IF YOU WANT TO MANIFEST YOUR SP, JUST DO THIS SIMPLE THING!
Summary
TLDRThe speaker emphasizes the importance of self-love and self-improvement over trying to manifest a specific person into your life, especially if they don't reciprocate your feelings. They share the story of Neville to illustrate that mutual attraction is key and caution against using the law of attraction to manipulate someone's emotions. The core message is to focus on personal growth, as this will naturally attract the right people and ensure that relationships are based on genuine love and respect.
Takeaways
- 🔮 **Mutual Attraction**: Neville's story illustrates the importance of mutual desire in manifesting a relationship.
- 🚫 **Avoid Manipulation**: The speaker discourages using the law of attraction to manipulate someone into loving you.
- 🧘♂️ **Internal Fulfillment**: True fulfillment comes from within; seeking it from others is a mistake.
- 💔 **One-Sided Love**: It's a mistake to focus on attracting someone who doesn't reciprocate your feelings.
- 💡 **Self-Love First**: Before seeking love from others, you must first love and accept yourself.
- 🌍 **World as a Mirror**: How you treat yourself is reflected in how the world treats you.
- 🤔 **Questioning Motives**: It's essential to question why you want someone who doesn't love you back.
- 🌟 **Self-Improvement**: Focus on becoming the best version of yourself rather than seeking external validation.
- 🏃♂️ **Self-Worth**: Your self-worth should not depend on the validation or presence of a specific person.
- 🔄 **Change from Within**: True change and improvement come from within, not from external circumstances or people.
Q & A
What is the main message of the story about Neville?
-The main message is that both Neville and the girl he wanted to marry were mutually attracted to each other, emphasizing the importance of two-sided attraction rather than one-sided manifesting.
What mistake does the speaker believe people often make when manifesting a relationship?
-People often make the mistake of manifesting a one-sided relationship where they want someone to love them to feel whole, instead of focusing on internal fulfillment and self-love.
Why does the speaker discourage the manipulation of someone's thoughts to make them love you?
-The speaker discourages this because it's a form of manipulation that doesn't lead to genuine love or fulfillment. It's based on external validation rather than internal worthiness.
What is the key to attracting the right person according to the speaker?
-The key is to first love and feel whole within yourself. When you are fulfilled internally, you attract people who reflect that love and wholeness back to you.
Why does the speaker emphasize the importance of self-improvement over manifesting a specific person?
-The speaker emphasizes self-improvement because it leads to personal growth and a sense of self-worth, which in turn naturally attracts the right people into one's life.
What does the speaker mean when they say 'this world is a mirror'?
-The speaker means that the world reflects back what you project onto it. If you love and value yourself, the world and the people in it will treat you with the same love and value.
Why does the speaker consider it 'pathetic' to want someone to love you just to feel whole?
-The speaker considers it 'pathetic' because it indicates a lack of self-worth and an unhealthy reliance on external validation for personal happiness.
What does the speaker suggest is a better approach than trying to manifest an ex back?
-The speaker suggests focusing on becoming the best version of yourself, which may naturally lead to the ex or other people recognizing your worth and possibly coming back into your life.
How does the speaker define the 'Kingdom of Heaven' in the context of self-improvement?
-The 'Kingdom of Heaven' is metaphorically defined as the inner state of self-worth and fulfillment that one should seek within oneself rather than looking externally for validation.
What is the speaker's advice for those who are seeking validation from others?
-The speaker advises to stop seeking external validation and instead focus on self-improvement and self-love, which will naturally lead to a more fulfilling life and relationships.
Why does the speaker say that manifesting an ex back might not be the best use of one's energy?
-The speaker says this because manifesting an ex back is often an attempt to fill a void internally, which is better addressed by self-improvement and self-love rather than external manipulation.
Outlines
💔 Self-Love Before Seeking Love
The speaker begins by discussing the common misconception of using manifestation techniques to attract a specific person, such as an ex or a soulmate. They tell the story of Neville, who successfully manifested his desire to marry a girl he was mutually attracted to, despite being married to someone else. The key takeaway is that Neville and the girl both wanted each other, highlighting that one-sided attraction is not enough. The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-love and internal fulfillment before seeking love from others. They argue that trying to manipulate someone's feelings through the law of attraction is misguided and stems from a lack of self-worth. Instead, they encourage focusing on self-improvement and becoming the best version of oneself, which will naturally attract the right people.
🌟 Becoming the Best Version of Yourself
In the second paragraph, the speaker continues to stress the importance of self-improvement over external validation. They question the desire to manipulate someone's thoughts to make them love you, suggesting that such actions are rooted in insecurity and a lack of self-worth. The speaker encourages the audience to focus on personal growth and becoming the best version of themselves, rather than seeking validation from others. They argue that when you are fulfilled and content with who you are, you won't need external validation, and people who are aligned with your growth will naturally be drawn to you. The speaker shares their personal experience of trying to get back someone who wasn't interested in them, only to realize that the real issue was internal and not related to the other person. They conclude by urging the audience to focus on self-love and personal development, as this will lead to a more fulfilling life and the right people will come into your life as a result.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Manifesting
💡Law of Attraction
💡Self-worth
💡Love yourself
💡Imagination
💡One-sided
💡Validation
💡Self-improvement
💡Inner fulfillment
💡Detachment
💡Best version of yourself
Highlights
The importance of mutual attraction in manifesting a relationship, as illustrated by Neville's story.
Neville's method of visualizing his desired partner as if already married to him.
The caution against one-sided manifestation and the manipulation of another's feelings.
The idea that internal fulfillment is key to attracting a loving relationship.
The concept that external validation cannot provide true wholeness or self-love.
The necessity of self-love before seeking love from others.
The world as a mirror reflecting your internal state.
The argument against seeking external validation for self-worth.
The belief that self-improvement is more valuable than manipulating external circumstances.
The suggestion that people should not manipulate others' feelings through the Law of Attraction.
The idea that seeking validation from others is a sign of low self-worth.
The emphasis on becoming the best version of oneself to attract better relationships.
The notion that people who leave you may not be the best fit for your personal growth.
The advice to focus on self-improvement rather than trying to get an ex back.
The idea that when you improve yourself, the right people will naturally be drawn to you.
The concept that self-worth should come from within, not from external validation.
The suggestion to detach from the desire for external validation and focus on personal growth.
The message that self-love and self-worth are essential for a healthy and fulfilling life.
The conclusion that manifesting an ex back is not as important as becoming the best version of oneself.
Transcripts
we always hear about manifesting your ex
manifesting your SP attracting the love
of your life but let me tell you a story
about Neville that most probably you
don't know about so Neville wanted to
marry a girl but he was married to his
first wife that girl also wanted to
marry Neville so both of them were
actually attracted to each other focus
on that they both wanted each other not
only one-sided so what did Neville do
Neville slept on his bed as if this girl
is next to him as if they were married
and a series of events occurred that led
to Neville marrying that girl and divorc
the first wife so what I want to tell
you here is focus on this they both
wanted each other and this is the
biggest mistake people make is it is
one-sided and you want that person to
love you because you want to feel whole
when you actually feel like this person
is loving you so you are manipulating
them by the law of thought transmission
I don't want you to do that because to
be honest why would you manipulate
someone's thoughts to actually love you
and in the end if you're internally not
fulfilled you'll be afraid to lose them
anyway and if you're not fulfilled
internally you will lose them eventually
because you didn't change what's inside
of you and this is the key here
most of you guys are looking for a
special person or a specific person
because you think that that person will
make you whole if you don't feel whole
and loved by yourself then you won't
find someone that will make you whole it
won't happen you got to first know that
you got to love yourself before anyone
else you got to love yourself you got to
know that you are the operate power when
you love yourself you will find PE
people that will love you it's just a
mirror this world is a mirror when you
smile it will smile back if you're
loving yourself everybody around you
will love you if you feel like you are
worthy you will find people that make
you feel more worthy but you are not
seeking that validation from the outer
world you are giving yourself what you
want to give inside of yourself in
imagination and Imagination is the real
world this is the real world between
your ears so don't just look for the
next big thing on the outer world to
make you feel better if you want to
manifest a specific person why would you
want someone who doesn't already love
you to love you why would you want that
why would you want them to love you I
think this is kind of like pathetic if
you think about it you want someone to
love you because you want to feel whole
and loved this is like one of the most
stupid things that I see in the law of
assumption Law of Attraction Community
this is why I don't interact with this
community at all I'm all about
self-improvement and about making your
mind work for you not against you if all
your problem is a specific person then
with all due respect you got a much
larger problem and that is your
self-worth I'm not telling you to not
manifest your SP but if that person
wants you and you want them but there is
a problem in between just like the
nville story I told you about then you
can do it but if that person doesn't
love you and he told you that he don't
want you he told you that he doesn't
want you or she doesn't want you why
would you still insist that I'm going to
change the fabric of the universe by
changing my mindset and make them love
me if I do that I'll be just ashamed of
myself like they didn't love me because
of me they loved me because I imagined
something and I created it into my
reality and then they came back this is
stupid this is pure stupidity why would
you do that know your worth guys stop
looking for the people outside of you to
just make you feel whole and to get
validation from them be optimistic about
your own self you can't give yourself
the love that you want and then and only
then these people around you will just
reflect that back to you but you won't
need them even to reflect that back to
you you will find the people that make
you better these people will make you
better in all ways in all ways shape or
form they will make you better they will
try to actually encourage you to become
the best version of
yourself not just like I want to attract
this girl because I will feel whole or I
will attract this guy because we had a
good time back in the day and he told me
that he doesn't like me anymore so I'm
going manipulate His Thoughts by the law
of thought transmission and assuming the
feeling of the wish fulfilled and then
he will be back would you be more happy
if you became the person that you want
to be and then you see them seeing you a
changed man or a changed woman and they
know now that they made a mistake or
would you be happy when you manipulate
the world and they come back to you and
you know that you are the reason or your
mind or your thoughts you manipulated
them by your thoughts to make them come
back to you which is better becoming the
best version of you so they come back or
just imagine it into being and they come
back and you know that hey I did that by
my thoughts but I'm still feeling
unworthy I'm not sure that they actually
like
me I want you to think about that most
of the time you guys are looking for
things outside of you look for the
things inside of you stop stop trying to
seek validation from the outside don't
seek people seek the kingdom within
you the Kingdom of Heaven is within you
I want you to focus on that focus on
yourself don't focus on these people
don't focus on that girl that left you
don't focus on that man that left you
focus on yourself become the best
version of you and the people that are
in alignment of who you are becoming
will actually appear into your life will
pop up like that and you will be happy
that you didn't get back to that man or
that woman that you were
with I want you to think about that
think about that now if you are the best
version of you and you know that you are
now the best version of you would you
look for people around you to give you
validation to make you feel like you are
worthy of course not you would feel like
you are already worthy and if you are
already worthy you won't run after them
and try to imagine them coming back to
you they will come back they always come
back by the way but when you detach from
it and when you feel like you are better
off without them with them or without
them you are good because you know
you're selfworth you're not
disrespecting yourself you're not trying
to seek validation from the outside
world you know who you are I want you to
be like that don't try to just
manipulate the world around you so they
come back so you feel better about
yourself trying to manipulate people to
come back to you you can get
many explanations that you are not
manipulating them but when they come
back internally you would know that they
came back because you manipulated
something in the world and they don't
like you for who you are but they liked
you again because you manipulated their
thoughts by the law of assumption and
the law of thought transmission so I
want you to focus on yourself become the
best version of you and as a byproduct
they might come back and they might not
but either way you will be good off
without them either way you'll be good
you are better off without them you are
becoming the best version of you they
will regret leaving you and at that
point you won't be desperate for them to
come
back actually you would be with a better
person than them and you would know that
that person that new person is now
seeing in you what they didn't see back
in the day and once you reach that point
you will know that when you are becoming
the best version of yourself you will
only focus on yourself and you will know
that you are worthy regardless of who is
in your life so focus on yourself and by
all means if you want to manifest your
ex back just imagine it I'm not telling
you to not imagine it but I'm telling
you the bigger picture because I was
trapped in this trap and I spent months
and months trying to get back someone
who was actually not interested in me
and when they came back back I knew that
I wasn't fulfilled I wasn't feeling
worthy because the problem was from the
inside not from the outside so don't
seek validation from the outer world and
give yourself the love that you want
first and the love from the outer world
will be reflected back to you that's it
for today's video I know you found it
helpful and I know it's a wakeup call
for you
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