Haruskah Kita Selalu Berkompromi?

Malaka Project
6 Sept 202408:03

Summary

TLDRThe speaker reflects on societal and personal compromises, starting with their own experience of color blindness limiting opportunities in Indonesia's medical field, unlike other countries. They discuss broader issues, like compromises in daily life that hinder self-growth, such as career choices influenced by societal pressure or personal doubt. Using examples from their journey in online content creation and as a former driver, the speaker emphasizes that not all compromises are necessary. They encourage viewers to recognize and avoid compromising on things that limit potential, advocating for self-development and perseverance.

Takeaways

  • 🔴 Color blindness restrictions exist in Indonesia for fields like medicine and certain jobs, which the speaker finds limiting.
  • 🌍 Most countries, such as Japan, the USA, the UK, Canada, and Singapore, do not impose color blindness requirements for studying or working in medicine or even becoming a pilot.
  • 🧠 The speaker emphasizes how compromise can often lead to missed opportunities or accepting unnecessary limitations in life.
  • 💼 The speaker reflects on the August 29th demonstration by online drivers demanding better wages and working conditions, illustrating the power of non-compromise in seeking justice.
  • 🚶‍♂️ Personal compromises, such as pursuing a career path to please others, can lead to long-term dissatisfaction and missed potential.
  • 📱 The speaker regrets shifting focus from YouTube to SoundCloud, missing out on opportunities, and realizes that self-imposed limits are unnecessary.
  • 🎓 Age should not be a barrier to learning new skills or pursuing different opportunities; the speaker reflects on how compromising with this mindset delayed growth.
  • 🎸 Mastery in skills like playing music or filmmaking requires persistence and should not be compromised with unrealistic expectations of immediate success.
  • ⚖️ The speaker encourages a mindset of not compromising on things that hinder self-development, growth, or achieving full potential.
  • 💬 The speaker invites the audience to reflect on and share areas where they can stop compromising to maximize their own potential and reach their dreams.

Q & A

  • What is the main topic discussed in the script?

    -The main topic revolves around the limitations imposed on individuals with color blindness in Indonesia when pursuing certain educational fields and careers, particularly in medicine, and how such restrictions are not universal in other countries.

  • Why was the speaker personally affected by the color blindness restriction in Indonesia?

    -The speaker is colorblind and wanted to study medicine but discovered that being colorblind disqualified him from entering the field in Indonesia. This led him to research and find that such restrictions don't exist in many other countries.

  • What did the speaker learn from his research about color blindness restrictions globally?

    -The speaker found that in many countries like Japan, the US, the UK, Canada, and even nearby Singapore, colorblind individuals are allowed to pursue careers in medicine and even as pilots, unlike in Indonesia.

  • How did the public respond to the speaker's statements about color blindness restrictions?

    -The public responded positively, with many people becoming more aware of the issue and some calling for further research and escalation of the topic.

  • What is the speaker's perspective on compromise in life, based on the script?

    -The speaker reflects on how people often compromise their opportunities due to unnecessary limitations or external pressures. He questions the value of compromising in situations where it hinders personal growth or potential.

  • How does the speaker connect the concept of compromise to the protests by online drivers?

    -The speaker mentions the protests by online drivers in Indonesia who demanded better wages and working conditions. He admires their refusal to compromise on what they believe is unjust treatment, drawing a parallel to how people should stand up for fair conditions.

  • What example does the speaker give about missing opportunities due to self-imposed compromises?

    -The speaker recalls how he shifted focus from YouTube to SoundCloud in the early 2010s, missing the chance to grow as a YouTuber. He compromised his potential by assuming he was too old or incapable of learning new skills, which he later regretted.

  • What does the speaker believe about learning and trying new things at any age?

    -The speaker emphasizes that age should not be a barrier to learning new skills or exploring new opportunities, and that compromising on self-development is unnecessary.

  • How does the speaker view the process of learning new skills?

    -The speaker believes that learning is a gradual process, where initial attempts might not be perfect, but growth and improvement are possible over time. He highlights that compromising on this process can stifle potential.

  • What message does the speaker want to convey to the audience about compromise and personal potential?

    -The speaker encourages the audience to avoid unnecessary compromises, especially when it comes to personal growth, learning, and pursuing new opportunities. He believes that refusing to compromise on important things can unlock higher potential in life.

Outlines

00:00

🔍 Exploring Color Blindness Restrictions in Education and Careers

The speaker begins by discussing how color blindness, which they personally experience, restricts access to certain fields of study and professions, such as medicine, in Indonesia. This led them to investigate whether similar restrictions exist globally. They found that in many developed countries, including Japan, the U.S., the U.K., Canada, and Singapore, there are no such barriers, and individuals with color blindness can pursue careers as doctors or even pilots. The speaker shares their frustration with the limitations in Indonesia and highlights how their public remarks on this issue have sparked positive responses, encouraging further research and advocacy for change.

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💡 Reflecting on Compromise and Its Role in Life Choices

The speaker shifts the focus to the broader topic of compromise, using recent events such as online driver protests in Indonesia as an example. The drivers, fighting for fair wages and better working conditions, demonstrate a refusal to compromise on basic rights and fairness. The speaker reflects on how, in daily life, people often compromise in ways that hinder their personal growth, such as settling for choices influenced by societal or familial pressure. They argue that compromising in situations where it isn’t necessary, especially when it comes to self-development or pursuing passions, can limit one's potential.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Color Blindness

Color blindness is the inability to distinguish certain colors, commonly red and green. In the video, the speaker highlights how this condition prevents people from pursuing certain educational or career paths in Indonesia, such as becoming a doctor, despite not being a requirement in many other countries like Japan, the U.S., and Canada. This concept relates to the broader theme of restrictions based on outdated or unnecessary conditions.

💡Compromise

Compromise is the act of making concessions or accepting limitations. In the video, the speaker reflects on how people often compromise opportunities due to external pressures or self-imposed limitations. They argue that compromise is not always necessary and can hold individuals back from reaching their potential, using personal experiences and societal examples to illustrate this point.

💡Opportunities

Opportunities refer to favorable circumstances that allow people to achieve success or personal growth. The speaker emphasizes how individuals sometimes forgo opportunities due to unnecessary compromises, like not pursuing a career in medicine because of color blindness or abandoning creative endeavors due to societal pressure.

💡Career Restrictions

Career restrictions are limitations placed on certain professions, often due to outdated or unfair standards. The speaker points out that in Indonesia, people with color blindness face such restrictions, particularly in fields like medicine and aviation. This is contrasted with other countries where these restrictions do not exist.

💡Ojek Drivers' Strike

The ojek drivers' strike is mentioned as an example of a group refusing to compromise on their working conditions. The drivers protested for fair wages and protection against fraudulent orders. This instance is used to illustrate the power of standing firm against unjust conditions and serves as a counterexample to unnecessary compromise.

💡Social Pressure

Social pressure refers to the influence exerted by others that can cause someone to change their behavior or decisions. The speaker discusses how people often compromise their true desires or potential due to pressure from society, friends, or family, such as choosing a career path they are not passionate about to meet external expectations.

💡Self-Limitation

Self-limitation refers to the boundaries people impose on themselves, often out of fear, doubt, or misconceptions. The speaker shares their own experience of self-limitation, where they believed they were too old to learn new skills or return to content creation, only to later realize these were unnecessary mental barriers.

💡Learning and Growth

Learning and growth are presented as essential elements of life. The speaker stresses that compromise should not be made when it comes to personal development. They advocate for a mindset of continual learning, illustrating this with their regret over not pursuing opportunities in content creation earlier in life.

💡YouTube vs. SoundCloud

This comparison is used to illustrate the speaker’s past compromises and decision-making. They shifted focus from YouTube to SoundCloud, predicting the latter's success, but later regretted not continuing on YouTube as it became more prominent. This example ties into the broader theme of missed opportunities due to compromise.

💡Maximizing Potential

Maximizing potential refers to fully utilizing one’s abilities to achieve success. The speaker argues that compromise, whether due to societal pressures or self-imposed limitations, often prevents people from reaching their full potential. They encourage a mindset of non-compromise to help individuals grow and succeed.

Highlights

The speaker shares their personal experience of color blindness affecting their ability to apply for certain educational and job positions in Indonesia.

A small-scale personal research shows that most countries do not impose color blindness restrictions for entering fields like medicine or becoming a pilot, unlike Indonesia.

The speaker reflects on how this issue received positive feedback from the public, with many people becoming more aware and asking for more research on the topic.

The speaker introduces the concept of 'compromise,' discussing how people often compromise opportunities due to limitations that should be re-evaluated.

They compare this to the recent protests by online drivers in Indonesia who demanded fair wages and protection from fraudulent orders, illustrating a refusal to compromise on unjust working conditions.

The speaker reflects on how compromise can be present in everyday life, often preventing people from fully developing their potential.

They mention how people may compromise their life choices due to peer pressure or societal expectations, leading to unsatisfying outcomes.

The speaker emphasizes how social media pressures can lead people to make material or immaterial sacrifices to appear 'cool,' compromising their true self.

An example is given of the speaker’s personal experience with YouTube and SoundCloud, where they initially compromised by choosing SoundCloud over YouTube, missing out on potential opportunities.

They regret not sticking with YouTube content creation earlier, attributing this to a self-imposed compromise based on age and learning new skills.

The speaker stresses that learning and self-development should never be compromised, as they are essential to life.

They argue that the wrong compromises can lead to significant delays in personal growth and success, as it did for them, delaying their content creation efforts for 10 years.

The speaker encourages others not to make the same mistakes and to pursue self-development opportunities without compromising on unnecessary barriers.

The importance of embracing the learning process is emphasized, recognizing that starting any new skill will likely be challenging but worth pursuing.

They conclude by encouraging the audience to evaluate areas in their lives where compromise might be holding them back and share their thoughts in the comments.

Transcripts

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beberapa waktu yang lalu gua sempat

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ngetweet soal adanya syarat gak buta

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warna untuk pendaftaran beberapa bidang

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kuliah ataupun posisi kerja di Indonesia

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gua sendiri kan penderita butawarna ya

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dan waktu itu awalnya gua mau daftar

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kuliah kedokteran dan ternyata enggak

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bisa karena gua buta dan gua baru tahu

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at mau daftar dari situ gua penasaran

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Apakah hambatan ini berlaku universal di

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manapun di seluruh dunia gua akhirnya

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melakukan riset kecil-kecilan dan

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menemukan fakta bahwa ternyata di hampir

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seluruh belahan negara di dunia ini

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tidak berlaku syarat kayak gitu bos jadi

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enggak ada tuh syarat bebas butawarna

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untuk masuk Fakultas Kedokteran jadi

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orang butawarna mau sekolah di Jepang

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Amerika UK Kanada atau beberapa negara

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maju atau yang paling dekat kayak

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Singapura itu bisaisa bisa aja menempuh

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jalur pendidikan atau karir sebagai

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dokter dan bahkan pilot dan sayangnya di

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Indonesia enggak bisa Nah dari sejak isu

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itu gua Kemukakan ke publik banyak

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mendapatkan respon ternyata responnya

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positif banyak orang yang tersadarkan

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banyak orang yang merasa teredukasi

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mulai banyak suara yang minta untuk isu

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ini dieskalasi lebih jauh minta

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penelitian lebih jauh gua berpikir

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banyak Gua merenung gua berkonteplas si

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terus gua jadi kepikiran satu hal dan

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akhirnya itu mengantarkan gua pada satu

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kata yaitu soal kompromi compromise

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compromise now compromise ya lebih

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lengkapnya tentang keputusan kita untuk

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berkompromi dengan sesuatu jadi gini

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seringkiali kita mengkompromikan

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hilangnya kesempatan karena adanya

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sesuatu batasan yang mungkin seharusnya

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enggak perlu ada atau setidaknya perlu

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dievaluasi lagi Baiknya gimana baru-baru

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ini seperti yang kita lihat tanggal 20 9

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Agustus kemarin Gua ngelihat gimana para

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driver ojek online demo buat menuntuk

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beberapa hal terkait kondisi kerja

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mereka antara lain soal upah dan jaminan

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pesanan biar enggak kena order fiktif

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yang memberikan kerugian yang sangat

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besar buat

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mereka harus mendapat keadilan harus

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mendapat e jawaban yang pasti buat kita

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semua kita mendapat Argo yang pantas

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untuk para driver karena kita punya

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keluarga di rumah yang harus kita kasih

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makan itu a gua sebagai orang yang

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pernah jadi driver taksi online kurang

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lebih 2 Seteng tahun ya benar-benar

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tersentuh melihat hal ini karena gerakan

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mereka itu nunjukin banget Yang namanya

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semangat Enggak pakai kompromi dari para

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driver buat kondisi kerja yang mereka

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pikir penuh dengan ketidakadilan Jadi

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mereka berusaha untuk mengupayakan hal

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yang mereka pikir bisa ditingkatkan dan

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lebih manusiawi lagi dan layak untuk

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kesejahteraan mereka gitu Setelah gua

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Amati dan pertimbangkan lagi ya masalah

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mengkompromikan sesuatu itu ada juga di

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berbagai macam hal kecil sehari-hari di

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sekitar kita yang kelihatannya mungkin

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si simpel tapi sebenarnya bisa

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menghambat kita buat benar-benar

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berkembang dan memaksimalkan semua

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potensi yang kita miliki teman-teman

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salah satunya nih yang paling sering gua

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temuin kasusnya orang kadang jadi

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kompromi dengan apa yang sebenarnya bisa

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dia lakukan atau dia capai dalam

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hidupnya karena pleasure dari orang

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sekitar Mungkin aja ya lu jadi buru-buru

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ngambil satu pilihan karena ngerasa

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ketinggalan dari teman seumuran lu atau

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lu enggak ngambil jalur yang sesuai

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dengan minat dan bakat Lu karena tekanan

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dari orang lain atau orang tua atau

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lingkungan sekitar lu yang pengin lu

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ngambil jalan yang lain yang mana

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sebenarnya jalan lain itu lu benar-benar

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enggak minat lu benar-benar enggak tahu

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dan lu enggak benar-benar Enggak

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tertarik atau lagi lu hidup jadi penuh

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dengan kepura-puraan di media sosial dan

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untuk memenuhi kepura-puraan itu lu

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melakukan hal-hal yang merugikan diri lu

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sendiri baik secara material maupun

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inmaterial untuk apa ya supaya

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orang-orang nganggap lu keren Jadi lu

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mengkompromikan sesuatu yang sebenarnya

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enggak benar dan enggak harus

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dikompromitkan tapi tekanan-tekanan ini

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akhirnya mengantarkan lu ke kondisi yang

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benar-benar tidak menguntungkan lu sama

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sekali gitu contohnya gini kalau kalian

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lihat channel YouTube gua pribadi itu

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kan udah mulai dari tahun 2010 ya ya kan

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dan gua waktu itu sudah ngelihat YouTube

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ini sebagai potensi di masa depan dan

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akhirnya gua mulai bikin konten 1 2 3

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konten dan lumayan naik waktu itu terus

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gua kenal SoundCloud gua pindah ke

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SoundCloud dan gua lihat Kayaknya lebih

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baik gua fokus di SoundCloud nih

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SoundCloud ini bakal jadi something

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ternyata prediksi gua salah dan itu

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akhirnya nguap gitu aja on the other

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hand YouTube itu semakin berkembang

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berkembang berkembang Bang mulai jadi

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lapangan pekerjaan mulai muncul konten

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kator influencer youtuber dan lain

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sebagainya dan waktu itu gua melihat itu

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kesal Andai gua waktu itu serius ngonten

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di YouTube dan kekesalan itu akhirnya

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gua manifestokan kepada bentuk kompromi

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gua terhadap situasi Oh ya udahlah

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karena karena gua udah tua gua ngerasa

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udah bukan umurnya gua enggak bisa

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belajar skill set yang baru gua engak

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bisa belajar untuk bikin konten e gua

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punya batasan yang mana seb arnya

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batasan itu datang dari kepala gua

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sendiri nih enggak ada ceritanya lu umur

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25 26 enggak bisa mempelajari hal yang

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baru gitu tapi di situ waktu itu

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tertanam di kepala gua karena gua harus

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berkompromi dengan keadaan gua

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berkompromi dengan pekerjaan gua

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berkompromi dengan realita yang harus

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gua hadapi yang mana sebenarnya di dalam

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situasi itu gua lupa kalau namanya

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belajar sesuatu atau mencoba hal yang

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baru lu enggak harus berkompromi atas

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apapun gitu karena esensi sebenarnya

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hidup itu kan soal belajar dan akhirnya

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keputusan kompromi yang keliru ini

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membuat gua membuang waktu sampai dengan

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10 tahun untuk mulai ngonten di media

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sosial jadi gua baru mulai lagi 2020

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Andai gua enggak terikat dan terkurung

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sama kompromi yang abstrak ini Andai gua

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dari awal udah ya udah Kenapa gua harus

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berkompromi toh ini bukan sesuatu yang

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harus dikompromikan minat belajar

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mengembangkan diri self development

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mencoba peruntungan yang baru mengambil

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opportunity Kenapa gua harus

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berkompromis soal itu mungkin kalian

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mengenal gua jauh lebih cepat daripada

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hari ini tapi ya sudah itu bagian dari

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proses belajar dan karena gua ah pernah

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ngalamin gua enggak mau Kalian juga

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ngalamin hal yang sama jadi ya sikap

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yang enggak pakai kompromi itu

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sebenarnya bukan sesuatu yang buruk dan

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bahkan cenderung harus lu ambil di

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berbagai Kesempatan dalam kehidupan Lu

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karena apa Karena akhirnya sikap inilah

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yang akan mengantarkan lu ke stage atau

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ke level hidup selanjutnya dan itu

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terjadi sama gua dan gua enggak mau

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kalian Mengulangi kesalahan yang sama

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yang gua lakukan sebelumnya Nah itu baru

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satu contohnya aja nih di luar itu tentu

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ada banyak banget SK lainnya yang ketika

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orang baru mulai belajar dia bakal

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terbata-bata atau bakal buat barir untuk

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ngelakuin hal tersebut ngerasa dia

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enggak bisa ngerasa dia terlambat dan

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lain sebagainya nah misalnya Orang baru

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belajar main alat musik atau orang yang

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baru belajar bikin film hasilnya

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kemungkinan besar enggak akan bisa

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langsung bagus banget lu enggak akan

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bisa sampai di levelnya Jo Satriani

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ketika lu baru belajar main gitar gitu

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atau lu enggak akan bisa bikin film

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sebagus stoper Nolan ketika lu baru

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belajar kamera dan itulah proses ya kan

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tapi mereka bisa aja sebenarnya punya

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potensi yang

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besar banget untuk menjadi seseorang

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yang hebat dan potensi ini bisa terus

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meredup dan hilang kalau kita

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terus-terusan berkompromi dengan sesuatu

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yang sebenarnya menghambat perkembangan

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diri kita cobalah kalian lihat hal-hal

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di sekitar kalian seberapa banyak

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hal-hal bodoh dan merugikan yang kita

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sebagai masyarakat sudah terlalu lama

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kompromikan gitu Padahal dampak buruknya

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jelas dan bikin kita sulit berkembang

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dan untuk hal-hal yang menghambat kita

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ini harusnya kita enggak pakai kompromi

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bapak ibu semua karena dengan enggak

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pakai kompromi lu bisa memaksimalkan

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potensi lu ke level tertingginya sikap

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kayak gini itu menurut gua bagus banget

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buat kita budayain bersama baik di level

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individu organisasi pemerintah maupun

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perusahaan atau di Manap pun itu

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terakhir Coba kalian ceritain di kolom

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komentar bentuk enggak pakai kompromi

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versi kalian yang kalian pikir bisa

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memaksimalkan potensi diril lu dan

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wujudin mimpi-mimpi lu silakan tulis di

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kolom komentar di bawah oke itu aja Dari

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Gua semoga konten ini bermanfaat sampai

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jumpa di konten selanjutnya

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