When they don’t see you.. but they see you 😂 storytime
Summary
TLDRIn this heartfelt video, the speaker emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's own potential and not seeking validation from others. They share personal anecdotes about a friend who seems to ignore their achievements, inspiring a discussion on self-worth and the idea that people often see our light more clearly than we do. The video encourages embracing one's uniqueness and not being deterred by others' lack of acknowledgment, highlighting the belief that everyone has an inner brilliance that can't be contained.
Takeaways
- 👀 People often see your potential and qualities more clearly than you see them in yourself.
- 🌟 Others notice your light, energy, and beauty, both inside and out, even when you're not aware of it.
- 💭 The speaker believes that individuals may not always express their admiration for fear of appearing envious or diminishing their own worth.
- 🎉 The speaker shares a personal story about throwing a party in Boston, which was a success despite one minor issue with a DJ.
- 🤔 The speaker suspects a friend of intentionally ignoring their success, possibly out of jealousy or insecurity.
- 💍 A friend's engagement ring purchase is discussed, highlighting the financial strain and the importance of the gesture.
- 💌 The speaker expresses support and happiness for the friend's engagement, but feels ignored when sharing their own achievements.
- 🚫 The speaker feels that the friend's lack of response is a form of passive-aggressive behavior, possibly stemming from jealousy.
- 💡 The video is inspired by the idea that people should not worry about whether others see their success, as their light cannot be contained.
- ✨ The speaker encourages viewers to embrace their uniqueness and not to hide their talents or achievements for fear of judgment.
Q & A
What is the main message of the video script?
-The main message is that people often see your potential and recognize your value more than you do yourself. It encourages viewers not to worry about others not seeing them, as they are likely noticed and appreciated more than they realize.
Why did the speaker feel inspired to make the video?
-The speaker was inspired to make the video after experiencing a situation with a friend who seemed to be ignoring their success and accomplishments, which led to reflections on how people perceive and react to others' achievements.
What is the significance of the party mentioned in the script?
-The party is significant as it serves as a backdrop for the speaker's realization about how some people may not acknowledge their achievements out of jealousy or insecurity, despite the speaker's efforts and success in organizing the event.
What was the friend's reaction to the speaker's party?
-The friend did not watch the speaker's story about the party and did not respond when the speaker shared a snippet of the party, which the speaker interpreted as the friend intentionally ignoring their success.
What is the context of the friend's engagement ring story?
-The friend is proposing to her girlfriend and shared the story of how she bought an expensive engagement ring, which she claimed was causing financial strain. The speaker responded positively to the ring and wished them happiness.
How did the speaker feel when the friend did not respond to their message about the party?
-The speaker felt that the friend's lack of response was a sign of jealousy or an attempt to downplay the speaker's success, which led to the creation of the video.
What does the speaker suggest about people's reactions to others' success?
-The speaker suggests that people often acknowledge others' success and potential, even if they do not openly affirm them, possibly due to their own insecurities or fear of feeling overshadowed.
What advice does the speaker give to those who feel ignored or unseen?
-The speaker advises them to not worry about whether others see them or not, as they shine brightly and their light cannot be contained, suggesting self-confidence and self-assurance.
What is the speaker's hobby related to the parties they organize?
-The speaker's hobby is creating ambiances and being creative with party setups, which they plan to share in a vlog about the setting up process.
How does the speaker describe their own accomplishments and how others perceive them?
-The speaker describes themselves as optimistic, articulate, smart, and accomplished. They believe that others perceive them in a similar light, even if they do not always receive explicit affirmation.
What is the underlying theme regarding personal value and self-perception in the script?
-The underlying theme is the importance of recognizing and valuing one's own worth and potential, regardless of how others may react or respond to one's achievements.
Outlines
🌟 Recognizing Others' Potential and Overcoming Envy
The speaker emphasizes that people often see others' potential more clearly than they see their own, highlighting the importance of recognizing one's own worth and not being overly concerned with others' perceptions. The narrative begins with a personal anecdote about a friend who seems to be envious of the speaker's success, as evidenced by her behavior regarding a party the speaker hosted in Boston. The speaker uses this experience to inspire a discussion about the importance of self-worth and the tendency of some individuals to downplay others' achievements out of jealousy or insecurity.
💡 Embracing Individual Awesomeness and Overcoming Fear of Judgment
In the second paragraph, the speaker addresses the fear of judgment that may prevent individuals from expressing their full potential. They suggest that some people may not affirm others because they believe it would diminish their own value, which is a misconception since there is plenty of positivity to share. The speaker encourages the audience to embrace their own 'awesomeness' and not to hide it out of fear of what others might think. The conversation ends with a gentle reminder that it's getting darker outside, perhaps symbolizing the fading of such fears, and invites viewers to share their thoughts, promising to connect again in the future.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Potential
💡Energy
💡Affirmation
💡Jealousy
💡Success
💡Self-Validation
💡Articulate
💡Social Connections
💡Perception
💡Self-Worth
Highlights
People often see your potential more clearly than you do yourself.
Others notice your light, energy, and the optimistic and articulate nature you bring to a room.
The speaker believes in the importance of recognizing and trusting one's own abilities and qualities.
The inspiration for the video comes from a personal experience with a friend's behavior.
The speaker shares a story about throwing a party in Boston and the reactions of a friend who was not invited.
The speaker's parties are known for their ambiance and creativity rather than just being social gatherings.
A friend's suspicious behavior of watching stories leading up to the party but not engaging on the day of the event.
The speaker's realization that the friend might be intentionally ignoring their success.
The friend's engagement proposal and the speaker's genuine happiness for them despite previous suspicions.
The friend's lack of response to the speaker's party update, indicating possible jealousy or resentment.
The speaker's encouragement to embrace one's own success and not be affected by others' reactions.
A metaphorical comparison of one's potential shining through, even if hidden or ignored.
The idea that people may not affirm you because they think it might diminish their own worth, which is a misconception.
The message that there is enough success, love, and recognition to go around for everyone.
The speaker's advice to not hide one's talents or desires out of fear of judgment.
An acknowledgment of the diminishing light and the need to conclude the video, indicating the end of the transcript.
Transcripts
it's not that they don't see you it's
that they see you a lot they see your
potential I really believe that people
see your potential more than you see
your own potential they see your light
they see how people react to you when
you walk in a room they see the energy
you bring they feel the energy that you
bring they see how beautiful you are
inside and out they see how optimistic
you are they hear how articulate you are
they see how smart you are how
accomplished you are so don't worry
about if they see you or not they see
you with bifocal lenses on okay I'm
inspired to make this video because I
have a friend who the most recent thing
that she did I threw a party in Boston
so I flew from my home City and I flew
to Boston and that's where I went to
graduate school I went to Harvard for my
master's program and um I throw annual
parties or semiannual parties and my
parties are usually a hit I'm actually
going to post a vlog about the setting
up process and everything it's just my
it's just my hobby it's just something
that I like to do at my parties it's
more about ambiances than it is about
just let's have a party no I like the
creativity so my friend she knew that I
was throwing this party right and she
lives in my my home City so she's not in
Boston so obviously she wasn't
necessarily invited but she knew that I
was throwing this party um she was there
when I made the flyer for it I noticed
that she was watching my stories
religiously up until the day of my party
I promise like she knew when my part
like she's very good with dates she knew
the day that I was throwing my party
like usually I don't keep tabs on
people but this is like the third or
fourth thing
that she's done that's kind of shady so
I was kind of keeping track I knew that
she was going to do something weird the
day of my party I knew that she wasn't
going to watch my story or something so
the day came and of my party and of
course she didn't watch it I was like
okay whatever I didn't throw the party
for her I threw the party for myself and
for the people that I know back in
Boston so I didn't throw the party to
impress her um but the last straw was
today okay so she is proposing to her
girlfriend her girlfriend of like 3
years I asked her I asked her if she's
ready to propose to her girlfriend I
said oh are you ready and she said I
sure am so she sent me the videos of the
Ring of the engagement ring and it's
beautiful it's gorgeous by the way she
told me that she was basically going
broke for buying this ring she said that
she can't afford it she's taking out all
these loans and blah blah blah and this
is like a few months before she bought
the ring but she bought the ring and
it's gorgeous it's a gorgeous ring right
and I texted her back I said I love it
it's beautiful and I said I wish y'all a
lifetime of
happiness she said thank you I said of
course good luck and she said how did
your party go she asked me how my party
went I knew that she didn't see my story
I knew that she didn't see the video of
the decorations which was very very dope
like I said I'm going to post a vlog the
the tropics same party so I sent her a
very short snippet of the party and the
decor that I'm very proud of to this day
I said it l fire and had a a big crowd
and had a crowd 60
plus and then I said one of the DJs were
rude so he's not coming back
LOL and she just left me on red and I'm
just like okay you are like I really
feel like that's giving jelly okay she
didn't respond and because she doesn't
want to see my story like she doesn't
want me to feel like I'm too big for my
bridges is that the right term she's
like intentionally like ignoring Like My
Success so it inspired me to make this
video about don't worry if people see
you even though I'm not wor if people
see me but I don't know why that came to
mind for this video don't worry if
people see you because they see you you
shine brighter than a star if somebody
threw you in a box in a cardboard box
like your light would be so bright that
it would Peak through the cardboard box
like people would be like wait what's in
there like there's something in there
like there's no containing your your
your awesomeness you're amazing you're
awesome you're unique and most of the
time when you feel like people are
ignoring you or they don't see you or
XYZ they they do they probably think
that you're more amazing than what you
really
are even if they don't say anything even
if they don't affirm you they're not
affirming you because they think that
you know and you should know and you do
know but they're not affirming you
because they think that it would take
away something from their selves from
themselves but it doesn't there's enough
there's enough awesomeness to go around
there's enough love to go around okay
like for my good sis um you could throw
a party if you want to but maybe she
doesn't feel like she can maybe she
doesn't feel like she has the social
connections to do that I don't know you
have all of this inside of you and
you're hiding it because you're afraid
of what somebody else may think about it
you're afraid that people are going to
think that you think that you're all
that let them think that you're all that
okay cuz maybe you are all that okay but
it's getting dark darker outside so the
lighting is getting like pretty bad but
comment what you guys think and I'll see
you guys next time
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