Fear and anxiety of public speaking

Diana Haffar
17 Sept 202008:13

Summary

TLDRIn this instructional video, Diana, the presenter, discusses fear and anxiety related to public speaking. She covers three key points: understanding the causes of fear, building confidence through preparation and practice, and using relaxation techniques like deep breathing to manage stress. Diana emphasizes that feeling nervous is natural, offers personal anecdotes, and reassures viewers that these fears can be controlled. The video concludes by reinforcing the importance of preparation and calming techniques to successfully deliver speeches with confidence.

Takeaways

  • 😊 80% of people experience fear and anxiety when it comes to public speaking, making it a common challenge.
  • 😬 Public speaking anxiety is often fueled by fear of humiliation, fear of judgment by the audience, and insecurities about appearance or performance.
  • 😓 Nervousness before speaking is a result of the brain perceiving public speaking as a threat, causing a release of adrenaline and other stress hormones.
  • 😳 Physical symptoms of anxiety include increased heart rate, sweating, tense muscles, and difficulty speaking clearly.
  • 💡 Recognizing that these fears are not based in reality can help manage and reduce anxiety.
  • 📚 Preparation is key to overcoming public speaking anxiety. Knowing your audience, understanding your purpose, and being familiar with your topic are crucial.
  • 🎤 Practice is essential for building confidence. The more you rehearse, the less likely you are to make mistakes during the actual speech.
  • 🧘‍♂️ Relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing and visualization, can help calm nerves and lower adrenaline levels before a presentation.
  • 🌬️ A recommended breathing exercise is to inhale deeply through the nose, hold for a few seconds, and exhale slowly through the mouth, repeating several times to relax.
  • 🎯 The three main strategies to reduce public speaking anxiety: understanding the fear, preparing thoroughly, and practicing relaxation techniques.

Q & A

  • What is the main topic of the presentation?

    -The main topic of the presentation is fear and anxiety of public speaking, and how to overcome these feelings.

  • What are the three main points covered in the presentation?

    -The three main points are: understanding fear and anxiety of public speaking, building confidence through preparation, and learning relaxation techniques to reduce stress.

  • What percentage of people are afraid of public speaking according to studies?

    -Studies indicate that 80% of people are afraid of public speaking.

  • What is a common misconception people have when they feel afraid of public speaking?

    -A common misconception is that they might be humiliated or made fun of by the audience, or that they are inadequately prepared or unfamiliar with the topic.

  • What physiological changes occur when someone feels fear or anxiety before a speech?

    -When someone feels fear or anxiety, adrenaline levels rise, leading to increased heart rate, higher blood pressure, stiff muscles, and sweating. These symptoms are caused by the brain sensing perceived danger.

  • How can preparation help reduce fear of public speaking?

    -Preparation helps by making the speaker more confident. Knowing the audience, purpose, location, and practicing the speech beforehand helps reduce anxiety and prevent mistakes during the presentation.

  • What are some causes of public speaking anxiety?

    -Causes include fear of humiliation, insecurity about appearance, lack of preparation, and unfamiliarity with the topic.

  • What is a key technique to manage anxiety during a speech?

    -A key technique is practicing deep breathing. This involves closing your eyes, inhaling deeply through your nose, holding the breath for a few seconds, and exhaling slowly through the mouth.

  • Why is it important to practice a speech before delivering it?

    -Practicing a speech builds confidence and ensures that the speaker is familiar with the content, reducing the chances of making mistakes during the actual presentation.

  • What is the final takeaway message from the presentation?

    -The final message is that fear and anxiety of public speaking are natural, but through preparation, practice, and relaxation techniques, these feelings can be controlled and managed.

Outlines

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🎤 Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking

The instructor, Diana, introduces the topic of fear and anxiety related to public speaking, discussing the prevalence of this fear, which affects 80% of people. She highlights that fear is common, even sharing her own experience of overwhelming fear when giving her first lecture. Diana explains that this fear stems from feelings of insecurity, fear of humiliation, and lack of preparation, but emphasizes that these feelings are not based on real danger, and can be managed with proper understanding and techniques.

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📝 Preparation and Practice: Keys to Confidence

Diana emphasizes the importance of preparation and practice in overcoming fear. She explains that understanding the audience, purpose, and context of the presentation helps build confidence. She stresses that practicing repeatedly is crucial to delivering a successful speech. Being familiar with the topic or researching thoroughly also contributes to feeling more secure when speaking. Despite this preparation, panic may still arise, so Diana introduces the concept of breathing exercises and visualization as ways to calm nerves and reduce the physical symptoms of anxiety.

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Keywords

💡Fear of Public Speaking

Fear of public speaking refers to the anxiety or fear that individuals feel when they have to speak in front of others. This is a central theme in the video, as the speaker notes that 80% of people experience this fear. The fear often stems from the worry of being humiliated or judged by the audience, and it can manifest in physical symptoms such as a fast heartbeat or sweating.

💡Anxiety

Anxiety is the feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease about something with an uncertain outcome, in this case, public speaking. The video discusses how anxiety can cause a range of physical reactions like increased adrenaline, fast heartbeat, and tension, which are often irrational and based on perceived rather than real threats.

💡Confidence Building

Confidence building refers to the process of increasing one's belief in their abilities, particularly in public speaking. In the video, the speaker emphasizes the importance of preparation and practice as ways to build confidence. By preparing well and practicing multiple times, a speaker can feel more secure and less anxious about their presentation.

💡Preparation

Preparation is the process of planning and organizing content for a presentation. The speaker highlights that one of the key strategies to overcoming the fear of public speaking is thorough preparation, which includes knowing your audience, understanding the purpose of the presentation, and being familiar with the topic. This helps in reducing uncertainty and boosts confidence.

💡Relaxation Techniques

Relaxation techniques are methods used to calm the mind and body before a public speaking event. The video suggests techniques such as deep breathing and visualization to help reduce stress. For example, taking deep breaths and thinking of a calm place can help lower adrenaline levels, reducing anxiety.

💡Adrenaline

Adrenaline is a hormone that is released in response to fear or stress, causing the body to react with a 'fight or flight' response. In the context of public speaking, adrenaline can cause symptoms like a racing heartbeat, sweating, and muscle tension. The speaker explains that these reactions are natural but can be managed with preparation and relaxation techniques.

💡Perception of Danger

Perception of danger refers to the brain's response to situations it deems threatening, even if there is no real physical threat. The video discusses how public speaking often triggers this perception, leading the brain to release adrenaline. However, the speaker reassures that this perceived danger is not real and can be controlled.

💡Practice

Practice refers to rehearsing a speech or presentation multiple times before delivering it. The speaker stresses that practicing can significantly reduce fear by making the speaker more familiar with their content, improving delivery, and reducing the chances of making mistakes. Practice builds confidence and reduces anxiety during the actual presentation.

💡Humiliation

Humiliation is the feeling of shame or embarrassment, often triggered by the belief that others are judging or mocking. In the video, one of the reasons for public speaking anxiety is the fear of humiliation, where the speaker worries that the audience will mock or criticize their performance or appearance.

💡Audience Awareness

Audience awareness involves understanding who you are speaking to and tailoring your speech accordingly. The speaker in the video emphasizes that knowing your audience helps reduce anxiety, as it allows you to prepare content that resonates with them, making you feel more confident and reducing the fear of negative reactions.

Highlights

Introduction to fear and anxiety in public speaking, a common experience among many individuals.

80% of people are afraid of public speaking, and some fear it more than having a heart attack.

Fear of public speaking is natural, even experienced speakers and teachers have felt this way at the beginning.

Reasons for public speaking anxiety include fear of humiliation, uncertainty about appearance, lack of preparation, and unfamiliarity with the topic.

Fear is largely psychological, with the brain reacting as though there is a physical danger, triggering adrenaline and physical symptoms.

Understanding that public speaking fear is not based on real danger helps in controlling the anxiety.

Preparation is key: knowing your audience, understanding the purpose, and being familiar with the topic are vital steps to control anxiety.

Practicing your speech multiple times can significantly reduce mistakes and build confidence.

Choose a topic you are comfortable with, or if unfamiliar, do thorough research to build confidence.

Relaxation techniques like controlled breathing can reduce physical symptoms of anxiety before a speech.

Controlled breathing involves inhaling slowly through the nose, holding it, and exhaling through the mouth while keeping eyes closed.

Thinking of a pleasant place or memory while breathing can also help reduce anxiety levels.

Public speaking anxiety may not disappear completely, but with preparation and practice, it becomes manageable.

Summarized key points: understanding public speaking fear, building confidence through preparation and practice, and using relaxation techniques.

Closing remarks: speech review and encouragement to use the discussed techniques for better public speaking experiences.

Transcripts

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good afternoon everyone and welcome to

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your first recorded video for this

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semester

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and this is me your instructor diana and

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i'll be talking today about fear and

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anxiety of public speaking

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now my presentation today will tackle

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three important ideas

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first i'll talk about what is fear and

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anxiety of public speaking

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and the reasons behind them then i'll

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talk about building your confidence

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in preparation for your speeches and

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then i will end my presentation with

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some relaxing techniques that you might

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follow and help reduce the stress you

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get

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before you present so let me start with

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the first point which is

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understanding fear anxiety of public

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speaking and why they happen

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and i'll start with a shocking fact that

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studies indicate

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80 percent of people are afraid of

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public speaking

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that's right 80 percent of people are

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afraid

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of standing in front of others and

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present and sometimes they are more

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afraid of talking

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in public than having heart attacks

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which is quite shocking

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but it's true what i want to say in here

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that if you're feeling afraid or a bit

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anxious about your coming speech

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it is quite natural we all share this

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kind of fear

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even me i can give you an example from

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my own

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personal experience i remember when i

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started teaching

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and i was about to give my first speech

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to a class of students

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that was the time when dinosaurs were

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still wandering the earth

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so i remember my class was big i did not

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know the class would be that big and i

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remember standing in front of others

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completely overwhelmed by fear my heart

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was about to jump out of my chest

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i could hear my heart beating my head i

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was in complete panic

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i was sweating i couldn't hear

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sounds clearly but then i started to

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understand my fear and anxiety i started

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to understand

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why it happens and i learned then some

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techniques

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on how to control it so let's talk about

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it let's say

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why this fear of um

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standing in front of others why actually

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it happens

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there are different reasons for it one

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of the reasons is because

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you feel you will be humiliated by your

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audience

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in other words you might be the center

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of jokes

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you feel that your audience might

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and make fun of you because of what

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you're saying

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or because the way you're saying it

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sometimes

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it is related to the way you appeal

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you're not really sure about your

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appearance and whether it is suitable

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for a speech or not

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so this feeling of insecurity kind of

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gets

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through you and you are again afraid of

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speaking in public third one is because

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of lack of preparation

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sometimes you choose something and you

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prepare a presentation or a speech

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but you are not well practiced you

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haven't practiced it at all

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so you feel afraid because of that uh

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another reason is because of the topic

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itself

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maybe you're not really that familiar

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with the topic

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and because of that you feel you can't

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really say a lot about it

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so you're standing there and you have

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that feeling that everybody knows

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in the room that you really don't know

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what you're talking about

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but remember it's not real it is

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all not real it's only in your head your

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brain

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is sensing this kind of danger because

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you are sending this signal that you are

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afraid and afraid

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and because of that your brain feel that

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they need or it needs to protect you

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so it releases these uh hormones and

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chemicals into your body

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uh adrenaline level becomes really high

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in your body

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so your um your heartbeats become faster

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your blood pressure becomes higher all

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your muscles are

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stiff even your your tongue is unable to

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move

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you're sweating your brain is sensing

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that there is a danger

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and that's why it puts you through it

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but remember

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again it's not real there's no real

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danger outside

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you're not going to die because of your

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speech nobody is going to

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attack you literally because of your

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speech

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it is just something that your brain

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is projecting onto you and you feel

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all of these uh kind of symptoms because

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of it

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so it's not real in other words whatever

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you're feeling

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is not real that's why you can control

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it

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so how can you control it how can you

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control all of these symptoms

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there are things that you can do and the

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first and the most important thing

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is your presentation itself and i'll

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start with the main thing which is

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preparation you need to prepare

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for your speech preparation includes

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knowing your audience you need to

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understand your audience

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so when you go to the room you

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understand how to deal with them

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you need to know what is the purpose of

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your presentation

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you need to understand why you're

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presenting

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and prepare accordingly and once you

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finish your preparation

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you need to practice it if you don't

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practice your speeches

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before you deliver them you will

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make mistakes so preparation and then

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practice

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preparation includes knowing your

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audience knowing the purpose

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the location the time we talked already

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about it

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and then once you do that you need to

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practice

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practice and practice and practice and

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this

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kind of builds your confidence so that

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when you go to a room to deliver a

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speech

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you're completely confident of what you

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are saying

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make sure that the topic again choosing

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is you're quite familiar with it

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and if you're not familiar with it you

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need to do your research

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so again preparation how can we

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help with these symptoms like literally

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because we cannot deny that we're still

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in panic

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that your heartbeats are still high

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that's still fast

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your high blood blood pressure is still

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high how can you

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help with that there are some relaxing

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techniques

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that you can follow and they can be

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quite helpful

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first one is about breathing

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it's really important to learn how to

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breathe well

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so before your speech if you feel like

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you're getting into this

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kind of panic so close your eyes

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and then take a deep breath from your

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nose

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okay inhale the air slowly

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like this and then hold it one two

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seconds

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and then release the air exhale through

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your mouth

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and repeat that two

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three four times and do it while your

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eyes are closed

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and it's a good exercise to think of

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something you

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really like before you start your speech

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so while you're breathing slowly think

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of a place you really love

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think of something funny that will get

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you

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out of this status otherwise the

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adrenaline level will still be high in

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your body

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and you will still feel you know

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anxious and afraid well i talked today

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for a long time

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i hope that my speech was clear

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i'll just remind you again about what we

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talked today about we talked about

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what is fear and anxiety of public

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speaking

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we talked about gaining confidence

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by being prepared by practicing and then

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some relaxing techniques to help you

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with stress

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have a great day and thank you very much

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