Once you understand women, they're never confusing, just predictable.
Summary
TLDRLe script du vidéaste Joker aborde la complexité des relations entre hommes et femmes, en se concentrant sur les stéréotypes et les comportements répétés au fil des ans. Il partage son expérience personnelle et des observations sur les dynamiques de la séduction, la manière dont les femmes et les hommes peuvent être prévisibles ou confus, et la nécessité de comprendre la nature humaine avant de s'engager dans des relations. Joker critique également les conseils trompeurs et manipulatifs trouvés sur les médias sociaux et appelle à une réflexion sur la façon dont chacun contribue au paysage de la rencontre et de la date.
Takeaways
- 😀 Les hommes et les femmes n'ont pas changé dans leur façon de se comporter dans les relations amoureuses depuis des décennies.
- 😀 Les hommes ont tendance à chercher des aventures sans lendemain et à éviter les relations sérieuses, surtout lorsqu'ils sont jeunes.
- 😀 Les femmes tombent souvent dans le piège de sortir avec des 'bad boys' et se retrouvent souvent déçues et blessées.
- 😀 Les femmes continuent de répéter les mêmes erreurs en matière de rencontres, même après plusieurs expériences négatives.
- 😀 Les hommes et les femmes fonctionnent selon des règles cérébrales primitives et des normes sociales, qui influencent leur comportement en matière de rencontres.
- 😀 Il y a une distinction entre les hommes qui cherchent simplement des aventures et ceux qui veulent des relations sérieuses.
- 😀 Les conseils red pill sur les rencontres sont souvent mal compris ou mal appliqués par de nombreux hommes.
- 😀 Les dynamiques de rencontres ont été influencées par l'évolution des normes sociales et l'essor des médias sociaux et des applications de rencontres.
- 😀 Les attentes et les comportements des femmes en matière de rencontres peuvent être influencés par des conseils contradictoires provenant de leurs pairs ou des médias sociaux.
- 😀 La compréhension des dynamiques de rencontres et l'adaptation à ces dynamiques peuvent améliorer les expériences de rencontres pour les hommes et les femmes.
Q & A
Quel est le thème principal de la vidéo de Joker ?
-Le thème principal de la vidéo est la dynamique des relations entre hommes et femmes, en particulier sur la manière dont certaines femmes ne semblent pas apprendre de leurs expériences passées dans le domaine de la dating et des relations.
Quelle est la première leçon que Joker a tirée de ses parents sur la manière de se comporter lors des rendez-vous ?
-La première leçon qu'il a apprise de ses parents était d'être un gentleman, de ne pas se comporter comme un porc et d'être poli avec les parents des femmes pour qu'ils ne pensent pas qu'il cherche juste à s'installer avec leur fille.
Quel exemple Joker donne-t-il pour illustrer comment les femmes peuvent être prévisibles dans leurs relations ?
-Joker donne l'exemple d'une femme qui, malgré avoir été brûlée par des hommes 'bad boys' à plusieurs reprises, continue de tomber dans le même piège, montrant ainsi une prévisibilité dans les relations.
Comment Joker décrit-il son expérience passée avec les femmes et les relations ?
-Joker décrit son expérience passée comme étant variée, allant de mariages jeunes à des relations plus légères, et mentionne avoir eu des relations avec des femmes de différents pays lors de ses voyages.
Quel conseil donne Joker aux hommes qui cherchent à se mettre en forme et à améliorer leur vie sociale ?
-Joker conseille aux hommes de se mettre en forme, de devenir confortables à discuter avec les gens, de pouvoir faire des plaisanteries rapides et d'être intéressants pour améliorer leurs chances dans le domaine de la dating.
Quelle est la critique que Joker faite à propos de certaines femmes qui cherchent à changer les hommes qu'elles sont attirées par ?
-Joker critique l'idée que certaines femmes pensent qu'elles peuvent changer les hommes 'bad boys' en devenant leur petite amie ou en les amenant à se stabiliser, malgré les signes clairs que ces hommes ne cherchent que des relations casual.
Quel est le point de vue de Joker sur les conseils des 'red pill' guys et leur influence sur les relations ?
-Joker est contre certaines idées des 'red pill' guys qui encouragent les hommes à manipuler les femmes pour des relations, estimant que cela contribue au problème plutôt qu'à l'améliorer.
Quelle est la position de Joker sur les hommes qui paient pour des relations avec des femmes sur OnlyFans ?
-Joker est contre l'idée des hommes payant pour des relations sur OnlyFans, car il considère que cela contribue à perpétuer un problème dans le monde de la dating.
Comment Joker défend-il l'idée d'éviter de participer à des comportements nuisibles dans les relations ?
-Joker soutient que pour changer les choses dans le monde de la dating, les hommes doivent s'abstenir de participer à des comportements nuisibles, comme les one-night stands, et ainsi montrer qu'ils ne font pas partie du problème.
Quelle invitation Joker lance-t-il aux gens intéressés par son travail et sa communauté ?
-Joker invite les gens intéressés par son travail à rejoindre la communauté Better Bachelor, où ils peuvent assister à des projections de films en ligne et partager des moments de détente avec d'autres membres.
Outlines
😀 Introduction à la thématique de la relation
Le narrateur commence par se présenter comme étant célibataire et disponible, puis aborde le sujet d'une vidéo virale sur TikTok où une femme interroge les hommes sur leur comportement dans les relations. Il partage son opinion que les femmes n'ont pas changé tout au long de sa vie et qu'elles ne comprennent toujours pas la façon dont les hommes fonctionnent. Il mentionne également que les valeurs et normes sociaux ont évolué, mais que les femmes ne semblent pas avoir appris à gérer les relations face aux hommes.
😔 La critique des conseils et des attitudes des 'red pill'
Le narrateur exprime son mécontentement à l'égard de certains individus qui se réfèrent à eux-mêmes comme 'red pill' et qui, selon lui, donnent de mauvais conseils ou ne respectent pas leurs propres normes. Il mentionne qu'il y a des cas où des hommes paient pour l'attention féminine plutôt que de vraiment apprendre à interagir avec les femmes. Il partage son expérience personnelle pour montrer qu'il a eu des relations réussies sans être riche ou avoir de grandes dimensions physiques, soulignant l'importance de la communication et de la valeur sociale.
🏎️ Les voitures de sport et leur rôle dans l'attention des femmes
Le narrateur parle de son expérience avec des voitures de sport, comme la Mustang GT et la Corvette, et comment elles ont attiré l'attention des femmes. Il partage des anecdotes de ses voyages et de ses rencontres avec des femmes du monde entier, mettant en évidence que malgré son manque de stature physique, il a toujours été en mesure de captiver l'attention des femmes grâce à son charme et sa capacité à communiquer.
🍷 Les stratégies de séduction et leur efficacité
Dans ce paragraphe, le narrateur décrit les techniques de séduction qu'il a utilisées, telles que la conversation drôle et la banter, ainsi que l'importance de ne pas paraître trop désireux. Il insiste sur le fait que ces stratégies ont fonctionné pour lui à travers différentes décennies, et qu'elles peuvent toujours être efficaces malgré les changements dans les normes sociales et la présence des applications de rencontres.
💭 Le dilemme de la femme et ses attentes dans la relation
Le narrateur présente un scénario où une femme exprime son inquiétude après avoir couché avec un homme sur la deuxième date. Elle s'interroge sur la conduite de l'homme qui ne l'a pas rappelée la nuit, malgré le fait qu'ils aient eu une activité intime. Il critique l'attitude de la femme qui, selon lui, a des attentes irréalistes et qui ne tient pas compte de la nature des hommes, ce qui mène à sa propre frustration.
🤔 La compréhension des motivations et des comportements dans les relations
Le narrateur partage son analyse des motivations derrière les comportements des hommes et des femmes dans les relations. Il soutient que les femmes ne comprennent pas ou refusent de comprendre les hommes, ce qui les rend prévisibles. Il donne des conseils aux hommes sur la façon de se comporter dans le monde de la dating, en mettant l'accent sur la nécessité d'être en forme, de bien communiquer et d'être drôle pour réussir.
🚫 Le rejet de la manipulation dans les relations
Dans ce paragraphe, le narrateur condamne la manipulation dans les relations, qu'il s'agisse d'hommes ou de femmes. Il partage son opinion que les hommes devraient comprendre la nature des femmes et agir en conséquence, plutôt que de se plaindre du système de la dating. Il insiste sur l'importance d'être honnête et de ne pas contribuer au problème en payant pour des interactions ou en participant à des comportements irresponsables.
🎉 Invitation à rejoindre la communauté Better Bachelor
En conclusion, le narrateur invite les téléspectateurs à rejoindre la communauté Better Bachelor, où ils peuvent assister à des projections de films et partager des moments de détente en ligne. Il met en avant l'atmosphère positive et l'opportunité de socialisation pour les membres de la communauté.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Single
💡Red pill
💡Dating
💡Social norms
💡Hookup
💡Player
💡Accountability
💡Moral decay
💡Relationship
💡Attraction
Highlights
A TikTok video questioning men's intentions with women has gone viral.
The speaker notes that women have not changed in their approach to dating over the past 37 years.
Social norms, morals, and values have decayed, affecting dating behaviors.
Women often ignore how men think and operate when they are attracted to a man.
The speaker believes women will never learn from past mistakes in dating.
The speaker emphasizes the differences between how men and women perceive dating and relationships.
There is a critique of 'red pill' communities and the advice they give regarding dating.
The speaker shares personal experiences, including multiple marriages and divorces.
Women often put physical attraction and instant gratification ahead of forming a relationship.
Men will often disqualify women as serious partners if they sleep with them too quickly.
The speaker argues that understanding the nature of men and women can make dating predictable.
Women frequently misinterpret casual dating behavior as the beginning of a relationship.
The speaker discusses the importance of being sociable and confident in attracting women.
The impact of social media and dating apps on modern dating practices is highlighted.
The speaker advocates for responsible behavior in dating and criticizes manipulative tactics.
A call for men to understand and navigate the dating landscape without perpetuating negative behaviors.
The speaker concludes with an invitation to join their community for discussions and entertainment.
Transcripts
and your name single
unavailable single and available single
and available that's me that's me I'm
single and available I'm single and
available if anybody wants to know okay
I'm going to I'm going to go
now okay I'm single and available though
guys welcome to better Bachelor my name
is Joker with a face for radio and a
voice for print um this video's kind of
gone viral uh to gal on Tik Tok as all
videos of anybody anymore is on Tik Tok
and she's been asking this question of
of hey are are guys like this are are
men do men just hit it and quit it and
this gal's got to be mid-30s I think
maybe even later 30s and I watched the
video and I realized women have been the
same not only in
in my entire life which is I mean I
started paying attention to women maybe
around I don't know 13 or so so that's
at least 37 years um women have been the
same all my life and they were the same
before that because my my parents kind
of taught me what I do should and
shouldn't do when dating women and one
of the things was to be a gentleman and
not not be a pig and be nice to the
father so he doesn't think that I'm just
trying to shack up with her daughter so
but this is this is knowledge coming for
my parents uh and they were married you
know I think in the
1960s uh yeah it would have been late 19
late 1950s early 1960s so they knew the
deal too and of course you can watch
movies from the 1960s and this is this
is common knowledge it's been around for
60 years maybe even
plus but for some reason women still
refuse to learn this lesson and I just
realized something they're never going
to learn they're never going to learn
how men think how men operate or or they
know how men think and operate and they
choose to ignore it when they're really
attracted to a guy like when oh he's
super hot and it's only the second date
and I totally know I shouldn't hook up
with him but he's super hot and I'm
going to do it anyway and then they get
burned and something happens and the guy
bounces or floats on him or ghosts on
them and they're like I ah how awful and
then they go out and do it again and
again and again until they're 35 like
this gal and and now they're in
desperation mode wanting to settle down
but they can't settle for the average
guy and they can't stop sleeping with
the bad boys and and this the next
generation is learning the same thing
and so on and so on this is this is just
how women are now I think they've always
been like this if we're to be honest
about it but because of social norms and
morals and values that were instilled
whether it was by parents by Church uh
by the education system which was way
different before uh the education system
became
nationalized women were taught hey yes
you're going to want to do this stuff
but if you do it people are going to
think poorly of you and you're you're
going to probably end up being a mom a
single mom and instead of now you know
it used to be you'd have it and maybe
give it up for abortion before that you
were traveling having the kid and giving
it to a nunnery or or leaving it with
your you know a family relative all of a
sudden coming back the gal would finish
school and then maybe go back and pick
up the kid because she didn't want to be
known as the girl that put out when she
wasn't married got pregnant and so on
and so forth but because social social
because of the social moral Decay now
it's no longer a big deal but women
still haven't learned how men operate
and and Men honestly should change the
way they operate but they're not going
to because it's lizard brain stuff you
know you put an attractive woman in
front of a guy and she says hey do you
want to sleep with me guys don't have
don't have the risk of do I know her
should I was she GNA do this and leave
me in a bad way am I going to get
pregnant and get you know strung strung
up in a in a bad way or have something
bad happen to me guys are just kind of
like well yeah and even then the young
men that that did the the deed and maybe
got a girl pregnant their fathers or
family shipped them off into the
military to get them the heck out of
Dodge and maybe get some some rational
you know control in their lives but I'm
going to I'm going to talk about this
and this gal here but before I do
there's something else I want to do and
I want to take just a minute to do this
because I do think it is
important recently I've been seeing a
lot of especially on Twitter uh a lot of
red pill guys out there talking and get
and that's what my other videos about
today and they're either giving bad
advice or or they're not living up to
their own standards or uh in many cases
I think they're paying for girls and and
not
actually not actually dating them or or
learning how to to talk to them and I
think they're just going out there
spending some money getting some video
and photo shoots and then trying to sell
a book or something else I don't know
what's going on with these communities
not all of them of course but there's a
lot of of people out there that that
don't understand uh at least don't
understand how dating really works and
in many of my posts and many of my
videos and many of my comments people
are coming on my channel and saying and
you guys don't see it very often in the
comments here on YouTube but I do see it
on Twitter when I post something and
then someone wants to insult me and they
they they call men that are red pill or
that decide not to date or decide that
they want to do a different thing in
life they call them incels they call
them losers they call them butt hurt who
just can't get women I know many of you
can get women but because I'm a content
creator and you guys listen to me for my
thoughts on things I wanted to give you
a little bit of rundown like a very
quick rundown of my past not the the
details the dayby day but the fact that
I was married at
19 no wait I take that back married by
21 and divorced by 22
because she left me for a guy that had a
ton of money I went into a tail spin I
decided I I just I didn't want to ever
fall in love again I just wanted to
sleep with women did that till I was
almost 30 and and then I tried marriage
again it lasted for 8 years uh actually
we were together eight years I think we
were married for six and then she
decided she wanted to pursue her career
and I went into another Tail Spin of
where I just decided I'm never going to
get married again this isn't for me I'm
just going to hook up with women and
that's why I can say you know hey
hooking up with women is not going to
make you happy getting married in many
cases is not going to make make you
happy I got out of it lucky because I
didn't have any money when I was a when
I was a young buck this is me at 19
years old as I entered the military and
those of you that have have been
longtime viewers have seen me talk about
this and my dating past before but
there's probably 100,000 new subscribers
uh that haven't seen the young bu that
was uh the young Joker and yes I went
out and I I had my daanes and I had my
fun and even though I was on the shorter
side I was relatively successful with
women because I had a good game I could
I could I could kind of make him laugh
and have fun I I pretended at least I
had high values even though I may not
have and I kept in good shape and that
carried through all the way till you
know here here I am in my late 40s uh
this is about I think four or five years
ago uh still in pretty good shape um
obviously the hair is gone now and this
is when I just finished up with one of
my workouts and I was feeling
particularly muscular and good-look this
day and so I snap and this is when I was
doing
ultramarathons and um and and doing my
ultra marathon swim ultramarathon
running doing tough mutter events uh and
doing CrossFit and I was in darn good
shape and here I still had no problem
with tr ing women even though I haven't
gotten any taller and gosh knows I
haven't gotten any better looking over
the
years and and you know something in this
photo I was I was single and I was happy
a lot happier than than the young man
that was going around chasing tail and
trying to impress women when I was young
I went so far as to buy up I was it was
1996 so I would have been 24 years old
and I went out and bought a Mustang GT
brand new off the lot loaded loaded I
ended up driving and owning this for
about a year in Florida and the car
payment was about $400 a month because
it was a pretty expensive car 385 I
think it was a month now that sounds
cheap to you guys out there but back in
the day that's kind of an expensive car
back in
1996 and uh the insurance payments in
Florida because I was living near Miami
was close to $400 a month I could afford
this for about a year uh with my job
that I had until I realized that you
know to I I I'd get too many speeding
tickets if I couldn't control myself cuz
it was a stick shift and a heck of a lot
of fun and it was costing me $800 a
month of which I did not really have and
and I wanted to save up and kind of
better myself so I ended up selling it
but I didn't learn because after I got
married and then I got divorced and I
was in my what late 30s I think it was I
went out and I bought a a a a Corvette
now the difference is this Corvette when
I bought it I think it was 20 let me
think I think it was 2013 when I bought
it and this Corvette was 2011 or at 2001
sorry this is like a C5 Corvette my
years may be a little off it's been a
long time I don't remember but I it's a
2001 maybe a 2002 and I bought it in
like 2012 2013 something like that and
but I because number one I always wanted
to have a sports car and number two you
want to talk about a car that got
attention this thing didn't have a
scratch on it it was beautiful and even
though it was 12 years old it only had
6,000 miles on it because the father
bought it for his kid for a graduation
present from from graduating from Duke
University in North Carolina and his kid
wanted a BMW instead and Rich daddy
doctor uh got him the BMW and stuck this
in the garage and and just drove it
around a little bit here and there to
have fun with it and then decided to
sell it so I got it on a steel and a
dream and I had this for for quite a few
years
could I afford it yes should I have
afforded it I don't know CU I only put
about 5,000 miles on it in three or four
years because it was so nice I didn't
want to get stone chips and dings and
and rocks and everything on it but I'll
tell you it got me the attention of the
ladies and so when I was a a young 30s
something guy or late 30-some guy um I
think in this photo I'm I'm later 30s in
this one I don't remember exactly you
can see still see I had some hair but it
was starting to thin on top I was going
to the clubs I was hanging out with
friends I was drinking I was partying it
up and I had no problems getting
attention from women um these
are something I would do is I would get
social validation in other words you go
to the same bar quite often you get to
know some guy friends you get to know
the bartenders you kind of get known
around the place then you make friends
with some of the women and people see
that you're you're social and and
comfortable and and you can joke around
with everybody and everybody likes you
and that gives you some value and
because of that I could go in there many
times and talk to the female friends
that I had and who were were not
bad-looking I'm not saying they're
models by any way um but they they
weren't bad-looking um I think many of
you would say hey you know what she'd
make a cute girlfriend and then from
there other women would see me hanging
out with a bunch of you know pretty good
decent looking girls and that gave me
social value and then when I went up to
talk to them and had a joke I was
already kind of pre
uh pre accepted because they saw me
speaking to other women and other women
laughing and having a good time with me
and and enjoying my time and so they
didn't feel like I was a creep or a
weirdo things were much different back
then because we didn't have the dating
apps and everything like
that moving forward I traveled around
the world and again as I've stated many
times this is not because of the bug
this is because very dusty roads driving
a motorcycle in the Philippines but as I
did my travels I still always was
hanging out out and sleeping with
various women whether it was Southeast
Asian women or women in Australia or
women in I think this was Iceland uh or
you know women as I was backpacking
across Norway uh or a a uh a Ukrainian
woman that was in uh Poland at the
time and or here in the United
States I never really had any problems
dating I want to tell you guys this
because a couple of things yes things
have
changed yes things are way better
overseas um but I'm a 5 foot six 5 foot
s guy um I'm not in great shape now I've
gained quite a I won't even lie I've
gained quite a bit of weight just
working around the buildings and I
haven't been doing my my gym and my diet
properly which I've I've said I was
going to start multiple times and then I
get caught up on something else and and
I just don't but in the same token it's
not a priority for me to have like an
amazing six-pack body and look really
good and a tight t-shirt anymore now I
just want to be healthy and and I want
to feel good and I want to be strong and
and I don't want to have any like
physical problems that's really where
where my mindset is now today but as a
younger man or even as a as an older
dude like here in my early or mid 4S I
think um you know I was running Ultra
marathons I was going to the gym at 5' 6
or 5'7 and this is going back 5 years
ago so it's not like we're going back to
the Stone Age I could still talk to
women I could still get phone numbers uh
I could still get dates and it's not
because I'm all that you know it's not
because I'm all that it's because I have
the ability to to communicate and talk
to women okay so so I I wanted to
mention this because when we get to this
video here when I say things are always
the same I mean they're always the
same women have a tendency that if
they're attracted or they get the
butterflies they will sleep with a man
in my day when I was
younger it was you met them in pubs or
clubs or bars you had to have really
good game you'd go up you'd strike a
conversation um you'd be funny they get
a laugh and then you would stop talking
to her and go talk to your guy friends
and then you'd go up and talk to another
woman and then you go talk to your guy
friends then You' shoot a game of pool
then you come up and order a beer and
then as you swing back around around and
maybe you didn't talk to the woman for
half an hour or 45 minutes you come back
up and you say something interesting I'm
still nursing the same beer do you want
want me to put a little you want me to
put a little rubber baby baby nip on
there and you can take your time on it
and she'd laugh or no I'm just here for
and you have that banter in
conversation but once that happens you'd
be surprised how quickly and easily they
will sleep with you if if you're in
pretty good shape and you have a really
good Gift of Gab now it may be a little
bit tougher now but there are women out
there that say they'll only sleep with 6
foot or they only date 6 foot or they
only date millionaires or and that same
woman will sleep with a dude that works
at Taco Bell and uh he's 5 foot n
because he's funny he's Charming he's in
good shape and she's had a couple of
beers that that's just it's still that
that same way as it is today so I
mention this because you guys that don't
get out there don't date don't put
yourself out there because you're
listening to guys like myself or anybody
else that says hey it's a mess out there
in dating I want you to go out and still
attempt it because there's women like
this that haven't learned the lesson and
they go out and do the same thing over
and over and over again and you you know
they will make that mistake with you too
that's that's the great news now you may
not want to necessarily sleep with women
but and and you want maybe a
relationship or something like that but
my whole point is it is possible because
women refuse to learn their lessons so
let's listen to her give the same speech
in the same lesson that all women do
over the course of time with the same
results I need the girls to weigh in on
this cuz I can't tell if I'm being
completely irrational or unreasonable so
I've been seeing this guy and we've seen
each other a couple of times at this
point we decided to have dinner the
other night she says she's seeing this
guy and they've they've she's seen him a
couple of times which means one couple
is two a few times is three or more I
don't know if you guys know this but a
couple is two which means she's seen him
a couple times one time second time she
takes him home so we go out to dinner we
both have a couple of glasses of wine at
dinner and then we go back to his place
together this is my first time at his
place and I think we all can assume what
happened from there we can assume what
happened from there because this is how
modern women are who can't control
themselves she had a couple of glasses
of wine he's good-looking he invites her
to her place she can't control the
tingles she gets excited and she goes
yeah and we can assume what happened
from there which is I slept with him so
I'm going home and he walks me to my car
thankfully and as we're saying goodbye
he tells me to text him when I get home
courteous right took me about 20 minutes
to get home so by the time I'm home it's
around 2: a.m. I texted him that I made
it home safely and he doesn't respond so
he texts me back the next morning and
he's like glad you made it home okay he
obviously fell asleep but I just feel
like given the circumstances I'm a new
girl that you're seeing we both had a
couple of glasses of wine with dinner we
just hooked up and I was driving home
late at night I feel like he should have
stayed awake to make sure I made it home
okay obviously I get it that late at
night no one wants to stay up but like
when you're
dating don't you want to make sure she
made it especially as a guy I mean like
I don't have many means to defend myself
like should something happen I don't
know I just feel like he should have
made sure I made it home okay is that
unreasonable I mean it was like 2: a.m.
so I get it but at the same time I'm
like I don't know I need what's funny is
she still got the the text and the call
the next morning when he said hey glad
you made it home
okay that's I mean that's more than a
player would do that's a guy that's at
least like okay I got my rocks off um
and after a couple glasses of wine he
decided ah she'll be fine and then he
went to
bed she wants the and and now she says
uh when you're seeing each other he
never said that they're seeing each
other see this is the this is what women
do is go she's gone on a couple of dates
she has a couple of glasses of wine her
inhibitions goes down he probably
doesn't have any cuz he's a dude they
hook up he's nice to her he walks her to
the car
he she goes home he he probably crashes
out and in the morning he responds to
her and now she says when you're seeing
somebody this is she put the bedroom
ahead of the relationship as they always
do now or at least most of the time they
do and he got his rocks off and then he
went to bed now he will see her again
that's the good news and how do I know
this because he responded to the text
saying hey glad you made it home
okay does that does he look at her as
girlfriend material no why because on
the second date she slept with him he
doesn't really care that badly and this
is what women do the same thing over and
and and oh and and does he see her as
are they seeing each other no he does
not think that at all how do I know this
because this is the way I used to
operate when I was a young guy we'd go
out I'd meet somebody like I said when
you go to the pubs you get phone numbers
and things like that that it wasn't
always the one night stand although a
lot of times you
could instead you'd get her number you'd
message her a couple of times and guys I
cannot tell you how many times this
happened to me directly especially if
you have good text game and you're funny
and you're interesting on your first
conversation you can tease them over
text you can flirt with them over texts
and yes you she can will come over to
your place and bring a bottle of wine or
she will invite you over to her or you
go out for a quick a couple of drinks at
the pub and then straight back to her
place it happened for me in my 40s it
happened for me in my 30s it happened
for me in my 20s it's always the
same and women have yet to learn that
there are men like I used to be and
there are a lot of guys that still are
that will say hey I'm I'm in this for
the hookup I'm in this for the having
fun if a woman said to me or says to
guys uh at least honest guys she says
I'm looking for a long-term relationship
I want something that's I tell you now I
used to say oh I'm not really into that
I'm just kind of goofing off and having
fun you never know if you meet the right
somebody maybe something might happen
but other than that I'm just kind of
doing the casual thing you'd be
surprised how many women would say oh
that's cool I totally get that and then
you hang and now this wouldn't be on a
date this would be like if you're asking
for a phone number in a club or
something or other but but she still
sees you out having fun she sees you're
sociable and she'll think to herself I
bet I could change him I bet I bet I
could convince him that I would make a
good girlfriend I bet I can change his
mind and so you'd flirt a little bit
more maybe hook up that night maybe get
the number later on hook up and then
after hooking up for a couple of times
you get the well what are we texts what
are we what are we doing you and I I
would inevitably say what do you mean
what are we we're we're going on dates
and hooking up she'd say yeah but I told
you I just wanted a serious relationship
yes yes you told me that and I told you
I was just hooking up and having fun and
then they get mad at you even though you
told them right up front what your plans
were and what you were doing and what's
going on and then they get angry with
you like it's your fault like you trick
them or you convince them to sleep with
you and it's the same game that's been
going on for all of time and then she in
instead of taking accountability for for
maybe what she's done she blames you now
the difference is back when I was a
younger guy she just get get mad at you
and call you an a-hole or something or
other now what women like to do is they
like to say that you're the bad guy that
you you somehow manipulated her and then
all of a sudden you're getting in
trouble with the law or the school
system if you're in college or your
employer because she decides to dox you
or social media or she files a civil
suit against you you know 18 years later
whatever that's the the litigious system
that we have now where but women have
never taken accountability for this
stuff I wanted to talk about this
because so many men today have the wrong
mindset about dating and about
women women are not awful creatures they
just have a set of hardwired rules in
their brain that they op operate by and
if you don't understand it it's
confusing if you do understand it it's
predictable guys if you want to date if
you want to sleep with women get in
shape get comfortable talking to people
be able to to crack a quick joke and be
funny and be interesting that's why you
know most of these most of these people
that I whether it was in Asia or whether
it was in Europe or whether it was you
know here in the United States or in
Australia or Poland or
wherever most of these women knew me for
less
than two or three hours one or two hours
either they picked me up because I was
hitchhiking and they gave me a ride for
a while and then we'd talk and maybe
stop in for a place and a bite to eat
and we struck it up and then then they
wanted to continue giving me a ride if
you know what I'm saying for a little
while or I go to Southeast Asia contact
them ahead of time vet them make make
sure they're not some professional that
they're actually you know a girl that
has a normal job and wants the to give a
guy the quote unquote girlfriend
experience for a couple of weeks and she
can take some time off from her job
that's what I did There's ways to work
the system that work for you and that's
what guys do that's what we do because
we're either a smart
b pigs a littleit little bit that just
want to sleep with women or like see all
of the above and it's always been the
same and women can't understand it
because they refuse to
learn you either women are confusing to
you or you understand them and it's
predictable women women should be able
to say men are either confusing if you
haven't been in the dating world or
don't pay attention or men are
predictable the problem with women like
this is she acts like she's confused but
she's not confused confused she's
predicting what will happen next because
it's happened to her before and it will
happen to her
again she just ref she and others like
her refuse to understand the dating game
and the Mating Game and how this
works and if a woman if a woman really
really wanted to date a guy and have a
boyfriend I think we could all
agree she should meet a guy date him for
an extended period of time when I say
extended period of time at least
multiple dates get to know him does he
legitimately want to have a girlfriend
does he want a date do you get to meet
some of his friends do you go to his
place does he come to your place and and
then you kind of explore the bedroom a
little bit more because the player guy
the guy like I was when I was in my mid
20s and mid-30s that player guy is going
to get bored he's going to say yeah you
know I there's other girls at the bar
I'm going out with my friends this
weekend I'll find a hookup and he ghosts
he like he just evaporates how do I know
because I was that guy at one point in
time and I you'd just be like no I'm not
going to waste my time with that because
I have other choices I have other things
to do I can go have more fun elsewhere
so the Bad Boys evaporate now when I
wanted to date and when I did want a
girlfriend then I was a good guy she'd
say I want to wait and I'd say hey oh
that's cool and we go on mult multiple
dates and I get to know her a little bit
and then I said hey I kind of like this
one and then they became a
girlfriend the guy that is the player
can become the boyfriend and the
boyfriend can go right back to being the
player women don't understand that
because they think they understand men
and that all men are pigs well the top
the top percent of men that have a lot
of choices they're kind of pigs then
there's this subset of men down below
there that they're going to take
advantage and if they go on a date and
she's up for getting down a a guy will
be into that but he then he disqualifies
her as the girlfriend because he says
well she's easy and I don't want an easy
woman because she likely will cheat on
me or hurt my feelings or ditch me or
something else and so he dis he he
qualifies her as a bedroom part partner
and disqualifies her as a girlfriend
I've done this as well many of you guys
have done this as well what the what the
red pillow is is about it's not hating
women it's not being angry at women it's
not it's not saying just sleep with them
and and use them the red pill is about
understanding their nature and and once
you understand their
nature then you understand sometimes I
will sleep with them and just have some
fun other times I'll meet one that I
think is special and she's a little bit
different and and other times uh I'm
going to be alone and enjoy my time and
they're not worth messing with and it
just depends on in where your life you
are during that
cycle and if you meet the right one and
she does but the see this is where
things start getting messed up too is
because now because of the internet and
because of uh Twitter and Reddit and and
Tik Tok and these other things now
you've got women giving other women
advice like hey if you meet a guy and
you really like him don't sleep with him
make him wait make him think you're high
value in the meantime you can sleep with
all all the other guys you're normally
sleeping with or your side pieces and
then when you know you're you think
you're ready then you can sleep with him
and he'll think you're high
value it's
manipulation that's part of the reason
why I am against some of the quote
unquote red pill content creators that
tell you hey um fake your Instagram
account and make it look like you're
rich and famous and and you know wear a
fancy watch and and money and and uh
tell women that you're really into them
and you care about them even though you
don't and and who cares because they're
just stupid you know women and it's okay
to manipulate them to sleep with them
I'm just as against that as I am against
women manipulating and and it's not that
I think it's not that I think you you
you can't or it's not that I think
that uh that maybe some women don't
deserve it because some women do deserve
it's not that it's that if you're going
to complain about things being bad in
the dating world if if you're going to
complain about women cheating on their
boyfriends if you're going to complain
about the way things are you have to
make sure that you're not part of that
problem and so have I you know have I
seen my friends have I been in
situations where I know guys are and
guys I know guys I I like my friends I
know some of them were sleeping with
married women especially when I was in
the military you know I know they were
rolling up to a sergeant who's out on
deployment or or uh um or he's off base
or whatever I know some of my single
younger guy friends rolled up to married
women's houses and hooked up with
wives now as an older guy I can look
back and reflect and say my God what an
awful thing to do to a guy you know what
an awful way to be to somebody you know
it ruins him his life it ruins and he
doesn't even know about it but I mean
someday he he's probably going to find
out you know it it's it's not good but
at the time when I'm that young buck I
I'd look at the world much differently
and I'd say well who cares if it's not
my friend sleeping with her it it'd be
some other dude that's sleeping like
somebody's going to sleep with her so if
she wants it to be my friend why should
I care that's kind of a valid mindset
too it's not that there's necessarily
it's all wrong I mean at some point it's
all kind of wrong but it's not that
there's right or wrong it's what are the
what are the rules rules and what are
the guidelines that we set and are we as
as good men as are we as mature men as
are we as as responsible men are we
going to separ separate ourselves from
this enough to where we can say we're
not part of the problem anymore it's one
of the reasons why I don't think men
should be paying money to The Only Fools
girls because you're perpetuating the
problem and those guys say yeah but
there's a 100,000 other guys that are
paying bucks a month so who cares if she
makes half a million a year she's only
making $5 for me and I want okay but you
are part of that problem if all the men
said no more Only Fools goes away if
guys stopped hooking up with women on
one night stands yes women it wouldn't
stop women's
nature it because they' they'd still
have hookups in one night stands they'd
just do it with married guys but what if
those married guys didn't do it well it
it would force women to behave well but
it wouldn't change their nature they'd
still want to they'd still look for the
opportunities to do it it's just like if
you make um you know being a street
walker at night illegal women still do
it you know they they do it to their
detriment so you can't control women's
nature and once you understand that then
you can
decide where in the where in where in
that playground where in that that field
of dating you're going to
fall this woman has the same problem
that most women do they they are
confused by men or they understand how
men operate but refuse to come to terms
with it I think most most men understand
the game they understand how women
operate at least red pill guys do you
know blue pill and and simps don't
understand women at all but red red pill
men understand they need to hold
masculine frame they not they need not
to put up with BS uh and they're going
to make their move and take their shot
and if a woman lets them they're going
to do it and if a woman says no but he
wants a girlfriend he's going to date
her and if she says no and he doesn't
want a girlfriend he's going to move on
these are have been in stone for
forever just women like this just don't
understand it they refuse to and then
they're unhappy when they get the
results of their own actions uh guys as
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