The REAL Reason Guys Stare But Don’t Approach You! | (No, it’s not because he’s scared)
Summary
TLDRThe speaker addresses why some men may look at women without making a move, debunking the misconception that it stems from fear. Instead, he explains that many men expect rejection based on a woman's body language. Factors such as a woman's 'resting face' or her perceived disinterest often deter men from approaching. He also highlights various reasons for hesitation, including men being in relationships or part of a new generation expecting women to take the lead. The speaker offers advice to women on how to signal their interest subtly if they want to be approached.
Takeaways
- 😎 It's not fear that prevents a man from approaching a woman, but the expectation of rejection based on body language.
- 💍 Some men look but don't approach because they're in relationships or are trying to respect boundaries.
- 🤨 Men might avoid making a move if they sense negative body language, such as a resting angry face.
- 👀 If a man notices a woman with what appears to be a disinterested or unfriendly expression, he will likely not approach.
- 🙄 Women with resting angry faces tend to reject men more publicly and harshly, discouraging potential advances.
- 😤 A man's decision not to approach may be influenced by the woman's mood or signals, not necessarily his own fear or insecurity.
- 💭 Men sometimes overanalyze situations, wondering if a woman is in a bad mood, having a tough day, or just not interested.
- 😏 Women who want to be approached can give inviting looks or subtle signals to encourage the man to make a move.
- 👁️ Two common signals from women to encourage approach: a look that says ‘come ask for my number’ or ‘hurry up before time runs out’.
- 💡 The key reason a man might not approach after staring is not about fear but a calculated decision to avoid wasting time based on the woman's nonverbal cues.
Q & A
Why might a man look at a woman but not approach her?
-It's not necessarily because of fear; rather, it could be due to the expectation of rejection based on the woman's body language.
What could cause a man to not approach even if he is confident?
-He might sense from the woman's body language that she doesn't want to be approached or is having a bad day, so he chooses not to waste either of their time.
What does the speaker say about men who look but don’t make a move?
-The speaker mentions that it’s often due to reasons like the man being in a relationship, respecting boundaries, or misinterpreting the woman’s body language.
How does 'resting [__] face' factor into a man not approaching a woman?
-A woman with 'resting [__] face' may unintentionally give off signals that she doesn't want to be bothered, which discourages a man from approaching her.
Why might a man feel it's not worth approaching a woman with 'resting [__] face'?
-He might fear a public rejection, as women with 'resting [__] face' are perceived as likely to reject someone in a way that others notice.
What advice does the speaker give to women who want to be approached by men?
-Women should try to give off inviting signals, like a friendly smile or playful eye contact, to let the man know they are open to being approached.
What does the speaker say about men who expect women to approach them?
-Some men from the 'new generation' believe that women should be the ones to pursue and court them.
What are two ways a woman can signal to a man that he should approach her?
-One way is to give him a look that says 'Are you going to come over and ask for my name?' The second way is to glance at him with a slight grin as if to say 'You better hurry up if you're going to make a move.'
What does the speaker say about men’s perception of rejection?
-The speaker explains that men often expect rejection based on women’s body language, even if they are confident and not necessarily scared.
How does the speaker suggest a woman can control the outcome of being approached?
-The speaker suggests that a woman can give off welcoming or playful body language if she is interested in being approached, which can influence a man’s decision to make a move.
Outlines
🧐 Understanding Why Men Stare but Don’t Approach
The video begins by addressing the common question of why men often look at women without making a move. The speaker dismisses the misconception that this behavior is rooted in fear. Instead, he offers alternative explanations, including the possibility that the man is married, taken, or simply respecting his relationship by admiring from a distance. Additionally, he mentions that some men might expect women to initiate contact as part of a newer dating dynamic where men want to be pursued.
🔍 Exploring Motivations Beyond Fear
The speaker elaborates on why decent guys might not approach women they find attractive. It's not about fear but rather the expectation of rejection based on the woman's body language. He explains that men are often aware that women might not want to be bothered, could be having a bad day, or might already be taken. Therefore, they look for signals that indicate whether the woman is open to being approached. If the woman's body language suggests disinterest or hostility, the man is unlikely to make a move.
😠 The Impact of Resting 'RBF' on Approaches
Resting 'RBF' (Resting Bitch Face) is highlighted as a significant factor that deters men from approaching. The speaker describes how this facial expression can be misinterpreted by men as a sign that the woman is not in the mood to be bothered. He explains that women with this expression are perceived as likely to reject advances publicly and harshly, making men wary of approaching them. The speaker acknowledges that some women might have this expression chronically or due to situational factors like stress or annoyance.
🤔 Misinterpretations and Avoidance
The speaker continues to discuss how men interpret and respond to body language and facial expressions. He explains that even if a man finds a woman attractive, he will avoid approaching if he perceives negative signals from her. This avoidance is not due to fear but rather a desire to avoid wasting time and facing potential rejection. The speaker emphasizes that a woman's perceived disinterest does not diminish her attractiveness but prompts the man to move on.
💬 Tips for Women to Signal Interest
For women who are interested in being approached, the speaker offers advice on how to signal openness from a distance. He suggests using inviting eye contact and subtle, friendly facial expressions to encourage men to approach. Specific examples include giving a look that says, 'Are you going to come talk to me?' or a playful, encouraging glance that suggests the man should hurry up and make a move. These signals help men feel more confident that their approach will be welcomed.
👀 Conclusion: It’s Not About Fear
The speaker wraps up by reiterating that men's reluctance to approach is not driven by fear but by a desire to avoid wasting time and facing rejection. He underscores that if a man continues to look at a woman without making a move, it’s likely because he has interpreted her body language as unwelcoming. For women who want to be approached, he advises making their interest clear through positive and inviting body language.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Fear
💡Body language
💡Resting [__] face
💡Rejection
💡Married or taken
💡New generation of guys
💡Eye contact
💡Admiration from a distance
💡Making a move
💡Signals
Highlights
The misconception is that men don't approach women because of fear, but that's often not the case.
A decent guy with confidence may choose not to approach a woman because he expects rejection based on her body language.
A man may refrain from approaching if he thinks the woman is taken or having a bad day.
Resting 'B face' signals to a man that a woman doesn't want to be bothered, even if she isn't intentionally sending that message.
Men often avoid approaching women with resting 'B face' because they assume rejection will be public and embarrassing.
A man may misread a woman's body language, believing she's not interested when she actually may be open to conversation.
Some women have resting 'B face' chronically, while for others, it's situational due to stress or emotions.
Situations that contribute to negative body language include frustrations from social media or financial stress.
A man might admire a woman from a distance and choose not to approach, even if he finds her attractive.
Men sometimes avoid approaching to avoid wasting both their and the woman's time, assuming rejection is inevitable.
If a woman is interested in being approached, subtle cues like eye contact and a grin can encourage a man to make a move.
Women can signal interest by giving a look that says, 'Are you going to ask for my number?' to invite a conversation.
Another subtle signal a woman can use is a look that implies, 'Your time is running out, you better hurry.'
A man’s hesitation to approach isn't necessarily a sign of fear, but more of a judgment based on reading body language.
The conclusion is that if a man looks at a woman but doesn't approach, it’s likely because of perceived rejection, not fear.
Transcripts
team Jackson what's happening so y'all
keep asking me man to explain why I do
look at you maybe even stare at you but
not make a move and I'm gonna tell you
why because a lot of y'all's are under
the misconception that has something to
do with fear it's because he's scared
that's not true you know we even if we
talking about decent dude a good guy
with plenty of heart and confidence it
ain't because of fear now if you're
talking about the absolute worst of guys
and yeah that may be one of them and
even then I think there are other
reasons that maybe come before that like
you know he's married or he's taken so
he could look but not touch so he's just
gonna admire from a distance you know
cuz he trying to half way at least
respect his relationship which is a cool
thing to do or because he's one of those
creeps when it was straight-up weirdos
type that will smell your hair and when
a snow your panties and print pictures
of you from Instagram out and put them
on his mirror and do things to himself
because uh like he could be one of those
or it could be a part of this new flock
of guys it's new generation of guys that
says you know what I want a woman to
come and chase me a woman should be
trying to court me and pursue me cuz it
hits mine a woman gets hollered at like
10 to 15 times a day so if you get an
eyeful of him and you just can't stand
you'll see you just must come and say
something oh let me hear the [ __ ] that
means you're gonna be easy work now if
we're talking about decent guys right a
decent guy well look at you but not
coming holla truth not because he's
fearful of you or scared of rejection
but because he expects rejection based
on your body language huge difference
because in a mind of the average man
right he's looking at the situation sees
a girl he thinks this attractive woman
or whatever and he says to himself I'm
aware sometimes they don't want to be
bothered I'm aware that she could be
having a bad day or that she could just
be taken so let me make sure I can
verify that I'm on her radar and once I
do once we make that eye contact I'll go
based on her body language now if he
gets the wrong signal from you like if
he gets what I call resting [ __ ]
from you
our be face and figures that from you it
could be a Miss read on his part or it
could be something that you chronically
suffer from he and go make no move
because our be face basically says that
you're not in the mood to be bothering
and if you get bothered you're gonna
embarrass whoever it is they did it to
you
because women with our be face don't
tend to reject people quietly and
silently they tend to make everybody
around them aware that they do not feel
like hearing from your laughs and you
should have known better now like I said
some women suffer from this chronically
you just have it in this sometimes it's
situational like it may be just that
time of your day it may be because of
that time of the month it may be because
you was on Twitter or Instagram and
you're a barb & cardi B them said some
oh [ __ ] or you looked at your email and
navient is thank you for that automatic
payment on your student loans when you
didn't really want to make that
automatic payment they took it from your
ass it could be for a number of reasons
however you want to put it if a do look
at you right he make eye contact with
you and then what he gets back from you
is he's not coming to holla at you man
he's not gonna do it or if he looks at
you he makes eye contact and he gets to
he's not gonna come a howl at you that's
just what it is it's not fear it's a you
know what let me not waste both our
times I'm going about my day she's still
fine cuz you rejecting him to stop you
from being sexy as hell but let me go
ahead and go on about my date I don't
need those problems now if you are in
the mood to be Holly that bye dude
you're single you ready to mingle and
you want to kind of open that door from
a distance my favorite two ways to do it
is instead of giving him the what the
[ __ ] are you looking at eyes the one I
did earlier to give him them okay you
gonna look at me all day or are you
gonna come and actually ask me for my
number and name which is done that's
that's that's one of my favorites now
the other one the other one would be the
we ain't gon do this all day your time
is running out so if you're gonna make a
move you better hurry eyes we chose to
look at him and it's loaded look away
but kind of grin like like I
[ __ ] you better hurry up but
however you want to put it man the point
that I was making is if a guy doesn't
come a holla true but he's gonna lookin
at you or he continues to look at you
nine times out of ten it him because
he's fearful
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