7 Things You Should Always Keep Private (Become a real Man)
Summary
TLDRThe video script discusses the importance of maintaining an air of mystery and power by not revealing personal information, such as romantic interests, opinions, vices, goals, body count, work ethic, and strengths. It draws on 'The 48 Laws of Power' by Robert Greene, emphasizing the need to protect one's reputation, conceal intentions, and create a sense of need and dependency in others, rather than being liked.
Takeaways
- 😎 Speak less to appear more powerful and intimidating, as advised in 'The 48 Laws of Power'.
- 💔 Never reveal your romantic interest to others to avoid potential competition and betrayal among friends.
- 🤫 Keep your opinions to yourself to avoid appearing weak or seeking validation; let your actions speak louder.
- 🚫 Do not disclose your vices or addictions, as it can harm your reputation and make you seem out of control.
- 🎯 Avoid sharing your goals with others to maintain motivation and prevent premature satisfaction from merely stating them.
- 💬 Refrain from discussing your 'body count' to maintain an air of mystery and avoid appearing desperate or insecure.
- 🏆 Do not boast about your hard work; make your achievements seem effortless to appear naturally talented and powerful.
- 🤐 Do not reveal your strengths to others; keep them hidden to maintain a position of dependency and indispensability.
- 🔒 Guard your reputation zealously, as it is crucial to how others perceive and respect you.
- 🤷♂️ Use vagueness and mystery to your advantage, as it can elevate your status and make you seem more competent.
- 💪 Develop strategies to overcome vices and weaknesses silently, demonstrating self-control and strength.
Q & A
What is the main premise of the book 'The 48 Laws of Power' as discussed in the transcript?
-The main premise discussed is that being less revealing about one's personal life and strategies can make a person appear more powerful and intimidating, as per the principles outlined in the book.
Why should one not reveal their romantic interest to friends according to the transcript?
-Revealing your romantic interest can lead to friends undermining you to pursue the same person due to competitiveness and the desire for what others find attractive.
What is the advice given in the transcript about sharing personal opinions?
-The advice is to avoid sharing personal opinions too readily, as it can make one appear weak or all talk and no action, according to law number nine in 'The 48 Laws of Power'.
How does the transcript suggest dealing with addictions or vices?
-The transcript suggests dealing with addictions in silence and finding alternatives to replace the habit, like using a flavored air device to replace smoking.
Why is it recommended not to share your goals with others according to the transcript?
-Sharing goals can reduce personal motivation to achieve them, as it can create a false sense of completion and make one a target for negative influences.
What is the suggested approach to handling one's body count, as per the transcript?
-The transcript suggests not disclosing one's body count, as it can either make a person appear desperate for validation or create an exaggerated perception of them.
Why should one not disclose how hard they work according to the transcript?
-To make accomplishments seem effortless and to avoid appearing as if success is hard-earned or a result of overworking, which can undermine the perception of natural talent or skill.
What is the strategy for dealing with others' inquiries about one's strengths, as suggested in the transcript?
-The strategy is to keep one's strengths a secret, making others dependent on you and not letting them know the full extent of your capabilities.
How does the transcript relate the concept of 'need' to power dynamics?
-The transcript suggests that making others need you is more effective than making them like you, as need creates a stronger dependency and ensures your value in any relationship or work situation.
What is the overall goal of keeping certain information to oneself, as discussed in the transcript?
-The overall goal is to enhance one's image and power by creating an aura of strength, competence, and mystery, which can lead to greater respect and influence.
Outlines
🤫 The Power of Silence in Relationships
This paragraph discusses the importance of discretion in personal relationships, particularly when it comes to sharing one's romantic interests. It advises against revealing one's crush to friends, as this can lead to manipulation and potential loss of the desired romantic partner. The script references Robert Green's 'The 48 Laws of Power,' emphasizing the value of secrecy and the potential pitfalls of oversharing. It also suggests a strategy to test friendships by feigning interest in someone else, thereby identifying true allies. The paragraph concludes with a caution against discussing one's opinions openly, as this can undermine one's perceived strength and desirability.
💪 Concealing Weaknesses and Building Reputation
The second paragraph delves into the concept of maintaining a strong image by hiding one's vices and weaknesses. It draws on the idea that revealing such vulnerabilities can damage one's reputation, as outlined in 'The 48 Laws of Power.' The speaker suggests strategies for overcoming addictions, such as using alternatives like flavored air devices to replace harmful habits. The paragraph also touches on the importance of dealing with personal issues privately to cultivate an image of control and strength. It further advises against sharing one's goals prematurely, as this can diminish motivation and lead to a false sense of achievement. The speaker also promotes a product, 'fume,' as a tool to help overcome addictions, offering a discount for viewers.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡48 Laws of Power
💡Intimidating
💡Manipulation
💡Reputation
💡Vices
💡Goals
💡Body Count
💡Hard Work
💡Strengths
💡Need
💡Mystery
Highlights
The 48 Laws of Power advises saying less to appear more intimidating and powerful.
Don't reveal your feelings for a girl to avoid friends undermining you.
Men are competitive and may pursue the girl you like if you tell them about her.
Tell others you like a different girl to test their loyalty and avoid conflict.
Avoid sharing your opinions to prevent appearing weak or seeking validation.
Actions speak louder than words; let your success demonstrate your abilities.
Keep your vices and addictions private to maintain a strong reputation.
Replace bad habits with healthier alternatives like using a fume device.
Deal with addictions in silence to appear in control and gain respect.
Don't reveal your goals to others to maintain motivation and avoid negative influences.
Concealing your ambitions can make you appear more mysterious and competent.
Don't disclose your body count to avoid appearing desperate or overcompensating.
Vagueness about personal matters can create a cult-like following and respect.
Maintain an air of mystery to make others perceive you as more confident and capable.
Avoid discussing how hard you work to make accomplishments seem natural and effortless.
Make others need you rather than just like you for long-term influence and power.
Don't reveal your strengths to keep people dependent on you and maintain control.
Keeping certain things to yourself can help you win at everything you do.
Transcripts
in the book The 48 Laws of Power it
states that the less you say the more
intimidating and Powerful you become
always say less than necessary this for
men becomes powerful so today I want to
show you seven things you should never
tell anyone first the girl you like you
should never tell anyone about the girl
you like and I know what you're thinking
well you want to share everything with
your friend but this way of thinking can
lead them to stealing the girl that you
love let me explain in Robert Green's
book law two states you should never put
too much trust in friends and instead
learn how to use enemy the key here is
that your friends as much as you think
that they have your back will undermine
you if it benefits them and this is
especially true when it comes to women
as men are easy to manipulate for two
reasons one they want a girl that other
men find attractive and two they are
competitive so when you tell them who
you like you're making that girl more
desirable which will make them want her
as well and because human nature makes
us want what we can't have that desire
we're burn inside of them and want that
girl even more which will result in them
undermining you and getting the girl
that you like so what I suggest is never
tell anyone who you like and instead
tell them you like some other girl that
way if they go after her it won't matter
and it's also going to benefit you
because now you'll know who your true
friends are number two never tell anyone
your opinion you see most men are so
hungry for validation that they're eager
to blurt out their opinions but this
will work against you because just as
outlined in law number number nine you
should instead win through your actions
and never through argument just take a
minute to think about it how many times
have you heard of a friend talking about
how he's so good at getting girls only
to find out that he never gets any
attention from them you probably will
think less of him because he's all talk
and no show now I want you to compare
that to another man who you know gets a
lot of girls but he never talks about it
you'll probably have a lot of respect
for him the key here is that you should
not talk about something you don't have
a lot of success in or any experience
with it'll make you appear weak so
instead of telling people your opinions
left and right show people What You're
Made Of through your actions so up until
now you're going to stop telling people
who you like and you're going to stop
telling people your opinion
automatically you're going to feel more
in control and you're already starting
to see that you're going to look like a
much stronger man but all of that can be
destroyed and go away if you tell
somebody this next thing number three
never let anyone know that you're
addicted to something your vices their
negative behaviors that you used to
relax in law number five states so much
depends on reputation so you should
guard it with your life for some it's
drinking or playing video games so
instead of telling people your vices I'm
going to show you how to eliminate them
yourself first you need to understand
that most men fail to quit addictions
because they just remove it all of a
sudden without replacing it you have to
understand that even the strongest
addictions in the world can be defeated
if you give your brain an alternative
you can replace it with something like
fume this is a flavored air device
meaning it will help you quit because
you're giving your brain an alternative
that same action that same habit you
have of fidgeting with something sucking
on something you're replacing it with a
better alternative here you can replace
the flavor cartridges to whatever flavor
you want with you you insert it in and
you're essentially just breathing in
flavored air second I want you to tackle
your Vice and silence because remember
you need to guard your reputation with
your life and when you don't share what
your vices and your weaknesses are and
you deal with them in silence you will
be seen as a man that is in total
control and others will respect you for
that because they themselves don't have
that same control especially when it's
substances now of course but they don't
realize is all the work that you're
doing behind the scenes dealing with all
of your weaknesses or addictions and
that is for a good reason because then
in the future when somebody comes to you
for help for their Vice you're going to
be able to help them from a position of
knowledge which will even further
improve your reputation and they come to
you for help cuz they realize you quit
all of a sudden you can then give them
the advice yeah I just used a
non-addictive device like this one from
fume just to trick my brain into that
same habit and be able to overcome the
vice number four you should never tell
people your goals bro I remember when I
was back in college I knew this dude he
would always tell people his goals like
oh yeah I'm going to lose all this
weight by summer I'm going to get a six
pack oh oh yeah I'm going to start this
new business oh yeah I just started
Forex Trading I'm going to become a
millioner by the end of the funny thing
is I remember every scheme he ran he
never achieved any of it but I remember
at the time it got me thinking is he
failing at everything because of who he
is as a person or because he's telling
everyone this is this is what got me to
law number three from the 48 Laws of
Power it states that you should conceal
your intentions you see according to
research telling people your goals and
Ambitions kills your motivation to
actually try to reach them the reason is
that it tricks you into thinking that
you've already completed it and it gives
your brain some satisfaction not only
that most people don't like being
reminded of their shortcomings which
means that if you go on and tell people
oh yeah I'm going to quit alcohol you're
going to find that all your friends that
still drink alcohol are going to try to
entice you more and more and more cuz
they don't want to be reminded of their
own shortcoming so the key is to never
tell people your goals until you've
completed them and also have a strategy
in place to know how to complete them or
if somebody tries to tempt you if you
have that backup plan that you know you
can rely on like that fume stick because
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start tackling these vices and
overcoming them number five you should
never tell people what your body count
is you have to understand there's two
types of men in this world first type
uses their body count as a badge of
honor right to to make themselves feel
better amongst other men the second
group keeps it to himself you see how
the first group will appear weak while
the second group appear strong you want
to know why because of law 27 play on
people's need to believe to create a
cult like following let me explain I
want you to picture that first type of
guy who when asked how many people he
slept with he proudly responds bro I'm
at 121 bodies bro damn believe that man
he appears weak needing for attention
like he's overcompensating then I want
you to picture the second type of guy
who utilizes Lot 27 and he simply States
bro I've slept with enough women to know
that it doesn't matter too much for my
confidence bro you know me that dude
might have a zero body count but by
seeing that just appears more confident
more sure of himself you see as shown in
LW 27 people need something to believe
it and when you don't give them that
they tend to exaggerate and fill in the
blanks meaning that in their head
they're going to hold you above that
other person purely because you have
kept things vague and mysterious so the
next time body count comes up in a
conversation you keep quiet and you tell
no one up until now you're going to stop
telling people who you like you're going
to stop telling people your opinion
you're going to stop telling them your
vices you're going to stop telling them
your goals and you're going to stop
telling them your body count that alone
will already make you appear stronger
and more competent as a man but there's
two last things that I want you to stop
telling anyone to truly recreate your
image this takes us to number six you
need to stop telling people how hard you
work this is problematic even if you are
a hard worker you need to follow law 30
make your accomplishments seem
effortless and I'm going to show you how
to do it who works hard on me or you me
100% how do you know that you just can't
be working 18 hours a day every day the
way I am you don't really know anything
about me you guys see how hard I'm
working now think about what I was doing
when I didn't have it I feel like you
would have succeeded no matter one and I
guess it depends on how you define
success too no I don't think so I was
lucky luck has more to do with life than
we might think so you're going to do the
same thing the next time you do
something impressive like get a good
grade on an exam perform well in a
sports game shoot even perform on a
video game or your business had the best
month ever you will simply perform well
in life win and then continue with your
life as if nothing happened by doing
that you'll make it seem as though
winning is something that comes natural
to you people will then assume that
you're more talented than everybody else
and that makes you powerful which takes
me to number seven never tell anyone
what you're good at everyone has their
own set of strengths and weaknesses and
we've already discussed why you
shouldn't tell weaknesses like your
vices but you should also never tell
anyone your strengths and here's why law
11 states that you should learn to keep
people dependent on you so if you're
working for someone or with someone you
should never let them know your strength
if they ask how have you done such a
great job or how are you doing so well
just say you're not sure one of the laws
is I think the most important basically
make people dependent on you you don't
want to appeal to people's love to the
fact that they like you that's key so
many guys are desperate to be liked and
they think that's how they make people
people addicted to them but it's not
that they need you because if they love
you love is a very tenuous emotion
exactly right forget about love you need
them to need you it doesn't work very
well in the work situation causes all
kinds of problems they'll get rid of you
tomorrow even though they like you but
if they need you it's like pulling out
all of these roots of a plant to get rid
of you it's going to cause all kinds of
damage all over the place yes I can tell
you as a business owner I can like
someone but if I don't think I need them
in the corporation I will get rid of
them but if I need them if they're a
structural member of the company I don't
care how much I don't like you I will
move mountains to keep you on board so
don't tell people your strengths because
by doing this you're also telling them
what your secrets are and you need them
to need you to be dependent on you and
now you understand that if you keep
these seven things silent and you stop
telling people then you will win at
everything that you
do
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