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Summary
TLDRThe script explores the concept of positive discipline through the 'five control positions' developed by Dian Gossen. It presents a case study of a student consistently arriving late to school and how different educator rolesโpunisher, guilt inducer, friend, monitor, and managerโaffect the student's behavior and self-perception. The 'manager' position is highlighted as the ideal for fostering intrinsic motivation, promoting self-discipline, responsibility, and problem-solving in students. The narrative encourages educators to reflect on their disciplinary approaches to support students' growth towards independence and accountability.
Takeaways
- ๐ The script introduces five control positions developed for positive discipline: the punisher, the guilt inducer, the friend, the monitor, and the manager.
- ๐ฎ The 'Punisher' position is characterized by using a high tone, pointing fingers, and possibly inflicting physical or psychological punishment, which may lead to student rebellion or resentment.
- ๐ The 'Guilt Inducer' position speaks calmly but makes the student feel like a failure, causing them to internalize negative emotions and see themselves as worthless or incapable.
- ๐ The 'Friend' position uses a friendly and casual tone to maintain a relaxed atmosphere, which can foster a sense of success and comfort, but it may also lead to dependency on external motivation.
- ๐๏ธ The 'Monitor' position relies on rules and data to control the student, demonstrating a neutral and formal demeanor, which can contribute to a sense of order but may lack personal connection.
- ๐ฉโ๐ผ The 'Manager' position is recommended for guiding students towards positive discipline, promoting independence, responsibility, and problem-solving skills through meaningful questions and reflection.
- ๐ The script uses a case study of a student, Naren, who is consistently late to school to illustrate how each control position would address the issue.
- ๐ฐ The 'Punisher' response to Naren's tardiness involves making him run laps, which is a form of physical punishment meant to deter future tardiness.
- ๐ In the 'Guilt Inducer' scenario, Naren is made to feel guilty for causing trouble, which may lead to a negative self-perception and emotional burden.
- ๐ค The 'Friend' position encourages Naren to run faster so as not to be late again, fostering a sense of camaraderie but possibly overlooking the root cause of the tardiness.
- ๐ The 'Monitor' approach involves explaining the consequences of being late and setting up a system where Naren must stay in class during break time to make up for the missed time.
- ๐ The 'Manager' position seeks to empower Naren by discussing the importance of self-respect and mutual respect, and by encouraging him to find a solution to his tardiness, such as setting an alarm and seeking reminders from family members.
Q & A
What is the main focus of the video script?
-The main focus of the video script is to discuss the five positions of control in positive discipline, as developed by Dian Gossen. The video explains each position and provides examples of how they can be applied in educational settings.
Who developed the concept of the five positions of control?
-The concept of the five positions of control was developed by Dian Gossen.
What are the five positions of control in restitution according to the video?
-The five positions of control in restitution are: 1) The Punisher, 2) The Guilt Inducer, 3) The Friend, 4) The Monitor, and 5) The Manager.
What is the role of 'The Punisher' position in the five positions of control?
-'The Punisher' position involves using harsh language, physical punishment, or psychological tactics to enforce discipline. It often results in students feeling resentful and rebellious.
How does the 'Guilt Inducer' position affect students?
-The 'Guilt Inducer' position uses a calm and soft tone but makes students feel guilty, like they are a failure or unable to make others happy. This approach often leads to students harboring negative emotions about themselves.
What is the primary characteristic of 'The Friend' position?
-'The Friend' position is characterized by a friendly and informal approach, creating a relaxed and safe atmosphere. While it fosters a positive relationship, it may lead to dependency on the teacher's approval for good behavior.
Describe the 'Monitor' position as mentioned in the script.
-The 'Monitor' position relies on rules and consequences to control behavior, using a formal and data-driven approach. The teacher maintains a neutral demeanor and focuses on enforcing established rules.
What is the goal of the 'Manager' position?
-The goal of the 'Manager' position is to guide students towards positive discipline by encouraging them to reflect on their actions, take responsibility, and find solutions. This position aims to develop students' independence, responsibility, and problem-solving skills.
Why is the 'Manager' position considered ideal in positive discipline?
-The 'Manager' position is considered ideal because it fosters intrinsic motivation in students, encouraging them to become independent, responsible, and capable of solving problems on their own. It aligns with the principles of positive discipline that support student autonomy and growth.
What is the intended outcome for educators using these five positions of control?
-The intended outcome for educators using these five positions of control is to create a learning environment that promotes positive discipline, where students are autonomous, responsible, and empowered to learn from their mistakes.
Outlines
๐ก Disciplinary Positions: The Punisher
This paragraph introduces the concept of 'five control positions' developed by Dian Gossen, focusing on the 'punisher' position. The scenario involves a student named Maroon who is consistently late to school. The 'punisher' position is characterized by a high-pitched tone, harsh gestures, and potentially hurtful and insulting language. The impact of this approach on students is negative, leading to rebellion or resentment. The summary highlights the importance of understanding the consequences of disciplinary methods on students' behavior and emotions.
๐ Disciplinary Positions: The Guilt Inducer
The second paragraph delves into the 'guilt inducer' position, where the teacher speaks calmly but with words that make the student feel like a failure. This position can lead to students internalizing negative emotions, feeling worthless, and doubting their ability to make others happy. The summary emphasizes the psychological impact of this disciplinary approach and the potential for students to develop a negative self-image.
๐ Disciplinary Positions: The Friend
In this paragraph, the 'friend' position is explored, where the teacher uses a friendly tone and casual banter to maintain a relaxed atmosphere. This approach fosters a sense of comfort and familiarity between the teacher and student, leading to the development of a 'success' identity. However, the summary notes the dependency on external motivation and the potential for selective behavior changes only towards certain individuals.
๐ Disciplinary Positions: The Monitor
The 'monitor' position is discussed in this paragraph, where the teacher relies on rules and data to control the student's behavior. The teacher's language and expressions are neutral and formal, focusing on the consequences of tardiness as per school regulations. The summary explains how this position can lead to students understanding the importance of adhering to rules and the natural consequences of their actions.
๐ Disciplinary Positions: The Manager
The final paragraph presents the 'manager' position, which is the recommended approach for guiding students towards a positive discipline. It encourages students to be independent, responsible, and capable of problem-solving. The teacher asks meaningful questions to help students reflect on their actions, learn from their mistakes, and find solutions. The summary highlights the ideal position for educators to implement positive discipline that empowers students and fosters intrinsic motivation.
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Keywords
๐กPositive Discipline
๐กControl Positions
๐กPunisher
๐กGuilt Inducer
๐กFriend
๐กMonitor
๐กManager
๐กIntrinsic Motivation
๐กSelf-Reflection
๐กResponsibility
๐กDiscipline
Highlights
Introduction to the concept of positive discipline and its application through five control positions.
The five control positions developed by Dian Gossen are discussed with examples of their application.
The first control position is the punisher, characterized by speaking with a high tone, scolding, and possibly physical or psychological punishment.
The impact of the punisher's position on students, leading to rebellion and resentment.
The second control position is the guilt inducer, who speaks calmly but makes students feel like failures.
Students internalize negative emotions when the teacher takes the guilt inducer position.
The third control position, the friend, uses a friendly tone and creates a relaxed atmosphere, fostering a sense of success.
The friend position's reliance on external motivation and the potential dependency of students on specific individuals.
The fourth control position, the monitor, uses data and rules to control students, demonstrating a formal and neutral demeanor.
The importance of the monitor's position in guiding students based on school rules and consequences.
The fifth control position, the manager, is recommended for guiding students towards positive discipline, fostering independence and responsibility.
The manager's position encourages students to reflect on their actions, learn from mistakes, and find solutions to problems.
A case study of a student named Maroon who is consistently late and how the five control positions address this issue.
The dialogue between Maroon and the teacher in different control positions, illustrating the impact of each approach.
The intrinsic motivation of students is supported by the manager position, as opposed to the extrinsic motivation seen in other positions.
The journey of a teacher from one control position to another, emphasizing the goal of becoming a manager.
The call for reflection among educators to continuously refine and apply positive discipline that empowers students.
The conclusion emphasizes the importance of creating independent, responsible students through positive discipline.
A final salute and well-wishes to the teachers, encouraging the implementation of positive discipline in their practice.
Transcripts
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[Musik]
salam bahagia ibu dan bapak guru hebat
dalam penerapan disiplin positif
restitusi Salah satu program yang
dikembangkan adalah lima posisi control
5 posisi kontrol dalam restitusi adalah
proses perjalanan seorang pendidik agar
dapat mengenali dirinya pada video kali
ini kita akan membahas tentang lima
posisi kontrol yang dikembangkan oleh
Dian Gossen dan contoh penerapannya
[Musik]
25 posisi kontrol itu adalah satu posisi
penghukum dua posisi pembuat merasa
bersalah tiga posisi teman 4 posisi
pemantau atau monitor dan lima posisi
manajer untuk lebih memahami kelima
posisi tersebut Mari kita saksikan kasus
naren yang terlambat hadir 20 menit di
sekolah dan melihat bagaimana kelima
posisi kontrol dalam menghadapi masalah
tersebut
[Musik]
Hai Maroon
di sini kamu
Hai selamat pagi bu
selalu terlambat
Hai kamu deh pasti terlambat Maaf bu
saya
apa coba alasan kamu apalagi
Kapan sih kamu tidak terlambat
Aku malas sekali ya Kamu jadi anak saya
Dasar pemalas enggak kapok-kapok sih
kamu sudah berapa kali terlambat
di sana kamu keliling lapangan basket
dua kali kenapa saya harus keliling
lapangan basket Bu kenapa kamu melawan
Ibu
berani-beraninya jawab Sudah Terlambat
masih berani jawab pula
Hai
sekarang keliling lapangan basket lima
kali sekalian biar kapok cepat Hai pergi
sana ke lapangan basket
painting posisi penghukum biasanya
berbicara dengan nada tinggi menghardik
menunjuk nunjuk menyakiti dan menyindir
hukuman bisa berupa fisik maupun psikis
ibu dan bapak guru hebat dampak yang
terjadi pada murid ketika guru berada
pada posisi penghukum adalah murid
cenderung akan memberontak bahkan
menyimpan dendam Maroon
[Musik]
[Musik]
Hai selamat pagi Bu
naren naren
Kamu kenapa terlambat lagi nah Ya Tuhan
naren kamu senang ya bikin Ibu susah ya
Hai kalau kamu terlambat lagi Nanti ibu
yang ditegur bapak kepala sekolah Nah
disangka Ibu tidak bisa membina kamu
I do gimana ini
Hai Bu maaf Bu do Gustina rena-rena kamu
suka ya kalau libur tegur bapak kepala
sekolah
Hai Terus sekarang ibu harus tulis apa
ini buku absen
Hai ini kamu sudah sering terlambat loh
Ibu harus apa coba Maaf Bu Maaf sekali
Oh ya sudah lain kali jangan bikin Ibu
susah lagi anak ya Ibu tidak akan kuat
lagi kalau kamu begini terus bisa
jantungan kalau ibu tegur bapak kepala
sekolah sana cepat kelas Maaf ya Bu maaf
sekali
posisi pembuat rasa bersalah berbicara
dengan naga tenang cenderung lembut
namun kata-kata yang diutarakan membuat
murid merasa menjadi orang yang gagal
memandang buruk dirinya sendiri merasa
tidak berharga dan tidak sanggup
membahagiakan orang lain
ketika guru mengambil posisi pembuat
rasa bersalah murid akan menganggap
dirinya yang bersalah dan ia akan
menyimpan emosi negatif tersebut didalam
dirinya
hai naren
[Musik]
[Musik]
Hai selamat pagi bu
Wah sudah jam berapa ini nak terlambat
lagi ya sayang Iya Bu habis Ibu saya
lupa Bangunkan saya Bu Eh kamu malah
menyalahkan ibu kamu Kamu bukannya anak
yang larinya paling kenceng kok
terlambat sih
Iya bu saya memang terlambat bangun Tadi
jadi biarpun saya lari kencang
tetep ga kekejar Bu Ya sudah sana nanti
lain kali larinya lebih kenceng lagi ya
biar nggak terlambat lagi bikin seneng
Ibu demi Ibu bisa kan Bisa labu
Ya sudah sana masuk kelas Ibu beresin
urusan absen kamu kamu ini ada-ada saja
di
dalam posisi teman guru berbicara dengan
nada suara ramah akrab cenderung
bersenda gurau untuk menjaga suasana
Tetap santai murid akan merasa senang
aman dan akrab dengan guru identitas
yang tercipta adalah identitas sukses
atau berhasil
namun perlu diingat karena ini masih
dorongan eksternal maka ada faktor
ketergantungan dari murid kepada orang
tertentu di sini guru absennya sehingga
dilain waktu murid bisa berperilaku baik
namun hanya kepada orang-orang tertentu
saja naren
[Musik]
[Musik]
[Musik]
Hai selamat pagi Bu naren Apa peraturan
sekolah kita tentang Jam berapa kita
harus masuk sekolah nak
Ayo kita
Hai harus disekolah jam tujuh Bu Iya
betul sekarang sudah 07.20 narin sudah
tahu konsekuensinya jika terlambat hadir
paham Bu saya harus tinggal kelas pas
jam istirahat selama 20 menit Iya benar
konsekuensinya demikian jadi nanti 09.30
pas istirahat kamu harus tinggal di
kelas kerjakan tugas tambahan untuk
ketertinggalan kamu Ya baik bu
Hai
posisi pemantau mengandalkan
penghitungan atau data untuk mengontrol
murid guru mengarahkan murid berdasarkan
peraturan dan konsekuensi seorang
pemantau menunjukkan bahasa tubuh dan
ekspresi wajah yang datar dan cenderung
formal narm
[Musik]
[Musik]
Hai selamat pagi Bu selamat pagi naren
maaf Bu saya terlambat Iya sekolah
masuknya jam tujuh sekarang sudah 07.20
Jadi sekarang Bagaimana ini naren Maaf
bu saya lupa Setel alarm Saya semalam
Baiklah menurut kamu Kia Kinan sekolah
yang mana yang perlu kamu tingkatkan
menghargai diri sendiri dan
orang lain mungkin Abu setuju jadi
Apakah naren meyakini prinsip saling
menghormati tersebut ya Bu saya
meyakininya apakah narin bersedia
memperbaiki masalah keterlambatan ini
bersedia Bu Bagaimana kamu akan Perbaiki
masalah keterlambatan ini Hm
[Musik]
ini saya akan coba untuk tidak lupa
Menyetel alarm saya bu baik kalau naren
lupa Menyetel alarm di rumah ada orang
yang kira-kira bisa bantu mengingatkan
tidak
ada Bu kakak saya kaema ada lagi selain
KM selain
Hai ada ibu saya baik jadi yang
mengingatkan Aren adalah KM Madani buka
muya
kira-kira akan mulai Setel alarm kapan
ni narenai setelah pulang sekolah akan
segera saya lakukan baik jadi naren akan
Setel alarm untuk bangun besok pagi dan
akan diingatkan oleh Kakak dan Ibunda
naren ya adalah Giant mungkin perlu
dilakukan Aren agar tidak terlambat
bangun lagi tidak ada Bu Baik naren
terima kasih untuk kerjasama kamu
sekarang kamu perlu kembali ke kelas
untuk belajar Baik bu terima kasih
Hai
posisi manajer adalah posisi kontrol
yang disarankan untuk membimbing Murid
memiliki sikap disiplin yang positif
yaitu murid yang mandiri
bertanggungjawab dan dapat memecahkan
masalah tujuan dari posisi ini adalah
agar murid dapat merefleksi atas
tindakannya guru akan dengan tulus
memberikan pertanyaan-pertanyaan
bermakna sehingga membuat murid dapat
belajar dari kesalahannya dan mencari
sebuah solusi untuk menyelesaikannya
ibu dan bapak guru hebat setelah
mengamati adegan kelima posisi kontrol
tadi kira-kira posisi mana yang paling
ideal posisi mana yang dapat menunjang
motivasi intrinsik murid Ya tentu posisi
manajer posisi ini memang posisi ideal
yang ingin dituju setiap pendidik pada
posisi inilah guru dapat menerapkan
disiplin positif Hai yang berpihak pada
murid yang memerdekakan murid
perjalanan seorang pendidik tentunya
tidak mudah untuk sampai pada posisi
seorang manajer namun tujuan kita pasti
yaitu menciptakan murid-murid yang
mandiri merdeka dan bertanggungjawab
semoga penggambaran lima posisi kontrol
yang telah diperlihatkan ini dapat
menjadi ajang refleksi bagi kita semua
agar dapat terus mengasah dan menerapkan
disiplin positif yang memerdekakan murid
Mari terus berlatih dan bersemangat
selamat menerapkan salam dan bahagia ibu
dan bapak guru hebat
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