Feel Them Pulling Away? DO NOT Chase; Do THIS Instead!
Summary
TLDRIn this video, the speaker addresses the common issue of overinvestment in early dating stages. They share principles to handle situations where a partner becomes unresponsive during a trip. The speaker emphasizes valuing someone based on how they make you feel, not just your feelings for them. They suggest focusing on other life aspects, possibly dating other people, and maintaining a measured response when the partner returns. The video also introduces 'Matthew AI,' a tool that provides personalized advice on dating scenarios, allowing users to ask specific questions and get tailored responses.
Takeaways
- 😀 The video addresses the common issue of overinvestment in early dating stages.
- 💌 The speaker offers principles to help viewers manage feelings of overinvestment in love life.
- 🗣️ The speaker invites viewers to think of a personal dating question they would ask for advice.
- 📱 A scenario is presented where a woman feels overinvested after a man becomes unresponsive during a trip.
- 🤔 The speaker emphasizes not knowing the man's exact reasons for reduced communication, focusing on his actions instead.
- 🔄 The importance of valuing someone based on how they make you feel, not just your feelings for them, is highlighted.
- 🚫 It's suggested to reduce focus on the person causing overinvestment by reallocating attention to other life areas.
- 🗓️ The speaker advises not to be immediately available when the man returns from his trip, to maintain balance.
- 💬 Two sample messages are provided for the woman to use, depending on whether the man reaches out after his trip.
- 🔗 The video introduces 'Matthew AI', a tool that provides personalized advice on dating and relationship questions.
Q & A
What is the main issue discussed in the video?
-The main issue discussed in the video is overinvestment in early dating stages and how to handle a situation where a person becomes less responsive after initially showing interest.
What is the advice given for someone who feels they have become overinvested in a new relationship?
-The advice given is to stop valuing someone based on how you feel about them and start valuing them based on how they make you feel. It's also suggested to focus on other areas of life and not put all your attention on the person you're dating.
What does it mean if a person who was initially responsive becomes unresponsive during a trip?
-It means that the person is not making an effort to sustain or progress the connection while they are away. It doesn't necessarily reflect their feelings towards you, but it does indicate that they are not prioritizing the relationship at that moment.
What should one do if they feel uncomfortable messaging someone who has become unresponsive?
-It's suggested not to jump to see them at the first opportunity or plan to be free when they return. Instead, maintain your own plans and life, and be authentic about the level of closeness you feel after their absence.
How can one maintain their value in a dating situation where the other person has been unresponsive?
-One can maintain their value by not being overly eager to respond or plan around the other person's schedule. It's important to communicate in a measured and authentic way that reflects the current level of closeness in the relationship.
What is the suggested approach if the person you've been seeing reaches out after being unresponsive during their trip?
-The suggested approach is to respond in a measured way, not showing too much excitement, and to propose a meet-up at a time that suits your schedule, indicating that you have a life outside of waiting for their communication.
What should one do if the person they are dating does not reach out after their return from a trip?
-In this case, one could send a playful and assumptive text to initiate contact, pointing out the lack of communication but also showing interest in catching up, without appearing too eager or desperate.
What is the purpose of the tool 'Matthew AI' mentioned in the video?
-Matthew AI is a tool designed to provide personalized answers to dating and relationship questions. It can help decode text conversations and suggest responses, acting as a personal wingman in your pocket.
How can viewers access and use 'Matthew AI'?
-Viewers can access 'Matthew AI' by going to the website ask mhf first.com and joining the early bird list. Once launched, they can use it to ask specific questions and get tailored advice.
What are some examples of texts one could send in different dating scenarios as suggested in the video?
-The video suggests a text like 'Hey, it's nice to hear from you. Did you have a nice vacation? It would be great to catch up, but I'm not free this week. How about next Thursday?' for a scenario where the person reaches out after being unresponsive. For a scenario where there's no initial reach out, a playful text like 'Look what I just saw' followed by a shared joke or inside reference can be used to initiate contact.
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