Signs For a Good Wife | Andrew Tate

Summary

The speaker discusses the dynamics of power in relationships, suggesting that a woman's power diminishes after the first sexual encounter if she doesn't maintain the relationship. He advises reducing attention post-intimacy to test a woman's commitment. He also emphasizes the importance of a woman's genuine love and care, stating that a good woman will try harder to keep the man's attention and will be protective of him. The speaker expresses a preference for women who are not overly sociable and value a deep connection over casual relationships.

Takeaways

• 🤔 The speaker believes that a woman's power dynamic in a relationship changes after the first sexual encounter, where she might risk being seen as a one-night stand if she doesn't maintain the relationship.
• 🔄 Post-intimacy, the speaker suggests reducing attention towards a woman by 65% to test her commitment and to see if she will 'up her game' to keep the man's interest.
• 💔 If a woman does not attempt to maintain the relationship after sleeping together, the speaker considers it a sign to move on, as she might not be genuinely interested.
• 🚫 The speaker is not a fan of women who are overly sociable, knowing many people, or always out and about, as he sees this as a red flag for potential relationship issues.
• 🛑 He emphasizes that the biggest red flag is a woman who would quickly move on to another man after a disagreement or unhappiness in the current relationship.
• 💰 The speaker would not spend money on a woman he's been talking to if she does not reciprocate intimacy, as he believes in a mutual exchange of genuine interest and affection.
• 🙅‍♂️ He has a strong stance against paying for sex, having never engaged with a prostitute, and finds the energy exchange in such a scenario to be negative.
• 💞 He values a woman who genuinely cares for and loves him, believing that a loving relationship can provide a form of protection and positive energy.
• 🔮 The speaker shares personal experiences where women who truly loved him seemed to have a protective power, even predicting negative events in his life.
• 🌐 He desires to be the center of a woman's universe, expecting her to be deeply affected by his absence and to be fully committed to him in every aspect of life.
• 🤝 He believes that if a woman understands and trusts him to take care of her in all ways, including financially, then he will naturally become the center of her world.

Q & A

What does the speaker believe is the first sign of power dynamic change in a relationship after sleeping together?

The speaker believes that the power dynamic changes when a woman realizes that if she doesn't maintain the relationship, she risks being seen as just a one-night stand or being objectified.

According to the speaker, what should a man do after sleeping with a woman for the first time to test her commitment?

The speaker suggests that a man should reduce his attention towards the woman by about 65% after sleeping together, observing how she reacts to this change in attention.

What is the speaker's view on how a good woman should react if a man reduces his attention after they've been intimate?

The speaker believes a good woman will up her game and try harder to keep the man's interest, showing that she values the relationship beyond just physical intimacy.

Why does the speaker consider a woman's reaction after the first sleep together as a test for her character?

The speaker thinks it's a test of character because it reveals whether the woman values the relationship or is willing to move on easily, which indicates her commitment and respect for the relationship.

What does the speaker consider as the biggest red flag when meeting a woman for the first time?

The speaker identifies the biggest red flag as a woman who is overly sociable, knows a lot of people, and is always out, as this could lead to her being influenced by too many external factors and not being fully committed to one person.

What does the speaker dislike about women who have a busy social schedule?

The speaker dislikes that women with a busy social schedule often know too many people, which can lead to them being pulled in many directions and not being fully present in a relationship.

How does the speaker feel about paying for a woman's expenses if she does not want to be intimate with him?

The speaker would not feel comfortable spending money on a woman who does not want to be intimate with him, as he believes in genuine connection and does not want to force a relationship.

What is the speaker's stance on paying for sex or being with a prostitute?

The speaker has never paid for sex or been with a prostitute, even while living in Thailand, because he believes it's bad karma and he values genuine connection and love.

What does the speaker value most in a relationship with a woman?

The speaker values genuine care, love, and the protective power that a woman can offer when she truly loves and cares for a man.

How does the speaker define a good woman in the context of this script?

In the context of this script, a good woman is one who is not easily replaceable, values the relationship beyond physical intimacy, and is willing to put in effort to maintain the relationship.

What kind of woman does the speaker want to be associated with, and why?

The speaker wants to be associated with a woman who makes him the center of her universe, as he believes this indicates a deep level of commitment and love, and ensures that he is the most important person in her life.

Outlines

00:00

🤔 Power Dynamics in Relationships

The speaker discusses the power dynamics in romantic relationships, emphasizing that the woman often holds the initial power as the 'prize.' He suggests that after the first intimate encounter, men typically lose their power if they continue to chase the woman. To regain control, he advises reducing attention by 65% post-intimacy, which can test a woman's genuine interest. A good woman, according to him, will escalate her efforts to maintain the relationship, whereas a less committed one may move on or seek attention elsewhere. This approach helps identify a woman's value and commitment to the relationship.

05:01

🔒 Seeking a Committed Partner

In this paragraph, the speaker expresses his preference for women who are not overly sociable or constantly engaged in activities. He views a woman's busy schedule and extensive social circle as red flags, as they can lead to distractions and potential infidelity. The speaker values a woman who, if given complete support and care, would make him the center of her universe. He is not interested in relationships where both parties maintain separate lives but rather seeks a partner whose world revolves around him, indicating a desire for a deep, exclusive commitment.

Keywords

💡Gatekeeper

The term 'gatekeeper' in the video script refers to someone who has control or authority over a situation or relationship. In the context of dating dynamics, the speaker suggests that a woman may be seen as a 'gatekeeper' when she is in charge of the relationship's progression. The concept is used to discuss the power dynamics that can shift after a couple becomes intimate for the first time.

💡Power Dynamic

The 'power dynamic' is a concept that describes the balance of influence or control between two parties in a relationship. The script discusses how this dynamic can change after the first sexual encounter, where the man might lose his initial advantage if he continues to pursue the woman excessively, thus relinquishing his power.

💡One-Night Stand

A 'one-night stand' is a casual sexual encounter between two individuals that is not expected to lead to a long-term relationship. The script uses this term to illustrate the potential consequence for a woman if she does not maintain the relationship after sleeping with a man, suggesting it could reduce her to being seen as merely a temporary sexual partner.

💡Attention

In the context of the script, 'attention' refers to the level of focus and interest one person gives to another in a relationship. The speaker advises reducing attention by a significant amount after the first sexual encounter as a strategy to gauge the woman's commitment and to maintain a balance in the relationship.

💡Good Woman

The term 'good woman' is used in the script to describe a woman who is perceived as having positive qualities, such as loyalty and genuine care for her partner. The speaker suggests that a 'good woman' would increase her efforts to maintain a relationship if she feels the man's attention decreasing, indicating her value and investment in the relationship.

💡Red Flags

In the script, 'red flags' are warning signs or indicators that suggest potential problems or undesirable traits in a person. The speaker discusses the importance of recognizing these signs early in a relationship to avoid future issues, particularly focusing on a woman's behavior after the first sexual encounter.

💡Overs Sociable

'Overs sociable' is used in the script to describe someone who is excessively social, knowing many people, and frequently engaging in social activities. The speaker expresses a preference for women who are not 'overs sociable,' suggesting that such women may be more likely to be influenced by others and less focused on a single relationship.

💡Karma

In the context of the video, 'karma' refers to the spiritual concept of cause and effect, where one's actions have consequences. The speaker mentions 'bad karma' in relation to engaging in sexual activities with someone who is not genuinely interested, suggesting that it could lead to negative outcomes.

💡Love and Care

The script emphasizes the importance of 'love and care' in a relationship, describing it as a powerful energy that can lead to protective and supportive behaviors. The speaker shares personal experiences where women who truly loved him showed concern for his well-being, even predicting negative events in his life.

💡Center of the Universe

The phrase 'center of the universe' is used metaphorically in the script to describe the desired position of a man in his partner's life. The speaker expresses a preference for relationships where he is the primary focus and source of stability for the woman, indicating a desire for a deep and exclusive connection.

Highlights

The speaker believes that a woman has the power and acts as the gatekeeper in a relationship, especially after the first time they sleep together.

If a man continues to chase a woman after sleeping with her, he loses his power and she remains in charge.

The speaker suggests reducing attention towards a woman by 65% after sleeping with her to see if she will up her game to keep the relationship.

A good woman will try harder to keep the man if he cuts back his attention, while a woman not worth it will move on to someone else.

Most men do not test a woman's involvement in the relationship after the first time they sleep together, which is a mistake.

The speaker shares that he personally judges a woman's character by how she behaves after just sleeping with a new man when unhappy.

Destroying the stigma of quickly sleeping with a new man when unhappy is considered the biggest red flag.

The speaker dislikes dating girls who are overly sociable, know many people, and are always out and about.

Girls with busy schedules and many acquaintances are seen as red flags, as they can get pulled in too many directions.

The speaker prefers girls who have a more relaxed lifestyle and are not constantly occupied with social activities.

If a girl does not want to sleep with the speaker after he has invested time and money, he respects her decision and sees it as avoiding bad energy.

The speaker values genuine care and love from a woman over just the act of sleeping together.

He believes that love between two people is a powerful energy and women who truly love a man can care for and protect his spirit.

The speaker has experienced women who truly loved him warning him of bad events through dreams, showing their deep connection.

He seeks a woman who is infatuated with him and makes him the center of her world, rather than just having separate lives that occasionally intersect.

The speaker believes that if a woman understands and trusts him completely in all aspects of life, he will naturally become the center of her universe.

He wants a woman whose whole world would collapse if he disappeared, showing the depth of their connection and commitment.

Transcripts

cuz she's in charge cuz you she's the

prize you want her a lot of men say I'm

the prize but most of those

[ __ ] say a dumb [ __ ] ain't the

prize for nothing they're they're nerds

right so she has the power she's the

gatekeeper the first time that power

Dynamic changes is after you sleep

together because now if she doesn't keep

you in the relationship she's just a one

night stand or a hoe sure you first

sleep with her most men first sleep with

a chick and they continue to chase her

and they throw away their power they get

power and they never crosses their mind

they throw it away she stays in charge

what I have learned in my experience is

if you're dating a girl that she's in

charge and you sleep together on the

first night and after you sleep together

don't ignore her don't be a [ __ ] but

just kind of reduce your attention by

65% just like cut it back down i s with

you now Bo how are you yeah I'm good you

shorter replies more delays Etc and

here's how here's what you learn a good

woman will then up her game and try

harder to keep you because she doesn't

want to just go sleep with some other

guy cuz she slept with the guy a big

deal for her she has a pure heart she'll

try for you if you cut your attention

down on a [ __ ] and she just goes well

[ __ ] it I'll go [ __ ] someone else or

I'll just go on a boat in Miami next

party or she stops replying then she she

did a favor yeah so the easiest way to

tell of a girl's good or not is after

the first time you sleep with her to see

her involvement in the relationship post

that day most men never do this test on

a [ __ ] they never do it so this is why

they keep getting stung by [ __ ] girls

who ain't worth [ __ ] I can tell if a

girl's worth something or not that's a

very easy there's a few other things but

I'll give that one for free it's a very

easy way because a good woman ain't

going to sleep with a guy and then just

go oh he didn't text me very much [ __ ]

it I'll just go get a new dick those are

those are the ones you want and then it

[ __ ] with them too cuz they're like

wait did he not like it like a good

woman will try a little bit it's the

first time they'll be the one chasing

you if you do it right and then you can

tell if you have a good one if they do

chase you after that you have a good one

if they don't chase you after that

you'll be glad you didn't keep her

anyway okay one well wait we got one

more I was going to talk about on the

same lines is that okay you want to you

is that okay with you dude I think

rather shut the [ __ ] up but if you want

to talk about yo let's take it back to

[ __ ] no they're not going to do that

we're not talking about that we're

talking about girls right now

[ __ ] um are the biggest red

flags when it comes to a woman like when

you first when your first meeting you're

trying to talk to her what are the

biggest red flags that pop up you're

like okay this is something I got to

look out for as far as like yeah you

personally yeah I mean that's the only

thing I'll truly stay with it bro I

that's the only thing I'll what do you

mean I'm sitting at this crib that's the

only thing say tonight what do you mean

dog that's the only thing I'll truly

judge a woman on because I think that's

a very good test of character because if

a woman destroys the stigma of just

sleeping with a new man as soon as she's

semi unhappy with the current scenario

involving you then you don't want to be

in a relationship with that biggest red

flag that's the biggest red flag but

like if you're dating a girl I think

I've said this stuff before I don't like

girls who are overs sociable I don't

like girls who know lots of people I

don't like girls who are always out I

don't like girls who you said that you

said that on the last one I said on the

last one like if if I meet a girl and

she's like yeah and I go here and I know

this guy and then the manager of this

place invites me here and then on

Thursday I got this and her whole

schedule's just full all the time it's

to me that's the biggest red flag cuz

girls like that always end up just

knowing too many people and getting

Dragged In Too Many directions too many

people in their ear too many guys

getting attempt too many people getting

pop at the champ it's just just it's

just long I like I like girls when you

say what are you doing I don't know

nothing like that's the one nothing

you're doing nothing the next three

weeks that's who I want those girls are

like I'm I'm going

Cancun this one's crazy I don't know you

fly a girl out yeah that you've been

talking to you spend a bunch of money on

her take her shopping but she doesn't

smash I don't think I'd take her

shopping um if I flew a girl out and and

we didn't get along and she decided not

to sleep with me then that's absolutely

artly perfectly fine in every regard I

would never want to sleep with the woman

who didn't want to sleep with me I think

that's extremely bad energy it's why

I've never in my life paid for sex ever

I've never slept with a prostitute ever

hooker never once I lived in Thailand

for a year and a half fighting I must be

the only guy who lived in Thailand never

[ __ ] girl Robin tug never never I

don't like the energy exchange of a girl

who genuinely isn't into me I think

that's bad karma it's bad ju guu so I if

a girl if I would to meet a girl and I

would to fly her out and she go I'm just

not into you sexually I'd be like good I

don't want to get mixed up in that kind

of negative energy exchange has you

always been that way or is that I think

I've always pretty much been that way I

think the gratification of sleeping with

woman is not just about numbers and

banging and stupid [ __ ] the

gratification is that she genuinely

cares about you and loves you I think

that the love between two people is a

powerful energy I think that women when

they love you can care for you and

genuinely protect your spirit I've had

experiences in my life I'll tell you

this man I've had times where girls who

truly love me with all their heart who

will do anything for me I've woken up

and all three of them different ones all

text me on the same day I had a bad

dream about you something bad's going to

happen and that day something bad

happens oh yeah if a woman truly truly

loves you and truly cares about you they

have a a degree of power and protection

that's important I don't want to mess

with or be around a woman who's not

infatuated with me any woman who I'm

going to be with I'm going to be her at

the center of her world if I don't

answer she's panicking if something bad

happens to me she's like if I go to jail

she'll be there I'm not going to be with

some [ __ ] she's like yeah he's cool but

I think that's just negative I know I

know would do that every woman every

woman who's around me I am the center of

her universe is that you that makes her

like that or is that her naturally uh I

well that's a good question obviously

I'm me I'm me but I think that if a

woman truly understands in many

different areas if they can hand their

life into your hands and you can take

care of them including financially in

every single way then you're going to be

the center of the universe you're there

everything right if you were to

disappear one day their whole world

would collapse their Social Circle would

collapse their finances would collapse

their worldview would collapse their

protection would collapse the places

they go where they're staying everything

would just collapse you're the center of

their world that's the kind of girl I

want to be associated with if I was with

a girl like she had her own life and I

had my own life and we kind of linked up

that's not my thing I'm not interested

in it