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Summary
TLDRThis video delves into the concept of emotional control and how mastering it can give men an edge in relationships. It challenges societal norms that encourage men to openly express emotions and argues that true power comes from controlling one's emotions. The speaker suggests that women are instinctively drawn to men who remain calm and composed, especially in chaotic situations, as it signifies strength and stability. By mastering emotions, men can gain control over their lives and become more attractive and powerful in relationships.
Takeaways
- 💡 Control over emotions separates weak men from powerful ones.
- 💪 True strength comes from mastering your emotions, not expressing them impulsively.
- 👀 Women are instinctively attracted to men who show emotional control, as it signals security and stability.
- 🌪️ A man who stays calm amidst chaos becomes the 'anchor' that women are drawn to.
- 🧠 Emotional control doesn't mean lack of feelings, but using emotions deliberately and strategically.
- ⚖️ Women don't want men who are ruled by emotions; they are drawn to men who can lead with stability and composure.
- 🚫 Most men make the mistake of thinking they need to express every emotion to be strong, which leads to weakness and lack of respect.
- 🔑 A man who controls his emotions becomes dangerous in a good way—calm, calculating, and capable of shaping the world around him.
- 🔥 Women will test men’s emotional control to see if they are grounded and stable; passing these tests is key to attraction.
- 🛡️ Mastering emotional control makes a man powerful, unforgettable, and attractive, as it offers stability in an unpredictable world.
Q & A
What is the central theme of the video script?
-The central theme of the video script is the importance of mastering emotional control for men, particularly in relationships with women. It suggests that women are instinctively drawn to men who have strong control over their emotions, as it conveys power, stability, and strength.
How does the speaker define 'real control' in the context of emotions?
-The speaker defines 'real control' as the ability to feel emotions without being ruled by them. It involves mastering one's emotions, remaining calm and composed in challenging situations, and making rational decisions despite internal emotional turmoil.
What does the speaker imply about societal messages regarding emotions?
-The speaker implies that societal messages encourage men to be overly expressive with their emotions, which can make them appear weak. He contrasts this with the belief that true strength lies in emotional restraint and control, not in constant emotional expression.
Why does the speaker suggest that women are attracted to men with emotional control?
-The speaker suggests that women are attracted to men with emotional control because it provides them with a sense of safety, security, and stability. A man who can maintain composure under pressure is seen as strong and dependable, which instinctively attracts women.
What is the speaker’s view on emotional vulnerability in men?
-The speaker views emotional vulnerability in men as something that society encourages but believes that it is counterproductive to attraction. He argues that too much vulnerability and emotional expressiveness make men appear weak and unstable, which repels women.
According to the speaker, how do women react when they sense a man is controlled by his emotions?
-According to the speaker, when women sense that a man is controlled by his emotions, they pull back and lose attraction. Women are said to be drawn to men who exhibit stability and control, and they perceive emotional volatility as a lack of strength.
What role do women’s 'tests' play in relationships, according to the script?
-The speaker suggests that women test men by pushing their emotional buttons to see how they react. These 'tests' are designed to assess whether a man can maintain control over his emotions. If a man remains calm and composed, he passes the test and increases his attractiveness.
What is the speaker's advice for men on handling emotions in challenging situations?
-The speaker advises men to remain calm, composed, and in control of their emotions during challenging situations. He emphasizes the importance of not allowing emotions to dictate actions, but rather to harness them and use them strategically when necessary.
How does the speaker describe the impact of emotional control on a man’s attractiveness?
-The speaker describes emotional control as making a man powerful and unforgettable. When a man can control his emotions, he stands out from others and becomes the 'calm in the storm,' which women are instinctively drawn to for the stability and strength it represents.
What does the speaker suggest is the ultimate outcome of mastering emotional control?
-The speaker suggests that mastering emotional control leads to true power and the ability to shape one's world rather than reacting to it. This control makes a man 'unstoppable' and 'untouchable,' giving him a commanding presence that attracts women and commands respect.
Outlines
💡 The Power of Self-Control: Breaking Away from Social Norms
The speaker introduces the concept of control, distinguishing it from societal norms that encourage compliance and vulnerability. He argues that real power comes from self-mastery, not from following the advice of expressing every emotion. The speaker critiques the idea that being openly emotional is attractive to women and instead claims that women are instinctively drawn to men who exhibit emotional control, which conveys strength, stability, and power. This control makes a man both secure and unpredictable, which women find irresistible.
🌊 Emotions as a Source of Power: Harnessing, Not Expressing
The speaker continues by emphasizing that most men let their emotions control them, which leads to instability and repels women. True strength comes from feeling emotions without being consumed by them. By maintaining composure, men become the 'calm in the storm,' exuding strength that women are instinctively drawn to. Emotional control is portrayed as essential to developing power and gaining the respect and attraction of women, who find security in a man who remains grounded amidst chaos.
🔥 The Dangerous Man: Unshakable and Calculating
The speaker deepens the idea of emotional control by stating that women will intentionally test a man to see if he can maintain his composure. If a man shows he is unaffected by emotional provocations, he differentiates himself from weaker men who let their emotions dictate their actions. Such a man becomes a rare figure, commanding respect and attraction. The speaker concludes by claiming that mastering emotions not only attracts women but also makes a man dangerous and powerful, as he can control the world around him.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Control
💡Emotions
💡Power
💡Stability
💡Vulnerability
💡Strength
💡Women’s Attraction
💡Emotional Tests
💡Game
💡Societal Expectations
Highlights
Understanding control over emotions can put you ahead of 99% of men when it comes to relationships and attraction.
Society teaches men to follow rules and show emotions, but real power comes from mastering emotions, not expressing them freely.
Women are instinctively attracted to men who exhibit control over their emotions, as it provides a sense of security and stability.
True control means having unshakable, immovable mastery over emotions, which makes men appear strong and powerful.
Emotions are chaotic and messy, and men who allow emotions to control them are perceived as weak and unstable.
Women are highly attuned to men's emotional state, and they pull back when they sense that a man is ruled by his emotions.
Attraction diminishes when a man’s emotions are erratic, as women seek stability and strength in their partners.
Men who are calm, collected, and composed during emotional turmoil are seen as strong and attractive to women.
Mastering emotions allows men to feel everything but not be consumed by their emotions, which is what women desire in a partner.
Women will often test men emotionally to see if they can handle difficult situations and remain in control.
A man who maintains control under pressure, especially during emotional testing, becomes more attractive to women.
Men who react emotionally and lose control fail these tests, making them less appealing in the eyes of women.
Real strength and power come from being able to feel emotions deeply but control when and how they are expressed.
By controlling emotions, men can shape their world instead of reacting to it, which is perceived as true power.
A man who masters his emotions becomes the calm in the storm, unshaken by life’s challenges, which is irresistibly attractive to women.
Transcripts
so what I'm going to share with you guys
in this video to be totally honest with
you has the potential to put you ahead
of like 99% of guys out there when it
comes to women and when it comes to
understanding game because to be totally
honest with you most guys don't even
understand this one simple thing now I
want to talk to you about control not
the kind of control that Society tries
to sell you though the kind where you're
told to follow the rules where you're
told to smile where you're told to play
night with everybody where you're told
to just be a good little boy what I want
to talk to you about is something a
little bit darker something deeper and
it's the kind of control that really
separates the weak from the powerful the
Forgotten from the unforgettable it's
the kind of control that comes from
mastering yourself you see all your life
they have told you a lie they've told
you a beautifully packaged lie that has
been wrapped in feel-good advice and
soft words they tell you to express your
feelings they tell you to be vulnerable
how many times have you heard this in
society how many times have you heard
this from people that you trusted from
your parents even from the movies they
tell you to show every little emotion
that flickers across your face they tell
you that women want this type of man
that they want a man who's open that
they want a man who lets it all out who
breaks down at the first sign of
trouble but let me tell you something
that they don't want want to admit the
thing about women is that women are
instinctively drawn to men who have
control over their emotions and I'm
talking about real control the kind of
control that is unshakable that is
immovable the kind that makes women feel
safe secure and on edge all at the same
time why because a man who can control
his emotions is a man who can control
his world and that my friends is what
true power that that is what true
control really is you see emotions that
we have they are these wild chaotic and
messy things and the thing about most
men is that most men allow their
emotions to run them one moment they
might be confident and steady and the
next they're drowning in insecurity
they're lashing out they're desperate
for validation and the thing about women
is that women are always paying
attention to these little details they
see this they feel this and whenever
they sense that a man is being
controlled by his emotions they pull
back and the answer is because there's
no stability in that there's no strength
and without stability without that rock
solid foundation there is never going to
be any
attraction so the thing about women is
that women don't actually want a man who
crumbles at every challenge they don't
want a man whose emotions are like the
wind blowing this way and that
unpredictable and weak what they want is
a man who stands firm a man who is
unshaken by the storms of life a man who
can feel without being consumed who can
think without being clouded that is
control that is power and that is what
every woman on this planet wants from a
man that's what they really want you see
when you control your emotions you
become the calm in the storm you become
the anchor so to speak you become the
one who doesn't get Swept Away by the
tides of fear anger or desperation and
you become the man who can keep his cool
when everything around him is falling
apart and women absolutely cannot resist
that because in your calm in your
control women find something that they
can't really explain something that
they're drawn to like moths to a
flame so let me tell you this a man who
is in control of his emotions is
absolutely dangerous why because he's
not reacting he's not responding
responding he's not being pushed and
pulled by every little thing that life
throws his way he's calculating he's
deliberate he's the one who doesn't
explode in anger or dissolve into a
puddle of weakness and that kind of man
is rare he's powerful and women
instinctively know this because deep
down what women are really looking for
is a man who can lead them a man who can
protect and a man who can make decisions
without being swayed by fear or doubt
women are not looking for a man who is
ruled by his emotions who gets lost in
them who lets them take control they're
not looking for a man who cries every
other time he talks to them what they're
really looking for is a man who is
taking control a man who feels
everything but shows almost nothing the
man who can take all that chaos inside
and keep it locked away wielding it only
when necessary that's the type of man
that women are looking for but most men
have absolutely no control they think
that their emotions are their truth they
think that every feeling must be
expressed every thought must be shared
with a woman and they wonder why they're
seen as weak why women don't respect
them why they're left standing alone
again and again it's because they're
letting their emotions run them and when
you're a slave to your emotions you're
not in control you're a passenger in
your own life and women will see this
they will feel it and they will be
repulsed by it so control over your
emotions doesn't mean that you don't
feel anything doesn't mean that at all
what it means is that you feel
everything but that you're not a slave
to any of it it means that you feel the
anger you feel the fear you feel the
desire just like any guy would but
unlike 99% of men out there you never
let it dictate your actions you never
let it drive you and instead you use it
you harness it and you keep it in check
because you are the one in control not
your emotions and when you have that
kind of control you become something
different you become the man who can
walk into any room any situation and
stay calm composed and collected and it
is in that calm in that unshakable
presence that women see strength they
see Power and they see a man that they
can lean on the man who won't break no
matter how hard life hits now the thing
about women is that women will test you
you all know this very well they will
push your buttons they will try to
provoke you they'll try to get a
reaction out of you and they'll try
everything that they can to make you
lose control and the reason why they do
this is because they need to see if you
can handle it if you can handle them
then you are the type of man that they
will be attracted to if you are a man
who can stand firm when things get
chaotic when emotions run High then you
are the type of man who they will chase
after but if you lose control if you
allow your emotions to spill out all
over the place then you have lost my
friend but if you stay calm if you keep
control if you show them that nothing
can rattle you nothing can shake you
then no matter how high the emotions
rise that you stay grounded that is how
you win the game that's when they start
looking at you differently because now
you've shown them that you're not like
the others you're not like the men who
get emotional The Men Who get weak who
allow their feelings or their emotions
to dictate their every move and it is in
this process that you've shown them that
you are the man who is in control of
himself and when you're in control of
yourself you're in control of the world
my
friend now the thing about women is that
women are instinctively drawn to that
kind of man because he offers something
that nobody else can what he offers is
stability he offers Purity he offers
strength and in a world that is full of
chaos full of emotional men who are
ruled by their feelings you become the
one who stands apart the one who doesn't
Bend who doesn't break who doesn't
crumble under the weight of his own
emotions and here's the Dark Truth when
you master your emotions when you
control them instead of letting them
control you you become absolutely
dangerous because now you're playing a
different type of game now you're not
reacting to the world around you you are
instead shaping it in fact you're the
one who's in charge you're the one who's
making the moves the one who isn't
swayed by every little feeling every
little fear and that my friends is what
makes you powerful that is what makes
you
Unforgettable so stop allowing your
emotions to control you stop thinking
that being emotional is the same as
being strong it's not real strength
comes from control real power comes from
mastering your emotions from being the
man who can feel everything but chooses
what to show what to reveal and when to
reveal it be the man who can stand in
the fire and not even Flinch be the man
who can feel the anger the fear the
desire and still make rational
calculated decisions be the man who
doesn't let his emotions rule him but
instead rules over his emotions because
that man is absolutely Unstoppable he's
Untouchable he's the man who women can't
help but be drawn to because in his
control they find what they're truly
looking for they find what they've
wanted all along so you have to take
control my friends you have to master
your emotions never let your emotions
run you always be the calm in the storm
be the rock that they cannot shake that
no woman can shake that no woman can
break in watch as women will start to
come to you drawn to the power that they
can feel but never really quite
understand because when you control your
emotions my friends at the end of the
day you control everything and if you
want to learn more that will change your
life in terms of relationships
attraction and everything like that be
sure to join the channel memberships and
with that said until next time thanks
for watching
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