Why Did She Stop Texting Me Back?

Summary

In this video script, dating advice expert Cory emphasizes the importance of recognizing genuine interest from women and avoiding the trap of chasing those who are not responsive. He advises men to look for clear signs of enthusiasm and excitement, suggesting that a woman who likes you will make it easy for you to plan dates and show interest. Cory also highlights the importance of self-respect and not rewarding poor behavior, like ghosting or vague responses, with more attention. His message is clear: focus on women who are equally invested and avoid wasting time on low-interest situations.

Takeaways

• 😀 Respect yourself and don’t chase after women who aren’t showing clear interest. Recognize when someone isn’t into you and move on.
• 😀 Be direct when asking someone out. Avoid vague or uncertain language, as it can lead to confusion and miscommunication.
• 😀 A woman’s actions are a true reflection of her interest. Pay attention to how she behaves, not just what she says.
• 😀 If a woman repeatedly gives mixed signals or doesn’t follow through with plans, it’s a clear sign that she’s not invested in you.
• 😀 Don’t fall into the trap of trying to win over someone who isn’t interested. Pursue women who are genuinely excited about spending time with you.
• 😀 If a woman gives excuses like needing to ‘check her schedule,’ don’t chase her further. It’s usually a polite way of saying ‘no thanks.’
• 😀 Avoid trying to convince someone to like you. When a woman is genuinely interested, she will make time and effort to see you.
• 😀 If a woman cancels or doesn’t respond to your messages, it’s important to recognize that she is not prioritizing you, and you should stop reaching out.
• 😀 Keep your self-respect intact by not rewarding poor behavior, such as being ignored or blown off. Focus on women who appreciate your time and effort.
• 😀 When you are interested in someone, always be clear, specific, and confident in your intentions. Ambiguity leads to disappointment and wasted time.

Q & A

Why should you not chase after women who are showing low interest?

Chasing women who show low interest leads to frustration and disappointment. It also teaches them to disrespect your time and efforts, which diminishes your value in their eyes. Instead, focus on women who are genuinely excited and responsive to your advances.

What is the significance of a woman's actions over her words in dating?

A woman's actions are the true indicator of her interest. What she does—like being enthusiastic about making plans and following through—matters far more than what she says, as her actions reveal her true feelings and intentions.

What is the danger of continuing to pursue a woman who doesn't show interest?

Continuing to pursue a disinterested woman can lead to emotional exhaustion and self-doubt. It also risks damaging your self-respect and self-worth, as you are teaching her that you are willing to accept poor treatment.

How can you recognize a woman who is genuinely interested in you?

A genuinely interested woman will be enthusiastic, make efforts to spend time with you, and respond positively when you suggest dates. She will show excitement about connecting and will prioritize your time together.

What should you do if a woman gives mixed signals, like saying 'maybe' or 'let me check my schedule'?

If a woman gives vague or mixed signals, it's important to avoid chasing her. Instead, suggest a specific time and place for the date. If she continues to be uncertain or unresponsive, it’s a clear sign that she’s not that interested.

Why is it important to avoid online dating, according to the speaker?

The speaker suggests avoiding online dating because it often involves a lot of time spent filtering through people who are not a good match. Meeting people in real life allows for more natural connections and better compatibility.

How should you handle a situation where a woman says she doesn't kiss on the first date?

If a woman says she doesn't kiss on the first date, it’s important to respect her boundaries. However, it often signals a lack of interest. If she doesn’t initiate any further physical connection, it’s a sign that she may not be emotionally invested in you.

What is the best approach if you want to date someone but don't want to seem desperate?

The best approach is to remain confident and respectful. Make clear, specific plans, but don't chase or over-pursue. If she’s genuinely interested, she will respond positively. If she doesn’t, respect her decision and move on.

Why is respecting your own time important in dating?

Respecting your own time means not wasting it on women who aren’t truly interested or who treat you poorly. This ensures that you prioritize your self-worth and attract partners who value you and your time.

What should you do if a woman doesn't get back to you after making plans for a future date?

If she doesn’t get back to you, it’s important not to chase her or keep texting. If she was genuinely interested, she would follow through. If she doesn’t, it’s a clear sign that she’s not interested, and it’s best to move on.