You're Pretty But You Never Get Approached
Summary
TLDRThe transcript discusses how being attractive can be a barrier for men to approach women due to perceived mismatches or fear of rejection. It emphasizes the importance of body language in inviting men to approach, suggesting that smiling, making eye contact, and appearing approachable can encourage interaction. It also advises women to occasionally be alone or in smaller groups to make it easier for men to approach them.
Takeaways
- π« Being perceived as very attractive can be a barrier for some men to approach.
- π§ Men may feel intimidated and believe they are not a match for a pretty woman.
- π€ Negative assumptions about rejection can cause men to freeze or avoid approaching.
- π‘ Positive body language, like smiling, can invite men to approach despite initial hesitations.
- πΆββοΈ Walking with confidence and maintaining open body language can make a woman seem more approachable.
- π Avoiding a constant frown or appearing distracted can improve approachability.
- π Men find it easier to approach a woman who is alone or with just one friend rather than a large group.
- π₯ Being in a group can be intimidating for men, as they fear rejection in front of others.
- π Encouraging laughter and showing you're having a good time can make men more inclined to approach.
- π Portraying a down-to-earth and fun persona can attract men to approach you.
- π Suggesting to go out with fewer companions can increase the chances of being approached.
Q & A
Why might physical attractiveness be an initial barrier for some men to approach a woman?
-Physical attractiveness can be an impediment because men might feel they don't match up to the woman's standards and fear rejection if they approach her.
What is the role of body language in making a woman more approachable?
-Positive body language, such as smiling and making eye contact, can signal openness and invite men to approach, counteracting the intimidation that might come from a woman's attractiveness.
Why do men find it easier to approach a woman who is alone rather than one who is in a group?
-Men may find it easier to approach a woman who is alone because they fear rejection in front of a group, and a one-on-one situation feels less intimidating.
How can a woman's demeanor contribute to her being perceived as unapproachable?
-If a woman consistently appears distracted, hurried, or scowling, it can create an impression of unapproachability, which can be off-putting to potential suitors.
What advice does the script give for women who want to appear more approachable?
-The script suggests that women should try to loosen up, smile more, establish eye contact, and laugh more to appear more down-to-earth and fun.
Why might a man feel intimidated approaching a group of women?
-A man might feel intimidated approaching a group of women because he fears being rejected in front of multiple people, which can be more embarrassing than being rejected by one person.
What is the significance of a woman's social circle size when it comes to being approached by men?
-A smaller social circle, or being alone, can make a woman seem more approachable to men, as it reduces the pressure of impressing or being judged by a larger group.
How can a woman's behavior across the room influence a man's decision to approach her?
-If a man sees a woman laughing and having a good time, it signals that she is enjoying herself and might be more receptive to being approached.
What is the potential downside of a woman always being surrounded by other attractive women?
-Being surrounded by other attractive women can make it harder for a man to approach, as it increases the competition and the perceived standards he needs to meet.
How can a woman's posture affect how approachable she seems?
-A woman who walks with her head down or appears closed off can seem less approachable, while a woman who maintains an open posture and makes eye contact can appear more welcoming.
What is the psychological effect on men when they perceive a woman as 'out of their league'?
-Men may feel intimidated and believe they are not worthy, leading to 'freezing' or avoiding approaching a woman they perceive as more attractive than themselves.
Outlines
π Overcoming Barriers to Approachability
The paragraph discusses how physical attractiveness can be a deterrent for men to approach women. It explains that men often feel intimidated and believe they are not a match for a pretty woman, leading to hesitation or avoidance. The text also highlights the importance of body language in making oneself approachable. It suggests that positive body language, such as smiling and making eye contact, can invite men to approach. The paragraph advises women who are rarely approached to be more open, such as by not always being in a group and to engage in behaviors that signal approachability, like smiling and laughing.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Impediment
π‘Approaching
π‘Body Language
π‘Intimidating
π‘Pretty
π‘Match Up
π‘Open Body Language
π‘Distracted
π‘Group Dynamics
π‘Down-to-Earth
π‘Fun
Highlights
Being pretty can be an impediment for guys to approach.
Guys might freeze when they see a pretty girl, fearing rejection.
Good body language can invite guys to approach.
Smiling and open body language can make a difference.
Guys find it intimidating if a girl is always with a group.
Being alone or with just one friend can be less intimidating.
Guys prefer approaching a girl who is laughing and having a good time.
A girl's appearance can make guys feel they don't match up.
Guys may avoid approaching if they think they will be turned down.
Positive body language like smiling can encourage approach.
Guys are more likely to approach if a girl seems approachable and not distracted.
Approaching a girl who is alone is perceived as less risky than a group.
Laughing and enjoying oneself can signal approachability.
Guys may feel more comfortable approaching a girl who is down-to-earth.
A girl's social setting can influence a guy's decision to approach.
Loosen up and establish more eye contact to appear more approachable.
Being with a smaller group or alone can increase the chances of being approached.
Transcripts
now the fact that you're pretty can
already be an impediment for a guy to a
guy approaching in the first place the
fact that you're pretty before we've
even talked about anything else okay the
fact that you're pretty can already be
an impediment a lot of guys they don't
see a pretty girl and they'll freeze all
right they'll freeze because they feel
like they don't match up to her and if
they step up to her they approach her
she's going to turn them down so they
don't okay so there's that majority
dealing with possibly all right now
something else you might have is that
you have no you don't have good body
language and what that means is a guy
will look at a girl see that she's
pretty instantly think all right I'm
gonna stepping up to her because she's
gonna shoot me down but then he notices
that the girl is smiling
she's smiling it alright she's looking
at him and she's smiling that's open
body language the moment he sees that he
goes he goes oh man she's inviting me in
guess what he moves in alright so your
body language is very important if you
walk around with your head down if you
don't smile you always scowl you always
seem distracted you're always hurrying
somewhere you're always with your girls
so you're never alone all that stuff is
intimidating to guys and on top of that
you're pretty so it makes it even worse
alright so if you're pretty and you
never get approached try to loosen
yourself up you know don't always hang
around all your pretty girls with you
you know go out and maybe go out with
just one girl not a whole bunch of girls
guys find that easier to approach a goal
if it's just one girl with her as
opposed to a whole group okay because
they don't want to shut down in front of
a whole group of girls alright so do
that um smile more establish more eye
contact
alright laugh more you know if a guy
sees you laughing and having a good time
across the room he's gonna be more
inclined to approach you because he goes
oh wow that's a down-to-earth girl
that's a fun girl she's laughing she's
having a good time alright so those are
some of the things you can do
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