How the no validation rule will make her crazy over you!

Summary

In this episode of Playbook Empire, the focus is on the significance of validation in relationships and the strategy of not over-validating women to maintain high value and interest. The video suggests that by not excessively validating a woman, especially those of higher status like celebrities, men can differentiate themselves from the crowd and trigger a woman's curiosity, making her more invested in seeking their approval. This tactic is aimed at keeping women intrigued and engaged, thus standing out in the dating game and fostering a dynamic where the man is perceived as the prize.

Takeaways

• 🔑 The video emphasizes the importance of maintaining a high value frame in relationships to keep the interest and make oneself a top priority.
• 👤 It suggests that men should not excessively validate women, as this can help them stand out from others and seem more unique and desirable.
• 💃 The script implies that women, especially those of higher status like celebrities, are often validated by many men and thus, not validating them can make a man stand out.
• 🤔 It argues that by not validating a woman as much as others, it can trigger her to reconsider why she is not receiving the usual attention, making her more intrigued.
• 🧐 The video mentions that understanding status and its impact is crucial for dating success, even if one is not a celebrity.
• 🚫 It clarifies that not validating is not meant to lower a woman's self-esteem but to differentiate from the crowd and the typical behavior of other men.
• 💡 The tactic of not validating excessively is presented as a way to keep a woman's interest and make her more obsessive about seeking validation from the man.
• 🌟 The video encourages men to be different from the 'white sheep' and to stand out in all aspects of life, not just in dating.
• 👑 It suggests that by not over-validating, a man can position himself as the 'prize' in the relationship, making the woman feel that she is not good enough for him.
• 🔄 The script implies that this approach can lead to a dynamic where the woman is constantly trying to impress and seek validation, thus keeping her engaged for a longer time.
• 📈 The video is aimed at men looking to improve their lives and relationships, encouraging them to subscribe for more content.

Q & A

What is the main topic discussed in the video?

The main topic discussed in the video is the importance of validation in relationships and the strategy of not validating a woman to maintain a high-value status and interest.

Why should a man not validate his woman according to the video?

According to the video, a man should not validate his woman excessively to maintain an air of mystery and desirability, making her feel that he is out of her league and thus keeping her interested and invested.

What does the video suggest is the goal for a man in a relationship?

The video suggests that the goal for a man is to have his woman understand and accept the reality that he is out of her league, which helps to maintain his frame of interest.

What is meant by 'maintaining frame of interest' in the context of the video?

Maintaining frame of interest means keeping the woman intrigued and interested in the man, ensuring that she remains attracted and engaged in the relationship.

What is the role of status in dating as discussed in the video?

The role of status in dating, as discussed in the video, is significant because it impacts how a man is perceived by a woman and can affect the dynamics of their relationship.

Why does the video suggest not dating women who are below one's standards?

The video suggests not dating women who are below one's standards to emphasize the importance of maintaining a high-value status and to avoid settling for less in a relationship.

What is the 'simple tactic' mentioned in the video for standing out from other men?

The simple tactic mentioned in the video is to not validate a woman as much as other men typically do, which sets a man apart and makes him seem different and more desirable.

How does not validating a woman make her feel according to the video?

According to the video, not validating a woman makes her feel that the man is different from the average guy, triggering her to think more about him and seek his validation.

What effect does the video claim the tactic of not validating has on a woman's behavior?

The video claims that the tactic of not validating will make a woman obsessive, as she will try to impress and seek validation from the man, keeping her interested and engaged.

What is the intended outcome for the man using the tactic of not validating according to the video?

The intended outcome for the man using the tactic of not validating is to keep the woman around for longer periods of time, maintaining her interest and desire for his validation.

What does the video suggest is the mindset one should have in life in general?

The video suggests that one should have a mindset of standing out from the competition and not blending in with the rest, which applies not only to dating but to life in general.

Outlines

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👑 Importance of Validation and Maintaining High Value in Relationships

The video discusses the significance of validation in relationships and emphasizes the importance of not validating women excessively. It suggests that men should maintain their value and interest as the top priority within the relationship. The speaker argues that by not validating a woman as much as others do, a man can stand out and make the woman question why she might not be good enough for him. This approach is meant to make the woman view the man as being out of her league and to keep her interested and potentially obsessive. The video uses the example of a celebrity to illustrate how a man who is seemingly below a woman's standards can still maintain a high value in her eyes through this strategy. The tactic is not about lowering self-esteem but about standing out from the crowd and being different from the average guy. The video concludes by encouraging viewers to subscribe for more content aimed at improving their lives.

Keywords

💡Validation

Validation, in the context of this video, refers to the act of confirming or acknowledging someone's worth or value. The video emphasizes the importance of not over-validating a woman in a relationship to maintain a sense of intrigue and to keep her interested. It suggests that by not excessively validating, a man can stand out from others who constantly seek to affirm her value, thus making himself more attractive as he appears less desperate for her approval.

💡High Value

The term 'high value' is used to describe a person who is perceived as desirable or worthy of pursuit due to their qualities or status. In the video, it is suggested that a man should aim to be seen as a high-value individual in the eyes of a woman, which can be achieved by not overly validating her and thus maintaining an aura of desirability and unattainability.

💡Maintaining Frame

Maintaining frame refers to the concept of staying consistent in one's behavior, beliefs, and responses, especially in social interactions. The video suggests that a man should maintain his frame of interest by not excessively validating a woman, which helps him to appear as a 'prize' to be won rather than someone who is easily impressed or won over.

💡Status

Status, in this video, is related to the social standing or perceived level of importance a person holds. It is mentioned that understanding the importance of status can greatly impact one's dating life. The speaker implies that even if one cannot become a celebrity, understanding status dynamics can help a man stand out and be seen as a valuable partner.

💡Complimenting

Complimenting is the act of expressing praise or admiration. The video script warns against overdoing compliments, especially for women who receive them frequently from others. By not being overly complimentary, a man can differentiate himself from the crowd and make himself more intriguing to a woman.

💡Celebrity

The term 'celebrity' is used in the video to illustrate an example of a high-status individual who is likely to receive constant validation and attention. The speaker uses this as a context to explain that even when interacting with someone of higher status, a man should avoid excessive validation to stand out and appear more unique.

💡Standards

Standards, in the context of dating, refer to the criteria or expectations one has for a potential partner. The video mentions that a woman may have high standards and that a man should aim to meet or exceed those standards without excessively seeking her validation.

💡Obsessive

Obsessive behavior, as discussed in the video, is a state where a person becomes excessively preoccupied with something or someone. The script suggests that by not validating a woman excessively, a man can make her more obsessive about seeking his approval and validation, thus increasing her interest in him.

💡Competition

Competition, in the dating context, refers to the rivalry among individuals for the attention and affection of a potential partner. The video encourages men to stand out from the competition by not conforming to the typical behaviors of validating women excessively, which can make them appear more unique and desirable.

💡Emperors

The term 'Emperors' is used metaphorically in the video to refer to men who are striving to improve their lives and social standing. It is part of the channel's branding, suggesting that the viewers are like emperors of their own lives, aiming to rule and excel in all aspects, including relationships.

Highlights

Importance of validation in maintaining a high-value presence in relationships

Advice against validating women in any circumstance to maintain top priority

Goal is to make women understand they are out of a man's league

Example given of interacting with a woman of higher value, like a celebrity

Understanding the impact of status in dating life

Tactic proposed: not validating women as much as other men do

Differentiating oneself from other men by not excessive validation

Triggering a woman's curiosity by not being the 'average guy'

Standing out from the crowd as a key to success in dating and life

Not validating to avoid being part of the 'white sheep' in competition

The tactic is not to lower self-esteem but to stand out

Making women obsessive by not validating them excessively

Encouraging women to constantly impress and seek validation

Keeping women interested in the long term through this tactic

Channel's purpose for Emperors aiming to improve their daily life

Call to action for subscription and likes for the video

Transcripts

hello

welcome back to the Playbook Empire

in today's video we're going to learn

the importance of validation and why you

should never validate your women

no matter the circumstance when it comes

to maintaining being the top priority in

the high value prize within the

relationship or Bond you may have with

the women

the goal is to maintain that frame of

interest and Keepers second guessing

onto why she may think she isn't good

enough for you the main goal is a man

is to have your women understand the

reality of you being out of her League

now

for example let's just say you are

talking to a woman that's much higher

value this could simply mean she could

be a celebrity

the reality is

you are clearly below her standards and

she can obviously choose a man that's

either near or above her level now I'm

not saying

date or go with women that's below your

standards

but instead I'm saying understand the

importance of status and how this plays

a huge impact on the dating life today

yes I understand every man doesn't have

the ability to become the next Leonardo

DiCaprio

or simply the next famous man on Earth

today but instead

with this one simple tactic we can

implement this rule so as men we can not

only maintain frame of interest but keep

her thinking

you're the actual prize instead of her

now the simple tactic is to simply not

validate her as much like she is usually

validated by other men by following the

strategy you are already separating

yourself from all of the other guys

that's trying to get at her as well by

you not validating her as much as the

average guy

you are now rapidly triggering something

in her State of Mind to now think you

are somewhat different and now she puts

you on the stepping stool in her

rotation unlike all of the other guys

she hears the same thing from on a daily

basis

she is now going to sit back and think

to herself and try to figure out why you

are not the average guy complimenting

her

almost every single day

especially if she's some type of

celebrity or something in that type of

Realm you have to understand women get

hit on every single day of the month

it's obvious women tend to hear the same

validation from all types of different

men the goal as a man is to stand out

and not be with the rest of the white

sheep

and this mindset is not only for women

it's for life in general

you want to stand out of the competition

not be in the mix of it

the simple rule of not validating women

isn't to lower her self-esteem but

instead stand out from the crowd

especially if she has very high

standards in her dating life

not only this

tactic Works to keep frame of Interest

with your women but this tactic will

make your women extremely obsessive with

you

because she will do everything in her

power to try to constantly not only

impress you

but seek your validation which is

exactly what you want to keep your women

around your rotation for long periods of

time to conclude

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