RULE ZERO: Too Much, Too Fast?
Summary
TLDRThe video transcript captures a discussion on the pitfalls of fame and the importance of discretion, particularly for men in the public eye. The hosts share insights on navigating relationships, social media, and personal conduct to avoid career-damaging scandals. They emphasize the need for self-control, the perils of engaging in online battles, and the value of maintaining a low profile to prevent personal and professional mishaps.
Takeaways
- đ The podcast 'Rule Zero' discusses the pitfalls of men gaining fame or fortune too quickly and the subsequent mistakes that can lead to their downfall.
- đ± The internet and social media can amplify personal mistakes, making them public and potentially damaging to one's reputation and career.
- đ€ The importance of discretion and self-control is emphasized, especially when it comes to interactions with the opposite sex and the potential for misunderstandings or misinterpretations.
- đŹ The dangers of engaging in online battles or public disputes, which can often lead to more harm than good, are highlighted.
- đ· The concept of 'savage math' is introduced as a strategy for avoiding unwanted pregnancies and the complications that can arise from them.
- đ€ The value of maintaining a tight-knit and trustworthy circle of friends is underscored, as betrayal can come from unexpected places.
- đ The advice to 'shut the hell up' when faced with controversy or scandal is given, as speaking out can often exacerbate the situation.
- đ The ever-present possibility of being watched or recorded, and the need for constant vigilance in one's actions and words, is discussed.
- đĄïž The use of tactics like 'negative inquiry' and 'negative assertion' as defense mechanisms in social interactions is suggested.
- đ¶ The potential for personal relationships to become complicated, especially when fame or public attention is involved, is noted.
- đ§ The idea that everyone will face 'zeroing out' moments in life, and the importance of how one recovers from these setbacks, is explored.
Q & A
What is the main topic of discussion in the 'Rule Zero' podcast episode?
-The main topic is about individuals, particularly men, who have seen their empires or public reputation crumble due to their own mistakes, often related to inappropriate behavior or decisions, and the lessons that can be learned from these incidents to avoid similar outcomes.
Why did Twitch drop Dr Disrespect?
-Twitch dropped Dr Disrespect because it was discovered that he was texting a minor, a 17-year-old, through the Whisper messaging app on Twitch, which negatively impacted Twitch's image and was considered a severe violation of their platform's rules.
What is the significance of the term 'Too Much Too Fast' in the context of this discussion?
-The term 'Too Much Too Fast' refers to individuals who rapidly gain fame, influence, or power and then make mistakes due to the overwhelming attention and opportunities, leading to the downfall of their careers or reputations.
What advice is given to young men regarding their behavior and decision-making, especially in the digital age?
-Young men are advised to be cautious with their online interactions, to be discreet in their personal lives, and to consider the long-term consequences of their actions, as even minor mistakes can have significant repercussions in the digital age where information is easily accessible and can spread quickly.
What is the 'Jumbotron Rule' mentioned in the script?
-The 'Jumbotron Rule' suggests that one should never communicate anything in a private message that they would not be comfortable having displayed on a public billboard or Jumbotron, as a reminder that privacy is limited and anything shared can potentially become public.
What is the importance of maintaining 'sexual discipline' as discussed in the podcast?
-Maintaining 'sexual discipline' is crucial to avoid getting into trouble with relationships and potential accusations, especially for those in the public eye. It involves being responsible and respectful in sexual encounters and ensuring clear communication and consent.
Why is it suggested that men should 'shut the hell up' when facing accusations or public scrutiny?
-It is suggested because often, defending oneself in public can exacerbate the situation and provide more ammunition for critics. It is generally better to remain silent and let the legal process or time clarify the situation, rather than trying to justify oneself in a public forum which can backfire.
What does the term 'God complex' refer to in this context?
-In this context, a 'God complex' refers to individuals who believe they are above consequences or criticism due to their fame, influence, or perceived invincibility. This can lead to risky behavior and a lack of accountability for their actions.
What is the potential impact of engaging in online battles or arguments when one is in the public eye?
-Engaging in online battles or arguments can lead to increased public scrutiny, potential misinterpretation of one's words, and can often damage one's reputation. It is generally advised to avoid such confrontations and maintain a level of detachment from the online discourse.
What is the advice given for men who are trying to navigate relationships and avoid potential pitfalls?
-The advice includes being cautious with who they engage with, ensuring clear communication and consent, and maintaining control over their personal information and digital footprint. Additionally, men are advised to be aware of potential 'set-ups' where individuals might try to exploit their fame or resources.
Outlines
đïž Live Show Introduction and Topic Discussion
The script begins with the host launching into a live edition of 'Rule Zero,' a show focused on the pitfalls that men face when they make mistakes in the public eye, particularly with their empires crumbling due to their actions. The host introduces the guests, including Jack, John Fitz Smash, and an economist, and they delve into the topic of public figures making grave errors, such as Doc Disrespect's texting scandal with a minor, which led to his ban from Twitch. The conversation highlights the importance of handling mistakes with grace and the impact of the internet on public opinion and personal reputations.
đ„ MMA and the Consequences of Premature Success
This paragraph discusses the dangers of premature success, especially in the world of MMA, where fighters can be pushed into high-stakes matches before they are ready due to hype and audience demand. The discussion extends to other areas, including the potential pitfalls of fame and the importance of discipline, both in and out of the fighting arena. The group also touches on the idea that even minor mistakes can have significant repercussions in the public eye, and the need for public figures to be aware of the potential for their past actions to be scrutinized or used against them.
đ The Perils of Rapid Fame and Public Scrutiny
The conversation shifts to the broader implications of gaining fame or notoriety too quickly, with the host sharing personal anecdotes and discussing the intense scrutiny that comes with being in the public eye. The paragraph explores the idea that everyone has the potential to be famous in today's social media landscape, and the responsibilities that come with it. The group emphasizes the importance of being cautious with one's actions and communications, as even minor indiscretions can have severe consequences when one's life is subject to public opinion.
đ The Downfall of Public Figures Due to Personal Missteps
The script continues with a deeper exploration of public figures who have faced ruin due to personal missteps, such as inappropriate relationships or misconduct. The group discusses the case of Justin Roiland, the creator of 'Rick and Morty,' who faced allegations of texting a minor, leading to his removal from his own creation. The paragraph underscores the importance of understanding the power dynamics in fame and the potential for past actions to resurface and damage one's career and reputation.
đ€ The Importance of Discretion and Legal Advice in Public Life
In this paragraph, the group emphasizes the importance of discretion in public life, especially when dealing with relationships and personal interactions. They discuss the role of legal advice and the pitfalls of ignoring professional guidance in favor of immediate reactions or public justifications. The conversation highlights the need for public figures to maintain a clear and controlled narrative, especially when faced with allegations or scandals.
đź The Impact of Internet Fame and the Changing Landscape of Public Figures
The discussion turns to the impact of internet fame and how it has lowered the barrier for becoming a public figure, with all the associated risks and responsibilities. The group talks about the dangers of oversharing and the importance of managing one's digital footprint, especially for younger individuals who may not fully understand the long-term consequences of their online actions.
đ§ The Paradox of Choice and the Pressures of Public Life
This paragraph delves into the paradox of choice, where having too many options can lead to indecision and potential mistakes. The group discusses how this paradox applies to public figures who may struggle with the pressures of fame and the multitude of choices they face, often leading to poor decisions that can damage their careers and personal lives.
đ The Emotional Toll of Being a Public Figure and the Risks of Cult-like Followings
The script touches on the emotional toll that public life can take on individuals, especially those who have a significant following or are seen as figures of authority. The group discusses the dangers of developing a cult-like following and the pressures that can come with trying to live up to the expectations of an audience that depends on you for guidance or entertainment.
đ€ The Consequences of Reality Distortion and the Importance of Self-Awareness
In this paragraph, the group talks about the concept of reality distortion, where individuals may lose touch with the real-world consequences of their actions due to their fame or perceived invincibility. They discuss the importance of self-awareness and the potential dangers of not recognizing the impact of one's actions on others and oneself.
đ The Risks of Online Interactions and the Importance of Protecting One's Reputation
The script concludes with a discussion on the risks associated with online interactions, especially for public figures. The group emphasizes the need for vigilance in protecting one's reputation and the potential for seemingly harmless online behaviors to have serious repercussions. They also touch on the importance of managing expectations and understanding the power dynamics that come with public life.
Mindmap
Keywords
đĄEmpire
đĄMistake
đĄInternet Fame
đĄSexual Discipline
đĄPublic Opinion
đĄReputation Management
đĄParadox of Choice
đĄCult of Personality
đĄSelf-Sabotage
đĄDiscretion
đĄGossip
đĄAccountability
đĄFrame
đĄSocial Shaming
đĄInfluencer
Highlights
The importance of handling mistakes discreetly, especially in the age of social media where everyone has an opinion on your life.
The discussion on how online personalities often crumble due to minor mistakes and the public's reaction to them.
The concept of 'too much, too fast' and its impact on individuals, particularly in the context of sudden fame or success.
The case of Doc Disrespect, a popular streamer, and the consequences of his actions on Twitch, illustrating the power of public opinion.
The Puritan society's obsession with sex and its influence on public shaming, especially in cases involving minors.
The potential downfall of empires built by individuals who fail to manage their public image and personal conduct.
The paradox of choice and its implications for decision-making, particularly when fame and options become overwhelming.
The role of discretion in maintaining a successful career and personal life, especially when in the public eye.
The impact of social media on the perception of public figures and the potential for reputational damage due to minor indiscretions.
The discussion on the responsibility of public figures to educate themselves on how to handle fame and its pitfalls.
The comparison between the treatment of male and female public figures in the media and the potential for double standards.
The potential for personal relationships to become strained or destroyed due to the pressures of fame and public scrutiny.
The importance of legal advice and the dangers of publicly defending oneself against allegations without proper counsel.
The role of personal discipline in navigating the complexities of fame, particularly in maintaining sexual discipline.
The potential for technology to exacerbate issues of privacy and reputation, with the rise of AI and social media.
The advice for young men on the rise to success, emphasizing the need for caution, discretion, and respect in all interactions.
Transcripts
oh and we're live what's up gentlemen
another edition of rule zero hosted by
me today today we're going to be talking
about guys that step on their own dick
and their Empires crumble right right in
front of everyone and the lessons we
learned from that so that doesn't happen
to us or anyone we care about or anyone
that uh decides to stop being stupid and
uh apply these principles for themselves
so uh today we got Jack we got uh John
John Fitz Smash and we got the greatest
econ Economist that ever lived whoa whoa
on no even iagree yeah there's Williams
yeah who else Thomas soulwell I know
that fluffing you pisses you off more
than making fun of you so like is that
true no there was like that wasn't it
someone spoofing Trump and he said God
he's an all right God Jesus you know
still got caught by the you know by the
Romans could have done a little bit
better in me you know that it's yeah
that I'm not the best Economist ever
that that's uh yeah really sharp
gentleman out there all right so uh guys
uh the reason that I I decided to choose
this topic right it's because we've been
seeing lately especially uh for all
these online personalities that they get
caught up and then they they send the
wrong text or they say the wrong thing
or they you know they're Moto uper Randy
everything they they plate Their
audience or whatever right and they just
keep instead you know because things
[Â __Â ] happens right you're gonna make
mistakes as a guy right but how you deal
with the mistake afterward especially in
the era where everyone has an opinion on
your life and but doesn't know you right
because that's what the internet the
illusion the internet gives to people is
that oh I I see he tweets so I know who
he is as a person personally I know
everything about him um so I I wanted to
first start with uh doct dises ECT right
he's he's a new he's a new main
character that uh of the internet right
now or at least you know kind of like
the video game stuff um so he was a big
stream he's one of the biggest streamers
in video game streamers in the world I
think he has like four million followers
on YouTube and uh he had a he got a deal
with twitch right and I think he
streamed like Call of Duty or whatever
and essentially around 2020 I think
August 20120 twitch drops them like out
of nowhere and for to give you guys
context there have been people that have
had sex on Twitch and only got a 72-hour
ban there have been people that goatsy
on Twitch and they got 72 hour bands
like it's really hard to get Perma
banned from twitch right you have to do
a you have to do something so a lot this
sparked a lot of like people kind of
like Whispering about hey what's what's
gonna H like what did he do you know
maybe he maybe he like uh twitch gave
him a bad deal and he was about to
expose them or I don't know you know
something business related and then it
comes out recently that he was texting a
minor right like a 17-year- old now from
my Hispanic growing up in Latin America
side is like 17 not so bad but you know
brsh White America
yeah uh but the problem is with we are a
Puritan society that's obsessed with sex
so you know uh this is this is wrong
it's illegal but also it's just the core
of public opinion is going to run you
through the coals more than the legal
system here so uh you know instead of
like just taking the L or just
disappearing go ahead key I have a
question sir uh did he knowingly text a
17-year-old uh he has not denied that he
didn't know so yes wait huh wait he had
he has not deny he knew he knew he knew
he knew okay yeah so well the thing is
he was doing it through the Twitch app
called whisper it's like a messaging app
and that made twitch look really bad and
twitch is like hell no we can't do this
he wanted to meet up with her like at
some video game con or something I think
he's married I haven't looked up into
his marital situation but uh yeah now um
he's he's a new main character every
every like week or every month there's a
new main character of the internet where
some guy [Â __Â ] up his Empire it could be
a a famous aist celebrity or he could be
an athlete you know we had like PJ
Washington he was the main character for
a couple months because Britney rener go
ahead Jack confirmed he is married and
she is your type nuke she's Asian yeah
more like uh Mexican Asian
is same thing we all watch Dragon Ball Z
anyway anyway so yeah you can even see I
guess uh John in MMA too you guys you
guys see like guys that [Â __Â ] up [Â __Â ] it
up they're like so close to being great
or they are great and then along comes
with women or they don't have the sexual
discipline and all that stuff and well
in MMA it happens where there's a lot of
hype around a guy who isn't ready for
the upper tier of competition and he
jump he jumps into the deep end
basically too soon because the hype
train is pushing him the fans like him
and they want to they want to see bigger
fights but his skill set isn't isn't
ready yet maybe he's he's only a top 20
guy and they they want him to fight top
five guys and then you throw him into
the the deep end too soon he takes a
couple losses his his career set back
are completely demolished because he
took some big losses and now people
aren't as interested in him okay so
that's like playing what you consider
like playing to your audience just doing
whatever your audience wants wants you
to do and then uh I mean a little bit I
mean uh some of it though is they
believe the hype they get the big head
you know they get a couple big knockouts
and um you know I think there's a guy
right now uh Paul roses Jr I think he's
a he a youngest MMA guy or youngest UFC
fighter he he first fight was like an 18
so he's 18 and he gets a big bunch of
hype around him and then uh he's taken a
loss or two whatever but he's he's he's
stepped back the competition he's not
allowing the hype train to take him away
too much so he he looked really good in
his last fight but he was one of those
guys that that was on the edge and he
could have really screwed his whole crew
up because he's so young and then like
if you're if you're old news by the
before you're 25 years old and you can't
get the fights you need like that your
whole career
s yeah uh you know I would consider that
like kind of doing whatever your
audience wants you to do and that's what
happened to Jordan Peterson like there's
so many examples so we'll go through so
like you know talking about nerd culture
but this like you could see it in like
Alpha Guru culture like Jordan Peterson
right or like Andrew Tater something
like that you could see it um I could
see it in my personal life like I have a
military story where a guy that had
everything going for him decides to make
out with the chick on a military on ship
on a Navy ship right very bad and he he
just hit a high rank and he that's it
his career stops there he can't rank up
anymore and he's done like he's one of
the smartest brightest best bosses I
ever had and just CU he decided to kiss
a mid for 20 seconds gone right go ahead
go ahead with your thesis there nuke but
I do have kind of a an overing question
about it yeah go ahead I'm done
well tell okay uh yeah obviously you
shouldn't be texting 17 year
olds uh but let let's go with basic
human nature male nature uh the guy on
the ship kissed a
girl that is normal male Behavior
uh I have flirt with women uh have you
guys all done perfectly Polished
approaches to women like Troy Francis or
were you drunk one time and and did a a
poor or a bad or even a lwd Approach at
a woman both that's yeah yeah no no in
other words not a single person male
alive has baded a thousand and has has
at least some minor skeletons in their
closet
so isn't in in other words yeah you if
you're married you shouldn't be texted
17 year olds obviously but isn't every
guy this is every guy's at risk of this
is what I'm saying you don't know if
you're like the doctor disrespect did he
know he was going to become doctor I
didn't know I was going to become even
what I am
today and yeah oh I got plenty you know
the number of girls I dated or tried to
date oh yeah I got plenty of
embarrassing stories like is it just a
matter of if you become big enough
someone in you don't even have like look
at Kavanagh you it doesn't have to be
true you could just have some I wish I
could use the words some vile Marxist
politically motivated person try to take
you down for other reasons so it's it's
more like the the variable you got to
worry about is you don't know how big
you're going to become or who you're
going to become in the future so every
young man should to take total heed
especially young about who you're
texting what you're saying etc etc
yeah and that's what we're going to talk
about like it's it's not like always
your fault too sometimes you just living
life you know like there have been times
where you see a celebrity or an athlete
or just and someone that's in the public
eye and someone brings up a thing that
that they did and you know one of the
craziest examples of this was I think it
was uh Neil degrass Tyson he got almost
me tooed right but by some chick he went
to school with right how long ago this
was like decades ago when he was in
college yeah because if he went to
school he's 60 or so right no but I mean
okay the allegations came out like 10
years ago or something so you know NE
grass Tyson is you know one of the
greatest Minds right now like and he's
also very likable social Med because
everyone loves him like everyone I mean
he's annoying sometimes but he's a cool
guy like I would love to interview him
he's he seems very intelligent and and
all that and all that stuff College yeah
and um there's this girl that he went to
school with that tried to meet to him
said hey he touched me he touched my leg
inappropriately I'm like are you serious
like he's a young kid full of
testosterone and you you're both you
were both attractive back then and now
he's a world renowned physicist
astrophysicist and no one knows your
name you know you also have to be
careful because girls really love to
like shame men's failed attempts they
like to make it public as possible oh
yeah on my timeline this morning
something came up where it was like some
ex-teacher uh um became a model and quit
her job and then some of the some of the
the fathers of her ex
students started messaging her so I went
through some of the and like it wasn't
even bad like some oh I wish you know
when I was dropping my kid off I wish I
was the one staying you know like they
were they were definitely like cringy
but they weren't like pictures of their
nut sacks or anything
crazy yeah and they will screenshot that
and that's it like if you're a lawyer if
you're whatever you are you are done
like you're your your reputation gone
because well very very very closely
related to this I have a client who uh
is a prominent figure within his
community and I can't say what he does
but this is pretty much every girl's wet
dream like he is Mr Perfect he is over
six foot he's insanely wealthy he's in
sanely accomplished like he just didn't
buy Bitcoin bro he did an amazing thing
and an amazing this is a a top 1% a 1%
man in the world he had to stop dating
in the town he lives because he got put
on that are we dating the same guy oh so
did I yeah so he had so now he he had to
leave he didn't there weren't even
salacious texts there was not even
anything lwd it was just merely we found
out he's dating multiple women G ASP
clutch our pearls and let's shame them
out of the community so it could be
something completely innocuous even that
that that all a sudden gets you uh
judged by the court of of public
opinion yeah Thor uh to catch you up
we're talking about guys that their
Empires are Crum crumbled because of uh
whether it be a mistake they made and
then they continue not being able to
shut up or follow legal advice or it's
just simply they didn't do anything
wrong they were just being a man and how
to like protect ourselves as much as
possible
and a lot of these guys don't they don't
have coaching so NFL players Association
NBA Players Association any uh Major
League Baseball all these groups have
for the rookies coming in they sit them
down they have story time they have uh
education about what what to watch out
for what to do what not to do uh how to
how to make sure you don't have your
career destroyed because you were just
doing regular things uh that you
normally do um I'm I'm probably pretty
sure that now with social media that a
lot of the colleges with uh sports teams
and athletes are also having special
education on how to do things because
even when wrestling at Purdue we had at
least one day where somebody came in and
talked to us about how to talk to press
and how to deal with that so I'm I'm
sure if you've got these kids with with
millions of people watching them play
basketball or football you can bet your
ass somebody's sitting them down and and
talking to them about their behavior
online yeah there's probably coaches and
stuff what do you what do you think of
all this Thor ah too much too soon too
fast is my audio okay do I need to pick
my perfect no you're perfect y bit well
the first thing I thought of when I saw
the topic too much too fast was uh too
soon you know Too Much Too Fast Too Soon
uh and i' I've watched it happen you
guys ever hear the story that's a common
story where the high school football
quarterback stud man everybody's
worshiping him
at least you know he's the guy he's the
guy and then as soon as he leaves he
didn't make the cut in the college
football team and now his life is over
and he spirals out of control dream Al
Bundy it is the Al Bundy story but
there's more truth there I've witnessed
it with two people now some of them
recover just fine and they go oh [Â __Â ]
that was just kind of a little high
school fantasy sort of thing going on
now here's the real world as far as this
social media thing I only catch glimpses
of it recently I think you'd be more up
to speed on it but I think everybody
would be susceptible it's uh you know
when you get all of this Fame and glory
and attention it's kind of like power
and what do they say about power it
corrupts and it corrupts absolutely or
absolute power crups absolutely
something like that yeah all susceptible
to that I mean I've drinken my own
Kool-Aid before it tastes like [Â __Â ]
don't do
that and could give you the runs don't
do that but boy we're all susceptible to
drinking our own koola that's for sure
when everybody around you is telling you
you know what a stud you are a lot of
them have ulterior motives I hope I'm
talking on the topic I just kind of came
in late sorry about that no no you're
you're right on you're right on topic uh
yeah it's just you know these are these
are large scale like you you know you
won't being a celebrity this is like the
biggest kind of drawback to being a
celebrity in my turn because everyone
wants to be a celebrity people fighting
for you know years just to be become
famous on social media now and do crazy
things because to them clout and status
you know while is it does grease the
wheel in terms of certain things in your
life a lot of people understand what
comes after that and the amount of like
how beholden you are to the public eye
and how like if you there are people
doing crazy stuff but the only reason
they can do it is because no one knows
who the [Â __Â ] they are right there's
people that are you know I've I've heard
stories where where in the military
where the guys come in and there's this
guy and he's he's having sex with the
like you know the the boss like the boss
of the division which is unheard of in
the mil that's like one of the worst
things you can do in the military but
since you know it's quiet it goes on for
years and no one knows and then you know
there's guys that like flirt with a girl
outside of their relationship and their
career is gone forever done you know um
for 30 seconds just you know and it it's
all like I guess it's just there's no
Solutions of Life only trade-offs and
the trade-off to fame or notoriety is
now your behavior is scrutinized and
very few people can get past it you know
very few people you know that's true
that's true I uh just looking at some of
the folks that did get too much too soon
too fast and they start to screw up is
it it reminds me that you know they
probably struggled and fought for this
fame or this Glory or whatever it is
they get too many options it's that
Paradox of
choice you know kind of rears up when
when you drink your own Koolaid you guys
all Paradox of choices right yeah yeah
yeah you go to the store you want to buy
some deodorant and there's 20 different
types you're just like damn it I just
need deodorant which one do I choose
that's a real tough thing for all of us
humans to deal with that's a tough
one um yeah so uh so Jack uh you know a
lot of these guys in nerd culture uh you
know they tend
to one of the things I noticed right
maybe you could see this in like our you
know ner Niche nerd culture whether it
be like the creator of Rick and Morty
right Justin royland one of the greatest
adult cartoons of all times you know
that dude is gonna be is is a genius
he's he's been on this he's worked with
the Simpsons he's worked at the top like
the dude is the king of nerd culture in
in a in a sense and then he gets caught
texting a 16-year- old right and the
dude is not that attractive Right the
dude is like a schlubby nerdy like he's
not attractive at all but that dude if
he went to like an anime Conor or sorry
a ComicCon or something he clean up he
could have almost any girl there he
wanted right um and the thing is why do
guys who have all these options and all
these choices decide to go for things
that will D like that could potentially
destroy their like if I saw a
16-year-old an 18-y old I don't care how
hot the 16-year-old is I'm gonna go with
the 18-y old because I like my job I
like being the creator of Rick and Morty
and now he's being replaced like they're
they're voice dubbing his voice out out
of future video games he is they they
took his character he used to voice like
half the characters on that show gone he
doesn't so he's he's watching his Empire
crumble in front of him and he can't
even be part of it he can't even save it
so why do guys do that so that's with an
underage girl there Nick yeah yeah nerd
culture seems to be like texting a
minors how they destroy their life I a
lot of a lot of that I think I wonder if
it's because these guys were such dorks
in high school that they're still locked
in that mentality and like they still
want the cheerleader who would never
give him a time of day
oh 42y old woman dress up in a
cheerleader outfit just me I don't know
if that's a solution but I I love it
yeah no that's that's I'm pretty here
let me look on Amazon see I bet you
there's a cheerleading outfit you
know enough to remember wasn't there
that famous politician and hey there's
something about real quick Justin
royland stuff apparently that was first
allegedly and later it turned out like
yeah he did it the big thing with nerd
culture is that these are the guys who
roll into Fame and finally got what the
quarterback never
had attention it's like oh my God I'm
finally being validated for my arts for
my intellect instead of for my brwn and
uh Beauty which I do not have and that's
where that comes from any attention is
good attention at that point and that's
where you see people messing up where
it's like oh yeah no she's she's
underage but she's really into me and if
that's the case is it wrong it's like
yeah buddy that's still wrong it's like
might feel good for you but your
validation ain't Above the Law and
that's what you see a lot of projared
however I do want to mention him
projared um used to work with normal
boots with John Tron peanut butter gamer
guys like that he was in a similar
situation uh got in okay so he was
married he was uh he had a couple of
co-workers he got entangled with them
but he had a private Discord as well
things like that and he got hit up by
fans as well now here's the thing his
wife was a very spiteful jealous
creature who at first told him oh well
we can open the relationship but then he
got something out of it and she did it
story of a story of a lot of as old as
time so his wife when went after him
accused him of all sorts of manners of
cheating texting miners you name it went
off of Twitter spree you name it the man
was dragged through the street pecked
and feathered the beauty of the projared
story is though and Ryan even made a
video about it at the time projared kept
his [Â __Â ] mouth shut he gathered
everything he had in a month's time let
his ex-wife hang herself quote unquote
figuratively by opening her mouth
continuously and then he dropped an
hourlong video with all the receipts all
the text exchanges all the paperwork all
you name it to clear his name that is
the one guy who did it right
unfortunately though and hold off on
this unfortunately projared when he got
approached by those fans those
fans indeed tell him no we're we're uh
we're 18 we're adults and blah blah blah
it was only later he found out they
weren't but he still had the texts of
them saying no we are of legal age
fortunately for him and fortunately for
him he just kept his mouth shut because
after that guess what happened people
came back to him and just threw away all
any loyalty they had to his ex wife
because turned out his ex-wife was
pretty goddamn abusive it's like his
ex-wife was pretty goddamn hot I made a
tweet about that by the way so you can
look it up on Twitter uh a photo of his
wife where Dr disrespect could have
learned from projared and then you see
the woman he cheated on an absolute like
I wouldn't say slum Buster because she
isn't fat but she is not pretty at all
compared to his ex-wife but that just
shows you like character is so is worth
so much more than hotness in these cases
because why do you think projared went
for a fugly five instead of like a very
solid eight because she's
insufferable and that turned out to be
true after projared just kept his mouth
shut and dropped everything that he
gathered all at once and that's how he
saved his reputation Dr disrespect
however opened his goddamn mouth this
past week where he could have just said
you know what I'm going let the the
cards fall where they may I'm going to
keep my hands of this I'm going to shut
up no he wanted to protect his ego
because I need to defend myself no you
don't no you don't the only time you
need to defend yourself is for a court
of law and things like that court of
public opinion is gonna think what
they're gonna think anyway yeah Thor
Thor you what were you
saying oh I was just uh I was just
looking up this guy and and he was
texting a minor is that that was the
point and 2020 yeah cuz twitch twitch
dropped him he's one of the biggest
video Gamers on on you know ever and he
was texting a girl through the whisper
uh messaging app on Twitch twitch and
then that makes twitch looks bad look
bad because why was twitch looking at
people's personal messages sure I think
that this is this is a Temptation that a
lot of guys face I mean uh Cappy will
remember there was this guy out of New
York a famous politician and it's just
right at the beginning of social media I
want to say his name was weiner it was
Anthony Weiner yeah I thought you think
it's Spitzer but yeah Anthony Weiner
absolutely yeah he started sending dick
pix and all stuff to miners right and he
I don't even think it was miners I think
it was just outside his marriage but go
on oh yeah yeah I I I I didn't quite
remember that's why I was bringing it up
to you Cappy this a very similar
circumstance once a guy goes down this
road it's almost like he couldn't stop
you know he came out and begged
forgiveness his wife forgave him and
then no
his leag laptop a lot of people were
thinking like a lot of those leaks that
came out before that election wasn't
russan collusion it was Anthony Weiner's
laptop was hacked oh I I didn't know
about that but here's this is definitely
a human weakness for certain guys that's
for sure oh a human weakness for certain
guys it's every guy every guy wants to
get look what's the what there's one
word that that's that is the cause of
all these problems what is it poon [Â __Â ]
thank you Thor you yeah I'm proud I'm
you I'm proud of you Dad it's [Â __Â ] now
is there is there anything hang on Fitch
is there anything wrong with men wanting
[Â __Â ] no no all right but in our Puritan
Pearl clutching especially now on the
the magnifying glass of the Internet
it's bad if man oh how dare you oh look
at how awkward and fumbling or even
simple text messages even forget forget
whether it's it's under 18 forget remove
all the mind the the lesson for young
men to take away from this right now is
one you got to watch everything you're
putting on the internet absolutely and
two it as we talked about a little bit
before you don't know where you're going
to end up in the future and when the the
the Paradox or the catch22 is okay you
become very successful whether that's
financially successful and a upstanding
pillar in the community or you get
internet Fame the the irony is yes now
you're going to have a lot more girls
coming at you I mean I I have the
occasional fan girl and they're like hey
if you're ever in this town if I tweet
or send sent one kind of text or email
or something like that there's proof now
she could go oh look Kappy stepping on
on the women of his life oh my God that
you cannot fall for the bait you almost
have to become a monk and and and uh you
just have have to give up you have to be
really otherwise you are going to give
up your Empire because the slightest
infraction the slightest infraction can
can have you uh uh have your Empire go
away because you're right Jack the court
of law is going to care but the court of
a public opinion yes that's going to do
what it's going to do but once you're
not look the reason we're here whether
you like it or not whatever reason we're
popular okay a lot of people like our
personalities they like what we say
there's just that that you know it's
like becoming friends why do people like
you for be for being a friend you don't
know they just do but if all a sudden
your image reputation is slightly
tarnished one way or another it's you
know if you found out that oh Cappy skin
squirrels that might have a negative
effect on my book said just a little bit
so you have if if that's your life if
that's where most of your money is
coming from you absolutely have to and
if this was a different time in a
different era or if we were in a
different culture sure you could get
away with it but right now so much of
Western Civilization especially
Americans are online and the the quote
opposing team is so petty they they'll
take you down for sport just because
it's [Â __Â ] fun and so yeah you you
have to be Inc you have to especially
now think with this head and not the one
down below whether you're financially
successful or successful on the internet
yep yeah um and the thing is too like
once once they kind of see that you're
weak to this stuff they don't stop like
people will like the allegations work
yeah uh the people who dropped the charg
or the Justin Ryland right he got in
trouble for the you know Tex biner and
all that stuff right um he also now is
someone came forward and he has a
federal domestic violence charge against
him as of
March right he's being zeroed out in in
real time meaning that he he lost his
ability to be part of the thing he
created which is Rick and Morty and now
some girl and the girl isn't public
figure or anything she's just some girl
that put domestic violence charges
against them right now it could be real
it could be not but right it's very
convenient that usually when a guy gets
you know gets accused of something
everybody comes out at the same time and
says wait a minute me too I also you
know and then it becomes like almost
then documentaries get made and all that
stuff it's you know um and it's and it's
interesting right because sometimes the
worst people that really deserve to go
to jail don't they just you know they
have the skill and the ability like I
would say you know people like uh I
don't know like uh Harvey Weinstein you
know he got acquitted of all charges
right for and there's a there's a
underlying political machine behind
something like that WME is a hugely
powerful organization they own the UFC
they own most of Hollywood um a lot of
the stuff is connected
uh people who accused Harvey Weinstein
of some of the stuff he did they had mad
agents like like Israeli Spies Like like
following them and threatening them and
making them feel unsafe so like there's
there's billions and billions of dollars
Behind these these companies and these
entities and there's a lot of political
things at risk you know so but now that
Harvey Weinstein's back will the a do
will the actresses be hot again ask for
a
friend uh I hope so you know it's
getting kind of weird like like all the
all the actress are starting to be like
unconventionally attractive like girls
that you mean ugly they're ugly yeah
they're just girls that AR can't you
can't walk into a a Target or a Walmart
or anything and it's just fat ugly
people on the
wallp to buy anything or watch any movie
I don't I haven't been to a movie in
theater in over a year I have no
interest in going to any movies that's
just a bunch of fat ugly people I don't
I don't I don't want to watch it I don't
care I don't care oh we're gonna we're
going to make a live action of this
anime and none of the girls have any
boobs it's like what what is the point
of any of this [Â __Â ] what the hell yeah
that's the worst part flat terrible I
just watch I just watch stuff from the
80s and and in those time period it's so
so much better just it's awful
nowaday don't have a h Berry zers all
all the women have the catfish eyes now
like their their moms drank too much
when they're pregnant it's weird yeah no
but like did you see who they cast as
Juliet for the new Romeo and Juliet film
like what the hell is that such a weird
fish face like like a jaw like a dump
truck it's like what the hell man it's
just it's just it's just ugly it is
repulsive even and yeah flat chested
it's like I'm getting so sick and tired
of that of having flat chested actresses
it's like why is Sydney Sweeney popular
like gosh G I don't it's a Scooby-Doo
Mystery boys Cappy get the van there uh
there was a there was a an episode of
South Park right uh I think it was
called turd of the punch bolt right
where I think it was around Tiger Tiger
Woods and when he got you know caught
cheating on his wife and his wife went
crazy or something or and like beat his
golf club yeah yeah yeah um and the
whole episode was guys kind of like
giving each other the KN like dude we're
all horn dogs right like keep like stop
talking about us cheating right and
every time a guy would like break the
bro code it would be like there's a turd
in the punch bow and then they would
take that guy away right like guys have
what what's happening now this is the
sad thing to me right what's happening
now is that back in the day right you'd
have you'd have your friends you'd have
your boys and maybe you had a girlfriend
right but then they would see you kind
of flirting with somebody or you know
like doing your thing right and now it
just seems that you can't do that
anymore right because guys would be like
you know like let me let me go tell his
wife because they want to bang the wife
or something because everyone is not
[Â __Â ] so you know it becomes like but
it's just you know you you can't trust
anyone right and I bet you half of these
guys uh when they when they talk uh when
they go through these situations a lot
of them gets worse because their own
friends turn their back on them right
one of the one of the a small example of
this is that other streamer who dtis
another big
streamer he broke up with his girl right
he did the whole paragraph thing on
Twitter trying to like you know justify
everything whatever I don't care and
then while he was on stream right
because these people Liv their life all
on the screen right his friend or
somebody a long time follower somebody
leaked that she had had an abortion
during the relationship and he freaked
out on camera just absolutely freaked
out right so that's another dimension of
this that people don't consider that you
can have as you gain popularity or like
trust or whatever with people whether it
be online or maybe in your in your field
your industry your career or in your
family they're going to be people that
are just gonna completely 180 you know
like you thought you could trust them
with information data and they're just
gonna you know just for a couple bucks
just [Â __Â ] throw everything out there
you know just so they can get you know
we saw this during the uh Stephen
Crowder divorce we we see this doing in
our personal lives you know we get
betrayed our friends and family get
betrayed and you're just like holy crap
like no thanks you know like I I hope I
never have to go through that I think
we're all old enough here including you
nuke that we remember pre-internet days
where you'd be a famous celebrity or or
a politician or someone very famous and
you were a public figure and that's a
legal definition where no you're a
public figure people can talk about you
it's why the paparazzi could harass you
and all that uh nowadays with the
internet it has lowered the threshold
for becoming a public figure I don't
necessarily mean in a legal sense though
certainly too but because you know some
Rando with the webcam can become
reasonably popular or at least internet
famous find you achieve internet stardom
which is not becoming say Hugh Jackman
or President Obama but it's enough that
you're going to have all the drawbacks
of cultural and social drawbacks of
being a public figure and that threshold
is a lot lower that people kind of
accidentally drift into it Without
Really knowing it and it it only takes a
community of a thousand people to start
talking it's like you you go from middle
school and high school into another
digital school and now the gossip and
all that [Â __Â ] still can happen if you
break up with Becky and Susie says oh
but he flirted with me at except it's
just on the internet now so I again a
real warning to younger kids out there
younger men you really have to do
internet reputation management here and
I I hate the sound so black and white
but you really just came
you just can't be texted you gota be
careful with these girls that's what's
going to get you in trouble you gotta be
very judicious about what you said
starting earlier than you think I have I
have two two sons a 10 and a 12-y old so
I have three rules for them right one is
there are cameras everywhere doesn't
matter where you are you're you're not
if you're out in public if you're out in
the world Somebody's Watching You the
government the bank some camera is up
somewhere someone's got their phone out
you you are never alone if you're out in
the public world right so if you think
you're at school in the back doing
something Goofy and no one knows there's
probably a camera there filming you
always always be aware that if you're
out in the world if you're out of our
house you're probably being recorded
right just assume that you're always
being recorded when you leave as soon as
you leave the front door there's ATM
camera there's there's the ring
doorbells something something's got you
locked something's something's clocking
you two jumble Chon rule you you don't
communicate with anybody unless you uh
are comfortable with it being up on the
Jumbotron everybody can read it just
assume that everybody can read it
because we already know the government
collects all of our our text and all of
our emails and all of our information so
somebody someday could go back and and
dig it up so you have the you know
you're always being recorded you have
the jumbo Chon Rule and then um three
assume it's a
man just assume whatever picture it it's
it's a dude just it's always it's a dude
until they take the clothes off and you
can see and examine it's a dude all
right I thought what's the fourth robot
dog overlords are everywhere well no
those three that's just that's just okay
I didn't know you warned your son is
about the robot dog overlords oh they
know about the robot dog stuff I show I
show them the man I watched the scariest
video ever it was a flying drone fly up
to some freaking uh I don't know if it
was Russian or or Ukrainian guy whatever
and he's like he's praying to it
don't and then they explode it and he's
dead damn horrifying like I was like
this is a crazy ter crazy movie like oh
no this is a real thing yeah um fly the
drones in and explode them and kill
people that's my dad said the same thing
John like uh he he told me I'm always
watching you just let when I was like
eight years old he told me that he's
like and I thought man you know that's
crazy that he says that's kind of weird
you know that's probably but then I
realized when you kind of picture that
your father's always watching you it's
just like you kind of like think better
you know because you're you have that
guy that's kind of like you but older
and kind of looking outside and it's
like that's a really good thing to say
to a a kid like hey just pretend I'm
always watching you because I am you
know and that'll scare them for like
till they're like 12 and they realize oh
wait that's impossible but at the same
time it's just like now I'm acting with
some sense and you know it's just I
think it's a great advice
personally but uh yeah so you know
there's other there's other like it's
not only like women right sometimes like
we have like Jordan Peterson right great
message very uh very profound uh
perspective on especially the male
experience and all that stuff so you
know but you know I read his stuff and I
watched his lectures I'm like okay this
helps me understand me more but he did a
mistake where he played to his audience
way too much meaning that he became like
a Jesus figure right um and when you
become a Jesus figure
to your audience right you be they
scrutinize you to a point where you can
they gotta crucify you at some point
yeah you become a Jesus figure at some
point you got to get up on that cross
yeah and he's he's gone on that cross so
many times and it wore him out he went
crazy and um a lot of a lot of people
you know for what it's worth I mean I
think he's brilliant but you know
imagine going going to these uh
these giant talks you know these
stadiums full of people these these uh
Halls full of people and guys are
running on stage crying begging you for
you to help them right I'm like what the
heck you think that isn't affect people
over the years that like they just want
to talk about you know like his book and
and you know his perspective but you
have people that are just like they're
they're depending on you to survive
weird man it's weird like there's a lot
of good normal people out there like
I've done I've done autograph sessions
where people line up and wait in line
for two hours to meet you and it's it's
weird some people they're really over
the top and I couldn't you know I was at
a low level of it I couldn't even
imagine like someone like Peterson and
some of the stuff that he has to go
through and the crazy people you talk to
because um I have this weird thing
people love to overshare with me all the
time for some reason anyway I don't know
yeah I'll meet them for the first time
and then they'll just tell you know I we
were doing a signing in uh uh hav was it
Lake havu whatever was like Walmart oh
it's beautiful there yeah yeah but no
nobody was there was like me grey mayard
Josh kosek and like it was at a Walmart
and and the Walmart workers didn't even
really know we were going to be there I
think they were kicking off like uh um
the UFC section at the Walmart where
they're going to sell like the action
figures or whatever and I remember this
girl was like oh yeah you know oh it's
really great to meet you guys it's so
cool that you're here she's like yeah um
yeah I had a hard week somebody murdered
my dad a couple days
ago we like we just like uh like
what like yeah I was like that's a
little bit of an overshare but yeah I
hope you're doing all right I'm I'm sure
a lot of you guys or a couple of you
guys or all of you guys um have gotten
you know because we make this kind of
content have gotten crazy confessions
where it was just like well you need to
like see a therapist D you don't need to
see me you need to go talk to somebody
you know and especially like uh my
friends in the military where
you know they talk to me and be like hey
you know I got this going on with my
wife and I'm like dude like are you okay
man like I'm here for you but have you
you need to get help I don't got the
answers you seek like you know it's
tough so so I'll give it to Thor you're
the most experienced guy on here um what
happens when a a man dedicates his life
to trying to change other men or be
their savior what do you think happens
in the long run to that
man you're muted
Thor well to be effective at it it
you're going to have to create a cult of
personality you can see that with a lot
of self-help gers and uh you kind of
create a cult like following hell that's
one of the rules of power isn't it
there's a lot of dangers and pitfalls
with that uh when you're trying to help
folks out and a lot of folks don't
appreciate it you kind of I would say
you become jaded after a while look at
um look at Tony Robbins you can see if
you look at him through his whole career
I mean I'm old enough to know when he
started as a he was a carpet cleaner and
then he went into the self-help thing
he's he's faced a lot of issues and one
of his biggest pitfalls is discretion he
he doesn't he doesn't have much
discretion and um he created that cult
cult like following so I think there's a
risk when you're helping guys out and
you get this Fame that um you can
disclose too much and it people will
come back and and get after you you know
uh and cause problems for you just for
the pure entertainment and Sport you
have to be aware fact people will do
that no matter what I mean even in our
space wasn't it just a few years ago
that there was a bunch of beefs going on
that were kind of
pointless yeah um is that every year
every month every week yeah uh there's
no discretion on the internet right
everybody's got to produce receipts and
then they hold it over each other's
heads you know yeah this like this
receipt crap like where like oh I put
out a book or put out a piece of content
and they're just like well are you
married are you single are you dating
are you not you know are you rich you
vigorously masturbating oh they
experience discount oh you if you
haven't done it or lived it you you
obviously don't know what you're talking
about that's the biggest croc of [Â __Â ]
ever by the
way yeah I would say the only experience
I really couldn't fathom is fatherhood
like I cannot fathom that I guess that's
like you know that's that's probably a
good thing you know you want I feel like
part of the joy of fatherhood is how
much it surprises you as a person you
know how you become and what yeah and I
think that's part of you know I don't
want to like read about father I wanna
kind of go go about it you know just
play it by ear it seems more fun that
way you know I don't want to like go to
read books on fatherhood or talk like
I'll be like yeah I want to I'm want to
see how this goes I'm I'm going to wing
it you know sounds EX more fun that way
but we all wing it that's the dirty
secret yeah that's the dirty secret
right so okay we got we talked about uh
Jordan Peterson playing to your audience
then we have the God complex right like
let's say a guy like sneo where
everywhere he goes he has a reality
Distortion bubble and he decides hey I'm
gonna go knock the hat off a 350 pound
Bouncer and tell him he's or insult him
to his face and then gets decked in the
face gets a tooth broken and wonders
what did I do do I I don't know I just
you know I just threatened a giant man
whose job is beat the [Â __Â ] out of me
something funny about that situation is
like he had a group of at least one uh
but I think there was a couple other
guys the fighters there professional
fighters Jake Shields was there right
those none of those Fighters like
stepped up to fight that guy because
they all knew what the what the [Â __Â ] are
you doing like why not not that not that
they could you know it's not like they
couldn't beat the [Â __Â ] out of that guy
they could have beat the crap out of him
definitely but like out of it but
they're like no like you were wrong bro
you deserve
that like that was the thing it's like
hey man like I'm your friend but you
deserve to get punch in the mouth for
that you don't touch people like
that are you saying are you saying that
people get addicted to the to the fame
they initially get and then they resort
to Antics essentially including getting
punched in the face and losing well well
a lot of people today live virtually
it's all virtual life they don't
actually do anything themselves they
they they press a button or they call
somebody else to do it
but that that's why I'm saying it in
line with the the thesis of this the
show Too Much Too Fast we're talking
about men who usually get caught in the
[Â __Â ] trap uh but okay using sneo is he
he pissed off a bouncer and filmed it I
presume right it wasn't just somebody
filmed it I think he filmed it and then
he just knocked the hat off and I'm
like right isn't that shock value isn't
that like shock jock [Â __Â ] well it's it's
okay so what happens is these guys that
bounce around niches right one of the
big things that these uh one of the
indications that a content creator has a
God complex or like a reality Distortion
bubble is that they they jump niches a
lot or jump ideologies they just because
to them right it it doesn't matter what
they do they're gonna gar like they do
anything to Garner followers and respect
they got the mightest touch they could
touch anything and turn it into a lot
yeah the pivot right A lot of these
prank guys have that [Â __Â ] they go into
the hood and try to pull a prank on a
gangster and go on go on
yeah no that's exactly it like they uh
and then they get beat up they get
arrested you know um and it's just like
they don't understand the rule like you
you can't out Alpha the state you know
you can't like say hey I'm gonna do this
terrible thing but I got a lot of
followers so I'm immune from I'm immune
from consequences and then the
consequences happen and you know then
they go to Their audience and say this
is [Â __Â ] man I just you know like we
have like Pat stemman is is a is an
example of this where is just like you
know I'm being PR I'm like dude you got
caught taking a couch or something
outside of of a federal building what do
you think like what do you think's gonna
happen that your Twitter following was
gonna like fund your case and you're
gonna get the best Lo no dude you and
you have kids on the way like did you
not think this through and it this
happens over and over again I think it's
just the re the the God complex the
reality Distortion bubble where people
forget that re like life has real
consequences right obviously we we talk
about women adalum because you know they
get this from a young age but men once
they get to a certain level like the
number one uh kind of
um uh example is Destiny right where
he's he's obviously he's being paid
right but like he goes to these things
like these uh debates or shows or
whatever with professionals to to argue
some very complicated [Â __Â ] like uh like
the war in in Gaza right like that
there's professors who dedicate get
their whole life to studying that
conflict like that is their job yeah we
put a A League of Legends player who's
who's notoriously weird you know and
blue-haired and all that stuff to argue
these things and it's just like what
does that do to a person to like well I
I got a theory about that John love this
kind of looked into it when everybody
got into Destiny just start listening
and looking and reading guys it would
not surprise me now I'm going to
speculate here but it wouldn't surprise
me if he's getting G you know um if he's
getting cash he getting F if he's
getting funding from these uh
non-governmental organizations in fact
it's thinly veiled you know that there
you go here's your disinformation guy I
I don't uh nuke to kind of answer your
question um I don't think the primary
motivator is a God complex or an
addiction to attention maybe it might be
that I think it's just pure money
because it's easier than working a real
job whether you're paid by an NGO or
you're just getting clicks and all that
but speaking to your the point you made
before uh what does it do to oh it's got
to [Â __Â ] with their minds it absolutely
can't be good for you like there's uh
Johnny Somali I don't know if you know
him only reason I know is because I'm
from Minnesota and and the Somali are
all over there so here's here's this
[Â __Â ] who goes over to Japan purposely
gets in fights and agitates the PO
Japanese people um okay yeah okay that's
a marketing maneuver I I I appreciate
the
Savvy uh clever marketing tactics but
what kind of a mentally ill [Â __Â ] are
you that you're going to go over to
another country and annoy some people uh
Destiny from what little I've followed
his quote career um okay maybe it's
theater and acting uh but yeah there's
no doubt that that has had a mental toll
on him where he gets a lot of money up
front maintains it uh even if his
relationship with his wife was theater
that still had a mental toll on them
these people are not mentally well by
the end of the day uh and so yeah they
they are paying a price and I we'd have
to wait and see but you kind of had this
happen in the old days with uh media
what happened to a lot of the the people
who got Too Much Too Young Too Fast back
in the 60s and 70s they were musicians
what happened to him they died on toilet
bues and overdose and all that other
stuff I would not be surprised if you
start seeing the same thing here with a
fair amount of these these influencers
that just chase the attention and the
money yeah all right let's get some go
ahead Thor sorry I said I was just
making a joke yeah look for a bunch of
Aderall overdoses coming up yep jez all
right let's get some of these super
chats we got uh marriage causes
divorce it's not popping up what is
going
on there we go marriage cause divorce uh
male behaviors uh for the $2 thank you
sir two pounds male behavior is always
demonized and medicalized yep get used
to it that was one of my predictions is
that inherent male natural male
preferences and behaviors are going to
start being pathologized meaning that
pretty soon liking a woman that's 15
years younger 10 years younger or even
20 years younger is going to be seen as
a mental illness right they're going to
classified as mental illness because the
psychology arm of of gynocentrism that's
their power you know all they can do is
shame you right
but already [Â __Â ] then yeah once they
codify or put it in some kind of you
know thing then at least now the greater
majority of women is are going to be
like oh you have young girl
itis you know big ttis I always love the
age Gap thing where they come out and
they they they crap on everybody that's
like that I always like to use the
outlier example to kind of shatter their
their images you remember Selene Deon
right yeah her manager nearly 30 years
older than her started managing her at
12 years old you know she married him at
19 and she was with him the rest of his
life and he made one hell of a career
for her and they had children together
and she never had a bad thing to say
about that guy ever ever ever how many
people are complaining about that one
yeah well criminal what here's another
thing demonize and medicalize also worry
about being
criminalized the the day is coming you
ask a girl out it might be in a able
offense on certain college campuses oh
isn't that the case in uh if you do Day
game it yeah it it's we're starting to
go into that slippery slope gray area
well luckily I'm afraid of women then
solves my problem great I just I just uh
game in my
basement yeah exactly I mean stay safe
out there guys it's uh acquire video
games disregard females you'll be better
off it's like you know don't trust women
can't be trust salsa go to salsa clubs
or that uh non-stop Dre uh our favorite
super chatter with the $2 dolls in
Cappy's case his weakness is dogs not
peace sleep I do not I do not beat
dogs another two dos Carlson Perkins big
four and DT has betrayed Cappy bet
trayed me all have knives in my back yes
yes all of them damn uh non-stop Dre
again $2 media already calls 25-year-old
women kids now yeah yep that's wild yet
they have the right to vote and they
girl boss yeah that is always the thing
Cappy did I tell you that I didn't tell
you that a while
back a while back I had a match or
something with how old was she she was
25 the wall starts at 25 boys and um we
got talking and and I mentioned my buddy
Watson who's like dating a 20-year-old
while he's 20 uh 33 and she's like oh
that just gives me kid deader Vibes I'm
like why she can vote right and she's
like well we should actually decrease
the voting age because you know young
people have something to say as well
it's like this whole prefrontal cortex
[Â __Â ] is just when it benefits you
it's shoing agency is feminist agency
it's like when it benefits women they're
adults when it doesn't benefit women Mak
absolutely zero sense so this girl she
can't make a decision to [Â __Â ] one guy on
her own but she can make a decision to
[Â __Â ]
everybody yeah except oh that's a good
one right make a bad decision about who
to vote for and that end end up [Â __Â ]
everybody over or she can just choose
one guy to have sex with and it's just
she her and that guy are the only people
get [Â __Â ] like how how does that make any
sense she's gotta be true to herself
John well check this out like Omegle
right I think one of the reasons omigle
had to shut down is because young women
were getting on there like 14 13 15
getting on there lying about their age
to flirt with like 30y old men 32y old
men right and I was like you know like
that's [Â __Â ] you know but I did it a
girl last year she was she was 25 at the
time guys relax but when she told me
when she was 15 she would do this and
then whenever the guy's like wait can
you show me your ID or you know like
proof she would just log off the chat
like she would just go away right and
I'm and I'm telling you guys
like it sucks right because as a guy
sometimes you just don't know like you
assume oh she's just like a 24 year old
and I'm just getting lucky right but you
don't know right and that we're gonna
discuss now ways to [Â __Â ] protect
yourself right because and not only from
like women like uh from playing to your
play playing to your audience or playing
to the people to your in your life um
getting the wrong girl pregnant right um
uh public breakups leaked personal
information right um getting like having
having to deal with your innate
masculinity right and how it's already
being criminalized you know and and path
apologize and how to go about life
because at the end of the day everyone
will get zeroed out multiple times in
their life right it doesn't matter
you'll you'll get injured you'll get
heartbroken or whatever you'll lose
people you'll you know something's going
to happen to you where you will get
zeroed out it's not going to happen once
it's gonna happen maybe two or three
times throughout your life it's what you
do after that point that kind of
solidifies your your rise to success
again right and you want to get back on
the saddle as soon as possible so we
have a lot of wisdom on this panel right
and I wanted to uh kind of like I wrote
down some things that people mess up
when they're in this situation right um
and one of the things they mess up is
the the power of shut the [Â __Â ] up that's
one of them right like we we talk about
that all the time uh there's sexual
discipline right we we all suffer from
this like not we but like a lot of men's
you know they they just can't use
protection sometimes they just I don't
get it like it's just too hard right
even red bill consecrators they do the
same thing too they get the wrong girls
pregnant or they do they make mistakes
right and you're a public the thing is
like once you make mistakes with women
as a red pill consecrator datting
whatever you are you your credibility
gets absolutely tarnished and you have
to work to get that credibility back
right and it's not easy um we have PL
your audience we talked about that
ignoring legal advice like a lot of
these guys their lawyer probably runs to
the phone and be like and says like hey
please don't tweet about it
don't say anything listen to me you're
paying me for a reason and there's like
wait I there's people talking [Â __Â ] about
me in the internet I got to I got to
like must defend myself yeah and the
Law's like no dude no that's not don't
do it and they do it anyway and then you
know it just R ruins the the process of
recovering right uh justifying yourself
so like let's say you're one of those
guys that uh you know you're an idiot
and you decided to text a 17-year-old
instead of being like you know
justifying yourself just shut up you
don't have to justify anything right you
you made a mistake [Â __Â ] just be quiet
you don't have to justif you don't have
to sit down and be like you know I was
my wife was doing this and I was feeling
lonely and I'm like no no dude no one
cares about just just shut up U you have
arguing with your detractors right so
like uh if you if you do something
stupid and then you go on a podcast to
try to argue with people that hate you
all it's going to do is gonna make you
look even stupider right so just don't
do that end of the day those people
don't give a [Â __Â ] they entertainment to
them yeah yeah it doesn't just
entertainment to them to pass the time
and then um you got you got to realize
that while this is happening the people
that hated you all along are going to
make lots of money off of you or or get
their just or get their you know kind of
Payback right like if you look at Dr
disrespect right now everyone is making
like a lot of people are making videos
on him getting hundreds of thousands
even millions of views on on their take
of his life and his mistakes right and
there people are gonna make thousands of
dollars off of his Misfortune or his can
I make a quick comment on how I listen
guys I gotta get going here real quick
and then then I gotta go so uh get a
vasectomy and I'm out see you Gabby all
right how how stupid is the world today
everything's just people commenting on
other people doing
[Â __Â ] it's all it is nobody's nobody's
hardly anybody's actually making
anything or doing anything they're just
commenting about other [Â __Â ] and then
they're commenting on the people's
comments of the other people's comments
of [Â __Â ] because people are way too
worried what other men do with their
dicks they really are the gossip Vortex
machine it a
very that whole Touch of grass thing is
just so real like do something go buy
some Legos and build them my man
something something do something
actually create something anything stop
stop talking about other people people
stop talking about other stuff that's
going on it's like the the whole thing I
I get irritated with my kids like oh
they want to watch somebody play
Pokemon I'm like do something go play
yourself stop watching well we're
learning strategies and whatever I'm
like just shut up stop it I'm gonna
block your [Â __Â ] play like look at the
guy on the screen do you want to turn
into that guy no well then be careful
consuming this stuff that's what you
turn into but like John do you do you
put that because I mean everybody knows
I play video games and [Â __Â ] like that
but like do you teach them to prioritize
a
prioritize um where it's like yeah
you're allow trying to trying to
prioritize real world things because you
know because they do want to play sports
they like sports and I'm like hey guys
like you have a very small window of
opportunity to become successful in play
sports yeah like it's you got to start
now like they're at that age 10 and 12
like you have to like pick one and and
get after it because you're not going to
be able to be like oh you know come back
at 22 and be like oh I think I want to
do this now like you're gonna have a
really hard time being successful you
could be a hobbyist but the the video
games the the the virtual stuff you can
pick that up later and still and still
be good at it you can you know I'm
almost I'm getting close to 50 I can
still play fortnite and get a victory
Royale come on no because like that's
kind of what I do where it's like the
first thing in the morning it's like
okay what needs to be done okay walking
working out breakfast all that like
maybe write a bit on substack blah blah
blah all of that comes first and then I
am allowed to grab my Nintendo or
whatever other than if that has not
happened then it's a noo yeah so I
wonder how you did that with your kids
well I mean you can you can try to lead
them but it's the whole you know horse
horse and water deal right oh yeah the
end of the day they're gonna have to be
the ones who experience it and go
through it and and apply the things I'm
telling them because other because
otherwise I'm just you know you're
talking to a wall you can't force you
can't force Behavior you can you can
lead by example you can tell them uh
what the best uh actions are what you
did to find success and uh and hopefully
they follow that but you there's no
guarantees go ahead no I'm just gonna uh
let's uh let's uh so I want to ask you
guys advice for you know we have friends
in the space you know uh Thor knows uh
fresh personally if Thor if you were to
give men guys that have a lot going for
them advice into dealing with that
situation not not like red pill like
just father to son or brother to brother
or friend to friend or whatever what
would be your advice to guys that
finally you know they're hitting their
stride in their life um they're doing
well and they just get caught up in a
situation where they make a mistake or
they make several mistakes what is what
is step one two and three for you Thor
for for that person
anyone oh that's more of a complex
question but if it was just if I was a
simplify it be good to everybody you
come in contact with I mean and be very
direct as an individual and then use
discre I mean it's the
the when I say that it seems like
everybody's in a habit of gossiping and
doing it online that's quite destructive
to relationships and and uh also to your
own psyche you gota do you got to go
tell everybody every time you make a
move about something hey man I just
talked to so and so let me go and you
know I talk to this famous guy I'm gonna
go broadcast it all online now um and
then when it comes to the girls I guess
since you mentioned fres it's about the
whole you know how do you avoid that
sort of situation well men are going to
do what they're going to do but all you
can do is advise them you know you know
don't don't expose yourself to that type
of a risk where you could get a girl
pregnant I mean that's just a especially
if you have any sort of fame or
resources that she can see that she
might be able to acquire and here's the
thing man when you first get hooked up
with a girl you get all those emotions
and all that uh wonderful chemistry and
I've heard so many guys come back and
say oh she's not like that she is really
better than all the rest they're all
just women and if the opportunity is
there and the uh motivation is there
they'll do exactly the same as the
thousands and thousands of women have
done before oh you're famous well I'm
pregnant yeah you know s it sucks
because like you
know our benefit is that yes you always
have to control the birth right for for
people that aren't famous rich or clout
or whatever or have money right like I
don't expect a girl to run to the
bathroom and try to inseminate herself
with you I don't like obviously I always
I have my contingent right um and I've
never had a pregnancy scare I've never
had an SCD I've never had any issues
right because of you know sexual
discipline will take you very far that's
why Kappy says get a a sectomy just in
case you don't have that because it's
tough right there are women that are
beautiful there are women that's that
know what to tell you there are women
that you know just do the right things
and then you're you're half you're
buzzed you're in the bed she hops on top
of you and she says please take this off
I want to feel you and this it's hard
you know as a guy it's tough especially
if you're a guy who comes into women
sorry that's that's a that's funny way
to say that comes into a lot of women
very fast right like I remember um
feeling very like I was losing control
when I started dating like just normal
normal guy dating I was having two girls
a week in my apartment and I'm just like
this feels like I could like I can get
in lots of trouble at any minute right
like this feels like too much sometimes
because there's so many variables like
you don't know what could happen like
you could piss a girl off or you can get
a girl pregnant or two girls can find
out about each other or you know one
girl can follow and go psycho and you
kind of like you become more you pay
attention more right like I stopped
drinking as much I started you know kind
of focusing and I started like watching
my social media behaviors more and all
that stuff because I was like I'm in
dangerous territory right now I'm
dealing with multiple women so you gotta
watch those girls too I mean there's a
lot of signs that are there but you know
they are driven to want to rip that
condom off and to experience you let's
just put it that way that is their
Instinct that is the species driving the
species forward and it's they can say no
all day long but that's what is at the
root driving their behaviors for sure so
you know and as a guy it's like of
course it's it makes you feel real
special to be able to do that and uh you
can get sucked in particularly if you're
drinking I would say don't drink you
know like I have four children I always
told them not to drink now some of them
do but they got all the way through
adulthood without pregnancy scares or
anything like that uh and one of them's
a professional musician so he had women
throwing themselves at him all the time
so you know one thing I taught him is
make sure he use the Savage math if they
want to take that condom off you just
got to be straightforward and direct
with them you know it's uh look it's a
down the Hatcher up the back never in
this never in the snatch you know Savage
math always wins uh so yeah so Jack uh
what would you okay let's say um what
would what inform uh what would you tell
Dr disrespect right now you know funnily
enough I looked into it but do Dr
disrespect other than what he did is
actually pretty freaking based like he
he's married and whatever and he cheated
on his wife before and his wife stays
with him so I have a hunch that his wife
knew where it's like ah yeah he's a
famous streamer now I'm gonna have to
deal with that that he gets male
attention and when you look at his wife
very feminine very feminine lady [Â __Â ]
like that so I do think there's
something there going on but the number
one thing I would have told him is just
shut the hell up and trust that verify
you know this there are girls who
Proclaim they are 18 on Tinder and
they're
17 that's why their their profiles say
I'm actually 25 not 23 it's because they
used to they used to lar as an adult on
a dating app yeah it's insane right did
I ever tell you about the girl I met in
the gym years ago she kept staring at me
and she started using equipment uh that
was near me and all of a sudden oh am I
doing this right and she had a tattoo
and in the Netherlands you can't get a
tattoo at 18 unless you get parental um
agreement and things like that and we
got talking and blah blah blah and um
all of a sudden she mentioned oh yeah
I'm going to college that and that year
and I'm like that year like what school
are you into now she's like oh you know
High School
like like okay well this was fun enjoy
your exercise blah blah blah not two
weeks later I see her on Tinder this
girl was 16 now saying she was 18 it's
like what the hell it's like guys this
[Â __Â ] happens trust but verify if you got
an 18-year-old on Tinder I know it
sounds cringe but during that
conversation somewhere you need to
mention like hey 8 like trust but verify
man just do it it could it could ruin
the vibe of the match but better it be
ruined than you
be yeah um so John I know you've uh you
you know rub shoulders with some big uh
Fighters what to the guys that have are
in trouble or were in trouble what what
would you what would your what was your
advice to them you
know oh man
um Fighters don't take
advice one the problem but no I mean
just
um I was told a long time ago I think my
grandfather told me he's like um the
less you talk the smarter people will
think you are that's right okay so just
uh slow your roll you don't have to
answer every question not every not
every question deserves an answer uh not
everybody deserves your time not
everybody deserves your best self um and
online you have the block button be very
uh whatever just don't don't don't hold
back on the Block like there's no reason
that anybody has to uh insert themselves
into your life or into your community
there's nothing wrong with with blocking
you're not a coward you're not oh free
speech whatever no it's like if I if I
make a garden and I work hard in my
garden and I have beautiful plants and
flowers and things grow in my garden and
you come in and take a [Â __Â ] in my
garden like I can kick you out
yeah advice John I love it I don't you
don't need to be in my garden taking
shits uh if there's weeds growing that I
don't like I can pick the weeds and I
can get rid of them too so you're you're
allowed to to Manicure your garden and
keep it the way you want to so don't
don't feel bad about that you don't have
to allow people in your living room to
to mess it up and yell at you just bye
go away live your own life I got stuff
to do um but yeah but but that and the
three rules I man right you're always
being watched you're always being
watched you're always being recorded uh
the jumbo Chon rule which a lot you guys
no one talk about get into that yeah
we're gonna wrap up with with jumble
like all the tools that we have in the
RP space that kind of keep us sa because
it's not like sexual power and options
right one of the options is one of the
one of the things of power is being able
to navigate life situations and not get
screwed over because you like unforced
errors right there's going to be times
where no matter what you do you're gonna
make a mistake right like it's just life
right but if you if you follow things
like the Jumbotron rule the best you can
right there's going to be girls that
send you like nude pics and like videos
and you're just ah damn come over like
we're not doing this through Tech just
come over I'm not doing like I I I
appreciate all that but you need to come
over like I'm I'm a busy man I don't
have time to say to text you about your
nipples or something like that let's
just just come over just come on um and
then you know other stuff like uh you
know control the birth right don't go
back to your exes everything because all
those things are meant to protect you
they're not meant to make you get
hundreds of [Â __Â ] or be an alpha it
just meant to protect you my third rule
don't forget my third rule I think it's
really important moving forward in the
society is like assume it's a dude yeah
Michelle Obama uh everything everyone is
Michelle Obama just assume it's do you
don't know because everybody's got crazy
makeup everybody's got um
plants and and botoes and stuff all all
the all the women who get that stuff
look the same anyways so the dudes that
get that surgery look like those women
um and then you're going to have ai
right AI is entering the entering the
chat right so now you have ai voices AI
faces uh I had some I saw some app uh
came up advertisement on my phone I
checked it out and it was like up uh
make your pictures better so you'd
upload like 8 to photos of yourself good
photos of yourself and then every time
you take another photo you can like use
the AI to make the photo perfect they'll
take your best features from each
photo like it's gonna get really weird
so you're you're you're not ever going
to know exactly what's going on
especially online yeah uh yeah you just
yeah you have to be like uh my neighbor
two doors down she's a male to
female and
I she went to I saw her at Sals night
one day and there were dudes dancing
with her they had no
idea no idea nothing they didn't they
didn't follow John Fitch rule number
three right and she has to wear makeup
to go walk her dog or do anything right
because she has to prove to the world
what she is and that's tough you know
like but yeah assume it like online too
when girls have opinions just assume
there's some dude across the world
that's just trying to make money on a
Twitter account I mean the worst ick a
woman can have is an opinion yeah that
that is true all right let's get some of
these super chats and we'll wrap uh
we'll go Around the Horn uh so shripper
with the Canadian $25 here you are nuke
Shameless plug looking to do a Q&A for
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Subs thanks ni all right guys go ahead
and if uh you have uh any questions
about sex go uh go to stripper he has he
has the answers for you thank you sir um
and we have Dr 199 hakua nuclear thumbs
up thanks man yeah we have $ Five Doll
unrealized thoughts cooworker said guys
should always pay for dates agreed
because women get pregnant even if it's
on the fir even if it's the first what's
your counter to the pregnant
argument uh wait I don't get it
co-workers said guys I get it uh because
women get pregnant women men need to pay
for the first date it's like then keep
your legs closed and you can pay okay
it's like go God's sake man because we
they're on the hook to get pre because
they they run the risk oh yeah it's just
your typical female accountability
transfer to men yeah get it like okay
dear have fun next there you go I just
answered him in the chat there's your
answer yeah I just say well yeah I want
to get every girl pregnant that I find
hot that's what I would say you know I I
just need it's urge man it's an if if
you were a healthy meal unlike me who
doesn't trust women so all rightor
Savage math dictates Savage math tell
her up the back or down the hatch never
in the snatch this is the
answer all right guys well I appreciate
everyone for the super chats uh um let's
go guys closing arguments thoughts what
do you guys think we'll start with
John um yeah don't forget Jumbotron suum
is the dude
everything is
fgr you're always being
recorded uh be careful and um the less
you care about this [Â __Â ] the less they
can affect you right uh you know you got
to worry about your job stuff like that
but if you're you know run your own
company you make your own money you're
in control of your own life there's a
lot less that you have to worry about um
not saying do illegal things but uh a
lot of this is the social shaming
shaming aspect of making mistakes or
doing things wrong well the less you
depend on those social people out there
the less you depend on the uh the long
housee the less power they have over
you right so if people you know you get
in a bad uh argument publicly or you get
in a uh um bad
relationship there's there's less that
they can do to hurt you if if uh you're
in control of your own
life yeah uh frame basically what you're
describing his frame like anything
outside of my frame is irrelevant like
cool people don't like me right now cool
irrelevant or interesting that's way
look at it I'm using irrelevant or
interesting yeah one of the things I
like to do I don't know if this I got I
I came up with this but it kind of
solidified it when I read uh when I say
no I feel guilty I always ask people
what their plan is to you know I think
it's what is that a negative inquiry or
something negative inquiry is more uh
like um like yeah you're right I can be
a douche and negative uh negative
assertion no that's negative assertion
negative inquiry is what's your plan
yeah you're right no that's fogging
what's your plan is how I fog people
where they're like Nuke you're a
terrible person because you said this
and I'm like well what what are you
gonna do now like yeah it's like what
what else do I do that like annoys you
yeah well yeah that's yeah negative uh
negative quy or you could say man I it
sucks that you see I feel like I'm sorry
you feel that way you know like what are
you do exactly yeah
you're making people responsible for
their own emotions like oh you think I'm
a piece of [Â __Â ] Homer Simpson was the
best at that you know like now like
obviously people can dox you that's like
the only thing they can do but at the
end of the day like now people are like
it's illegal to dox almost right that's
one thing one step in the right
direction at least Elon has said anyone
that get he literally said it anyone
that it's gets doxed on here will get
their or that stocks and we'll get their
account permanently blocked right
because you know there's there's
Psychopaths out there so yep Thor uh
closing thoughts hey great topic as
always man
um yeah I would say use discretion and
keep your mouth shut don't engage in
some of these online battles where it's
nothing more than gossip and watch out
for everyone these days that's using
sign language as their primary
communication if you don't know what
that is it's shaming insulting guilting
and having the need to be right if
you're around women like that be careful
and just always keep in mind that any
one of these gals if you're in the
situation where you have some Fame and
they're approaching you and you not
approaching them you got to take it like
it's a
setup always yep it's a
Fed number five yeah it's a man number
five it's a Fed girls don't reach out
guys girls don't reach out unless you're
famous and when you do there's they're
look to capitalize on something about
you your Fame
uh Grant power whatever it
is yeah um I would say like to the guys
that like to slide in women's DMS on
Twitter just just quote tweet them say
something uh to them just let it put it
out of the open that way they can't like
oh look what this guy said this happened
with h what's her name the girl with the
cake
uh uh what's her name cake tits I don't
even know her name who cares um she you
know she made herself she she nailed
herself to the cross and she a guy made
fun of her in the DMS and then she
screenshotted an older DM where the guy
was trying to like trying to you know
get her to fly out or something like
that he was a his name was Aubrey
something he's a baseball yeah yeah yeah
he no he was just like he asked her to
get drinks or something yeah yeah and
it's not a big deal like he's a player
it wasn't even like bad it was just like
whatever but she was trying to she was
trying to set him up because she said he
was married divorced yeah my point it's
always a setup if they're reach out
exactly he should have just quote
tweeted her right I mean he should could
have would he's doing fine he's a player
he knows how he knows what he's doing
right but like uh the best course of
action for for you guys if you're going
to hit up women online which you know
it's not a bad idea because you know I
guess you know whatever but do it
publicly like make sure your
conversations are public and then once
you once she her intention is that she
really wants to meet you then use your
Twitter your DMs for setting up only not
for personal details not for where you
live it's just the way it is now right
it's just the way it is don't say hey
come see me at this place because people
cannot handle that you are clouded or
that she's clouded or both of you are
clouded humans are stupid right they
they don't understand that once you
screenshot something like that you're
putting people's life in danger it's
crazy right and I and today or a couple
weeks ago I got recognized on my own
Street where I live someone I was
walking my dog asleep and someone said
nuke and I was like I froze and I'm like
what just happened and I got a DM last
week from a guy that lives in my
building right here that said hey dude I
saw you crossing the street from
Chipotle with with your dog we should we
should link up I like your stuff and I'm
just like isn't that strange I mean I
was in uh two big cities last uh uh
September and my book had only been out
since the previous June and I got
recognized for my book on one of them
somebody called me out by my uh RP Thor
and it's in a big city and then somebody
the next day called me out for being on
they they knew they watched the streams
it's like holy crap I did not like that
at all yeah it's a very strange feeling
I'm sure John you go through this all
the time dude like people recognize you
but I mean I mean I guess it comes with
the territory you knew what you were
getting yourself into right yeah and
they're mostly people are mostly pretty
cool
because you can beat the [Â __Â ] out
ofd you know follow you around but like
most most times yeah people just want to
say hey what's up you should really be
missing a chromosone where it's like hey
that's my favorite MMA fight or let me
bother him it's
like and it and it's cried they were all
cool but yeah it just kind of takes you
back if you've never had that before
yeah uh and the thing is like I said
well what's my choice here uh so I you
know I did a little background I I you
know I texted him and we spoke and then
he's a cool guy and I'm like yeah D
let's meet up and you know it just do
your due diligence when you're gonna
take your online friends you know like
uh obviously there's some people that
you just feel like I when I met Cappy
I'm like it's Cappy come on like it's
not a big deal you know um I'll see Thor
here soon I'm like it's it's it's Thor
like what do I have to worry about right
besides getting hit by molia or
something like that I hell
no put ax in your hand and get to throw
them yeah but I wanted to uh Jack go
ahead with your closing arguments I'm
going to bring something up a mistake
that I made and uh how you guys can
avoid it so read
that closing argument is
just trust but verify is a big one and
get your ego out of it and I'm not
saying don't have an eagle don't be
proud of yourself but stop stop wanting
to defend yourself people are will will
have an opinion about you people will
think you're a [Â __Â ] or whatever let
them think it and I know how it sounds
like yeah but but she's my ex or she is
this and she is that
look you can't prevent it or you can't
stop it anymore if a woman from your
past decides to go that route she will
go that route and you you can't stop it
if she did it the only thing you can
stop is your own input in your own
destruction take a deep
breath take a step back and assess the
situation this is why why I say no I
feel guilty is so important learn to fog
learn negative assertion learn negative
inquiry learn those things and take a
look at the projared situation he did it
almost flawlessly almost flawlessly
where he just let his ex wife go on her
tangent make him look bad uh go for it a
lot of people got tired of it where uh
they they they started to find her Petty
and [Â __Â ] like that and then he just went
at it where it's like he didn't even
want to go after her he just wanted to
clear his name which he did with with
with the nice side effect that her
reputation got absolutely destroyed but
you wanting to keep defending your ego
will be way more detrimental to you than
having her having a fit a lot of guys in
divorce had this too where it's like in
court guys went off on their wife in the
middle of a court session how do you
think the custody battle went you think
the Judge went well he makes very good
solid arguments and appeals to
rationality hell no she starts crying
judge rules in her
favor learn to shut up other than that
my new substack go please go there and
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please go there links are in the chat
and tomorrow we have post zero talking
about uh what really is the top
20% all right so uh I'll before we go
I'm going to share this with my
followers
um make sure everything's closed on
Twitter all right cool so uh here we go
um this was me guys uh this was one year
ago I reconnected with a girl I had been
seeing which I saw in 2021 right when I
started really getting out there and and
meeting women right and what to make the
long story short is that let me let me
blow this up a little bit bigger to make
a long story short basically I ghosted
her right I chose to go out with another
chick to celebrate my birthday right now
I did it because she didn't show a lot
of interest or something was off I don't
remember the exact reason it was a long
time ago but she decides to go on are we
dating the same guy Dallas right I'm a
normal guy I'm not making that much
money I do get a good deal in an
apartment I am just a normal dude right
I'm not famous I'm not clouded I got 400
followers on Instagram at this point and
she gets mad and she decides okay I'm
going to post this guy on this page
right and this is every city in America
possibly all over the world where if you
piss off a girl make her mad and she's
you know that type of person who who
likes to likes drama she will post you
on one of these right so as an average
guy that's very that's the most possible
way you can get in trouble you get your
reputation tarnish or whatever right so
she says Pisces lives in blanked out
dated casually for about 3 months first
lie I saw her twice right he invited me
and told me he wanted to include me in
his birthday plans which included his
friends and family that is true um the
night of his birthday completely goes to
me that is true come to find out he went
on with some other girl the week prior
and asked her to go instead that is true
she was hotter don't tell her that um
after posting pictures online it
appeared he had invited a man with a wig
to join us you know girls they call each
other ugly and all that stuff she wasn't
happy about that um he had forgotten he
followed me on Twitter was Brian how
seal the deal see that that's my first
mistake right with this individual gone
on eight dates in one week that's a lie
but still you know it's it's I made a
stupid [Â __Â ] mistake which was I'm
gonna go online and brag about my dating
life right and that's never do that guys
that's that's stupid and all you'll do
is you're poking the be like a woman
that gets snubbed or ghosted for another
chick is already on the verge of like
ruining like wanting to get back at you
now imagine I do it online right so the
important thing here is Jumbotron rule
is King like don't don't go out there
and like post everything and do
everything just shut the [Â __Â ] up right
and this was me facing a reality where I
was like and then once we reconnected
she showed me that and I'm just like
what do I do like this girl wants to go
on a DAT with me but so I went I ended
up seeing her again and I just talked to
her like a friend and luckily she I said
she for she asked she said I'm sorry I'm
sorry I did this to you right and I'm
just like it's okay like you know I'm
I'm in the wrong too I shouldn't have
done that to you blah blah now we're
like super cool and all that stuff right
but I got lucky and I Charmed my way out
of that situation but guys realize that
it's not going to be social it's not
going to be your Instagram or your
content creators that going to ruin your
life this this is the closest thing to
you as an average dude or average chill
dude just normal job that can screw you
over right so be wary of this don't make
mistakes keep it quiet and the women
that you see are for you they're not for
the world never embarrass a woman yeah
and yeah exactly make her feel like the
after care right I think Flor talks
about this a lot yep just make sure that
when she lives your apartment she's
happy bring her a coffee give her a
keiss on the forehead tell her hey I had
a great time thanks text her in the next
morning if she leaves that night you
know make her feel like she had a good
time and she has nothing to wor about
and she's not embarrassed like it was
quiet discreet you know some sometimes
I'll say I'll just give women like old
shorts and and the shirt so she doesn't
have to do the Walk of Shame right I
just like hey take my take this and just
give it to me later or something because
I am worried I am more worried about her
reputation because if she's embarrassed
then she will come after you and this is
you know and luckily we're friends now
it's all cool she's a sweetheart she
just in that moment she got feelings
really fast and she you know I snubbed
her and I I humiliated her on social
media she made a Tik Tok about me
luckily she deleted it and now we're
cool right so you know the bullet Dodge
but don't don't be nuke in this
situation this is terrible you know I
cringe every time I look at this but uh
but yeah that's really valuable lessons
right there nuke for a lot of your
viewers out there that's that's good
stuff actually to share yeah I'm gonna
delete this post I needed somewhere to
post it I'm going to delete it and you
know but uh but yeah guys that's my
final thoughts
thank you guys here for hearing me out
um and uh guys don't be stupid it's hard
it's much harder to shut the [Â __Â ] up
than you think you want to tell everyone
everything hey right even the boys group
chat is is not that safe anymore right
because guys will [Â __Â ] you over just to
get closer to another to another girl
that you're dating right just so make
sure you keep your circle small trust
the people you're with and if you make a
mistake it's okay take it take a you
know and realize it step one will always
be shut the [Â __Â ] [Â __Â ] up that's if the
if the boys group chat ever gots leaked
it will not be a federal offense to
lie that would be the time where you are
allowed to lie yeah keep the boys group
chat and uh yeah I love that Meme of
like the guys in the bench all of them
just laughing they're all on trial but
they're all laughing and it's like yeah
when the boys group chat got leaked it's
like oh here we go you know it's and
it's crazy cuz girls are just like yeah
why can't men and women be friends like
okay we're going to invite you to the
boys group chat for a day one day 24
hours why are group chat so toxic no
this is like tame the Austrian painter
jokes the sexual jokes describing
women's like body parts down to like you
know they won't able to handle it
they'll think we're social they'll want
us in jail that's why you can't we can't
be friends you know we can be
acquaintances we could sort of be
friends but not the same way men can be
friends you know it's just not ever
going to happen so no I mean like like
what are you going to do callor a
lesbian it's like that it doesn't ring
the same as the FW just doesn't like I
can text nuke in the morning like
morning bundle of sticks we be like
morning homo and we be like friendship
still good and we move up you can't do
that with a chick like morning lesbian
hey carpet muncher it's like oh why did
you say that it's like yeah you you
can't make fun of a woman's dead mom I
can make fun of Jack's dead Mom all day
see he's [Â __Â ] dying it's normal you
know what we're going into Bo grp chat
ter let's let's end it here guys so I
gota go wow like a whole [Â __Â ] nuclear
Armament right pointed at me Jesus man
all right guys I love you all
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