It's all true...I'm so sorry
Summary
TLDRIn this heartfelt video, the speaker addresses accusations and misunderstandings about his past actions and statements, expressing deep remorse for any harm caused. He acknowledges his mistakes, including making light of serious issues and using incorrect statistics, and apologizes for any insensitivity. The speaker also reflects on his journey, the support from his community, and his commitment to growth and understanding, ultimately emphasizing the importance of character over appearance and embracing everyone's unique struggles.
Takeaways
- 🙇♂️ Apology for Actions: The speaker expresses a deep apology for their actions and acknowledges the mistakes made in various situations.
- 😔 Realization: The speaker has come to realize the impact of their words and actions and feels the need to address them publicly.
- 🧔 Homophobic Beard Comment: The speaker mentions being accused of having a beard that makes them look like a homophobic individual and apologizes for it.
- ❌ False Accusations: The speaker denies accusations of spreading lies in a video about a TikTok predator but apologizes for the political divisiveness caused.
- 🙄 Insensitive Joke: The speaker acknowledges making an insensitive joke about men not needing to know about PMDD and apologizes for the misinformation and the potential harm caused.
- 📊 Misuse of Statistics: The speaker admits to using incorrect statistics in their videos and acknowledges the importance of accurate representation in psychological studies.
- 🤖 AI Art Usage: The speaker apologizes for using AI art instead of hiring artists due to financial constraints and acknowledges the criticism from the art community.
- ⚖️ Feminism Views: The speaker addresses a controversial video about third-wave feminism, admitting it was not deleted but made private, and apologizes for any harm caused.
- 🗣️ Misogynistic Comments: The speaker reflects on their past comments about women in violent relationships and stresses the importance of seeking help.
- 🤝 Supporting Audience: The speaker emphasizes their commitment to supporting their audience, listening to their problems, and providing advice and encouragement.
Q & A
What is the main purpose of the video script?
-The main purpose of the video script is for the speaker to apologize for various actions and statements they have made, address allegations against them, and express regret for any harm caused.
What is the speaker's attitude towards the accusations mentioned in the video?
-The speaker acknowledges some of the accusations as true and expresses regret, while they deny others and explain their side of the story. They aim to pre-emptively address these accusations before they become more widely known.
How does the speaker feel about their past jokes and comments?
-The speaker admits that they made jokes and comments that were inappropriate and harmful. They express regret for not understanding the impact of these jokes and for any offense caused.
What specific accusation about appearance does the speaker mention?
-The speaker mentions an accusation that their beard makes them look like a homophobic person, which they acknowledge and apologize for.
What is the speaker's response to the accusation related to a TikTok predator video?
-The speaker explains that they were not aware of the political divisiveness of the topic when they made the video and expresses regret for any misunderstanding caused by their attempt to help young women.
How does the speaker address their comments about PMDD?
-The speaker apologizes for making a joke about men not needing to know about PMDD and acknowledges the harm caused by spreading incorrect statistics about its prevalence.
What is the speaker's stance on the use of AI art?
-The speaker apologizes to artists for using AI art due to financial constraints and expresses regret for not being able to hire human artists.
What is the speaker's opinion on third-wave feminism?
-The speaker clarifies that they are not a third-wave feminist, as they believe it is no longer about being pro-man but rather anti-man. They express regret for any misunderstandings caused by their statements.
How does the speaker address their handling of comments related to gender and pronouns?
-The speaker acknowledges their lack of up-to-date knowledge on gender studies but emphasizes their willingness to respect people's preferred pronouns, provided they receive respect in return.
What is the speaker's message to their audience, especially those sharing their trauma?
-The speaker expresses gratitude to their audience for sharing their trauma and struggles, offering support and encouragement. They emphasize the importance of not giving up and finding strength in vulnerability.
Outlines
🙇 Apology and Acknowledgment of Mistakes
The speaker begins with an apology, acknowledging that they have made mistakes and are not perfect. They admit to making light of jokes and trolling friends, expecting the same in return. The speaker is aware of upcoming accusations and attempts to address them preemptively. They express remorse for a past accusation of appearing homophobic due to their beard, and for spreading misinformation in a video about a TikTok predator. They also apologize for a joke about PMDD, admitting they were unaware of its impact and the incorrect statistics they used. The speaker is contrite about their lack of awareness regarding the underdiagnosis of certain disorders in women due to racial bias in psychological studies.
🤔 Reflections on Personal Growth and Community Interaction
In this paragraph, the speaker reflects on their personal growth and the evolution of their online community. They discuss the unexpected nature of the video, which was prompted by feelings stirred by criticism. The speaker addresses accusations of transphobia and bigotry, expressing regret for lashing out in the comment section and wishing they had been more assertive. They emphasize their respect for all individuals regardless of gender identity and their commitment to using preferred pronouns. The speaker also discusses the unintentional expansion of their channel beyond its initial comedic intent and their role as a mediator and support figure for their audience, expressing pride in their community's resilience and strength.
🤗 Closing Thoughts on Self-Worth and Community Unity
The speaker concludes with a message focused on self-worth and community unity. They express indifference to negative comments, emphasizing the importance of personal and community opinion. The speaker encourages the audience to disregard external judgments and focus on their own self-perception and the opinions of those who matter to them. They end with a metaphorical welcome to a 'petting zoo,' possibly symbolizing a safe and nurturing community space.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡apology
💡accusations
💡homophobic
💡misogynistic
💡transphobe
💡patriarchy
💡PMDD
💡statistics
💡AI art
💡third wave feminism
💡outcast
Highlights
The speaker acknowledges the difficulty of their message and the need to apologize to everyone involved.
Admission of making light of jokes and playfully teasing friends, which has been criticized.
Anticipation of heavy accusations and a desire to address them proactively.
Apology for a past accusation of appearing homophobic due to a beard.
Denial of spreading lies in a video about a TikTok predator grooming young girls.
Regret for making a joke about men not needing to know about PMDD and the subsequent realization of its impact.
Acknowledgment of using incorrect statistics in videos due to their origin in studies primarily on white males.
Apology for suggesting that the prevalence of certain disorders is not as significant as it actually is.
The speaker expresses remorse for their ignorance about the underdiagnosis of disorders in females.
Apology for using AI art instead of hiring artists, citing financial constraints.
Retraction of a statement made in a video about not being a third-wave feminist, admitting it was a lie.
The speaker defends their character and intentions despite criticism and accusations.
Expression of pride in the community for overcoming challenges and being warriors in their own right.
A promise to be a support for the audience, offering to be their 'sword and shield'.
Reflection on the channel's evolution from goofy commentary to a platform for sharing personal struggles.
Gratitude for the audience's trust in sharing their traumas and personal issues.
The speaker's commitment to helping and listening to people's problems, offering advice and encouragement.
A message of pride and support for the audience, regardless of their background or identity.
The importance of judging people by their character rather than their appearance or identity.
The speaker's personal story of feeling like an outcast and the support they've found in their community.
A closing message of love and support for the audience, emphasizing the importance of self-worth and community.
Transcripts
hey guys oh boy
um we need to
talk I I don't know how to say this and
it's not going to be easy for me to say
but some things came up today that made
me realize that I
owe absolutely everyone involved in this
situation and apology some people have
pointed out some things that are going
to come to light over the next few weeks
and I'm trying to head them off right
now I try to pride myself as a man that
stands behind his words yes I'm not
perfect there's a lot that I have to be
sorry for um do I make light of jokes
with my friends and playfully pick on
them and troll them and expect them to
troll me back yes absolutely however
it's been made abundantly clear that I
quite honestly have [ __ ] up there are
are going to be some heavy and I do mean
heavy accusations lobbed at me and I
want to go ahead and cover some of them
now but before we do I want you guys to
understand how truly truly sorry I am
about a month ago
um before the channel really started
taking
off I was accused and it is
true I was accused
of having a beard that makes me look
like a homophobic piece of
[ __ ]
um I'm sorry moving on to the second
allegation um this one's not true
um
I was accused of spreading Li
[ __ ] when I made a
video covering a Tik Tok Predator that
Grooms young girls I was not aware how
politically divisive this was going to
be and if I would have known I never
would have made the video trying to help
these young women also within this time
frame of about a month ago I had made a
video where I made a stupid a stupid
stupid joke about men not needing to
know what pmdd is and I didn't realized
what damage this would cause and how
many men are going to be in a
relationship with women that have PMD
and it only affects 1.6% of women
globally I'm so sorry I should have
known that the statistics were wrong as
it was pointed out to me today that all
the numbers and science that I use in
these videos and statistics were wrong
because they're racist I mean how was I
supposed to know without this person
pointing out that using statistics for
prevalence of co-occurring disorders
isn't as easy as all of that especially
with autism and ADHD and an afab person
I mean what would I have done if they
never told me that it was massively
under and misdiagnosed due to how
misunderstood it is in females because
of the difference in presentation this
is due to how these disorders were
studied they were largely studied in
white males this is a huge Pitfall in
modern psychology damn it you [ __ ]
misogynistic bastards and I mean think
of all the damage I could have done when
I agreed with them that the number were
probably underdiagnosed globally as
people don't always the people don't
always the people don't always report
these things God
forbid God forbid I responded back to
them and tell them to please do the
science instead of commenting in my
comment section so that I can use the
numbers correctly I'm a monster damn you
white skin damn you penis damn you
patriarchy and to all of the artists out
there that I can't afford to hire um I
apologize for using AI art I am
definitely a ball sack I I will tell my
son next time that he can't have any
food because I have to pay people for
something I'm not going to like anyway
and there was a video that I deleted
because it was so horrible because I
said that by no means am I a third wve
feminist because I believe that third
wve feminism is no longer about proman
but it's anti-man I'm so
sorry and I'm so sorry cuz I lied right
there I'm just a liar that's all I do
because that video is non deleted it's
just private so I can't figure out how
this person saw it all because I might
have said something problematic about
women taking responsibility about
leaving violent relationships hey it's
me fourth wall break here ladies you
have to get out of these relationships
if a man puts his hand on you he's going
to do it again he's never going to
change get out seek help as much as I
give you [ __ ] I promise I love all of
you and I don't want to see any of you
get hurt it's not my fault I didn't know
I've been grooed by the patriarchy too
honestly I have no idea how to end this
video um because I never really intended
to make this video it just popped in my
mind because I did kind of get into my
feelings about some of the things that
people said not really what they said at
me but just general bad faith claims
like I'm a transphobe for m gendering
somebody who doesn't have respect for
disabled people and has
39,000 pronouns one of them being Jesus
and Jesus self and and I'll be honest
when that person said that I lashed back
out in the comment section and for that
I am sorry that I didn't go harder
because you really only have one chance
to let people know how much of a
misogynistic bigoted [ __ ] you are um
that was my shot and I blew it I could
have been so much meaner I should have
been so much meaner because the problem
with this person is that they assume
that I'm a transphobe and that all trans
people agree with their point of view
when plenty in my comment section in my
Discord server and in my community
disagree with your premise there not
mine because I'm always right no one
would ever disagree with me and I'll be
honest a lot of my terminology and
gender studies isn't really up to date
because I don't give a [ __ ] if you're
trans and you have respect for me and
you're a good person that actually tries
to understand when people get
information wrong that aren't a part of
the community then I have no problem
calling you with the preferred pronouns
you prefer to be called hell even if you
don't agree with me and disrespect me
tell me I'm a piece of [ __ ] I don't care
I'm probably still not going to dead
name you and call you something else
because in all reality I don't give a
[ __ ] what's between your legs what's on
your chest what's not on your chest you
wear a wig I don't [ __ ] care that is
literally none of my business as my
business is none of your business so
stop making your business my business
because when I grew up there was
something that I was taught that I think
a lot of people weren't [ __ ] taught
we don't judge somebody off their
appearance their color of their skin
what they have between their legs I
don't care I judge you off the content
of your character and if your character
sucks damn right I'm going to call you
out for it whether you're a man a woman
white black Trans I don't care if you're
a shitty person you're going to know it
and I'll be honest when I started this
channel out it was only going to be
goofy commentary on things that I found
cringy online however it took on a life
of its own and somehow my comment
section became the mediation place for
everybody's stress and that's fine
because I can handle it I love helping
people and listening to people's
problems because I love giving advice
and being able to help or listen or give
words of encouragement to the people
that need it the most and to everyone in
the comment section opening up sharing
their trauma whether it be their
problematic childhood or their abusive
ex partner whatever you've got going on
thank you for trusting me to be the one
that you open up to I'm not sure why
maybe I just have an aura about me I
tend to drop my guard and show my
weakness so that other people can maybe
drop their guard and show their weakness
so that they can get stuff off their
chest and I might get some criticism for
being a [ __ ] and showing my weakness to
people but in that weakness I find
strength and if you're in my audience
and you feel a certain way about how you
look or your past the trauma whether
you're trans or you're not whether you
pass whether you don't I am proud of you
because I know me and I know the people
that I attract and we're not the most
normal we're not the most balanced
there's a lot of [ __ ] that's wrong with
us but we're warriors not in the sense
that we're on the battlefield fighting
for our freedoms but we're in the
battlefield of our hearts and our minds
fighting for our freedoms there and I am
so proud of you for not giving up and if
no one has told you that they're proud
of you or they haven't said it today I
am I am so proud of you that you're
still here because there's a saying that
it's better to be a warrior in a garden
than a gardener in a war we all know
what war is but it's time that we learn
what peace is too and if you've been an
outcast I know what that's like I don't
have family I have my wife I have my
child and I have an uncle that pretty
much raised me because no one else would
and after everything that I've been
through I'm pretty [ __ ] lucky because
I'm still here because we know so many
people that aren't even luckier than a
lot of people because I have a bunch of
people that's willing to help change my
life and if you're out there and you're
an outcast you're not anymore because
you're here with me and I promise I will
be the [ __ ] I'll be the sword and
shield if I have to be I'll be the sword
and shield so that you guys don't have
to because at the end of the day with
these people leaving comments in my
comment section trying to tear me down I
don't care about them they're not my
problem my problem is me and what do I
think of myself and what do the people
that care about me think about me that's
what matters and that's what should
matter to you too I love all of you
welcome to the petting zoo
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