Social Work Interview: Group Demonstration

Kim Wong
3 Dec 201311:48

Summary

TLDRIn a Red Cross-supported national disaster support group, facilitator Ray initiates a session by encouraging members to introduce themselves with a positive adjective matching the first letter of their names. Participants share their experiences of loss and recovery from a tornado, with stories of losing homes, a loved one, and a sense of normalcy. The group aims to provide a supportive space for sharing and healing, with Ray offering insights from his own experience with Hurricane Katrina. The session concludes with an open floor for advice and sharing, highlighting the importance of community and support in the face of disaster.

Takeaways

  • 👋 Introduction: The meeting is facilitated by Ray from the Red Cross National Disaster Support Group, aiming to provide support through shared experiences.
  • 🔄 Icebreaker: Participants introduce themselves with a positive adjective matching the first letter of their name, setting a positive tone for the discussion.
  • 🌪️ Personal Impact: Ray shares his own experience with Hurricane Katrina, empathizing with the group's losses and setting the stage for others to share.
  • 🏠 Loss and Displacement: Carissa talks about losing her home, work, and church, expressing frustration and confusion about starting over after the tornado.
  • 💔 Grief and Loss: Zotero shares the devastating loss of her fiancé during the tornado, highlighting the emotional toll and the need for support to move forward.
  • 👨‍👧‍👦 Family Impact: Another participant describes the traumatic experience of being separated from family during the tornado and the ongoing uncertainty about their whereabouts.
  • 🤝 Support Networks: The importance of relying on family, friends, and Red Cross services for support is emphasized by various group members.
  • 💬 Sharing and Listening: The group is encouraged to share their stories and listen to others, providing a safe space for emotional expression.
  • 🕊️ Healing and Recovery: Ray offers information on Red Cross services and suggests that leaning on the group for support can aid in the healing process.
  • 😡 Addressing Anger: It's acknowledged that anger is a natural response to loss and that finding someone to talk to can help in processing these emotions.
  • 🙏 Closing Ritual: The group concludes with the Serenity Prayer, symbolizing a collective hope for acceptance, courage, and wisdom in dealing with their situations.

Q & A

  • What is the purpose of the National Disaster Support Group through the Red Cross?

    -The purpose of the group is to provide support to its members by sharing experiences, events, and honors related to disasters, and to help members cope with the aftermath by sharing their stories.

  • What is the icebreaker activity that Ray introduces at the beginning of the meeting?

    -The icebreaker activity involves each member stating their name preceded by a positive adjective that starts with the same letter as their first name.

  • What disaster did Ray experience, and how did it affect him?

    -Ray experienced Hurricane Katrina while living in New Orleans, which resulted in him losing everything and having to relocate to Wichita. He is still recovering from the impact of the disaster years later.

  • What did Carissa lose during the tornado, and why is she attending the support group?

    -Carissa lost her home, work, and church, which were everything she had known since she was young. She is attending the support group because she doesn't know where to begin or how to start rebuilding her life.

  • What personal loss did Zotero suffer due to the tornado, and how is she coping?

    -Zotero lost her fiancé in the tornado and is struggling with the grief of losing her other half. She is attending the support group for help and to be with her family who live in Wichita.

  • What happened to David's family during the tornado, and what is his current situation?

    -David's family, including his mom, two brothers, and grandparents, were affected by the tornado. He ended up in a hospital with his younger brother and is still uncertain about the whereabouts of the rest of his family. He is currently living in an apartment and trying to get by day to day.

  • What advice does Ray offer to the group members regarding their loss and recovery?

    -Ray suggests relying on family and friends for support and utilizing the services of the Red Cross, which he found to be very supportive. He offers to provide more information about these services after the meeting.

  • What does Carissa feel about her situation, and what is her emotional state?

    -Carissa feels punished and angry about losing everything she had, including her house and car. She is frustrated, upset, and doesn't know why she is in the support group or how to move forward.

  • What is the role of the facilitator in the support group meeting?

    -The facilitator, in this case Ray, leads the meeting, encourages members to share their experiences, and offers guidance and resources for recovery. They also create a safe space for members to express their feelings and thoughts.

  • What is the significance of the Serenity Prayer recited at the end of the meeting?

    -The Serenity Prayer is recited to provide comfort and to remind the group members to accept what they cannot change, have the courage to change what they can, and have the wisdom to know the difference.

Outlines

00:00

🤝 Introductions and Icebreaker

The video script begins with Ray, the facilitator, introducing the National Disaster Support Group through the Red Cross. The group's purpose is to provide support by sharing experiences, events, and honors. Ray initiates an icebreaker activity where members introduce themselves with a positive adjective matching the first letter of their names. Ray shares his experience with Hurricane Katrina, and the group members, including Carissa, Zotero, and others, share their losses and the impact of the tornado on their lives.

05:05

🌪️ Sharing Personal Experiences and Coping

In this paragraph, the group members continue to share their personal experiences with the tornado disaster. Carissa talks about losing everything, including her home, work, and church, and expresses her frustration and anger. Zotero shares the tragic loss of her fiancé and the struggle of moving forward without him. The facilitator encourages the group to share advice and coping mechanisms, highlighting the importance of relying on family, friends, and Red Cross services for support.

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🙏 Closing with Reflection and Prayer

The final paragraph of the script involves the facilitator opening the floor for any final thoughts or feelings before closing the session. The group is given the option to participate in a prayer, specifically the Serenity Prayer, which is recited to provide a moment of reflection and closure. The facilitator also reminds the group that support is available for those who may need it after the meeting.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡National Disaster Support Group

The National Disaster Support Group is a collective of individuals who have been affected by disasters and come together to provide mutual support. In the script, this group is facilitated by the Red Cross, and its purpose is to allow members to share their experiences, events, and honors, which helps in the healing process after a disaster. The theme of community and support is central to the video's narrative.

💡Icebreaker

An icebreaker is an activity designed to encourage introductions and break the ice among people who are meeting for the first time. In the context of the video, the facilitator uses an icebreaker by asking participants to introduce themselves with a positive adjective that starts with the same letter as their name. This activity helps create a friendly and supportive atmosphere for the group discussions.

💡Tornado

A tornado is a violent and destructive rotating column of air that is in contact with both a cumulonimbus cloud and the ground. In the script, the tornado serves as the catalyst for the formation of the support group, as many of the participants have lost their homes and loved ones due to this natural disaster. The tornado is a central element in the video's theme of overcoming adversity.

💡Recovery

Recovery refers to the process of returning to a normal state of health, mind, or strength after an illness, injury, or other trauma. In the video, the facilitator mentions their own recovery from Hurricane Katrina, and the participants discuss their ongoing recovery from the tornado. The concept of recovery is integral to the video's message of resilience and healing.

💡Support

Support in this context refers to the emotional and practical assistance provided to individuals who have experienced a disaster. The video emphasizes the importance of support in helping people cope with loss and rebuild their lives. The support group serves as a platform for sharing personal stories and offering advice, which is a key aspect of the video's theme.

💡Loss

Loss is the experience of losing something or someone important, which can be deeply distressing. The script contains several instances of loss, including the loss of homes, possessions, and loved ones due to the tornado. The theme of loss is a significant part of the video's narrative, highlighting the emotional impact of disasters on individuals.

💡Resilience

Resilience is the ability to withstand or recover quickly from difficult conditions. In the video, the facilitator introduces themselves as 'Resilient Ray,' setting a tone for the group's focus on overcoming adversity. The concept of resilience is central to the video's message, as it represents the strength and adaptability of the group members in the face of disaster.

💡Emotional Sponges

The term 'emotional sponges' is used metaphorically in the script to describe the supportive role of the group members, who are willing to absorb and help process the emotions of others. This concept is related to the video's theme of empathy and mutual support, as it illustrates the group's commitment to helping each other through difficult times.

💡Serenity Prayer

The Serenity Prayer is a prayer that asks for the strength to accept things that cannot be changed, the courage to change things that can be changed, and the wisdom to know the difference. In the video, the group closes their meeting by reciting this prayer, which reflects the video's theme of finding peace and acceptance in the face of disaster.

💡Relocation

Relocation refers to the act of moving from one place to another, often due to circumstances beyond one's control. In the script, the facilitator mentions having to relocate to Wichita after losing everything in Hurricane Katrina. This concept is related to the video's theme of displacement and the challenges of starting over after a disaster.

Highlights

Introduction of the national disaster support group through Red Cross by Ray.

The group's goal is to provide support by sharing experiences, events, and honors.

Icebreaker activity where members introduce themselves with a positive adjective matching the first letter of their name.

Ray shares his personal experience with Hurricane Katrina and the ongoing recovery process.

Carissa shares her loss from the tornado, including her home, work, and church.

Zotero shares the tragic loss of her fiancé during the tornado and the struggle to move forward.

A member shares the experience of being in a house during the tornado and the aftermath of losing track of family members.

The facilitator opens the floor for advice or sharing from group members.

Daring Dave shares his personal losses and current living situation.

The facilitator emphasizes the importance of not bottling up emotions and suggests finding someone to talk to.

The group discusses the value of family support in the recovery process.

The facilitator offers to provide information about Red Cross services after the meeting.

The group closes with the Serenity Prayer, emphasizing acceptance, courage, and wisdom.

The facilitator encourages members to stay for further discussion or prayer.

The importance of sharing personal stories and seeking support within the group is highlighted.

The facilitator's role in guiding the conversation and providing resources is noted.

Transcripts

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hi everybody

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my name is ray and i want to welcome you

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to the

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our first national disaster support

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group through red cross

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and the goal of our group is to give

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support to each and every member of this

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group

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by sharing our experiences events and

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honors

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and they can put that in a simple way

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by

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sharing what it was like

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what happened

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and what it's like now

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okay

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first we want to start off by

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introductions

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and

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we want to

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do an icebreaker

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and want to want you to state your name

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but in front of it we want you to put a

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positive adjective

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that starts with the same letter as your

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first name

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and i'll start

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by saying my name is

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resilient

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red

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my name is kind carissa and this here is

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my name is

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david this is

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resilient right

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um

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my name is

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loyal lindsay this is resilient rey

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and kind karissa and damian david

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um

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my name is smart cetera

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that's resilient ray

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kind carissa

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darren david and loyal lindsey

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hi i'm

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knowledgeable kim

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this is resilient ray

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kind carissa daring david

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loyal lindsay and smart zotero

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good

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so we want to start off

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by

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just sharing each one of us sharing a

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little bit about

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what got us here

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and kind of what we went through

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and

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by me being the facilitator

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i will say that i

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i went

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i didn't go through the

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tornado or oklahoma like you guys did

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but

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i've been through

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katrina when i lived in

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new orleans and i lost everything

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i had to relocate to wichita

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and it was just a

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big shock and

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even though it happened a long time

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several years ago

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i'm still trying to recover

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and so i can only feel i can only feel

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for what what's happened to you guys

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a tornado and i think we'll we'll start

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off by we'll go around the circle

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the chair

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okay hello there my name is carissa and

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i'm here because

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like

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some of you hopefully looks like i'm

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here for support have lost everything in

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this tornado from my home to

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my work

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my church everything that i've ever

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known since i was young because i've

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lived in this town forever

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um lost it all i'm

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just here because i don't know where to

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begin where to start

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nothing

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just lost

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i'm saying here

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well

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i mean

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i come from

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a

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very

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good family

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and

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i feel like i don't know why but i've

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been punished because

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now i have no house

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everything was ruined

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i had nice things i had a nice car now i

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have nothing and i'm just pissed off at

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everything i'm mad i don't know

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i don't know why i'm here i don't know i

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don't know anything and i'm really

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frustrated right now i'm upset

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thanks for sharing

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um like i said my name is zotero um

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i lost my fiance

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in the tornado

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it took us days to finally find his body

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and

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he just buried him not too long ago so

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i'm here with my family

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that lives in wichita and they've been

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very supportive but

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i mean i've lost my other half i'm just

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i don't know how i can

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go on without him i mean it's been hard

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so i'm just here for

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support and

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i just think it would be a good thing

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for me to be here

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i was affected by the tornado too i was

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in my house

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my household has my mom my two brothers

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and my grandparents and

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late earlier that month i decided to

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move all my stuff into the basement with

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my younger brother and

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we were doing our homework and then i

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heard like a whistling noise and

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you know went upstairs and couldn't find

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my family

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and i don't i don't know from there i

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just can't remember too much

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just knowing like waking up in like a

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hospital with my younger brother and

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still not knowing where my the rest of

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my family is

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well it seems like

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we have all been

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affected deeply by these national

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disasters

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and

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we just want to open the floor right now

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for

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anybody that might have any advice for

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for somebody

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in this group

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i know that

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daring dave you didn't

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get a chance to to share my children

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would you

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be open to sharing now

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all right

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all right i had a

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sexual life

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i owned a car wash

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and um

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random night daddy

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goodbye

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how's my

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ninth house

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family

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what's going on

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i'm currently in the

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apartment right now

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just living off the day

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thanks thanks

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for sharing that

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how can you feel

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that it took a lot for you to say that

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and

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rightfully so because this is not an

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easy situation and

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we all have to be mindful that

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we're all going through a great deal of

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pain

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suffering

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and

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even if we haven't lost

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a loved one

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or a family member that

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some of the things that we lost

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were all that we had you know so

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i don't know if anybody can can relate

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to that but

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i'm going to leave the floor open right

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now

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as we uh

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as we get ready to

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to in the group we're just going to

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leave the floor open for any glass

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remarks

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any thoughts or feelings

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i mean what do we do

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how do we pick up and

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continue with their lives

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from your experience what did you do

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me myself

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i relied a lot

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on

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family and friends and

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also through the services of red cross

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red cross was

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very supportive and

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and

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if you need any

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information

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get with me after the meeting to the

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group and

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i'll give you all the information i have

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and it goes for anybody in the group

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i just would like to add that

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excuse me my heart goes out to you so

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tara i am

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you know i've never lost someone that

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extremely close to me but what i could

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let you know is

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family i mean

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that's what i tended to

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lean on to right now is the aspect of

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since i've

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lost everything down there and stuff

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i've moved

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up here with my family and

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they've been the best support system

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right now for me um so yeah just

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definitely just let on your family right

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now

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thank you

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are you doing okay

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yeah

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good i know thank you

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and i know it's not

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good to bottle up that anger

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there's a suggestion that that

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i have is that

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find somebody you can talk to and

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you know everybody here in the group is

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willing to listen i get to tell they're

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good listeners and

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whenever you're ready just you can let

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that anger out

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just think of us as

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emotional sponges

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and if not this time

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maybe the next group

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so once again i want to open the floor

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before any final thoughts

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you know i'm not

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i have enough of this

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in place just

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in case somebody runs out and is having

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problems

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so

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for those who care to share

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in this prayer

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we can do so if not

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you don't have to

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but we want to close the group out by

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saying the serenity prayer

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god

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grant me the serenity

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to accept the things that i cannot

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change

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the courage to change the things i can

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and the wisdom to know the difference

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amen

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hey

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wait a minute don't go anywhere

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