How to make someone obsessed with you

Summary

In this video script, Liz addresses the question of how to make someone obsessed with you. She emphasizes that the focus should be on self-love and self-improvement. By investing in oneself, pursuing passions, and maintaining a positive mindset, one naturally attracts others. Liz advises on improving physical attractiveness, mental health, and finding fulfilling activities. She stresses that confidence and a high vibrational energy are key to attracting people who are also high-vibrating. The ultimate goal is to love oneself so much that others are drawn to that energy.

Takeaways

• 🌟 The goal should be self-obsession, not making others obsessed with you.
• 💸 People are drawn to those who invest time and money in themselves.
• ❤️ Self-love and confidence naturally attract others.
• 🚫 You can't force obsession; it comes from a high self-vibration.
• 🌈 High self-vibration attracts high-vibrational people.
• 🌞 Positivity and a clear vision of oneself can help attract the right people.
• 🏋️‍♀️ Physical and mental self-improvement can increase attractiveness.
• 💡 Having a clear vision of your ideal self can help you become that person.
• 🎯 Pursuing passions and goals can make you more attractive to others.
• 🤗 Confidence and a positive mindset are key to attracting people.

Q & A

What is the main goal according to Liz in the Snapchat question?

The main goal should be to be obsessed with yourself, investing time and money in yourself and loving yourself.

Why do people become obsessed with others according to the script?

People become obsessed with others because they see that the person is investing in themselves, has self-love, and confidence, which many people lack.

What is the relationship between self-improvement and attracting high-vibrating people?

When you are improving yourself, taking care of your passions, and leveling up in life, you naturally attract high-vibrating people who are also positive and focused on self-improvement.

How does one's mindset affect their ability to attract others?

A positive mindset and high vibration are key to attracting others. If you're negative or in a poor state of mind, you won't attract high-vibrating people.

What does Liz suggest to develop a clear vision of oneself?

Liz suggests thinking about what the best version of yourself would look like, including aspects like appearance, habits, and social interactions.

Why does focusing on oneself reduce the need for others to be obsessed with you?

When you are focused on yourself, your passions, and your goals, you naturally become content and fulfilled, reducing the need for external validation or obsession.

How does changing one's lifestyle after a breakup relate to self-obsession in the script?

After a breakup, when people change their lifestyle, look better, and feel better, they become more self-obsessed in a positive way, which makes them less concerned about their ex and more attractive to others.

What is the importance of confidence and energy in attracting others, as per the script?

Confident energy is attractive because it shows that a person is happy and content with themselves, which is a desirable trait that others want to be around.

What steps does Liz recommend to become more physically attractive?

Liz recommends focusing on physical aspects like hair color, facial features, and body shape, and considering activities that can help achieve the desired physical appearance.

How does therapy and journaling play a role in self-improvement according to Liz?

Therapy and journaling help in getting the mind right, building confidence, and improving one's mental state, which are essential for self-improvement.

Why is it important to have a community that uplifts you, as mentioned in the script?

A supportive community helps in maintaining a positive mindset and provides an environment for personal growth and fun, which is crucial for self-improvement and attracting others.