5 Signs That She Might Be Flirting With You

Charisma on Command
18 Jul 202206:38

Summary

TLDRBody language expert Vanessa Van Edwards reveals five subtle signs to determine if someone is flirting or just being friendly. She discusses the 'Maryland' head tilt, intimate zone invasion, toe direction, 'touch me' self-touch cues, and the genuine 'saver smile.' The video also promotes Charisma University, a 30-day program to enhance charisma and confidence, with testimonials from satisfied participants.

Takeaways

  • 😃 The 'Maryland' is a body language sign where a woman tilts her head and exposes her neck, often seen when she's laughing or smiling, indicating interest.
  • 🔍 Watch for someone, particularly a woman, crossing into your intimate zone (18 inches away), signaling a desire for closer physical and emotional connection.
  • 👣 Toes can be 'windows to the soul'; angling them towards someone indicates a subconscious desire to move closer, showing interest.
  • 🤲 A 'touch me' cue occurs when a woman touches a part of her body where she would like to be touched, drawing attention to those areas.
  • 😊 A 'saver smile' is a genuine smile that reaches the eyes and upper cheek muscles, differentiating it from a fake smile that stays on the bottom half of the face.
  • 💡 Self-touch, such as touching one's lips or neck, can be a subconscious signal of vitality and health, attracting a potential mate.
  • 👥 Recognize the different space zones: public, social, personal, and intimate, and note when someone moves into your intimate zone.
  • 🎥 Examples from celebrities like Jennifer Lawrence, Angelina Jolie, and Nicole Kidman illustrate the body language cues discussed.
  • 👫 Observing body language cues can help determine if someone is flirting or just being friendly, providing clarity in social interactions.
  • 🌟 Boosting charisma and confidence can make one more attractive and improve social interactions, with resources like 'Charisma University' offering programs for self-improvement.
  • 📈 Testimonials from 'Charisma University' indicate that the program has positively impacted people's lives by improving their relationships and social skills.

Q & A

  • What is the main topic of the video?

    -The main topic of the video is to teach viewers five subtle signs that someone might be attracted to them, as explained by body language expert Vanessa Van Edwards.

  • What is the first body language sign mentioned in the video?

    -The first body language sign mentioned is the 'Maryland,' which involves a deep head tilt and exposure of the neck, often seen when a woman is flirting.

  • Why do women perform the 'Maryland' when flirting?

    -Women perform the 'Maryland' to show they are intensely engaged with the person they are talking to and to release pheromones, especially when laughing or smiling.

  • What are the four different space zones mentioned in the video?

    -The four space zones are the public zone (about seven feet away), the social zone (about five feet away), the personal zone (about three feet away), and the intimate zone (about 18 inches away).

  • Why is it significant when someone crosses into your intimate zone?

    -It is significant because it indicates that the person wants to be closer both physically and emotionally, which can be a sign of attraction.

  • What does the video suggest about the role of toes in body language?

    -The video suggests that toes can be 'windows to the soul,' indicating interest by angling towards the person or object of interest, which can happen even across a room.

  • What is the term used in the video for when a woman subconsciously touches a part of her body that she wants to be touched?

    -The term used is 'touch me,' which is a subconscious signal that a woman wants to be touched in the area she is touching herself.

  • How can self-touch be differentiated from nervous habits like nail-biting according to the video?

    -Self-touch that is a sign of attraction involves touching areas like the lips or neck, which can be sensual, while nail-biting is a sign of nervousness and is not considered a sign of attraction.

  • What is a 'saver smile' and how does it differ from a fake smile?

    -A 'saver smile' is a slow smile that reaches all the way into the eyes or upper cheek muscles, indicating genuine delight. A fake smile stays on the bottom half of the face and does not reach the eyes.

  • What is the purpose of the 'Charisma University' mentioned in the video?

    -The purpose of 'Charisma University' is to help individuals boost their charisma and confidence through a 30-day video series with daily action guides, aiming to improve their social interactions and relationships.

  • How can someone access the 'Charisma University' program mentioned in the video?

    -Someone can access the 'Charisma University' program by clicking the link on the screen or in the video description.

Outlines

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💬 Understanding Flirting Cues: Body Language Expertise

In this video, body language expert Vanessa Van Edwards teaches viewers five subtle signs that someone may be attracted to them. She explains the 'Maryland' head tilt, a move that women use to show engagement and release pheromones, particularly when laughing. Vanessa also discusses the significance of someone entering your intimate zone, which is about 18 inches away, as a sign of wanting to be closer both physically and emotionally. She advises viewers to watch for this behavior, such as someone scooting their chair closer or leaning in. Additionally, she highlights the importance of observing toes as 'windows to the soul,' indicating interest by angling them towards the person of interest. The video also covers the 'touch me' cue, where a woman might touch a part of her body that she wants to be touched, and the 'saver smile,' a genuine smile that reaches the eyes, as opposed to a fake smile that stays on the bottom half of the face. These cues are illustrated with various celebrity examples to help viewers identify them in real-life situations.

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🌟 Boosting Charisma and Confidence for Attraction

The second paragraph of the script addresses the viewer directly, suggesting that if they find themselves not receiving the attraction cues as often as they would like, they can improve their charisma and confidence. The speaker promotes 'Charisma University,' a 30-day video series with daily action guides designed to enhance these qualities. The course is presented as a guaranteed method for personal improvement, with a full refund option if not satisfied. Testimonials from participants are shared, highlighting the positive changes in their lives, including improved relationships and an increased ability to connect with others. The speaker encourages interested viewers to check out the course through the provided link for a chance to transform their mindset and social interactions.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Body Language

Body language refers to the non-verbal cues and gestures that people use to communicate feelings and attitudes. In the video, body language is the central theme as it discusses how to identify if someone is flirting or just being friendly through non-verbal signs. For instance, the 'Maryland' is a specific body language move that indicates interest.

💡Maryland

The 'Maryland' is a term coined from Marilyn Monroe's signature body language move, which involves tilting the head and exposing the neck. It is used as a flirting technique to show engagement and release pheromones. The video uses a clip of Jennifer Lawrence to illustrate this concept.

💡Intimate Zone

The intimate zone is one of the four space zones identified in the script, which is about 18 inches away from a person. Crossing into someone's intimate zone indicates a desire to be closer both physically and emotionally. The script mentions Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie as an example where Angelina leans into Brad's personal space.

💡Toes

The script suggests that toes can be 'windows to the soul,' indicating interest by angling towards someone or something desired. It is an often-overlooked aspect of body language that can reveal a person's intent to approach or engage with another person, as demonstrated by Jenna Dewan's interaction with Channing Tatum in the video.

💡Touch Me

The 'Touch Me' cue is when a person subconsciously touches a part of their body that they want to be touched, as a signal of wanting to be touched there. It is a subtle invitation for physical contact and can be seen when a woman touches her lips or neck, as shown in the example with Nicole Kidman.

💡Saver Smile

A 'Saver Smile' is a genuine smile that slowly spreads across the face and reaches the eyes, indicating true delight or attraction towards someone. The video contrasts this with a fake smile that stays on the bottom half of the face, using Jessica Biel's interactions with her husband and Conan O'Brien as examples.

💡Pheromones

Pheromones are chemical signals that are released by an individual and can influence the behavior or physiology of others. In the context of the video, certain body language cues like the 'Maryland' or touching one's neck are said to release pheromones, potentially attracting a potential mate.

💡Charisma

Charisma is a personal quality that makes someone able to attract and influence others. The video mentions charisma as something that can be improved to make oneself more attractive, suggesting that it plays a role in how one's body language is perceived.

💡Confidence

Confidence refers to a belief in one's abilities and the assurance that one can successfully handle situations. The video script implies that boosting confidence can enhance one's attractiveness and charisma, and is linked to the effectiveness of body language in communication.

💡Space Zones

The concept of space zones in the script categorizes the proximity of individuals into public, social, personal, and intimate zones. Understanding these zones helps in interpreting the body language cues related to personal space and comfort levels, as exemplified by the intimate zone crossing behavior.

💡Attraction Cues

Attraction cues are the subtle signs that indicate romantic or sexual interest. The video lists several cues, such as the 'Maryland,' intimate zone crossing, toe angling, and the 'Touch Me' cue, to help viewers identify when someone might be attracted to them.

Highlights

Body language expert Vanessa Van Edwards teaches five subtle signs someone secretly likes you.

The 'Maryland' is a flirting move where a woman tilts her head and exposes her neck, often seen when laughing.

The 'Maryland' is a sign of intense engagement and a release of pheromones.

Crossing into the intimate zone (18 inches away) indicates a desire for physical and emotional closeness.

Examples of intimate zone invasion include stepping in, scooting chairs closer, or reaching out to touch.

Toes are 'windows to the soul', angling them towards someone shows interest and a desire to move closer.

A 'touch me' gesture involves touching a part of the body where one wishes to be touched.

Subconscious self-touch can draw attention to sensuous areas and release pheromones.

A 'saver smile' is a genuine smile that reaches the eyes, indicating true delight in someone's presence.

A fake smile stays on the bottom half of the face, unlike a 'saver smile' that involves the eyes and cheek muscles.

Charisma University offers a 30-day video series to boost charisma and confidence with daily action guides.

The course guarantees results with a full refund option if not satisfied.

Testimonials from participants show improved relationships and the ability to make new friends in any situation.

The course has made a significant impact on participants' lives, improving self-love, relationships, and joy.

A 30-day program is available for those interested in becoming more confident and charismatic.

A link to the program is provided on screen and in the description for interested viewers.

Transcripts

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we've all been there before you're

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talking to someone you like and you

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can't quite tell if they're flirting

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with you or just being friendly so for

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today's video we've brought in body

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language expert vanessa van edwards to

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teach you five subtle signs someone

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secretly likes you here she is number

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one look for the maryland the first body

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language sign you have to know is the

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marilyn marilyn monroe was known for a

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signature body language move where she

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tilted her head and exposed her neck

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women do this deep head tilt while

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flirting to not only show they're

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intensely engaged but also to release

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pheromones one particular time you're

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likely to see this is when she's

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laughing check out this clip of jennifer

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lawrence talking to chris pratt she

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laughs and tilts her head over to the

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side exposing her neck in a classic

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maryland she's my best friend

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we're mortal enemies no

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if you see the maryland while a woman is

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laughing or smiling it's a great sign of

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interest number two be ready for a cross

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into your intimate zone the second

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attraction cue you should be on the

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lookout for is watching to see if a

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woman crosses into your intimate zone

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research finds there are four different

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space zones the public zone which is

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when someone stands about seven feet

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away the social zone when people are

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five feet away the personal zone about

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three feet away and the intimate zone

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about 18 inches away when someone moves

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into your intimate zone they want to

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literally be closer both physically and

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emotionally we move towards people

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topics and things we like so always be

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on the lookout for someone crossing into

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your intimate zone this could happen

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with someone moving their entire body

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closer by stepping in or scooting their

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chair closer here is brad and angelina

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in the early part of their relationship

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watch angelina lean back into pitt's

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personal space

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20 000

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what a wonderful fight a woman could

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also reach into your intimate zone with

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a touch or lean in the heat of their

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early romance angelina was constantly

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reaching over to touch brad pitt the

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couple got particularly cutesy during

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the 2009 awards season with angelina

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placing her hand on brad's chest as they

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shared a laugh and here is one with

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bruno mars and miranda kerr where she

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reaches out for a high five

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that's good it's kind of perfect

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number three toes are the windows to the

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soul the third attraction cue to watch

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out for might surprise you most people

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say eyes are the window to the soul but

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actually the toes are more accurate when

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we're interested in something we want to

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move towards it to do this we have to

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angle our toes in the direction we want

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to move this can even happen across a

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room look at this original try out video

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for the movie's step up as jenna dewan

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interacts with her future husband

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channing tatum notice how she angles her

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whole body towards him

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even as they are speaking she keeps

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angling her toes and body towards

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channing don't forget to watch those

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toes they can give you a clue to

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attention number four look for a touch

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me the next attraction cue is called a

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touch me when a woman wants to be

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touched she might subconsciously touch

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that part of her body herself she wants

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to be kissed she touches her lips she

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likes when someone touches her neck so

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she touches her neck a woman might do

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this without even realizing it

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subconsciously it also draws someone's

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attention to those more sensuous areas

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women might also touch their neck or

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hair to release pheromones and call

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attention to the health of their hair or

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skin this is a subconscious signal of

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vitality to a potential mate look at

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this example of nicole kidman talking to

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jimmy fallon about flirting with him on

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their first date she touches her hair

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and leans in notice she's also angling

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her body and toes towards him i don't

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know if you remember this we met before

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oh i remember

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do you remember this it was really

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embarrassing for me yes nicole kidman

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does not do this on other interview

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shows keeping her toes towards the

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audience and her hands to herself

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special note self-touch is not

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nail-biting touching lips and nail

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biting are totally different cues while

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touching lips can be sensual nail biting

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is likely a sign of nervousness number

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five look for a saver smile the fifth

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cue is called a saver smile this is a

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slow smile that blossoms across the face

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and reaches all the way up into the eyes

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when we are truly delighted by someone

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we savor smile the key here is to look

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for a genuine smile that reaches all the

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way into the eyes or upper cheek muscles

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a fake smile stays on the bottom half of

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the face take a look at this interview

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with jessica biel and justin timberlake

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jessica biel has a huge smile as she

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looks intently at her husband and then

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watch in this interview how a smile

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blossoms across jessica biel's face as

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she leans towards justin's intimate

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space oh my god my god all right stop

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let's keep playing the game what's the

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next question hey i'm over here buddy

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yeah here we go let's compare this with

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jessica beale's non-saver smile when

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she's talking to conan o'brien you can

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see she holds the smile on the bottom

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half of her face but it does not reach

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all the way up into her eyes

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congratulations i've not uh seen you

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since you got married that's fantastic

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thank you

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watch for a saber smile to tap into

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authentic emotion so now you know some

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subtle signs that someone is feeling

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attracted to you but what if you're

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realizing that you don't get these signs

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thrown your way as often as you'd like

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one of the fastest ways to make yourself

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