Handsome Men’s Game | Why Some Handsome Men Think They Are Exempt From Rejection
Summary
TLDRIn this video, Justin J addresses the misconception that good-looking men are immune to rejection. He emphasizes that attractiveness doesn't guarantee acceptance and encourages men not to take rejection personally. Justin shares insights on how women's emotional thinking can lead to rejection for reasons that may seem illogical to men. He advises maintaining confidence and not letting rejection affect one's self-worth, highlighting the importance of actions and behaviors over looks in building genuine connections.
Takeaways
- 😎 Attraction is not solely about looks; actions and self-confidence play a significant role in how one is perceived by others.
- 🚫 Rejection is a part of life and should not be taken personally, as it is a normal part of social interactions and dating.
- 💼 Success with women is not guaranteed by good looks alone; it requires a balance of appearance, behavior, and communication.
- 🤔 Women may reject attractive men due to various reasons, including intimidation or their own insecurities, which are not always logical to men.
- 👥 It's important to approach dating with a mindset of abundance rather than scarcity, understanding that not every interaction will lead to a relationship.
- 💬 Communication is key; being direct and honest with intentions can help build trust and reduce misunderstandings in dating scenarios.
- 🙅♂️ Men should avoid acting emotionally or 'butt hurt' when faced with rejection, as it can be perceived as unattractive and counterproductive.
- 💪 Confidence and resilience in the face of rejection can make a person more attractive, showing they are not overly reliant on external validation.
- 🤷♀️ Women, like men, have their preferences and may not always choose partners based on conventional attractiveness.
- 👀 Being attractive can sometimes lead to women feeling insecure, as they may worry about the potential for competition or being replaced.
- 🔄 Rejection can sometimes be a temporary response, with some women potentially 'doubling back' if they initially felt intimidated or unsure.
Q & A
What is the main topic discussed in Justin J's car video?
-The main topic discussed in Justin J's car video is the 'Pretty Boy Complex' and why good-looking men are not exempt from rejection.
According to Justin J, why do some women reject good-looking men?
-Justin J suggests that women reject good-looking men because their actions and words might not align, or the women themselves have certain preferences and standards that the men do not meet.
What does Justin J say about the role of looks in attracting women?
-Justin J emphasizes that looks alone do not guarantee attraction; actions and behaviors play a significant role in how women perceive men.
Why does Justin J believe that handsome men should not be intimidated by rejection?
-He believes that rejection is a part of the dating game and that handsome men should not let it affect their self-esteem or confidence.
What example does Justin J give to illustrate how some men handle rejection well?
-Justin J recounts a story about a man named Greg who, despite facing rejection, continued to approach different groups of women without letting it affect him.
What advice does Justin J offer to men who are good-looking and facing rejection?
-Justin J advises them to develop emotional discipline, not to react negatively to rejection, and to continue pursuing opportunities without getting discouraged.
How does Justin J describe the mindset of a man who is not affected by rejection?
-He describes such a man as having a stoic mindset, being indifferent to rejection, and not letting it dictate his self-worth or actions.
What does Justin J suggest is a common misconception among attractive men about their interactions with women?
-Justin J suggests that a common misconception is that attractive men believe they should be pursued by women or that their looks should guarantee success in dating.
What does Justin J mean by 'Pretty Boy complex'?
-The 'Pretty Boy complex' refers to the mindset where good-looking men believe they are exempt from rejection and may become insecure or upset when they face it.
How does Justin J recommend men should approach women they are interested in?
-He recommends being direct, honest, and straightforward, making it clear that they are genuinely interested and not playing games.
What does Justin J say about the importance of self-love and confidence for attractive men?
-Justin J stresses that self-love and confidence are crucial, as they transform perceived flaws into positives and make a man more attractive to women.
Outlines
🤔 The Pretty Boy Complex and Rejection
In this paragraph, Justin J addresses the misconception that good-looking men are immune to rejection. He emphasizes that attractiveness doesn't guarantee success with women and that actions and words must align. Justin points out that women have standards and preferences that go beyond looks, and that even 'handsome men' can be intimidating. He shares personal anecdotes to illustrate how rejection is a normal part of the dating game and encourages men to not take it personally but to learn from it.
💪 Overcoming Rejection with Confidence
Justin J discusses the importance of handling rejection with confidence rather than acting emotionally. He argues that men should not let rejection affect their self-esteem and should continue to pursue their interests. The paragraph highlights the idea that attractive men may receive a lot of attention but should not be disheartened by occasional rejections. Justin also talks about the 'Pretty Boy complex,' where men feel entitled to attention and are unprepared to handle rejection, which is counterproductive to their dating success.
😮 Attraction and the Intimidation Factor
This paragraph delves into the psychological aspects of dating, particularly how being attractive can sometimes work against a man in attracting a partner. Justin explains that women might feel intimidated by a man's looks and may choose to pursue someone who they perceive as less threatening. He suggests that some women might eliminate themselves from the running due to insecurities, even if they are attracted. The paragraph also touches on the idea that women might 'double back' after an initial rejection if they find the man's confidence appealing.
👥 Understanding Women's Perspective on Attraction
Justin J explores the complexities of how women perceive attractive men and the reasons behind their decisions to reject or pursue them. He discusses the idea that women are emotional thinkers and may reject good-looking men for reasons that seem illogical to men, who tend to be more logical. The paragraph also addresses the importance of self-love and self-acceptance for men, turning perceived flaws into positives. Justin advises men not to take rejection personally and to maintain a positive outlook, using it as a catalyst for self-improvement.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Pretty Boy Complex
💡Rejection
💡Attraction
💡Actions and Words
💡Qualification
💡Intimidation
💡Confidence
💡Game
💡Stoicism
💡Hunter
💡Insecurities
Highlights
Handsome men's game and the misconception that they are exempt from rejection.
Women have free will to choose their partners, and good looks don't guarantee acceptance.
Actions and words alignment is more important than looks in relationships.
Women's preferences are diverse, including for 'medium ugly' or 'cute ugly' guys.
Women often know what they qualify for and may choose partners opposite to their stated preferences.
Attractive men may intimidate women, leading to rejection as a defense mechanism.
Attractive men should not be overly affected by rejection, as it's a part of the dating game.
Story of Greg at Seaside Heights, demonstrating resilience to rejection.
The importance of maintaining confidence and not being deterred by rejection.
Attractive men should not expect to get every woman they pursue.
The Pretty Boy complex and its negative impact on men's approach to dating.
Men should not act emotionally vulnerable or seek validation from women post-rejection.
The role of self-confidence and self-love in overcoming rejection.
Attractive men should not lead with their looks but with their actions and behaviors.
The idea that rejection can be a result of a woman's insecurity rather than a man's fault.
Attractive men should not give up on approaching due to fear of rejection.
The importance of being emotionally disciplined and stoic in the face of rejection.
The notion that some women may double back after rejection due to intimidation.
Attractive men should not take rejection personally and should continue pursuing opportunities.
The Pretty Boy complex can hinder a man's ability to approach and connect with women.
Men should love themselves and their flaws, turning negatives into positives.
Attractive men should be straightforward and direct with women to build trust.
The video's call to action for men to overcome the Pretty Boy complex and thrive despite rejection.
Transcripts
what's good guys it's your boy Justin J
coming to you with another car video
Let's cook boys let's cook all right
handsome men's game and why a lot of
handsome men have a pretty boy complex
and think they're exempt from rejection
so you know I seen in the comment
section you know
um you know why do women reject you know
good looking guys like this is this is
an issue this is a topic that needs to
be discussed no no no no there is no
issue women have like a choice women
have free will to choose whoever they
want to do it with and whoever they
don't want to do it with your good looks
they don't really play a role in
anything
because you have to remember if your
actions don't align with your words it
just doesn't mean anything your looks
don't mean anything so it's probably
something that you're doing wrong and
even if it's nothing that you're doing
wrong women they have sayings they like
medium ugly guys handsome ugly guys cute
ugly guys like women are going to go to
what they qualify for it's the same way
how women say I want to go six foot one
six foot four six foot six if he's not
that he can't talk to me I want a guy
who makes over a hundred thousand
dollars a year I want a guy who makes
over a quarter million dollars a year
but then they end up getting with some
guy that's completely the opposite you
guys have to remember women know exactly
what they qualify for so you are going
to intimidate a lot of women that you
like like that you want to go after
especially if you're a guy that you like
Plain Jane women like you like women
that have that look to them that makes
them look different you're not really
chasing like baddies all the time and
look when you're chasing baddies they
love to reject you as a good [ __ ] guy
because look he looks good you know
they're even intimidated a little bit
because it's like damn he's beating me
at my own game you know what let me size
them up and bring and like chop them
down a little bit you know so you always
have to remember and look guys
here's the part of it too
you're gonna be used to getting a lot of
women because you're actually an
attractive guy so you can get with eight
women in a row and then one rejects you
one tells you like you're not that guy
and now you're all in your feelings
kind of doesn't make sense because
you're having your way for the most part
do you understand and see the thing is
guys think that you're supposed to get
every woman that you go after but that's
not really the truth because all the
guys myself included that are good with
women are like we don't care about
rejection you have to get used to it
it's a part of the game real life story
right I'll never forget the first time
we went to Seaside Heights and there was
this kid Greg and he went to every girl
on the boardwalk like straight B-Line
for every girl hey you trying to hook up
I'm watching it in 4k a girl would hook
up with him just start tunging him down
making out with him he would go to the
next group of girls hey what's up girls
like I'm trying to hook up who's trying
to kiss and the girl's like ew no he was
just like okay and then went on to the
next group of girls hooked up with a
girl I saw him hook up with a white
chick and an Asian Asian chick in the
same friend group then just kept going
on about his business then we went to
the Aztec and you know what I mean like
[ __ ] got popping after that and and that
was the first time I saw it like damn
bro like rejection doesn't even face
certain dudes like you know why don't I
have that energy see at that time I
didn't have that energy see it's the
same way how you can go outside of your
house and make five approaches and if
you feel like you're an attractive guy
like that you will at least get one
number and be able to set one date to
see a girl later in the week you might
take four rejections but you still got
one girl now let's up the Annie if you
flip that from five approaches to ten
approaches you would get two numbers
guys can only hope to get two numbers in
the same day I'm telling you right now a
lot of this stuff about being attractive
look being handsome is cool you know
you're genetically gifted or you worked
on your looks and now you're handsome
but you know the other half of that
being attractive is it starts in your
mind bro like when you wake up and look
in the mirror you're like I'm that dude
like what
and then after that comes what females
think about you like so when you think
away about yourself and then you see a
lot of females like that you interact
with or when you go outside you will see
the way they act it lets you know like
okay they see what I see you know it
comes it starts first with what you see
and then the women confirmed what you
see but when you don't feel like that
off rip you're going to be you know
like doubting yourself second guessing
yourself I just don't understand how a
guy can have sex with multiple women and
then one woman doesn't want to have sex
with them and it just [ __ ] up his whole
like the way he thinks his whole
mentality that's not the way things are
supposed to be and honestly it's going
to ruin your experiences with women
because then you're gonna have like this
sour taste in your mouth all right and I
really want to go over uh the Pretty Boy
complex
guys you act like a woman when you can't
handle rejection women can't handle
rejection why do you think they have no
game and they don't approach men like
that why
why and yes some women do approach men
but those are women who are bold or
they're nine times out of ten you know
they're not attractive like that I'm
telling you right now but yes there are
attractive women that will start talking
to you but I mean approaching you even
that is having no game because they'll
make side conversation ask you to open
up a water bottle ask you to crack a
soda for them because their fingers are
so weak and no that's not game so you
act like a woman listen I'm gonna tell
you right now
when you act like a when you act butt
hurt or you act like getting rejected is
a problem that's female Behavior you as
a man you you counteract that with the
opposite of that confidence you take the
rejection you thrive off of it and I
said this in a short
I've taken so many rejections where I
was just like okay well you got my
number hit me up or you know or like
that was a rejection to my advances but
then there's sometimes where a chick
will reject you in public when you shoot
your shot and you're just like all right
well you have a nice day and you just
keep it pushing with a smile like that
like all right have a nice day keep it
pushing their face if you pay attention
from your peripheral their face is like
they're so confused they're in their
head like what like that was so weird
because that I make a mistake because
guys don't act like that especially when
guys you know can't have their way with
a woman like now let's bring it back to
when you already have a woman's number
or you might have taken her out or
whatever and she rejects your advances
so when you don't act all like you know
damn that's messed up and this [ __ ] is
a hoe and that don't make no sense
because how she a hoe she didn't get
with you so it's like you know oh um and
then you act all mad right that's what
women do when they can't have their way
or manipulate them in
so it kind of comes off across to the
woman like well you were just trying to
manipulate me because if you weren't why
are you getting so mad I'ma help a lot
of guys out with this video because your
actions and behaviors are what make you
a man you you get me guys like a lot of
this [ __ ] where guys think oh high value
man and high value man is looks money
status no no no no it's your actions
your behaviors and your boundaries do
you understand so you really don't stand
on anything if a chicken knock you off
your Square by telling you not today oh
I don't know
I'm I'm sorry I'm just not feeling the
vibe you know I.E she's not feeling you
like that so what you do now is you say
okay not a problem you know have a nice
day because that shows that you have
other options you have other things
going on and even if you don't
that's what it signals off in her mind
but the whole like that pretty boy
complex it's just it's not a good look
I'm telling you right now and I used to
be the same way that will literally stop
you from making approaches because
you'll have the mindset of well I look
good she should come over here and
approach me no remember your actions
behaviors and boundaries so as a man
what else comes with being a man what
else is a part of being a man
being a hunter going after what you want
being sure of yourself
you know not being indecisive not
getting butt hurt not thinking that the
world is out to get you because this one
chick doesn't want you you will
literally stay up at night like yo why
why'd she do that why'd she do that why
doesn't she want me you know girls
usually want me and that's just not the
right mindset to have because listen
women are not meant to stay in your life
women come and women go so the same way
that you will understand that you will
understand that some women are going to
get on your program some women are not
they're going to give you resistance but
half the game is knowing how to deal
with the resistance and not dealing with
it at all is how you deal with the
resistance and a lot of these videos I
give you guys Solutions you know I this
is not a place to complain and stay the
same no so the same way how like when a
woman gives you resistance you just
scrap it you get rid of her like you
know and you do it cool calm and
collected you don't make like a big
scene or get all in your feelings and
get in your head because that's just
what women are going to do a lot of the
stuff women do it's just what they're
gonna do what's in their nature so you
as a man need to understand your nature
so you do what's in your nature but
acting like a pretty boy acting like
you're exempt from rejection who acts
like that who can't take rejection who
gets all insecure when the person they
like doesn't like them back who
a woman
you need to understand this is like
making money and losing money money
coming in money going out you might not
get that job you know it might take you
a little bit longer but then you know
you'll be like I don't even want that
job I'm gonna go get a better job it's
the same way everything how you lead
your life it's gonna be like that
everywhere so if you have discipline in
your life you're going to be disciplined
everywhere so you're going to be
emotionally disciplined
not to react to certain things to be
indifferent stoicism just be stoic I'm
telling you women like a guy who they
cannot knock off their Square to be
honest a woman can reject you and then
like double back around for you but see
that's the thing I don't give those
Second Chances but I'm telling you there
is a small percentage of the time where
a woman rejects you because she's that
intimidated by you and like she might
actually double back around depending on
how you react to it and what I mean by
double back around is try to come around
and make small talk and that might just
blurt it out like listen I messed up
like I didn't mean to do that it's just
that you make me feel nervous and listen
you will take a chick out on a date she
will really be feeling you and I know
guys I don't want you to get confused
when I say when a woman really likes you
she's going to go after you yes that is
very true but when a woman likes you
it's going to almost feel like you're in
the car with her and she's nervous like
when you're looking at her she's nervous
you make women like you intimidate them
and some women are going to eliminate
themselves and go deal with a less
attractive dude I know it sounds crazy
but that's just what it is a woman
doesn't really want to be with the guy
that looks better than her there's a
percentage of women out there that do
want a guy that you know other women
look at when they're in public I set
that in a short like if your woman loves
the fact that other girls check you out
that's a that's a good woman I'm telling
you right there
um to keep around you know because she's
not going to be all jealous and you know
making a fuss whenever you leave the
house or whenever she sees a girl
checking you out and then you look back
at the girl she ain't gonna be smacking
you on the shoulder like you'll keep
your eyes in your head she's gonna be
like nah that's my man that's that dude
she's just doing what she's supposed to
do you know just but like guys you gotta
understand being attractive half the
battle is knowing that you're going to
get rejected for reasons that don't even
make any sense don't make any sense to
you because you're a logical thinker but
they make perfect sense to women because
they're emotional thinkers so when
you're in your head thinking like why
doesn't this chick like me and she's
supposed to like me and I didn't even do
anything wrong I thought I was being
like a proper gentleman you have to
understand man women reject good-looking
guys because listen they know that they
have to like get like boost themselves
up they have to work for you that's
another part of it like a woman could
really like you and eliminate herself
because she knows that she can't measure
up to you but for you to have this
complex of like well what did I do wrong
and this this chick should know what it
is no no see you're leading off of your
looks the chick should know who you are
offer your actions like she should be
getting in line because you're a leader
because you know where to go you know
that like all of that stuff it's not
just like oh I look good so because if
you think like that you're acting like a
woman so when you go out with a pretty
woman in public right it's eye candy it
attracts other women right but
like you know that as a man you know but
women don't typically think like that
it's like you know I got this attractive
ass dude I want him all to myself and
women do know that but it's intimidating
because they know that at any moment
when you get tired or maybe you guys
take a break you know they'll try like
you might tell her like you might kick
her to the curb she's gonna be worse
that's what she's worried about she's
worried about you kicking her to the
curb and then like you having better
options because women know when you
either you know tell them like yo I need
some space they know that you ain't
going nowhere if you're like some dude
who's average looking and your behaviors
aren't manly they know that they're
going to be able to run game or they
know that you guys are going to go
through some sort of split and you ain't
gonna be getting it popping like that so
when you're attractive they know that
you're gonna have the even if you're not
getting it popping like that they know
that you have the ability to and that
scares a lot of women women want to be
able to trust you especially like in a
relationship and have that open line of
communication but even when you're
you're having that open line of
communication you still have the looks
you still have the Swagger you still
have the Charisma and that scares a lot
of women I'm telling you especially like
this this is why you could be trying to
take a chick long term you could be
vetting a chick you're like damn I
really want this to go well and then you
see you bring out a lot of her
insecurities
that happens because she knows that you
know especially if you're leading with
your intentions and you're making them
clear she knows like okay this guy wants
to take me serious but how can I take
him serious because other women see what
I see I'm telling you women are very
insecure on that level so don't take it
personal and if a chick is straight up
rejecting you just know she don't like
you like that and sometimes they do
double back around
because a woman doesn't meet attractive
dudes every day especially okay a woman
doesn't meet an attractive sexually
attractive guy who gets it every day and
when I say gets it I mean makes her feel
think like you know a guy that's just
like here with it with her they don't
meet those guys so when she does meet
that guy you know a lot of the times
it's gonna be like holy [ __ ] and it's
gonna be scary to her but you know a
woman that you know knows what she wants
and she's at a stage in her life where
she doesn't have any time to waste yeah
best belief she's gonna get with you but
I'm talking about this is gonna happen a
lot with younger chicks too
I'm telling you you're a very attractive
dude and then here's another thing about
younger chicks when a chick is in her
younger years like 18 19 21 22 23 24
they're not really looking for
relationships so you have to be able to
you can actually have a lot of sex with
women that have no relationship like
interest in you they don't want to be in
a relationship and it has nothing to do
with you it's nothing to take personal
they're just not looking for a
relationship they're out here having fun
there's so many things that go into why
you get rejected as a good looking dude
I'm telling you but the last thing that
you need to do is get in your feelings
and get in your head because that is
going to stop you from you know going
after other opportunities because you're
like damn I remember how that felt don't
want it to happen again but see when you
identify that feeling with thriving
with you know bigging yourself up
boosting yourself up it almost becomes
like a positive like how I say look in
the mirror pick every flaw you have and
say I love myself I'm that dude those
flaws suddenly start turning into
positives instead of negatives to you
when you love yourself and you know who
you are every part of yourself becomes
beautiful I'm telling you a part of that
beautiful mind bro so never let a
rejection
get you down get out of this whole like
Pretty Boy complex because it's not a
good look and it it's gonna rub off in
your actions like you're gonna be like
guys think that you don't have to
validate women or give women compliments
if you don't do that as a good looking
guy women actually get more intimidated
because you're not letting her know the
real deal like you're not letting her
know like yo I'm really into you I'm not
trying to play any type of games with
you I'm serious I want you you have to
talk to women like that especially as a
good looking guy because when you
approach women they're like it's the
celebrity energy like what me who me
they don't believe it half the time you
know so you have to let them know like
you know me and you will go good
together me and you will look good
together I like you I'm not trying to
play any games I'm not trying to waste
none of your time
you got to be like that and women are
slowly but surely going to be like you
know what maybe I could take this guy
seriously so then when you lead with
your actions and she sees that you're
really that dude and you that's why I
tell guys tell women the truth don't
manipulate women because imagine you're
a good looking on top of you're coming
straight forward and direct
women don't experience guys anyway who
come straight forward and direct they
meet a lot of guys who use their game
manipulation tactics shaming language
shaming tactics you know when when I'm
telling you when a woman rejects a guy
it's like oh well I never liked you
anyway and you were you were this that
in the third you a hoe and that's why my
boy hit it anyway and all this other
goofy [ __ ] like you know that just
exposes your hand it's the same way how
a woman will try to shame you like well
you're not a real man if you don't do
this and you know a real man what that's
the same equivalent
just remember
man female
you know man woman differentiate the
Sexes and the behaviors the patterns the
actions there is no reason why you
should be acting like a woman as a man
and I'm telling you when you're in your
emotional and you're in your emotions
you're acting like a woman on my channel
I'm talking to you like a man that's
this is how men talk to each other guys
snap out of that pretty boy complex
please because you are not exempt from
rejection
and rejections actually make you more
cold
so don't get in your feelings get out
there make [ __ ] happen and use the
rejection to thrive it's your boy Justin
J get with you boys in the next video
like comment subscribe let's go boys
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