What becoming an Attractive Man taught me about women

Summary

In this podcast, the speaker explores the concept of becoming an attractive man, focusing not just on physical appearance but on developing sexual appeal, body confidence, and attraction. He emphasizes that money is not necessary for attracting women; instead, self-improvement, a strong physique, and self-assurance are key. The speaker shares personal experiences, noting how women treat him differently since his transformation, revealing that attraction goes beyond material possessions. He also discusses the hidden dynamics in relationships and how women may be open to cheating when they're not sexually satisfied. Ultimately, confidence and physical presence are highlighted as the true sources of attraction.

Takeaways

• 😀 Being attractive to women is not just about looks, it's about sexual appeal and body language.
• 😀 You don’t need to be rich to attract women, as money is not a key factor in sexual attraction.
• 😀 The body game is essential: you become attractive by improving your physique, not by relying on material possessions.
• 😀 Men who focus on looking attractive and building their body often stand out more than those who try to compensate with wealth or flashy attire.
• 😀 Women are more likely to pursue men who are sexually attractive to them, just like men pursue women they find attractive.
• 😀 Attractive men get different treatment from women, including more proactive attention and interest.
• 😀 Sexual dynamics play a significant role in how women behave towards men, even in professional or public settings.
• 😀 Men do not need to lead with money to get a woman’s interest. If she finds you sexually attractive, she is interested in you for who you are, not what you can offer financially.
• 😀 Women often expose the flaws in their relationships when they are around men they find attractive, hinting at dissatisfaction with their current partners.
• 😀 Women who are in relationships may still be interested in other men if they feel their current partner isn't fulfilling their sexual or emotional needs.

Q & A

What does the speaker mean by becoming an 'attractive man'?

The speaker is referring to the idea of being sexually attractive to women, not just being handsome. It's about having sex appeal, which includes a combination of physical appearance, body language, and confidence.

Is physical attractiveness the most important factor when attracting women?

No, the speaker emphasizes that being sexually attractive goes beyond just physical looks. It includes having a strong sex appeal, body, mannerisms, and a confident presence that makes a man stand out.

Does money play a role in attracting women according to the speaker?

No, the speaker argues that you do not need money to attract women. Money should be used for personal advancement and maintaining one's lifestyle, not to 'buy' attraction from women.

How does the speaker suggest that a man can be attractive without relying on money?

The speaker suggests focusing on developing one's body, confidence, and overall sex appeal. Becoming 'the Ferrari' or 'Lamborghini' means cultivating a strong physical appearance and personal magnetism that makes you stand out regardless of the clothes or money you have.

What does the speaker mean by 'ugly sexy player'?

The term refers to men who may not be conventionally handsome or fit traditional beauty standards, but still possess a strong sexual appeal. This appeal comes from their confidence and presence rather than their physical appearance alone.

What is the 'sexual dynamic' the speaker refers to in interactions with women?

The 'sexual dynamic' refers to the subtle, often unspoken attraction that exists between men and women. It involves the way women might express interest in a man, even in situations where no explicit attraction is acknowledged.

How does the speaker describe the treatment he receives from women after becoming more attractive?

The speaker claims that women now treat him differently, with more attention, more consistent communication, and greater interest. He contrasts this with the treatment other, less attractive men receive, highlighting how sexual attraction leads to women actively pursuing him.

What does the speaker say about women who are in relationships or marriages?

The speaker suggests that some women in relationships or marriages may still be sexually attracted to other men. They might show interest in him, expose issues within their own relationships, or even express a willingness to cheat.

What does the speaker mean by women 'exposing the dynamics' of their relationships?

The 'exposing the dynamics' refers to women subtly revealing issues in their current relationships through their behavior around other men. This can manifest in flirting, checking out other men, or showing interest outside of their committed relationship.

What are some of the ways the speaker says women signal sexual attraction?

Women signal sexual attraction through body language like brushing their hair, maintaining eye contact, or displaying nervous energy when around an attractive man. These signs are subtle but are often consistent across different women.