What life is like when you're in a polyamorous relationship

ABC News
17 Mar 201707:10

Summary

TLDRThe video explores polyamory, a consensual relationship style involving multiple romantic partners. It focuses on Carrie Jenkins, a professor in a polyamorous marriage with Jonathan and a romantic relationship with Ray. The script highlights the challenges and rewards of polyamory, including societal stigma, jealousy, and raising children in such relationships. Carrie and her partners advocate for a shift in societal perceptions of love and family, emphasizing communication and openness as keys to success. Despite facing criticism, they demonstrate the legitimacy of polyamory as a fulfilling and functional lifestyle.

Takeaways

  • 😀 Polyamory is a consensual romantic relationship involving multiple partners, as demonstrated by Carrie, Jonathan, and Ray.
  • 😀 Carrie and Jonathan, both professors at the University of British Columbia, have been married since 2011 but practice polyamory.
  • 😀 Carrie enjoys a romantic relationship with both her husband Jonathan and her boyfriend Ray, each of whom is aware of the other's role.
  • 😀 The polyamorous relationships presented in the script emphasize the importance of honesty and communication, where cheating is defined as secrecy, not the involvement of multiple partners.
  • 😀 Polyamory is not just about romantic or sexual relationships; it's also about family, teamwork, and shared responsibilities, as seen in the relationships with children.
  • 😀 Despite some common stereotypes, polyamory is practiced by individuals from various backgrounds, including Canadians, who have openly shared their experiences.
  • 😀 Studies suggest that 1 in 5 Americans have been involved in non-monogamous relationships, which include various forms of romantic and sexual dynamics.
  • 😀 There is a growing movement of individuals who openly identify as being in non-monogamous relationships, aiming to reduce stigma and promote acceptance.
  • 😀 The relationships shown in the script challenge the traditional notion that love requires monogamy, proposing an alternative perspective on love and commitment.
  • 😀 The script highlights that jealousy and insecurity can be part of any relationship, including polyamorous ones, and addresses the complexities of navigating these emotions.

Q & A

  • What is polyamory as defined in the transcript?

    -Polyamory is defined as a consensual romantic relationship with multiple partners, where all parties involved are aware of and agree to the arrangement.

  • How did Carrie and Jonathan's marriage evolve into polyamory?

    -Carrie and Jonathan were married in a traditional ceremony in 2011, but over time, they decided to adopt polyamory, believing that romantic love and sex are not inherently tied together.

  • What is the key difference between a polyamorous relationship and cheating?

    -In a polyamorous relationship, honesty and communication are paramount, and if one partner secretly pursues a romantic relationship without informing the other, that would be considered cheating.

  • How do Carrie and her partners manage their romantic and sexual relationships?

    -Carrie has romantic relationships with both Jonathan and Ray, with Jonathan remaining at home while she spends time with Ray, and all parties are aware and consenting of the situation.

  • What benefits do Jonathan and Ray see in their polyamorous arrangement?

    -Both Jonathan and Ray appreciate the freedom to date others, though neither is currently in another relationship. They also value the loving and non-monogamous aspects of their relationship.

  • What is the main challenge of polyamory according to Carrie and her partners?

    -Jealousy and insecurity can sometimes arise, as in any relationship, but these feelings are worked through with open communication and understanding between all partners.

  • How does polyamory challenge traditional views on love and relationships?

    -Polyamory challenges the traditional belief that love requires monogamy, and Carrie’s book, *What Love Is and What It Could Be*, aims to offer an alternative perspective on relationships.

  • What is the impact of polyamory on raising children, as seen in the transcript?

    -Polyamory can provide additional support in child-rearing, with multiple parents available for tasks such as breastfeeding, child care, and team efforts to raise the children, as demonstrated by other polyamorous families.

  • What social challenges do polyamorous families face?

    -Polyamorous families often face criticism and social stigma, as seen with Carrie receiving negative feedback and anonymous comments despite the normalization of polyamory in their lives.

  • How does the polyamorous family dynamic affect the individuals involved?

    -The polyamorous arrangement allows individuals to experience fulfilling relationships with multiple people while also creating a strong sense of community and support, although it can also bring about challenges such as balancing the roles of being both partners and co-parents.

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