The Prophet (ﷺ) Did This When People Insulted Him

Summary

This video discusses a new series called 'GEM' that delves into the life of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) to draw lessons on how to handle criticism and insults. The speaker shares several anecdotes, highlighting the Prophet's exemplary behavior in staying calm, not stooping to the level of the aggressors, and using moments of criticism as opportunities for self-reflection. The key takeaways include maintaining composure, avoiding emotional reactions, and recognizing that online attackers are often cowards. The overall message is to handle insults with dignity and poise, following the Prophet's example.

Takeaways

• 🌟 The series called 'GEM' focuses on the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) as the best role model.
• 🛡️ The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) dealt with insults and criticisms by not stooping to the level of the attackers.
• 🤝 He believed in not responding to verbal attacks, trusting that angels would defend him.
• 👼 When responding, the Prophet (SAW) emphasized calmness and gentle explanation.
• 💻 Modern verbal attacks often happen online, and those who attack are considered cowards.
• 🙌 In difficult situations, he suggested placing matters in Allah's hands.
• 😌 The Prophet (SAW) remained calm and avoided emotional reactions when criticized.
• 📖 Learning to not fall victim to emotions was a key lesson from the Prophet's (SAW) life.
• 🔍 Criticisms can be moments for self-reflection to identify personal improvements.
• 👑 Maintaining high moral standards and dignity in the face of criticism is essential.

Q & A

What is the main purpose of the new series 'GEM'?

The main purpose of the 'GEM' series is to go through the life of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and learn how he dealt with various situations, providing a genuine and exemplary model for others to follow.

How did the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) respond to insults and criticisms according to the speaker?

The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) never stooped to the level of those insulting him. He remained calm and did not retaliate with anger or insults.

What example is given to illustrate the Prophet’s reaction to insults?

An example given is when the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was sitting with his friend Abu Bakr and a group of people began to insult them. The Prophet remained silent and calm, even when Abu Bakr responded to the insults. The Prophet explained that when Abu Bakr was silent, angels responded on his behalf, but when he responded, the angels left and Shaytan (Satan) came.

What advice is given for dealing with online insults?

The advice given is to ignore online insults and not respond to them, as responding to such attacks only brings one down to the level of the insulter.

What does the speaker suggest doing when someone insults you repeatedly?

The speaker suggests not responding to repeated insults and instead putting the matter in the hands of Allah, trusting that Allah will handle it appropriately.

How did the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) address the Ansar's concerns after distributing the spoils of war?

The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) calmly called the Ansar and explained to them his reasoning, reassuring them that he valued their support and that they were going back to Medina with him.

What lesson is conveyed through the story of the psychologist who came to treat the Prophet?

The lesson conveyed is that the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) remained calm and composed even when falsely accused of being insane, using the opportunity to convey the message of Islam through the Quran, leading to the psychologist’s conversion.

What should one do to avoid falling victim to their emotions when insulted?

One should remain calm, not retaliate with anger, and try to understand the situation objectively without letting emotions control their actions.

What is the significance of reflecting on the criticism or insult received?

Reflecting on the criticism or insult received can be a moment of self-assessment to determine if there is any truth to it and if any personal improvements are needed.

What are the four key points mentioned for dealing with insults and criticisms?

The four key points mentioned are: 1) Do not stoop to the level of the ignorant, 2) Remain calm and explain gently, 3) Do not fall victim to emotions, and 4) Use the situation as a moment of reflection to assess if there is a serious issue with oneself.