AUTISTIC BURNOUT: In Conversation with Transforming Autism - Dora Raymaker

Transforming Autism Project
14 Jul 202029:27

Summary

TLDRThe discussion delves into the phenomenon of autistic burnout, a syndrome resulting from chronic stress and a mismatch of expectations and abilities, without adequate support. It manifests as long-term exhaustion, loss of function, and reduced tolerance to stimulus. The research, conducted through qualitative studies and community engagement, highlights the impact of autistic burnout on health, independence, and quality of life. It emphasizes the importance of acceptance, social support, understanding autistic needs, and self-advocacy in preventing and recovering from burnout. The conversation underscores the significance of raising awareness and promoting a supportive environment to mitigate this pressing issue within the autistic community.

Takeaways

  • 📚 Autistic burnout is a recognized syndrome within the autistic community, stemming from chronic life stress and a mismatch between expectations and abilities without adequate support.
  • 💡 The syndrome is characterized by long-term exhaustion, loss of function, and reduced tolerance to stimuli, typically experienced over three or more months.
  • 🧠 Research into autistic burnout was conducted through qualitative studies, involving interviews with autistic adults who self-identified as having experienced burnout.
  • 🌟 The causes of autistic burnout are multifaceted, including life stressors, masking (hiding autistic traits), societal expectations, and disability management challenges.
  • 🤦‍♂️ Autistic burnout can lead to severe outcomes such as loss of work, independence, and in extreme cases, suicidal behavior.
  • 👥 The feeling of being dismissed or not understood by neurotypical individuals exacerbates the impact of burnout on autistic individuals.
  • 🤗 Acceptance and social support are crucial in helping individuals recover from and potentially prevent autistic burnout.
  • 💪 Self-advocacy, understanding autistic needs, and utilizing autistic strengths can help mitigate the effects of burnout and empower individuals.
  • 📈 Early diagnosis and self-knowledge can aid in recognizing the signs of burnout and implementing strategies to address it.
  • 👨‍👩‍👧 Parents of autistic children can support their kids by accepting them, fostering self-understanding, and advocating for a more inclusive and supportive environment.

Q & A

  • What is the definition of autistic burnout?

    -Autistic burnout is a syndrome conceptualized as resulting from chronic life stress and a mismatch of expectations and abilities without adequate supports. It is characterized by pervasive, long-term exhaustion, loss of function, and reduced tolerance to stimulus, typically experienced for three or more months.

  • What are the main areas of findings from the research on autistic burnout?

    -The main areas of findings focus on four research questions: whether autistic burnout is a distinct issue, what characterizes and defines it, what causes it, and how it impacts people's lives and what might relieve or prevent it.

  • How was the research on autistic burnout conducted?

    -The research was a qualitative study involving interviews with autistic adults who self-identified as having experienced autistic burnout, examination of public internet sources where the community has been discussing the issue, and analysis of themes across the sources to understand the phenomenon better.

  • What are the three themes under the characteristics of autistic burnout?

    -The three themes are chronic exhaustion, loss of skills, and reduced tolerance to sensory input. These themes reflect the intense fatigue,退化 of previously acquired skills, and heightened sensitivity to sensory stimuli experienced by individuals going through autistic burnout.

  • What are some life stressors that contribute to autistic burnout?

    -Life stressors include transitions such as starting a new job or going to college, mental health crises, expectations from family, society, school, or work, masking or hiding autistic traits, and disability management which refers to the challenges of living in a world not set up to accommodate one's functional needs.

  • What are the impacts of autistic burnout on individuals?

    -The impacts include effects on mental and physical health, reduced capacity for independent living, decreased quality of life, and negative self-image due to lack of empathy from neurotypical people. These impacts can be profound and lead to serious consequences such as depression, anxiety, and suicidal behavior.

  • How can acceptance and social support help in preventing or recovering from autistic burnout?

    -Acceptance and social support validate the experiences of individuals with autistic burnout, reduce feelings of isolation, and provide a safe space for them to express their struggles without judgment. This support can come in the form of one-on-one assistance, community resources, and peer connections, all of which contribute to a healthier recovery process and prevention strategies.

  • What are some strategies for self-advocacy and self-knowledge to avoid or mitigate autistic burnout?

    -Strategies include setting boundaries, asking for help, maintaining good health, recognizing patterns in one's life, and using that understanding to make strategic decisions. Early recognition of burnout signs can lead to timely interventions, and self-acceptance can reduce the pressure to conform to neurotypical expectations.

  • How can parents of autistic children help prevent future burnout?

    -Parents can provide acceptance, accommodate the child's needs, help the child understand their strengths and challenges, listen and believe them when they express overwhelm, and foster a strong sense of self-esteem. This support and understanding can empower the child to develop self-advocacy skills and resilience.

  • What is the significance of having an autism diagnosis in relation to autistic burnout?

    -An autism diagnosis can provide self-understanding and access to disability accommodations which may help in preventing or managing burnout. It also allows individuals to connect with others who have similar experiences, normalizing their feelings and providing a sense of community and belonging.

  • How does the research on autistic burnout contribute to the broader understanding of autism and mental health?

    -The research highlights the unique challenges faced by autistic individuals, particularly in managing stress and expectations. It underscores the importance of recognizing autistic burnout as a distinct issue and addresses the need for societal and environmental accommodations to support autistic individuals' mental health and well-being.

Outlines

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🧠 Introduction to Autistic Burnout

This paragraph introduces Dora Rae Maker, a researcher and professor at Portland State University, who is autistic herself. She discusses the concept of autistic burnout, a phenomenon that has been a significant topic among autistic adults for years. Autistic burnout is described as a response to chronic life stress and a mismatch between expectations and abilities without adequate support. It is characterized by long-term exhaustion, loss of function, and reduced tolerance to stimulus. The academic Autism Spectrum Partnership in Research and Education (ASPIRE) conducted research to define and understand this issue better, highlighting its severe outcomes such as loss of work, independence, and suicidal behavior.

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📚 Research Findings on Autistic Burnout

In this paragraph, Dora Rae Maker shares the findings from her research on autistic burnout. The study involved qualitative research methods, including interviews with autistic adults who had experienced burnout. The research aimed to understand the characteristics, causes, and impacts of autistic burnout. Three main themes emerged: chronic exhaustion, loss of skills, and reduced tolerance to sensory input. These themes were integral in defining autistic burnout and understanding its profound effects on individuals. The research also explored the causes or attributes of burnout as reported by the participants, which included life stressors, masking, expectations, and disability management. The findings underscore the importance of further research and understanding to address this issue within the autistic community.

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🌟 Impacts and Experiences of Autistic Burnout

This paragraph delves into the impacts of autistic burnout on individuals, as identified by the research. The impacts were categorized into five main themes: mental and physical health deterioration, reduced capacity for independent living, negative self-image due to lack of empathy from neurotypical individuals, and the exacerbation of secondary mental health conditions. The experiences of burnout were often centered around high-stress moments or significant life transitions. The paragraph emphasizes the seriousness of autistic burnout and its potential long-term effects on an individual's well-being and quality of life.

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🛠️ Strategies for Prevention and Recovery from Autistic Burnout

The paragraph discusses various strategies that can help prevent or aid in the recovery from autistic burnout. These strategies include acceptance and social support, attending to autistic needs, formal supports like disability accommodations, self-advocacy, and self-knowledge. The importance of understanding and accepting oneself as autistic, setting boundaries, and having the ability to ask for help are highlighted. The paragraph underscores the significance of community support and the role of early recognition in mitigating the effects of burnout.

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💡 Supporting Autistic Individuals and Future Considerations

In the final paragraph, Dora Rae Maker offers advice for supporting autistic individuals who may be experiencing or are at risk of autistic burnout. She emphasizes the importance of acceptance, understanding, and empathy. The paragraph also discusses the role of parents in helping their autistic children develop self-understanding and self-advocacy skills. By fostering a supportive environment and promoting self-esteem, children can be better equipped to handle challenges and reduce the risk of burnout in the future.

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Keywords

💡Autistic Burnout

Autistic Burnout is a syndrome that arises from chronic life stress and a mismatch between expectations and abilities without adequate support. It is characterized by long-term exhaustion, loss of function, and reduced tolerance to stimulus. In the context of the video, it is a significant issue discussed among autistic adults, leading to severe outcomes such as loss of work, independence, and suicidal behavior.

💡Chronic Life Stress

Chronic life stress refers to the ongoing and long-term stressors that an individual faces, which can be both universal and autism-specific. In the video, it is a contributing factor to autistic burnout, where the constant stress takes a toll on the individual's mental and physical health, leading to exhaustion and a decline in functioning.

💡Mismatch of Expectations and Abilities

The mismatch of expectations and abilities refers to the discrepancy between what is expected of an individual and their actual capabilities, particularly in the context of autism. In the video, this mismatch is a key element leading to autistic burnout, as autistic individuals may be expected to perform tasks or meet standards that are not aligned with their functional needs, causing undue stress and burnout.

💡Qualitative Study

A qualitative study is a research method that focuses on understanding people's experiences, behaviors, and social phenomena through in-depth interviews, observations, and analysis of themes. In the video, the researchers conducted qualitative studies by interviewing autistic adults and examining public internet sources to explore and define the concept of autistic burnout.

💡Community Support

Community support refers to the assistance and understanding provided by a group of individuals who share common experiences or challenges. In the video, community support is emphasized as a crucial factor in both preventing and recovering from autistic burnout, as it offers acceptance, validation, and practical help to autistic individuals.

💡Self-Advocacy

Self-advocacy is the act of standing up for one's own rights, needs, and well-being, especially in the context of individuals with disabilities or unique challenges. In the video, self-advocacy is highlighted as an important strategy for autistic individuals to prevent or recover from burnout by setting boundaries, asking for help, and ensuring their needs are met.

💡Sensory Overload

Sensory overload occurs when an individual experiences an excessive amount of sensory input, which can be particularly challenging for autistic individuals who often have heightened sensitivities to stimuli. In the video, reduced tolerance to sensory input is one of the key characteristics of autistic burnout, making everyday environments and social interactions extremely difficult and taxing.

💡Disability Accommodations

Disability accommodations are adjustments or modifications made to environments, tasks, or schedules to support individuals with disabilities in achieving equal opportunities and access. In the video, disability accommodations are mentioned as a potential strategy to alleviate the pressures of autistic burnout by providing flexible work schedules, additional breaks, and instrumental support.

💡Mental Health

Mental health refers to an individual's psychological and emotional well-being, which can be significantly impacted by experiences such as burnout. In the video, the impacts of autistic burnout on mental health are discussed, with outcomes including depression, anxiety, and secondary mental health conditions arising from the state of burnout.

💡Self-Understanding

Self-understanding is the awareness and knowledge of one's own characteristics, needs, and experiences. In the video, it is emphasized that self-understanding is vital for autistic individuals to recognize the signs of burnout early and to implement strategies to prevent or mitigate its effects, as well as to advocate for their own needs effectively.

Highlights

Definition of Autistic Burnout

Chronic stress and mismatch of expectations as causes

Symptoms include exhaustion, loss of function, and reduced tolerance

Qualitative research methodology

Interviews with autistic adults from diverse backgrounds

Public internet sources as research material

Themes of chronic exhaustion, loss of skills, and sensory sensitivity

Life stressors and barriers to support as contributing factors

Impacts on mental and physical health

Effects on independent living and quality of life

Lack of empathy from neurotypical individuals as an impact

Acceptance and social support as recovery strategies

Importance of attending to autistic needs and unmasking

Formal supports like disability accommodations and mental health services

Self-advocacy and self-knowledge for prevention and recovery

Early recognition of burnout as crucial for intervention

Support for avoiding and recovering from burnout

Transcripts

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dora rae maker is an assistant research

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professor at portland state university

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in oregon

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autistic herself she's one of the very

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few researchers into the phenomenon of

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autistic burnout

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dora for the benefit of anybody who

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doesn't know

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can you outline what autistic burnout is

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and and

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how it's experienced by somebody who

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goes through it

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yeah so uh autistic burnout is an issue

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that's been a really big part of

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discussion among autistic adults in the

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community for many years

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and it gives people a lot of the stress

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and they report it leading to really bad

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outcomes like lost work lost

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independence and even suicidal behavior

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but it hasn't really been researched so

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the academic autism spectrum partnership

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in research and education aspire which

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is my research group that i

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that i co-direct um we did some research

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and we came up with this as a definition

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so the definition that we came up with

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is autistic burnout is a syndrome

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conceptualized as resulting from chronic

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life stress

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and a mismatch of expectations and

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abilities

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without adequate supports and it's

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characterized by a pervasive

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long term and by that i mean typically

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three or more months

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of exhaustion loss of function

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and reduced tolerance to stimulus and

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i'll talk

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more about how we came up with that

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definition and how people are

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experiencing it as

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as we go along so you really

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it's really i guess for the person who's

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experiencing it

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it feels very much like all their energy

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is depleted

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they can't carry on with what they were

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with what they were doing previously

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would that be a fair summary yes

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so tell us about the research itself

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yes excuse me

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so with the the research it was a

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qualitative study

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so it was uh looking at people's stories

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and experiences their words

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we did 10 interviews with autistic

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adults in the united states from a

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relatively wide

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demographic backgrounds and all you know

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different geographies

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who had self-identified as having

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experienced autistic burnout and

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we didn't define it because we wanted

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people to define it for us

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so that we just said autistic burnout um

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and then we also included nine

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interviews from a skilled employment

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project

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where people had brought it up

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spontaneously

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and then we also examined 19 public

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internet sources

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because like i say the community has

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been talking about this

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for years this is not some new thing

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that's just happened

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um and we recruited people uh it was a

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us-based study

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we publicized on social media we did

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word of mouth

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and we used community connections you

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know people talk to their support groups

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that kind of thing and then we analyze

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the data by like looking at the themes

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across the sources so we kind of took

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what people said at face value but we

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also considered a little bit of deeper

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social context and we looked for what

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like what people were saying really

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strongly

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and throughout all of the stories and

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that that's what you're kind of looking

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at is this weight of

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of meaning that people are saying over

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and over again and you you interview

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until you reach

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theme saturation which is when people

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start you start hearing the same stories

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over and over and over again

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and then that that emerges into your

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theme so it's a very exploratory

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qualitative way

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of understanding something that hasn't

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really been

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looked at before

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and so i guess that doing that research

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actually helped you to come to the

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definition that you that you shared at

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the beginning

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what were the main findings of the

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research so the findings

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focused on four research questions so

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one the first one

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is is autistic burnout a distinct thing

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from any other distress people might be

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having and if so what characterizes and

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how might it be defined so that's

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that's where the definition came from

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and i i gave you the definition at the

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beginning but as we continue talking i

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think that's going to unpack a little

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bit more into what people were saying

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so the second question was what do

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people attribute

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autistic burnout to what are they saying

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cause did in their lives

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the third question is how did it impact

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people's lives

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and then the last question that we were

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really focused on in the findings was

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what did people do that might relieve it

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or that they felt could have prevented

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it

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so those are the the main areas of

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findings so for the characteristics

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um the first there were three themes

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under that that were

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go you'll you'll see these referencing

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back into the the definition so

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the first was chronic exhaustion which

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was just a

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overall like you you were just

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you had nothing left and and i've i've

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got some quotes from people

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to to share so that people can

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understand what this really felt like

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and the the quote for that um

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which is also ended up being the title

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of the paper we just had published on

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the study so there's there's a research

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paper and

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which has a lay summary if people want

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some more information on this

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um and somebody said that it was like

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having all of your internal resources

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exhausted beyond measure

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and being left with no cleanup crew

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so the second characteristic was this

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loss of skills

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which was things that you used to be

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able to do

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which could be you know doing your

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laundry

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or doing your job or

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it could also be talking or being able

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to

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have a social interaction with someone

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um so there was this loss of

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of skills um lost uh difficulty

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remembering things

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they were cognitive level sensory levels

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so there was like this

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kind of a lot of loss of skills and

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this is again a quote from one of our

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participants said

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the way i describe the way i define

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burnout is a regression of skills

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for me the really really scary part of

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burnout is you don't know whether or not

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you're going to get those skills back to

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the point you had them

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where you were before the burnout

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and then our third characteristic that

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people talked about was this reduced

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tolerance to sensory input

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which is a definitely something that

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differentiates it

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from it

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job burnout or work related burnout and

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um and also depression and some other

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things

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is this this sensory input piece

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and that was uh

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so the quote about that is

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many routine noises have become quite

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painful

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therefore very difficult and taxing to

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access public spaces shopping errands

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parks and social gatherings

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many artificial scents have started to

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make me mad and i've had to make a

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handful of foods off limits due to

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texture

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and this was people were comparing this

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and saying that prior to their burnout

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they were able to

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tolerate a lot more sensory

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input than they were after you know

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during the burnout and sometimes even

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after

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did you get a sense from the research of

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uh

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what the causes of autistic burnout what

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leads to it

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yeah so i can't that the term cause

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is it's a you know tricky in research

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and i can't really talk about what

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causes autistic burnout because the

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study wasn't set up to answer that

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question

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but i can very much talk about what the

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attributes were

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what participants said was um

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causing that which is you'll see this is

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also became part of our definition

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there's a diagram i sent you um that i'm

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gonna

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kind of walk through because this is

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what people

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people talked about over and over again

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is happening and and this i can say not

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everybody listed every single thing in

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here

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but it was again that weight of

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theme saturation people were saying the

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same thing over and over so on one side

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what people talked about was life

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stressors

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and these some of them are stressors

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that

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can happen to anyone like you know

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transitions a mental health crisis going

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to

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college just starting a new job but some

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of them were a little bit more specific

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to to autism so one of those stresses

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was definitely masking so pretend

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trying to hide your autistic traits

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trying to hide if you were having a hard

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time with something

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trying to pretend to to be

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normal whatever that is another stress

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was expectations from from family

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society school

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work expectations to do things

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again in very normalized ways

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or to meet an expectation a

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developmental expectation that couldn't

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be met

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and then there was disability management

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so we we used that term to

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to talk about um you know the functional

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functional impairments or functional

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issues

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of uh like just having to manage the

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fact that you can't do the things that

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the world was set up to do right so i

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mean i come from a very socio-ecological

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model of disability where disability

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occurs because there's a

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mismatch between a person and their

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environment

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so what's going on here is you're having

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to manage

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living in this world that isn't set up

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to accommodate

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your functional needs um so all of that

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is creating this constant like

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cumulative load

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on what you're having to deal with every

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day

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and then on the other side is a whole

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bunch of barriers to getting support for

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that

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so uh one of the really big important

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things that came out of this was that

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being guest lit or dismissed was a huge

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part of it people would say you know i'm

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not

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i'm really struggling here i can't do

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this i can't keep up i need a break and

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and people just say oh no you know

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everybody feels that way

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or well you're just being lazy or you

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know those types of things

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really um made it difficult for people

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to take

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a break or to take the time they needed

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to relieve some of those pressures

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um there was also you know we are

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because we're marginalized a lot in

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society

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um there's a lot of history of abuse

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and the types of things that can make it

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really hard for people to have good

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boundaries

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or to feel like they can speak up for

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themselves because they've been crushed

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so many times

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so uh there are also people who are

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afraid to speak up i can't tell my boss

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i need a break or i'll get fired i can't

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you know tell my parents because they

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just get mad at me

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or people had never really learned those

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skills

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uh there was the inability to take a

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break and then

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sort of a lack of external resources or

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support or services

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like needing somebody to come in and

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just clean up the house

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but you can't access that service

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because you're not considered disabled

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enough

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those types of things so that's like the

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inability to obtain relief

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so you've got this huge load that's

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building and then every avenue in trying

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to relieve that load starts getting

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cut off and at that point the world's

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expectations completely outweigh

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your ability to ever meet them and the

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result

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was the autistic burnout and that's

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that's what people talk to us about

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it makes sense and i guess i'm wondering

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is there any

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did you detect any that any particular

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groups were more susceptible i'm

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thinking particularly of

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maybe people who aren't or haven't been

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diagnosed

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as autistic until later in their life

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because they will have been

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um less able to have a sense that they

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it'd be a good idea to slow down because

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because they don't know that they're

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autistic

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and they think well i just need to try

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harder and match what other people are

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doing

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so so some people did say that they felt

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an earlier diagnosis

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would have provided them with

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self-understanding and the ability to

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get disability accommodations

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to help avoid it but there really were

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also a number of people in our study who

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had been diagnosed as children and they

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had the same experiences of burnout

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so i think my guess on that

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is that those dynamics that i described

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for how this happens can occur whether

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one has a diagnosis or not

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um although there are some tools a

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diagnosis could help with

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i think more research would have to be

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done to really understand those

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differences

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uh but i will when you're when you're

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asking me about

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anyone who's particularly more

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susceptible to it

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when people related stories of when

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their

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burnouts occurred the first burnouts

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were usually

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identified at early transition points so

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puberty or graduating from high school

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or going to college for the first time

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so i think that there are points

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i don't know like that our study pointed

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out to particular subgroups of people

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and again it was qualitative it wasn't

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set up to count numbers or do statistics

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there's limits on that but but just from

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the stories it wasn't

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it didn't feel like there were people

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with particular demographic

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characteristics

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who had these experiences more it was

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more that the experiences tended to

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center around high stress moments which

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of course makes sense

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because those are the times when when

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expectations

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ratchet up or when there's big changes

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plus expectations ratcheting up and um

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so yeah i think that that may be worth

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noting but in terms of impacts so the

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themes that we found for that the the

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big main themes there were

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five of them so the first was that there

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were a lot of

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impacts on health so this was mental and

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physical health this was

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um people

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became became depressed or anxious or

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had secondary

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mental health conditions that occurred

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because

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of the state of burnout or they had

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trouble taking care of themselves and

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their physical health started to suffer

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the second big impact was their capacity

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for

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independent living really

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it took a toll on that so this is like

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their ability to perform

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instrumental activities of daily living

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taking care of

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taking a shower getting food

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maintaining their employment sustaining

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their employment sustaining important

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relationships all of that

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it had a big impact on their quality of

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life not being able to do things that

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they had previously enjoyed not being

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able to

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maintain the things that people need to

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do

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and then interestingly there was also

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people talked a lot about the impact of

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lack of empathy from neurotypical people

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or non-autistic people

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um that they were going through this

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terrible terrible thing

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and other people were brushing them off

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or not

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relating to it or telling them oh

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everybody does this just

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you know up and deal and that

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impact had a really profound effect on

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people's

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self-image and um their mental health

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so that was an interesting

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extra impact that people might not

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really be thinking about

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um with this so i just have a

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i guess it was the four those four

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themes and i i have a quote here

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of kind of an overall what that impact

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was like

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so this person said my situation became

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way too much

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after i quit my job i found it

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increasingly difficult to speak to

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people i didn't know and became very

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depressed

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i was unable to work for several years

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after this experience and attempted

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suicide

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spent time in the mental hospital before

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being able to get my life back

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in order so that the impacts of this

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art can be quite serious based on

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what we're we're talking about so

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so now let's talk about how to how to

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make this not happen

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another build for a case for why we

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really need this to not happen

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um so you had asked what people could do

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to avoid it

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as a starting point and people in our

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study talked about

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things that they thought could have

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helped avoid it but they obviously

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hadn't avoided it or they wouldn't have

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yeah in our study um but

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um many of those things were actually

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the same things that people

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said helped them recover from it so okay

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maybe we can

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talk a little bit about that the first

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big theme in that is around acceptance

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and social support

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so people talked about getting

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individual one-on-one support

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from other people um and they also

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talked about

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community support having a

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community and um in particular peers

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people who had

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been through this before talking to

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other autistic people who had had

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similar experiences

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if only to just validate what they were

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feeling

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um but that individual support and

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community support was also

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it was very centered around acceptance

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like

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not making people feel bad for being in

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the state or for not being able to do

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something or for not being able to do

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something

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in a seemingly neurotypical way so there

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was sort of there was a

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a big kind of support and acceptance

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from in a social sense um the second

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point is

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being autistic so um people talked about

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first of all attending to autistic needs

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you know stimming and

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do doing your special like spending time

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with your special interests

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um doing the things you need to do to

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keep yourself

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regulated even if it looks weird um

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unmasking being yourself and using

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autistic strengths so

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doing the things that you're actually

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really good at instead of fighting

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against your own nature

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to try to do things that are in ways

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things in ways that other people

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expect um and again that's also related

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to that whole acceptance piece you can

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imagine that when you're told that

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the way you are is wrong and bad that's

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going to

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make it lead to some of that

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load that you're having to carry around

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so the third

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thing was formal supports so disability

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accommodations

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being able to have flexible work

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schedules being able to take more breaks

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being able to do things in your ways

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instrumental support someone to come in

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and do the dishes someone to come in

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and clean your house and mental health

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support

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so there were all of those secondary

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mental health conditions that followed

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so getting help for that

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also helped relieve some of the burnout

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um reduced load so time off

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breaks social withdrawal um reduced

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activities

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those are and these are things that

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people talked about helping

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get over it but there were also things

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that people talked about

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potentially having helped prevent it

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like if i had

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asked for more breaks if i had you know

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if i hadn't

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had to do quite so much if i had

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time to work on my special interests

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more

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if i had been able to stim at work um

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so there there was that's where that

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like prevention

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uh relief thing

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uh dovetails so

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uh i'm almost done with them there were

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luckily a lot of

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a lot of good ideas in here um the next

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was self-advocacy

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and health so this was about learning to

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set boundaries

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learning to ask for help keeping

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yourself healthy

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because you have more energy when you're

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eating well

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those things all of that self-advocacy

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stuff

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how to how to feel okay going to your

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boss and saying hey

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i need this week i need an extra day off

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um or your teacher or

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or your your mom i just can't do chores

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today

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and then the last big strategy category

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was around self-knowledge

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and this a lot of people said that early

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recognition

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of the burnout could have helped it

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either be avoided or not be as bad so

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there were people who were like well i

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had no idea what was happening to me

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and there were people who actually got

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their asd diagnosis

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because of a burnout

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and they talked in retrospect about how

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if they had been more aware that

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autistic burnout was a thing or that

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could happen

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they might have noticed when they were

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starting to feel the edges of it

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and been able to implement some of these

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strategies to

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either avoid it or make it not as bad

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this was a place where they said having

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a diagnosis

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was helpful yeah you could find peers it

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was self-understanding it was

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self-knowledge

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people talked about understanding the

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patterns in their lives and using that

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to make

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strategic decisions so for example

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knowing like

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well when i start feeling this way it

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means there's too much on my plate and i

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need to

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or when i start you know if i start

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talking

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too much and really feeling up very

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agitated then

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i know that i need to like i'm getting

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overstimulated and i need to go chill

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out so

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so all of that self-awareness and

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self-understanding

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was was the last kind of big

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point um and this is

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all of these are written up in detail

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with people's quotes

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in the paper we just have published but

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it's also you'll find it again

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a lot in the community resources

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now that's great and and you did the

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whole thing about

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having a diagnosis or knowing that

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you're autistic

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it sort of takes away that sense of

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confusion

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that sense of well i just need to pull

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myself together and be like everybody

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else

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um and it really increases the potential

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to to accept ourselves

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um because it sounds like a massive part

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of what you're saying about how this can

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be avoided and how it can be recovered

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from

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is just to say i am who i am and to

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accept

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myself and to ask others to accept me as

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i am as well

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yes um and that's that's sort of all of

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it isn't it

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it's a good buffer against that that

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kind of gaslighting too because it's

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very validating you can say

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you know no i'm not just being lazy yeah

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there's

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something real going on here so if you

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um if somebody knows somebody has

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somebody close a friend or a partner or

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or someone close in their family who

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they feel is heading towards or might be

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in autistic burnout

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what can they do to help i guess the

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acceptance here is a real huge part of

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it as well

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yeah absolutely um providing that

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acceptance the social

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support the instrumental support

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accommodations and i think just

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general understanding you know there was

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that

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that big theme in the impacts of not

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of non-autistic people not understanding

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and not having empathy for

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the the experience um

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so if if friends and family can have

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some empathy for what the person is

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going through in recognition of its

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validity

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i think that that would be i mean right

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there you're eliminating one of the

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one of the terrible impacts of this um

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so yeah being empathetic not dismissing

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the person's experience it might not

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seem like they've been under a lot of

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pressure

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but that doesn't mean that they haven't

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been and then

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i'd also say by reducing expectations

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because everything is about that

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you know the expectations getting out of

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control

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um although i want to caution i'm

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talking about expectations i'm not

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talking about opportunities

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so it's more reducing expectations about

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how or when we might achieve our dreams

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it might take more time it might need to

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be done in a way that looks

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different from how non-autistic people

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would do it but don't

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don't reduce your expectations that we

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can have or achieve our dreams

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right any dreams for any person

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so that's expectations of how

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and how long and in what ways not

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expectations for being able to have a

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full life

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so it's actually taking the pressure off

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and allowing those

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those dreams to be fulfilled in a more

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natural and fulfilling way than

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under a lot of pressure absolutely

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absolutely because dreams are a

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wonderful

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you know they're they're a part of of

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your self-acceptance

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and your boy right

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yes because we all have a right to

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dreams i guess yeah

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and finally dora um

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a lot of people watching this will be

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parents of autistic children who are

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very young

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and after listening to the conversation

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they may well be wondering

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what can we do now to ensure that our

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child to do the best to ensure that our

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children

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20 years in the future or 10 years or 30

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years in the future

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don't become victims of autistic burnout

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how can they help

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um how can they help early age a lot

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that they can do so i the first thing

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that you

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you've pointed out a few times which is

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so so important is accept us

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for who we are even if that may look a

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little different

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that acceptance is is an amazing gift

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let us do things that in the ways that

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work well for us

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use our natural abilities hope fight

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ableism and autism stigma and work for

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disability justice or you know whatever

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term you prefer

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um in the community because if others

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accept us

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and are accommodating as well then

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that's that community

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support community acceptance and support

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so

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parents can also work on the people

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around them

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um help us understand ourselves

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right that self-understanding piece was

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so important and as parents you're

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helping your children to understand

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to understand themselves too um help us

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understand

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what works for us and what doesn't work

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for us not

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how it should work for non-autistic

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people or how it should look normal but

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like to really understand how we get a

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result

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how do we get an outcome that is

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worthwhile

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that doesn't have so much

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i guess overhead to it uh listen to us

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believe us when we say we're getting

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overwhelmed

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and then finally i just you know what

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you're gonna do anyway which is love us

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and give us a strong you know give us a

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strong foundation

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of you know sense of self and

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self-esteem to

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deal with it when the rest of the world

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starts to push back

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um so that we have those self-advocacy

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skills and the ability to ask for help

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and the ability to set boundaries

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as we get older and and you're not

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around to help us do that

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yeah dora thank you very much for

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joining us uh it's been really

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interesting yeah yeah thank you for

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thank you for having me and for talking

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about this it's um it's so as

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you know we know it's so so important uh

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to the community

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that this is uh

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brought more into the public

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consciousness so that we can start

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working to

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make it a whole way yeah

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yeah to have it recognized and and taken

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seriously an action can be taken

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thank you

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