日本人の男性とアメリカ人の男性の違い!日本人の男性が好きな理由!Differences between Japanese and American men!
Summary
TLDRこの動画では、アメリカ人と日本人男性の文化の違いについて語られています。日本人男性は、髪型やファッション、ポーチの使用など、女性的な側面を持ちながらも男性らしさと受け止められています。また、日本人男性はより内気で、初デートではアメリカ人と比べて身体的な接触の期待が少ないという点も特徴です。さらに、日本では男性が親戚に紹介されるのは結婚が近いまでで、公共の場での親密な行為も控えめです。アメリカ人と日本人の男性の異なる価値観と行動パターンが興味深く紐解かれています。
Takeaways
- 😄 アメリカと日本の男性のデートスタイルの違いについて話している。特に初デートでのキスやハグの期待が異なると感じている。
- 👜 日本の男性はバッグを持ち歩くことが一般的で、アメリカではこれが珍しいと感じた。
- 💇♂️ 日本のアイドルや男性は髪型が長くて、ファッションが女性らしいと感じる。
- 🧖♂️ 日本では男性も激光脱毛をすると知った。アメリカでは男性が激光脱毛をすることはない。
- 🤗 アメリカの男性は汗をかくとニオイが強く出る一方、日本の男性はニオイがしない傾向にある。
- 💅 日本の男性は自分の髪型や肌を整えることが一般的で、アメリカではそうではない。
- 🤝 アメリカの男性は積極的にデートを申し出る一方、日本の男性は内向的で慎重だ。
- 👨👩👧👦 日本では恋人に家族を紹介するのは真剣な関係に近づくまで控えられる。アメリカでは早く紹介される傾向がある。
- 💑 日本のカップルは公衆の前でキスをすることは少ないが、手を繋ぐことはある。アメリカでは公衆の前での親密な行為が一般的。
- 🌟 彼女は日本の男性よりもアメリカの男性が好きだと感じているが、どちらもそれぞれ良い点があると語っている。
- 🗣️ 彼女は日本語と英語のバランスを考慮して動画を作ることにしている。多くの人が英語を学びたいとコメントしている。
Q & A
アメリカ人と日本人の男性の間の文化の違いは何ですか?
-アメリカ人と日本人の男性の間の文化の違いは、男性らしさの定義、ファッションスタイル、公の場での親密な行為の表現、そして家族との関係性です。
日本のアイドルの外見の特徴は何ですか?
-日本のアイドルは髪が長い、ファッションが女性らしい、肌が完璧で時にはメイクが施されているように見える、そしてバッグを持ち歩いています。
日本の男性がバッグを持っていることに衝撃を受けた理由は何ですか?
-アメリカで育った視点から、男性がバッグを持っている 것은珍しいことで、便利なための選択として理解されるまでに時間がかかりました。
日本の男性が体毛を激光脱毛で取り除く理由は何ですか?
-日本では男性の体毛は良くないとされており、体毛の多い男性はあまり好まれていません。
アメリカ人と日本の男性のデートスタイルの違いは何ですか?
-アメリカの男性はデートですぐにキスやハグを求める傾向がありますが、日本の男性はもっと内向的で、デートですぐに身体的な接触を求めることはあまりありません。
日本の男性が公の場でキスをしないのはなぜですか?
-日本の文化では、公の場での感情表現が控えめであり、カップルは手を繋ぐことはありますが、キスをすることは少ないです。
日本の男性はなぜ香る感じをしないのですか?
-日本の男性は香水を多く使わず、汗の匂いも控えめなため、強い香りを感じる機会は少ないです。
日本の男性が家族を紹介するタイミングはどのような時ですか?
-日本の文化では、家族を紹介するのは関係が真剣な段階に近づく、つまり結婚に近い時に行われることが多いです。
アメリカ人と日本の男性のアプローチ方法の違いは何ですか?
-アメリカの男性は女性に直ちにアプローチをかけますが、日本の男性は内向的で、アプローチをかける際に遠慮がちです。
ビデオのスクリプトの主題は何ですか?
-ビデオのスクリプトの主題は、アメリカ人と日本人の男性の間の文化的な違いと、その違いがどのようにdating cultureに影響を与えるかです。
ビデオの作成者がなぜ日本語と英語のバランスをとりたいと考えるのですか?
-多くの視聴者が英語を学びたいと言っているため、ビデオの作成者は日本語と英語のバランスをとることで、より多くの視聴者のニーズに応えることを考えています。
Outlines
😀 日本人とアメリカ人の男性の違い
この段落では、アメリカと日本における男性のマスコリネスの違いについて語られています。日本のアイドルや男性が髪を長く保ち、女性らしいファッションやメイクを楽しむことが一般的であること、そして日本男性がバッグを持ち歩くことに作者が驚いたことが触れられています。また、日本では男性に毛が生えることが好まれないことや、アメリカでは男性が汗をかくと強いにおいがする一方、日本男性はそれほど強く香らないことが比較されています。さらに、日本男性はアメリカの男性ほど積極的でもなく、触れ合いも控えめであることが述べられています。
😌 日米間のデート文化の違い
第二段落では、日米間のデート文化の違いが焦点に当てられています。アメリカの男性は初デートでもキスやハグを求める傾向がある一方、日本男性はより控えめで、相手をもっと知りたいという姿勢をとる傾向があります。また、アメリカの男性は香水を多く使うことに対して、日本男性はそれほど強く香らないことが好ましいとされています。さらに、家族紹介の文化的な違いも指摘されており、日本では結婚に近づくまで家族を紹介しないことが一般的であることが強調されています。最後に、公共の場での親密な行為についても、日本では控えめであることが文化的な違いとして挙げられています。
Mindmap
Keywords
💡初デート
💡男性の美しさ
💡化粧
💡バッグ
💡激光脱毛
💡内向的
💡タッチ
💡コロン
💡家族紹介
💡公然のキス
Highlights
在美国,如果第一次约会没有亲吻或拥抱,人们可能会感到困惑或质疑原因。
日本男性携带手提包,这与西方文化中男性的行为不同。
日本男性和美国男性在外表和行为上的差异,例如日本偶像的长发和精致的时尚。
日本男性在皮肤保养和化妆上的关注,与美国男性形成对比。
日本男性使用手提包的普遍现象,以及作者对此的初始震惊。
日本男性普遍进行激光脱毛,而在美国这并不常见。
作者对毛发较多的男性有偏好,这与日本文化中对男性脱毛的偏好不同。
日本男性相比美国男性更加害羞和保守,不经常主动约会。
日本男性在第一次约会时对亲密行为的期望较低。
美国男性在约会时使用大量古龙水,而日本男性则几乎没有强烈的体味。
日本文化中,男性不会在刚开始约会时就将女性介绍给家人。
日本男性在公共场合不太会展示亲昵行为,与美国男性的行为不同。
作者个人更喜欢日本男性,尽管她认识到两种文化中男性都有各自的优点。
作者计划在视频中平衡使用日语和英语,以帮助观众学习英语。
视频的结尾,作者感谢观众并预告下一期视频内容。
Transcripts
I feel like in America if you don't like
kiss or hug on the first dat they're
going to be
like like what's wrong like why is she
not kissing me Japanese men have purses
I was shocked over the years living in
Japan I've realized that I prefer
Japanese men more than I do
American
um so yeah today I want to talk about
the differences between Japanese and
American
menbe
is he an idol I don't know if he's an
idol but I saw in the drama and I
remember being like Oh like he's so
handsome and that was the first time
that like oh Japanese men are like
pretty like they're pretty cute but one
thing I noticed while I was watching J
dramas because after watching ich that I
kind of started watching other um dramas
I realized in
Japan how Japanese men and American men
what's considered masculine is totally
different so for example especially ID
Japanese Idols um their hair are super
long they dress kind of feminine like
their fashion is very on point very good
um which is kind of a feminine thing
their hair is long their skin is
perfect sometimes it looks like they
have makeup on and they wear purses as
well those are just the things some of
the things that I noticed about Japanese
idols and just Japanese men so that made
me realize that considered masculine in
Japan and what's considered masculine in
America is two separate things so like I
said like Japanese men have purses which
when I first moved to Japan and I saw
men walking around with their handbags I
was shocked it makes sense cuz it's more
like convenient but from a woman's
perspective that like grew up in America
who never saw that I was just so shocked
but um yeah things like that having
purses or men the way that they dress or
having their hair like perfectly styled
um like longer things like that um not a
bad thing it's just different but um and
that goes to another
thing I noticed that in Japan hair on
men is not considered a good thing so
when I was writing the train I saw like
a like a advertisement on laser hair
remover for men so in Japan men get
laser hair removal on like their arms
their legs kind of
everywhere but in America that's not a
thing like men do not get laser hair
removal at all I love hairy men like I
know it sounds weird but like the
hairier the better I mean like not like
a gorilla but I love hay man like hair
arms hairy legs like I don't know hairy
men are just super attractive so yeah
just little things like that what's
considered masculine and feminine in
Japan and America um because it's just
super different um it's very shocking
for me but it's uh it's very interesting
thing that I noticed difference wise
between Japanese and American men
is Japanese men are a lot more shy and
reserved and um tend to keep to the
themselves they're they're much more shy
than American men so for example if the
Japanese guy likes you or wants to ask
you out I feel like it doesn't really
happen as often as it does as it would
in America I feel like in America
American men if they see a woman that
they think is very pretty or they want
to ask out they'll just go up to her and
ask her even if they don't know her but
I feel like in Japan if a man he's a
very pretty woman and they really want
to ask her out I feel like Japanese men
are a little bit more shy and reserved
and they wouldn't take the first steps
so because they are shy I also noticed
that Japanese men aren't very touchy and
I talked about this a little bit with
Asia too in America I feel like
especially on first dates with American
men there's a little bit more of an
expectation that you have to do more
stuff with them on the first day whether
that's kissing hugging or more stuff um
but with Japanese men I noticed that
because they are shy I I don't feel that
expectation to do to hug them or to kiss
them or to hold their hands on the first
aid I feel like it takes a little bit
more time with a Japanese man and I
appreciate that a lot I'd rather get to
know the person before I start doing any
kind of physical stuff with them like
kissing them or holding their hands or
anything like that um and yeah it's
really different but it's really nice I
feel like in America if you don't like
kiss or hug or do other stuff with them
on the first date or first couple of
dates like they're going to be like oh
like what like what's wrong like why is
she not kissing me I feel like it's kind
of a negative
thing in the whole go they smell um but
not their B they smell of cologne one
thing I've noticed with Japanese men is
you guys don't really smell at all like
cologne or like Bo Japanese men really
don't smell when they sweat but in
America American men uh smell pretty bad
when they sweat and because they smell
really bad they use a crap ton of
cologne so like when I'm in America and
I pass by men it's very common that it's
like you get like a smack in the face of
like cologne but in Japan I've never
ever ever dealt with Japanese men
smelling too strong in any way and um I
know it seems really silly but it's like
super nice it's so random but yeah
um yeah so that's just another very
small difference that I noticed another
difference that I noticed about Japanese
men and American men so Japanese men I
noticed in Japanese culture they don't
introduce you to their family when you
start dating
um and I remember thinking like like H
we're going to go out with your parents
like to eat like I've only been on I
barely knew this guy I've only went on
one date with him and I feel very
uncomfortable and nervous it's I feel
like in American culture is very common
when you start dating someone it's like
hey like come over and meet my mom and
meet my dad and meet my sisters and my
family um but in Japan you don't really
do that until almost until you're about
to get married um it's just so different
um you don't really yeah you just don't
meet the family until it's super serious
ious um and I think I appreciate
Japanese culture more in that way cuz it
takes the relationship I feel like more
seriously you're not just like
introducing your parents and your family
to a whole bunch of random people and
it's you're only introducing them to
people that you really care about I
think it's really special and really
nice big difference that I noticed about
Japanese and American men um American
men will kiss you in public and we'll
smack your butt in public and we'll do a
lot of things in in public but in Japan
I noticed that Japanese couples do not
they hold their hands in public but they
don't really kiss in public um and I
think that has to do with just the
culture and people being more shy here
um and not really um expressing their
emotions so that was just another
culture difference that I noticed about
Japan um so yeah I think those are most
of the differences between Japanese men
and American men um Japanese men and
American men of course they're both good
in their own ways and they're both
different and special in their own ways
um I of course I obviously live in Japan
and I'm surrounded by Japanese people so
I love Japanese men and I love um
Japanese people so uh just over the
years living in Japan I've realized that
I prefer Japanese men more than I do
American men um but that's just my own
personal opinion nothing against
American men um my family is American so
of course I love American men too um but
yeah so so yeah those are the difference
between Japanese and American men I hope
you guys enjoyed this video and found it
interesting no in the comments below
that more people have been asking um
they've been saying that they want to
learn English so I've kind of been
thinking some videos I should speak more
Japanese some videos I should speak more
English um because it seems like a lot
of people want to learn English for
those reasons so I think I'm going to
have to start balancing out um speaking
Japanese and speaking in English um but
yeah so thank you guys for watching I
really appreciate it and I'll see you
guys in the next video
byebye
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