This Makes Women Want You Sexually (Works Every Time)

Dan Bacon
5 Aug 202424:08

Summary

TLDRThe video script explores the nuances of sexual attraction, highlighting the differences between how men and women experience it. It emphasizes that while men may be visually attracted instantly, women are more influenced by emotional traits such as confidence and assertiveness. The speaker suggests that displaying emotionally attractive traits, such as playfully challenging humor and flirtatious behavior, can significantly impact a woman's level of attraction towards a man. The script encourages men to understand these dynamics to improve their interactions with women, offering a pathway to master attraction through continuous learning and psychological momentum.

Takeaways

  • πŸ” The script discusses the difference between male and female attraction, emphasizing that men can instantly decide on sexual attraction based on physical appearance, while women consider emotional attractiveness more significantly.
  • πŸ’ͺ It highlights that men often believe they need to improve their physical appearance to attract women, but this overlooks the importance of emotional traits such as confidence and assertiveness for women's attraction.
  • 🧠 The male brain is said to have a larger 'sexual pursuit' area, making men more inclined to pursue sex, whereas women require more than just physical attraction to feel sexually attracted.
  • πŸ€” The script points out that women are more attracted to men who display emotional traits like assertiveness and confidence, rather than passivity, which can signal a lack of confidence.
  • 🚫 It warns against being overly nice or passive in interactions with women, as this can be a turn-off and does not demonstrate the emotional strength that women find attractive.
  • πŸ˜‰ The use of 'playfully challenging humor' is suggested as a way to demonstrate emotional independence and confidence, which can make a woman feel more attracted.
  • πŸ‘₯ The script suggests that having common interests is not enough to create sexual attraction and that displaying emotional attractiveness is key to making a woman feel attracted.
  • πŸ’¬ It emphasizes the importance of the emotional state in which a man communicates with a woman, stating that confidence and masculinity in communication are more attractive than fear or insecurity.
  • πŸ‘« The script explains that attraction is an automatic reaction to attractive traits, and by displaying these traits, a man can elicit an instant 'yes' in a woman's mind.
  • 🌐 It promotes a website, MasterAttraction.com, as a resource to learn more about the traits that make women feel sexually and romantically attracted, suggesting a community for support and advice.
  • πŸš€ Finally, the script encourages understanding that anyone can be attractive by displaying the right emotional traits, regardless of physical appearance or wealth.

Q & A

  • What is the main difference between male and female attraction as described in the script?

    -The script suggests that male attraction is often instant and based on physical appearance, while female attraction is more complex, involving emotional aspects and assessing the man's confidence and assertiveness.

  • Why might a man feel insecure or confused about women's reactions to him?

    -A man might feel insecure or confused because he may not understand that women's attraction mechanisms are different from his own, often requiring more than just physical appearance to feel attracted.

  • What role does the 'sexual pursuit area' of the brain play in attraction according to the script?

    -The script explains that the male brain has a larger 'sexual pursuit area,' making men more likely to be the pursuers in sexual scenarios, while women may require more emotional connection before feeling attracted.

  • Why is emotional attractiveness more important to women than physical attractiveness?

    -Emotional attractiveness, such as assertiveness, confidence, and social intelligence, is more important to women because it signals a man's ability to take charge and be decisive, which are traits that women find sexually attractive.

  • What is the significance of 'playfully challenging humor' in attracting women?

    -Playfully challenging humor is a form of emotionally attractive behavior that shows confidence and emotional independence without being disrespectful, which can make a man more appealing to women.

  • How does the script define 'emotional independence' and why is it attractive to women?

    -Emotional independence is the ability to feel good about oneself without needing validation from others. It is attractive to women because it signals confidence and the absence of neediness or insecurity.

  • What is the role of 'flirting' in making a woman feel sexually attracted to a man?

    -Flirting is a way of displaying emotional attractiveness by creating a playful and fun interaction, which can make a woman feel more feminine and attracted to the man's masculine energy.

  • Why is it a mistake for a man to assume that being overly nice will make a woman sexually attracted to him?

    -Being overly nice can come across as insincere or as 'sucking up,' which does not trigger sexual attraction. Women are more attracted to men who display confidence and emotional strength rather than constant compliance.

  • How can a man demonstrate emotional strength and masculinity without being disrespectful to women?

    -A man can demonstrate emotional strength and masculinity by being assertive, playful, and showing leadership in a respectful and considerate manner, ensuring that his behavior is not demeaning or domineering.

  • What is 'psychological momentum' and how can it help in attracting women?

    -Psychological momentum is a concept where continuous success in a certain area builds confidence and further success. In the context of attraction, it means that as a man learns and displays more attractive traits, his confidence grows, making him even more attractive to women.

  • Why is it not necessary for a man to be perfect in order to attract a woman, according to the script?

    -The script suggests that attraction is about displaying the right emotional traits rather than physical perfection. A man can attract a woman by being confident, emotionally intelligent, and displaying other attractive traits, regardless of his physical appearance.

Outlines

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🚹 Understanding Male and Female Attraction

This paragraph discusses the fundamental differences in how men and women experience sexual attraction. It highlights that men can instantly decide their attraction based on physical appearance, whereas women require more emotional connection. The script points out the male brain's larger sexual pursuit area, indicating a natural inclination towards pursuing sex. It emphasizes the importance of emotional attractiveness for women, such as assertiveness and confidence in men, rather than just physical attributes. The paragraph also touches on the common male misconception that improving physical appearance alone will lead to sexual attraction from women.

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πŸ’‘ Displaying Emotional Attractiveness to Women

The second paragraph focuses on the simplicity of attracting women through the display of emotionally attractive traits. It argues that physical appearance, while it can play a role, is less important than emotional traits like confidence, humor, and determination. The speaker shares insights on why some men may not fit the conventional 'handsome' mold yet are successful in attracting women due to their emotional appeal. The paragraph encourages men to 'shoot their shot' by expressing their desires confidently, rather than trying to please women through niceties or common interests.

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😜 The Power of Playful Challenging Humor

This paragraph delves into the concept of using playful challenging humor as a means to demonstrate emotional independence and attractiveness to women. It contrasts the behavior of men who are overly nice or neutral in their interactions with women, versus those who display confidence and a fearless attitude. The speaker illustrates how to interrupt a woman's story with light-hearted teasing to show that the man is not seeking approval or living in fear of rejection. This approach is intended to signal emotional strength and independence, which are attractive traits to women.

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🍳 Flirting and Emotional Polarity in Attraction

The fourth paragraph discusses the importance of flirting and establishing emotional polarity in interactions with women. It suggests that by making light-hearted, assertive statements about future dates or activities, a man can create a playful and attractive dynamic. The speaker emphasizes the difference between making such statements with confidence versus fear or apology, noting that women are attracted to confidence and not to men who appear weak or insecure. The paragraph also explains that attraction is an automatic response to attractive traits and that emotional states are as important as the words used.

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πŸš€ Building Confidence and Attractiveness through Psychological Momentum

The final paragraph talks about the concept of psychological momentum and how it can help in building confidence and attractiveness in interactions with women. It suggests that by continuously learning and displaying new attractive traits, a man can achieve a state of increasing confidence and desirability. The speaker promotes a website, MasterAttraction.com, as a resource for learning such traits and joining a community for support and growth. The paragraph concludes by reinforcing the idea that attractiveness is not solely about physical appearance but about the ability to display a range of emotionally attractive traits.

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Keywords

πŸ’‘Sexual Attraction

Sexual attraction refers to the feelings of desire and interest one experiences towards another person on a physical level. In the video's context, it emphasizes the different ways men and women may experience or express this attraction. The script discusses how men might instantly feel attracted based on physical appearance, whereas women may place more importance on emotional attractiveness, such as confidence and assertiveness.

πŸ’‘Emotional Attractiveness

Emotional attractiveness pertains to the qualities of a person that appeal to others on an emotional level, rather than just physical appearance. The video script highlights that women often prioritize emotional attractiveness over physical traits, with examples including assertiveness, confidence, and the ability to flirt respectfully.

πŸ’‘Assertiveness

Assertiveness is the ability to express one's thoughts, feelings, and beliefs in an open, honest, and appropriate way. The script explains that women find assertive men more attractive because it signals confidence and the ability to take charge, which are seen as desirable traits.

πŸ’‘Passive Behavior

Passive behavior is characterized by a lack of initiative or resistance, often leading to a submissive role in interactions. The video script contrasts passive behavior with assertiveness, noting that women are generally not attracted to men who are passive, as it can indicate a lack of confidence.

πŸ’‘Playful Challenging Humor

Playful challenging humor is a form of communication where one playfully teases or challenges another in a light-hearted and respectful manner. The script describes it as an emotionally attractive trait that can make women feel more sexually attracted, as it demonstrates confidence and emotional independence without being disrespectful.

πŸ’‘Emotional Independence

Emotional independence refers to the ability to maintain one's emotional well-being without relying on others for validation or happiness. The video emphasizes that men who display emotional independence are more attractive to women because they are not needy or overly reliant on the woman's approval.

πŸ’‘Flirting

Flirting is a social behavior showing one's interest in another in a playful and non-serious way. The script uses flirting as an example of an emotionally attractive behavior that can make women feel more feminine and desired, thus increasing sexual attraction.

πŸ’‘Psychological Momentum

Psychological momentum is a concept where success in one area can lead to increased confidence and further success in related areas. The video script mentions that by continuously learning and displaying attractive traits, men can gain psychological momentum, becoming more confident and attractive to women over time.

πŸ’‘Master Attraction

Master Attraction appears to be a program or community mentioned in the script that teaches men how to make women feel sexually and romantically attracted. It is used as an example of a resource where men can learn about emotional attractiveness and psychological momentum.

πŸ’‘Confidence

Confidence is a belief in one's own abilities, qualities, and judgment. The script repeatedly emphasizes the importance of confidence as an emotionally attractive trait, suggesting that men who are confident are more likely to succeed in attracting women.

πŸ’‘Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence is the ability to understand, use, and manage one's own emotions in positive ways. The video script implies that men with high emotional intelligence are better equipped to handle social interactions and challenges, making them more attractive to women.

Highlights

There is a fundamental difference in the way men and women experience sexual attraction.

Men can instantly decide their sexual attraction based on physical appearance, whereas women's attraction is more complex and involves emotional factors.

Women place more importance on a man's emotional attractiveness, such as assertiveness and confidence, rather than just physical traits.

Men are biologically wired to pursue sex, which explains their instant attraction and the tendency to check out women.

The male brain has a larger sexual pursuit area compared to the female brain, indicating a natural inclination towards sexual pursuit.

Men often misunderstand women's lack of immediate reciprocation of attraction as a sign of personal unattractiveness.

Building physical attributes like muscles does not guarantee a woman's sexual interest, contrary to what some men believe.

Playfully challenging humor is an effective way to demonstrate emotional attractiveness and confidence to women.

Assertiveness in men is a trait that women find attractive, as it signals confidence and the ability to take charge.

Men's preference for passive women is not mirrored by women's preference for men; women are attracted to confident and assertive men.

Flirting and displaying masculine energy can make a woman feel feminine and attract her on an emotional level.

The emotional state in which a man communicates is more important than the words he uses for attracting a woman.

Mastering emotional intelligence and displaying various attractive traits can lead to psychological momentum, increasing a man's attractiveness over time.

Joining a community like Master Attraction can provide support and learning opportunities to improve attraction skills.

A man's appearance does not have to be perfect to attract a woman; it's the display of attractive emotional traits that matter.

Women test men's emotional intelligence and confidence through challenges during interactions to gauge their attractiveness.

Transcripts

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is there something that can make a woman

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feel sexually attracted to you every

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time yes there is and to help you

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understand how it works I'll first point

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out that there's a big difference

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between male and female attraction for a

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single man for example he can look at a

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woman and instantly say yes that he

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would have sex with her or no I wouldn't

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have sex with her it's just an instant

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yes or no and the woman doesn't really

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need to do anything else other than look

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the way that she does and it's just a

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yes or a no and from that a lot of

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confusion and insecurity and even

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depression is caused for men when they

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notice that they look at women in that

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way but women don't seem to look at them

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in that way right he can look at a woman

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and instantly look at a b or a boobs or

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a waistline or a face or just her

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overall appearance and instantly be

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sexually attracted and instantly be

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saying yes in his mind but she just

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walks on by she doesn't even turn around

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to look at him the way that he's looking

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at her right if he's walking along and

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he turns around to have a look he

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notices that she just walks on by and

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what do most guys think at that point

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well it means that I'm not good-look

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enough I have to become better looking

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I've got to go to the gym and build lots

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of muscle but what guys often find is

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that when they go and build a lot of

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muscle in the gym which takes a lot of

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work and a lot of time they end up

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getting more looks from women but women

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continue to just walk Walk On By they

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don't come over and say hey how are you

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what's your name what's your number can

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I take you out sometime so he's still at

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the same point and that can lead a lot

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of guys to feel that they're not

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good-looking enough and feel insecure

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but the guy simply doesn't understand

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that a woman's attraction Works

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differently to a man's attraction for

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example one of the biggest differences

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between the male and female brain is

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that the male brain has a sexual Pursuit

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area that is 2.5 times larger than the

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sexual Pursuit area in a woman's brain

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and what that means is that men are

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designed we are wired to be the ones who

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pursue sex so men are typically the ones

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who tend to check women out they tend to

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check out the goods and it's part of the

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male wiring it's something that's very

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different about men compared to women

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and if you don't know that you'll be

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confused about how women react to you

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when you're single or in a relationship

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because men can instantly say yes to sex

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but in almost all cases a woman needs to

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check first what does she need to check

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she needs to check whether or not the

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guy is emotionally attractive because

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that is what is most important to women

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it's been proven time and time again

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essentially yes women definitely can

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feel attracted to a handsome man and

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they can definitely feel physically

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attracted to men absolutely no problem

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about that at all but it has been proven

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time and time again that women Place

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more importance on a man's emotional

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attractiveness so for example is a guy

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able to be assertive with her or is he a

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passive sort of guy when interacting

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with with her and therefore he's afraid

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to take the lead or afraid of upsetting

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her so for example an assertive guy will

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confidently ask a woman something he

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won't be afraid to assert himself and

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direct the conversation where he wants

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to take it whereas a passive guy will

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usually just want to follow along with

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whatever the woman is talking about he

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will be worried about talking about

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things she may not like so he will just

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want to follow her lead in the

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conversation or interaction women aren't

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attracted to that type of passive

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behavior from men because it can signal

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a lack of confidence and make him appear

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less capable of taking charge and being

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decisive which are traits that women

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find sexually attractive and sexually

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arousing in a man now something

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important to point out here about the

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difference between male and female

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attraction is that most men don't care

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if a woman is passive or assertive

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they'll still have sex with her right it

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doesn't matter if she's just waiting for

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him to make a move or if she's trying to

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make a move who cares yes she looks good

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so I'll have sex with her that's it yet

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that said most men actually prefer women

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who are passive and just go along with

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whatever the man wants right but it

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doesn't work the other way around all

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right most women prefer a man who has

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the confidence masculinity and balls to

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actually be assertive but he also has

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the social intelligence and tact to do

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it respectfully right so the guy's not

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just being an [Β __Β ] and telling her to

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do things that she doesn't want to do

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and forcing her to do something it's not

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about that instead he is simply being

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assertive and being the one who's

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actually making something happen but he

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still shows the woman respect and treats

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her well women are attracted to that

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they want that they're checking for that

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they want to see if the guy actually can

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be a man around her or if he's going to

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be passive like a woman so it's

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important to understand that generally

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speaking women care more about emotional

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attractiveness than men when it comes to

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sex and it's just the way that it is

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right a man will have sex with a woman

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whether she's passive or assertive it

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doesn't matter but women want to have

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sex with a man who has emotionally

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attractive trait

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such as assertiveness of course that's

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not the only attractive trait that you

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can display you can display so many

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traits that are emotionally attractive

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to women so what do you need to do to

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make a woman feel sexually attracted to

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you and want you sexually thankfully

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it's very simple you just have to

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display emotionally attractive traits

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and then shoot your shot that's it you

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don't have to do anything more

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complicated than that this is one of the

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main reasons why you'll see guys with

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women and wonder hang on a second what

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she doing with him some guys may think

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hey I look better than him or that guy's

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not even tall why isn't she with a tall

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handsome model sort of guy why is she

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gone for a short guy why does that woman

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find a guy who's overweight sexually

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attractive how can that be possible how

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about the guy who's skinny look at his

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arms don't you have to have big muscles

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to make women feel attracted that's the

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only way that they can feel sexually

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attracted right you got to have huge

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muscles that's the only way to do it no

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women definitely can feel attracted to a

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man who has muscles women and definitely

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feel attracted to a man who is tall

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absolutely however most women Place more

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importance on a man's emotional

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attractiveness to her and in some cases

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the guy that she is with isn't even that

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confident yet he displayed another trait

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that is emotionally attractive to women

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and that is determination he was

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determined to talk to her he was

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determined to keep the interaction going

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he was determined to ask her out or move

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in for a kiss and it's not a case of him

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doing it in a needy way or a desperate

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way where he's desperately chasing her

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instead he's just determined he likes

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that girl and he wants to make something

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happen women are attracted to men who

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know what they want and aren't afraid to

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go and get it so whether you're single

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or in a relationship if you can display

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some emotionally attractive traits such

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as confidence humor flirting social

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intelligence emotional masculinity

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anything like that she is going to feel

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sexually attracted to you and want you

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that's how you get a woman to have that

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instant yes in her mind in terms of your

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sexual attractiveness to her and her

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desire to have sex with you right if

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you're interacting with her and you're

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emotionally attractive then she's going

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to be feeling that instant yes in her

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mind but if you're interacting with her

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and you're emotionally unattractive

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she's going to be having an instant and

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an ongoing no in her mind because

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emotional attractiveness is more

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important to women it's just how it

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works so what's an example of how you

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can make a woman feel sexually attracted

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to you what's an example of what you

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could say or do right so let's say for

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example you're talking to a woman at a

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bar and you ask her so have you gotten

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up to anything interesting lately and

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she then starts telling you what she's

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been up to what can you do at that point

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to make her feel sexually attracted to

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you when most guys are interacting with

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a woman that they find attractive and

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ask a question like that they'll end up

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being neutral or very nice as she talks

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about it so if she starts talking about

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the fact that she's been going to the

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gym lately and eating healthily a guy

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who's being neutral will just try to get

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along with her and he'll say oh yeah

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that's great you've been going to the

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gym and uh yeah I go to the gym as well

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and I try to eat healthy or what what

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sort of foods have you been eating and

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how often do you go to the gym and he's

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just trying to get along with her and

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connect with her and hopefully if they

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have enough in common then she's going

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to like him she's going to be thinking

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oh wow he likes going to the gym as well

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he likes to eat healthily you know what

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we can be boyfriend and girlfriend let's

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start this thing right so he's hoping

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that having things in common is going to

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cause sexual attraction but that's a

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completely different thing altogether so

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a guy who is too nice when she's saying

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that she's been going to the gym lately

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and she's been eating healthily will

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likely give her a lot of compliments

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about it and essentially put her on a

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bit of a pedestal and suck up to her to

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hopefully be liked by her he might say

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something like oh wow that's really

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impressive you must be so disciplined

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it's not easy to stick to a healthy

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routine like that you're amazing for

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being so dedicated I wish I had your

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motivation and he's trying to show her

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that he cares and that he's a nice guy

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he's a good guy and hopefully she likes

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him now because of how good he is and

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how caring he seems and how you know

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what a great outlook on life he has

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right you know what let's have sex

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whereas a guy who understands how to

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make women feel sexually attracted will

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use what I call playfully challenging

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humor and playfully challenging humor is

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just one of the many emotionally

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attractive traits that I discovered

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which resulted in me going from having

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no women interested in me and attracted

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to me to being able to instantly attract

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women whenever I wanted to once I

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figured out how to make women feel

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emotionally attracted to me the flood

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gates opened and I then use that

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Newfound power to enjoy my choice of

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women for over 10 years it still amazes

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me to this day how easy it is to make

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women feel an instant yes for you and

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want you sexually if you know how to

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make them feel emotionally attracted

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it's such an amazing power to have as a

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man and I really enjoyed it while I was

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single and I now continue to enoy enjoy

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it after settling down with my perfect

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girl who I've been with for nearly 12

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years now so how do you use playfully

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challenging humor if you ask a woman a

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simple question such as so have you been

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up to anything interesting lately and

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she then starts telling you that she's

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been going to the gym and she's been

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eating healthy food right so you ask her

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so have you been up to anything

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interesting lately and when she starts

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telling you you smile and cut her off

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and say this wait I said interesting or

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hang on I asked if you're been up to

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anything interesting

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or yeah yeah no keep going very

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interesting or hang on a second I asked

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if you've been up to anything

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interesting going to the gym eating

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healthy food so what you're telling me

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is that you're a boring girl or wow that

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sounds really interesting or hang on a

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second hang on I asked if you've been up

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to anything interesting and at that

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point she's playfully challenged she's

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feeling shocked in a playful way in the

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moment her jaw might drop and she'll say

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what or laugh and so forth and then you

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can say just kidding that sounds really

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interesting keep going and at that point

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what you've shown her in terms of your

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emotional attractiveness is that you're

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not a nice guy who's sucking up to her

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and being on your best behavior to

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hopefully get a chance with her you also

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have the courage to be able to say and

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do something like that in a moment

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you're not living in fear of being

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rejected by a woman and you know

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potentially putting a foot wrong like if

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if I say the wrong thing she's not going

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to like me and then my whole world's

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going to come crashing down you're not

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one of those guys who are

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essentially uh hoping that everything

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goes well with the woman and if it

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doesn't then damn it I'm a loser you

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know women reject me they don't like me

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and I've got to try to be as nice as

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possible say everything as nicely as

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possible to avoid her potentially not

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liking anything I just got to be on my

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best behavior all the time if a woman

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senses that a guy feels like he needs to

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be on his best behavior around her and

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he's worried about putting a foot wrong

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her instincts tell her that he's already

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assuming that this is going to go badly

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he's already assuming that he's not good

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enough for me and so on right he's

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already expecting a bad outcome but a

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guy who's truly confident and has what I

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call emotional

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Independence isn't relyant on the woman

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to hopefully make him feel good in the

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moment hopefully like approve of me and

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and like me and then I'll be able to

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feel good right he already feels good

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about himself he's already confident and

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he doesn't need her to give him anything

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in order to feel good about himself so

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he actually has the freedom to be able

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to say to her wait I said interesting

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just kidding that that sounds really

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interesting keep going and she then

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realizes that he's most likely not going

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to be a needy emotionally dependent guy

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he's most likely going to be able to

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take care of his own emotional state and

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be confident and happy in the moment

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regardless of what she's saying or doing

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he has that emotional Independence and

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therefore he's much more attractive

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compared to a man who seems like he

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needs a woman to be reassuring him

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showing that he's doing everything right

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and uh that she doesn't dis approve of

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him and then he's going to feel okay

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because if a woman gets into a

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relationship with a man like that it

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will often mean that deep down he is

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quite insecure and that will usually

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lead to him becoming jealous

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overprotective and needy in the

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relationship which isn't going to be fun

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for her yet the thing is when we men are

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interacting with a woman we don't need

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to see that she's emotionally

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independent she's confident and she's

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going to be able to stand up for herself

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in interactions right she's not going to

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be someone that is going to be walked

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all over because we need to be protected

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by a woman right we need to be behind a

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really strong woman a brave woman and so

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forth we obviously aren't looking for

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that that's not part of how our

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attraction works but women do want to be

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with a man who they feel is stronger

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than them emotionally and seems to have

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the emotional intelligence to be able to

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handle her in a relationship to be able

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to interact with her and be in the oneup

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position in terms of dominance or

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emotional strength rather than being in

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the one down position in terms of

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emotional strength or dominance where

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she is then dominating him women feel

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sexually attracted when a man can

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actually be more emotionally strong than

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her and doesn't put himself in the one

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down position in terms of dominance and

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playfully challenging humor is just one

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way that you can instantly demonstrate

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to a woman that hey I don't actually see

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myself in the one- down position I'm not

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afraid of you but at the same time I'm

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not being a prick right you're not

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saying something to her like well I said

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interesting that's not interesting that

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you're going to the gym and eating

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healthily I mean anyone can do that

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that's a guy who seriously lacks social

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and emotional intelligence but a man who

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can say that playfully is showing the

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woman that hey I can playfully mess with

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you but at the same time I can still be

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respectful and loving and have a good

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time with you and I can be in that oneup

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position without actually demeaning you

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and trying to hurt you I can do it in a

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playful and loving way and women are

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desperately looking for that because

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when they interact with most guys most

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guys are just neutral most guys assume

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that if they have things in common with

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a woman right she goes to the gym I go

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to the gym she likes to eat healthily I

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like to eat healthily then she's going

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to like me because of that alternatively

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other guys think well if I'm just nice

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enough then she'll like me because I've

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heard women say that guys are Pricks all

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they want is sex they're just they're

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all [Β __Β ] so I'll show her how nice I

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am I'll be extra nice and then she'll

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give me chance but while women do

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appreciate a good man and they want a

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good man they aren't sexually turned on

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by a guy being really nice to them and

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trying to suck up to them and another

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trait that women find emotionally

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attractive and that really turns women

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on sexually is when a man can flirt so

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if you've been interacting with that

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woman and you've asked her sir have you

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been up to anything interesting lately

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and she says that she's been eating

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healthily and going to the gym to flirt

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with her you can say something like this

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so I'll assume that you've been making

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healthy food yourself is that right and

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she then says yes cool well uh maybe on

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our second date you can make me some

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healthy food but on our first date we're

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definitely going to go get a burger and

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with that the guy is then flirting about

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the idea of going on a date with her and

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flirting about the idea of her making

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food for him which makes her feel more

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feminine and girly in comparison to his

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masculine approach where he's telling

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her to do something for him right he's

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putting himself in that masculine

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position of you know make food for me

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but he's not saying it in a

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disrespectful or rude way or demand

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Landing Way he's throwing it out there

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in a flirtatious way but as a result the

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woman gets to feel emotionally feminine

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around him she gets to feel girly around

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him and experience that polarity between

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their energies where he's being more

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masculine and she's then allowed to be

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the feminine one rather than just saying

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to her oh you've been eating healthily

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oh that's really cool uh what sort of

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foods you been eating all right and um

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yeah so I mean what made you get into

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eating healthy food and just having a

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neutral conversation with her just being

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nice trying to be friendly and get along

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with her and so forth that's great if

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you want to just get along with a woman

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and have a neutral platonic nonsexual

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interaction but if you want a woman to

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feel sexually attracted to you you need

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to be able to display the traits that

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actually cause a woman to feel sexually

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attracted and aroused for example a guy

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could say the same sort of line about a

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woman cooking for him and going out for

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a burger but say it in a way that is

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emotionally unattractive and is not

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going to cause the woman to feel

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sexually attracted so if he says it in

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an apologetic way where he feels ashamed

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and guilty for suggesting that they go

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on a date or suggesting that she might

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cook something for him then she's not

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going to feel attracted to that because

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she's going to sense his fear and

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weakness right so if he says something

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like oh you've been eating healthy food

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well I mean maybe you could cook me

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something healthy on a second day and

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maybe for our first day we could go for

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a burger she's going to sense and see

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and feel the fear all over him and it's

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not going to turn her on women are not

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turned on by fear in men they're turned

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on by our confidence so while what you

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say is important what's even more

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important is what emotional state you're

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in when you're saying it right so if

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you're in an emotional state where

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you're being masculine and flirting with

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her then she's going to feel sexually

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attracted to that because attraction is

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an automatic reaction to attractive

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traits it's just like how we men

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automatically feel attracted to a

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woman's cleavage we don't have to think

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about it and wonder whether or not we

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should feel attracted it's just an

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instant reaction the attraction just

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switches on now we men obviously don't

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have cleavage to attract women instead

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what's most attractive about us to women

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are our emotional traits women are more

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interested in what's happening on the

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inside for you when you're interacting

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with her and other people and how that

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then comes out on the outside in terms

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of your behavior and reactions to things

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that's what really matters to women

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sexual attraction does work differently

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for men and women and before I help you

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further in this video I'll point out

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that if you want to learn 124 traits

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that make women feel sexually and

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romantically attracted to you then I

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recommend that you head over to master

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attraction.com at Master attraction I

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will teach you two new traits every

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month and you'll learn examples of what

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to say and do to display the traits and

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as a result of continually learning

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every month and getting increasingly

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better results every month with women

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you will experience what psychologists

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refer to as psychological momentum

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psychological momentum is something that

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causes you to get results that are not

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ordinarily possible if you just do

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something once and then give up or just

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learn a little bit and then forget about

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it essentially the way that

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psychological momentum Works in terms of

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you making women feel sexually attracted

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to you is that when you know how to

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display a trait that makes a woman feel

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sexually attracted to you and you do it

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you see that women feel more sexually

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attracted to you than they have before

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and that causes you to feel more

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confident about yourself and then when

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you display an additional trait on top

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of that that makes women feel sexually

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attracted they feel even more attracted

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you notice that and you feel even more

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confident about yourself and your

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attractiveness to women and that just

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continues so what happens is that you

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become increasingly confident and

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increasingly attractive to women every

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month and if you want to experience that

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and become irresistible to women because

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you're able to display so many

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attractive traits then I recommend that

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you join Master attraction and begin

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learning if you join Master attraction

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you'll also get instant access to the

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master attraction Community where you

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can make new friends with fellow members

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you can find a wingman you can ask for

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advice from fellow members you can give

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advice to help a fellow member and so

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forth essentially with the master

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attraction Community you'll never be

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alone with this era of your life ever

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again so one final point that I want to

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make for you in this video to help you

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is that you can have the same appearance

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and give a woman a completely different

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experience depending on what traits you

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display right so so as you would have

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noticed when I was displaying the traits

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in the examples I have the exact same

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appearance but I can go from being a

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confident man which women find

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attractive to being an insecure man

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which women find unattractive with the

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exact same appearance and what's really

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cool about how a woman's attraction

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works is that you don't have to be

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perfect in order to do it and if that

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wasn't true then you wouldn't see guys

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who don't look like anything special

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with pretty girlfriends or attractive

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girlfriends or nicel looking girlfriends

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it wouldn't be possible a man would have

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to be really good-looking and perfect

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and be successful in life in order to

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get himself a girlfriend but the reality

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is that approximately 99% of men out

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there are not rich and when you see a

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guy who has a pretty girlfriend or

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pretty wife it doesn't mean that he's

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Rich it just means that he was able to

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make her feel attracted and then shoot

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his shot and the way that it works is

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very simple it's not rocket science you

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simply need to display some attractive

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traits and shoot your shot and with some

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of the women that you meet you only

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really need to display a couple of

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attractive traits and then shoot your

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shot and she'll happily go along with it

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she'll happily get into a relationship

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with you and so forth but not with all

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women some women do require a much

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stronger attraction experience they do

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want a guy who can display more

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attractive traits so for example if a

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guy is confident and he also knows how

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to use what I call playfully challenging

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humor he'll be able to attract and get

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results with many women but he'll also

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come across women who are a little bit

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more challenged in and they will test

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his emotional intelligence by being a

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bit difficult during the conversation to

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see if he can handle himself right so he

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might interact with one woman and be

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confident and say something playfully

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challenging and she will be laughing

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she'll be loving him and he'll be able

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to use that then to continue the

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interaction move things forward and get

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a result but then you'll interact with

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another woman who laughs at his joke but

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then starts showing that she's not that

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interested to test how he is then going

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to react and if he starts becoming

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insecure in that moment and doubting

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himself she then knows that okay he's

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not confident enough for a woman like

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her he's not strong enough he's not

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emotionally intelligent enough to be

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able to handle that moment that

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challenge and therefore she's not

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attracted because she's quite a

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Confident Woman and she needs a guy

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who's more confident than her so with a

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woman like her a man does need stronger

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confidence and he also needs the

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emotional intelligence to be able to

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handle the tests that women put men

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through so whether you're single or in a

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relationship I want want you to

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understand that just because women

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aren't reacting to you in the way that

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you react to them it doesn't mean that

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you're not goodlooking enough and that

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you need to become better looking in

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order for a woman to then start reacting

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like a man right and focusing on body

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parts focusing on the physical and being

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primarily turned on by that it's

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important to understand that you can

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look exactly the way you are right now

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and when you begin displaying attractive

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traits a woman will have the automatic

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reaction of attraction

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and that applies when you're single and

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in a relationship if you know how to

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display attractive traits women feel

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sexually attracted to you it's as simple

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as that

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