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Summary
TLDRThis video script delves into the secrets of charisma, revealing that the top 5% of men on Tinder aren't just lucky but have mastered the art of attraction. It emphasizes the importance of shifting from pursuing to attracting others by improving one's self-worth, physicality, and social skills. The speaker encourages viewers to build their energy and confidence through self-improvement, offering frameworks to overcome overthinking and fear of rejection. With actionable advice and insights, the script aims to help viewers join the 'attractiveness club' and effortlessly draw people towards them.
Takeaways
- đ The top 5% of men on Tinder are successful not because of special pickup lines or looks, but due to their charisma and energy.
- đ To become part of the attractive top 5%, one must shift their mindset from pursuing to attracting, focusing on personal growth and self-improvement.
- đĄ Charisma and attractiveness are not about external validation but about internal confidence and self-worth, which can be developed over time.
- đââïž Improving one's appearance, such as getting rid of a bad haircut, can positively affect the energy one projects, which in turn attracts others.
- đ¶ââïž Personal development, including increasing net worth and physical fitness, can significantly boost confidence and social skills.
- đ Overthinking can lead to missed opportunities; it's essential to train the mind to reduce anxiety and fear of rejection.
- đ€ The importance of understanding that rejection is a part of life and should not be feared, as it does not define one's self-worth.
- đŻ Having a positive outlook and focusing on the potential for a good time, rather than on the fear of rejection, can improve social interactions.
- đ Viewing dating as a numbers game helps to normalize the idea that not everyone will be interested, and that's okay.
- đŁïž The way one speaks, including tone and emphasis, can change the meaning and impact of what is being said, even more than the words themselves.
- đ€ Building a strong sense of self and not needing others' approval creates a more attractive energy that can naturally draw people in.
Q & A
What percentage of men are said to be responsible for 95% of the matches on Tinder according to the script?
-According to the script, 5% of men are responsible for 95% of the matches on Tinder.
What is the main idea the script suggests for joining the top 5% attractiveness club?
-The script suggests that joining the top 5% attractiveness club is about shifting your thinking from pursuing others to attracting others through charisma and personal energy.
What is the key message about the importance of personal energy in attracting others?
-The key message is that personal energy is crucial in attracting others, and it can be improved by working on oneself, which includes getting rid of limiting beliefs, anxiety, and fear of rejection.
What does the script imply about the effectiveness of pickup lines?
-The script implies that pickup lines are not the key to attraction; instead, it's the personal energy and charisma that one exudes that truly attracts others.
What are the three main areas the script suggests focusing on to build personal energy and attraction?
-The script suggests focusing on money, body, and social skills as the three main areas to build personal energy and attraction.
What is the role of confidence in the script's approach to attraction?
-Confidence plays a significant role in the script's approach to attraction, as it suggests that an increase in confidence can drastically improve one's energy and social skills, making them more attractive.
How does the script address the fear of rejection?
-The script addresses the fear of rejection by encouraging individuals to view it as part of the game of life, to not place others' opinions over their own, and to understand that rejection is a numbers game where not everyone will like you.
What is the script's stance on the importance of self-improvement in the context of attraction?
-The script emphasizes that self-improvement is essential for increasing one's attractiveness, as it builds personal energy and confidence, which in turn attracts others.
What are some strategies the script provides for overcoming overthinking in social situations?
-The script provides strategies such as picturing the worst-case scenario, zooming out to realize most things won't matter in the long term, considering the infinite possibilities, and understanding that dating and social interactions are a numbers game.
How does the script differentiate between the importance of what you say versus how you say it?
-The script differentiates by stating that how you say something is more important than what you say, emphasizing the importance of tonality and the energy behind your words in social interactions.
Outlines
đ The Secret to Attraction: Energy Over Pursuit
This paragraph discusses the misconception that only a select few men, the top 5%, possess the secret to attracting women on platforms like Tinder. The speaker argues that attraction is not about having a perfect line or external advantages but rather about charisma and energy. The key to joining this 'attractiveness club' is to shift one's mindset from pursuing to attracting others. The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-improvement and ridding oneself of limiting beliefs and anxieties that affect one's energy. The video promises to guide viewers on building their energy and becoming magnetic to others, regardless of their personality type or current relationship status.
đ€Ż Overcoming Overthinking: Frameworks for a Confident Mindset
The second paragraph addresses the common issue of overthinking, particularly in social and dating scenarios. The speaker introduces four mental frameworks to help viewers manage their thoughts and approach social interactions with confidence. The first framework involves visualizing the worst-case scenario and accepting it. The second encourages viewers to consider the insignificance of most events in the grand scheme of life. The third framework highlights the unpredictability of life and the importance of maintaining a positive outlook. The fourth framework reminds viewers that dating, like many aspects of life, is a numbers game where rejection is a natural part of the process. The speaker also shares personal experiences to illustrate the importance of self-acceptance and not letting others' opinions define one's self-worth.
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Keywords
đĄCharisma
đĄAttraction
đĄEnergy
đĄSelf-improvement
đĄRejection
đĄConfidence
đĄSocial Skills
đĄTone
đĄGame
đĄOverthinking
đĄNumbers Game
Highlights
5% of men are responsible for 95% of the matches on Tinder, indicating a significant disparity in attractiveness.
50% of men are invisible to single women, suggesting a large portion of the male population is overlooked.
The top 5% of attractive men don't rely on pickup lines but on their charisma and energy.
Charisma is not about adding something new but about improving oneself and eliminating limiting beliefs.
The energy one emits is crucial for attracting others and can be improved by self-improvement.
Eliminating negative self-perceptions and self-improvement can enhance one's energy and attractiveness.
The journey of self-improvement is likened to Kobe's early struggles, suggesting that success is a process.
Focusing on improving one's net worth and physicality can increase confidence and social skills.
The video emphasizes the importance of taking action to achieve goals and improve one's life.
Evidence of one's own capabilities and greatness can be built through action, enhancing personal energy.
Overthinking can be mitigated by visualizing worst-case scenarios and understanding their insignificance.
A numbers game mentality can help in dealing with rejection and focusing on the bigger picture.
Fear of rejection should not paralyze action; instead, one should embrace the process and outcomes.
Tonality and emphasis in speech are more important than the words themselves in conveying confidence.
The pull and push technique in conversation can leverage human psychology to create interest.
Questions should be used to drive conversation and increase the other person's desire for interaction.
The ultimate goal is to build oneself into a person of value, which naturally attracts others.
Transcripts
if you didn't know this already 5% of
men are responsible for 95% of the
matches on Tinder and if you zoom out
into the real world Studies have shown
that 50% of men are invisible to single
women most people look at that glorified
top 5% and think man they just must
drive a really nice car and they hit the
genetic Lottery of Riz they also must
know some secret pickup lines that the
rest of us just don't know when in
reality the guy who gets the girl and
the guy who gets sent to HR are both
saying the same exact thing so how do
they do it what's their secret having
unlimited levels of Charisma it's
actually simple really and you came to
the right stick figure in this video
you're going to learn everything you
need to join that top 5% attractiveness
club and you're going to have people
gravitating towards you effortlessly it
does not matter if you're introverted or
extroverted doesn't matter if you're the
sexiest man alive or if no one's ever
asked you why you're single attraction
is simple really the first piece of this
puzzle is the fact that you need to
shift your thinking from pursuing others
to attracting others the top 5% don't
have their DMS flooded with available
women because they spend time sending
out thousands of messages they have a
line because they attract them with
their energy or key if you want to call
it that contrary to what most people
think you don't need to add anything in
order to have Riz not adding a perfect
line or an opening no specific word
tracks although I will give you some in
this video the quote that changed how I
approached game was who you are speak so
loudly I can't hear what you're saying
most of you need to get rid of things
get rid of limiting beliefs anxi xiety
fear of rejection get rid of your bad
haircut because those are all things
that affect the energy you put out into
the universe and that energy is how you
attract people to you like a magnet you
might be thinking that's some out there
nonsense and I get it most people aren't
even aware of the energy they have I'll
explain it to you if I'm walking
downtown late at night and I'm
approaching a man who has clearly had
too many non-prescription
Pharmaceuticals if you know what I mean
his energy will push me away the law
states you cannot attract people if your
energy is weak it will not happen happen
the most effective way to improve your
charisma your energy is to improve
yourself that is why the top 5% make it
look effortless because it is it isn't
pickup lines it's not a special wink
it's you and if you have holes in your
relationship with yourself that affects
your energy but my energy sucks and I'm
just a loser have you ever thought that
maybe you're just early on in your
journey picture this no matter where you
rank Kobe in your alltime list he's a
winner but when he was 12 he went to a
basketball camp and didn't score a
single point during the games not one
knowing that do you look down on Kobe
for it no you don't and most people love
him even more for overcoming that he was
just early in his journey so why don't
you treat yourself like that instead of
beating yourself up we're going to build
your energy up in this video and we're
going to focus on three main areas that
women find attractive money body and
social skills but but I don't know where
to start what should I focus on first it
literally does not matter you just need
to pick one and start working on it in
my own journey I opted to focus on
improving my net worth and my body
because like it or not women especially
these days prioritize money and if I
improve my earning potential and my
physicality my energy and confidence are
going to drastically increase and an
increase in confidence will also improve
my social skills the key is to start
improving the relationship you have with
yourself which is a great time to bring
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the video as you start working on
building yourself up and your energy up
you get evidence evidence that you can
work hard evidence that you're capable
evidence of your own greatness and that
action that you're taking builds the
energy that you put out which must be
greater than the energy of those you
want to attract yeah but now what I've
built my energy up but what do I say
when I'm out I always start panicking
you're overthinking this my friend and
that is why you and so many others are
feeling depressed anxious and suffer
more in your mind than you do in reality
does this situation sound familiar
you're out looking for someone to talk
to you spot a cute girl and it's love at
first sight but what do you say nothing
comes to mind worry starts to creep in
and you obviously can't go up to her and
say nothing so you decide to go take a
lap around the area and do some thinking
30 minutes later she left with some
friends and you never made a move you
put yourself through hell for 30 minutes
all to not even take a shot lines don't
matter you can use Jack Carlo for an
example just by walking by this girl he
shook her world he's even on record for
saying his go-to opener is either hi or
hi I'm Jack and it works because of his
energy so if you've taken the action
needed to build yourself up into a
person of value and you believe it stop
overthinking but how I don't want to
overthink it just happens not
overthinking is a skill just like a
muscle the more you train it the better
you're going to be at it here's four
Frameworks you can use to train your
mind first picture the worst case
scenario let's say I went and approached
the girl that you wanted to talk to but
never did she says I hate your style and
don't ever talk to me again so then I
just go talk to her friend and we have a
good time I can live with that the
second framework Builds on that zoom out
most things in life won't matter a week
from now a microscopic amount of things
will matter 5 years from now getting
turned down in a bar is not one of those
things it does not matter so if it won't
matter tomorrow it doesn't matter now
why drain your energy thinking about it
third framework infinite possibilities
whether you're in the top 5% or not no
one knows what will happen so spending
time thinking about each possible
outcome only drains the energy you have
you can either think I'm going out
tonight man I hope no one rejects me
lame or you can think I'm going out
tonight and no matter what I will have a
good time which of those options gives
you the best chance to have a good night
always opt for positive possibilities
the fourth framework it's just a numbers
game baseball investing business dating
it's all a numbers game you might be
thinking as soon as I up my Riz I'll get
any girl I want to talk to that isn't
true no matter what you do someone will
always not like you and that's fine so
knowing that be the best version of
yourself the you that you want to be and
be okay with the odds but I'm just so
scared of rejection it paralyzes me in
my time I've gotten more attention than
most guys out there but I've also struck
out way more than the others also it's
just part of the game it's part of life
I've been in social situations both
friendly and dating where I've said
something I thought was awesome or
hilarious and people have looked at me
like that was the dumbest thing I've
ever heard and that's okay because I
genuinely thought it was funny because I
took action on building myself up I was
able to find who I am and the action I
took gave me evidence to know that I am
likable even if 100% of the people don't
like me because one girl's opinion of me
was that I was a loser does not matter
it's an opinion and most people need to
stop placing other people's opinions
over your own opinion of yourself and
your own evidence that fear of rejection
becomes an infinitely smaller problem
and I know thanks to Taylor Swift girls
these days think you'll never find
another one like me yeah okay Jessica
metaphorically not literally just go put
your nuts out there and be okay with
whatever happens it's just a numbers
game now we're getting into more
specific game that you can use but it
only works Works once you've built your
energy into a formidable Force which is
why we start there I've said it before
what you say does not really matter how
you say something is also more important
than what you say it's your tonality
look at this example depending on what
you emphasize here you can get five
different meetings from one single
sentence I didn't steal your car meaning
somebody else did I didn't steal your
car meaning I'm innocent I didn't do it
I didn't steal your car meaning I was
just borrowing it I didn't steal your
car meaning I stole someone else's I
didn't steal your car meaning I stole
your wallet for game and increasing your
energy even more 95% of your questions
and sentences should end in a downward
or a neutral tone your energy will feel
confident and calm and she's going to
love that for example if a girl is
talking about how she likes to work out
and you say oh and and how's your
stamina versus H and how's your stamina
that's going to change the type of night
you have drastically the game should be
a pull and push this leverages the other
person's human psychology to have them
chase you if you've built yourself up
your energy should get you in the door
once you've made her laugh and you've
sparked that desire in her strategically
push her away again not literally
lightly tease her make a statement such
as yeah you might not like me I'm
probably too driven for you you can use
any positive that women genuinely like
and frame it as a negative she'll now
have to prove that she is interested in
you she's doing the work because people
want what they can't have this works in
dating and this works in sales your
mindset cannot be one of need if you go
into a conversation needing it to go a
certain way it negatively affects your
energy again don't listen to Taylor you
don't need her to like you but if you
enter into a conversation needing a
certain outcome she knows her energy is
stronger than yours and that in turn
pushes her away you can want a good
outcome but don't need it now I get
messages all the time about not knowing
what to say here are some great
questions to drive enticing conversation
to help you have a good time and
increase their desire for you I would
start with level one questions and you
can always build up from there you can
always aim for the fences and start with
a level three if you want but in my
experience warm the conversation up
before going yard you can take a picture
or a screenshot of these questions here
the Riz you're looking for is yourself
it's why it seems so natural to others
and it's why you rack your brain trying
to figure out what's not working for you
spending time on yourself and your life
is what counts and the only way to do
that is through taking action
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