
did anything amazing she was just a good
she was just fun to be around just
positive you know um
and she left me for that guy like I was
telling you and I was totally fine with
that because she gave me something that
I don't think a lot of women could give
you and that's just um a positive
outlook on women a good representative
of the opposite gender and I think most
men need that once in a while because if
not you'll just go deeper and deeper
into your rage face you know you need to
meet women that are good and that like
aren't trying like are just good people
overall regardless of it's a man or
woman employer employee whatever good um
it will then pull you out of your rage
phase slowly a as well as
self-improvement and just reading the
stuff that you know kind of like gives
you perspective and all that so yeah
that that's my that's basically my story
I really appreciate her and if I ever
have the
the what do you call it the confidence
because I don't want I want to leave her
alone she's already living her own life
but to to tell her hey thanks you know
you really showed me what it you know
you really helped me with that phase of
my life you know um but I don't know I
think she's happy in her own life so I
probably won't tell her but yeah
basically that thanks for the
question I think King had how did you
reach to say acceptance instead of red
pillar raging um yeah I think that was
already asked um King have to throw
yourself into the arena Muse Mastery
will come have to get out of your own
head unless it's yeah it's just martial
arts my friend boxing martial arts
you're gonna get hit a lot and then you
become a master and nothing FES you
right you're gonna start out as Po from
Kung Fu Panda and you're gonna end up as
ugay right you're just gonna like a lot
of times you know how when you remember
guys come Fu Panda where you see where
ug was just speaking weird stuff you're
like what the hell does that mean like
what are you talking about like like
what is this metaphor that use master
ugay that makes no sense and then as you
watch the movie you're just like oh ugay
was right all along Master ugay knew it
knew what he was talking about right and
that's what kind of like it is for
everything in life like I was po I was
confused I thought you know I wanted to
become a womanizer I wanted to have a
girlfriend I wanted to be this handsome
Chad that you know had the perfect
girlfriend and the hot and the family
and all that and then I got my ass beat
constantly and then all the stuff that
ug was saying made zero sense I'm like
like U hypergamy what what do you mean
I'm good enough like I'm I exist
shouldn't I get a girl or assume doing
obsess not every girl is a [ __ ] just
because she makes me wait for sex
doesn't mean she's a [ __ ] you know
whatever and then I like kind of took my
lumps and I fought uh was it Lao the the
big lion the big uh tiger the evil tiger
and then I came to this conclusion I'm
just like
oh master ugay was right all along you
know this when he pulls out the scroll
and you know the to become the Dragon
Warrior and that's what you ultimately
want to become you want to become the
Dragon Warrior um not by just opening a
scroll right you want to take the lumps
all the way up so when you finally get
to the scroll you and you realize like
oh it was me all along that was supposed
to be the the guy to make myself the
Dragon Warrior not um not some kind of
special scroll or some anation right and
that's the problem with a lot of these
uh uh a lot of these content where
they're trying to sell you a magic pill
right they're TR they're trying to send
you uh sell you like if you do this life
will be easier right yeah of course I
can give you guys a line you know I I
can give you guys U Logistics you know
like if you guys go on my patreon talk
about that stuff but
um you you have to like kind of look at
the red pill as not your personality not
an ideology none of that stuff it's
simply the sword right and you have to
wield the sword that's
all um
yeah yeah small wins help you pull you
help pull you out of out of Rage yeah
like you'll hit 405 deadlift you'll hit
2225 225 bench you'll get a raise you'll
get a promotion at work these little I
mean they're big in a way but they're
also little over here the course of your
life and you're St you slow you slowly
start realizing like I got to put in the
work this is what life's about I don't
just get a girlfriend because I exist
where I don't just get a promotion
because I exist you start it starts
bleeding over and you start becoming
more a complete man um yeah thank you uh
RP Matthew on red pill rage ego is heavy
true confidence is
power yeah your ego is what kills you
right um ego is ultimately what's going
to slow you down and the only way to get
your um ego kind of like in check is to
get checked in the arena right it's like
Mike Tyson says everyone has a plan
until they get punched in the face right
everyone all these people like have all
these lines and have all this data like
data blah blah and then you go out into
the field
and you know they get rejected by one
girl and all of a sudden black pill
incel like women suck and it's the end
of society and societ is going to fall
like maybe it is maybe it is the end of
society maybe in 10 years we you know we
you know we'll be in the Stone Age Again
who knows but
but
um why think like that already why not
enjoy the couple years you have until
the end of the world right you're not
going to reverse this you know
so uh the struggle helps you appreciate
the wins that much more yeah and you're
going to miss the struggle right look
how comfortable I am sometimes I miss
like having to fight for every single
girl in my life now when I say fight I
mean like you know kind of like really
care that really plann dates and not
sometimes I miss how much I cared before
now it's just like
H whatever you know she says yes she
says yes she she says no she says no but
um you're going to miss those days you
struggled because there's again there's
a beauty in being the arena right um and
it and it sucks that
a lot of guys don't want to be in the
arena right because they're her because
they're
egos you have to get in there guys you
have to like you're missing out on on
one of the best parts of
life so
um keep trying you know it's it's going
to be
okay RP Matthews with the 499 Super Chat
here you go sir you get one of
these
thank you so much
best all right RP Matthew
says uh thorough insight as usual nuke
thumbs up thanks man I appreciate your
support um yeah it I care I care about
the stuff I really went through it guys
for this stuff to learn my I learned my
lessons hard way I had a lot of ego to
deal with a lot of lessons in all stages
of my life my ego was the one killing it
so um you can have an ego about things
right but you can't you got to realize
like you're not that important you know
just like you're not that important and
that's that's a beauty there's a beauty
in that a lot of people are terrified of
that they won't do anything to make
themselves important but they don't want
to find out that they're not and that's
okay I don't have to be important I just
want to be do the things I want to do on
my terms be my own mental point of
origin and move forward and live life
but yeah
um don't get mad
apparently so guys I don't know if you
guys saw like it I apparently was on uh
D syes little survey um for uh like
who's the most attractive red pill
content creator and I feel kind of you
know speaking of ego I feel kind of like
I don't belong there but I guess I am um
you know Andrew Tay was on there sneo I
think uh coach Greg Adams was on there
Rolo was on there Ryan was was on there
who
else man I forgot but yeah I was I made
the list guys I feel like I I just got
on a Sports Illustrated for red pill you
know so apparently there's people out
there rating my attractiveness on my
videos so that's very interesting um I
don't know what to say about
that um
but that's again that's just people
being weird and um missing the point how
does that help anyone right it was the
most caddy thing I've ever seen
and go ahead and go
to uh I forgot the name of the podcast
but my friend Kyle who I did a show with
the other day he's interviewing them
right now so if you guys want to go see
that hey I won't be offended I'm
probably gonna go pop in that chat and
mess with them too because you know
that's what do you want me to do man you
made you made a survey a whole ass
survey you found a a video and it wasn't
like a video video that I made recently
like you dug through my stuff and you
found a video of me it was about like do
girls like gifts right
um and I just see I'm like why did I
make like someone told me hey you know
you're on the list right I'm like what
and then I I saw I'm just like the
questions were so weird like uh do you
are you familiar with this guy's content
uh what would you rate their
attractiveness on a scale of one through
S I was
like this is the creepiest thing
someone's ever done for me
like to me this is like I'm afraid I I
guess like why would you do that like
that's the craziest thing and I think
Rolo is winning or won I don't know how
if they there's results out or all that
stuff but like
wow I was kind
of shocked at that but guys it's all
bread and circuses people need you know
realize that great cool bread and
circuses anyway let's talk about how we
can get you guys laid and happy and
married and and and all that stuff but
and all that but uh yeah it's very weird
um oh we got another Super
Chat Spencer says wait I mean you get
one of these sir what am I a thank you
here
you thank you so much
best Spencer says for the
499 uh Super Chat going up by chat the
Saturday night with a chick but the only
issue is I can't dance never done but CH
how do you suggest I not embarrass
myself uh so first of all who
cares I would never suggest dance night
as a first date if you're not a dancer
or at least familiar but that's okay
let's say okay you already made a
decision um if she knows how to dance
you simply hey I'm your student tonight
you got to teach me right if she sees
that you're improving and that you're
having a good time and you're not taking
it personal
then that's all you need man you know
she'll she'll be more than happy um I
dance with girls that are better dancers
than me and I I just tell them hey can
you help me can you help me practice and
they're like more than happy to right r
v you guys remember r v you know what
his pickup line was for the gym it was
go up to when you're like next to a girl
and you want to hit on a girl simply ask
her hey is my form good how do I use
this machine stuff like ask her
questions the the walls drop instantly
hell I I told the story I think
yesterday or on Tuesday about um how I
used that opener on a girl at the gym
and she turned out to be a porn star
guys like a mainstream one and I simply
said hey is is this is this my what
level should my elbows be and it and her
guard dropped and she was teaching me
that you know I was got a little flirty
and all that stuff and I didn't ask for
number sorry guys that was like 2021
that was a long time ago that was in my
my whole phase um but um that's the
that's you getting over your ego at work
instead of coming up to a girl and be
like you know I have to be dominant and
everything and all that you kind of like
give her concede to her that hey you are
better than me at Bachata or you are
better lifter than me it may or not may
or may not be true and you just simply
say hey can you teach me or am I doing
this right and they'll be more than
happy right it's okay it's not a big
deal it's not a big hit on your ego so
next time though for a first date drinks
coffee something simple uh but is a
little you know I don't know what your
full situation is but uh yeah thanks for
the question great
question
um Spencer you have to do this whole
talk was about not getting into the
agenda uh the arena yeah dude you're in
the arena now like let have if if the
date doesn't go anywhere she's grossed
out that you don't know about chat great
now you know that you have to learn
about Chata if you like girls that dance
take take it in bro welcome welcome to
failure I fail just like you so it's not
a big
deal but yeah thanks for the questions
guys great um is there anything else
before I
go any other questions or comments or
anything before I
go this whole time I've been staring at
this bottle of apple cider um so thirsty
but I was ranting so
much
you know guys it's been a year since or
10 years since I started lifting as well
I started lifting
in um January of 20 or
2014 start lifting weights so I guess
I'll do maybe my next show will be on
Fitness and Lessons Learned From that um
but yeah
interesting interesting 10 years LIF I'm
not even that big I'm like I'm like okay
like I I look big and close sometimes
but uh yeah anyways guys guys uh thanks
for
um thanks for watching me um I
appreciate it I got a little passionate
you know I'm very these this speech is
very close to my heart because it it
really is the epitome of what I bring to
you guys in terms of content right
everyone has their own little theories
everyone has their own little stats and
stuff which is important but uh the most
important person is the man in the arena
the guy who goes out there gets beat the
hell up by the dating Market comes back
and says hey guys this is what I learned
you know that's the most valuable data
you'll ever ever get is someone who's
gone out there doesn't matter the field
could be work it could be any other
field
um they're the ones that going to know
what it is what reality is boots on the
ground you know and you got to listen to
them but most importantly guys you have
to listen to
yourself and with that that I leave
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