How To Respond If You Let A Woman Move You Off Center

Alpha Male Strategies - AMS
23 Jan 201912:17

Summary

TLDRIn this video, the speaker addresses a sensitive issue where a man seeks advice after hitting his partner. The speaker emphasizes the importance of maintaining one's masculine energy to balance a woman's feminine energy in a relationship. He advises against showing weakness or apologizing, suggesting that it can lower attraction. Instead, he encourages men to stay confident, keep their options open, and walk away from toxic situations. The speaker also stresses the responsibility men have in maintaining a healthy dynamic in relationships, advocating for a proactive approach to prevent such incidents.

Takeaways

  • πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ Never hit women - The speaker emphasizes that violence against women is unacceptable and should never be an option in any situation.
  • πŸ€” Emotional Control - The speaker discusses the importance of maintaining emotional control and not allowing oneself to be driven by emotions to the point of physical or verbal aggression.
  • 🧠 Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energy - The script explains the concept of masculine and feminine energy in relationships, suggesting that a balance is necessary for a healthy dynamic.
  • 🚫 Avoid Scarcity Mindset - The speaker advises against having a scarcity mindset in dating, which can lead to staying in toxic situations out of fear of being alone.
  • πŸ’ͺ Maintain High Sexual Market Value - It's suggested that men should maintain their physical fitness and appearance to keep their attractiveness high, which can influence the behavior of their partners.
  • πŸƒβ€β™‚οΈ Walk Away from Disrespect - If a relationship becomes toxic, the speaker recommends leaving the situation rather than staying out of insecurity or fear.
  • 🚫 No Apologizing for Losing Control - The speaker argues that apologizing for losing control can be seen as a sign of weakness, which can further lower attraction in a relationship.
  • 🀝 Making Her Apologize - In situations where a man has lost control, the speaker suggests that the woman should apologize for pushing him to that point.
  • πŸ”„ Holding Men Accountable - The script concludes by stating that men should be held accountable for their actions and how they influence the behavior of their partners.
  • πŸ”„ Balancing Attraction - The speaker highlights the importance of maintaining a balance in attraction levels within a relationship to prevent the partner from becoming too dominant or disrespectful.

Q & A

  • What is the main issue the speaker addresses in the video script?

    -The main issue addressed is the inappropriate behavior of hitting a woman and how to proceed after such an incident, focusing on the importance of maintaining one's masculine energy in a relationship.

  • According to the speaker, what does hitting a woman indicate about a man's emotional state?

    -Hitting a woman indicates that a man is acting emotionally and is in a feminine energy state, which is considered undesirable and disrespectful.

  • What does the speaker suggest is the typical reason behind a man hitting a woman?

    -The speaker suggests that a man hitting a woman is usually not an overnight decision but a result of a build-up of issues and disrespect over time.

  • How does the speaker link a woman's level of femininity to her attraction towards a man?

    -The speaker believes that a woman's level of femininity is directly related to her attraction level; the more feminine she is, the higher her attraction towards the man.

  • What does the speaker advise men to do to maintain a woman's attraction?

    -The speaker advises men to maintain their masculine energy, stay on their purpose, keep their sexual market value high, and avoid showing weakness to keep a woman's attraction.

  • Why does the speaker think some women stay in relationships even after losing attraction?

    -Some women stay in relationships because they may have a scarcity mindset, thinking they can't find another man who wants a relationship, or they are trying to find a suitable replacement before leaving.

  • What is the speaker's stance on apologizing after a man has acted inappropriately towards a woman?

    -The speaker is against apologizing, as he believes it shows weakness and can further lower a woman's attraction, advising men to show strength instead.

  • What does the speaker suggest is the role of a man's confidence in maintaining a healthy relationship?

    -The speaker suggests that a man's confidence and maintaining a high sexual market value are crucial in keeping a woman submissive and maintaining a healthy relationship.

  • Why does the speaker emphasize the importance of men not showing weakness in front of women?

    -The speaker emphasizes this because showing weakness can lower a woman's attraction and lead to a loss of respect and balance in the relationship.

  • What advice does the speaker give to men who find themselves in a situation where they have acted emotionally towards a woman?

    -The speaker advises men to always show strength, walk away from the situation, and let the woman come back to them in a submissive state, emphasizing the importance of not losing one's masculine frame.

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MasculinityRelationship AdviceEmotional ControlRespect in LoveToxic BehaviorSelf-ImprovementGender DynamicsAttractionConflict ResolutionEmotional Health