What to Do When He Says He's Not Ready for a Relationship

Summary

Relationship coach Amy North from Vancouver discusses how to handle a situation where the guy you're interested in isn't ready for a relationship. She advises against begging or trying to persuade him, suggesting instead to sympathize and encourage him to take time for himself. This approach makes you appear understanding and self-respecting, which can make him reconsider his stance. For more tips on winning men over, Amy recommends visiting her site and subscribing to her channel for additional dating advice.

Takeaways

• 💡 When a guy says he's not ready for a relationship, it usually means he doesn't want to give up his single lifestyle.
• 🕒 There are situations where his reasons may seem more justified, such as having a busy schedule or still being affected by a previous relationship.
• 🙅‍♀️ Begging, pleading, or trying to talk him into a relationship won't work and may make you appear desperate or manipulative.
• 🤝 Sympathize with him and agree with his decision to not be in a relationship, but do so with poise and understanding.
• 🗣️ Suggest that he takes time for himself to figure out what he wants and express your support for his happiness.
• 👍 Show that you respect yourself and won't wait around indefinitely by stating your need for someone who is certain they want to be with you.
• 💪 This approach can make him realize your value and reconsider his decision about being in a relationship.
• ❗ By encouraging him to be alone, you make the idea less attractive to him, which might make him rethink his stance.
• ❤️ Demonstrating care for his wants and needs, while also showing self-respect, can make him see you as someone special.
• 🌐 For more tips and specific phrases to make men desire you, visit Amy North's website and check out her devotion sequences.

Q & A

Who is Amy North and what is her profession?

Amy North is a relationship coach from Vancouver, BC, and the author of the Devotion System.

What is the main topic discussed in the video?

The main topic discussed is what to do when a guy says he’s not ready for a relationship.

What are some common reasons why a guy might say he's not ready for a relationship?

Common reasons include not wanting to give up his single lifestyle, having a busy schedule, or not being completely over a previous relationship.

What approach does Amy North suggest avoiding when trying to change a guy's mind about a relationship?

She suggests avoiding begging, pleading, having a negative attitude, harsh words, or trying to talk him into a relationship as these can make you look desperate or manipulative.

What is Amy North's recommended response when a guy says he's not ready for a relationship?

She recommends agreeing with him and encouraging him to take time for himself, expressing understanding and support for his happiness, while also making it clear that you want someone who is certain they want to be with you.

Why does Amy North believe that encouraging a guy to take time for himself can be effective?

Encouraging him to take time for himself can make him question whether being alone is really what he wants and can make him realize that he has found someone special who genuinely cares about his happiness.

How can showing self-respect and not waiting around for him influence his decision?

It shows that you love and respect yourself too much to settle for less, which can make him realize that unless he commits, someone else might, thereby increasing his desire to be with you.

What does Amy North suggest viewers visit her website for?

She suggests visiting her website, www.coachnorth.com, to watch a free video presentation and learn about her devotion sequences, which are sets of words designed to make men wild with desire.

What additional resources does Amy North offer on her YouTube channel?

She offers other dating advice videos and encourages viewers to subscribe to her channel and check out this additional content.

How does Amy North suggest viewers can support her content creation?

Viewers can support her by subscribing to her channel, watching her videos, and providing feedback and questions in the comments section.