The Muslim needs to know how to SPEAK

Summary

This video script emphasizes the critical role of communication in achieving success, asserting that it's the foundation of leadership. It identifies two main barriers to effective communication: negative beliefs and lack of authenticity. The speaker explains how bad beliefs, formed from fearful thoughts and feelings, can hinder action, while good beliefs foster positive outcomes. Authenticity is highlighted as essential for genuine connection. The script encourages viewers to visualize positive scenarios to shape good beliefs and to embrace their true selves to communicate effectively, drawing examples from personal experiences and figures like Donald Trump to illustrate the power of communication.

Takeaways

• 🗣️ Communication is crucial for success and leadership.
• 🚫 Resistance in communication can stem from past negative experiences.
• 🧠 Bad beliefs are formed from negative thoughts and feelings.
• 🔑 Visualization can help shape good beliefs by tricking the mind into thinking positively.
• 🌟 Authenticity is key to effective communication; being true to oneself is more appealing than trying to conform.
• 🚫 Avoid over-scripting conversations as it can lead to inauthenticity and hinder communication.
• 💪 Repeatedly visualizing positive outcomes strengthens beliefs and actions.
• 🌱 Bad beliefs can paralyze actions and prevent personal growth.
• 🌐 Communication skills can significantly impact one's influence and attractiveness to others.
• 🔄 Overcoming bad beliefs and embracing authenticity can lead to increased influence and better communication.

Q & A

What are the two main reasons that block effective communication according to the speaker?

The two main reasons are bad beliefs and a lack of authenticity.

How are bad beliefs formed according to the script?

Bad beliefs are formed through a process that starts with a thought, followed by a feeling, which then solidifies into a belief.

What is an example given in the script to illustrate how bad beliefs are created?

The example is a person who wakes up with the thought of getting into a car crash on the way to work, which leads to fear and anxiety, ultimately forming a bad belief.

Why do many Muslims avoid discussing human psychology and the brain according to the speaker?

The speaker suggests that many Muslims avoid discussing these topics because they are so powerful and closely related to the formation of beliefs.

How does the speaker describe the relationship between thoughts, feelings, actions, and reality?

The speaker describes a process where thoughts lead to feelings, which then lead to actions, and these actions shape reality.

What is the role of visualization in shaping good beliefs as explained in the script?

Visualization is a technique where the mind imagines scenarios, and by repeatedly imagining positive outcomes, it strengthens good beliefs.

Why is authenticity important in communication according to the speaker?

Authenticity is important because it allows individuals to be their true selves, which in turn makes them more attractive and influential communicators.

What does the speaker suggest is a common problem among Muslims regarding communication?

A common problem is the belief that they should not be authentic, leading to scripting conversations and limiting their true potential.

How does the speaker define authenticity?

Authenticity is being true to oneself without filtering or conforming to others' expectations.

What impact does the speaker claim good communication can have on relationships with family and friends?

Good communication can lead to increased energy, happiness, and influence in relationships with family and friends.

What is the speaker's personal experience with communication and how did it change?

The speaker had poor communication skills due to trauma, which created bad beliefs. After working on these beliefs and embracing authenticity, their communication skills improved, and they gained more influence.

Outlines

00:00

🗣️ Mastering Communication Through Beliefs

The speaker emphasizes the importance of communication for success in life and identifies two main reasons that hinder effective communication. They introduce the concept of beliefs as a significant factor in shaping our actions and communication. Bad beliefs, often stemming from negative thoughts and feelings, can be detrimental to one's life. The speaker encourages the audience to understand that beliefs are formed in the mind and then solidify in the heart. They also highlight the importance of authentic communication and how it can lead to becoming a leader. The paragraph concludes with advice on visualizing positive outcomes to shape good beliefs.

05:02

🌟 Cultivating Good Beliefs and Authenticity

The speaker discusses the process of creating good beliefs through repetition and visualization, stressing that it must be done multiple times to be effective. They touch on the common issue of Muslims feeling they should not be authentic, which leads to over-preparation and ultimately inaction. The speaker argues that authenticity is key to effective communication and that trying to conform to others' expectations can lower self-esteem. They encourage the audience to embrace their authenticity and not to filter themselves in an attempt to please others. The paragraph concludes with the idea that good beliefs and authenticity can lead to empowerment and a more attractive personal presence.

10:04

🌈 Unlocking Potential Through Authentic Communication

The speaker shares personal experiences and the impact of overcoming bad beliefs and embracing authenticity on their communication skills. They highlight the power of communication to influence others and build relationships, using Donald Trump as an example of someone with strong communication skills despite other shortcomings. The paragraph underscores the idea that good communication can enhance one's influence and attractiveness. The speaker concludes by reiterating the importance of having good beliefs and being authentic, as these are the keys to mastering communication.

Keywords

💡Communication

Communication is the process of exchanging information, ideas, or feelings through speech, signals, writing, or behavior. In the video, it is highlighted as a critical skill for success in life, creating leaders, and empowering individuals. The speaker emphasizes that effective communication stems from two main factors: beliefs and authenticity, which are the foundation for shaping one's thoughts and actions.

💡Beliefs

Beliefs refer to the acceptance that something exists or is true, especially without proof. In the context of the video, beliefs are portrayed as a driving force behind actions and attitudes. The speaker explains that bad beliefs can hinder communication, while good beliefs foster it. For instance, fearing negative feedback can create a bad belief that stops one from speaking out.

💡Authenticity

Authenticity is the state of being genuine, original, and not copied; true to one's own personality, spirit, or character. The video underscores the importance of being authentic to improve communication. It suggests that when people try to conform to others' expectations, they lose their authenticity, which weakens their communication skills. Authenticity is linked to self-esteem and personal empowerment.

💡Visualization

Visualization is the act of forming a mental picture of something. The speaker uses the concept to explain how imagining scenarios can shape beliefs. For example, visualizing oneself speaking confidently can lead to the formation of a belief in one's communication abilities, thereby improving actual communication.

💡Thoughts

Thoughts are the ideas or arrangements of ideas that occur in a person's mind. The video discusses how thoughts, when combined with feelings, can lead to the formation of beliefs. Negative thoughts about potential outcomes can create bad beliefs that impede communication.

💡Feelings

Feelings are the conscious and subjective experience of an emotion or sensation. In the script, feelings are mentioned as a component that, along with thoughts, contributes to the creation of beliefs. For example, the fear of a car crash leads to a belief that one might not return home, which affects communication.

💡Leaders

Leaders are individuals who guide or direct a group. The video suggests that effective communication is a key characteristic of leaders. It implies that mastering communication can enable one to become a leader within their community or group.

💡Influence

Influence is the capacity to have an effect on someone or something. The speaker mentions that improved communication skills can increase one's influence, as seen in the example of Donald Trump, who, despite his appearance, has a significant following due to his communication abilities.

💡Trauma

Trauma is a deeply distressing or disturbing experience. The video script mentions that past trauma can create bad beliefs that negatively affect communication. Overcoming these beliefs is part of the journey towards becoming a better communicator.

💡Empathy

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. Although not directly mentioned, the concept of empathy is implied in the video when discussing the importance of authentic communication. Being empathetic can enhance communication by allowing one to connect more genuinely with others.

💡Self-esteem

Self-esteem is the value or worth that one assigns to oneself. The video links self-esteem with authenticity, suggesting that when people try to conform to others' expectations, their self-esteem decreases. Authenticity and good beliefs are portrayed as ways to boost self-esteem and, consequently, communication skills.

Highlights

Communication is key to success in life.

Two main reasons block effective communication.

Beliefs are the root of communication, either good or bad.

Bad beliefs are created from thoughts and feelings.

The mind and heart are powerful in shaping beliefs.

Actions are shaped by beliefs, not just habits.

Visualization can shape good beliefs.

Repeating positive thoughts strengthens beliefs.

Authenticity is vital for effective communication.

Being inauthentic can lead to communication breakdowns.

Over-scripting can hinder natural communication.

Good communication can increase personal influence.

Authenticity and good beliefs lead to empowerment.

Communication can attract supporters and influence others.

Good communication can change perceptions and relationships.

The power of communication can build or destroy nations.

Having good beliefs is essential and never leads to wrong paths.

Being authentic and having the right beliefs can make one a master communicator.

Transcripts

if you want to succeed in life then you

need to master communication now I'm not

here to tell you why communication is

good you already know that but you have

always everyone has had that time where

they try to communicate with someone

that time at mosque at

Juma they tried to say asalamu alaykum

to someone but then they felt a

resistance they felt something was

pushing them

back why well we were going to solve

that very issue because the reason why

you cannot speak properly is because of

two main reasons and we are going to

destroy the things that block you from

communicating

effectively communication is what

creates leaders and you my friend are

going to be a leader you are a leader of

your

flock and I'm about to teach you the

most powerful skill and that is

communication

communication stems from two things

beliefs

and another one I'll reveal after

beliefs you see

beliefs are either good or bad

throughout your life you have had bad

beliefs now how are bad beliefs created

the

thought the

feeling and then the belief you see I'll

give you an example a person goes to

before he goes to work he wakes up he's

about to go to work and he gets the

thought that he's going going to end up

in a car crash and when he and when he

has this thought he has fear he starts

to fear that oh no I won't be able to

come back to my own family and provide

for them I won't be able to do anything

I'll be crippled I'll be in the hospital

paralyzed now he starts to fear this he

starts to get

anxiety now this is where a new belief

has been formed because of the thought

and the

feeling a lot of Muslims don't like to

actually not don't like to a lot of

Muslims don't talk about the human

psychology the human brain the

human everything about the human body

they don't talk about this because it is

so

important you see the mind is very

powerful the heart is very powerful

beliefs come from the

heart and the mind creates the beliefs

it go it starts from the mind and then

it goes into the heart now a lot of you

have bad beliefs now what you must

understand is every single action is

shaped from its beliefs the reason why

you do things is not because you

are you you just have a habit it is all

based on

beliefs this took a long time for me to

realize that it was not all about how I

thought that okay I think now I have to

do it is all based on beliefs you think

Wild Things probably you think of

jumping off an airplane you think of it

but you don't do it now if you believed

you wanted to do it like firmly believed

you would do it it is from beliefs not

all the time of your thoughts or

intentions as they say you

see it comes there there are two things

good belief Bel and bad beliefs now what

a lot of people have is bad

beliefs now this is a very bad thing

this can destroy your whole life bad

beliefs I've seen it happen too many

times people have bad beliefs people

start thinking bad bad things are going

to happen to them and they stop fearing

and then they don't don't do the action

like in prev like in the previous video

I mentioned thoughts feelings action

reality that is the process of how it

works now if you start thinking that hey

if I speak in a certain way then I'm

going to get a

negative feedback if I speak to someone

then they're going to see me in a

negative way that is another problem you

are creating a bad

belief now how do we shape a good belief

so that way you can be on your way to

actually communicating properly

visualization you see the mind doesn't

know from from imaginary to real if you

start imagining that you are in cold

weather if you start imagining that you

are in the middle of the the

Arctic suddenly you're going to feel

cold why because the subconscious the

mind doesn't know from real to imaginary

and likewise if you start imagining

yourself in the Sahara Desert you're

going to feel a bit

hot you

see your mind is the start of beliefs

now I want you to start thinking good

things I want you to start thinking of

the outcome is going to be

good I want you to start feeling good

about that thought the more you repeat

this the stronger your beliefs are going

to be you cannot do this once because I

made this mistake myself I only did it

once and then I thought hey this is not

working you have to do this multiple

times you need to start thinking good

you need to start feeling good about it

that is how you create a new belief and

as we all know beliefs shape actions

every action is based on his beliefs you

do not see the atheist preaching that

Allah is true why because he doesn't

believe in Allah and

likewise you do not see the Muslim

preaching that Allah is not real because

he believes that Allah is real and so he

preaches that Allah is real it's all

based on

beliefs the second point I would like to

touch upon is another common problem

that a lot of Muslims

face they

believe that they should not be

authentic you see the thing is is that a

lot of Muslims think that if I use a

script if I think of what I will say to

someone then they'll start to see me in

a positive way but then they overwhelm

themselves with too many scripts on what

to say to a person and then they are

left overwhelmed and they don't know

what to do and so because they don't

know what to do they don't do

anything that is why when you speak when

you want to speak to that person you

just

cannot because you are not authentic

you're not being your true self you are

limiting your your morals you're

limiting what you are capable of you're

capable of so much more but you have

limited

yourself I I can teach you the things

like pauses like I have done now I could

teach you to extend the words to make

you to make everything more emphasized I

can speed up the process to make things

less

boring but it all comes down to two

things your beliefs your good beliefs

and your

authenticity you have blocked your real

self you have blocked your real self for

such a long time I myself I'm a person

who loves to talk about

indepth things detail things that people

don't like to talk things that people

don't talk about

often this is my personality this is my

authenticity you have your own

authenticity now don't start to go

overboard with authenticity by thinking

that because some people will start to

say hey me being authentic is me

swearing

profanity this word that word this word

that is not what I'm trying to say not

take it overboard be yourself do not try

and filter yourself because when you try

and filter yourself what you are trying

to do is you are trying to

conform to people and that is where your

self-esteem goes down it

drops the reason why you cannot talk to

people is because you are not authentic

you are trying to conform you're trying

to make people think good of you and

when that happens you cannot be

satisfied you will never be satisfied

this is from the traps of Shan he wants

you to start thinking that people need

to think good of me he makes you believe

that oh you need to start making people

think good of you I have so many haters

and it doesn't bother me I have so many

lovers it doesn't bother

me it's not

about what you are looking it's not

about how you are perceived by the

people it's about your how you feel

yourself it's about your morals that is

the most important thing your morals are

the most important thing

you must hold dear to because once you

hold dear to it you're going to be a

person of authority you're going to

speak like you know what you are talking

about you are going to

speak with

energy the thing is is that when people

are not authentic everyone can see

through you they know you're not

authentic and so they they they brush

You Away you've you've had that time you

try speaking someone and you you

stumbled you fumbled you didn't know

what to say and so they got the ick they

didn't like it and so they try to get

away from the conversation they try to

shorten the conversation but when you

have good beliefs when you have

authenticity when you don't script

anything this video is not scripted when

you don't script things you're going to

find a level of empowerment you're going

to see yourself as a different

person you're going to

become more attractive a lot of Muslims

try to be more attractive but one of the

worst things that remove that

attractiveness is the

communication you could be one of the

most ugliest ugliest

people but you could have 10 out of 10

conversation level you could be the best

conversator and you'll have so many

supporters I'll give you an example love

him or hate him I'm not here to say but

Donald Trump has a lot of lovers firm

lovers but he also has a lot of haters

because of his

communication he may not be the best

looking guy he may not have the best

looking

hair but he sure does have a lot of

devotees because he's a good

communicator he has a 10 out of 10 wife

I'm not telling you to look at his wife

but he has a good wife because he is a

good

communicator that is the power of

communication when you implement these

two things I have taught

you

beliefs

authenticity once you do this with your

close ones with your family you're going

to find more energy from them you're

going to see that hey my mom's a bit

more happier than usual why because you

are more articulate you are more

charismatic

that is the beauty of

communicating there are so many things

you can unlock with communication so

many I'll give you an

example there was a time where I wasn't

the best person at communicating I was

terrible at communicating due to the

trauma I went through and that trauma

created bad beliefs once I start fixing

these these bad beliefs and turning them

into good beliefs as I started gaining a

level of

authenticity you first have to start

with beliefs then it comes to

authenticity and then when this happened

I gained too much attaction too many

people started seeing me as something my

influence went

up this video the previous video more

influence communication is so powerful

it can destroy Nations and at the same

time it can old Nations all by the

permission of Allah so what you must

understand is you need to have good

beliefs good beliefs will never go wrong

it will never take you anywhere wrong

but bad beliefs will always throw you

into a rabbit hole and another thing

authenticity just be yourself don't put

a limit to your mind you are the best

version of yourself no one is better no

one is a better version than you what I

mean is that they are not you they

cannot be you and that is a

superpower you are

different and that is how people will

recognize you if everyone was the same

if everyone wore the same clothes if

everyone spoke the same you wouldn't

know who to who's who but if you are

different if you more charismatic if

you're authentic if you have the right

beliefs then you are well and truly on

your way to communicate like a

master that is all you need to know

about

communication beliefs and authenticity