THE SECRET TO SPITTING GAME | ATTRACT MORE WOMEN

Summary

In this video, the speaker emphasizes the importance of confidence, body language, and conversation skills when approaching women. He highlights that while choosing signals (like eye contact) are key to recognizing interest, it's essential to make a confident approach and keep conversations short and impactful. The speaker advises men to avoid desperation, focus on giving their contact details rather than asking for hers, and pay attention to both their and her body language. He stresses maintaining a masculine frame and being selfless in conversations. The goal is to create genuine connections without overthinking or overstaying the interaction.

Takeaways

• 😀 Confidence is key when approaching women – walk confidently and avoid showing nervousness.
• 😀 Never expect women to approach you – take the initiative and approach them yourself.
• 😀 Recognize and respond to choosing signals – small cues like eye contact or brief glances indicate interest.
• 😀 Body language is crucial – maintain strong, masculine posture and make solid eye contact.
• 😀 Conversations should be natural and unscripted – focus on improving your conversation and social skills.
• 😀 When introducing yourself, keep it simple – say your name and ask hers, without overcomplicating things.
• 😀 Offer your contact info instead of asking for hers – this puts the ball in her court and tests her interest.
• 😀 Pay attention to how she responds to your conversation – if she's disinterested, keep the interaction brief.
• 😀 Avoid overly long conversations – it can come off as desperate and reduce the perceived value of your time.
• 😀 Listening actively is essential – 80% of seduction is simply listening and responding to what she says.
• 😀 Hold masculine frame and avoid being overly friendly – maintain a balanced tension to be taken seriously.

Q & A

What is the most important step to improving your approach with women?

The most important step is self-improvement, which helps in building confidence and developing the right skills for successful interactions.

Why should you never expect a woman to approach you?

The majority of women will not approach you directly. Instead, you need to take the initiative to make the approach yourself.

What does it mean when a woman gives you choosing signals?

Choosing signals are signs that a woman is interested in you, such as a glance or look. Recognizing these signals increases the likelihood that your approach will be successful.

How important is body language when making an approach?

Body language is extremely important. Walking confidently and maintaining strong posture during your approach makes a better impression and conveys confidence.

Should you have a pre-planned conversation when approaching a woman?

No, you should not overly plan your conversation. Developing conversational and social skills is key so that you can engage naturally without scripting your words.

What should your tone and speaking style be like when approaching a woman?

You should speak clearly, confidently, and at an appropriate volume. Avoid speaking nervously or too quietly, as that may suggest a lack of self-assurance.

Is it better to give a woman your contact information or take hers?

It’s recommended to give her your contact details (number, Instagram, or Snapchat) because it shows confidence and lets her make the effort to reach out to you first.

What should you pay attention to when a woman gives her feedback during a conversation?

Pay attention to her body language and responses. If she is engaged and giving thoughtful replies, the conversation is going well. If she seems disinterested or distracted, it may be time to wrap up.

Why should you avoid talking too long during an initial conversation?

Long conversations may come off as desperate or overly eager. It’s better to keep things short and confident, leaving room for mystery and giving her space to want more.

How important is listening in a conversation with a woman?

Listening is crucial. It shows you are attentive and genuinely interested in her. A successful conversation is often more about listening than talking.