Women WANT PROBLEMATIC men who are EMOTIONALLY COLD and CREATE TENSION (female nature exposed)
Summary
TLDRThe video script explores the controversial concept that women are attracted to 'problematic' men who create emotional tension. It argues that such men stimulate a woman's desire to 'fix' and 'solve', which paradoxically deepens her emotional investment. The speaker advises men to focus on external world challenges rather than trying to manage or fix a woman's emotions, suggesting that this approach will increase their attractiveness and avoid the pitfalls of being perceived as 'boring' or too perfect.
Takeaways
- 😮 Women are said to be attracted to 'problematic' men because they create tension, which in turn stimulates a woman's emotions and desire to fix or solve issues.
- 🔑 The speaker suggests that men who demonstrate certain 'problematic' characteristics can win over a woman's emotions and make her fall in love more deeply.
- 💡 Men are advised to create a sense of challenge and mystery to engage a woman's interest, rather than being overly accommodating or predictable.
- 🚫 Men should avoid trying to fix a woman's emotions or the relationship, as this is seen as entering into 'feminine energy' and can lead to the woman losing interest.
- 🤔 The speaker argues that women have a natural desire to fix, solve, or strengthen the internal world of a relationship, while men should focus on the external world.
- 💪 Men are encouraged to build up their masculine qualities by solving problems in the external world, such as career advancement, physical fitness, and competency in practical skills.
- 🚶♂️ Men should not focus on the future of the relationship or emotional states, but rather remain indifferent to create a sense of attraction through mystery and challenge.
- 🚫 Avoid 'Future Pacing', which means not planning or assuming the future of the relationship, as this can make a man seem needy or overly invested.
- 🤷♂️ Men should not put a woman's needs first or assume what she wants, as this can detract from the qualities that make them attractive.
- 🏆 The speaker implies that men who can master creating the right kind of tension and remain a 'mystery' are more likely to succeed in dating.
- 🛑 The script suggests that understanding and applying these concepts can lead to personal growth and mastery in dating life, despite the potential discomfort or perceived unfairness of the approach.
Q & A
What is the main premise of the video that the speaker is discussing?
-The main premise of the video is that women are attracted to 'problematic' men and that these men can use this to their advantage in dating.
What does the speaker mean by 'problematic men'?
-By 'problematic men,' the speaker refers to men who create tension and challenges, which in turn stimulate a woman's emotional engagement and desire to 'fix' or solve the issues presented by these men.
Why does the speaker suggest that creating tension is beneficial in the early stages of dating?
-Creating tension is beneficial because it feeds into a woman's feminine emotions, creating a sense of fantasy, imagination, and attraction, which can lead to a deeper emotional connection.
What examples does the speaker provide to illustrate how a man can be 'problematic' in a dating scenario?
-The speaker provides examples such as not allowing a woman to sit next to him without permission, not sharing a blanket during a movie, and creating scenarios where a woman feels the need to seek approval or clarification.
Why does the speaker argue that men should not attempt to fix a woman's emotions or strengthen a relationship?
-The speaker argues that doing so reverses the natural dynamic, where women have the instinct to fix and strengthen the internal world of a relationship, and men should focus on the external world and their own growth and challenges.
What is the speaker's view on the role of men in a relationship?
-The speaker believes that men should focus on solving problems in the external world, building their careers, improving their physical fitness, and demonstrating competency in practical matters, rather than focusing on the emotional state of their partners.
According to the speaker, what happens when a man focuses too much on the future of a relationship?
-When a man focuses too much on the future of a relationship, he may come across as overly invested or 'sold' on the woman, which can cause her to lose interest and attraction, as it removes the element of challenge and mystery.
What does the speaker suggest is the natural desire of women in relationships?
-The speaker suggests that women's natural desire is to fix, strengthen, or solve the internal world of the relationship, which includes emotional and nurturing aspects.
Why does the speaker say that women are attracted to men who are 'troublemakers' or have a 'troubled past'?
-Women are attracted to such men because it presents a challenge and an opportunity for them to exercise their nurturing instincts and fix the man's internal world, which is a natural desire for them.
What advice does the speaker give to men who are struggling with understanding the dynamics of attraction as presented in the video?
-The speaker advises men to accept and understand these dynamics, learn how to create the necessary tension and challenges, and use these insights to their advantage in their dating lives.
What is the final message of the video regarding men's approach to dating and relationships?
-The final message is that men should focus on their own growth, independence, and external problem-solving, allowing women to naturally gravitate towards them due to the challenge and mystery they present, rather than trying to fix or control the emotional dynamics of a relationship.
Outlines
💡 The Appeal of Problematic Men
The speaker begins by challenging the audience's perceptions, asserting that women are inexplicably drawn to 'problematic' men. This term refers to individuals who incite tension and create a sense of challenge, which paradoxically fuels women's emotional investment. The video promises to reveal how men can leverage this tendency to captivate women's affections. The speaker shares a testimonial from a community member who experienced a transformation in his dating life by adopting these 'masculine behavioral techniques.' The script also teases an end-to-end presentation designed to instruct viewers on integrating these techniques into their dating strategies. The key takeaway is that problematic men stimulate a woman's desire to 'fix' or understand them, thereby deepening her emotional connection.
🚫 Avoiding the Pitfall of Emotional Fixation
The second paragraph delves into the dangers of men attempting to 'fix' or stabilize a woman's emotions, which is antithetical to their natural role. It posits that women are hardwired to seek out and resolve internal emotional chaos, which is why they are often attracted to men with troubled pasts or problematic behaviors. The speaker warns against men taking on a nurturing role traditionally associated with women, as it reverses the dynamic and can lead to the woman losing interest. Instead, men should focus on external problem-solving and self-improvement, which signals competence and desirability. The speaker emphasizes that a woman's attraction is not about logic or status but about the instinctual draw towards a man who appears to be a challenge, thus stimulating her nurturing and fixing instincts.
🛡 The Masculine Pursuit of External Solutions
In the final paragraph, the speaker contrasts the natural inclinations of men and women in relationships. Men, according to the speaker, should concentrate on external world issues, such as career advancement, physical fitness, and practical skills, which enhance their attractiveness and perceived value. The speaker argues that women are innately drawn to men who exhibit signs of being pre-selected by others, indicating high sexual market value. This pre-selection theory suggests that a man's apparent desirability to other women makes him more attractive. The speaker advises against men focusing on the internal emotional world or the future of the relationship, as it detracts from the masculine qualities that women find appealing. The goal is to maintain an air of mystery and independence, which incites a woman's desire to 'lock down' the man, thereby deepening her emotional investment.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Problematic Men
💡Masculine Behavioral Techniques
💡Tension
💡Feminine Emotions
💡Fixers
💡Internal World
💡External World
💡Attraction
💡Emotion
💡Independence
💡Challenge
Highlights
Women are attracted to problematic men because they cause tension, which feeds feminine emotions and creates a sense of fantasy and imagination.
Men who demonstrate problematic characteristics win over women's emotions and make them fall in love by not being easily attainable.
Problematic men create a chase dynamic, making women feel the need to 'fix' or solve the man, which is a natural feminine desire.
Small acts of being 'problematic' can create a sense of puppy love in a woman's mind, such as not allowing her to sit next to you without permission.
Creating tension early in a relationship is crucial for sparking a woman's interest and emotional investment.
Men who are overly accommodating and avoid confrontation may be seen as less attractive because they do not stimulate a woman's desire to 'fix' them.
A man's focus should be on solving external world problems, not on the internal emotional state of the relationship, to maintain attraction.
Attempting to fix a woman's emotions or strengthen the relationship can backfire, causing her to lose interest due to the reversal of natural gender dynamics.
Women are naturally inclined to fix, solve, or strengthen the internal world of a relationship, while men should focus on the external world.
Men who focus on external world problems, such as career and personal development, increase their attractiveness to women.
Being 'perfect' in a relationship can be boring and unattractive, as it lacks the challenge and mystery that women crave.
Women are attracted to men who seem to be pre-selected by other women, indicating high sexual market value.
Creating a sense of chaos and tension can make a woman more invested in a man, as it gives her something to 'fix' in the relationship.
Men should not focus on the future of the relationship or emotional investment, as it can lead to a loss of attraction.
Understanding and leveraging these dynamics can lead to success in dating and relationships.
Transcripts
now this will come as a shock to a lot of you but women 100% love problematic men okay women
want women desire and women crave men who are problematic which means in today's video I'm
going to be showing you how you can use this to your advantage and ultimately why men who know
how to demonstrate these specific characteristics are truthfully the ones who win over her emotions
every single time and cause her to fall deeply in love this is something that you cannot ignore
this video will solve all of that now today's MBT masculine behavioral techniques celebrity
Spotlight dude posts this in my private Community he goes less than 1 month into this program and I
have a girlfriend who is absolutely obsessed with me after being single for years with no
idea why the first 3 weeks have been absolutely mind opening I cannot wait to see the rest guys
I am seeing results and Transformations like this every single week because of that I want
you to go down below after this video is over you hit the link in the description because I
put together a fulllength end to-end presentation for you specifically showing you step byep how you
can use masculine behavioral techniques into your dating life too let's dive in now in today's video
I'm showing you exactly why women want problematic men okay you're going to see exactly what I mean
in just a second but the the whole base and the whole premise of this you have to understand is
problematic men cause tension okay this added tension even in the beginning okay feeds her
feminine emotions this creates the idea of fantasy imagination puppy love and I'll show you exactly
what I mean by this but when you're with a woman or when you start dating a woman or you're seeing
a woman for the first few times these problems need to start right away okay you have to start
to have some level of Confrontation to you to be problematic so for those of you who you're
very textbook meaning like you pay for the date you tell her you had a great time you text her
afterwards did you make it home safe blah blah blah for those of you who fit that frame or you
fit that narrative I'm going to be showing you exactly little things that you can do okay these
problems need to start right away if she sits next to you you look at her you go did I say that you
could sit next to me okay if you are watching a movie with her and you're cuddled up by yourself
meaning you grab a blanket you put it on your yourself you're laying with that blanket all of
a sudden you're going to notice 5 six minutes go by all of a sudden she's going to take a corner of
it okay notice she comes to you first she takes a corner of it she tries to pull it onto her now you
guys are sharing a blanket you look at her did I and you look at her and you can say did I say that
you could have my blanket or you can say you know did I say that I want to share my blanket with you
these are little things that creates puppy love in a woman's brain if she gives you a look or she
smiles or she smirks you can say don't look at me like that or else I'm not going to like you these
are little things okay these little things cause tension these little things make it so that way
you become problematic this is what her feminine emotions needs in order to try to lock you down so
that way it seems like you are a Chase so that way it seems as if you are not necessarily sold on her
so the reason why this is so important is because you must be something that she has to try to fix
say that with me one more time you have to be something okay that she has to try to fix okay let
me give you an example I have a hot tub here at my house every single time that I've invited a girl
over and we've went on a date and we've came back if there's a bikini that I that was left on the
floor or a different girl left it something like that instantly the girl calls that out and she
goes to the bathroom and she goes who whose bikini is that laying in the tub she tries to play this
little game okay but little stuff like that if she finds that you might think oh no that would lower
attraction that slight problematic tension causes her to dive deeper into her emotions and actually
like you more little things like that men who are problematic men who actually make it so that
way the woman has to try to figure them out these are men who create added tension so that way her
emotions have something to fixate on this is why often times the guy who won't grow up or refuses
to grow up is always the challenge that she wants this is why a lot of guys get confused they're
like you you know I I work a great job or I own my own business or I'm like high up in the corporate
ladder you know I do all these cool things but every single time I go out with a girl she's
like oh I'm just not really feeling it and then I and then the guy the guy will say the same remark
every time the guy will go I lost her to a guy who isn't nowhere near at the level I'm at in success
I can't believe she would be with a guy like him this is what they say this is why okay the guy who
creates tension the guy who's problematic is the one that she wants to lock down so this stems into
long relationship problems once you've mastered how to create the tension in the beginning this
means that the more her brain can fixate on little things like oh my gosh I want more of his time or
oh my gosh I this argument that we had like this is leading to a fear of loss I'm worried that I'm
going to lose him these things are turn-ons if you do not demonstrate these specific characteristics
in your dating life or in your relationships with women they will grow bored of you very quickly so
this is why problematic men need to cause tension and must cause tension and this tension causes her
to fall deeper into love now if you understand this as the premise this brings me into my next
Point never under any circumstances attempt to fix her emotions or strengthen a relationship
if you're a man saying this I want to strengthen my relationship this should sound like vomit okay
this should sound like vomit because the second you do this you've entered into the wrong energy
here's what I mean a woman's natural desire is to fix solve or strengthen the internal world of
the relationship meaning that the more you're there for her the more you're trying to make
sure things are stable the more you're trying to make sure things are smooth okay she now doesn't
have anything to fix women want to fix those sorts of things women like to fix often times
a broken internal world this is why often times women will chase men who are troubled have a
troubled past are problematic you'll see women do this because women naturally want to bring
out that nurturing feminine Instinct so read this with me because these are bitter pills to swallow
women's natural desire is to to fix strengthen or solve the internal world of the relationship men
who do this okay men who try to fix her feminine emotions or make sure that she's always happy or
make sure that that woman never feels any negative energy ever men who do this have reversed the
dynamic and now have entered into feminine energy that means her emotional waves must be coupled by
your masculine indifference what I can tell you to sum this up is the second that you start to try to
fix any woman's emotions you try to only make sure that there's positive energ you Tred to only make
sure that that woman is happy or satisfied 24/7 that woman will exit your life so quick you're
going to be sitting there wondering what the hell happened and then the excuses come what
are the excuses the excuses are oh she wasn't raised right the excuses are oh you know uh she
has a troubled past oh you know um her friends influenced her away from me no they didn't you
can't fight hardwiring an attraction you can't change hardwiring an attraction the woman either
likes you or she doesn't every everything else is irrelevant meaning if a woman pulled away
from you if a woman doesn't like you you've done something that has caused a decrease in desire
which means it's your job to learn and grow from that so women love when their internal world needs
to be fixed women love when their internal world has something going on that has chaos that needs
to be fixed okay this is what they look for so when a guy demonstrates things like oh you know
I'm not necessarily sold on this woman she goes well he's a challenge he's a mystery well I just
can't figure him out and then guess what she finds value in trying to obtain his approval
women deep down crave and women deep down desire to be the fixers in relationships which is why
guys who do this and guys who enter into this sort of energy will 100% of the time lose so you might
be sitting here wondering well Casey I've always thought men are the fixers men are the doers men
like to get stuff done and make sure problems are solved yes but only in the external world
this leads me to my next Point men need to focus on fixing the external world only that is why men
who are hellbent on finding companionship often times lose it is not natural for men to pursue
commitment because this will turn her off so your job the reason why a woman will find Value in you
is when you solve problems in the external World a woman desires to solve the problems
of the internal world they're polar opposite and the dynamic is completely different so when you're
solving problems in the external world that means that you're not focused on your emotion or her
emotion for that matter you're doing things like solving problems in your business you're leveling
up your career okay maybe you're going to the gym frequently and you're leveling up your body okay
you also have competency skills the woman will look at the guy and go do you think he can fix a
tire do you think this guy's competent enough to change the light bulb if a problem happens where
you know there's a crack in the foundation and all of a sudden water is leaking into our basement
does this guy know who to call or even how to fix it himself is this guy competent you're fixing
the external World your job is not to solve her emotions your job is never to build something in
a relationship with a woman your job is to never focus on the future and where the relationship's
headed your job is to never focus on you know what her what the future with her will be like so that
way you don't feel lonely this is the exact [ __ ] why guys completely ruin every single interaction
with a woman that they actually have interest in is because they stop focusing on all of
the things that make them an attractive man they start to often times put her needs first or what
he assumes she wants and then the whole thing completely crumbles so when a woman is asking
herself these questions like can he provide can he protect this is going to cause her attraction
to raise for you now that means the second that this guy goes girly meaning he's worried about
her internal world and how she feels is the exact second that that woman now pulls back and exits so
what I'm telling you is this when you as a guy you focus on the external world and building
up those masculine qualities this now allows the woman to now focus on fixing the internal world
only which is why women Chase troublemakers women Chase Bad Boys women will chase you know guys who
are doing shady [ __ ] or they're often times in and out of jail like this is typical [ __ ]
that you see because women often times gravitate towards broken men because now they have something
to fix a lot of you have women reject you because you're just too damn perfect and that's why when
when you're so perfect when all the boxes are checked you're now boring now I can't control
that that's not something you might say well Casey that's dumb Casey that's stupid Casey
I can't believe that that's how it is that's not fair I'd rather exit The Dating Game well
okay that doesn't make anything that I said any less true so if you have different ways to cope
with this that's fine but it doesn't make any of the facts that I have written down on this board
behind me less true which means for those of you who just accept these things and you learn how
to create that tension you learn how to create okay that chaos from time to time you learn how
to become the mystery that a woman wants to lock down this is so drastically important women want
to fix things grow and solve problems too they just want to solve the problems in the internal
world of emotion not the external world like you this is why women like to play around that women
like games women like fantasy women like men who don't take themselves too seriously okay if you're
a guy that she can kick back with and the vibe is seductive and all of a sudden you guys are
chilling together and things are cool and he's not trying to Future Pace a relationship he's
not trying to Future Pace where things are going with her he's not trying to Future Pace any of
these things that make her feel like he's focused in on his feelings or her feelings for that matter
is the second that now she actually desires him so her goal a woman's goal is to seek safety this is
why they gravitate towards strong masculine men who are independent men who are problematic now
have a higher sexual market value in her eyes and the reason is because these problems that the guy
creates like maybe not wanting to commit to her okay maybe um even starting arguments from time
to time or pulling back or not being sold on her or he doesn't care if he sees her for a week or
two at a time sometimes he doesn't necessarily care this registers to her feminine emotions
that he is chosen or he is pre-selected by other women her brain goes well he must be coming from
a point of abundance he must be coming from a point of options he must be coming from a point
where other women find him sexually attractive too she's going to go well if he carries himself like
this naturally naturally I want to lock him down so when a woman has these thoughts going through
her head she gets to now fix the internal world for herself and try to fix your internal world too
but the second you allow her to do that you start to become boring complacent and cookie cutter too
when she has these questions go through her head like am I good enough did I please him okay if she
says things like am I girlfriend material would he like to look at me in the way of a long-term
companion when you leave her emotions in limbo like this back and forth this is where she falls
deeper into love the second a man focuses on emotion and the internal world she exits this
doesn't like you could the the second any guy focuses on the internal world she exits you could
be a multi-millionaire who's 6'6 um you have 10 different sports cars you are in Forbes 30 under
30 and you have a private jet but the second that you're future pacing that relationship with her
the second you're so sold on her the second that you're doing anything to not rock the boat because
you're afraid to create the tension she is going to have her feminine emotion gravitate towards a
man who is more problematic now if you've gotten this far in the video there's two types of men
okay the first type of guy is the guy who says well that's not fair and because life's not fair
I'm just going to give up and now what I'm going to do is I'm going to just say well that's stupid
and I'm not going to get the dating success that I actually want that's type number one or that's
Road number one you can choose to go down that road but I don't advise it what a truly masculine
man does who seeks wisdom is he understands these things he uses them to his advantage and then you
can actually master your dating life the way that you want I advise you to go down Road number two
okay because the fact is this true growth as a man only comes when you actually can see these
sorts of problems and now you have answers to find Solutions so just because this doesn't
make you feel good just because this seems like it's icky or it's unfair doesn't make it any
less true which means the guys who can leverage these skills that I teach on these markerboard
presentations to their advantage are the ones who win in their dating life if you like this
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