You Don't Dislike Women As Much As You Think

Summary

In this video transcript, the speaker, Nuke, addresses the misconception that men harbor intense dislike for women, proposing that it stems from a lack of understanding and 'amused mastery' in dealing with them. He suggests that men often misinterpret women's behaviors, particularly online, and fail to recognize the influence of environment on these behaviors. Nuke emphasizes the importance of self-improvement and not letting societal pressures or internet narratives dictate one's perception of women, advocating for a neutral stance and a focus on personal growth and experiences.

Takeaways

• 😀 The speaker emphasizes that men often don't truly dislike women, but rather their own inability to understand or effectively interact with them.
• 🎮 The concept of 'amused mastery' is introduced, suggesting that men should view interactions with women as a game where they remain calm and entertained, regardless of women's actions.
• 🔊 The speaker discusses the importance of not taking women's words at face value and instead observing their behaviors for a more accurate understanding.
• 👥 The script touches on the idea that women's behavior can be heavily influenced by their environment, and men should be aware of this when interpreting their actions.
• 💬 There is a critique of the 'body count discourse', suggesting that men's preoccupation with the number of a woman's past partners is misguided and stems from a lack of understanding and self-confidence.
• 🚫 The speaker encourages men to develop the ability to assert themselves and say 'no' to women, which is portrayed as a skill that many men struggle with.
• 🤔 The transcript highlights the need for introspection and self-improvement, suggesting that frustration with women often stems from men's own insecurities and shortcomings.
• 🏠 The idea that men and women relate differently is discussed, with the speaker suggesting that men should not expect women to communicate or behave as they do.
• 💻 The speaker criticizes online discussions that can create unrealistic expectations or fears about women, advising men to form their own experiences and judgments.
• 🧠 The importance of 'Muse Mastery' is reiterated, which involves understanding women's behaviors without being controlled by emotions or societal narratives.
• 🌐 The script concludes with a call for men to find neutrality in their views of women, avoiding both pedestalization and demonization, and to focus on personal growth and happiness.

Q & A

What is the main theme of the video script discussing?

The main theme of the video script is the misconception that some men have about disliking women, and the actual reasons behind their frustrations, such as lack of 'amused mastery' and misunderstanding women's behaviors.

What does the term 'amused mastery' refer to in the context of the script?

'Amused mastery' refers to a calm and confident demeanor when interacting with women, where a man is not easily affected by a woman's words or actions and can maintain control over his emotions.

Why does the script mention that some men might feel women are 'out to get them'?

The script mentions this misconception because some men believe that women are constantly plotting against them or trying to bring them down, which is a sign of lack of understanding and 'amused mastery'.

What does the script suggest about women's decision-making in relationships?

The script suggests that women often make decisions based on their emotions and can sometimes make poor choices in relationships, which men should not take too seriously or personally.

Why does the script mention 'hypergamy' in the context of women's choices in men?

The script mentions 'hypergamy' to illustrate that women sometimes bypass their own filters for choosing partners, which can lead to them making decisions that are not in their best interest, and men should not judge women too harshly for this.

What is the 'body count discourse' mentioned in the script, and why is it a point of contention?

The 'body count discourse' refers to the debate over the number of sexual partners a woman has had. It is a point of contention because some men obsess over this number as a measure of a woman's worth or promiscuity, which the script argues is a sign of lack of 'amused mastery' and unnecessary neuroticism.

How does the script address the issue of men taking women's neuroticism or worries onto themselves?

The script advises men not to take on women's neuroticism or worries, such as concerns over their 'body count', and to instead focus on their own well-being and happiness.

What does the script suggest is a key factor in changing one's negative view of women?

The script suggests that gaining 'amused mastery', understanding women's behaviors in different environments, and not taking their neuroticism onto oneself are key factors in changing one's negative view of women.

Why does the script mention that men should not worry about a woman's past relationships or 'body count'?

The script mentions this because worrying about a woman's past relationships or 'body count' is a sign of lack of 'amused mastery' and can lead to unnecessary stress and frustration in men.

What advice does the script give to men who are struggling with understanding women's behaviors?

The script advises such men to learn the 'language' of women, understand that women's behaviors can change based on their environment, and to develop 'amused mastery' to handle interactions with women in a calm and confident manner.

Outlines

00:00

😀 Introduction to a Nuanced Discussion on Women

The speaker begins with light-hearted banter, welcoming viewers to a stream where they will challenge the belief that men dislike women as much as they think. The tone is set for a conversation that aims to debunk stereotypes and offer a more balanced view of women, starting with a playful interaction with a member named G Simon lose, who jokes about women's habits and preferences. The speaker introduces the topic by addressing common misconceptions about women being inherently manipulative or evil, suggesting that these beliefs are unfounded and that men's experiences with women are more complex than such generalizations.

05:00

😎 The Importance of Amused Mastery Over Women

The speaker delves into the concept of 'amused mastery,' emphasizing that men often lack the ability to enjoy women's company or deal with them effectively due to a lack of experience or understanding. He compares the dynamic to being highly skilled at a video game and being able to navigate interactions with ease and control. The speaker critiques the tendency of men to take women's words and actions too seriously, suggesting that this leads to unnecessary frustration and misunderstanding. He also touches on the idea that men's inability to 'game' or skillfully engage with women leads to a perceived dislike of women, when in fact, it's a dislike of their own ineptitude in social interactions.

10:01

😓 Misconceptions About Women's Behavior and Men's Frustration

The speaker discusses how men's misunderstanding of women's behaviors and environments leads to frustration. He explains that women act differently based on their environment, and men's inability to recognize this fluidity results in incorrect assumptions about women's intentions or personalities. The speaker uses the analogy of a 'nail in the forehead' to illustrate the point that women are more concerned with their feelings and the impact of an issue rather than the issue itself. He encourages men to develop 'amused mastery' to avoid being manipulated or unduly influenced by women's behaviors, which he suggests are often protective or adaptive rather than inherently negative.

15:02

😡 The Impact of Women's Environment on Their Behavior

Continuing the conversation, the speaker highlights the significant influence of a woman's environment on her behavior. He points out that women online may act more aggressively or provocatively due to the lack of personal risk, whereas in safer environments like family gatherings, they exhibit more polite and cooperative behaviors. The speaker criticizes men who mistake a woman's online persona for her true character, emphasizing the importance of understanding the context in which behaviors are exhibited. He advises men not to let the chaotic behaviors they observe in certain environments color their overall perception of women.

20:03

😤 The Frustration of Misunderstanding Women's Environment-Driven Behavior

The speaker further explores the frustration men feel when they fail to understand that women's behavior is influenced by their environment. He uses the example of women behaving differently at a club versus a family function to illustrate the point. The speaker suggests that men's anger towards women is often misplaced because they are reacting to a snapshot of behavior, not the full picture of a woman's character. He encourages men to recognize the protective role that certain behaviors play for women in different settings, such as seeking drinks or attention at a club as a way to gauge interest or establish social safety.

25:04

😐 Achieving Neutrality Towards Women by Understanding Environmental Influences

The speaker discusses the importance of achieving a neutral view of women by recognizing how environmental factors influence their behavior. He suggests that men who understand this are less likely to be frustrated or angry with women, as they can separate a woman's actions from her core personality. The speaker emphasizes that women are not inherently out to get men, but rather, men's lack of understanding and 'amused mastery' leads to negative perceptions. He encourages men to observe how women behave in various settings to gain a more accurate understanding and to let go of the idea that women are a collective force against them.

30:07

😒 The Fallacy of Women's Consistent Behavior Across Environments

The speaker addresses the misconception that women behave consistently across all environments. He argues that women, like men, adapt their behavior based on the context and dynamics of the situation. The speaker uses the example of a woman's behavior on a first date versus her behavior on social media to illustrate the point. He criticizes the tendency to judge women based on a single interaction or observation, advocating instead for a more nuanced understanding that takes into account the varying influences of different environments on behavior.

35:31

😅 The Role of Personal Growth in Developing a Neutral View of Women

The speaker emphasizes the importance of personal growth in developing a neutral view of women. He suggests that men who have achieved this neutrality have likely experienced a range of interactions with women, both positive and negative, which have contributed to a more balanced perspective. The speaker reflects on his own experiences in the military and through online dating, highlighting how these experiences have shaped his understanding of women's behavior and his ability to interact with them without preconceived notions or unnecessary anger.

40:33

😌 The Benefits of a Neutral Perspective on Women

The speaker discusses the benefits of maintaining a neutral perspective on women, which includes reduced stress and a more enjoyable dating experience. He argues that men who have achieved this neutrality are better able to handle the complexities of dating and interactions with women. The speaker also touches on the idea that women may actually prefer men who exhibit this neutral and balanced view, as it demonstrates emotional maturity and a lack of neediness or desperation.

45:33

😓 The Challenge of Overcoming Societal and Online Influences

The speaker acknowledges the challenge of overcoming societal and online influences that can skew men's perceptions of women. He criticizes the tendency for online platforms to promote extreme or negative behaviors for engagement, which can create unrealistic expectations or fears. The speaker encourages men to be discerning and to develop their own understanding of women based on personal experiences rather than relying on the often distorted views presented online.

50:34

😡 The Problem with Wanting to Be Right Instead of Happy

The speaker addresses the issue of men prioritizing being right over being happy, particularly in the context of debates or discussions about women. He suggests that this need to be right can lead to unnecessary conflict and frustration, preventing men from enjoying their interactions with women. The speaker advocates for a more playful and lighthearted approach, where the focus is on having fun and enjoying the company of women rather than striving to prove a point or win an argument.

55:36

😤 The Frustration of Lack of Assertiveness and Fear of Rejection

The speaker discusses the frustration men feel due to their inability to be assertive or say 'no' to women. He points out that men often avoid confrontation or expressing their true desires out of fear of rejection or emotional backlash. The speaker emphasizes the importance of learning to assert oneself in relationships and not letting the fear of women's emotions dictate one's actions or decisions.

00:37

😐 The Journey to Neutrality and Self-Acceptance

The speaker reflects on his own journey towards achieving a neutral view of women and self-acceptance. He acknowledges the difficulty of this process, which involves looking inward and addressing personal shortcomings or fears. The speaker encourages men to use the 'red pill' philosophy as a tool for self-improvement rather than as a means to fuel anger or resentment towards women. He also highlights the importance of recognizing that both positive and negative experiences with women can contribute to a more balanced and nuanced understanding.

05:39

😒 The Misguided Focus on Being Right Over Personal Happiness

The speaker criticizes the misguided focus on being right rather than seeking personal happiness, especially in the context of relationships and interactions with women. He suggests that men who prioritize being right often end up frustrated and unhappy, as they are unable to let go of their need to prove a point or be validated. The speaker advocates for a mindset shift towards prioritizing personal happiness and emotional well-being over the desire to be right in every situation.

10:40

😔 The Struggle with Self-Worth and the Impact of External Influences

The speaker discusses the struggle with self-worth and the impact of external influences, such as societal expectations and online discourse, on men's perceptions of women and their own self-esteem. He highlights the importance of developing a strong sense of self and not letting external opinions dictate one's view of women or personal value. The speaker encourages men to cultivate independence in their thinking and to make decisions based on their own experiences and understanding rather than relying on the opinions of others.

15:42

😌 Achieving Peace Through Neutrality and Self-Acceptance

Keywords

💡Amused Mastery

Amused Mastery refers to a state of mind where an individual is self-amused and unaffected by the actions or words of others, often seen as a sign of emotional intelligence and control. In the context of the video, it is mentioned as a key to dealing with women, suggesting that one should not be overly affected by their behavior but maintain a level of amusement and detachment. The speaker uses this term to emphasize the importance of not letting women's actions dictate one's emotional state.

💡Hypergamy

Hypergamy is a term that describes the social phenomenon where an individual seeks to marry or form a relationship with a partner of higher social status. The video mentions hypergamy in the context of women's dating choices, suggesting that women sometimes overlook their 'hypergamic filter' and make poor decisions in terms of who they date, even when it may not be in their best interest.

💡Game

In the video, 'game' refers to the social skills and strategies some individuals believe are necessary to attract and interact with potential romantic partners. The term is used to discuss the importance of having a certain level of 'game' or understanding of interpersonal dynamics to successfully navigate relationships, particularly with women.

💡Neuroticism

Neuroticism, in this context, refers to a personality trait characterized by emotional instability and a tendency to worry or experience negative emotions. The video discusses how men may take on women's neuroticism, particularly in relation to concerns about relationships and societal expectations, which can lead to unnecessary stress and frustration.

💡Assertiveness

Assertiveness is the ability to stand up for one's own rights and express one's feelings, beliefs, and needs in an open and honest way without being aggressive. The script emphasizes the importance of being assertive, especially in the context of saying 'no' to women, as a means of maintaining self-respect and boundaries in relationships.

💡Body Count

The term 'body count' is used colloquially to refer to the number of sexual partners a person has had. In the video, there is a discussion about the unnecessary concern some men have over a woman's 'body count,' suggesting that it is more relevant to her than to them and should not be a source of worry or judgment.

💡Environment

Environment, in the context of this video, refers to the external setting or context in which women behave differently. The speaker argues that women's behavior is heavily influenced by their environment, and understanding this can help men not to take women's actions in certain settings, like online or at a club, as representative of their true character.

💡Red Pill

The 'red pill' is a term derived from the movie 'The Matrix' and used in the video to represent a set of beliefs or a perspective that challenges conventional societal norms and narratives, particularly about gender dynamics and relationships. The speaker discusses the 'red pill' as a source of both valuable insights and potential misinformation that can lead to frustration or misunderstandings about women.

💡Inward Work

Inward work refers to the process of self-reflection and personal development. The video emphasizes the importance of inward work for men, suggesting that external factors like wealth or physical attractiveness are not enough to ensure success in relationships. Instead, understanding and improving oneself, particularly in terms of emotional intelligence and social skills, is crucial.

💡Neutrality

Neutrality in this context is the state of being unbiased or not predisposed to any particular view, especially regarding women and relationships. The speaker advocates for a neutral view of women, suggesting that extreme positive or negative views can be harmful and that a balanced, neutral perspective allows for healthier interactions and less emotional turmoil.

💡Self-Worth

Self-worth is the value or esteem that a person holds for themselves. The video discusses how societal narratives and personal experiences can impact a man's self-worth, particularly in relation to dating and relationships with women. Developing a healthy sense of self-worth is presented as essential for maintaining a neutral perspective and not being overly affected by the opinions or actions of others.

Highlights

Introduction of the stream's theme: discussing the misconception that men dislike women as much as they think.

Greeting to member G Simon and a humorous comment about women showering and smelling nice.

Mention of the new roadter Pro and testing sound effects in the stream.

Engagement with the audience, particularly Matthew, about sound effects and volume levels.

Discussion on the belief that women are conniving and out to get men.

Explanation of women's behavior being driven by emotions and not calculated schemes against men.

Introduction of the concept of 'amused mastery' in dealing with women.

Commentary on men's lack of mastery in understanding and enjoying women's company.

Analysis of the 'body count discourse' and its impact on men's perception of women.

Advice on not obsessing over a woman's past relationships and focusing on the present.

Discussion on the importance of understanding a woman's environment and its influence on her behavior.

Explanation of how women's behavior changes based on different social settings.

Advice for men to approach women in environments where they exhibit their best behavior.

Commentary on the negative impact of taking women's neuroticism onto oneself.

Discussion on the importance of being assertive and learning to say 'no' to women.

Final thoughts on achieving a neutral view of women and not letting external opinions affect personal perspectives.

Transcripts

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hey what's up guys it's another episode

of the nuke

stream uh today we're going to talk

about um you don't dislike woman as much

as you think I promise you right uh

we're going to get into but first uh

want to say hello to Our member G Simon

lose who doesn't like women they're fun

and usually they shower and they smell

nice yeah

yes hello yeah women are all right

they're not they're not terrible but

we'll get right into it guys let me move

this a little bit um but yeah let uh

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Applause hey what's up Matthew what's up

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so guess we'll uh uh we'll move move on

guys but anyways uh yes welcome to the

new stream uh I am uh for the guys for

the new I've see a couple new faces I

haven't seen before but I am nuke and

I'm here to talk about today you don't

hate women as much as you think you

do right uh there is this kind of belief

it's a subtle belief

right that uh he my voice is covered all

right uh

okay there we

go uh there there's a belief uh that

women are out to get you that women are

these evil conniving people that are

constantly trying that are band together

in some Legion of Doom like the old uh

DC cartoons under a swamp and they're uh

constantly planning your downfall as a

men they're constantly trying to find a

new law to enact and they're masterminds

at uh keeping Society the way it is and

making it worse

right but uh for the most part guys

um it's not really like that right for

the guys that have experience with women

we see that they just go with their

emotions they don't really think a lot

of the things they uh through and they

make they tend to make very bad

decisions in terms of men they date and

when I say bad I mean bad even for their

for them and I'm not talking about like

uh hypergamy or anything like that I'm

just like simply they cannot men bypass

their hypergamy filter their hyper gamic

filter uh all the time right and even

and sometimes you look at it and you're

just like how could she go for a guy

like that and it could be either a guy

that's a complete dork or a complete

[ __ ] or whatever you got you have to

stop giving so much credit to women in

their biology for choosing the right

guys right because they make D mistakes

all the time um

but uh as I uh talk in these spaces and

these public forums where people have

access to me and have access to discover

or uh have access to kind of to not I

wouldn't say debate people refute or or

talk I noticed one thing is that it's

just men lack the amused Mastery it

takes to actually enjoy women or just

deal with them in general right and

that's really the biggest Hallmark of

game is this kind of calm amused Mastery

with them where it doesn't matter what

they say you watch what they do you you

you're self amused by them you're kind

of on another level right Master student

dynamic or you you know like have you

ever have you guys ever played a very a

video game that you're really really

good at and you're showing it to someone

that doesn't have a lot of experience

with the game you're just like taking it

easy on them and you're giving them hope

a little bit because you don't want them

to give up like you're so experienced is

so good at what you do that you're in

control all right and if you're not in

control your emotions are in control and

it I see this and average men don't have

this amused Mastery with women they take

women at face value they get uh a little

bit mad when women say things even if

they don't mean them they can't

differentiate between a woman dis

outright disrespecting them or a woman

just being playful or wanting to play

ball it's always like everything is

women suck and they're out to get you

and they're going to destroy your life

if you even give them a little bit of if

you even have a little bit of fun with

them but the truth is guys it just boils

down to lack of game lack of amus

Mastery right um I was in a space the

other day uh unfortunately where there

was body count discourse right and I

usually go in these spaces say two lines

let the space burn in flames and then

walk away because that's it really is

boils down to it's some it's really that

simple it really is hey uh don't obsess

like assume she's a promiscuous but

don't obsess and that kind of covers

like 90% of women's behaviors in terms

of their promiscua like you just don't

want to worry about that right and you

have to ask the right questions and if

asking the right questions will bring

you to the right Solutions meaning that

it's not the number that matters right

it's what really matters is is she

banging someone I know personally right

it it really is that simple or has her

promised cuity brought a second order

Downstream effect that could make my

life shitty but those questions aren't

even answered not even within the first

three months of of of meeting a chick

right so what's this worry what's this

neuroticism about a number whether 10 is

too much or four or 20 or 50 you'll

never know the answer right and again

that's that lack of game that lack of

amused Mastery with women that's always

wearing and that and eventually your

lack of amused master

is going to make it's going to embitter

you and it's going to make you dislike

women right because you don't know how

to talk to them or treat them or or play

you don't know when they're playing you

don't know when they're just trying to

have a good time and have fun or when

they're serious right um and you're

they're going to run circles around you

because you just don't get it so really

I would say the biggest and the first

reason because we're going to go through

a couple of reasons right is the lack of

amused mastery

um guys are taking women at face value

guys

are struggling to understand why women

do things and and uh talk

about certain things and their and their

behaviors right they take them seriously

and what happens is uh once a once a

woman knows that she can mess with you

that you're weak like that she's going

to keep pushing that button if she you

know uh and you're just going to keep

falling for for it and being angry all

the time right um and you think that

everything a woman says is some kind of

disrespect to your honor as a man but in

reality like it doesn't matter right so

that's the first reason uh you may think

you dislike women now you just dislike

the fact that they're not like

you right you may justlike the fact that

while they enter male spaces everything

from gaming to the

military to uh Fitness uh events and

clubs and everything um that you're

going to have to change your language

and how you deal with them and that

requires you to kind of learn and and

that's what you hate you don't hate

women in general you just hate that you

have to learn this new language right

you have to put in a little work to

understand what does she mean when she

says this what does she mean when she

says that right and guys you're gonna

you don't have a choice you're going to

interface with women in every single

male there's no more male only spaces

hell even submarines have women on them

now so you're going to have to

learn

uh against your you know against your

will I guess to to interface with women

and do it right you know like

uh it is not only about game and Inter

sexual Dynamics it's also about like how

do you deal with a woman in a workplace

or how do you deal with a woman that's

your neighbor or how do you deal with a

woman that's friends of your girlfriend

right all these different scenarios

where it takes just a little bit of

skill not that much it's just simply

understanding they're different and

there's certain things you can't do do

right again it's like that conversation

with the nail the nail uh it's not about

the nail right where the guy's like

trying to give her a solution to take

the nail out of her forehead and the

girl's like you just don't understand

it's not about the nail it's about how I

feel right and guys hate that but it's

just like dude well then how about this

how about you just hear her

out and then go for ice cream or

something later right um the nail of

course being any problem she has uh any

personal problem she has it's literally

that simple but um guys don't want to

accept that women and men are different

relate differently right and only men

with amused Mastery and experience with

women are going to be able to deal with

this side of women and if you can't then

I'm sorry then you're just not you don't

have game you just don't have game you

don't understand women you need you need

to train you know you need to go out

there understand and if you don't want

to understand well good luck you're

going to be mad for a long time

right again you can't spend your life

relating to women like you do men right

this woman did this yeah women lie women

are don't have a concept of Honor right

like we do right women just do what

comes out of here out of their heart and

if you keep expecting women to act and

be like you you're going to be

constantly constantly constantly let

down right and that's you're just going

to be frustrated and angry right the

point of the red pill rage phas is to

give yourself time to accept and process

how you've been lied to about women and

other things in life um but you can't

stay there forever and I promise you one

of the ways you stay in the rage phase

forever is not being the man in the

arena like just typing away and

commenting and reading and oding on the

red pill but not going out there and

kind of learning the language so to

speak right you have to learn game there

is no choice you don't have a choice you

don't have to have mystery or Neil straw

or Tom Terrero levels game right you

don't not even close you just need to

understand that men and women are

different and you have to talk to women

a different

way right and it's really that simple um

it'll drive you crazy if you keep taking

them seriously they know when and once

you speak the language

right uh they'll kind of see you like

okay this guy I get it this guy gets it

um I can open up to him I can open up

sexually meaning the stuff that you see

in Reddit post about guys finding out 10

years down the line that their wife did

something crazy in their 20s right or or

he wasn't her first choice that could

have been solved within the first month

of dating because he simply had game he

was he had amused Mastery and he didn't

kind of let uh you know he kind of had

control over his own emotions right and

but no guys want to relate to women and

men uh uh women like they do themselves

or other men and it gets them in trouble

right and it gets it ruins their life so

Muse Mastery really is the first and

foremost reason you you dislike women

but it's not that you dislike women it's

just you dislike the fact that they

speak a different language and they're

different from you which is like not

their fault right so so yeah um all

right guys uh do you guys hear these

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moving on

uh so yeah so uh Muse Mastery is lack of

amus Mastery is going to frustrate you

make you dislike women more than you

think you do but it's not the women that

that uh you dislike it's your own

inability to interpret the difference

between what they say what they do or

what what is certain behaviors mean and

all that right um another another part

and

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test all right hey is my audio good

anyways guys uh so another reason guys

get

uh another reason guys get uh mad or

feel like they're angry at women which

in reality they're not really angry is

uh is they don't understand this

fundamental thing about women right Fort

Worth Playboy talks about this or maybe

it was me first I don't remember but

women act differently based on their

environment right when you see two women

online when you see women online arguing

with each other and saying I'm better

like the whole bikini thing now

absolutely

stupid

um arguments with people uh with each

other right it's like hey uh what are

they arguing about they're arguing about

hey I'm hotter this is hotter this is

immoral this is not moral blah blah

right but all those women they all

differ

on their personalities will it are

subject to the environment or the medium

by which they exist or excuse me

communicating meaning that of course

women online are going to be [ __ ] and

say crazy things right they are

literally financially incentivized to

create engagement right so all these

cutesy posts with women saying I want a

man I don't want to work I want a man to

retire me like a 22y old girl say that

that she doesn't mean that right she

just she just T you know it's like you

can boil it down to TI online like even

if it's mean and [ __ ] that same woman

at a family function

will uh will act like a super nice

person she'll hold open doors for you so

she'll say excuse me she'll get have a

normal conversation with you but then

you take that same girl and you go to

the club

right and at the club she she'll be a

huge

[ __ ] right um

and why is that guys there is a reason

women have to act different upon their

environment remember men we have the

ability to kind of adapt or men we have

the ability to kind of shape our

environment we have the strength we

we're no strangers to violence at least

you know some of us aren't and we we

have spatial awareness we can build

things we have you know all these things

that help us shape build houses haunt

throw Spears but we don't have that

right because that that wasn't their

role biologically speaking it was for

nurturing and and caring for children

and the sick and whatever

so um when women are in different

environments right they kind of have to

change their personality and change who

they are in order to protect themselves

right so if she's in online right there

is no danger she is at her laptop

meaning that she can prattle off crazy

stuff right but if she's in a family

Barbecue scenario or a card Sala

whatever um and you go her mother her

uncles are there probably her boss

co-workers she her reputation's on the

line right if she does her act something

crazy obviously she's comfortable

because she's among family but if you

were invited to a k Sala or something

like that and you met a cute girl that

same girl could have been cursing men

out online and then she's here and she's

acting nice to you and asking you hey

where are you from like talking to you

in a normal kind of way even handing you

a beer right and then that same girl

goes out the club and she goes to the

club and she asks men hey BR me drinks

and stuff like that and asks [ __ ]

right and why can't she do that that

first because men are approaching her or

trying to pull fast ones on her so she

has to have her Shield [ __ ] Shield up

and there's bouncers around so she can

act extra out of pocket because she has

uh outsourcer protection to bouncers you

know bouncers and and the and the club

staff will prioritize women's safety

there and throw any guy out almost on

request right so when uh guys get mad at

women they think that that's who they

are 247 that that hey if she's a [ __ ]

online that means she's a [ __ ] all the

time right and the truth is like women

can't do that right because people would

stop liking them guys would stop dating

them they would just be lonely and and

they'd be more bitter and then you know

cause Psy it'd be mentally ill like they

couldn't wouldn't be able to function in

society right women need to be polite

and nice and cooperative and despite

what you know the internet says women

are required to be just as Cooperative

as men outside of like relationships

obviously right but you can't you can't

just take a snapshot of a woman who says

something a tweet online and then say

that's how she must be everywhere

because I guarantee you it's not right a

lot of guys think it's only a function

of your attractiveness level while yes

being attractive may help or kind of

change the interaction with a woman and

I I agree that it is important uh the

biggest factor in a woman's behavior is

where she is at if she is at a pool

party and there's only five dudes and

there's 20 and 20 girls I can promise

you that girl is going to be very nice

to you if you approach if you approach

right simply because the environment is

I have lots of competition and

everyone's hot and there's this guy that

is kind of rare there's only five guys

here right that guys is more that will

add to your amus Mastery in terms of

dealing with women and you guys could

stop being frustrated and mad at women

right you don't dislike them that much

you just you keep falling for it you

keep falling it's I don't even say it's

a [ __ ] test right it's just she she has

a certain chaos and you keep getting

rolled up into it right so the most one

of the most important things you must

understand a woman's environment

dictates her personality or at least a

major part of her behavior in that

environment and it makes sense look at

how women act in different places right

and you it will make sense right um and

it's not only like like environment it's

like Dynamic too like a girl on a first

dat will be shy like like look at look

at a Twitter girl right a Twitter e-

girl whatever super [ __ ] opinionated

I'm better than you men suck right that

same girl on her first date is going to

be shy giggling nervously you know

saying excuse me being

apologetic and um

nervous for that dat that super

confident girl that everyone's like wow

what a [ __ ] and she you know she will

be nervous on a first

date and giggling and be like you know a

complete spazz on the first date and

once you see that guys it's kind of even

hard to be mad at women you're just like

you know this is all it's all it's all

like a it's all a fantasy for them to be

this Confident Woman you know like

Wonder Woman or something like that it's

not real right they they are just as

nervous as any other chick that's on a

first date right and that's just that's

just the way it is

and once you see it right if there's

anything from the show you'll take is

that this that women change based on

their environment right

so yeah looks like someone's been doing

their research thought such an

interesting phenomenon guys oh sh hold

on let me see if I have a sound drop for

that

uh hold on I don't really have a sound

for

now all right how about the positive

answer there you go good job good job

Jack you figured out

T um a woman will act one way around her

dad another way at work another way at

home at school exactly Matt like it

don't get wrapped up into into what her

Persona is presenting right women are

fluid creatures they're not the same

person hell they change four they may

have four different personalities in one

day based on their environment right and

that's why when you guys are talking to

women and gaming women and approaching

women right that's one reason why I say

stay away from clubs because clubs are

humili humiliation rituals for men

unless you know everyone there and you

have some kind of status there right or

you're rich and bought a table and all

that stuff uh or you're hanging out with

your girlfriend too which at that point

defeats the purpose of looking for women

right

um the women there are going to act

differently and they're going to be

shitty right it's going to be hard to

game to game them right

but

um if you if you approach a woman at a

coffee shop if you approach a woman at a

kind of f family event a a job

networking event right at a salsa night

these places is kind of foment and bring

out the best in women right so instead

of being constantly chasing women in uh

in places where they are at their worst

behavior put yourself in situations

where women AR at the best behavior and

you'll see over time that your opinion

of woman is going to start changing

right it's going to go from negative to

neutral and that's ultimately the only

way guys you'll ever be able to have

peace in your life like it's

if you dislike women or if you like

women a lot both of those are

pedestalize but if you dislike a woman

she's still above you women you know the

whole body count discourse is just that

it's just another form of pedestalize

women right because they had this

behavior that we're trying to decipher

like like sniveling scientists right

and they're and they're laughing at us

as men while we just discussed this

because they they know they have the

power there they know that they can lie

and will believe whatever right and they

only act like with indignation right but

in deep down they're like these idiots

they'll never figure it out right

instead you could just not care and

that's why it hurts so much guys when I

go on these

spaces um and I tell the and I tell him

whose problem is her body

count because it really what I'm doing

is not I'm not taking positive or

negative side of women I'm just making

it neutral and that my friends is how

you leave and exit this stupid chaotic

part of the manosphere or dating talk

whatever they call it these days and

become your own point of origin right

when someone says does buddy count

matter I say matter to who it's not my

problem well don't you want to get

married one day I'm like yeah it's an

eventuality right eventually I'm going

to become so attractive and a woman's

going to be smart enough to lock me down

right that is her problem and that's

brings me to my next point one of the

other reasons you're frustrated or you

you think you may dislike women is that

you keep taking on their

neuroticism you keep taking on their

worry about things they want to transfer

their worries and guilts and and

neuroticism give it to you and this also

applies to the people that once the

people that kick the ladder out under

them like you know guys like cernovich

or HTH or Ro V or any of these big

creators right where they had their fun

and they did crazy stuff but then they

get to a

point right where um they get to a point

where uh they change to become pure and

holy and start going to church or

whatever they do right they convert they

get right with God and then they tell

you hey don't do the things I did

because it's wrong right don't have your

fun and you know like what does that

achieve you know like that is really

messed up right

uh I forgot where I was going with this

but let me

uh uh let me get my overlay there we go

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uh but

yeah yeah it's like Jack says two

reasons a guy uh care about nonch his

isn't high enough it's going to get back

to him no one wants to be Lo fall right

that's the only concern you should have

it's more of like your own reputation

right but aside from that right aside

from her even if even if she did you

find out later you just say okay well

she's not going to be marriage material

right she just going to be demote her to

Happ fun pretty easy um but when it

comes down to it guys it really is

that's why you're frustrated because

that's why and that's why I ask these

questions and think like think guys

think who really who problem is her body

count CU you're like well you know you

know I want to get married with them

like yeah you want to get married but

like a specific woman if you're on a

date with her and you're never going to

know her body count and are you gonna

think you know her body Count's goingon

to harm me and give me uh you know turbo

AIDS and blah blah she's gonna cheat on

me like dude you're on a date bro you're

on a first date who cares none of that

matters right now what matters is to

have fun stop with this neuroticism

women are neurotic about their body

count right so much so that there are

women that have lifelong subscriptions

to men where they date a

guy break up and then they go back to a

guy the the backup guy they sleep with

the backup guy till they find a

boyfriend they find a boyfriend doesn't

work out go back to the same guy right

and that's how women keep their body

count loow that's how neurotic women are

women plan and have plans to keep their

body count low and here you are as a man

worried about

her body count which in reality she's

the one that should be worried about her

body count not you it has nothing to do

with you really it has nothing to do and

when I when I ask this question people

kind of freeze and and it's like it's

like a kernel panic like a blue screen

because yeah you were taught that

women's problems are a priority right

and one of women's problems are the body

count it's like no dude it's not your

problem if she gets an ACD from [ __ ]

around a lot that's her problem she's

the one that has to go to the clinic

she's the one has to take meds she's the

one that has to run the bill on on her

medical insurance right and she's the

one that if she catches something uh

like permanent like herpes she's the one

that has going to deal with the guilt of

banging guys

right unprotected sex is off the table

or or she has to deal with the guilt one

or the other right that's not your

problem your problem is to practice safe

sex do the best you can part of the deal

dating is that you can always catch no

matter even if you protect yourself

right if you can't accept that then I'm

sorry you shouldn't date or you should

date sparingly and get into relationship

as soon as reasonable

but um but yeah guys uh that neuroticism

they want to pass it to you it's the end

of the world you know men shouldn't be

sleeping around blah blah like no no no

no no no you don't have to deal with

that you can simply say not my problem

and you'll realize that all these

frustration and anger you have towards

women is going to dissipate and go away

because part of the reason you were mad

in the first place is because they were

giving you they were transferring this

neuroticism to you that they have

because they want to bring you down

right it's like almost crabs in a bucket

mentality right when girls say don't you

want to settle down having a family

again that's that hey I'm worried about

this shouldn't you be worried I'm like

no

no I have plenty of time and also like

attractive competent people all get

married like I I am attracting women

women

like it they may not go on you know even

if you have cold spells or dry spells

right as long as I know that I am

conventionally attractive and I keep

doing the things I'm supposed to do as a

man that I will have an opportunity to

get married in the future I don't have

to worry about it and you know I went on

a space the other day where I was

invited and yes the host was very nice

to me but of course some chick uh like I

think she was on whatever podcast or

whatever started saying don't you want

to get married you're like 35 and I'm

just like what like I'm not why is it

that you're trying to make me as

neurotic about you about being married I

am not worried about it and guys that

just having that mentality is going to

give you so much you'll sleep better at

night I swear right these women are so

neurotic like these men don't want to

get married I'm like yeah I do but it's

not it's not a goal right it's a goal

for you because you don't have you don't

have

time I I do have time and so I don't

have to worry about it I'm sorry we're

not the same you have certain privileges

that I don't have and vice versa and

that's how it

is so you'll

never be happy with women or or neutral

let's just say neutral with women until

you really start thinking one are the

things I've been told that I should

worry about that really they're the they

that's what they worry

about body can yeah that's their problem

getting married yeah that's their

problem that's not my problem the

relationship is her problem you Mayan I

have to chase you and beg no you simply

just have to be

nice being nice will get you so far as a

woman right but apparently that's too

difficult

so yeah don't let this neuroticism

you're a man you're not made to worry

right you you should be worrying about

like your next promotion you should be

worrying about another certification to

get you more money right you should be

worrying about get your testosterone

levels your health you should be

worrying about your friends and family

that care about you you shouldn't be

woring about um what Stacy down the

street what her body count is doesn't

matter that's her problem she's the one

that has to deal with

it right

um now are there going to be certain

instances in your life where women who

you are who are in your

life right women that are in your life

that you are seeing and dating and all

that stuff right are they uh are they

may try to transfer some of the shitty

things that they do to your life right

and that's we're move now we're going to

move on to the next part of of the video

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right all right guys so yeah

um moving on to the next part is that

your inability to be assertive or say no

right it's going to frustrate you make

you dislike women right a lot of guys

don't like the fact again that women and

men aren't the same and that they relate

differently and they hate the fact that

they have to tell women no right they

don't have the balls or or the heart to

tell women no they're afraid of women's

emotions and when it comes to saying no

it takes a lot out of them right hey

we're going to my sisters this weekend

no I don't want to right uh let me see

if I uh like Hey we're going to my

sisters this weekend no we're not going

hey uh we're going to go to brunch with

my

friends you no we're not going

um and guys have a lot of trouble doing

that because they're afraid that the

girl will freak out or or not have sex

with them or leave them and all that

stuff but the truth is guys that women

are again like every man talks about

guidance and giving women guidance blah

blah blah but the truth

is

um like part of guiding women at Le the

ones that love you in a relationship

with you right because you're not you

can't guide women that um you can't

guide women don't want to be led right

they don't know you um is that saying no

saying no is going to be part of your

life as a man especially saying no to

women right and it's harder to say no to

women because they you know they can

reject us they have you know they hold

us to the fire all the time

so guys hate that guys think that hey

why can't I just have a submissive woman

that always listens to me

247 right and just agrees with me all

the time I'm like that's not how women

work right unless you want to go live in

a Muslim country and and convert to

Islam and have women never speak to you

but then you'd be bored right you didn't

grow up in that environment you're used

to women having personalities and all

that stuff so you got to deal with it

right and part of dealing with women is

being assertive and saying no right

there there are resources right like uh

you you can read the book uh when I say

no I feel guilty and learn the

techniques like broken record fogging

you know negative assertion things like

that to help you navigate and be

assertive right um hey we're going to my

sisters I am not going to your sisters

but you always promise but you promis or

but you told me you were going uh two

days ago well you said hey I changed my

mind and they're going to be like well

you always do this I can see how it's

annoying but I'm not going to your

sisters um and you know they'll start

using tactics and then you just keep you

know broken record fogging and all that

and all that stuff and eventually you

know she'll give up or she'll accept

that hey you are really not going and

that you you are you're asserting

yourself right and guys hate that they

have to do that right guys are taught

that their needs needs are last and also

that women should just listen to them

just because all the time 247 that

they're never going to have a

disagreement but the truth is that's

very far from the truth you will have

disagreements with women especially the

women that you love

um and you there is no amount of money

or muscles or or any of that like that

will change your woman's mind she will

look at you and say hey we're doing this

or you're doing this right and the only

you have to learn how to get your balls

and say no right and I'm sorry that uh

women aren't always agreeing with you

they're going to disagree right and some

disagree more than others but simply you

just put your uh put your foot down

right guys uh guys have to learn that

it's it's part of the inner work you

have to do right I'm sorry that uh you

know just lifting weights and making

money isn't enough to get you your dream

girl and have women um have women uh

stay loyal and loving to you you know

you gotta do a lot of the inner work and

figure out and own your [ __ ] right we

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these

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Jean Simon lose with the $5 Canadian

says guys don't hate women they hate

being rejected by women yeah exactly

that well we're going to get to that

some other reasons but these are the

honestly these are the biggest reasons

is the let me see if I can uh recant

them the biggest

reasons excuse me the biggest reasons

truly are inability to say no to them or

not you know scared to say no to women

right the fact that they make you as a

man say no and disagree and put you in

an uncomfortable spot um and what was

the other thing oh uh not understanding

how they change based on their behavior

and assuming that women are shitty all

the time because of your screenshot view

of them on the Internet or at the club

right

um you know and the lack of amus Master

lack of experience with women will make

you dislike them too right and the truth

is whenever you're talking about not

disliking women right the guys that are

still in the rage phase the guys that OD

red pills the guys that watch four or

five hour red meat podcast and all that

stuff right they think that you're

honestly on the other positive side of

it and that could

be you know that could

be uh seen as hey relative to them

anyone that speaks anything of like

positive about women or requiring them

to do uh something besides exist right

is sing or or like you're proom or

you're a feminist whatever they say

right and the truth

is these men are hurt right

understandably you are entitled to your

rage face right but you can't stay there

forever and the point not is not to go

back to pedestalize women like they used

to the point is to have a neutral view

of women right it's one of my points on

my dating thread where it's like you

don't want pedestalize women and

disliking

women are both the same to me

right they are normal people they make

mistakes we hurt them sometimes

emotionally they hurt us but they are

normal people they're not out to get you

right this neuroticism that woman every

woman is just conniving and ready to

break your heart and steal and and cheat

on you and all that stuff that's

neuroticism there's nothing masculine

about being that erotic right you take

the L's when you take them you take the

W's when you take them and realize that

sometimes you know on a long enough

timeline a woman especially if you're

seeing her is going to do something bad

to you

right it's just life I literally got

handed my dog after being it being

bloodied uh I I I got handed my

one-year-old puppy with bloody Paws and

I didn't look at her and said you piece

of [ __ ] how could you I just said Hey in

my mind I thought hey women aren't as

good as at handling stress and animals

as men

are she saved me a lot of

money and you

know she has a new guy so I'm pretty

much in un important in life so the best

I can do is just say hey thank you don't

mess up with this new guy and move on

right zero stress or drama I know a lot

of guys be like ah that wouldn't be me I

would be mad but like listen what did I

gain from yelling at someone in a

parking lot right nothing nothing I

would gain zero right

so you know you need that Mastery you

need that ability to see how women act

in different environments and all these

things because if not you're going to to

make mistakes with women and you're

going it could cost you right it could

cost you a good a plate you know at a

minimum it cost you sex with a with a

girl and at a maximum it could get you

in lots of trouble right you need to

Muse Mastery and you need to learn bear

learn to switch it on

um you'll be more respected by people

when they see how well you handle women

right and how well you handle their

emotions um how you're not afraid of

them like they can cry in front of you

they can yell at you right and you can

just simply say wow you know interesting

that you feel that way um and that's

where you want to be uh the guys that

are are hurt that are in their rage face

that do OD on red pill and watch five

hour uh red Me podcast right they don't

want to hear it they don't want to hear

anything positive about women or

anything even neutral about women

because they all think hey you're you're

for them you're you know and let me give

you this example

right

um let let me give you this example of

uh of how I see it right you're playing

Skyrim and you're going through a forest

or on a trail right guys that are in

their rage face or almost a

semi-permanent rage face or incels or

black pillars or whatever whatever

faction right they see women as the foot

soldiers of

whatever Empire orever whatever uh

territory you're in meaning that they

have a purpose and it's to hurt you and

to jail you and to investigate you right

they have a purpose guys that are more

experienced start seeing start seeing

women more as the crabs next to the

river right they're just hanging out

yeah if you get too close to them and

and are threatening they're going to you

know try to push you away or attack you

right but simply you don't have to go

after the crabs right they're just there

if you I mean they're they're not like

they're they have their own thing going

on right um but it's not that women

aren't sentient right but also it's

that you stop men have to stop assigning

this kind of like faction esque like

they're a faction of people or or

something that get together to ruin your

life right you need to let go of that

neuroticism and that fear and that

fantasy that women are you know some

kind of Collective hive mind yes they

they there is a Sisterhood Uber Uber L's

um

but once you start dating women and

start isolating them from their job

their their uh their other friends you

start getting to really know them you're

going to realize like women trust men

much more than they trust other women

right the things that I was told by

women about their

friends right things I'm like aren't you

friends like you love this person ah you

know whatever and she's telling me like

this crazy stuff and then you realize

like women really like men certain

things about us they really value the

fact that we're so neutral about

everything they really value the fact

that they we're reliable right but all

all you should ask for from them is hey

make it worth it so you can have access

to all this awesome manness that I have

right um yeah I go jump your car yeah I

go mount a TV for you but you know cook

me cook me dinner that's have sex and uh

let's watch a movie after g a massage

and that's exactly what happened right

and there that's a fair exchange to me

and then you know every guy gets to

decide what's a fair Exchange in his

relationships right um but you can't

live this life where if you do anything

good for a woman or if you even think

one neutral or positive tradeit about a

woman you're you know you're you that

guy's a s or you know all that stuff

right that's that's just the Hallmark a

guy that is hurt has no game and has

hasn't had any positive experiences with

women which shows in experience right

because I know for a fact that yes while

there is a lot of negative experiences

with women you're going to have a couple

of positive ones that may really make it

all neutral at the end right like for

example when I was in the military I was

seeing some of the worst behavior

possible from women I I was legit

terrified right I was like holy crap

these women are divorcing men these

women are cheating on on the men back

home uh these women are destroying

reputations of guys they don't like what

do I do this is terrifying right they're

they're F they're me toing guys this is

hell like I I didn't I didn't know they

could be this evil right and then a

couple months later I met a girl on

Facebook who was friends with my brother

and she was send me boxes full of coffee

chocolate pictures of her graduation

pictures of her love letters right and

then I had I had to make a choice there

guys I couldn't just be like women are

evil creatures stay away because I have

this woman that is literally sending me

love letters and um graduation pictures

of

her right which is more intimate than me

in the nudes right a slice of her life

and then when I got back we we went to

the Navy ball together and she told me

like all these women are crazy and I'm

like yeah you work with these women I'm

like yeah and then we just laugh and we

saw how sad all the single Navy woman

where where while she was sitting on my

lap at a Marty Gro party right um

but yeah guys that's that's one another

reason why men why men get mad at women

they're not really mad at women right

they just confuse two things they think

like I said you

don't dislike women you dislike bad

people right the internet has to make

money the people who own the apps the

people who

own um like Twitter and Fa like like

what makes money is disagreement right

long discussions I could see it in my

content where I say something and no one

comments but it gets lots of likes the

the impressions are very much lower than

when I say something controversial and

people are butting heads and for days in

the comments right those that's those

are the money makers for uh for these

apps right so you're going to be

presented with very shitty hyperbolic

female Behavior online right whether it

be women being

incredibly uh judgmental of men

women doing almost irreprehensible

things like bragging about uh you know

unal living the babies in the womb um

all this stuff right like very bad

behavior things that you will never hear

a woman say to you in real life because

you know it would be socially

unacceptable too so you they take this

as like oh all women are like this right

and you you know guys with The Muse

Mastery and are like yeah that same girl

she's being a cornball online she's just

saying whatever right

and as you gain more amused Mastery

you're going to see patterns or you're

going to see how much [ __ ] it all is

right um you're going to see like the

guy the girls that are the most that

post the most thirst traps right and are

uh SE uh very sexual even before meeting

a guy or or through text right they

could be they're absolutely boring in

bed right or they're boring in real life

too they're just completely boring all

around just a boring

person right and you're like wow all

these men are so mad are up in arms

because a girl post thirst traps online

and destroying society and all that

stuff right and I hooked up with her and

absolutely boring as hell like in

bedroom personality just like no wonder

she's single it's not she's not single

because she's ugly or picky she's single

because she's just boring

right this hyperbolic talk about high

value man s you know seven figures or uh

you know glavius

uh you know drug dealer or whatever

those are incredibly hyperbolic end ends

of the spectrum right most people are

here like the bell curve right and yes

she's going to slide over to the right

to find the guy she likes a little bit

in terms of U whatever she's looking for

Alpha traits beta traits right but for

the most part remember women screw it up

all the time with men and it's not um

and it's uh for the dumbest reasons

right so this lack of amused Mastery is

going to make men frustrated right

because they just don't have the

experience right guys that get it they

understand that like again the body

count discourse or the tattoo discourse

or the race discourse all that is

completely dumb or like the outward

appearance right guys that get it have

dated the sun hat summer dress wearing

girl that doesn't curse and probably

like man this girl's a [ __ ] plus she's

not so great and bad and then they date

a girl with a tattoo on her

shoulder and she's

awesome she's so much fun polite holds

doors

open sends good memes the next day is

you know asked to see you again in a

polite way right and so you go on the

internet and then you see two pictures

of women one woman with like tattoos and

and like wearing a what do you call it

like yoga pants and all that and then

you see a girl in a in a summer dress

and you look and you're

like we want first of all it would be

nice to have both in one chick right but

I know that both of those chicks can

either be huge [ __ ] or very nice

people it all depends on first the

environment and overall like just

because a woman's in a sundress do mean

she be likable right and she you know

what I'm saying like this this obsession

with virginic women when reality you

know one day you might even take a

Virginia yourself you're going to

realize yay I did

it I don't like her that much she's not

fun not into her she's not even soul B

like she doesn't like me that much she

just wants to hook up or it was just

like a uh you

know and that takes experience that

takes time out in the field and touching

grass in order to get to these very

nuanced and very uh you know grounded

obervations of women right but instead

people use like science and immorality

as buffers against failure and rejection

with women but the truth is it's the

guys in the arena the man in the arena

that's out there

um making it work right fighting the

good fight because if not for him there

would be no red pill the red pill is

based on the men in the arena the guys

that are out there trying to fix their

marriages trying to

get

late right trying to fix and have a

positive male identity for themselves

but we've somehow lost a plot where now

it's all science and and some dork you

know who went to college for four years

is now the authority on these things

that I I've been observing for 10 15

years right as a guy and

um that could be frustrating for men who

want answers because they're like

they're so obsessed with science because

science is going to give a concrete

answer based on evidence right and I'm

telling them like hey body count is her

problem what do you mean and it's just

like

dude you're

frustrated you know the next reason

we're going to get into the next reason

now is you want to be right you don't

want to be happy you want to be right

and that is going to a lot of guys

cannot let that go they need to be

right and here's an exercise I want you

guys to do

right um yeah and Jean I'll get to your

super chat in a second here's an

exercise that I

do look at Woman as a

whole the population of women in the

world or your country your state your

neighborhood whatever and just look at

them and say you guys

win you guys win

that's it you guys have

won you guys are right whatever I don't

care you guys win and then turn around

and go back to your

life and move on let it [ __ ] go

online right obviously I get paid for

this and I need to create

engagement

but there are women that want to debate

me and come on spaces and I said

hey do you want to win what do you mean

I'm like hey I don't care about winning

a debate online I don't care that's not

my

purpose if you want we can set it

up right and that's again it's not when

you discuss these things they want a got

you moment they want to hey you're not

really who you say you are right but the

thing is the red pillow is never for

them it's for me it's for me to fix my

own

problems um it's not for me to like

gather an army of autists online to

change the world it's simp simply what

am I lacking what do I need to work on

and I tell you right now 80% of it was

like inward [ __ ] how do I be assertive

how do I tell people no how do I accept

that a girl is not M it's just my turn

what does that

mean and that

is another reason why women think or men

think they hate women but really they

hate themselves because they are they

don't have the tools to deal with women

they want to they want

right even the mes they can't stop

talking about women just like the rat fs

and the mes are the same they can't stop

talking about the other gender they

cannot they cannot they're just

absolutely obsessed and both of them

think they they they're they can rally

people with some tweets or a post or a

news article to get strangers to do

their bidding for them because they

absolutely failed or afraid of failing

with the opposite

sex

so

um you don't want to be that right you

want to use the red pill and build an

identity but in order to build that

identity you you have to look inward

right and that's that is why another

reason why men think they dislike women

they just hate the fact that they have

to look inward they did everything right

they made the money they they had the

muscles right they got still got

heartbroken they're like where are my

[ __ ] at why why is it that I want I

have a girlfriend or even a casual place

and she won't listen to me and I'm still

frustrated right he's Jose [ __ ] I'm like

no dude you just don't know how to be

assertive right muscles don't guarantee

compliance all the time right she'll

think you're

hot right but that isn't you know you

still got to be assertive you still got

to say

no you

know and I know it sucks I hey I was

frustrated too where I was just like hey

I am who I am I I I did the work right

I'm you know obviously I have my gifts

I'm 6 F feet tall I I'm I'm Dominican um

I have my mother's eyes you know all

these things that help

me like without in a vacuum right and

then I got jacked and then I got

competent right and then I do attractive

things I play piano I dance and I do all

these things and I I I know a little bit

of game and I live in a my Logistics are

airtight right and you know may I have a

little experience in the bedroom right

and I have a dog I I did all these

things all these competencies and all

these things to help me dating right but

even with all that guys I still had to

look at myself and be like why am I

afraid to tell women no I had to work on

myself right it wasn't all those things

can get taken away and I don't want to

think about Tadashi getting taken away

but technically speaking everything can

get taken away right but you cannot just

Bank on all these things fixing your

life I know that sucks and men are just

like then it's not worth it right but

the thing

is um that will give you the edge more

than

anything right look at the guys that

debate me look at the guys that have

whole podcasts that have everything

going for

them

right and they still struggle with women

they still get in trouble right they

still look stupid because they just

wanted to win an argument against a

woman or wanted to embarrass her that's

fine I I know I understand I'm you know

that's their business right but think

about it

right what do I gain from winning an

argument with a

woman even if she's mean even if she dis

respect me right at some point you

disengage and start making fun of her

you got to do something like be playful

or something like I can't do it like

I've tried in spaces to to like and then

I just end up being making fun of them

and you

know making fart f fart noises with my

computer right when they talk like I

just can't because I am I've already

learned

hey I don't want to win I just want to

be happy I don't care about being

right I don't care about being right I

just want to be

happy

and guys they need they hate making that

choice they're so obsessed with science

and the right answer and blah blah this

blah blah that all you know oh if a

woman has more than this amount of

partner she's going to divorce you but

I'm like to me it's just

like if I worry about that it's not

going to make me happy it's just one

more stupid thing I have to worry about

my whole life right how about

this that's am I having fun that's all I

care about and you're going to realize

when you are dating it's not even going

to be something you worry

about it it just doesn't matter another

example of this guys is that guys are

afraid to go out there and figure it out

themselves and they they lose hope they

let other people make make it uh Define

the reality for them and I'll give you

an example right 2021 around July of

2021 again the whole coffee versus

alcohol or drink State popped up on uh

Twitter right I wasn't you know popular

I had like what 400 followers that then

and I would was in my Peak dating days I

was on fire right I was going on three

dates a week I you know every girl just

I had an 80% first date lay rate or

first day come let's say first uh uh Day

come back to my apartment R right it was

just coming out of the the pandemic

girls you know dating was like almost

all 100% online people weren't going out

as much so you know da uh online dating

as women used to take it more seriously

right

so um

essentially I did very well and then one

day I met this I match with this cute

Mexican Chi she seemed very invested and

I said hey let's go to a coffee shop so

I went we went to my favorite coffee

shop and we had a good time we talked

and she was very invested very present

in the

date and you know this I had commented

earlier that day about the coffee versus

drinks to me I said hey guys let's just

do what's best for us you know me trying

to be a mediator right everyone was

going

crazy and then I looked across the

street stre and I saw a bar one of my

favorite bars in the area and I said hey

uh before you go you want to get a cosmo

real quick I know you know we were

talking about drinks and stuff like that

she's like oh really yeah let's we can

have one I'm like yeah let's just have

one drink and uh just so you can try it

it's on me we crossed the street and we

got

drinks um after

that we went to um my

apartment she drove me back herself

and uh you know fooled around in the car

she said hey we can't do anything you

know there's actual people around and

then she was my girlfriend for eight

months after

that I thought for myself I stopped

letting other people make decisions for

me and that guys that Independence it

lowered my neuroticism by so many

degrees because I no longer needed the

internet to decide for me right

obviously I had already been you know

fresh and fit was was going on and all

that stuff the red Me podcast era was

starting to come up and I would see it

I'm like this is entertaining Right

girls getting kicked off this is

entertaining but then I start realized

there were guys that really took this

stuff seriously like it was super

serious to them that these women get

kicked off and all that stuff and they

had other men tell them about how to

what their perspective woman should be

and I'm like okay like you know I can

see that but

I'm in here I'm in the man in the arena

I can't afford not to have fun right I

worked really hard in my 20s I want to

enjoy myself and I would have never been

able to enjoy myself if I let other men

on the internet dictate the terms of my

of my methods and and how I should enjoy

women right you don't dislike women as

much as you

think right you what you hate is that

there's so much misinformation there's

so much emotional ego driven ego driven

discourse about it because it it all has

to do with our selfworth as humans you

know our ability to attract mates and

have children and so on and so forth but

the thing

is if you let other

people broken people people have have

made grave mistakes with the opposite

gender people that refuse to go out and

be the man in the arena then you're

going to start disliking women

too they want to transfer that

negativity that neuroticism to you right

look at the home math guy he keeps

saying it's the end of the world like

how could how could people just live

like this and I'm like dude I I Look to

myself in

2021 having gone through a shitty career

having you know been very depressed for

a year and I finally had the tools

and the money and the

time right and the knowledge and the

maturity to go out and

date

and I couldn't imagine someone like that

trying to tell me not to do that after

all the work I put in because he failed

or he he wants to be the the guy to tell

me or tell other people what to

do

and now here in 2024 after women have

done their work on me right all the

negative things lots of positive but

also a couple negative

things I finally got what I've always

needed from

women and it wasn't children and it

wasn't I mean obviously sex you know

it's just an eventuality right but it

was simply

neutrality a neutral view of them that's

what I got out of this that is the

biggest most important

thing the ability to see them as normal

humans and that my friend is not easy in

this day and age they want to take that

away from you they want you to feel love

or hate for women one or the other like

that those are your choices either love

women and vote for Kamala or you hate

women and you want to Outlaw the a word

right so women don't own a life baby

like it's like you get get pulled and

I'm like no no no I don't care none of

this is my problem I'm here in the

middle and every day guys for you guys

that have reached the neutrality I don't

care anymore Point like just normal

people I don't care moving on with your

life and doing something better with it

every day on these apps every day in

political issues they're going to pull

you one way or the

other that gift that gift that hard work

that you spent on

yourself to get to this point where you

look at no matter how like a female porn

star or a Christian girl or a high

performing girl or a bum all these women

you're just like whenever are are we

having sex no not my problem have a nice

day they're trying to take that

neutrality away from you that is the

ultimate mission of these broken people

they want to share their misery

neuroticism or their bravado and their

fantasies with you why don't you feel

anything why aren't you like mad at

women you must be a Sim and then other

say like hey why aren't you uh why are

you so mean to women I'm like uh I'm not

mean and just you know I'm just me and

they're like oh you must hate women like

choose choose one I'm like I'm not

choosing they're normal people like I

don't care like some of them are shitty

some of them are

good sometimes they want to have sex

with me once in a while you know if they

like me enough I'm okay with

that can't handle it they need you to be

in one box or the other but I'm here to

tell you like it's nice here in the

neutral land it's so

nice and

it takes work though to get here it's

not

easy

it's there there was a lot of ups and

downs there was a lot of times where I

didn't even know how to feel because

guys that are blue pill guys that I get

raised in

this um gentric order right it's either

like positive or super negative right

and that's very stressful to be on both

right because if you're positive you're

constantly sacrificing yourself for

nothing and then like over time you're

like what am I doing with my life if

it's negative you're just like I ain't

doing crap I don't want to hang out with

wom I don't want them around me they

shouldn't be able to vote blah blah blah

right but the truth is that both of

those are very stressful places for a

man's mind to be the best place

ultimately is neutrality I don't care

that much I have things to

do and that's it guys really it's that's

what it boils down to don't let people

on the internet take away your

neutral stance on women they want it

they want that peace and quiet they want

to ruin it for you it's just it's not

fair I are you are you kidding me I

worked really hard for

this you're trying to convince me to be

like my old self angry you know thinking

women are all are the cause of all my

problems no absolutely not absolutely

not you deserve better as a guy you

worked hard to have this normal thing

there's normal neutrality cuz you know

what

they take it away you know what else are

taking it away taken away from you your

happiness with your future wife or

girlfriend or plates or

whatever

and that's a very selfish thing to do

you should worry women are destroying

the

world you believe that and then one day

you're going to meet a nice chick and

you're just not going to be even present

on the date cuz you're going to think

man what what's the purpose she's going

to cheat on me anyway like women so I'm

just going to [ __ ] her and whatever like

no dude like you're neutral you're like

oh this cool this shit's pretty cool hey

it was a nice date I want to see her

again hey she gives good blow jobs I'll

keep her around hey she made me some

food hey we got into a little argument

but then she apologized to uh later she

was crying and she apologized okay and

then eventually you'll Bond and you know

you'll fall in

love right but that will never happen if

you don't have a neutral view of

women and people that try to take that

away from you are truly some of the

worst people that's why you know a lot

of people are like oh why are you go

after the tradcons or the the homass and

and this guy and this guy like because

you don't understand the amount of work

it takes to get there to get to this

point after being absolutely seeing the

absolute worst of

women and also seeing the best of

women you will even like women more that

you're dealing with right there's like

this different level of connection that

been able to have with women now that

I'm here and I think people are jealous

of that we're like why aren't you mad at

her I was like I I just don't know her I

don't know what do you want me to do

like what do you want from me right

they'll see my behavior with women

online you're like oh you know like the

the Michaela CH oh you know she

disrespected you or the way she talks

she's crazy I'm like

dude behind the scenes man me and her

still talk and we're just normal people

talk it's all k

f oh you did a debate and this girl was

like hounding you I'm like yeah she's a

girl she's she's scared when a girl is

is like mad at me that I won't don't

want to get

married she's not talking to me she's

talking to herself she's afraid she

wants me to be just as afraid as her I'm

like no I'm sorry I'm neutral like good

luck like there's nothing I can do for

you you're not my problem none of you

women are my problem and I'm not your

problem sorry

you're not going to take me out of my

frame you're not going to make me

worried about something that I'm never

was and never will be worried

about

so let me see all right guys let's take

a break and then we'll I'll I'll hit

some of these comments and uh Gan I'll

get to your Super Chat and then uh we'll

go from

there uh let's go here

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uh howdy fellas

okay you guys still don't hear any of my

sound

drops

congratulations all right let's see if I

can use the sound drops with your guys's

uh things so first off let's let's grab

uh this uh Super

Chat um let me see I got a sound drop

for

you I don't get sound I'll just use the

thing so jean jean

thank you

so K Simon rose with a $2 Canadian thank

you sir does of us that have slept with

of girl we

know uh I don't know what you're trying

to say that can you can you

uh repeat that in the

comments or like clarify in the

comments

um I hope we all look inward after the

stream yeah that's just the red pillows

mostly you know work it's like 90%

fixing yourself it's about you you know

like it's not about the world external

right it never was and never will be but

uh

yeah life is hard no matter what you

choose pick one

yeah hold up you passed the six foot

test yes I

do I got pork chops on the grill while

listening yeah I made a baramundi today

um it was really good I don't know yeah

I posted it on Twitter um and then I

meal prepped the rest uh I found this

recipe on uh YouTube

shorts um pretty good it was basically

like you make the sauce first like the

honey the I think it's called the glaze

like you put in some butter let the

butter brown and then some garlic honey

and and some lemon lemon juice and uh

yeah it's pretty cool pretty good

uh Sur for good girl I can't explain how

good I felt since steing X and all AR

yeah yeah you got to take

breaks red pill TM watching m& was not

very productive for me wasting one yeah

it's about what you want out of it like

for me I always knew it was

entertainment from because I had read

like I've done all the work I was doing

the work on myself and I realized like

all this stuff that I know and that I've

done and I'm just like this show is just

pointing out female Tendencies right

which I already knew because you know it

was in my early

30s but really

like the work is internal man like it's

like let the woman do like their body

count their problems their thing it's

not my problem it's me I am the I am my

problem right thank you sir nuke I think

uh I might go to prison Schon I'm scar

list but I'm going on with my life it

may happen but it may not investigate

ations take a long time hey man I'm

sorry to hear that

uh hopefully you don't go to prison man

I don't want you go to prison

so uh Chris Edge kuk is there some

advice against the 666 cynicism obsessed

guys have me included sometimes yeah so

there's this thing called the super pral

pre-selection let's talk about that

first um where in the book dataclysm

which was I think a a programmer from

Okay Cupid you know one of the first

dating apps dating platforms there were

uh kind of analyze the data and put it

out there in a book about people's

dating behaviors and he noticed that

there he called it superficial

pre-selection where he noticed that

women would say certain things they

wanted in men right and their messages

the who would they would message would

not match those preferences in real

time um you need to

understand that women say these things I

want six foot tall I want six this six

whatever these like egregious or not

even egregious but slightly above

average or highly above average uh kind

of uh traits in men right they're not

saying it because that's what they

actually can get or want they're saying

it because that's how they establish a

hierarchy around the women around them

right when they say that it's should

it's to Telegraph to other women hey I'm

special I'm hot I can get these things

and I demand these things right but in

reality the the women that men really or

the men that women really sleep with or

some sometimes if you knew who she was

sleeping with you'd be like ill I don't

want to sleep with you anymore that's

how like much [ __ ] the whole like

women getting on a Tik Tok or on a

podcast saying I need this I need that I

need this the second part of that is

that women don't really have a lot of

spatial awareness in terms of being able

to measure things in their brain

so uh you ask anyone hey what's six feet

and she'll be like doing this most guys

can like pinpoint it down within one to

three inches what six feet is right but

we want to be like uh like this or like

like either it's like a 64 guy with her

with her hand or like a guy like that's

two inches tall with her they can't even

tell what six feet is right um like they

can't parallel park or you know and you

know for the dick size same thing right

most women are not going to measure your

dick and most women don't really care

right it's just they can't tell size and

differences and they don't have this

special spatial awareness so there's

that um and then for the money part

right women don't even know what six

figures look like they don't understand

what six figure lifestyle brings them

right uh for here in Dallas in order to

have a house and pay off a mortgage or

pay a mortgage for an average

three-bedroom to or two B house you need

about 115 or so that's what Zillow says

and I've seen similar reports

but the truth is to them six figures

it's like they don't understand what

that like ask them okay what's the

amount most amount of rent you can pay

with six figures right and they'll be

like I don't know they like flounder

with numbers like guy in his mind is

like yeah so rent I'll pay like 2300

2200 is the most I'll pay right women

don't even like they don't track their

finances they they just don't know it's

just like this cloud

thing that they talk about but in

reality when the rubber meets the M they

have no idea what these numbers mean in

terms of their own lifestyle right

they're just throwing out numbers right

notice that it's just 6 feet like this

cut off like it's never like 510 or 63

it's just this weird cut off right six

figures meaning $100,000 or more like it

like what's the difference between

95,000 and $110,000 you won't feel it

nothing you won't feel any you know

maybe maybe you buy me at instead of

going to Kroger you go to Tom Thumb or

something like that or

Costco right like that's probably the

difference you got little bit extra

money for a little bit better groceries

that even even when you cook it you

won't even tell the difference so yeah

it's just that Obsession again it's that

neuroticism that they're trying to pass

to you again to worry hey you're not the

six keep grinding away and I'm like no

dude it don't let this [ __ ] internet

discussion on these things get to you

you right these are discussions meant to

piss you off to create engage to make

you feel lower than you are as a man but

in and for guys that get it the guys

have experience none of that [ __ ] really

matters the six figures the money is for

you for you to have a better

life right her trying to find a guy that

makes six figures is her problem has

nothing to do with you right the most

amount of women I've ever got in my life

I was making 75k

and it was plenty it had money left over

right um but that being

said you know making more money will

facilitate your dating life I'm not

going to lie I'm not I'm not going to

sit here and lie to you right but most

women do not even

know what these things mean right they

can't Define it six figures okay well

like what point to me in the city where

a man that makes six figures can live

they won't know point to me what a man

that makes six figures what kind of car

he has they won't know they don't know

they there's just nothing they have no

idea they cannot zero in on what these

things actually mean in terms of

Lifestyle it's just random numbers that

throw out T you know six and guys get

mad right and the reason guys get mad is

they don't have a muse Mastery

everything that comes out of a woman's

mouth they're like that's you know

that's like she doesn't know like she

just watch what they do who look at who

woman [ __ ] and you'll see what their

preferen are trust me so

yeah my brother in Christ

exactly all right let's

see those of us that have sleep with

girl that have only have only F we know

how much women can be we don't care they

are fun yeah like I think what you're

trying to say is that um like the

neuroticism thing oh you sleep with like

you know Michaela like oh you sleep with

PR I'm like listen wait till you guys

find out that the only fans chick didn't

even want me to see her nudes she never

sent me one nude she was embar she was

shy she was embarrassed to show me her

nudes and that's crazy girls that were

normal look at my vagina look at my

nipples only fans

girl I don't know this stuff makes me

feel weird to share with guys I like

insane

right absolutely fascinating that a

woman obviously there's you know there's

levels to this stuff right

but it is what it is guys like what do

you want me to

do are you having fun right women hate

the fact that no matter how many

sundresses they put on no matter how

many bibles they read no matter how much

how many times they deny women online or

or denounce women online that are hotter

or show off more skinned that they

themselves have to be likable they hate

that they hate that so

much all right Dark Knight Dev went to

Amish crun and Pa this weekend had a

wonderful time at this breakfast buffet

and found this BB C suppli are full of

smokers you can learn to enjoy the

simple things of Life yeah and that's

another thing like

I go to the park down the street with my

dog it's

beautiful right I stop at the coffee

shop have a good coffee chilling it's a

beautiful day out and there's people on

the internet that want to tell you hey

why are you enjoying your life things

are going to [ __ ] I'm like okay dude

well if they are this is a really cool

uh decline because everything looks so

nice I mean I live I'm living a good

life why is why why do

you why can't you accept that life is

good sometimes you know like the like

and that's the good thing about getting

older as a dude like you need less to be

happy insane right people think you need

more as you get older like no every day

I get the more I grow the more I grow

older the less I need to be

happy I need less women in my life I

don't I I can be happy with less women

in my life I can be happier with the

only thing is that like certain things

that you like you need it needs to be

like squared away like I need a good

steak right I can't half ass steak so

stuff like that right but like overall

like I don't need the best

car I don't need the the nicest

apartment right it just as you grow and

people like I guess women don't like

that about us because you know they need

more as life goes on but we need just

less

I'm happier with less you know my Amazon

I get less Amazon packages now I don't

care I'm giving away like a lot of the

stuff in my apartment that I'm like why

did I buy this like what was I going

through that I needed this [ __ ] and I

realized like oh I'm getting older and I

just don't care anymore you know like

this is all

dumb so yeah I totally feel

that yeah the funny thing about High in

the USA we use feet NES do women care

for everywhere else in elementary system

they don't care that much yeah it's just

like in other countries like the cut off

isn't even like cuz it you know what is

what is six in or six inch six feet in

in meters it's like some random number

with a decimal right it's not a cut off

for them it's so

dumb BR try says I'm 58 never got called

short once until I was 26 by the 6 foot

girl who I ended up hooking up with

anyway it's all just a big Joke Man

don't take it seriously yeah and tall

girls are lonely the loneliest girls are

tall girls tall girls are very lonely

right cuz guys don't approach

them guys are too

scared

yeah can we go flakita for Jack uh I

think he gets it

let's

see uh Ren and Tracy nuke I'm going on a

potential mobilization next fall 25

could last six months or more never

deployed before safe sa safe to stay in

LTR should be off the table till I'm

back um yeah dude

um unless she's married unless you're

married to her or about to marry her you

know like I would say

just don't you know you don't want that

kind of stress man I've seen the worst I

don't want to be Negative Nancy here but

it's just I didn't have LTR in the

military it's one of the best decisions

I ever made because I just didn't worry

there was just so much things that less

I had to worry about right a woman

that's going to hold it down not only

just not by not cheating but also

financially in the home and everything

for you it's like it's a unicorn so I

would say unless you're you have a

incredibly stable relationship that's

going towards marriage like any day now

you're going to you know I would say

dude just be single man if I if I

could if I if I ever went back to did

again I'd stay single again I'd be like

no Just too stressful

so round 55 never had problem yeah

that's true all right let's take a big

break and then uh we'll get out of here

guys let me what another break let's

uh let's do this one

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all right so yeah so like

uh like uh Jean summons like height is

as important as you want to make it so

let's give him a

positive for that one good job my friend

oh we got uh Filipino working at CVS how

you doing sir nice to see

you but

uh yeah so guys um it's pretty much all

I have for tonight again you know you

don't dislike women as much as you oh we

got a $10 Super

Chat all right thank you sir you get one

of

these thank you so much best

exp with the $10 in November I'll be 40

as I got closer to 40 the less I want to

go out the more content I am with and

less and enjoy the Simple Pleasures in

life reading classic literature I even

started learning Portuguese yeah like

that you turn like obviously I still

like women just as much as when I was 20

like I my testostrone is pretty good

right now but it's just I need less like

I'm just

not I just need so much less in my life

like life is becoming incredibly simple

and and straightforward now that I'm

older

but uh yeah just every guy goes through

this where like as you get older man

you just the book or like for me it's

just I'm I'm about to hit hit the piano

keys for a little bit and then maybe

finish tonight with some video

games and that's it like I have such a

simple life you know girls need to do

all these things to be stay maintained

entertained right and you're just like

yep a quiet afternoon at your apartment

it's just like golden it's amazing right

sometimes I want women to cancel dates

because I'm just like man I don't know

my apartment is I I just need some time

alone and with a nice book or something

but yeah men are simple beings yeah so

thank you for the $10

ask but uh but yeah guys um it's pretty

much all I have

uh you don't dislike woman as much as

you think

it's just that a lot of people need you

whether for emotional reasons for ego

reasons for financial reasons they need

you to have some kind of positive hyper

positive or hyper negative view on women

right and the thing is like that

neutrality on women is it takes work

right especially if you come from a

place where you're you incredibly blue

pill and all that stuff but eventually

you will um achieve that neutrality that

kind of I don't care like a woman on the

internet um set a record for how many

bodies she got in three months good for

her part of me is like that's impossible

because you'll get you'll get a

bacterial vaginosis by like the fourth

fifth

dude right and the whole internet's mad

and and appalled and guys with

experience are just like you know her

vagina would have been discharging by

the time by the six dude like that's not

how vaginas work you you don't just

stick you don't just stick a 100 dicks

in a vagina and it I expect to be some

kind of bacterial infection right come

on now guys with experience understand

this but you know the ho is like ah you

know what if these hoes and I'm was like

you guys believe first of all you guys

believe anything um and number two like

who car like good for her right good for

her go ahead she's following her dreams

right if her if that's her dream go

ahead has nothing to do with me but what

about the woman in your life if they did

that uh I will find out within like a

month that they have they're a nymo

hypersexual or that level of broken

where you you know and also if it is

true um she should get a logistics job

because imagine the logistics and energy

you need to plan and do that in that

little time there's some potential right

look at it from that angle have fun with

it guys like stop worrying about women's

Behavior worry about yourself then don't

care you don't care um and you'll you'll

just enjoy the ride more when terms of

dating and this whole discourse right we

got a $5 Super Chat from our member

Julian you get

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one thank you so

much Julian says for the Five Doll damn

I'm 5'8 I thought I was short LOL W

short King great show seriously thank

you

sir uh have a good night bro I love one

women raised by mostly women I always

love women regardless of how the

internet wants to say otherwise yeah I

mean it's for me it's not like that I

love women it's just like you know like

just be nice to me right that's all I

don't require you I don't even require

your friendship like when I go to salsa

night um I get to see some of the best

of women I get to see women reject me

very politely some of the baddest like

gorgeous women I've ever seen sometimes

reject me kindly hey no I'm sorry with

my friends

polite and then last like last Friday I

got uh a woman said oh um I'm sorry I'm

celebrating my friend's birthday I'm

like okay as I walk away she's like but

you got a nice ass like just out loud in

front of everyone I'm like God damn it

like these women right and that's part

of the fun

right you get to decide how you feel

about this this all this [ __ ] right

don't let anyone dictate your emotions

and get you out of your

frame neutrality is the most important

thing when you're dealing with women

because it shows amuse Mastery it shows

peace and then you're from there you get

to build attraction with any women when

you're gaming them right because in your

mind you're not already like putting her

in a box

right

so yeah nothing about love or hate just

be emotionals yeah it's neutral like hey

a woman online did something okay cool

hey a a woman in your real life didn't

show up for a date yeah [ __ ] well [ __ ]

happens I get to stay in my apartment

now right so yeah guys

um it it is what it is I just want you

guys when you guys are like uh on the

internet and you see people trying to

give you an opinion on how you should

feel about a woman's Behavior I want you

to prick up your senses like

this and just be like

hey um

this person is trying to project their

insecurities onto me and I'm like no I

work too hard to get this mindset where

I don't have to worry about this stuff

anymore

so anyways guys I appreciate the super

chats they're all um they keep the show

going right uh hopefully you guys take

this run with it I come I come back to

my own videos sometimes to review if I'm

you know if I'm having trouble with a

certain situation in my life too like

that's the point um

I I don't know I don't have anything

planned for this week uh I am going on a

show in September but I don't remember

when I have to look at my emails all

that stuff but uh I don't have anything

um I don't have anything

to to announce except that uh I started

my substack I just dropped two substack

articles today uh so I put that in my in

the

chat so you guys can check those out

each suback article is going to be part

of my book all my book is uh based on my

100 count dating thread obviously some

of the points in those thread are not as

to be taken as seriously as others but I

will clarify that like hey uh the thick

Asians post like that's going to be more

satirical but like I'm currently working

on um the next point in the thread which

is like Logistics right and that's a

longer post because there is a lot to

talk about with Logistics right uh but

for the most part guys it's free no it's

not free but I'm still fixing some

banking stuff with it but uh if you guys

want to support um it'll help get my

book off the ground that way I could um

maybe soon whenever I start accelerating

the writing and get more out there uh

get it out there and all that stuff so I

can leave some kind of Legacy besides

silly YouTube videos and sounds and all

that stuff right um and all that so

thank you guys

for for watching and uh I'll see you

guys next time

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