The CORE FANTASY that drives women to ORGASM and WHY
Summary
TLDRIn this insightful video, Victoria delves into the 'alpha in love' fantasy, a core root that she believes drives many women's sexual and romantic desires. She argues that this fantasy taps into two primary evolutionary goals: securing an 'alpha' for the best genetic traits and creating an unbreakable bond with him. Victoria suggests that women eroticize these goals, manifesting in various fantasies from hyper-feminine allure to the appreciation of male dominance and strength. The video also touches on the importance of the 'in love' aspect, exploring how the desire for a deep, exclusive bond is central to women's romantic and sexual fantasies.
Takeaways
- 📚 The script discusses the 'core root fantasy' that Victoria believes drives women's sexual desires and behaviors, suggesting it can be understood through the lens of romance novels.
- 🎨 The video suggests that women have created the romance genre to express their sexual and romantic desires, which are often dismissed by men as trivial.
- 🌟 The term 'Alpha in Love' is introduced as the quintessential fantasy that encapsulates the essence of what many women find sexually and romantically appealing.
- 🔬 The 'Alpha' part of the fantasy is tied to evolutionary goals, where women are instinctively drawn to men who can provide the best genetic blueprint for their offspring.
- ❤️ The 'In Love' aspect emphasizes the need for a deep emotional bond, where a woman wants to be the sole object of her partner's affection and commitment.
- 👠 The script mentions various fantasies that play on feminine attractiveness to attract an 'Alpha', such as dressing sexy, exhibitionism, and being desired for feminine qualities.
- 💪 It explores different types of dominance fantasies, suggesting that women are drawn to the display of male power and strength, which is tied to the idea of securing good genes for their children.
- 🏋️♂️ Athleticism and physical strength are highlighted as important factors in sexual attraction, with fantasies revolving around overpowering physical encounters.
- 🔗 The bond in 'Alpha in Love' is also eroticized through various kinks and romantic gestures that symbolize a deep and unbreakable connection.
- 💌 The importance of romantic gestures like gifts, love notes, and planning dates is underscored as a way to reinforce the bond and trigger deep-seated needs for security and commitment.
- 🤔 The video invites viewers to reflect on their own fantasies and consider the psychological and evolutionary underpinnings that might influence them.
Q & A
What is the main topic of Victoria's video?
-The main topic of Victoria's video is the core root fantasy that drives women to orgasm, focusing on the concept of 'Alpha in Love' as a central theme in women's sexual and romantic desires.
Why does Victoria mention romance novels in her video?
-Victoria mentions romance novels to illustrate how women have created an entire literary genre to express their sexual and romantic desires, which are often dismissed by men.
What does Victoria believe is the essence of many things that resonate sexually and erotically with women?
-Victoria believes that 'Alpha in Love' is the essence of many things that resonate sexually and erotically with women, as it represents two primary evolutionary goals: securing an alpha male and making him fall in love.
What does Victoria suggest is the evolutionary goal behind the 'Alpha' part of 'Alpha in Love'?
-The evolutionary goal behind the 'Alpha' part is securing a male partner who provides the best survival advantages for their offspring, essentially looking for a 'blueprint' for their children.
How does Victoria explain the 'In Love' part of 'Alpha in Love'?
-The 'In Love' part is about creating an unbreakable bond between a woman and her alpha male, ensuring that he is obsessed with her and her alone, which is crucial for the survival and well-being of their potential children.
What are some of the erotic fantasies that Victoria discusses as stemming from the 'Alpha in Love' concept?
-Some of the erotic fantasies discussed include reveling in hyper feminine behaviors to attract the alpha, experiencing different kinds of dominant behaviors, appreciating superior athletic abilities, consensual non-consent fantasies, and kinks related to the romantic bond such as tantric sex and emotional masochism.
Why does Victoria think women eroticize the evolutionary goals of finding an alpha and creating a bond?
-Victoria suggests that women eroticize these evolutionary goals as a way to artistically and emotionally engage with the deep-seated instincts of securing a strong partner and ensuring a strong bond for the sake of their offspring.
What is the significance of the character Fabio in Victoria's drawing?
-Fabio, often associated with romance novel covers, represents the 'alpha male' archetype that is central to the 'Alpha in Love' fantasy, where he is depicted as the strong, desirable male figure.
How does Victoria connect the idea of 'Alpha in Love' with the creation of romance novels?
-Victoria connects 'Alpha in Love' with romance novels by suggesting that these novels are a manifestation of women's desires for an alpha male who is also deeply in love with them, fulfilling both evolutionary goals.
What does Victoria imply about the difference in how men and women might perceive romance novels?
-Victoria implies that while women resonate with and create romance novels to express their desires, men often dismiss the genre, misunderstanding its significance and the deep-seated desires it represents.
What is the role of the 'bond' in the erotic fantasies discussed by Victoria?
-The 'bond' is crucial in the erotic fantasies as it represents the 'In Love' aspect, where the woman seeks to create and maintain a strong, exclusive connection with her alpha male, ensuring his commitment and support.
Outlines
🔍 The Core Root Fantasy: Alpha in Love
Victoria introduces the core fantasy that she believes drives women's sexual desires and behaviors, suggesting that understanding this can provide insight into women's actions. She references a TikTok video about the romance novel genre, which she sees as a reflection of women's sexual and romantic desires. Victoria argues that the 'Alpha in Love' fantasy encapsulates two primary evolutionary goals for women: finding a strong, protective partner (the 'alpha') and ensuring he falls in love with them, creating a bond that is exclusive and unbreakable. She uses a drawing of a romance novel cover featuring Fabio to illustrate her point.
💞 The Evolutionary Pursuit of Love and Alpha
The video continues with an exploration of how women eroticize their evolutionary goals. Victoria discusses the importance of finding an 'alpha' who can provide good genes for their offspring and the necessity of making him fall in love to ensure his commitment and presence for the children. She explains that romance novels and related media often depict this quest for an exclusive bond, which is a fundamental part of a woman's evolutionary strategy to secure a father figure for her children.
👠 Hyper Feminine Attraction and Dominant Male Fantasies
Victoria delves into specific sexual fantasies that stem from the 'Alpha in Love' concept, starting with the enjoyment of hyper feminine behaviors that attract men. She mentions fantasies involving dressing sexy, exhibitionism, and being desired as a trophy or a 'bimbo'. These fantasies are tied to the idea of attracting an alpha male and play into the evolutionary goal of securing a strong partner. She also touches on the allure of different types of male dominance, hinting at a deeper appreciation for male power and strength.
🏋️♂️ Athletic Prowess and the Depth of Romantic Bonds
The script moves on to discuss various types of male dominance and power that women find attractive, such as intelligence, athletic ability, and physical strength. Victoria suggests that these qualities are linked to evolutionary desires for good genes. She also covers fantasies related to the 'in love' aspect of the 'Alpha in Love' theme, including emotional vulnerability, romantic gestures, and the eroticization of a strong romantic bond. The video concludes with a call for viewer engagement and a shout-out to a supporter.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Core Root Fantasy
💡Evolutionary Goals
💡Alpha
💡In Love
💡Romance Novels
💡Eroticizing
💡Hyper Feminine
💡Dominance
💡Athletic Ability
💡Consensual Non-Consent
💡Emotional Masochism
💡Romantic Gestures
Highlights
Victoria discusses the core root fantasy that drives women to orgasm, suggesting it can help understand women's behaviors.
The video references a TikTok video about the dismissal of romance novels by men, despite their importance to women's sexual and romantic desires.
A drawing is presented to illustrate the 'Alpha in Love' fantasy, which Victoria believes is central to women's sexual fantasies.
The 'Alpha' part of the fantasy represents women's evolutionary goal to find a strong partner for their offspring.
The 'In Love' aspect is about creating an unbreakable bond with the alpha, which is the source of romance for women.
Women eroticize the evolutionary goal of securing a father for their children by finding an 'Alpha in Love'.
Different types of fantasies are discussed, including those that play up femininity to attract the alpha.
Fantasies about experiencing different kinds of dominant men's strengths and powers are explored.
Athleticism in men is highlighted as an important factor in women's fantasies, linked to evolutionary advantages.
Consensual non-consent fantasies and the appeal of physical overpowering are discussed.
The importance of the romantic bond in women's fantasies is emphasized, including the desire for unique connection and commitment.
Tantric sex, slow sex, and vulnerable sex are mentioned as ways to eroticize the bond of romance.
Emotional masochism is introduced as a kink related to the deep bond, involving being seen at one's worst.
Romantic gestures like buying jewelry or writing love notes are powerful because they signify a strong bond.
The video suggests that understanding these fantasies can help men better comprehend women's desires and behaviors.
Victoria invites viewers to share their thoughts and fantasies, emphasizing the psychological power of these desires.
A shout-out is given to a supporter, Mike, highlighting the community aspect of the video.
Transcripts
hello guys it is me victoria and for
today's video i am going to be talking
about
the core root fantasy
that drives women to orgasm
okay so this is one fantasy to rule them
all
and i think that understanding this
fantasy
can help you guys really get a grasp
on
you know what's driving a lot of the
behaviors that you don't really
understand in women
so i recently saw this really great tick
tock video which was a woman standing in
front of a wall of romance novels
and there was some text on it saying
women created an entire
literary
genre to explain exactly what they want
sexually and romantically
and men call it you know trash
and chicklet and just totally dismiss
the genre of romance
and i thought that was really brilliant
because when i look at
the titles of romance novels and the
pictures on romance called novels and
the plots of romance novels and movies
in books in tv shows made for women that
women really resonate with that with
um
to me it all makes perfect sense
so i have made a little drawing for you
which i think
boils it down um
bold claim i know and that's what
youtube is all about so
all right so here it is it's a romance
novel and and that's fabio and that's
the girl swooning in his arms and it's
called
alpha
in love
okay so alpha in love i think is really
the
essence
of
so many
things that
resonate
sexually erotically
you know
you're you're daydreaming you're
fantasizing it's like too much for the
mind and yes
drives orgasm in many cases
so
the reason
that i think
this alpha in love is really the essence
of it is i think it gets at two
evolutionary goals of women
maybe the two most primary evolutionary
goals of women
and that is
represented by
alpha and in love so there's two goals
okay so
the alpha part is
jeans women are looking for
basically a blueprint
for their kids that gives them you know
the best survival advantages this is
probably not news to you guys but um
it is an instinct
in women i believe i know it's an
instinct to me
um
and you know it's so instinctive that
it's kind of hard to like
realize hey maybe men don't have this
instinct
you know it just seems like part of
your daily life and part of the fabric
of your mind but you know it's an
instinct um
so okay that's the alpha part and
one of the evolutionary goals of women
which is
basically
securing that alpha now you can't just
secure him you cannot just have sex with
him
you also have to make him fall in love
with you which is the second
evolutionary goal of women
the in love the sec you know alpha this
is the in love part we're dealing with
and that is where
romance comes from because
romance
to a woman is about
creating
an unbreakable bond
between
you and whoever in your mind is your
alpha
so
you know romance is
basically
him
proving
and developing
that bond
and that bond here's another key part of
it has to be with you and you alone
um because
men find many women attractive men want
to have sex with many women in general
and as a woman you have to make sure
that
your
man who you
get
has some sort of reason
to be obsessed with you and you alone
maybe it's this kind of like cosmic
destiny which happens in
something like you know outlander or
it's like she and jamie are
connected through like the strands of
time and centuries or maybe it's just
this incredibly like explosive
sexual chemistry that he has with you
and no one else um maybe it's when he
looks at your face it's like you are the
most beautiful woman i have ever seen
something about you
that separates you from other women
has to be there
for um
basically
the guy to fall in love or that's at
least what the woman wants in her mind
and that is what romance and
romance novels are all about it's this
guy finding something special about her
because
hopefully i said this before but
this is the evolutionary goal of a woman
finding
a father for her children finding
someone who's going to stick around
finding someone who's bonded to her so
that he has to be there for her children
so
women really eroticize i think this
evolutionary game i mean really it's you
know
find that best
you know mat find that best guy
for your children
and find some way to keep him there but
instead we um
basically eroticize it into this almost
like artistic
version of that which is you know this
alpha
in love so i hope that made sense
all right so now let's talk about
the
sexual fantasies and kinks
that
many women not all
commonly have
that kind of also create art
from
this
eroticizing
these evolutionary goals
okay so
let's talk about the first category of
erotic fantasies that can
develop from
the
eroticization
of
alpha in love the two
primary evolutionary goals of women that
women are instinctively
being driven towards like
salmon
going to their ancestral mating grounds
or
yeah
all right so the first one is
reveling
in
the
hyper feminine
things that attract
the alpha or attract men
so
a lot of fantasies are going to have
this aspect of just feeling hot
dressing sexy
exhibitionism um stripper fantasies
being a trophy wife being a sugar baby
being a bimbo
okay being showed off like a trophy
being desired by
men
for
the things that are going to attract
the alpha your
femininity
so
women
play up that feeling because that
feeling is so important
another example like a woman wants to
dress up in lingerie for her boyfriend
or
wants to be gifted lingerie it's like
she wants to feel hot she wants to feel
your desire for her
she wants to feel like oh my god he's so
attracted to me he can't resist me yes
like
bing bing bing i attracted the alpha
like
you know
how exciting
all right so let's move on to
the next
type of fantasy that women have around
these evolutionary goals and that is
reveling in
experiencing
different kinds of dominant slash alphas
men latent strengths and powers in other
words
they're fantasizing about different
kinds of dominance because they're
basically thinking oh my god
like it is so hot to have you know
those intelligence genes or that
controlling gene or that like i don't
let anyone push me around
gene to the point where i can even
control you
so
these dominant fantasies i feel like
what's at the core of them is kind of
like fantasizing about different kinds
of male power and appreciating it and
being like
damn that's hot like this guy is going
to give me such good genes
for my kids to the point where i'm just
like in heaven thinking about it
so as you know there's so many different
kinds of dominant fantasies like i
talked about
three different kinds in one of my last
videos and you know they all i think
really get at
different kinds of
male
powerful genes
like in my opinion the brat taming
fantasy is a fantasy of intelligence
because it's a guy it's a fantasy about
a guy who's so intelligent that he can
always one-up you he can always find a
way to you know put you in your place so
it's kind of like just
you know
wow what a guy all right so
next i'm going to talk about
reveling in display of superior athletic
abilities of alpha guys like athleticism
it's important to women it's crazy
because it's like it's
we're not living in you know a cave
right but athleticism is still like
important to women um
so a lot of
you know if you've heard of the primal
kink um
i feel like this is a fantasy about just
like straight up athletic ability of
guys maybe people will disagree with me
um then we have like consensual
non-consent fantasies um these fantasies
of being overpowered
um physically fantasies of rough sex
um
you know
i made a video i think about like
how women have these dark fantasies like
darker than men's fantasies and then
people were telling me oh yeah there's
like lots of studies and articles on
this that like women
look up like much more hardcore like
porn than guys do and i think it's
because
they are fantasizing about
superior
strength okay
like someone who is physically powerful
and
you know evolutionary speaking it's like
that's just a huge trigger because it's
like again that you're getting those
genes
and that's important to women in a way
it's not important to men got kinks like
a wrestling kinks
which i think is pretty cool and even
like breeding kinks just being like
overpowered physically
i think that's where they come from
and then we have
kinks that come from the
in love part of alpha and love about
that bond so eroticizing that bond of um
romance
so that is you know tantric sex that is
slow sex that is
vulnerable sex that is like candlelight
and roses sex that is um
this really cool kink
i've heard of which i think is pretty
cool emotional masochism it's like the
kink of basically having somebody see
you at your worst like when you're
throwing up or ugly crying and
kind of like the eroticization of that
because it's like
that bond is so strong that you know
even at your worst it's still there and
then just like you know
romantic gestures in general like
buying her jewelry or writing her love
notes or planning a date or planning
this surprise
trip these are all
you know
very very powerful to women in a way i
don't think men fully understand
because it's
triggering this
deep
need for the bond to be there
you know it's like every time he does it
it's like
yes he's glued onto me he's obsessed
with me yes the bond is there i'm okay
i'm safe i'm good my children are safe
these are the kinds of instincts
that women have
in my opinion
that men don't have but when you look
through a list of romance novels
you will see
it's so clear like clear as day
they're all about the same kinds of
things
okay
and it triggers to something very very
deep in women
so i think that this can help you let me
know if it does if it doesn't
did i make like a circular argument um
what
is your fantasy tell me oh my god
i mean you'd have to be pretty brave to
write it on youtube but hey i've talked
about my fantasies on youtube before
i'd be interested to know because i
think you know they are very very
interesting psychologically very
powerful so thank you guys so much for
watching
and um just want to give a quick shout
out to
mike
one of my
biggest supporters thank you so much for
all your support i really
appreciate it it means a lot
so
all right guys
see you next time please comment below
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