This Is Why You Must Talk Down To Women
Summary
TLDRThe video script explores the dynamics of attraction and behavior in men and women's interactions. It challenges the notion that certain behaviors are inherently unattractive, arguing instead that attractiveness is determined by the individual's perceived value. The speaker discusses the concept of hypergamy and how women's reactions to men's actions are influenced by the men's perceived status. The video also delves into the importance of men presenting themselves as high-quality individuals to attract women, suggesting that men should 'speak down' to women not in a derogatory way, but from a position of confidence and self-assuredness. The speaker encourages men to improve themselves to become more attractive and to understand the nuances of dating and relationships.
Takeaways
- 😀 The speaker argues that attractiveness is not about specific behaviors but about the person's overall appeal, including confidence, status, and other qualities.
- 😳 Women may have double standards when it comes to tolerating certain behaviors from attractive men versus unattractive men.
- 💬 The speaker suggests that men should learn to 'speak down' to women, meaning to exude a high-status presence that makes even mundane comments seem valuable.
- 🌟 The script implies that women are often attracted to men who demonstrate high value and confidence, which can be perceived as 'speaking down' due to their perceived superiority.
- 🚫 The speaker refutes the idea that certain behaviors are universally unattractive when performed by men, emphasizing that context and the man's attractiveness play a significant role.
- 🎯 The script discusses the concept of hypergamy, where women are naturally inclined to seek higher-status partners, which influences their reactions to men's behaviors.
- 💔 There's a critique of the tendency for some women to label behaviors as sexist or degrading without acknowledging their own selective preferences based on a man's attractiveness.
- 📚 The speaker encourages men to improve themselves to become more attractive, suggesting that this will naturally lead to a 'speaking down' dynamic that is appealing to women.
- 🤔 The script touches on the idea that women's reactions to men's behaviors are not always about the behavior itself but are influenced by the woman's perception of the man's value.
- 🔗 The speaker links the advice on 'speaking down' to the broader concept of self-improvement and becoming a high-quality individual to succeed in the dating market.
Q & A
What is the main point the speaker is making about women's reactions to men's behaviors?
-The speaker argues that there are no inherently unattractive male behaviors; rather, the attractiveness of a man's behavior is determined by the man himself, including his status, confidence, and perceived value.
Why does the speaker believe that some women tolerate certain behaviors from some men and not from others?
-The speaker suggests that women may tolerate certain behaviors because they are attracted to the man exhibiting them, which is tied to his perceived value, status, and confidence. This is rooted in the concept of hypergamy, where women are instinctively drawn to higher-status males.
What does the speaker mean by 'speaking down to women'?
-The speaker uses the term 'speaking down to women' to describe a man's behavior when he is perceived as high status and valuable, and thus his words, even if neutral, are seen as valuable and authoritative by women due to his perceived high quality.
Why does the speaker say that women's objections to certain behaviors are hypocritical?
-The speaker claims that women's objections are hypocritical because they do not apply the same standards to all men equally. Instead, their reactions are based on the man's perceived attractiveness and status, rather than the behavior itself.
What is the role of hypergamy in the speaker's explanation of dating dynamics?
-Hypergamy is presented as a driving force behind women's dating preferences, where they are instinctively drawn to men of higher status and value. The speaker uses this concept to explain why certain behaviors are tolerated or rejected based on the man's perceived worth.
Why does the speaker suggest that men should learn to 'speak down to women'?
-The speaker advises men to 'speak down to women' not in a derogatory way, but to project a high-status image that naturally commands respect and admiration, which aligns with women's hypergamous instincts to seek higher-status partners.
What does the speaker imply about the importance of a man's self-improvement in the dating market?
-The speaker emphasizes that self-improvement, including education, character development, and social circle enhancement, is crucial for men to become high-quality individuals who can naturally attract women through their perceived value and status.
How does the speaker view the role of physical appearance in attraction?
-While physical appearance is mentioned, the speaker focuses more on the importance of status, confidence, and perceived value in attraction, suggesting that these factors are more influential than mere looks.
What is the speaker's stance on the idea of men pedestalizing women?
-The speaker is against the idea of men pedestalizing women, as it can lead to a lack of attraction due to the absence of masculinity, confidence, and leadership qualities that women may seek.
Why does the speaker recommend men to observe the behavior of men who are successful with women?
-The speaker suggests that observing successful men can provide insight into how women react differently to men of higher perceived status, which can help other men understand the dynamics of attraction and dating.
Outlines
👑 The Paradox of Attraction and Male Behavior
This paragraph discusses the intriguing phenomenon where a woman may receive compliments and attention from many men, yet she is drawn to the one who shows disinterest. It challenges the notion that certain behaviors are inherently unattractive, arguing instead that it's the man himself who is perceived as unattractive, not his actions. The speaker emphasizes that societal 'rules' about interacting with women are not universal and are often based on personal insecurities and a lack of self-awareness. The paragraph also touches on the hypocrisy in how women react differently to the same behavior depending on the man's perceived attractiveness or status, suggesting that there is a double standard at play.
🙅♀️ The Hypocrisy in Women's Reactions to Male Advances
The second paragraph delves into the frustration men face when their advances are met with hostility, not because of the behavior itself, but due to the man's perceived 'low value.' It discusses the evolutionary basis for women's behavior, known as hypergamy, where they seek to associate with high-status men to improve their social standing. The speaker argues that women's rejections are not about the behavior but about the man's perceived worth. It also addresses the societal denial of this dynamic, where women may not admit to their preferences openly, instead framing interactions in terms of sexism or male entitlement to avoid appearing discriminatory.
🕺 The Importance of High-Status Behavior in Attraction
This paragraph emphasizes the importance of men presenting themselves as high-status individuals to be successful in the dating market. It explains that women are drawn to men who exude confidence and leadership, which are signs of high quality and potential mates. The speaker advises men to 'speak down' to women, not in a derogatory manner, but from a position of authority and experience. This approach is said to satisfy women's hypergamous instincts, making them feel valued and attracted to the man. The paragraph also stresses the need for men to be genuine and not overly cocky, as this can be off-putting and counterproductive in forming meaningful relationships.
💬 Speaking from a Place of Authority in Relationships
The final paragraph continues the theme of high-status behavior, suggesting that men who have developed themselves—cultivating intelligence, character, and social circles—will naturally command respect and attraction from women. It posits that such men will speak from a place of authority and confidence, which aligns with women's hypergamous instincts. The speaker also addresses the potential mismatch between a highly developed man and a less experienced woman, suggesting that the man's maturity and achievements will still make him an attractive partner. The paragraph concludes with a call to action for men to improve themselves and enter the dating market from a position of strength and self-assuredness.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Hypergamy
💡Attraction
💡Status
💡Compliments
💡Double Standards
💡Sexist Comments
💡Trial and Error
💡Confidence
💡Leadership
💡Masculininity
Highlights
A woman may choose a man who shows disinterest over those who shower her with attention.
There are no unattractive male behaviors, only unattractive men.
Men learn about what is acceptable to say and do in front of women through trial and error.
Women's reactions to behavior depend on the man's perceived value, not the behavior itself.
Feminists argue against sexist comments, but some women tolerate them from certain men.
The same comment can be seen as condescending or flirtatious depending on the man.
To attract women, men need to learn the art of speaking down to women without being insulting.
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Leonardo DiCaprio's example shows how status affects women's reactions to comments.
Women's objections to comments are often due to the man's perceived value, not the comment itself.
Women's rejections are about the man's inherent quality, not his behavior.
Hypergamy is a natural instinct for women to seek high-quality partners.
Men should not pedestalize women; it makes them unattractive.
Confident men who know their worth speak in a way that satisfies women's hypergamy.
Men should work with hypergamy to become the highest quality version of themselves.
Men should aim for high-quality women and speak with authority and confidence.
The speaker offers a paid course on understanding women and their psychology.
Transcripts
I heard someone say it's so crazy how a
woman can walk into a room with 10
different guys showering her with
compliments telling her how beautiful
and amazing she is offering her
everything they got treating her like an
absolute Queen then all of a sudden this
is 11th guy who simply just walks in
says hi to her turns his back and go
talks to his voice and surprisingly
that's the guy the woman will choose
there are no unattractive male behaviors
they're just unattractive men I'm just
gonna repeat that so it sinks in there
are no unattractive male behaviors there
are only unattractive men as you go
through life you learn what is
acceptable to say and do in front of
women through a painful process of trial
and error like it's okay to flirt with
women a little bit to be like a little
bit cocky and they enjoy that but if you
push it too far then they get angry and
so you have to scale it back you realize
okay women like it up to this point but
then after that point women don't like
it and those are the rules of women
wrong that's not the right conclusion to
reach you haven't actually discovered
any fundamental Prince principles about
women in your whole process of trial and
error you've actually just been learning
about yourself it's not a case of when
you push it too far women don't like it
it's that you've pushed it too far and
women won't tolerate that behavior from
you no unattractive male behaviors just
unattractive men this is why when
feminists talk about how outrageous it
is to make sexist comments in front of
women it often Rings very Hollow I know
this doesn't apply to all women so Props
to you high quality women who have some
integrity and consistency but for lots
of women they hold complete double
standards in that they will tolerate
certain behaviors certain comments from
some men and then harshly punish it
coming from others the exact same
comment can be considered condescending
when coming from one man but flirtatious
and fun when coming from another if you
want to become attractive to women you
want to get yourself a girlfriend then
you need to learn the art of speaking
down to women it's very easy to
misunderstand what I'm going to talk
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yourself attractive by talking down to
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alright back to the video I want you to
imagine this scenario Leonardo DiCaprio
is out at some club and he sees some
girl and he approaches her she's pretty
she's wearing like a club kind of outfit
and he says wow you're showing off so
much skin you've got a great body the
girl looks at Leonardo DiCaprio's like
oh my God he's talking to me so she
laughs and Giggles is like yeah thanks
in her head she's screaming I can't
believe I just got complimented by
Leonardo DiCaprio but two weeks earlier
some nervous shy ugly low value man had
approached her in a similar club and
said you have a really nice body
her response to that was what the [ __ ] I
can't believe he just said that to me
that is so insulting and degrading but
just
one more time for those people in the
back who really haven't let the message
sink in yet there are no unattractive
male behaviors there are only
unattractive men and by unattractive I
don't just mean in terms of looks I mean
in terms of status confidence money
unattractive could just mean that you're
lacking sufficient masculinity to
sexually polarize the women that you're
speaking to and generate that attraction
but my point is is that when you're
attractive different rules apply the
attractive guy is flirting and making
you know some cocky comments and the
woman's loving it but if he's
unattractive it's like oh my God I can't
believe you said that to me how dare you
that's so sexist those objections saying
that like those comments are degrading
to all women it rings Hollow because
that is a principle that's not applied
consistently across the board to all men
again not talking about all women I'm
not saying all women do this again shout
out to those high quality women who have
some Integrity but it happens a lot and
as always with these things it's
frustrating not simply because it's
occurring like that we can actually kind
of understand I'll talk about that in a
moment but it's the denial that this is
occurring you know women's absolute lack
of accountability for their own
hypocrisy what she claims is offensive
isn't because you can't make certain
comments as a man to a woman it's
because she has deemed you to be a low
value man you're not in her league if
she sees a man and she thinks I'm better
than him I'm above him you know I'm more
valuable I'm higher quality and he has
the audacity to like comment on her
clothes or her appearance her response
is like looking down with disgust with
contempt like how dare you comment on my
clothes Alfred Chad you know Pinnacle
high quality guy like yeah you can
comment on my clothes I'm just grateful
to have your attention but you low value
man down there any comments you make
you're just being a creep the why is
this well I've covered this on the
channel before and also a lot on my
patreon but essentially it comes back to
evolutionary reasons women are trying to
present themselves to be as high quality
as possible so that they can get with
the top man in their tribe you know
that's her hypergamy I want him to think
of me as an equal partner and she's
worried that if some low value Guy
starts chatting to her and hitting on
her you know thinking that he has a
chance with her if she entertains that
you know if she buys into that reality
then she's worried that she's going to
be diminished in the eyes of the high
quality guy like oh I guess she's not as
desirable partner as I thought she was
and so she's always nervous that the
high quality guy is watching these
interactions and that's why she's
especially cruel and punishing in those
rejections from the low value guys like
really insult him get away from me you
creep because she wants to put on a very
powerful demonstration to any onlookers
that says this guy is crazy there's no
way we're in the same league don't think
of me in the same company as him but you
see what I'm saying that her rejection
is really not at all about his behaviors
it's about him it's about his inherent
quality commenting on her appearance
that's fine staring at a woman that's
fine touching a woman that's fine
if you're high value enough again sorry
to beat a dead horse not all women but
enough women if they see some really
high status celebrity guy staring her
from across the room and then he walks
over and he comments on her clothing and
then he puts his arm on the small of her
back and sort of leads her around the
room she's gonna be thrilled even though
he's broken well-established social
taboos that all men have been told that
you shouldn't do to women it's different
when she finds him attractive that's the
operating principle here but then why
not just be honest about what's going on
why do women not just admit that they
don't like being hit on by low value men
that's actually what's going on why is
the conversation always about sexism
about male entitlement why do they make
it seem Universal like the enemy is
always this toxic masculinity it's
because women don't really want to
defend the idea of putting men into
different categories because it sounds
bad because it is bad you can imagine
how ridiculous it would be if you had a
bunch of women without on the street you
know protesting holding placards trying
to end sexism when it's coming from low
value men we're protesting against the
fact that these low-value guys think
that there are equals we yeah we want
all the low value men to know their
place that doesn't sound good that's
hard to sell and so it all happens
behind closed doors like the low value
men don't actually understand how
different a woman acts when she's around
a guy of really high status it's one of
the reasons why I've given the advice on
this channel that if you want to learn
about women you really want to see
unfiltered raw into the psyche of a
woman and what guides her behavior what
guides her attraction then you've got to
make friends with a guy who's been crazy
successful with women you know me I'm
not a fan of male promiscuity I don't
really you know encourage guys to become
like players or [ __ ] boys or whatever
but those guys have access to really
important data because they've seen
things from women that like your sim guy
or your traditional guy he's just never
gonna get to see too many guys form
their opinions about that women and
female psychology and female nature
based a hundred percent of their
interactions with women and they don't
understand just how biased and skewed
all of that data is the same thing
applies in Reverse if you're a really
good looking guy and you're listening to
this and you've never had any trouble
with women then you should spend some
time talking to the guys at the bottom
of the pile and listen to Just how cruel
women can be and of course vice versa if
you're on the bottom of the pile and you
think women are really closed off and
really angry all the time you should see
the way that they open up like a flower
in spring in the sun of some Godly High
status man now here's the thing let's
get into the Nuance now because I'm not
making the case that women shouldn't
necessarily have this double standard
what's you're really seeing operate here
is just hypergamy and I have no problem
with hypergamy it's not something that's
exclusive to human females you see this
in the animal kingdom for all species
right like this is the reason why some
birds make incredible nests or like male
War addresses fight each other or some
species do like a mating dance you know
to try and attract the women they're
trying to show off like I'm the superior
male specimen here sleep with me so that
your children will have my genes that's
what keeps the gene pool thriving it
keeps it healthy it's a good thing that
women are looking up it's a good thing
that women have standards and if you
still doubt me on this one men ask
yourself what do you want for your
future daughter do you want her to have
no standards and treat all men as though
they're exactly the same and her to just
marry the first like loser simp who
comes up to her or do you want her to be
more reserved more conservative and say
hey I'm a high value woman I'm Gonna
Save myself for a guy who genuinely
deserves me an amazing guy who you'd be
proud to have as your son-in-law okay so
hypergamy not the boogeyman that it
sometimes made out to be hypergamy is a
good thing I wish women would be more
honest about it but the the denial of
the hypocrisy aside the Instinct itself
is a good thing but since hypergamy is
the reality do you understand why
earlier in this video I said that men
who want to be successful in the Dane
Market need to learn the art of speaking
down to women now when I said that I'm
not talking in the sort of layman's
terms of speaking down like being a
[ __ ] or just like insulting women
like speaking down to them in that way
when I say speaking down I mean in a
more literal sense of you're placing
yourself very high like you have high
status you're high quality and from that
high place you're speaking down to women
not through intention it's not coming to
you but because people admire you they
respect you they're attracted to you
they're looking up to you it feels as
though every word that you speak which
is just neutral feels like it's coming
from a place up on high when you exist
in that really high place like you're a
really high quality man you'll see
people react to the words that you say
to them as though you're offering gifts
like your compliments are like presence
like charity that you're giving up to
people and they're very very grateful
for a really high status guy he can say
basically nonsense he doesn't even need
to be particularly insightful clever
funny or articulate like if people
perceive him to be attractive enough to
be high value enough they'll just react
to his words as though they're filled
with quality and value like oh my God
I'm so grateful I feel so lucky so
blessed to be listening to this man
again just to reiterate it's not an
intentional thing it's not like you're
setting out to like insult people act
like you're better it's just the natural
conclusion that your audience is going
to reach when they feel in your presence
how high quality you are and this is not
some luxury that you can you know afford
to not cultivate if you're feeling lazy
remember hypergamy remember that whole
kettle of fish okay women only date up
they only date men that they admire so
unless you're giving off that high
quality Vibe she's not going to find you
attractive women do not date men who
pedestalize them if you've got a man who
like looks up to women and he's viewing
her as some perfect goddess and he's
lucky to be listening to the word she
speaks then she's not going to find him
attractive she's thinking this guy has
no masculinity there's no confidence no
leadership no strength how's he going to
provide for me how's he gonna keep me
safe how am I ever gonna feel protected
in his presence she's not wrong to feel
that way but confident men who know
their worth who know their value and
their quality when they speak it feels
as though they're speaking down to women
and so long as it's not an insulting or
critical way they'd like snowflakes that
just settle gently on a woman's psyche
and satiates her hypergamy that's what
you want women want to date winners
right they're not attracted to low value
men they're not attracted to losers
they're attracted to Winners and so
you've got to speak like a winner a
graceful winner not a cocky [ __ ]
because like hypergamy will operate but
if you're acting like you're better than
everybody the only women you're going to
attract are women are really low
self-esteem on this channel I'm always
trying to get guys to raise their
standards and to shoot for that really
top percentage of women genuinely
feminine kind sweet high quality women
and from that place like yeah you've got
to have that high status and that high
quality but you've got to be graceful
and dignified about it otherwise she's
not going to have time for you to look
at the Cockiness that surrounds you like
all the ego and rightfully conclude that
you've just lost yourself in like an
immature kind of fantasy like you're
still a little boy and she's gonna save
herself for a genuine man who comes
along don't hate hypergamy work with it
my advice in this video is the same
advice I'm always giving on this channel
if you want that high quality girlfriend
then use that desire that you have as
inspiration as motivation to do the work
to become the highest quality possible
version of yourself that means educating
yourself becoming intelligent
cultivating good values and character a
good Social Circle but after you've done
all of that self work can you imagine
what it's going to be like to re-enter
the dating Market when you're at your
Peak when you're at your Pinnacle you
know your 28 years old you've got your
whole future looking really bright it's
all out in front of you you've got great
friends great self-esteem and then you
meet some 24 year old girl who's nice
she's pleasant but basically she's
pretty and that's it she hasn't really
done the work that you've done she
hasn't got the achievement she hasn't
developed the character the values she's
still going to be pleasant to speak to
because she's feminine and kind but do
you see how you're not going to be
intimidated by a woman like that because
she hasn't developed what you have
developed at that stage you're going to
be speaking from a place of authority
and confidence and experience and that's
going to play really well with her
instincts of hypergamy without even
intending to do so you're going to be
speaking down to women and that's what
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