Do Men’s Body Counts Matter?

Summary

The speaker addresses the controversy surrounding his previous discussion on men's concern over a woman's 'body count' or sexual history. He defends his stance, arguing that while high body counts are problematic for both genders, societal double standards and the promotion of female sexual liberation make it a more significant issue for women. He also refutes accusations of sexism, emphasizing that his intent was to critique cultural narratives rather than unfairly target women.

Takeaways

• 🗣️ The speaker starts by addressing a previous discussion on men's concerns about a woman's 'body count', indicating a sequel to yesterday's topic.
• 🔄 The speaker acknowledges the reaction to the previous day's show, noting both agreement and disagreement, with a focus on the criticism that the discussion was one-sided.
• 👤 The speaker defends the original monologue, stating that it was not sexist but rather focused on societal debates about men's concerns regarding women's sexual history.
• 🚫 The speaker argues against the demand for equal time for men in the discussion, explaining that the conversation was intended to address a specific societal concern about women's body counts.
• 🤔 The speaker challenges the notion that society is harsher on women, asserting that it's a misconception and that historically, men have faced more societal criticism.
• 💬 The speaker emphasizes the cultural narrative that promotes sexual liberation for women, suggesting that it's important to counteract this message by discussing the downsides of promiscuity.
• 🛡️ The speaker introduces a product, the 'headrest safe', as a convenient and safe way to store valuables in vehicles, providing a brief advertisement.
• 🚹 The speaker concludes by stating that while promiscuity is morally disordered for both genders, a high body count is a more significant red flag for women due to their natural emotional tendencies.
• 🧠 The speaker suggests that men's wiring makes casual sexual relationships easier for them to compartmentalize, whereas women's emotional nature makes a high body count a sign of deeper moral issues.
• 🚷 The speaker asserts that feminine flaws in men are worse than masculine flaws in women, and vice versa, due to societal and biological expectations of gender roles.
• 🔚 The speaker ends with a call to action for listeners to subscribe to a service for ad-free content, using a promo code for a special offer.

Q & A

What was the main topic of discussion in the previous episode of the show?

The main topic of the previous episode was the issue of 'high body counts,' specifically why men care about a woman's number of sexual partners and why it is valid for them to do so.

What was the reaction to the previous episode's discussion on body counts?

The discussion sparked a significant reaction, with many people agreeing with the points raised, some disagreeing, and a vocal minority criticizing the focus of the remarks, particularly the perceived lack of attention given to men's body counts.

Why did some listeners feel the discussion was one-sided?

Some listeners felt the discussion was one-sided because the host spent most of the segment talking about why women shouldn't have high body counts and did not say much about why men shouldn't have high body counts as well.

What is the host's response to the criticism that he was being sexist towards women?

The host clarified that he did mention that it's also bad for men to be promiscuous and that the same reasons apply. However, he did not spend equal time on men because the conversation was specifically about why men care about high body counts in women, not about men's body counts.

What does the host believe about the societal criticism of women?

The host believes that the idea that society is harsher and more critical towards women is wrong and delusional. He argues that society has only recently started to criticize women at all, and most of the criticism has traditionally been directed towards men.

According to the host, why is female promiscuity sometimes seen as empowering by cultural institutions?

The host suggests that powerful cultural voices and institutions in the country are heavily invested in the narrative that sexual liberation and promiscuity are empowering for women, which is a message that does not go the other way for men.

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Why does the host believe that a high body count is a bigger red flag for women than for men?

The host believes that a high body count is a bigger red flag for women because women are generally more emotional and form attachments more easily, making casual sexual relationships a sign of greater moral disorder for them compared to men.

What does the host say about the differences in how men and women are wired in terms of relationships and attraction?

The host suggests that men are less emotional by nature, form fewer attachments, and are more visually attracted, making it easier for them to compartmentalize relationships. Women, on the other hand, are more emotional, affectionate, and easily attached, with their attraction less driven by visual cues.

How does the host respond to the criticism that he is focusing too much on criticizing women?

The host argues that he is not focusing too much on criticizing women but rather addressing the cultural narratives that promote female promiscuity as empowering. He also points out that traditionally, most criticism has been directed towards men, and any slight shift towards criticizing women is met with resistance.

Outlines

00:00

🗣️ Controversial Body Count Discussion Sequel

In this segment, the speaker addresses the aftermath of a previous discussion on men's concern over a woman's 'body count' or sexual history. The speaker reads out and responds to comments criticizing the one-sided nature of the conversation, arguing that while men's high body counts are also problematic, the focus was on societal debates and men's concerns. The speaker defends their stance, clarifying that they did mention the issue of men's promiscuity but chose not to delve into it equally due to the specific nature of the debate. They also refute the claim that society is harsher on women, asserting that historically, men have been the primary target of societal criticism.

05:01

🚨 Societal Criticism and the Double Standard

The speaker continues the conversation by discussing the societal double standards and the shift in criticism towards women. They argue that while women are not accustomed to being criticized, men have long been the recipients of societal scolding. The speaker also addresses the cultural push for female sexual liberation and the lack of a similar narrative for men, emphasizing the importance of countering this one-sided encouragement. Additionally, a product called the 'headrest safe' is promoted as a convenient and secure way to store valuables in vehicles, offering a blend of safety and convenience.

10:02

🚫 The Red Flag of Promiscuity: Gender Differences

This paragraph delves into the differences between men and women regarding promiscuity, asserting that while it is morally disordered for both genders, a high body count is a more significant red flag for women. The speaker explains that men, being less emotional and more visually attracted, can compartmentalize sexual relationships more easily, whereas women's natural wiring makes casual sex less appealing and thus a sign of deeper issues if they engage in it. The speaker also touches on the repulsion society feels towards men displaying feminine flaws and vice versa, highlighting the nuance in societal expectations and reactions to gender-specific behaviors.

Keywords

💡Body Count

The term 'body count' refers to the number of sexual partners a person has had. In the video's context, it is a central theme as the speaker discusses societal views on high body counts for both men and women, highlighting the potential implications for health, relationships, and personal values.

💡Promiscuity

Promiscuity is the practice of having multiple sexual partners, often in a short period. The speaker argues that promiscuity is not just morally questionable but also a sign of a lack of self-control and dignity, using this term to critique both men and women with high body counts.

💡Moral Values

Moral values are principles and standards of behavior that are considered right or acceptable in a society. The video discusses how high body counts can be seen as a reflection of one's moral values, or lack thereof, with the speaker suggesting that promiscuity is morally disordered.

💡Self-Control

Self-control refers to the ability to regulate one's emotions and desires and to resist impulses. The script mentions self-control as a virtue that is lacking in individuals with high body counts, implying that such individuals have succumbed to their carnal desires.

💡Gender Equality

Gender equality is the state of equal ease of access to resources and opportunities regardless of gender. The speaker addresses the issue of gender equality by discussing the different societal expectations and reactions to men's and women's sexual behavior, arguing against the notion that society is harsher on women.

💡Sexual Liberation

Sexual liberation is the freedom to engage in sexual activity without restrictions imposed by society, morality, or law. The video touches on the cultural narrative that sexual liberation is empowering for women, which the speaker challenges by suggesting that promiscuity is not an objective good.

💡Cultural Voices

Cultural voices refer to the influential entities or narratives within a society that shape public opinion and beliefs. The script mentions 'powerful cultural voices' promoting the idea of female promiscuity as positive, which the speaker counters by advocating for traditional values.

💡STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)

STDs are infections that are spread through sexual activity. The video acknowledges the association between high body counts and the risk of contracting STDs, emphasizing the health implications of promiscuous behavior.

💡Red Flag

A 'red flag' is a warning sign or an indicator of a potential problem. In the context of the video, a high body count is considered a red flag for both men and women, suggesting that it may signal deeper issues with an individual's character or lifestyle.

💡Masculine and Feminine Ideals

Masculine and feminine ideals refer to the traditional or societal expectations of how men and women should behave. The speaker argues that certain behaviors are more acceptable for one gender than the other, with feminine flaws in men and masculine flaws in women being particularly unattractive.

💡Headrest Safe

Headrest Safe is a product mentioned in the video designed to secure valuables in a vehicle. It is a safe that replaces a car's standard headrest, allowing for secure storage that is hidden from view. This product is used as an advertisement within the script, illustrating the concept of security and convenience.

Highlights

The host discusses the issue of high body counts and why men care about a woman's sexual history.

Sparked a conversation with varied reactions, including agreement and disagreement with the host's points.

Criticism for not addressing men's high body counts equally, suggesting a double standard.

The host defends his stance, stating that the monologue was about societal debate on men's concerns about women's body counts.

Comments suggest that high body counts are a red flag for both genders, with societal implications.

The host argues that societal criticism is not harsher on women, but rather more balanced now than in the past.

Discussion on the cultural narrative promoting sexual liberation for women and its implications.

The host asserts that female promiscuity is more culturally encouraged than male, necessitating a counter-narrative.

Exploration of the idea that masculine and feminine flaws are perceived differently, with greater repulsion for the latter.

The host claims that a high body count is a more significant red flag for women due to their emotional and attachment nature.

Men's ability to compartmentalize relationships and the societal expectation for them to do so.

The visual nature of men's attraction and how it differs from women's emotional and attachment-driven attraction.

The host argues that feminine flaws in men are more repulsive than masculine flaws in women due to societal and biological norms.

A comparison of how society reacts to emotional sensitivity in men versus women, and the implications for attraction.

The host concludes by emphasizing the importance of addressing the nuances in gender roles and behaviors.

Promotion of the Headrest Safe as a convenient and secure way to store valuables in vehicles.

The host invites listeners to access ad-free content and subscribe using a promo code on dailywire.com.

Transcripts

we're gonna do something today that we

don't usually do today's cancellation is

going to be something of a sequel to

yesterday's on Wednesday as you know we

talked about the issue of high body

counts specifically we discussed why men

care about a woman's body count how many

men she slept with and why it's valid

for us to care about it and why in fact

we should care about it we're not going

to rehash that topic we can go back to

yesterday's show and listen or find the

clip on YouTube that segment got a

pretty big reaction and as they say

sparked a conversation many people both

men and women agreed with the points

that I raised some disagreed and then

there was

as expected a loud minority of people

who who didn't disagree necessarily with

the substance of my remarks but who

nonetheless had a problem with the focus

of my remarks I spent most of the

segment talking about why women

shouldn't have high body counts

but why didn't I say more about why men

shouldn't have high body counts so let

me read a few of these comments and

messages and I think this is a

representative sample Matt you dropped

the ball on the body count rant

everything you said about what women's

body counts is true but it's just as bad

for men who have high body counts it's

just as much of a red flag you can't let

men off the hook another says Matt Matt

says nothing about men having a high

body kind of just as bad for men to have

a high body count and all the negative

things he said uh women having to buy

about a high body count apply to men

this one-sided conversation is stupid

another says number one the association

between STDs and sexual experience is

valid for both men and women number two

the argument about habit of following

carnal desire holds both for men and

women number three as for moral and

values only women's morals values are

called into question number four desired

self-control dignified and classy are

attributes that pertain only to women ah

new exciting Logic for them uh for

redneck University another says I concur

with every Point made with one caveat

this conversation shouldn't be about

women's body counts it should be about a

partner of either gender another says it

needs to be acknowledged that a high

body count is just as disgusting in men

as it is women men who are virtuous and

Chase should also be the one sought

after two uh another says of course the

misogynist who wishes that he was still

in the 1940s focuses his whole body

count diatribe on women

also both men and women should care

about body count not just men caring

about a woman's account it's kind of

gross on both parties do you like being

used and finally Matt I get tired of

constant hyper focus on criticizing

women that's why women become defensive

Society holds women to a higher standard

while painting men as the victims

okay so let me make a few points about

this

first anyone who listens to the

monologue knows that I did in fact

stipulate at the end that obviously it's

bad for men to be promiscuous also most

of the same reasons apply a promiscuous

man has likely been exposed to to and

possibly contracted any number of

disgusting diseases a promiscuous man

lacks self-control lacks virtue lacks

self-respect lacks dignity and so on

and I did State this in the monologue

but of course the caveat that I offered

there was ignored by the people who were

determined to Come Away with the

impression that I was being somehow

unfair and sexist towards women and I

think for those people

the moment I entered into this

conversation uh they had already

determined that like they had already

determined that no matter what I say it

has to be sexist

second did I spend equal time explaining

why high body counts are bad for men

well no I didn't

and why well because that's just not

what the conversation was about

the point was specifically to explain

why men care about high body counts and

that's been the debate in society and

it's what I was weighing in on not

everything has to be equal all the time

okay just because we spend a certain

amount of time talking about one group

of people that doesn't mean that we need

to give equal time to the other group

neither should we generalize every

conversation so that everything is about

everybody and no group is ever

specifically singled out

the demand for this kind of thing is

it's immature and it's silly and it's

childish

it's the sort of thing I deal with as a

parent

you know it's like when my kids are

upset because a sibling got a slightly

bigger piece of pie for dessert

I'm not going to sit there with a ruler

and measure it all out exactly precisely

equally sometimes you get the bigger

size sometimes you get the smaller

slides that's life not everything is

equal and when you insist on that kind

of equality it's not because you care

deeply about fairness and Justice it's

because you're being selfish and

small-minded

third the idea that Society is harsher

and more critical towards women is

simply wrong in fact it's delusional and

laughable

and yet it's a narrative that you hear

from people on the left and the right

you know it's not that Society

criticizes women more

it's that in the last few years

society's some some segments of it

anyway

have started criticizing women at all

you see for a long time nearly all of

the lecturing all of the holding

accountable

all of the criticism was directed

towards men and that has started to

shift ever so slightly in recent times

and the people who preferred the old way

are reacting as though women have been

entirely villainized they haven't

even with a slight uptick in criticism

still the group most often demonized

most often blamed most often cast as the

villains are men specifically white

straight men

they're still the subject of most of the

scolding most of the finger-pointing

most of the scapegoating

it's just that recently we've started to

hear on occasion people speak up and say

well well here's what women are doing

wrong and here's what they need to do

better too

see men men have been hearing this

message forever from everywhere

women are not used to hearing it

certainly not so directly and bluntly

for a long time you just never you would

never hear anyone stand up and say women

need to do this better

you especially whenever here any men men

say that

even though again on the other side of

it

for years women were lecturing men that

way all the time

so now uh a little bit of that's going

in the reverse and we're acting as

though it's only ever goes in the

reverse which is not the case

now fourth one of the reasons why it's

necessary to specifically state that

women shouldn't be promiscuous is that

on the other end there are powerful

cultural voices claiming that female

promiscuity is an objectively good thing

the institutions in our country are

heavily invested in the narrative that

it's empowering for women to become

sexually liberated and sleep with

whoever they want whenever they want and

this message doesn't really go the other

way there isn't nearly as much of a push

to encourage men to be promiscuous and

you certainly don't hear anyone ever

claiming that uh that it's empowering

for a man to have sex with lots of women

like when's the last time you ever heard

that what's the last time you ever heard

someone say that a man who's had sex

with a lot of women is empowered

it doesn't happen

in fact I'm not sure if I've ever heard

anyone say that it's liberating for men

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Fifth and finally

is it bad for men to sleep with lots of

women as established already the answer

is yes obviously

is it just as bad

yes in the sense that licentiousness is

morally disordered is sinful and no

matter who's engaging in it That Remains

the Same

but is it just as much of a red flag in

other words is it just as troubling of a

sign when a man has a history of

sleeping around as it is when a woman

has a similar history

the answer there is no it isn't still

bad for men men should not behave that

way yet it isn't exactly the same

this is the part of the conversation

that of course will be misconstrued by

the legions of morons who are determined

to misconstrue it but it's worth saying

anyway a high body count for a woman is

indeed more of a red flag than it is for

a man it's a red flag for both

but the flag is a bit bigger a bit bit

brighter flies a bit higher with women

and there are many reasons for this I

think most of this is like intuitive I

think people just understand this

but but I'll mention one

is it men are less emotional by Nature

we form fewer attachments and we form

them more slowly so that makes it easier

for a man to come compartmentalize it's

easier for him to take a more practical

utilitarian view of something even his

relationships men are also more visual

in their attraction we're attracted to

looks more than women are obviously

it'll help a man attract a woman if he's

a good looking guy but even if he has

average looks even if he's like ugly

he can make himself more physically

attractive to women by being confident

by being personable by being funny by

being successful

now an ugly woman will have a harder

time overcoming that deficit with

personality alone because a man's

initial attraction is based much more on

visual cues I mean it's based almost

entirely at least initially on visual

cues

all this means that that a man's wiring

makes it easier for him to have casual

sexual relationships doesn't make it

that doesn't make the behavior good it

doesn't make it any less sinful

it doesn't make it quote natural it just

means that it's an easier habit of

behavior for a man to fall into

women on the other hand are wired to be

more emotional to be more affectionate

to be more easily attached less driven

by raw by raw physical visual attraction

and this makes it a sign of Greater more

severe moral disorder when a woman has a

high body count in other words

she shouldn't even really be tempted to

act that way

like a life of casual sex should be more

immediately and innately unappealing to

her as a woman

this isn't even a Temptation that she

should really have and so if she's

living such a life it speaks potentially

to a deeper and more serious problem

now there are plenty of examples like

this that go the other way like for

example

it's not good when women are overly

sensitive when they're quick to take

offense when they have poor control over

their emotions it's not good for women

women shouldn't be that way you know uh

but it's worse when men are that way bad

for both worse for men because it's a

behavior that is even farther from the

masculine ideal than it is from the

feminine

it should be easier for a man to not to

behave that way because that's not how

he's wired or at least it's not how he

should be wired

that's why when a woman is too sensitive

and she cries too much and she takes

things too personally men find it

annoying

you know it's annoying

but when a man is too sensitive and he

cries too much and he takes things too

personally women find it repulsive such

as annoying it's disgusting it's like

nauseating for for a woman to see that

from a man

that sort of thing can be so like just a

matter you know you'll see sometimes a

woman will like break down in tears

because she's just very frustrated very

frustrating day and she starts to cry on

the other hand like imagine a man

breaking down in tears you're asking

what's wrong I don't know I'm just so

frustrated such a frustrating day I'm

just overwhelmed and he's crying

now whatever we hear from society about

a man should be more emotional I

guarantee almost every woman sees that

and they're not attracted to that man at

all that's gross like get it together

that sort of thing could be a deal

breaker from a woman's perspective

from a man's perspective when a woman

acts that way you know it's not really a

deal breaker

the behavior is bad for both groups but

it's but for one it's more disgusting

it's more of a red flag

it's it's not just a flaw for a man to

be weak and teary and overly sensitive

it is specifically a feminine flaw

feminine flaws in men are always going

to be worse than feminine flaws in women

on the other hand it is a flaw for women

for a woman to be crude and vulgar and

to run around hooking up with random

people and taking pride in her sexual

Conquest

but even worse it is a masculine flaw

and masculine flaws will be more

repulsive in women than they are in men

that's the Nuance here

easy to misinterpret easy to take out of

context and accuse me of saying things

I'm not saying but it is what it is

and those who deny this innately obvious

point

are there for today canceled

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