r/AITA I Ruined the Life of My Wife's Affair Partner
Summary
TLDRこのスクリプトは、複数の人々が自分の行動が正しいかどうかを問う、興味深い物語を紡いでいます。第1話では、夫が妻の不倫相手に復讐し、離婚を引き起こした結果について語ります。第2話では、女性が夫がビジネスクラスに昇格した際に一人で飛行機で不安を感じるが、妻は無視し、夫の自己中心的な行動に怒ります。第3話では、シェフの男性が妻の姉に料理を提供することを求められるが、断ります。第4話では、大学生の男性が親に家賃を支払っているにもかかわらず、親が彼を甘えようとする姿勢に対処します。各エピソードは、人々の価値観や家族の役割、そして親子関係についての視点を提供し、視聴者が共感し、自分の状況と比較できるストーリーを展開しています。
Takeaways
- 😡 男性が妻の不倫相手に復讐し、その結果として離婚を引き起こした。
- 😔 妻は男性に不倫相手の財布、携帯電話、車キーを盗まれた責任を押し付けた。
- 🤔 男性は妻の不倫相手の離婚の責任を負わないと主張し、妻との関係を終わらせた。
- 😠 33歳の女性が、夫がハネムーンでビジネスクラスにアップグレードされた際に、一人で座席に残されたと憤りを感じた。
- 😒 夫は妻に自分の飛行機の不安を共有し、妻が返信しないことに怒った。
- 🤨 観客は夫の態度に問題を感じ、ハネムーンの経験を共有すべきだったと指摘した。
- 🍳 31歳の男性は、妻の妊娠中に料理を手伝ったが、妻の姉が同じように頼んだ時には断った。
- 😤 姉は夫に非難し、家族に助けを求めたが、夫は距離感を保とうとした。
- 🏠 大学生は両親に家賃を支払っており、両親からの統制的行為に反発し、自分の生活を守ろうとした。
- 👶 3歳の娘が初めて歯医者に行き、問題なく歯をチェックしてもらい、親が誇りに思った。
- 👦 16歳の子供が年収60,000ドルのビジネスを立ち上げ、家賃を支払って自己管理していると、親は誇りを感じるべきだと述べた。
Q & A
夫が浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗んだのはなぜですか?
-夫は妻の浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗んだことで、浮気相手が自分の服を着ることになり、浮気相手の妻が彼の不貞を発見し、離婚を要求した結果、浮気相手に経済的な損失が生じました。
妻が浮気を認めた後の夫の行動は何ですか?
-夫は妻の浮気を認めた後、別れた家に身を隠し、友人の家で酔っ払きました。その後、妻との間の問題をカウンセリングで解決しようとしましたが、最終的には離婚を決めました。
カウンセリングセッションで妻が何を主張しましたか?
-カウンセリングセッションで妻は、夫が浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗むことで浮気相手の離婚に貢献し、浮気相手に経済的な損失を与えたと主張しました。また、もっと成熟した対応を求めました。
夫が浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗んだことについてどう対応しましたか?
-夫は妻に対して、浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗んだことを認めず、妻が自分を非難する根拠を与えないようにしました。しかし、最終的には妻が自分を責めることに耐えられず、浮気相手の離婚の原因について正直に話しました。
夫が妻の浮気相手に対してどのような感情を持っていますか?
-夫は妻の浮気相手に対して強い憤りと反感を持っており、彼が離婚し、全てを失うことを願っています。また、妻が自分を責めることに対して強い反発を感じています。
妻が浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗まれたことについてどのように感じていますか?
-妻は浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗まれたことについて、夫が成熟した対応をとれなかったと感じており、浮気相手の離婚の責任を夫に押し付けています。
夫が浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗んだことによって何が起こりましたか?
-浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗まれたことで、浮気相手の妻が彼の不貞を発見し、離婚を要求しました。その結果、浮気相手は経済的な損失を被りました。
妻が浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗まれたことに対してどのように対応しましたか?
-妻は浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗まれたことに対して、夫に責任を押し付け、彼の離婚の責任を夫に負わせると主張しました。
夫が妻の浮気相手に対してどのような態度をとりましたか?
-夫は妻の浮気相手に対して強い憤りと反感を持ち、彼が離婚し、全てを失うことを願っています。また、妻が自分を責めることに対して強い反発を感じています。
夫が妻の浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗んだ理由は何ですか?
-夫は妻の浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗むことで、浮気相手に経済的な損失を与え、彼の妻に離婚を要求させるように計画しました。
夫が妻の浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗んだ結果、浮気相手にどのような影響がきましたか?
-夫が妻の浮気相手の財布、携帯電話、車の鍵を盗んだ結果、浮気相手の妻が彼の不貞を発見し、離婚を要求しました。その結果、浮気相手は経済的な損失を被りました。
Outlines
😀 配偶の不倫相手に復讐を働いた話
32歳の男性が、妻の不倫相手に復讐し、離婚を引き起こしたエピソード。妻の浮気がバレた後、激しい怒りから家を飛び出し、不倫相手の服を捨てた。その後、妻の浮気相手が自分の妻に服を着て見つかり、離婚が決まってしまった。男性は妻とカウンセリングを受けていたが、妻が自分に責めを投げかけ、離婚を決意。妻の不倫相手が離婚で莫大な損失を被るが、男性はその責任を負わないと主張し、妻との関係を断つ。
😔 夫がビジネスクラスで一人旅を楽しんでしまった妻
33歳の女性が、夫がハネムーン旅行でビジネスクラスに一人で座った話。夫は飛行機が怖かったが、妻のフライトマイルでアップグレードを申し込んでしまい、妻はエコノミークラスで子供連れの隣に座らされる。夫は妻に心配をかけ、妻は夫の自己中心的な行動に怒り心頭。夫は妻に謝罪し、妻はハネムーンを楽しもうとしたが、夫の態度に不満を覚える。
😠 妻の姉に料理を提供するように要求された話
31歳の男性が、妻の姉に料理を提供するように要求されたが、断った話。男性は妻が妊娠している間に妻のために料理をしてくれたが、妻の姉が同じように要求し、男性は妻の姉にも同じことを求められるべきではないと主張。妻の姉は男性に非難し、両親にも訴えるが、男性は妻の姉の要求が無茶だと結論づける。
😒 大学生で会社経営者である息子を親が縛りつけようとした話
大学生で会社経営者である息子が、親に自由を奪われることになった話。親は息子に対して大人の責任を求め、家賃を要求し、息子の行動を制限し始めた。息子は自分の生活を自分で管理し、親との間には問題があると感じ、祖父に相談した結果、親との関係を改善し、自分の生活を守ることを決意。祖父は親に言い争い、息子に対して親への敬意を求めたが、息子は自分の時間を大切にし、親との関係を冷え切らしてしまった。
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Keywords
💡復讐
💡不倫
💡離婚
💡貧困
💡家族
💡責任
💡倫理
💡自己責任
💡支援
💡独立
💡親子関係
Highlights
A man discovered his wife's affair by finding clothes on the living room floor and sounds from the bedroom.
Instead of confronting the couple, he took their clothes and disposed of them in a McDonald's garbage can.
His wife's affair partner ended up in oversized clothes, leading to his wife discovering his infidelity and canceling their prenup.
The man and his wife attempted counseling but ultimately decided on divorce after disagreements over the affair.
A woman was upset with her husband for accepting a business class upgrade on their honeymoon flight, leaving her alone.
The husband justified his decision by stating it was his first chance to fly business class, while his wife frequently does.
The wife felt abandoned and ignored her husband's texts about his anxiety over flying during the flight.
A man, who is a chef, refused to cook for his pregnant sister-in-law, suggesting she rely on her husband instead.
The sister-in-law and her parents were upset with the man for not helping out during her pregnancy.
A college student, who has his own successful company, was charged rent by his parents but expected to follow their rules.
The student disagreed with his parents' attempt to ground him and moved out before graduating.
A father expressed pride in his three-year-old daughter's successful first dentist appointment.
The same father was frustrated with his parents for not showing appreciation for his achievements and independence.
A podcast host gave advice on the situations, assigning a 'butthole' score to rate the parties' behavior.
The podcast host suggested that the individuals involved in each story should reflect on their actions and relationships.
The host encouraged viewers to subscribe to the podcast for daily content on similar topics.
Transcripts
welcome to r/ Ami the butthole where op
gets revenge against his wife's Affair
partner in a pretty funny way am I the
but hole for robbing my wife's Affair
partner which has now led to his divorce
I'm 32 and I've been married to my soon
to be ex-wife Madison who's 30 for 4
years we're currently in counseling but
it's not going to work about a year ago
I found out that she was having an
affair by seeing their clothes on our
living room floor and sounds coming from
our bedroom I just lost it I was getting
my Cricut bat out of the front closet
when I stopped to think about the
consequences I did not want to go to
jail instead I just took all their
clothes and left quietly I went to a
friend's house but not before throwing
all their clothes in a McDonald's
garbage can I just turned off my phone
and got shitfaced with my buddy the next
morning when I turned my phone back on I
had dozens of calls and texts from
Madison first she was scared because she
got my updated slight information then
she was upset that I hadn't called her
to let her know that I was going to be
coming home early then freaked out that
the house had been broken into then
crazy because she figured out it was me
the messages just got more deranged the
guy she was with is 5 in shorter than me
and about 60 lb lighter so if he had
worn my clothes it would have been
obvious the guy ended up calling his
friend to go get his spare keys from his
house unfortunately for him his wife
smelled a rat and followed his friend
back to my house there she saw him
leaving in oversized clothes long story
short she took pictures and she had
evidence of his infidelity which caused
their prenup to be cancelled which cost
him a lot of money it's all one big
giant show it took a couple of
months but my wife convinced me to try
and forgive her we started going to
counseling and we're working our way
through it until recently in a
counseling session she what she said
that I was wrong to steal his wallet
phone and car keys she said that his
divorce is costing him a lot of money
and that I should have dealt with it in
a more mature Manner and that it was my
fault I have never admitted to taking
this guy's stuff to begin with I was
afraid that he might call the cops also
I didn't want to give my wife ammunition
against me now I just don't care I told
her that cheating was the reason her
boyfriend is getting divorced
and that I hope his ex-wife takes
everything from him I'm still not living
at home I have my own apartment and I'm
filing for divorce now that I know how
she feels it's kind of a slap in the
face that she's blaming me for his
divorce y yo that's actually crazy
getting down by a married man
when you yourself are married and then
blaming the divorce on your husband who
walked in on you is crazy your wife is
toxic I I wonder if the real reason why
she's so angry at you about this is
because she secretly hopes that her
boyfriend is going to get all of his
money from the divorce that way she can
go move in with him and be you know rich
and happy and get down as much as
she wants but unfortunately if the guy's
ex-wife takes all of his money then her
happily ever after is in danger oh well
am I the butthole for ignoring my
husband during our flight when he
expressed anxiety over flying I'm a
33-year-old woman and I recently married
my husband who's 30 we took a 3-hour
flight to Mexico for our honeymoon I fly
a lot for my job so I've rocked up a lot
of miles my husband is not a big fan of
flying though he has gotten better and
tends to just hold my hand and close his
eyes during take off and Landing when I
booked our flights I requested to use my
points if an upgrade to business class
became available but I made it clear
that I only wanted this upgrade if two
seats became available and then
basically forgot about it then comes the
day of our flight I was so excited for
this trip I checked us in online all's
going well and then when we go to board
the person scanning out our boarding
passes stops US she says that my husband
was upgraded to business class but only
him and asks me if that's okay I
immediately say no we're on our
honeymoon and we'd like to stay together
but then my husband jumps in and says no
no no it's fine I'll go to business
class I look at him in complete shock
and he tell tells me that I fly all the
time and I've been in business class
before but he hasn't so he deserves a
chance to experience it I see that we're
holding up the line so I feel like I
just need to agree and get on the plane
to say that I'm pissed off is an
understatement my husband is all smiles
taking his seat and I go back to my seat
where they sit me next to an old woman
with a baby on her lap where my husband
should be sitting within maybe 5 to 10
minutes of me sitting there trying to
pull back tears because my husband left
me alone on our honeymoon flight using
my points for his upgrade no less he
starts to text me saying that he feels
anxiety over flying I ignore the text
and stop looking at my phone within
maybe an hour We're in the air and he
comes to the back of the plane to find
me offers me half of his business class
breakfast and asks me why I was ignoring
him that he was scared and he needed me
to tell him that it'd be okay since I'm
such an experienced flyer I told him
maybe he should have thought about that
before leaving me alone before our
honeymoon ever really began he gets
angry tells me that this may be the only
time he gets to fly business class and
he was giving me half his breakfast to
make up for it so I could at least be
supportive of his genuine fear I roll my
eyes sarcastically say thanks and he
goes back up to his seat when we landed
I tried to just move on and forget about
it so that we could enjoy our honeymoon
but but he guilt tripped me about not
comforting him by a text before takeoff
and now I'm wondering if I'm being
unreasonable and if I should have just
let him enjoy his time in business class
and ensure him that it'd be okay so am I
the butthole op's husband in this story
is weirdly fixated on the fact that this
may be his only chance to ever fly
business and it's true that is actually
a a genuine concern this may be his only
chance to fly business so if he doesn't
jump on this opportunity then he'll miss
his shot however however this is a big
butt here he seems to be forgetting that
this may also be his only opportunity to
have a nice honeymoon actually I'm
looking down in the comments and someone
says is everything always about him and
op replies he grew up poor and has this
mindset of always wanting to have more
things more money Etc I grew up middle
class but I had awesome parents that
made sure that I got opportunities that
they didn't I think that my husband has
a very fear of missing out mindset and
thinks that he deserves to experience
things as an adult because he had so
little growing up we just have very
different ways of looking at things I
care about enjoying what I do for work
and I don't really care about salary and
promotions but he wants to make all the
money he can get and promotions no
matter what yeah like I understand this
is a logical attitude for him to have if
he grew up poor but what about the fomo
of having a nice marriage does he not
worry about missing out on having a
happy wife happy life op I'm on your
side especially if you got stuck in the
middle seats op you get zero out of five
buttholes I'm giving your husband 1.5
out of five buttholes am I the butthole
for refusing to cook for my wife's
pregnant sister and telling her that she
has a husband who can do it I'm a
31-year-old guy and my wife Sage is 30
we've been married for 6 years and we
have two kids together I'm a chef and I
love to cook but generally we take turns
cooking so that neither gets burned out
or feels like it's a chore when my wife
was pregnant though I cooked for her all
the time because pregnancy was not easy
for sage and I wanted her to be able to
relax and enjoy food instead of being
too tired and sick to eat which is how
she was in the very early stages of her
first pregnancy everyone knew about this
but Sage's sister Gwyn who's 34 brought
this up an excessive amount and she said
that she couldn't believe that Sage was
getting waited on during her pregnancy
and that a dude would do that for his
wife it was a bit annoying how much she
brought it up currently Gwyn is pregnant
with her first child and she called me
up out of the blue after her pregnancy
announcement to say that I should cook
and send meals over for her like I did
for sage what at first I thought that
she was trying and failing to be funny
but nope she was as serious as a heart
attack I told her I was not cooking for
her and I brought up how random and
inappropriate it was to ask like that
she told me that we're family and she's
pregnant and I should want her to rest
as much as I had wanted Sage resting
during both of her pregnancies I told
her Sage is my wife so it's different
and I told her that she has a husband to
cook for her if that's what she wants
she told me that her husband would never
cook for her and I should try being a
good brother-in-law I told her a
brother-in-law doesn't equal a spouse
Gwyn tried to talk my wife into
convincing me but the two of them were
never really close so sage just rolled
her eyes and told her where to go even
my wife couldn't believe that was for
real Gwynn's reaction to being told no
by both of us was to run to her parents
and tell them that I refused to help her
out and she told them that she was
struggling and had just wanted my help
they asked me why I couldn't do it
occasionally since gwyn's husband is too
much of a butthole to do it I told them
that it was a lot to ask and we're not
that close to Gwyn when Gwyn realized
that her parents hadn't convinced me or
convince Sage to convince me she called
back up and said that I was a butthole
for not helping my family and for
rubbing her husband's lack of
consideration for her in her face I'm
starting to feel like this will become
such a huge deal and now I'm doubting
myself am I the butthole you know what's
funny about this story it's that every
single person in the story apparently
agrees that Gwynn's husband is a
douchebag okay so why are you having a
baby with a guy right does this make any
sense to anyone if he's a douchebag if
he's inconsiderate if he's an a-hole
just divorce him don't spawn on babies
with him it's like she expects you to be
responsible for her bad choices and who
she breeds with because she's breeding
with an inconsiderate a-hole who won't
help her when she's pregnant well then
maybe he shouldn't have had a baby with
him these people are delusional when I
read the title I thought this was going
to be a really mundane post about just
like my my sister-in-law was visiting
and I didn't want to cook for her am I
the butthole because that was the only
logical explanation I could come up with
from the title but this post has like
15,000 up votes I was like huh there
must be some weird other thing but then
no turns out the sister-in-law is being
wildly unreasonable here I was not
expecting that op you get zero out of
five buttholes Gwyn Gwynn's parents and
gwyn's husband all get 2.5 out of five
buttholes am I the butthole for being
disrespectful and telling my parents
good luck with that when they tried to
ground me I live at home while going to
University I'm in my final year and I
have a job lined up after I graduate my
parents have been charging me rent since
I was 16 I have a small company that
makes me about $60,000 a year I started
it in high school it's one of the
reasons that I graduated early from high
school and why I got attention from
recruiters my parents said that since I
was earning adult money I could take on
adult responsibilities I thought that
was fair so I paid for all my own stuff
starting at the age of 16 I didn't have
to pay for University I got a
scholarship also the rent that my
parents charged me was minor about 300
bucks a month but basically I considered
my room to be completely mine after that
I kept it tidy because I like it that
way but they had no say in when I
cleaned it they had no say in when I did
my laundry other than to not do it at a
time when I would disturb the family for
example 3:00 a.m. I bought my own food
and I ate whatever I wanted they tried
to say that I was separating myself from
the family but I just saw it as me
having my own schedule this year for
spring break I went down to Mexico with
my friends my parents parents were upset
because they were hosting a big Easter
family get together when I got back they
said that I was Behaving Badly by not
being around for a family gathering I
said that it was my last spring break in
University and that I was not
responsible for their schedule they said
that I was grounded and I laughed and
said good luck with that I went to my
room and locked my door they tried
banging on my door to get my attention
but I'm just done later my grandfather
came over to talk to me he he's the one
who helped me get my company started and
he's always been there for me he said
that I was rude to my parents when they
were trying to be there for
me I love it I asked him how much rent
he charged my mom when she was living at
home he said that it was ridiculous to
think that he would charge his kids rent
I told him that I'd been paying rent for
4 years so he went to my parents and I
heard a fight break out when he came out
he said that I need to treat my parents
with more respect but that since they're
my landlords they don't have a say over
how I spend my time I avoiding my
parents for now and I'm renting an
Airbnb right now until I graduate I took
everything that was important to me and
I left 600 bucks for the last 2 months
that I'd planned on being there they
keep calling me but I'm currently
getting ready to move for my new job I
don't have the energy to deal with them
okay guys so today my three-year-old
daughter Lily had a denstist appointment
and it was the first dentist appointment
that went well because she opened her
mouth and she let the dentist you know
check her teeth and it was just overall
a very pleasant happy experience and me
and my wife were just gushing over oh
we're so proud of you this is so
fantastic good job
Lily I'm saying this because I can't
even fathom how bursting overwhelming
with pride parental Joy I would be if my
16-year-old kid started a business that
was making 60 ,000 a year that is above
the median wage for literally average
Americans and then op also pays rent
takes care of their room is tidy and on
top of all that gets his own scholarship
to University oh my go I can't even
imagine how proud I would be and yet are
these parents proud are they proud of op
no they're just controlling bad
landlords how can these people have one
of the most well- behaved responsible
put together kids imaginable and they're
like yeah well you're still a child so
we expect you to obey us at all times yo
give me a break give me a break op you
get an easy peasy lemon squeezy zero out
of five but holes I'm giving your
parents let's say two out of five
buttholes that was R slmi the butthole
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