Ignore women when they display THIS behavior in your relationships (Female Nature 101)

Casey Zander
20 Jan 202310:51

Summary

TLDRThis video script addresses the importance of recognizing a quality partner in dating, particularly for men seeking a supportive woman aligned with their life mission. The speaker emphasizes the need for equal exchange in attention and intimacy, warning against continuing a relationship where the woman seeks attention from others while the man remains exclusive. The script outlines three key signs to look for in such situations and stresses the importance of masculine leadership and setting clear expectations in relationships to avoid future complications.

Takeaways

  • 🎯 The video is positioned as highly impactful for understanding female nature in the context of dating and assessing the quality of a partner.
  • 🔒 The speaker emphasizes the importance of paying attention to the content, as it is crucial for personal growth and understanding in romantic relationships.
  • 👥 There are two parts to the message, and viewers are urged to watch until the end to grasp the full scope of the advice provided.
  • 🚨 A warning is given that the content will not be sugarcoated, and viewers are encouraged to engage with the material if they are committed to their journey of masculinity and truth.
  • 📝 Viewers are prompted to comment 'truth' to demonstrate their commitment to learning and personal development.
  • 🚫 The video discusses when to consider exiting a relationship, specifically when one partner has closed off sexual access to others, but the other has not closed off attention from other potential partners.
  • 🔄 The concept of 'attention' and 'intimacy' is highlighted, with the need for an equal exchange of investment between partners.
  • 🧭 It's suggested that if a woman is still seeking attention from others, it may indicate that she feels she can do better, which is a sign for the man to consider ending the relationship.
  • 🤔 The speaker points out that women may not take responsibility for the outcomes that result from seeking attention, which can lead to potential romantic complications.
  • 🛑 The advice is to pull back and ignore a woman who is not reciprocating the exclusivity in a relationship, as it can save time, energy, and prevent future issues.
  • 🏆 The importance of solid masculinity and being centered in one's masculine frame is underscored as a way to set expectations and prevent problems in relationships.
  • 🚀 The video concludes with a call to action for viewers to register for the speaker's MBT broadcasts, which promise to provide further insights and techniques for masculine behavior.

Q & A

  • What is the main message of the video regarding dating and relationships?

    -The main message is about recognizing the importance of balance in a relationship, specifically the balance between attention and intimacy, and understanding when to exit a relationship if the woman is not providing the same level of commitment and exclusivity.

  • What does the speaker suggest is the first sign to look for in assessing the quality of a relationship?

    -The speaker suggests looking for whether you have closed off sexual access to other women while the woman you're with has not closed off attention from other men, indicating an imbalance in the relationship.

  • What does the speaker mean by 'attention from other men'?

    -The speaker refers to a woman who is still actively seeking attention from other men, which could be through social media posts, selfies, or other behaviors that signal availability or openness to being approached.

  • According to the speaker, what is the implication of a woman seeking attention from other men while in a relationship?

    -The implication is that the woman may feel she can do better than her current partner, making herself susceptible to being approached and potentially seduced, which could lead to the end of the current relationship.

  • What is the term 'hypergamy radar' mentioned in the script, and what does it signify?

    -The term 'hypergamy radar' is used to describe a woman's subconscious belief that she can find a better partner, which could lead her to remain open to attention from other men despite being in a relationship.

  • What does the speaker suggest is the role of a man in a relationship?

    -The speaker suggests that a man should be a leader in a relationship, setting expectations and precedents, and ensuring that the relationship is mutually beneficial and respectful.

  • What is the significance of the term '99 percenter' in the context of the video?

    -The term '99 percenter' refers to men who exhibit weak behavior, feel like victims, and do not aggressively tackle life's challenges, which contrasts with the 'one percenter' who is a high-value man with strong masculine traits.

  • What advice does the speaker give to men who are struggling with short-term attraction and lust in relationships?

    -The speaker advises men to focus on long-term compatibility and mutual investment in the relationship, rather than just short-term attraction, and to be aware that initial attraction does not guarantee long-term compatibility.

  • What is the importance of setting expectations in a relationship according to the speaker?

    -Setting expectations is crucial because it helps both partners understand what is acceptable and what is not in the relationship, preventing misunderstandings and potential conflicts down the line.

  • What does the speaker mean by 'centered in your masculine frame'?

    -Being 'centered in your masculine frame' means having a strong sense of self, being confident, and leading with clear intentions and boundaries in a relationship.

  • How does the speaker define 'full stack man' in the context of the video?

    -The 'full stack man' is not explicitly defined in the script, but it implies a man who is successful and well-rounded in all aspects of life, including career, relationships, and personal development.

Outlines

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🚨 Importance of Recognizing Quality in Relationships

The speaker emphasizes the significance of this video in understanding female nature and determining the quality of a woman in a man's life. He stresses the importance of commitment to learning and masculinity, urging viewers to comment 'truth' to show their dedication. The video is divided into two parts, with the first focusing on identifying when to exit a relationship. The key point is to recognize if a woman is seeking attention from other men while the man has closed off other intimate options, indicating a lack of balance and potential for infidelity. The speaker suggests that such behavior may signal the woman's desire for better options and her susceptibility to being seduced, advising men to pull back in such situations.

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🛑 Avoiding Relationship Pitfalls with Masculine Leadership

In the second paragraph, the speaker discusses the importance of masculine leadership and setting clear expectations in a relationship. He introduces the concept of '99 percenters' as men with weak behavior who are victims to their emotions and lack focus on personal growth. The speaker contrasts them with 'one percenters' who embody high value and leadership. He advises that most women lack experience with high-value men and that men should establish their masculine frame to prevent relationship issues. The speaker also touches on the misconception that initial attraction equates to long-term compatibility, advocating for men to lead and set boundaries early in a relationship to avoid future conflicts.

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🔑 Embracing Masculinity and Personal Growth

The final paragraph serves as a personal testament from the speaker, who once struggled with social anxiety but has since overcome it to become a confident communicator. He encourages viewers to embrace their masculine energy and focus on personal growth and creation rather than being consumed by relationships and seeking validation from women. The speaker promotes his recent webinar as a valuable resource for mastering masculine behavioral techniques and attracting the right kind of women. He concludes by inviting viewers to like the video and promises to continue delivering hard truths and practical advice.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Impactful

The term 'impactful' refers to something that has a strong effect or influence. In the context of the video, the speaker claims that the content will be highly influential in terms of understanding female nature and dating. The speaker emphasizes the importance of paying attention to this video by labeling it as 'impactful'.

💡Quality

In the video, 'quality' is used to describe a characteristic of a woman who is considered valuable and beneficial in a relationship. The speaker suggests that a 'quality' woman will aid in the life and mission of a 'high value man'. The term is used to emphasize the importance of identifying and being with someone who contributes positively to one's life.

💡Masculinity

The concept of 'masculinity' in the video refers to traditional male qualities such as strength, courage, and leadership. The speaker discusses the journey of masculinity and the importance of being committed to one's own masculine traits. It is tied to the theme of the video by suggesting that understanding and embracing masculinity is crucial for a man's success in dating and life.

💡Hypergamy

Hypergamy is a term used to describe the social practice of marrying or seeking a partner of higher social status. In the video, it is mentioned as a subconscious drive within women to seek partners who they perceive as better than their current partner. The speaker uses hypergamy to explain why a woman might seek attention from other men, indicating a lack of satisfaction with her current partner.

💡Attention

In the script, 'attention' is used to describe the act of seeking validation or acknowledgment from others, particularly from the opposite sex. The speaker warns that if a woman in a relationship is still seeking attention from other men, it could be a sign that she is not fully committed or satisfied with her current partner.

💡Intimacy

Intimacy in the video refers to close, personal, and sexual relationships. The speaker discusses the importance of a balanced exchange between intimacy and attention in a relationship. When a man has closed off intimacy with others but a woman has not closed off attention from other men, it signals an imbalance that the speaker advises to address.

💡One Percenter

The term 'one percenter' is used to describe someone who is part of the top 1% in terms of success or value. In the video, the speaker encourages viewers to strive to be 'full stack one percenters', implying that they should aim to be the best in all areas of life, including dating and relationships.

💡99 Percenter

Conversely to a 'one percenter', a '99 percenter' in the video represents the majority of men who are described as having weak behavior and lacking in masculine qualities. The speaker uses this term to contrast the behavior of men who are not leading or creating success in their lives.

💡MBT

MBT likely refers to 'Masculine Behavioral Techniques', which the speaker mentions as a way for men to understand and exhibit masculine behaviors effectively. The speaker promotes an MBT broadcast as a resource for men to learn how to attract the type of women they want and to improve their interactions.

💡Precedent

In the context of the video, 'precedent' is used to describe the importance of setting expectations and standards at the beginning of a relationship. The speaker advises that a man should establish what he will and will not tolerate to avoid future issues and ensure compatibility.

💡Purpose

The concept of 'purpose' in the video is tied to a man's mission and goals in life. The speaker emphasizes that a man should be focused on his own purpose and creation, rather than being overly preoccupied with women or relationships. This focus on purpose is presented as a way to achieve a more balanced and successful life.

Highlights

This video promises to be one of the most impactful when it comes to understanding female nature in dating.

The importance of paying attention to this video for those on a journey towards masculinity.

The necessity of watching the video until the end to learn how to avoid dating pitfalls.

The concept of 'closed off s3x' and its implications in a relationship.

The significance of equal exchange of investment between attention and intimacy in a relationship.

Understanding hypergamy and its influence on a woman's behavior in a relationship.

The dangers of a woman seeking attention from other men while in a relationship.

How women's behavior can make them susceptible to being approached or seduced.

The importance of recognizing past lovers and their potential impact on a current relationship.

The advice to ignore and potentially exit a relationship if there's a lack of reciprocity in closing off to others.

The importance of setting precedents and expectations in a relationship to avoid future issues.

The role of masculinity and leadership in a man's approach to dating and relationships.

The distinction between short-term attraction and long-term compatibility in relationships.

The impact of a man's focus on his own purpose and creation rather than solely on women.

The call to action for viewers to register for MBT broadcasts to improve their dating skills.

The final advice on ignoring certain behaviors and focusing on self-improvement and leadership.

Transcripts

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Okay, first and foremost, what I want to tell you is, this is going to be one of the most

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impactful videos that I've ever made when it comes to dating female nature.

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And ultimately how to see if the woman that you're with is quality and will help aid in

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your life and in your mission and in your purpose as a high value man or not.

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As crazy as it might sound because I know I've made hundreds of these videos, you have

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to pay attention to this one.

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Okay?

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Not only that, there's two parts to this.

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So you have to stick with me until the end.

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If you stick with me until the end, I'm going to show you how to avoid this trap.

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And I'm even going to show you how to spot it at a deeper level.

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But in order for me to deliver this message to you, here's what you have to know going

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into this.

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I'm not going to sugarcoat anything.

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Okay?

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So if you're committed to learning, okay, you're committed to your own masculinity journey,

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and you're especially committed to truth.

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I want you to comment the word truth right below this video, because that shows me and

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it shows yourself that you're willing to take one step forward to actually achieve the lifestyle

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of a full stack one percenter full stack, man.

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Okay, that's important.

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Comment The word truth below.

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Now, when to ignore a woman that you're dating, when to start to exit that relationship and

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what to look for.

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Okay, there's two parts of this.

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So stay with me until the end, the first thing you have to look for, okay?

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Write this down on a sheet of paper, because most guys don't see it.

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And I'm going to tell you why.

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When you're dating, okay, I wrote this down word for word.

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When you have closed off s 3x.

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K, you have closed off s three actual access, que it with other women, meaning you're not

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sleeping with anybody else.

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You're not entertaining.

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Any other partners, let's say, Okay, you're not intimate with any women in bed.

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Okay, besides your girl or the woman that you're seeing, besides the girl you're dating,

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maybe it's your exclusive girlfriend, okay, when you've closed that off, okay, when you've

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closed off s three.

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Number three is I beaten around the algorithm a little bit here, so to speak, when you've

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closed off that access, but she has not closed off attention from other men.

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This is when you need to start to exit and I'm going to explain why men today what I

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have noticed do not understand the true balance that needs to be in place between attention

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and intimacy.

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Okay, between attention and intimacy, it needs to be an equal exchange of investment.

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If you notice that your the girl that you're seeing or the girl that you're dating, is

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still open for business, okay, is still actively seeking for attention.

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Here's what you have to know, there's three things you have to know number one, in her

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mind, her hypergamy radar is going off.

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And on a deep down level, she feels as if you are not the best that she can do.

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That's what you have to know.

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Number one, she feels as if she can possibly do better.

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And that's why she's still open for business.

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Okay.

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Number two, what attention actually means to a woman is that they are susceptible to

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potentially being hidden to being hit on okay to having guys approach them.

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If they're open for business and they're open for attention.

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They're actively seeking attention.

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Okay, this could be scandalous pictures in the mirror.

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This can be selfies with their lifts, puff lifts popped out lips, excuse me, puffed out,

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okay, this could also be booty pictures, doesn't matter what it is, if they're actively seeking

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attention, okay, that showing that, hey, I'm open for business, I want people to talk to

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me, I'm opening myself up to being vulnerable to potentially being seduced.

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See, that's what you have to understand guys don't understand this.

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Women don't typically take responsibility for the outcomes that happen that leads them

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down that rabbit hole of a potential data potential interaction or potentially sleeping

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with a guy, they'll wake up and go ah, it wasn't my fault.

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One things led to a next and all of a sudden here we are and we had a great experience.

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That's just how it works.

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Okay, so the first is in her brain her hypergamy radar is basically telling her that she can

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do better number two, okay, if she can do better number two, what you got to realize

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that she's making herself susceptible to potentially being approached and number three there was

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probably a past lover that she on a deep down level desires more than you those are the

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three things you have to know if you are entered into an exclusive relationship with a woman

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and you have closed off seeing with or seeing other women or sleeping with other women.

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But she has not closed off access to attention.

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Okay, the things she's posting the way she's seeking that attention you need to start to

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pull back and to ignore her Okay, the reason being is because you're gonna save yourself

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time energy and headache but stay with me to the end of this to part two because I'm

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gonna show you how to avoid this from the get go and it's very important that you stay

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okay because this is a super important topic this right here not spotting this will lead

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to massive disruption and I'm gonna explain why later.

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Here's what you have to know though.

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Guys who fundamentally understand MBT K masculine behavioral techniques.

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You can see this from a mile away.

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Which means after this video is over, when I show you part two to this, I want you to

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go down below and I want To register for the MBT broadcasts that I put together, I just

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reshot this last week.

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Okay, this is probably the best 60 minute training on MBT that I have ever put together,

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you're going to be seeing exact step by step processes that any man can copy paste into

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his life to make talking to women easier, and to start to attract the type of women

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that he wants.

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So be sure 100% when this video is over to go and check that out, but nevertheless, what

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is part two to this?

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Okay, part two, okay, how to stop this from a mile away or how to spot this from a mile

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away?

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Here's what you have to understand.

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Okay, this is going to sting.

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Most men out there today in the world, our 99 percenters.

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What's a 99 percenter, a 99.

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percenter is a guy who typically has weak behavior.

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He feels he's a victim.

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He's not aggressively tackling life when it comes to his career, his job opportunities,

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his business, his gym, life, gay and he doesn't keep himself his own mental point of focus.

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He's constantly putting girls up on the pedestal, and he's constantly thinking how he can please

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them instead of please himself day to day by tackling obstacles and creating success

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for himself.

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Okay, that's how you got to realize most guys are 99 percenters, which means most men are

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not one percenters.

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And if that's true, most women don't actually have experience what it's like dating a true

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high value, man, I know that you want to think that they do.

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I know that you want to tell yourself, oh, it's easy for every single girl out there

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to go pull some Chad Kay or some some jack dude.

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And it might be to some degree depending on how open they are for options, or how easy

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it is for them to get those options.

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But here's what you got to remember, it's hard for women to find guys that they're actually

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attracted to there's a, there's a sea of guys in their inbox.

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They don't want a lot of them.

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Okay, so it's, it's actually hard for them.

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Because they're not wired the same way where they like access to tons of options, they

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want to find one specific guy who fits the frame.

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Okay, here's what you got to know, the way to stop this from happening is you have to

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have solid masculinity and you have to be centered in your masculine frame to set the

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precedent going into the relationship.

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See, here's what you have to know, if you don't set the precedent and the expectations

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prior to dating.

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She doesn't know what you want, or ultimately what you will and won't put up with.

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And see this is the problem that guys have when they date women is it's all based on

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short term attraction.

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It's based on lust, okay, it's based on how quickly they can sleep together.

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And then just because they start sleeping together, and they think that there's attraction,

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they automatically think that they're compatible, and that they're on the same page.

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This is not true.

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Write this down in a notebook.

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This is not true.

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Okay, just because you have attraction with a woman in the beginning doesn't mean that

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you're compatible.

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But not only that, as a man, if you're centered in your masculinity, fundamentally, at heart,

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you are a leader, it is your job, and it is your responsibility to be a leader, I told

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you, I wasn't going to beat around the bush, I'm going to deliver you the truth.

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Comment The word truth below.

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If you feel it's your duty to be a leader comment the word truth below, okay?

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If you're centered in your masculinity, and you're leading, that means you're going to

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lead that frame, and you're going to lead the expectations and you're going to set the

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precedent for how that relationship is ran.

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Okay?

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That way, if there's disagreement on her end, when you start dating her, you can say, Okay,

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it looks like this isn't a fit, you can dissolve the issue in the beginning, before a shitstorm

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arises three months, six months, 12 months, 18 months in advance, the longer I coach men,

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the longer I do this on YouTube, the more I just see there's a general, there's an overall

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level of incompetent men.

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There's a level of men where they only lead life with emotion, they're constantly looking

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for short term lost.

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And because of that they can't think properly and they can't think properly because women

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are literally their universe.

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Women are literally their world, all they think about and all they care about is who

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that girl is with and if they can get her and I'm going to tell you this until you get

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on your purpose until you actually start building things for yourself.

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And yes, I'm call them coming from the standpoint of a creator creation, okay?

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Until you hit that paradigm in life as a man where you're creating, I don't care if you're

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creating experiences with people, I don't care if you're creating a business for yourself,

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I don't care if you're creating opportunities.

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I don't care if you're creating a new workout routine for you to go and bust PRs in the

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gym.

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I don't care until you start getting centered on your purpose and you come from a standpoint

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of creation, it's going to be extremely hard to be centered in your masculinity, because

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you're going to be in life every single day instead of above it.

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And when I say above it, you have to be looking to the future of what you're building when

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you get sucked into the weeds.

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Okay, when you get sucked into drama, you're susceptible to low level conversation, okay?

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You get sucked into arguing, you get sucked into that low level behavior,

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you will not win.

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So ignore women care, ignore the girl that you're dating and start to dissolve that relationship.

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Okay, if you have closed off options on an intimate level, but she is not closed off

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attention you need to run because she is testing you and ultimately she does doesn't feel that

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you're the best that she can do and that's why she's still open for business.

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If you liked this video, go down below watch that webinar.

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I just reshot it last week, some of the best work I've ever created.

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I'm in flow in that I deliver cold hard truths.

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I make sure that you guys get the exact necessary steps that you need to make talking to women

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easy.

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And because of that, I know what it's like because at one point, I was a nerd who had

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massive social anxiety and couldn't even talk to anybody.

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Now I can get in front of a camera and talk to 330,000 of you that are subscribed to this

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channel.

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Hit that like button.

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We'll see you tomorrow.

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