How To Get A Woman Obsessed With You Only Using Texts

Summary

This video script offers a seven-day strategy to make a woman obsessed with you, starting from securing her number on dating apps using humor and confidence to texting at specific times to avoid appearing needy. It suggests techniques like the 'Peak Interest' to gauge her interest and 'False Gender Method' to incite jealousy. By day four, it advises avoiding certain messages that can kill attraction and recommends better alternatives. The script also includes a six-point checklist to evaluate if she's worth dating and concludes with a multiple-choice question technique to successfully ask her out, promising an increase in her interest and likelihood of a positive response.

Takeaways

• 📱 Use the Tinder bait and switch technique to stand out and get a girl's number by sending an original, funny message followed by your phone number unexpectedly.
• 🕗 Establish a texting schedule to avoid appearing needy or overly available, and to build intrigue by showing you have a life outside of texting.
• 🔍 Test her interest level with the Peak Interest technique, which involves sending a message that might make her think you were with someone else to gauge her reaction.
• 💬 Avoid sending certain messages that can make you seem needy or weird, and instead focus on simple, open-ended questions about her hobbies or personal life.
• 👫 Consider seeking a female perspective on conversation starters if you're unsure, perhaps by talking to a sister, cousin, or using a professional service for advice.
• 🍿 Make her jealous with the false gender method by implying you're with someone of unclear gender, leaving her curious and possibly jealous.
• 📝 Use a six-point checklist to evaluate if the girl you're texting is worth pursuing, considering her communication habits and responses.
• 📉 If she exhibits negative texting behaviors, like not replying or being dismissive, it might be a sign she's not interested or not a good match for dating.
• 📆 On the seventh day, ask her out using a multiple choice question to give her options while also showing confidence and avoiding a direct rejection.
• 💡 Remember that self-control over your emotions is crucial for these techniques to work effectively and to avoid becoming obsessed with the outcome.
• 🤔 Reflect on your feelings and communicate them effectively; if needed, seek professional help to understand and manage your emotions better.

Q & A

What is the main goal of the 'Tinder bait and switch technique' mentioned in the script?

The main goal of the 'Tinder bait and switch technique' is to stand out from other matches and get a girl's number by using an original, funny message to bait a response and then switching the way she expects you to respond by sending your phone number directly, showing confidence and assertiveness.

Why is it important to send a funny message as the first interaction on dating apps according to the script?

Sending a funny message is important because a study analyzed 213 single women and over 1,700 first-time messages, finding that men were 12% more likely to get a response when the first message was funny.

What is the 'personal timetable' for texting a girl suggested in the script and why is it recommended?

The 'personal timetable' suggests texting a girl in the morning between 6:00 and 8:00 a.m., avoiding texting from 8:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m., texting during lunchtime between 12:00 and 1:00 p.m., and then again after 8:00 p.m. until 11:00 p.m. This schedule is recommended to avoid appearing needy and to show that you have a life outside of texting, building up mystery and interest.

What is the 'Peak Interest technique' and how does it work according to the script?

The 'Peak Interest technique' is a method to gauge a girl's interest in you by sending a message that implies you were out with someone else. Depending on her response, you can determine her level of interest and potential jealousy, which can help you understand if she is genuinely interested in you.

What are some examples of messages that should be avoided according to the script?

The script advises avoiding messages that make you appear needy or weird. Examples include messages that are overly personal, aggressive, or that show a lack of self-confidence. Instead, it suggests keeping the conversation simple by asking about her hobbies or personal life.

How does the script suggest using the 'False Gender Method' to make a girl jealous through text?

The 'False Gender Method' involves mentioning plans with a friend and using gender-neutral pronouns when referring to that friend. This creates a sense of mystery and can make the girl curious and potentially jealous, without directly lying or making her lose interest.

What is the Six-point checklist mentioned in the script for determining if a girl is worth dating?

The Six-point checklist includes: 1) If she mentions other men when texting you, 2) If she replies with one-word answers, 3) If she gossips about others in her texts, 4) If she uses swear words in her texts, 5) If she goes silent on Friday and Saturday nights, and 6) If she leaves messages unseen or replies after long periods. These points help analyze her texting behavior and determine her interest and compatibility.

What is the recommended method for asking a girl on a date according to the script?

The script recommends using a multiple choice question to ask a girl on a date, such as 'Do you want to go get coffee or dinner with me next weekend?' This method combines the kindness of giving her an option with the assertiveness of not giving her the option to say no, increasing the chances of her saying yes.

Why is it suggested to consult with a friend or a professional if you struggle with self-control over your emotions towards a girl?

Consulting with a friend or a professional is suggested because having an outside perspective can help you distinguish between being genuinely in love and being obsessed, which is crucial for maintaining a healthy emotional state and building a positive relationship.

What is the significance of the 'betterhelp' service mentioned in the script and how can it be beneficial?

The 'betterhelp' service is an online platform that connects users with licensed professionals for counseling. It can be beneficial for those who need to rationalize their emotions, understand their feelings better, and improve their communication skills, all from the comfort of their home.

Outlines

00:00

📲 Tinder Baiting and Texting Strategy

The video script begins by emphasizing the importance of messaging techniques when interacting with a girl on dating apps like Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble. It introduces the 'Tinder bait and switch' technique, which involves sending an original, funny message to elicit a response and then unexpectedly sending one's phone number to stand out and show confidence. The speaker warns against being predictable and encourages following a specific texting schedule to appear busy and interesting, rather than needy. The script also suggests using the 'Peak Interest' technique to gauge a girl's interest level by sending a message that might make her feel a bit jealous.

05:00

📅 Texting Timing and Emotional Control

This paragraph outlines a personal timetable for when to text a girl to avoid appearing needy or desperate. It advises texting in the morning between 6:00 and 8:00 AM, during lunchtime from 12:00 to 1:00 PM, and after 8:00 PM to show that one has a busy life. The script also introduces the 'False Gender Method' to make a girl jealous through text without losing her interest. It stresses the importance of self-control over emotions and suggests seeking professional help if one finds it difficult to manage feelings or distinguish between obsession and love, recommending online platforms like BetterHelp for counseling services.

10:01

🚫 Avoiding Common Texting Mistakes

The speaker identifies ten common messages that can make a man appear needy or weird, which can lead to a girl losing interest. To avoid this, the script recommends replacing these messages with simple and open-ended questions about the girl's hobbies and personal life. It also suggests seeking advice from female friends or family for better conversation starters. The paragraph further discusses the 'False Gender Method' for making a girl jealous through ambiguous references to social activities with friends of unspecified gender, and the importance of analyzing a girl's texting behavior to determine if she is worth dating using a six-point checklist.

📝 Assessing Worthiness for a Date

The final paragraph focuses on evaluating whether the girl being texted is worth asking out on a date. It provides a checklist of behaviors to watch for in her text messages that may indicate she is not genuinely interested or is not treating the interaction with respect. The speaker advises to seriously consider these behaviors before investing time and resources into a date. The paragraph concludes with a discussion on the best way to ask a girl out via text, suggesting a multiple-choice question that combines kindness with assertiveness, which is said to increase the likelihood of a positive response.

Keywords

💡Tinder bait and switch technique

The 'Tinder bait and switch technique' refers to a strategy used on dating apps where one initially attracts attention with an original message (the bait) and then shifts the interaction in an unexpected way (the switch). In the video, it's used to get a girl to respond by starting with a funny message and then abruptly sending one's phone number, showcasing confidence and standing out from other matches.

💡Confidence

Confidence in this context is portrayed as a key attribute that can make one stand out to potential romantic interests. The video emphasizes that by sending one's phone number without additional context, it demonstrates self-assurance and can make the sender seem more valuable and intriguing to the recipient.

💡Messaging schedule

A 'messaging schedule' is a personal timetable for when to communicate with someone, designed to avoid appearing needy or overly available. The script outlines specific times to text a girl, such as in the morning, during lunchtime, and after 8:00 p.m., to build a sense of mystery and importance.

💡Peak Interest technique

The 'Peak Interest technique' is a method to gauge a person's interest level by sending a message that implies the sender is spending time with someone else. The reaction to this message can indicate the level of interest the recipient has in the sender. In the script, it's used to provoke a response that may reveal jealousy or deeper interest.

💡Jealousy

Jealousy is used as a tool in the script to increase interest in the sender. By implying that the sender might be with another person, it can evoke feelings of jealousy in the recipient, which can be a sign of their investment in the relationship. It's a part of the 'Peak Interest technique' described in the video.

💡Texting etiquette

Texting etiquette refers to the social norms and best practices for communicating via text messages. The video discusses the importance of not texting at certain hours to avoid seeming desperate and to maintain a sense of independence and a full life outside of the conversation.

💡False gender method

The 'False gender method' is a strategy mentioned in the script to create intrigue and a sense of competition by using gender-neutral pronouns when mentioning plans with another person. This can make the recipient curious and potentially jealous, thus increasing their interest in the sender.

💡Choice overload bias

Choice overload bias is a psychological phenomenon where providing too many options can lead to decision paralysis. The script suggests using this to one's advantage by offering a multiple choice question when asking someone on a date, which can increase the likelihood of a positive response.

💡Ghosting

Ghosting is the act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone without any explanation. The video warns against sending certain types of messages that might lead to being ghosted, emphasizing the importance of maintaining interest and avoiding negative perceptions.

💡Multiple choice question

A 'multiple choice question' in the context of the video is a method of asking someone out on a date by presenting them with options, rather than a direct question or a statement of intent. This approach is said to increase the chances of a positive response by offering choice while also demonstrating assertiveness.

Highlights

The Tinder bait and switch technique to stand out and get a girl's number involves sending an original, funny message followed by an unexpected response.

A study found that a funny first message increased the likelihood of a response by 12%.

Confidence and assertiveness can be demonstrated by sending your phone number directly after initial engagement.

Avoid being perceived as needy by following a specific texting schedule to appear busy and maintain interest.

Texting during specific hours can build mystery and show that you have a life outside of the conversation.

The Peak Interest technique gauges a girl's interest by sending a message that implies you were out with someone else.

A girl's response to the Peak Interest message can indicate her level of interest and potential jealousy.

Maintaining self-control over emotions is crucial for the effectiveness of these techniques.

Avoid sending 10 common messages that can make you appear needy or weird.

Replace bad messages with simple inquiries about hobbies or personal life to keep the conversation engaging.

Seeking a female perspective can help improve conversation starters and understanding.

The False Gender Method can create jealousy and intrigue without losing interest.

Using gender-neutral pronouns can make a girl wonder about your social activities.

Analyzing a girl's texting behavior with a six-point checklist can help determine if she's worth dating.

Deleting a number may be advised if a girl exhibits undesirable texting behaviors.

A multiple choice question when asking on a date can increase the chances of a positive response.

The Choice Overload Bias technique offers options while also showing confidence in asking a girl out.

Transcripts

no matter your age the way that you

message a girl will have a massive

impact on whether she likes you or not

which is why today I want to show you

exactly how to go from getting a girl's

number to making her obsessed with you

in just seven days let's start with day

number one use the Tinder bait and

switch technique to get a girl to always

respond to you on dating apps you will

bait her with an original message and

then switch the way she expects you to

respond so here's a simple technique

that I developed to always stand out and

get a girl's number day one you have to

understand that the problem with dating

UPS like hinge Tinder and Bumble is that

you're competing with hundreds of other

guys that have matched with her so you

understanding this you have to start by

baiting a response out of her with a

funny message now the reason you want it

to be funny is because during a study

that analyzed 213 single women and over

1,700 firsttime messages men were 12%

more likely to get a response when that

first message was funny the great thing

is that within the same study they

showed you what messages they tested and

one of the ones that got the most

responses was something simple ready it

goes hey did we have class together I

could have sworn we have chemistry but

Corney but you're not trying to beat

Kevin Hart out here you're just trying

to be more original than just a simple

hey now when she does respond understand

that this is a side of interest but this

is when you switch her expectations and

instead of responding like every other

guy responds you're going to respond by

just sending her your phone number with

no context and nothing else this method

will save you time and energy because

there's no point in you continuing to

message her if she's not interested in

taking it off the app plus you're going

to stand out from all the other guys in

the platform as you're showing

confidence and assertiveness and they're

now texting her directly that makes you

seem more valuable so now you're just

appearing different to her which will

make her even more interested in you but

we haven't made her obsessed yet to do

this with your crush you're going to

have to follow each of the next six

steps closely and you're going to do

each step every single day and you're

going to do one step a day because if

you don't you're going to end up like

every other dude in her life boring and

predictable and I can't allow that to

happen to you this takes us to day

number two never text her between these

hours if you want to make a woman

obsessed with you you need to understand

when you should and should not text her

so I created my own personal timetable

that I want you to follow of when you

should and you shouldn't text her you

have to understand if you follow this

you won't be like most guys because this

is where they messed up they'll text a

girl all day this just makes them seem

like they have nothing else going on in

their life it makes them seem needy so

for you to not end up like that you're

going to start and understand that it's

okay for you to text her in the morning

between the times of 6:00 and 8: in the

morning most people will be checking

their phones around this time because

this is when they wake up however from

8:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. you shouldn't

text this way you're going to appear

more busy with your studies or work then

you can text her during lunchtime

between the hour hours of 12: and 1 p.m.

however you should only text her again

until after 8:00 p.m. to show that you

were busy doing something important all

day build up that mystery however you

should stop texting her at 11:00 p.m.

you don't want to see mey like the only

thing you think about is her you need to

implement the schedule immediately on

day two and then for every day after to

show that you're interested but that you

also have your own life you're not

desperate for attention day three you're

going to use the peak interest technique

you see by day three the girl you

talking to is already interested she's

probably going to think you're some high

quality guy but to know if she's

actually interested in you you're going

to have to test this girl using the Peak

Interest technique to do this you're

going to first send her one of the three

following messages I have on screen here

the idea with this message is to kind of

make her think like you were out with

somebody else the point of this is that

you're gaging how she responds depending

how she responds is how interested she

is is in you if she doesn't respond at

all most might jump to conclusions and

think oh she's not interested in you

because your boy has created and battle

tested this formula we don't jump to

conclusion this actually means she's

very interested in you and is most

likely angry or jealous now if she

responds with something like asking who

you were with then this is also a good

sign that she's interested in you and

feeling a bit jealous now if she

responds with something simple and cold

like wrong person then it me mean she's

not interested in you now you need to

understand that these methods that I

built out they only work when you have

self-control over yourself and your

emotions over her now if you're hearing

that and you realize man I have no

self-control over my emotions or you

constantly become obsessed over girls

you start talking to then you need to

talk to a friend bro you need somebody

that can help you distinguish between

you being obsessed and you being

actually in love most of the time you're

obsessed which is what we're trying not

to do we're trying to get her obsessed

with you so having that outside

perspective can really help you gauge

right back in and if you don't have a

friend to talk to or you don't feel

comfortable yo go to a professional you

can try a service out like better help

or sponsor and the great thing is that

it's from the comfort of your home you

can talk to a licensed professional that

has clear distance from your situation

it can help you rationalize your

emotions to really parse out what you're

truly feeling whether it's love whether

their true interest or whether it's just

needy desperation or attention creating

up until now you've success L got her to

message you back on Tinder and then

taking it off to personal texting you're

also making yourself seem more important

by texting her in specific time blocks

and now you're making her go a little

crazy with jealousy with the Peak

Interest technique however to really

make her obsessed and get her to go on a

date with you you'll still need to know

about the 10 messages you shouldn't be

sending her the false gender method

determine whether you even want to take

her on a date and finally a multiple

choice option to fully get her to say

yes all of this will happen in the next

4 days day number four never send these

10 messages by day four most guys will

stop receiving messages from girls most

girls will just ghost them because you

most likely centor one of these eight

messages if you want to make sure this

doesn't happen to you by day four and

she continues to have interest and

instead keeps getting obsessed with you

you should never send her these 10

messages you see on screen these

messages make you appear needy or weird

which is is the exact opposite of what

you want when she's desperate for your

attention So to avoid this I want you to

replace these eight bad messages with

instead keeping the conversation simple

by asking her about her Hobbies or her

personal life with these 10 better

messages with these messages you see on

screen anytime you're unsure of what to

said these are always a good fall back

they'll never seem needy and will'll

always start a great conversation and

look sometimes if you're really unsure

of what to talk about talk to your

sister talk to a cousin talk to a girl

and get the female perspective as they

can help you how to initiate a

conversation if the 10 messages that I

gave you don't work but my messages

always work and like I said if you don't

have that contact you can always go

online and have that personal friend

from a service like better health

because in there you get access to

thousands of counselors and you can even

personally choose which counselor works

for you so maybe for you you want more

of a female counselor so you can better

understand their perspective this is

going to help you get a better

understanding better communicate with

them and they can also help you better

understand your feelings and how to

express them you can do it from your

laptop on a video call on a regular call

and or you can contact them through

messaging if you really need to talk to

somebody quickly if you guys want to

check out betterhelp I'm going to have

the link down below and you'll get 10%

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signing up through my link

betterhelp.com men's fashion day number

five make her jealous with the false

gender method 5 day five if you made it

and she's still texting you she's into

you bro but to really make somebody

obsessed you need to learn how to make

them jealous through text and you have

to do this without having her lose

interest in you so to do this I want you

to use my false gender method you're not

going to find any of these techniques

anywhere online these are battle tested

by your boy so to start you're going to

want to message a friend and see if

they're interested in seeing some movie

that night then at some point during

your conversation during your time

blocks ask her what she's doing that

night then when she reciprocates and

asks you what you're doing just say yeah

you're seeing some movie with a friend

if she responds what friend you can

respond back using gender neutral

pronouns like they them or you can just

say something like oh you don't know

them now your boy probably might not

like this but a true friend will take

one for the team and then if you really

want to take it up an extra level

instead of saying good night later that

evening you will reply to her message

the next morning as though nothing

happened then this is when she's left

wondering what what you were doing all

night that you weren't able to respond

and that will drive her crazy this takes

us to day number six determine whether

she's even worth taking on a date here's

the thing most guys are so desperate for

female attention that they never even

consider if they even like this girl if

they even want to date her so before you

waste your resources and ask her out I'm

going to show you how to tell if she is

worth dating by just analyzing how she

texts you I'm going to give you a

Sixpoint checklist that I want you to

run against the girl you're currently

texting against your crush and then I'm

going to show you how to analyze the

results first does she mention other men

when she text you second does she reply

with one-word answers third does she

gossip about other people when texting

you fourth does she use swear words in

her text five does she suddenly go

silent on Friday and Saturday nights and

six does she leave your messages unseen

or wait long periods to reply look if

she just does one or two of these it

could mean that she's just busy or maybe

she doesn't like texting if she does

three or four of these however I would

seriously consider whether she's worthy

to take on a date and if she does five

or more of these just delete that number

because if she's treating you this way

with how she text that in-person date

will go terribly wrong she takes us to

day number seven you will ask her on a

date with a multiple choice question by

day seven the girl you're talking to is

now obsessed with you which means it's

time to ask her on a date but when it

comes to asking a girl on a date through

text most guys will use one out of two

techniques without realizing there is a

third option that's better that again is

designed by your boy it is fail prooof

see the first method just involves you

asking a girl straight up on a date

which will make you seem like a nice guy

and sure some girls might find it sweet

but you'll never come across a sex the

second method involves telling a girl

you're going to go on a date with her

most men will think that this comes

across as assertive and a lot of women

will do the same but there's somewhere

that might not like it for those it you

might come across as too arrogant and

you might put her off the third group

however says something to the girl like

do you want to go get coffee or a dinner

with me next weekend with this technique

you're taking out of the kindness from

the first option because you're giving

her an option of what she likes but

you're also showing confidence and

assertiveness by not giving her the

option to say no this is a method that

scientist call Choice overload bias this

won't only just make you look better it

will pretty much in increase the chances

of her saying yes if you follow my

strategy for the next 7 days with your

crush I promise you you will make her

obsessed with you