(8) AL-IBANAH WA AL-IFADHAH | Durasi Haid | Kadam Sidik

Summary

In this transcript, the speaker discusses various aspects of menstruation (haid) in Islam, particularly focusing on the minimal and maximal durations of haid, as well as cultural and religious nuances in interpreting menstrual blood. They highlight the differences in terminology used for living and deceased individuals in Arabic, such as 'rahimahullah' (may Allah have mercy on him) for the deceased and 'hafidhahullah' (may Allah preserve him) for the living. The speaker also criticizes certain practices in religious institutions, emphasizing the need for respect and understanding when dealing with students’ personal matters. Finally, the speaker explains the guidelines for determining the validity of menstrual blood based on its duration, referring to Islamic jurisprudence.

Takeaways

• 😀 The term *rahimahullah* is used for the deceased, while *hafidahullah* is used for the living, and people often misinterpret this distinction.
• 😀 When someone says *rahimahullah* for a living person, they are praying for mercy for them, not implying they are dead.
• 😀 In Arabic culture, if someone says *Allah yahdik* (may Allah guide you), it is a polite way of expressing disapproval or frustration, not just a prayer.
• 😀 The minimum duration of menstruation (haid) is 24 hours, meaning blood must be present for a full 24-hour period to be considered haid.
• 😀 The maximum duration of menstruation is 15 days, and anything beyond this is considered abnormal bleeding (*istihadah*).
• 😀 The most common duration for menstruation is 6 or 7 days, which is considered typical or 'normal'.
• 😀 Some people wrongly test female students' menstruation status by using cotton pads, which the speaker strongly criticizes as unethical and invasive.
• 😀 Teachers should respect students' autonomy, particularly concerning personal matters like menstruation. If a student claims to be menstruating, their word should be accepted without question.
• 😀 The duration of menstruation can be calculated by totaling the hours of bleeding over a span of 15 days, with 24 hours being the minimum to be considered haid.
• 😀 If the bleeding does not reach 24 hours within 15 days, it is considered *istihadah* (abnormal bleeding), and the person is required to make up the missed prayers and fasts.
• 😀 Understanding the nuances of menstruation laws in Islam is complex and requires in-depth study, as demonstrated by Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal's years of learning before giving a fatwa on the subject.

Q & A

What does the term 'rahimahullah' mean in Arabic?

'Rahimahullah' is a term used in Arabic that means 'May Allah have mercy on him/her.' It is typically used for someone who has passed away, as a prayer for mercy. For someone who is still alive, the term 'hafidahullah' or similar expressions are used, meaning 'May Allah protect him/her.'

Why should one be cautious if someone says 'Allah yahdik'?

'Allah yahdik' translates to 'May Allah guide you,' which seems positive. However, the speaker explains that in Arab culture, it is often used when someone is upset with you, implying that they believe you have done something wrong. It is not always a positive statement, even though it sounds good in translation.

What is the minimum duration for menstruation (haid) to be valid?

The minimum duration for menstruation (haid) to be considered valid is 24 hours, or one full day and night. This means the bleeding should last for at least 24 hours, as confirmed by observing visible blood discharge in the genital area.

How should one determine whether the blood is from haid or istihadah?

To determine if the blood is from haid or istihadah, one needs to observe the total duration of bleeding. If the bleeding lasts for 24 hours or more within a period of 15 days, it is considered haid. If it does not reach 24 hours in this timeframe, it is considered istihadah, or abnormal bleeding.

What is the maximum duration of menstruation (haid)?

The maximum duration for menstruation (haid) is 15 days, or 15 nights. Any bleeding that continues beyond this period is considered istihadah, not haid.

What is the typical duration of menstruation for most women?

The typical or most common duration of menstruation for women is between 6 to 7 days. This is the average duration observed across many cases.

Why is it inappropriate for a teacher to check if a student is menstruating by using a cotton pad?

It is considered highly inappropriate and unethical for teachers to check whether a student is menstruating by using a cotton pad or similar methods. The speaker emphasizes that once a female student reaches puberty and declares that she is menstruating, her word should be accepted without further physical verification. Such practices are seen as invasive and disrespectful.

What happens if a woman does not meet the minimum 24-hour duration for menstruation?

If a woman’s bleeding does not reach the minimum 24-hour duration within a 15-day period, the bleeding is considered istihadah (abnormal bleeding), not menstruation (haid). This means that she should make up for any missed prayers and fasting during this time.

How does one calculate the total duration of bleeding during menstruation?

To calculate the total duration of bleeding, one needs to track the bleeding over several days. If a woman experiences intermittent bleeding (sometimes clean, sometimes bleeding), the total hours of bleeding across the 15-day period should be added up. If the total exceeds 24 hours, it is considered haid.

Why did Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal study menstruation for nine years?

Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal studied the issue of menstruation for nine years before he was confident enough to issue a fatwa (Islamic legal ruling) on the matter. This long period of study highlights the complexity of the topic and the depth of knowledge required to provide accurate religious guidance.