How to Attract anyone EASILY!

Summary

This video script offers insights into becoming more likable by adopting 'agentic' and 'communal' behaviors. Agentic behaviors, such as standing upright and maintaining strong eye contact, project confidence and encourage respect. Communal behaviors, like showing warmth and friendliness, make others want to be around you. Techniques include standing straight, not crossing arms or legs, and using affirmations to show engagement. The script also advises spending 95% of time doing things rather than talking about them and overcoming rejection fears through gradual exposure. Additionally, it suggests using psychological tricks like the reciprocal liking effect to make others feel good around you.

Takeaways

• 🧍‍♂️ Stand and walk upright to show confidence.
• 🤸‍♂️ Keep your shoulders back and chest lifted.
• 🤗 Maintain open body language and avoid crossing arms or legs.
• 🚶‍♂️ Walk slowly to project a confident demeanor.
• 👀 Maintain strong eye contact to show engagement.
• 🙆‍♂️ Nod slightly to show you're listening and interested.
• 🗣️ Pause before speaking to show you're processing the conversation.
• 💬 Spend 95% of your time doing things, not just talking about them.
• 🤝 Overcome rejection by facing it and talking through your fears.
• 💖 Make others feel good by complimenting their insecurities.

Q & A

What are the two key behaviors discussed in the video that make people like you?

The two key behaviors discussed are 'agentic' and 'communal' behaviors. Agentic behaviors are actions that show confidence and help you stand out, earn respect, and make people want to follow you. Communal behaviors are warm and friendly actions that make people want to be around you.

What are the four techniques suggested to improve one's posture and presence?

The four techniques are: 1) Stand or walk upright without slouching, 2) Keep shoulders back and down, 3) Maintain open body language without crossing arms or legs, and 4) Walk slowly instead of too fast.

How does maintaining strong eye contact contribute to showing confidence during conversations?

Maintaining strong eye contact at least 80% of the time signals confidence and engagement in the conversation. If uncomfortable, one can look at the spot between the person's eyebrows or occasionally glance at their ears.

What is the recommended response behavior after someone finishes talking to show confidence?

After someone finishes talking, one should pause for about 3 seconds to show they are digesting what was said before responding. This shows dominance and confidence.

Why is it advised to spend 95% of the time doing things rather than talking about them?

Spending 95% of the time doing things instead of talking about them demonstrates action and results, which is more attractive and likable than just talking about intentions without follow-through.

How can facing rejection help in becoming more confident?

Facing rejection helps in becoming more confident by normalizing the experience and desensitizing the fear of rejection, making one realize it's not the end of the world and is a part of life.

What is the reciprocal liking effect and how can it be used to make others like you?

The reciprocal liking effect is a psychological phenomenon where people like you more when they think you like them. It's based on the social nature of humans who produce hormones like oxytocin and dopamine when around others who like them.

What are the four things one should never do when trying to show someone they like them?

One should never: 1) Look at their phone, 2) Look at their chest or legs, 3) Sit with hands on the face looking away, 4) Stand directly in front blocking their exit.

What are the two lines suggested to use when meeting a new girl to spark her interest?

The two lines are: 'There's something intriguing about you' and 'I'll tell you on our date.' These lines are designed to pique her interest and make her think about you.

How can complimenting someone's insecurity make them feel more confident and obsessed with you?

Complimenting a deep insecurity can make a person feel seen and valued, boosting their confidence. When they feel confident around you, they are more likely to be attracted to your presence.

What are the five common insecurities in women that the video suggests to recognize and compliment?

The insecurities are: 1) Teeth, 2) Hairline or forehead, 3) Feeling underweight, 4) Overweight, and 5) Bad skin. Recognizing and complimenting these can make a person feel better about themselves and more confident.